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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Hi, guys, welcome back to Authentic Talks two point zero,
where we explore stories, ideas, and conversations that just might
spark your perspective, or at least it might stir up
something deep inside of you.
Speaker 2 (00:13):
Today's episode is.
Speaker 1 (00:14):
For anyone who's ever felt like their light may have
dimmed a long time ago. It's for those who used
to believe in miracles, but somewhere along the way stop
looking for them. Or maybe life just got too loud,
maybe the disappointment piled up, or maybe the idea of
something unexplainably beautiful showing up just didn't feel possible anymore.
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If that's you, you're not alone, and today's conversation might
be exactly what your heart needs. I am thrilled you, guys,
to welcome back a dear friend of the show. She's
a returning guest, and this time she brings with her
a powerful new book that invites us all to see
the world and ourselves through the lens of possibility and again.
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Her new book is all about miracles, not just big
lightning strike kind of miracles, but quiet, everyday ones too,
the ones we often overlook. So if you're ready to
rethink what a miracle might actually look like. Stay with us.
This is a conversation about wonder, resilience and remembering what
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we've forgotten.
Speaker 2 (01:25):
Let's dive on.
Speaker 3 (01:26):
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Speaker 1 (01:47):
Please welcome an author and miracle expert. As the Miracleologist
who studies miracles, her mission is to guide and remind
you that you are a miracle magnet in your own life.
Through her personal experiences, Bernadette has overcome challenges in every
area of her life and learn that miracles are first
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and inside job. One must first believe and see their
miracles as they call it, into their life. She teaches
everyday tools to use in your own personal and professional life.
Your next best step toward your miracle is just around
the corner. Please welcome best selling author Bernadette Roteaba two
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authent Tiktoks. Hi, Bernadette, welcome back to the show. I
am so excited to have you back. Congratulations on your
second book, The very first book did so well and
I'm just so proud of you. So welcome back to
the show. Before we dive in, can I have you
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to introduce yourself to our listeners please.
Speaker 4 (02:57):
I would love to and thank you for having me back.
I just love your energy, I just love everything about you,
so thank you for having me back. So I'm Bernadette Routaba.
I'm the miracle ologist. That means I study miracles. So
I've studied miracles for about twenty five years and I
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am a miracle expert. You don't become a miracle expert
because you had an easy life. You become a miracle
expert because things got tough and I had medical conditions
that doctors couldn't help me with, not once, but several times,
and I had to find the miracle solutions to those
situations in other areas of my life. That's why I
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wrote a book. That's why I want to help other people.
I know there's other people out there that are looking
for answers and they don't know where to look for them.
Speaker 1 (03:48):
I love that people need hope, you know, because hope
is really you know how we used to hear that
saying keep hope alive.
Speaker 2 (03:55):
I love it the.
Speaker 1 (03:57):
Miracles alive because they really truly are. Now you have
two books, not one, but two, and the first title
of the first book is.
Speaker 4 (04:08):
Titled Believe It to Receive It, Activate the Miracles waiting
for you.
Speaker 1 (04:14):
And that book did very well, very well.
Speaker 2 (04:18):
It was a miracle.
Speaker 4 (04:19):
It was a miracle experience. So I definitely feel like
I'm living in breathing what I teach in these books
and it shows up in my life, so I share
it with people in those books.
Speaker 1 (04:31):
I love that. And then the second book that you
have that just came out, It came out this year.
Speaker 4 (04:36):
Yes, just last month, The Miracle Alchemist Transform your life
with four key steps to create miracle delicious manifestations.
Speaker 2 (04:48):
You want to see it.
Speaker 1 (04:49):
Let's look at the cover of that book.
Speaker 2 (04:51):
Let me see there we go?
Speaker 1 (04:52):
Is that better? I love it? I love it. So
you have to tell us what was that? Like? I
remember you had shared little bit with me about like
starting the book and everything erased, and yeah, I had
to start all over again. That in itself is a
beautiful story because I'm sure there's people have had situations
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in their life where something didn't quite go right and
they had to start all over again. Or felt like
they wanted to give up. Can we talk about what
that journey was like and why didn't you quit?
Speaker 2 (05:31):
You know, you know that was a hard time. That
was my first book.
Speaker 4 (05:36):
I had never written a book before, and I felt
guided the universe, that God guided me to write a book.
So I wrote a book, and it took a long time.
It took like five years because it's it's you know,
it's a process that I knew nothing about, and I
had to learn a process and what everything about it.
