From da Snippets/Why do people care so much about what people think them?

In this throwback clip,we talk about why do people care so much about what people think about them.


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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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Speaker 2 (00:10):
You think people want to be liked by people who
can care less about them?

Speaker 3 (00:18):
You say, why do people want to be liked by
people who who care less about them?

Speaker 1 (00:21):
Yes?

Speaker 2 (00:23):
Well, what's your interpretation.

Speaker 3 (00:27):
From my experience? To mind you when I say my experience,
I am not the root of all the answers. I'm
not the law, just my experience, right, Yeah, from my experience,
I think it comes from a position of lack thereof internally,
there's something, there's something lacking, there's something that's not present

(00:47):
that they're searching for. And when anyone chose a sign
of like them, they take heat to that. I mean
they take big love to that. They take you know,
a great thing too that you know. I wish I
knew his name. I just saw yesterday. He's a passive
young passor. It's called what was it the foundation the

(01:08):
can't even remember but when it mean, I'll probably say
it like Torett, but he was stating that it comes
from being damaged goods, it comes from being feel like
damaged and that like no one deserves or something like that.
So then when you get attention, and it probably could
be from somebody who really don't care about you, you're
really thinking that, and that's where that can kind of

(01:28):
lead you to continue to be damage and continue to
down the road that where you're not fulfilling purpose. So
I feel it comes from black love period, lack of love.

Speaker 2 (01:38):
So do you think social media play a part in
that or you think that's always been an issue.

Speaker 3 (01:44):
I think it's always been an issue, and I think
social media just magnified it. You know. It's kind of
like when you know, excuse me, it is black history,
I'll talk about it. I mean like when you see
all these young African American men being shot down for
no reason, and then all of a sudden, you know,
people are pretending it's the first time hearing about it,
and no, it's not that at all. It's just social

(02:06):
media has magnified it, made attention, made it more of
an attention for you to see. Now, now that's proof,
not just people saying, and now you can actually see it.
Now you have to be accountable to it, you know.
So that's all. I think It's always been present. You know.
I just think that's media has magnified it more and
really gave a platform to what people are, what people
are really feeling. A signe, did you an idea of
like what we actually live around? You walk past people

(02:26):
every day and you have an idea about you know,
pre judging them or you know, stereotyping them. But uh,
you know, social media also only paints highlight. So if
you think that that's what you're saying, holy right, imagine
what the real the real thing is. I mean, if
you think what you're saying is like the topic we're
talking about, imagine if you really got deep down to it,
it's it's I mean it extrapolated it may.

Speaker 2 (02:50):
Wait can you say at last word one more time?

Speaker 3 (02:54):
Extrapidated? Can magnified brings out?

Speaker 2 (02:58):
Can you spell extrapolate?

Speaker 3 (03:00):
Man, spell extrapolated? Let me try real quick, let's see
believe it. Hey, I'm looking upon what I'm trying. I'm
trying right now, spell extrapolate e X t R A
p oh l A t ee. We'll look, we'll look
at that.

Speaker 2 (03:18):
Yeah, I don't know. I just think that you know something.
Everybody want to be a clivery and everybody want to
be light right now. And I guess it's kind of hard,
you know, with social media and stuff. Yeah, you know
it really they really mess a lot of stuff up

(03:41):
right now.

Speaker 3 (03:43):
Yeah, you know what I mean. You know, I don't
know if people have a center of what's the word
I'm looking for, spirituality, religion, whatever you want to call, right,
but have a center, uh, knowing something outside of itself

(04:03):
and being calm with that and taking gratitude and knowing
that there's something greater than you and understanding what your
purpose is. And only two percent really reach their purpose.
It's kind of scared to think about, you know, have
a comfortable, loving understanding of self and live in the
world to where you're conditioned to see there are people.

