11.12.25 Being Real, Competing Quietly, and Letting Robots Judge You

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Speaker 1 (00:04):
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Speaker 2 (00:16):
Lace wood depends if your dreams of the thought, then
it's something they can melt.

Speaker 1 (00:20):
Make you laugh, make you cry. Have you looking at
your friends like tell me why?

Speaker 2 (00:24):
How could he?

Speaker 1 (00:25):
What did she did?

Speaker 2 (00:26):
They say that the MG I can't release play that
back put the kids to bad because it might get
Ronchi aven't like to welcome y'all to our private part.

Speaker 1 (00:35):
I think it's safe to say these amigo type of
speed ups got them yelling. Okay, I told the world
they'd have messed up. Now we done took the cat off.
Ain't an hold them down?

Speaker 2 (00:45):
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topic that dyn.

Speaker 3 (00:52):
Won't there to go.

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Set back relaxus time I start the show.

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the place to beat. Showtime is the place to beat.
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Speaker 2 (01:09):
Showtime is the place to beat.

Speaker 1 (01:11):
Showtime is the place to beat a C. Show Time
is the place to beat.

Speaker 2 (01:16):
Show Time is the place to beat all three showtime
is the place to beat.

Speaker 1 (01:28):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, ye yeo.

Speaker 2 (01:33):
I always know whatever h fall is here, winter is
here because I can see all of Steven's tattoos.

Speaker 4 (01:40):
Clearly racism list, funny, local, national, global.

Speaker 3 (01:56):
In real life skin.

Speaker 2 (01:57):
Yeah, I've accepted it in my face. Yeah, nigga, we
know not here, yeah, not here. Anybody as we see.

Speaker 3 (02:07):
Everybody sees you. They think you're light skinned until you
have to you have.

Speaker 2 (02:10):
She doesn't think I am nigga.

Speaker 3 (02:12):
She knows you.

Speaker 2 (02:13):
She doesn't believe in it.

Speaker 3 (02:16):
I don't believe.

Speaker 2 (02:17):
She says, risk risks she does. This is true, not true, true,
And he's got to catch us straight. Now, be kind
straight against him. Brown. It'll come during the show, It'll
come to the show.

Speaker 5 (02:35):
Uh.

Speaker 1 (02:36):
That did the local national? Yeah, okay, we did?

Speaker 6 (02:40):
All right?

Speaker 2 (02:41):
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You get a new tattooed though?

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Where we go and on today's show Man, we got
what's the real price of being your authentic self? H

(03:07):
they do it for women?

Speaker 1 (03:09):
Uh?

Speaker 7 (03:10):
You?

Speaker 1 (03:10):
Letting the robots in?

Speaker 2 (03:12):
If we could see each other's search history for twenty
four hours, we got three emails. Two of them are
responses from last week and possibly might get to the
second half of how well do you know Me? But
before we get to any of that, y'all know what
time it is, so let's get to it. And now

(03:32):
it's time.

Speaker 3 (03:33):
For things good.

Speaker 1 (03:40):
This message is brought to you by over.

Speaker 2 (03:46):
As always Big Us to louse Seals over the off
of Maid and Broksgiving. Hey, you already know when they
screaming and hollering like that that it only tells you
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sure that you go out there, wrap some turkey, get
some presents and all that good stuff for the people
in need. Let's get into it. The first thing we're
not gonna talk about unless you had something to say,
eph I'll get to Okay, first thing we're not gonna
talk about the government shut down is still going causing

(04:27):
hundreds of flights to be canceled or delayed, and all
kinds of other nonsense going on in the world. I
don't understand why TSA doesn't get paid though, Why would
you not pay the people that protect Like.

Speaker 1 (04:40):
Yeah, I'm gonna let all kinds of shit on that,
But the fact that like, like it was over two
thousand flights been''re.

Speaker 3 (04:49):
Not showing up. Yeah, and they fired a bunch of people.

Speaker 7 (04:52):
They fired like two thousand people in American airlines.