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And then when I was almost done, believe I had
three more chapters, I accidentally erased my book.
Speaker 2 (06:07):
And it was just because I was in a hurry.
Speaker 4 (06:09):
One night, I was like working so late. It was
like eleven o'clock at night. My husband's like, hey, you know,
spend some time with me, you know, when I'm going
to bed, Now, where are you? And I'm just like
in the flow with the message I had for that book,
And so I hurried up and turned off the computer
and I didn't have my glasses on, and I must
have pushed something that set a race when it popped
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up on the screen and it looked like, you know,
the save button or something, and the computer specialists couldn't
bring back They could only bring back bits and pieces
of my book. I was so upset because I said,
you know, God, I did what you told me to do.
Speaker 2 (06:50):
I followed your guidance. I did. I walked in purpose
and doing what I believe I'm here to do. And
then my book.
Speaker 4 (06:57):
Got a raised. You know, how could that be? For
a year, I was so upset about that book being erased.
I didn't write, but I was guided to do little
workshops in my hometown for business professionals, and it was
about how to manifest your dreams, so your ideal career,
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who you want to be to make more money. So
I did little workshops. A year went by, I did
those workshops. At the end of the year, I decided
I was ready to write that book. And then I
realized that I had already written that book that last year.
When I did my workshops, I gave them little workbooks
to do after each class because we would meet weekly
and they had something to work on every week. And
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everything from that workshop was my second book. And then
I just I took a year to write that book
as far as you know, fill in the gaps and
make it flow together and what it was going to
be about. But it took another year and then it
came out in twenty twenty, right when COVID hit it,
when people were looking for miracles, and my book was
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very successful. It was number one bestseller more times than
I can count.
Speaker 1 (08:08):
I remember that.
Speaker 2 (08:09):
Yeah, so it.
Speaker 4 (08:10):
Was very you know, it's divinely guided. So even though
I felt let down, it was really God just steering
me in a different direction. And you know, I honestly
feel like the universe too, is just saying nope, you
almost had that book right, but it wasn't right, it
wasn't perfect, and it just brought me back to where
I was supposed to be.
Speaker 2 (08:29):
So it worked out really good.
Speaker 1 (08:32):
How do you define a miracle? And in the context
of your.
Speaker 4 (08:35):
Work, Well, you know, people ask me all the time,
what is a miracle? Like they have given up so
much on miracles that are like, what is a miracle?
And I always say, a miracle is anything you don't.
Speaker 2 (08:47):
Believe as possible. So whether it's a a health.
Speaker 4 (08:52):
Emergency, a marriage problem, or you know, a lot of
women we get stuck in that last five pounds we
can't lose or not lose in one pound, and we
think it's going to take a miracle to help me
do that. So it's like every air of your life,
you can feel this it's impossible feeling. And that's where
I try to shine light in my books that it's
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not impossible. Let's start calling in your miracles so that
you can start thinking and talking and believing in your
miracles again to help them find you. Because I really
do believe that you just call your miracles to you
and you believe in them, and that's how they find you.
Speaker 1 (09:35):
What would that look like, for example, for someone tuning
in that may not understand what it means to call
your miracles into you an affirmation, you would.
Speaker 2 (09:45):
Say, well, so I do. I teach.
Speaker 4 (09:46):
I teach affirmations. I teach miracle mindset. A lot of times,
I feel like we get in the way of our
own miracles. We self sabotage ourselves with saying things like
I'll never make enough money to survive, I'll never find
the right career, there's just not a soulmate for me.
Like we say these self fulfilling prophecies all the time.
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And I truly believe the universe is listening to you,
bringing you whatever you want. So I teach people how
to think about their miracle as if it's done, how
to believe in it, how to talk about it with
other people, about your miracles that you want to happen
that haven't happened yet. And so to me, it is
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it's mentally, physically, and spiritually a whole way of changing
the way you think and are to help your miracles
come to you, because like attracts, like you've got to
believe in your miracle for it to show up. So
like attracts, like you got to be working and breathing
it as if it's here now for you to even
attract it. So if you're always talking about it not
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being here, it's not going to come.
Speaker 1 (10:54):
You mentioned that you had had some health issues and
that was the thing that led you into like believing
in miracles.
Speaker 2 (11:03):
Yes, yes, and.
Speaker 1 (11:04):
I know we have you it may have shared this
on our first episode, but there's some people that may
not have heard your story. Can you share with us
a little bit about like what happened with your health?
