Become Greater Ep. 46 - Perseverence

In this episode, we delve into the profound meaning of perseverance, going beyond the simple idea of never giving up. Drawing on experiences as an athlete, martial artist, and fitness coach, we explore perseverance as the art of getting back up after every fall. Discover how embracing failure, learning from setbacks, and cultivating relentless effort in training can translate into unwavering resilience in all areas of life, empowering you to face challenges without fear.Key Takeaways:

• Beyond "Never Give Up": Perseverance is not just about avoiding quitting, but actively developing the ability to rise after setbacks.
• The Horse Riding Analogy: Like learning to ride a horse, mastery requires accepting falls as part of the learning process. Fear of failure hinders progress, while getting back up builds resilience.
• Learning to Fall Well: Repeated exposure to failure teaches us how to navigate it more effectively, minimizing impact and accelerating recovery. Falling stops being a threat and becomes a temporary pause.
• The Power of "Getting Back Up": The act of rising after a fall reinforces the belief that setbacks are not permanent defeats, fostering an "unstoppable" mindset.
• Fear of Failure vs. Perseverance: Consider whether the pursuit of goals is truly about the destination or about learning to manage and overcome the fear of failure itself.
• Training Ground for Resilience: The gym and martial arts training provide safe environments to practice perseverance through challenging physical feats and overcoming limitations. Failure in these contexts offers valuable lessons without high stakes.
• Transferring the Mindset: The resilience cultivated in training – the willingness to try again after failure – can be directly applied to challenges in relationships, career, and finances.
• Breaking Down Barriers: When faced with overwhelming obstacles, perseverance involves breaking them into smaller, more manageable steps and exploring alternative approaches.
• The Relentless Rain: Like unstoppable rain, perseverance is about consistent, unwavering effort in the face of adversity.

Common Pitfalls:

• Letting the fear of failure prevent you from trying new things or pushing your boundaries.
• Staying down after a setback instead of actively seeking to recover and try again.
• Failing to recognize the learning opportunities inherent in failure.
• Becoming discouraged by initial failures and abandoning goals prematurely.

Turning Obstacles into Advantages:

• Viewing failures as opportunities to learn and develop more effective strategies.
• Using setbacks to build mental toughness and reinforce your commitment to your goals.
• Recognizing that the ability to persevere is a valuable skill that sets you apart.

The Deeper Work:

• Cultivating a growth mindset that embraces challenges and sees failures as learning experiences.
• Developing self-compassion to navigate setbacks without harsh self-criticism.
• Building a strong sense of self-efficacy – the belief in your ability to succeed despite obstacles.
• Practicing consistent effort and discipline, even when motivation wanes.

Call to Action:

• Identify a Fear: Reflect on an area of your life where the fear of failure might be holding you back.
• Embrace a "Small Fall": In a safe environment (like your training), intentionally push your limits and accept the possibility of failure. Focus on the act of getting back up and trying again.
• Analyze Your Recovery: When you experience a setback in any area of life this week, consciously observe your reaction and actively choose to get back on track.
• Cultivate Relentlessness: Identify one small step you can take consistently towards a challenging goal, embodying the spirit of the relentless rain.
• Share Your Insights: How does the concept of "learning to fall well