Speaker 3 (04:55):
But did you hear that the people that didn't show
up for work Apparently.

Speaker 6 (04:59):
Since like they voted for to shut down to end
when it ends, apparently they're going to be coming back
at them like retribution, Like they're going to be disciplined.

Speaker 3 (05:09):
I'm like, it's not against I.

Speaker 2 (05:11):
Don't want to know what people are telling their whenever
you have free will.

Speaker 3 (05:14):
Ridge companies, Like what are you telling them?

Speaker 1 (05:16):
Like I'm literally not getting job.

Speaker 3 (05:24):
To get it.

Speaker 2 (05:27):
Like that's like the politicians not getting paid, Like I
totally they getting paid all that money anyway, and all
that lobby money and everything else, But the people that
actually protect the people going on the flights that make
it happen. Pay them. There's no reason for them not
to get paid.

Speaker 3 (05:42):
They don't care.

Speaker 2 (05:44):
Are the mail men not getting aren't they by the
government haven't shut that down at all, so so they
get paid. But but the people that protect.

Speaker 6 (05:52):
Us certain areas are being shut down, like make that
ship makes sense.

Speaker 2 (05:57):
Nothing we're not gonna talk about. Last night, many people
in the northern part of the US were able to
see the northern lights jealous. There were some people in
Texas and the panhandler got to see it. Nothing we're
not gonna talk about. At the time when I wrote this,
I said, not sure if they're fake or not, but
alleged I'm still gonna stick with the alleged emails dropping

(06:18):
and implicate Trump. Yeah, well, yeah, yeah, I'm just gonna
say alleged though I'm not that. But it was on TMZ.
If it's on TMZ, boy his name was all and.

Speaker 3 (06:33):
Wait till it's done.

Speaker 2 (06:35):
I can't wait. Nothing we're not gonna talk about. Michael
Jackson's daughter Paris has a hole in her symptom that
she felt the need to share with the world.

Speaker 3 (06:42):
She whistled, I haven't seen.

Speaker 2 (06:46):
This yeah, because of drugs. Well, she almost told them
not to do drugs. Then she said, I'll let you
go on your own journey. So at first I was like,
I was like, okay, that's a good like I understand
why you're doing it. And she's like, well, you know
everybody has their own already.

Speaker 5 (07:00):
Look me.

Speaker 2 (07:00):
So I'm like, ma'am with this big asshole in your
bro said she could put a spaghetti through that. Yeah,
she's a lot of snorting best friends. Oh yeah, you push.
Last thing we're not gonna talk about. Antonio Brown pleaded
not guilty to attempted murder.

Speaker 1 (07:24):
Real quick woman, quick shout out to my Madre's her
mother fucking birthday. Shout out missus Joyce ye birthday. M
hm he yes, sir.

Speaker 2 (07:38):
So everybody loves to say just so, everybody loves to
say just be yourself, but nobody talks about what the
actually what that actually costs once the real you shows up?
Does being true? Does being your true self bring more
freedom and more problems?

Speaker 1 (07:59):
A little bit of booth?

Speaker 3 (08:00):
Yeah, it depends on your setting, I guess.

Speaker 1 (08:03):
Expound a Paul like, Okay, we all know you have
no soul, Like we all know this see, like, but
people respect it because they know what they're gonna get.
And that's kind of I'm saying, like I'm kind of
similar at work, Like people know I'm gonna be an
asshole about a lot of stuff, but it's gonna be

(08:24):
some some humor with it too. I'm like, I'm not
gonna sugarcoat it for you. I'm of course I'm gonna
talk some ship, but I'm gonna try to help you too. Now,
if I was just always faking and they finally see
the real mean and say, what's what's wrong with you?
Acting weird to that, like now this is this is
me all the time, Like i can't stay serious for
too long, so I'm gonna be me as long as
I can within a respect for Manson get fired or

(08:47):
anything like that. But I feel like when you know
the real me, you know what you're gonna get. Like
it's up. Some people might not like it, people might say, Okay,
your brash, you're racist, but it's like at the same time,
it's like they know what they're gonna get.