Speaker 4 (11:16):
So it was mostly the first part of my life,
and so until from childhood until I was about twenty five,
I just had one health crisis after another, whether it
was the flu that hit me harder than anybody else
or the and the antibiotics wouldn't work on me, and
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the doctors couldn't figure out why the typical things weren't
working on me, to stomach issues to depression, to anxiety,
and so that's when I decided I need a miracle.
So I was twenty five years old, I had just
had my son, and I had severe postpartum depression.
Speaker 2 (12:00):
And so that's the.
Speaker 4 (12:01):
Type of it's hard to get out of bed, you
cry all day, you can barely function. I had to
take care of my child and me during that time.
We almost lost our house. You know, it was so
so stressful. I'm surprised when my marriage survived. It was
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really you know, when you don't feel good mentally, nothing
else in your life works.
Speaker 2 (12:28):
And so I did work with a.
Speaker 4 (12:30):
Psychiatrists for two years to help me with that postpartum
depression and the severe anxiety. And finally I just decided
God knows the answer to my problems, like what do
I need, and I'm just going to decide that I'm
already cured and that and I talked about this a
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little bit in the book, and I know not everybody
believes in medicine, but at that time, that was.
Speaker 2 (12:58):
All I could see.
Speaker 4 (12:59):
Like my miracle was, I'll find something that works to
help my brain work, because I just wasn't functioning. And
so I was like, the next medicine they give me,
because I went through twelve different antidepressants, wow, years, the
next medicine they give me is going to work. I'm
just done being this way and I'm ready to start
my life. And it was not bat month, but the
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following month, with a different antidepressant they tried on me,
it was gone. And that's when I realized too that
I had had some mental depression since childhood, undiagnosed, and
that when I started feeling good on the medicine, I
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could tell that my chemistry was different in my brain.
I could tell that before I was functioning at half
voltage or something. I just I could tell it was different.
Speaker 2 (13:58):
And so.
Speaker 4 (14:00):
You know, in my book, I explained I asked for
the miracle of medicine. You can ask for a miracle
of something else, but for me, I truly do believe
that that's a problem that is hereditary in my family.
And I can look back through grandparents on both sides
that have had depression and never dealt with it completely.
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And after I got help, it inspired some of my
family members to get help.
Speaker 1 (14:25):
Wow. Yeah, that is a miracle. Yeah. Yeah, when you
share the story, it helps to connect those dots, you know,
if there was someone tuning in right now that was
dealing with something that they believe was super heavy. We
hear about people that have like different illnesses where I
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mean from different types of cancers to you know, anxieties
to like you said, depression and just dealing with life
right now in such a way where we've been hearing
about people losing their homes because of layoffs and just
all of the things, you know, all the things and
the things that just add up and they're sitting there
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like feeling hopeless. Is if there's no way out? That's
what I wanted to talk about, Like what is the
message for those people that you could give them that
will help them to just hold on a little bit longer.
Speaker 2 (15:27):
And that's my purpose, That's why I'm here.
Speaker 4 (15:29):
I truly believe that where there's hope, miracles soon follow.
How you've got to fight for that hope. You've got
to look for that hope. You've got to believe in
that hope and those miracles every day, and you know
that's why. So, especially in my first book, takes you
through the process of what I call reprogramming or thinking,
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because when you've been down low and in a funk
for so long, I mean I was at the point
I was given up believing in God.
Speaker 2 (16:00):
What kind of God would.
Speaker 4 (16:01):
Give me a beautiful child that I wasn't able to
completely enjoy because the depression was so severe and the
anxiety was so severe, and so I was losing hope
and belief in the beliefs that I had believed my
whole life. And so I walked through people with my
first book about this. Every chapter works on different areas
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to help you reprogram your thinking because I know that
I was in this funk of.
Speaker 2 (16:32):
Not believing that there is help for me.
Speaker 4 (16:35):
You know, you give up hope and that I'll always
be this way and there's no hope for me. And
so when I finally had this light bulb moment and decided, no,
God knows what's wrong with me. God's going to guide
me to what's wrong, and he's going to guide my doctors.
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And I just had that light bulb moment and that
I didn't need to put my trust in doctors anymore
because I actually believe the answer would come to me. Also,
you know it would come to me in various ways. Right,
God has different avenues, The universe has different avenues, not
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just one way to come to you through one doctor.
So for the health issues, so I talk about reprogramming
your thinking, and that's how you think and how you talk,
and how you believe. Everybody says you should have faith,
and they everybody says you should believe.