(04:26):
And I just feel like it comes from like when
you see people. We're conditioned to see people that are
apparently greater and I'm throwing up the air quotes with
your fingers, people that are greater than they are, greater
than you on TV, through social media, through you know, billboards,
just you know, things that you're taking in with your
eyes and you have this sense of like, oh I

(04:46):
can do that. I want to be I want to
be just as great. Sucks because you know, if your
condition that you go your entire life trying to meet
this pedal store that you met when you were born already,
and when you see this and condition to it, it
makes you feel as if you're not that and that

(05:08):
you're trying to become something you already are. So it's
kind of initially like you're going bastard, then's bored, and
then you're coming right back to where you're at and
you're born. And I've been victim to this. I still
all have been victim to it. I'm still victim to
it now, you know. But I consciously try to remind
myself that I'm okay, I was already great, and everything

(05:28):
that I'm trying to search for is already within. All
I have to do is just be, you know, like
the term is I am that, and that's what it is,
what you are. We think you are that. So that's
that's how I feel about you know what it does?

Speaker 2 (05:44):
Oh no, I just man, listen. I know that you
could be the most perfect person in the world and
people still don't hate you. Yeah, So therefore, you know,
I stopped thinking like do it really matter if a
person hate you? Because you don't lose sleep at the
you know, the well, I get the pend on who
it is if they hate you, You don't lose sleep

(06:05):
at night over them hating you. Some do, you know,
but especially like if you ain't doing nothing to a
person for them to hate you, you know, ain't no
need to wrap your mind around it.

Speaker 3 (06:17):
And that all comes back to self love. You know,
if a person has to take man look, if a
person has to take time out of their day to
focus on your life, you walking around being perfect. They
gotta be perfect, because there's no reason why everybody should
come out their mouths or even heart or mind to

(06:37):
really point a finger towards someone, try to tell them
what they need to do, knowing that there's things that
they need to work on. You know, my mom used
to always say, you know, when you were young, when
you were kids, you know, I'll give you wisdom and
knowledge and education for free. You're my children. I got
to rache, but boom boom, once you get out on
your own, if you want this to ask for, I'm

(07:00):
not going to just offer to you. And I never
understood it at beginning, but I understand now why she
was saying. That's because she was respecting the fact that
she didn't want to impede on my life. She didn't
want to impede as if she was better for me.
She wanted me to come to her and ask her,
you know, if I like, if I felt I was
uncomfortable something I needed to answer. She wanted to feel

(07:20):
like the respect there was Okay, he can come and
ask me, and then I'll give him what I say.
And I feel like that's a great way for most
people to come across it, you know, instead of just
you know, applying your opinion to a situation, wait for
a person to ask for your you know, for your
judgment or for your opinion. You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (07:37):
Well, oh, that's hard because everybody got an opinion about
everything the day.

Speaker 3 (07:42):
I got one.

Speaker 2 (07:45):
You know, you see a person crossing the street and
somebody got an opinion about that. Yeah, it's like everything
like but you know, people feel like everybody got to
be heard about everything, when sometimes best to just stay quiet.

Speaker 3 (08:03):
Yeah, some things are better, you know I've spoken.

Speaker 2 (08:07):
Well, yeah, you know, especially like on you know, the
news or whatever else. Like they a person could paint
a picture, you know, just by words without another person
even thinking twice about asking you your side of the store. Yeah,
you know, and that that messed a lot of stuff

(08:28):
up these days for a lot of people. So I mean,
that's just my take on it.

Speaker 3 (08:35):
Yeah, and again, you know these topics we speak on,
you know, I mean I've been I've been guilty of
falling falling short. You know, I had a shortcoming to
the human being too. You know, I'm not perfect, and
I'm falling short to these in my past. You know.
But but those who may be listening and just don't
like this may be speaking to you or not. You know,

(08:57):
it's just a matter of at the end of the day,
you just want to be better, you know. So it
means every day you can. You can always change something up.
You know, if you go back to a new habit,
it's okay because you can start, not compare, to try again.
And that's all it comes down to.

Speaker 1 (09:14):
There you go