Speaker 2 (09:03):
So so Stephen, you also said it depends I.

Speaker 3 (09:07):
Mean, it depends on you said. I mean, like there's
a real you in the work setting, and then it's
real you.

Speaker 1 (09:13):
I can't work. I can't be me.

Speaker 3 (09:17):
I'm saying, like there's anybody can you.

Speaker 6 (09:20):
Yeah, there's a you, there's a work you, and then
there's a U U outside of work.

Speaker 1 (09:24):
Like outside of work, I'm just me regardless of.

Speaker 3 (09:27):
So I mean, that's that's what I mean by the setting.
So it just depends on that aspect.

Speaker 6 (09:33):
Like if you're there's sometimes where you could be you
you like I mean like.

Speaker 3 (09:37):
When I was working at the bar, I could be
meet me at work at that.

Speaker 6 (09:40):
Point in time and just be a dick and fell
us saying, be racist and you know, be a.

Speaker 3 (09:47):
Womanizer, it don't matter whatever. But the professional setting of.

Speaker 6 (09:53):
Work, like five of a racist and less of a womanizer,
have to be less of a you know from ice person,
you know what I mean.

Speaker 3 (10:01):
Just but uh.

Speaker 6 (10:05):
So that's what I mean, Like, you know, I could
be joking and things of that sort.

Speaker 3 (10:10):
But of course, again like my professional job, you know,
in the.

Speaker 6 (10:13):
Social work setting or it's my marketing setting, like I
can be who I am, like what I am.

Speaker 1 (10:21):
How I am with y'all, Like nobody really can for trump,
like you can do whatever you want, which is crazy.

Speaker 2 (10:28):
But because of him now I feel like more people
are starting to be more of their authentic selves in
a sense of Yes, definitely more of that. And to
what you both said, it really does depend on the setting.
I do know that how I used to act at
work has changed a lot. I used to use my
white voice all the time and work I don't ever

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use it anymore because I got tired of losing my
voice at the end of the day, and I I
talk a lot.

Speaker 1 (10:58):
Yeah, let's he.

Speaker 2 (10:59):
I can't do it unless I can't do it unless
I have to do it, because if I try to
do it now, it's gonna sound fake. It's like, hey,
I can't even do it unless I'm like in that
mode I.

Speaker 3 (11:10):
Was talking to you about my retirement.

Speaker 2 (11:12):
I think you I think you've heard I can't do
it because I don't do I don't use.

Speaker 1 (11:16):
That say stuff like you bet you let me.

Speaker 2 (11:19):
Absolutely, I don't you remember I said I don't talk
like that anymore. Words, So how I.

Speaker 1 (11:24):
Talk like now is how I can't. We just trying
to financial win for Wicked bro.

Speaker 2 (11:34):
I keep wanting to go into it, but I just
can't do it. You've heard me do it whenever I
was talking to someone listeners to you, I'm gonna record myself.

Speaker 1 (11:46):
It's okay, I can't.

Speaker 5 (11:47):
Do My uncle rugs, no relations ah, Robert trading to
thought and I'm like, now I'm over here trying to think,
like can I do it?

Speaker 2 (11:58):
And I just can't do it? Uh? But do y'all
think most people even know who their authentic self is?

Speaker 1 (12:05):
Yes?

Speaker 2 (12:06):
You don't think they're just picking the version of themselves
that feels the safest to show people.

Speaker 8 (12:10):
I know, mine changes with whatever crowd. I'm like, yeah,
like I adapt to whatever crowd I'm at. So like
my longtime forever friends, I feel like they get the
most authentic me because they've seen me in every level
of life, So I feel like they get the most
authentic version of.

Speaker 2 (12:31):
Is this version of you the most authentic?

Speaker 8 (12:33):
I don't feel like I hold anything back? So yeah,
I mean yeah, pretty much.