Speaker 2 (17:34):
I believe.
Speaker 4 (17:37):
That nobody teaches you how to believe. When you're that low,
there's how do you believe? And so that's why I
wrote that first book, and my second book is more
like focused on you just read one chapter at a
time a particular different types of miracles, and so you
can just focus that one thing and I take you
through four steps that are easy. But I honestly feel
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like the first book is needed to help kind of
fill in the blanks for people. But it's definitely you
have to reprogram you're thinking, You have to reprogram who
you are and how you show up because it literally
I believe and I have felt the difference. It's almost
like an energy that comes out of you that you
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can feel that the positive things and the positive information
start coming to.
Speaker 2 (18:27):
You and things have changed.
Speaker 4 (18:32):
So before I went to that last uh well, that
doctor's appointment where I got my answer for the particular medicine,
I just believe that it was going to.
Speaker 2 (18:41):
Work before it worked.
Speaker 4 (18:43):
And that has happened to me so many times in
life where I just said I'm done. I draw my
line in the sand and I say I'm done with
this old way and this old being and being sick
and tired and miserable and unhappy. I am ready to
show up more on purpose and to be healthy, healed, Bernadette,
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and I'm just done. So I never I stopped playing
and thinking about the old met, the sick me, the
person who didn't feel good. I stopped doing that. And
that's what I teach in my books, because you literally
have to begin a new story to live a new story.
Speaker 1 (19:23):
Oh I love that. That's pretty deep. Begin a new
story in order to live a new story. I love it.
That happens. Like for people, like when you find that
they're going in for job interviews. Yes, they never get
the job, and they're just like, oh, I went for
five interviews and I'm not getting any jobs. I recently
was talking with someone that was sharing a story about that.
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I had that too, where I started out like looking
for work, and then I would go in there, Bernadette, like,
as soon as I would see the person, I'm like,
oh God, I'm not going to get this job. I
can already tell that they probably do don't like me.
And I thought of all the reasons why, even sometimes
down to the brownness of my skin. Yes, just honest,
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you know, And then sure enough I would get like
an email with that turn down before I could even
get all the way home or within the next day.
And then one day I said, you know what, I'm
going to get this job. I could feel it, and
that was even before I had the interview. I know
I'm gonna get it, and I just felt like this
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is it, and I just removed, just like you said,
you got a change story, change the narrative. And then
I got that job.
Speaker 2 (20:38):
So I've.
Speaker 1 (20:41):
Yeah, I've had it. Even where I one of the
jobs they needed like the old supervisor to just confirm
that I worked there, and for some reason this guy
wasn't returning the calls. I would call and talk to
one of my peers who would say, oh, well, yeah,
he's sitting right here, but he just would not returned
to calls for some reason. It kept going to voicemail,
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and it came down to, oh my goodness, I'm not
At first, I was like, I might not get this
job if this guy doesn't confirm. And then something else
came in and said, you don't even need him. You
have poof of this already. Not only do you have
like your W two's, but you're sitting here calling the
person that's sitting right next to him. That person can
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confirm it. And then you have a whole host of
phone numbers in your your phone and your cell phone
of people that you can text right now. And that's
what I did.
Speaker 2 (21:35):
I love it. You were guided.
Speaker 4 (21:36):
Yes, yes, it's like the universe, you know, and and
God removed obstacles. That's right, and that's that's and to me,
that that becomes, like you said, you took in a
new thought process, you were a new person, and it
literally changes how people react around you. People say, Pernadette,
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I don't normally do this, but I'll do it for you,
you know, and I've literally had we don't you know anything,
Go in to a restaurant without reservations. Well, I'm not
supposed to do this, but I'll do it for you. So,
you know, people that I don't know things like that,
I just believe it's it's already done before we get there.
Speaker 2 (22:20):
You know. I was like, oh, I didn't even know we.
Speaker 4 (22:23):
Needed a reservation, but I just felt guided that we
should eat here, so let's go walk in and see.
And so literally, I just follow this guidance and believe
that it will work out, you know.
Speaker 2 (22:33):
And if I'm not supposed to to.
Speaker 4 (22:35):
Be there or work there or whatever, then it's saving
me from some hassholes.
Speaker 2 (22:41):
And that's okay. Steer me to the next best place,
to steer me to my ideal.
Speaker 4 (22:47):
Perfect job or career or you know, restaurant to eat
at tonight.
Speaker 1 (22:52):
Whatever. So people need to fight the negative mind.
