In this episode of Mental Matters, host Asekho Toto sits down with Dr. Debi Silber, founder of the PBT (Post Betrayal Transformation) Institute and author of groundbreaking research on betrayal trauma. Together, they unpack the hidden wounds of betrayal—from family and partners to friends and colleagues—and how these experiences shape our beliefs, relationships, and mental health.
Dr. Silber shares her personal story of betrayal, the discoveries from her PhD study, and the creation of the term Post Betrayal Syndrome. She reveals why betrayal is a unique trauma, how it leads to cycles of self-sabotage, and what it takes to move beyond survival. From National Forgiveness Day to her proven 5-stage roadmap for healing, Dr. Silber emphasizes that forgiveness and transformation begin with brutal self-honesty and the willingness to let go of outdated beliefs.
This conversation challenges you to reflect on your own experiences, question long-held stories, and embrace the possibility of a new, healthier identity. If you’ve ever struggled with trust, boundaries, or moving on after deep hurt, this episode will give you a roadmap to reclaim your worth and step into a new life.
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