Speaker 1 (12:41):
See this is pretty close to me. But it's like
the whole world can't see group chat. They just dream
because they can't because yeah, I'm be in jail and
I've said a lot of people.

Speaker 3 (13:01):
Easily that you know.

Speaker 2 (13:04):
When I think about our group chat, it's really not
that bad. Like if you think about like all other
men's group chats.

Speaker 1 (13:09):
It's not that bad, but it's so politically incorrect.

Speaker 2 (13:13):
It is very politically incorrect. But as a whole, I
don't think it's that bad compared to it's some chance.

Speaker 1 (13:22):
Out there's some that's probably yeah, times worse.

Speaker 6 (13:26):
I mean, like you said, isn't that bad, it's but
you can't be.

Speaker 2 (13:31):
It'd be one of those ones like if it went,
if it went to the world, they'd be like, I'm
so appalled, but we really.

Speaker 3 (13:36):
Like they would say that to each other, like why
would you say.

Speaker 1 (13:39):
Why are you so mean to each other?

Speaker 2 (13:41):
Do you not.

Speaker 3 (13:42):
Understand that you're black men?

Speaker 1 (13:43):
And like your use of the hard e r it's
and they.

Speaker 2 (13:49):
Keep saying over over and there's no context at all.

Speaker 3 (13:54):
It comes randomly.

Speaker 6 (13:55):
It's like, because there's times I won't be able to respond,
you know, for a day or two whatever, and then
when I respond, I'll have somebody, Oh, he's fucking a
lot of.

Speaker 3 (14:09):
Smoking, cracking with black and minds.

Speaker 1 (14:13):
And that's why I say the old world is not really.

Speaker 3 (14:20):
A niggas.

Speaker 2 (14:25):
But going back to the question I've I think in
this age where so many people feel like they're always
I mean, because cameras are phone cameras are everywhere. I
do feel like a lot of people always feel like
the camera's on. So even if they think that they're
being authentic, they're not really being authentic. And I think
we've turned authentic into like one of those buzz words,
buzzwords like when we talk about toxic or like this

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is an inclusive environment, or be your authentic self, and
it's really not your authentic self, because we know real
authentic is real authentic, and most people ain't real authentic.
That's why I was curious, like, do you think it's
just more of a trend versus knowing you're real?

Speaker 3 (15:04):
You?

Speaker 1 (15:04):
I feel like I feel like on this podcast, on
this show, I feel like of the real.

Speaker 2 (15:11):
I would say a little bit more.

Speaker 1 (15:12):
Than but y'all ain't never gonna get the racist ship
out of me. Badman himself couldn't pry that out of me,
except I don't know. Sometimes I really want to call
Steve the N word, like the hardy you are, but
but I can't say it. Too many times. We get
one pre episode and he used it all true.

Speaker 2 (15:30):
That's why Risk is wearing all black today. It's just
a yeah, she said, maybe if I were all black,
and they won't get mad if I say the N
world heard her say her breath. She said, that's why
I dyed my hair red to feel.

Speaker 1 (15:47):
Like she knew I'd give a pass because I got
to think for genders.

Speaker 2 (15:56):
Man, Why do y'all think that people say they want
honesty but then get uncomfortable when someone gives it to them?

Speaker 1 (16:05):
Though, say every one more time?

Speaker 2 (16:07):
Why do y'all think people say they want honesty, they
want people to be honest with them, but then they
get uncomfortable when someone is honest with them, when someone
gives them the real I.

Speaker 7 (16:14):
Think they want the freedom for them to be honest
with other people, but they're not gonna want.

Speaker 3 (16:19):
To take it back. It's just like the Oose saying,
like when we were growing up, truth hurts, like when
somebody tell you the truth of who you know. Yeah,
truth can hurt, you know what I mean?

Speaker 6 (16:28):
If you're being a dick and like you're that annoying
as fuck tardt that's at work or just in somebody's
life and they're like, yo, bro.