Speaker 2 (22:56):
Yes, it is. It literally is it.
Speaker 4 (22:59):
It's very self sabotaging, you know, it's it's it's fair.
I have a girlfriend, she said, Bernie, Dad, I know
that I'm more negative than you, and she goes, I
appreciate when you tell me, hey.
Speaker 2 (23:13):
You're bringing me down. Hey, hey you're bringing me down.
Speaker 4 (23:17):
We can't And I actually told her that when we
were gambling one time, I'm like, hey, you got to
talk more positive, being more positive. You're bringing my gambling
because I'm very lucky. So I'm very lucky and it's
a belief I have. And I was like, hey, you
got to stop it and we got to talk positive
because I'm a lucky person and you're getting in the
way of my mojo. And she laugh, you know, and
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we both laughed about it. And I didn't even remember
telling her that, but she said it really helped her
realize because she doesn't hear herself right when you're negative
all the time, you don't hear that you're negative.
Speaker 1 (23:51):
So true, and.
Speaker 4 (23:54):
I kind of talk about that in my books too,
is the people around you are used to the old
you being negative, and how do you help them talk
more positively and and and start being more positive around you,
because honestly, you know, there's some people who can't get
rid of You can't get rid of some of your
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family family members, and you're there with them at Christmas
time and and that kind of thing.
Speaker 2 (24:20):
And so I teach ways to do that too to
help people.
Speaker 4 (24:24):
But I, you know, when my girlfriend told me I
did that, I do it unconsciously now, you know, and
and I try to always be light about it, lighthearted
about it, and so it does. It really does make
a difference.
Speaker 1 (24:36):
I agree, it definitely does. And that's you keeping your
boundaries in place. It's like you're basically saying, I'm not
going to conform to be like you, but you're going
to need to step up your game so you can
be up here with me. I like it. I love it.
I'm the same way where I prefer to be around
people who were who would view the glasses half full,
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who are more optimistic in their life, who believe that
miracles are possible, and who don't give up and quit.
Speaker 2 (25:09):
I agree me too. That's we get along so good.
Speaker 1 (25:12):
Yeah, it's like that's my cup of tea. You know.
So tell me what have you been up to since
our last conversation. I'm well even writing the books?
Speaker 4 (25:24):
Yeah, so I wrote, Yeah, I wrote the second book.
But I also I created oracle cards. Are you familiar?
Speaker 2 (25:31):
Not? Not everybody?
Speaker 4 (25:32):
I didn't realize not everybody knows what oracle cards I created?
Activate your miracle guidance oracle cards?
Speaker 1 (25:39):
Well, tell us about them? What are okay?
Speaker 4 (25:41):
So it's it's a lot it's a long the same
belief that lychotracts like, and that you can ask your
higher power or angels or guides, whatever your belief is,
even higher self. Some people only believe in the higher self.
So I believe that you have this dec of cards
and it has different statements on it, and so mine
has things you can do to help activate the miracles
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in your life. And so there's action steps, there's words
are your wand step, there's if your miracle could talk
to you a card and so it's kind of like, Okay,
I asked the universe, what is what could I do
to help bring me closer to my miracle of blank,
you know, whatever it is. And I play with the
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cards and then you flip over one when you're guided,
and some people here stop and turn it. Some people
feel it, you know, the card just feels different. Yeah,
some people see it. They'll look like one of the
cards is glowing more than the other. So it's it's
really a neat process of.
Speaker 2 (26:41):
When you believe in it.
Speaker 4 (26:43):
And I created these cards to help people get more
in tune with their own miracle guidance. Because I don't
believe I'm special. I believe everybody can do what I do.
It's just you need a little guidance. And I'm gonna
you know, it took me twenty five years to get
where I'm at here, It's not going to take you
twenty five years because I'm trying to give you all.
Speaker 2 (27:02):
The all the tools. Yeah, And I'm all about that.
Speaker 4 (27:07):
And I created a course and it's you know, active,
it's accelerate your miracles. And I wanted people to understand
the exact steps I took when I had various health conditions,
because you know, besides that first twenty five years, after that,
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every once in a while, I'd have a health condition
that was knocked me off my game again and I couldn't.
Speaker 2 (27:33):
Figure out why.
Speaker 4 (27:34):
And so one of the one of the situations was
I literally was guided to and let me and let
me clarify this, because I think me and you talked
about it. It was that time that I had idiopathic
hives from my head to my toes for no apparent reason.
Speaker 2 (27:50):
The doctors couldn't figure it out for two years.
Speaker 4 (27:52):
Wow, you know, extremely miserable itching swelling. It was miserable,
and I I literally was guided to a magazine that
told me what it was, why doctors are having a
hard time diagnosing it, and that doctor wrote a book
of how to help other doctors with it. So I
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literally took that information because I was guided to it,
and took it to my doctor and he knew what
to do. And so I literally teach you the tools
that when you're stuck and those you know, what do
I do?
Speaker 2 (28:28):
I don't know what to do. Nobody knows what to
do with me.
Speaker 4 (28:31):
I teach you how to get connected to your own
inner guidance and whatever your higher power is, whatever your
beliefs are, and I take you through the steps in
that course because it's like working with me personally, but
only for forty four dollars.
Speaker 2 (28:46):
So you know, you know, yeah, you can just buy this.
Speaker 4 (28:50):
Course work on your own time. You don't have to
work with me, and you can learn how to do
that because I really do feel my purpose is to
help other people bring in more miracles in their life
and in their family life, and I'm just trying to
get that information out to help as many people as possible.
Speaker 1 (29:07):
Wow, I love that. I'm so glad that you're tapped
in to yourself in the universe, you know, to God
in such a way that the Spirit is working through
you to help other people, and that that's really how
it comes, you know. Like sometimes we're waiting for the boat.
There's a story that I share. I hope I didn't
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share this in the first podcast, but I don't think.
But it's like where the there's two like where that
we heard as children, where the boat the person's like,
please save me, God, Please Lord save me. And then
there's a boat that comes by, and then they're not
looking for that way of help. They're thinking that God
is literally gonna like come, you know and open up
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the sky or something and just show up in the
way that they believe it's supposed to be. And then
I think a helicopter went by, and then they didn't
get help, and then there was one other way. They
passed it all up, not understanding that that was your help,
you know. And so I feel like when people find
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the podcast that you know, it's for them to take action,
It's for them to pick up the tools and the
nuggets that are being in drop for them. And it
can come in the form of a book, it can
come in the form of a course, you know. And
so that's why I do the show, and I love
having people like you on the show to share your story,
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to share your tools you know that the universe gifted
you with to share with the people.
Speaker 4 (30:42):
Well, it's definitely everyday tools, right, it's nothing. It's not
a bolt of lightning from the sky that.
Speaker 5 (30:49):
Comes every tool that I think a lot of people
aren't conscious of that small voice in their head that
says don't go there.
Speaker 2 (31:04):
Or go there or whatever.
Speaker 4 (31:06):
Right, you get guidance all the time, but we're just like, ah,
push it away. And so it's really about listening and
you know, and I believe that God comes through hearing, feeling, seeing,
or knowing, and everybody has one or two that are
stronger than others. But once you start acknowledging those, they
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start showing up more and more, and then then you
just know. Then it's crystal clear because now you recognize it.
And that's what it's about, is not denying anymore that
you really.
Speaker 2 (31:40):
Did receive a message.
Speaker 1 (31:41):
That's right, that's right, you know what It comes even
in the form of like numbers, synchronicity. Sometimes, yes, whenever
I start seeing numbers a lot, I slow down and
I'm like, wait a minute, let me figure out what
is the message that's coming to me that I'm supposed
to receive, because it's not like I see these numbers
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every single day all day. Sometimes it's way more frequent
where you know, okay, there's a message here for me.
Another one is like when I'm driving down the street.
Have you had this before where you're driving and something
says make a left hand turn or go forget in
this lane and you don't have a reason for doing it,
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but you do it anyway, and then you go. Then
later on you go, oh wow, look at that, and
you discover that there's traffic backed up because there was
an accident. Or one time for me, it was a
big rig that had turned over on the freeway. Yes,
and yeah, something told me, don't go that way, go
another way, and I get all the way to my
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destination to find out that there was a big rig
that had turned over.
Speaker 2 (32:51):
Oh definitely.
Speaker 1 (32:52):
No.
Speaker 4 (32:52):
I think it sometimes saves your life. Oh yeah, I
think life or or guide you to meet your soulmate
or or whatever it is you've been asking for.
Speaker 2 (33:03):
And so I agree.
Speaker 1 (33:05):
How old is your son now?
Speaker 2 (33:07):
He's twenty five?
Speaker 1 (33:09):
Wow?
Speaker 2 (33:10):
Yeah, that's awesome.
Speaker 1 (33:12):
That's awesome.