Speaker 3 (16:35):
You're really annoying, even if they're being you know, nice
with it and everything. It's like, Yo, what do you mean?

Speaker 9 (16:40):
Man?

Speaker 3 (16:40):
What do you mean?

Speaker 2 (16:41):
Bro?

Speaker 6 (16:42):
Cool?

Speaker 3 (16:42):
Like no, like, Yo, you're annoying.

Speaker 2 (16:45):
I do want to pause for a second because you
said something that really resonated with me. So we know
the R word, but how did the f R word
come about? What if are you said a fuck tard?

Speaker 1 (17:00):
Oh?

Speaker 2 (17:02):
Well, how did that word come about? Does that mean
that you retard?

Speaker 1 (17:08):
Basically? Is that what is that or come from?

Speaker 3 (17:15):
Because I call people that all the time.

Speaker 2 (17:18):
Is it are you calling someone or are you saying
that they our word?

Speaker 1 (17:23):
And now they are becoming And that's how that's how
we perceived it.

Speaker 2 (17:27):
But how did it really start though?

Speaker 3 (17:30):
I mean because.

Speaker 6 (17:35):
People got offended with it and so just like take
away the word and so we had to supplement something
something a whole.

Speaker 8 (17:43):
Other story, because I do you know that the companies
that helped people that have special needs, they actually used
to use that word in the name of the companies, Like.

Speaker 3 (18:00):
This retard was a.

Speaker 1 (18:01):
Term that even we don't use that word on.

Speaker 3 (18:03):
The show, the name of the company that helps them.

Speaker 8 (18:10):
That's what I'm saying, Like, it doesn't make sense that
now it's such an offensive word, because.

Speaker 2 (18:15):
You know, you think about all of our little TV
shows and everything when we were kids, like you, PG
back in the day was really PG thirteen because they
said every little thing like you go look at watch
the Goonies, like there's so many words and that you're like,
this is a PG movie.

Speaker 1 (18:34):
Watch early Family Guy man, and.

Speaker 3 (18:38):
That was what TV fourteen.

Speaker 8 (18:40):
But what you used to get offended, Like people would
say the most terrible things that you could possibly say,
and we'd be like whatever, either laugh at it or
just brush it off, like we like didn't care because.

Speaker 3 (18:50):
That was our generation. Family Guy came out when we
were teenagers.

Speaker 2 (18:54):
We were younger than that, Like I was eleven.

Speaker 1 (18:59):
In the first episode, so we were about to so
pre teams will and like we were.

Speaker 3 (19:03):
It made us, I mean we weren't sensitive to it, No, it.

Speaker 1 (19:07):
Was normal to mean we already we already in South Park, bigger, longer,
and uncut for that.

Speaker 2 (19:13):
The sptions were worse too, like that.

Speaker 6 (19:16):
It's once we got this what what generations after us
Z disease? Like because of the phones and all that
ship and all the technology started coming in more and
more and they're depending on the way more to where
they're a lot more sensitive.

Speaker 2 (19:32):
But is it really them or is it the people
from the seventies in the sixties that got pumped and
then they were in a position of power where they
were like, you know what, y'all made fun of me
for this, so now I'm cutting it out because generations
Z don't they don't have no power. They got about
as much power as we millennials have. We ain't got
a lot of power, and our generation is cutting have

(19:54):
like half of us are doing good, going bad. Gen
Z doing terrible, and it's only gonna get worse for
everybody else. So it's not like we really have any
power or that weren't positions of power, and even the
people that we have and like, positions that are trying
to make a change, whether it's the AOC's or the
Jasmine what's her last name, not Harris, Harris, Jasmine Crockett,

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like those people who are really trying to make the change,
like they're just kind of looked at us like I'll
be quiet, hush, go over here, when they're really trying,
versus like the our grandparents' generation and our parents generation
that just keep effing over their kids and the grandkids
because why let's just get as much money as we can.

Speaker 3 (20:37):
I think I think it's two sided.