Speaker 2 (33:13):
It's amazing. Yeah, time flies.
Speaker 4 (33:15):
Right.
Speaker 1 (33:15):
What does the family think about your miracleologists? Did I
say it right? Because yes, yes, right, Okay.
Speaker 2 (33:23):
You know it's interesting.
Speaker 4 (33:24):
I talk a lot about how me and my husbands
are opposites attract So my husband is very factual, very
black and white, very bottom line, and you know, I'm gray.
I live in the gray. Anything talk to miracles, I
talk to God. I talked to angels. You know, this
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is all Steph. He doesn't understand, but he said to me,
He's like, Bernadette, I know you're special. I knew that
when I met you. You're You're different, and that's what
I liked about you. And he might not always understand me,
but he accepts me. And so we've we've found this
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place to meet at and we have good chemistry together
and we find the same things funny, and we just
kind of get each other, you know, we just kind
of get each other. And so that's how it's worked
out for us. My son is very much like his dad.
He actually works with his dad in the construction industry.
And it's interesting for me to watch because you know,
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I love who he's turn turning into.
Speaker 2 (34:32):
You get to.
Speaker 4 (34:34):
See that from their childhood you know what in all
your dreams to who you hope they'd be, and then
he's completely different than what I was thinking, what I thought,
But it's it's fabulous, just the same. But it's interesting
because when he was little, he used to see angels.
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He used to see deceased our deceased dogs. Those were
his best friend. So he would see them still and
he would tell me that they were in the room
and what they were doing. Oh, and you know, he's
and he could just see things that he couldn't explain.
But at that age he didn't know that I couldn't
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see them. So he would talk about it, talk about
it with me, and so it's kind of interesting to
you know, he's kind of more black and white like
my husband, but interesting to remind him of those because
he still remembers them. Yeah, and it just kind of
you know, I'm just like, you know, guy's got a
plan for you. You had this ability. You blocked it
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off or locked it down or whatever, but I know
you have this ability and you can activate it anytime
you want.
Speaker 2 (35:46):
You just say I'm ready.
Speaker 4 (35:48):
And so it's just kind of neat to see him
grow in myself.
Speaker 1 (35:53):
I love that that's really awesome. I know that you
went to did you have an event like in Vegas?
Speaker 4 (36:00):
So I had an event here in my hometown in Colorado,
Grant Junction in Colorado, and we just don't have them
very often, you know. I live in a small town
and it's on the border of Utah, and we're just.
Speaker 2 (36:13):
Sort of small. You know, we're getting bigger.
Speaker 4 (36:15):
But yeah, I hadn't done any for five years. You know, COVID,
you just didn't do events. You didn't do nothing.
Speaker 2 (36:21):
And so I just had a wonderful time doing events.
Speaker 4 (36:26):
And during those events, I did my Miracle Angel card readings,
so I had those at the event and I sold them.
But I also did readings for people, and I haven't
worked one on one with people in person in such
a long time. I was so happy to do it
because I had people come up to me and say,
you know, what you said change my life. What you
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stayed at dear ference, you know, and thank you for
writing these books, and thank you for your talk, because
I did a talk at that event. And so working
with people again, I decided is my thing again. Like
I forgot, you know, how ye do something for a while,
I forgot working with people I love working with people.
Speaker 2 (37:06):
I love that energy interaction. I love seeing their mind.
Speaker 4 (37:11):
Process and they get ideas and get new insights and
so yeah, that was just last month and that's when
I released my book, was at that event, and so
it was just amazing. It was very miracle delicious.
Speaker 1 (37:27):
I love that word miracle delicious, like delicious, but like
on another scale.
Speaker 4 (37:37):
I define it as delicious to miracles, where miracles find you.
You know, you're so delicious to miracles that miracles are
coming after you.
Speaker 1 (37:47):
I love that. I'm going to take that and hold
it with me and miracles are going to be chasing
me down. I'm gonna like that, have it your way
in my life, you know. So what is it that
you want our listeners to take away? Well, first of all,
I want to know where is it that we can
find those oracle cards?
Speaker 4 (38:07):
Okay, so the oracle cards are only through my Accelerate
your Miracle course. You receive them with the course because
I kind of teach you how to use them and
how to activate your own inner guidance and that type
of stuff.
Speaker 2 (38:21):
And I guess we could give a link. I could
send you the link for that.
Speaker 4 (38:25):
Because it's undteachable so the platform called Teachable, it's on there,
and it's only forty four dollars right now. So I
have a discount code. We'll give them the discount code
because it's originally eighty eight dollars. But I give you
a discount code when you read my book or you
meet me through processes like this, and then they get
them half off.
Speaker 1 (38:45):
Oh guys, that's a great deal. Yeah.
Speaker 4 (38:49):
And then and my books are just on Amazon. You know,
you can put in Bernadette Roataba or the name of
the books, and we probably I don't know if we
do links here or link to my website or whatever.
Speaker 1 (39:01):
But absolutely it's easy.
Speaker 4 (39:03):
It's easy to find on Amazon, and so hopefully I
made it easy for everybody.
Speaker 1 (39:10):
We will make sure that the links for the book,
for your course, your social media, everything will be is
in the show notes.
Speaker 2 (39:19):
Yes, in perfect.
Speaker 1 (39:22):
And I really enjoyed reconnecting with you and like just
being reminded. It's a beautiful reminder for myself as well,
that miracles can happen. We all know that many of
us have experienced miracles, and sometimes we can forget that
that was a miracle, and it's just a nice reminder
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to remember. To hold on to that, and we have
us a new words. Say that word again, Mira colicious,
miracle delicious.
Speaker 2 (39:53):
It makes every time I say it, I love it.
Speaker 1 (39:55):
It brings a smile to my face. So I can
imagine I'm gonna I have the mic to you take
them out with whatever you would like the listeners to know,
whatever that is.
Speaker 4 (40:07):
I want you to know that miracles are possible, and
all you have to do is ask for them, believe
in them, ask for guidance to them. Whatever your higher power,
whatever your beliefs are, even your higher self, if that
feels more in alignment with you, just say I'm open
and I'm ready to receive my miracle blank whatever it is, career, life, healing, happiness,
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and every day stay grounded with your connection to your
source energy so that you can hear, phil see or
know the messages when they come to you. Because I truly,
truly believe miracles talk to you all the time trying
to guide you to them, and all we have to
do is say I'm willing to be aware and receive
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this information and it will come. And the last thing
I want to say about that is when you receive
miracle guidance, you'll receive one step and the second step
won't show up until you follow that first step, So
the first step may keep repeating itself, and it for
some people it's years, right, you know, they're told to
move to a different city or do something different, and
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they they're scared and they're afraid. But as soon as
you commit to that step, that keeps showing up for
your life, because if it shows up three times or more,
that's a sign that you're supposed to act on it.
Speaker 2 (41:36):
And it's always.
Speaker 4 (41:36):
Positive, right, It's never a negative guidance and it's never
anything that will hurt yourself or anybody else. So it's
always positive guidance. That may scare you a little because
it's you know, get a new job, go out of.
Speaker 2 (41:49):
Your comfort zone.
Speaker 4 (41:51):
But as soon as you take that first step, your
second step will show up. And then around the third
or fourth step is what I find.
Speaker 2 (41:57):
Is your miracle happens. So you just have to be.
Speaker 4 (42:00):
Willing and take that first up and your miracle will
be your asap, you know soon.
Speaker 1 (42:08):
Oh I love it. Miss Bernadette wrote a bah, yes, yes,
thank you so much for hanging out with me. I
really appreciate it and my takeaway for today, you guys,
is that it's everything that she shared, Everything that Bernadette
shared today, miracles can happen. Go out and get that book,
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share it with the family member, a friend, or someone
that you know could really use this guidance in this
book and information to help them to excel in their life.
Miracles can happen.
Speaker 2 (42:45):
Thank you, Thank you.
Speaker 1 (42:48):
A beautiful reminder. Miracles aren't always loud or dramatic. Sometimes
they arrived quietly, disguised as a whisper, a nudge, a
sense of knowing, And as Bernonette shared, the key isn't
always to go searching high and low, but it is
to stay open, open enough to fill them, open enough
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to see the signs when they come, and brave enough
to say I'm ready. Because once you say that, once
you take that first small step, the next one always
seems to find its way to you. That's the rhythm
of miracles, you guys. They're not random, they're aligned, and
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they come with love, with purpose, and with the kind
of guidance that's always for your highest good. So as
you go about your day, maybe just try that quiet phrase,
I am ready, I am open, and then watch what
starts to unfold you guys, Thank you all so much
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for tuning in today to this episode. Remember to stay open,
stay curious, and stay connected to the wonder Until next time,
be sure to take care of yourselves and each other.
Thank you so much for tuning in. I'm chante with
authentic Talks.