Speaker 6 (20:40):
Like you got the one side that comes against people
like Crockett because they're mad at representatives, hardcore, right, And
then there's others.

Speaker 3 (20:53):
There's others that are.

Speaker 6 (20:56):
They are educated, but at the same time they're like, yo,
don't fuck with my money. Like you're kind of saying,
don't fuck with my money. You're just being an angry
black woman. We're just still on the mega side, you
know what I mean. But it's like those of us
that are cool with Crockett, you know, making that stance
and everything like that, like, sorry you brought up in there,
I started going away.

Speaker 1 (21:18):
Per capital, Steve, per capita. You blacks commit the most
crimes per capita. I mean, yeah, I'm saying that, Yeah,
you're right, You're right, per capital capita.

Speaker 3 (21:28):
That's the one that kills you.

Speaker 1 (21:30):
What's it black just saying per capita, per capita. But
the authentic self, I think it really it can be
a mix of both, because like when I'm really comfortable
with somebody, like y'all know, I say some stupid shit
all the time, Like I got a co worker that
we cool, Like they starting to see that I'm a
wild boy, I say stupid shit all time, Like I'll
be saying, yeah, I beat women. Yeah, I can hear

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stuff like that. I'd be like, I'd be like like,
she'll say you ain't, but yeah. Added to the list
racist chauvin is sty sexist, breakfist all that. She said,
gentle rapist, Like gentle rap saying stupid ship, bro, just
because I'm like, when I get comfort with you, I
say stupid ship. That's just my way of like like,
you know, hey, I'm cool with you now, like I

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say something stupid, Like every day I say something stupid
about Stephen sucking toes and doing blow and stuff like that.

Speaker 2 (22:20):
What's funny is my mom had messaged me and she
didn't realize we were talking about Stephen. She was like, hey,
who's this Stephen guy? Because Steve wasn't on the show.
She was like, y'all just talking about him so bad.
And then I said, Mom, anytime someone misses the show,
we talk about the bad. She's like why, I.

Speaker 1 (22:39):
Said, because that's what friends do.

Speaker 2 (22:41):
I said, just like in the in the text message,
we're talking about him and so he sees and we're
not talking about him buying his back. Said that's oh,
that's why y'all have such great friendships, because.

Speaker 1 (22:54):
But that's ship. We say to each other in that.

Speaker 3 (22:57):
Yeah, we say to each other in each other's face.
And that's again and that's what makes our friendship.

Speaker 6 (23:02):
Like that's strong, you know what I mean, Like we
can depend on eat any one of us, anything happened
to any one of us.

Speaker 1 (23:08):
It's like, yo, we.

Speaker 3 (23:08):
Could hit each other up in the heart, you know
what I mean. That's like we're friendship.

Speaker 2 (23:13):
No, because actually this this falls into it because men men,
men truly are authentic with their homeboys. Then you have
people like risk, who's bestie is? Who's your what? Okay?
I can I mean, can I touch on something?

Speaker 1 (23:34):
No?

Speaker 2 (23:34):
Not the hooker?

Speaker 1 (23:37):
Yo?

Speaker 2 (23:37):
Yo yo?

Speaker 1 (23:39):
How many?

Speaker 2 (23:39):
How many friend groups have you gone through since since
teen years? Like the people that you kick it with,
like your core group? So four different core groups?

Speaker 8 (23:49):
Well no, the original one did transition several times.

Speaker 3 (23:55):
Why And honestly, it started off big and it condensed.

Speaker 8 (23:58):
So I'm gonna say there wasn't a lot of new ads,
but a lot of people just fell off different reasons.

Speaker 2 (24:05):
Even your bestie, which you know I'm talking about your room.

Speaker 3 (24:12):
Everyone stripped apart.

Speaker 1 (24:14):
They just fall off. I mean some people just they
weren't being authentic.

Speaker 2 (24:19):
Yeah. I finally got her to delete her besties, and
I'm proud of her because y'all hadn't talked to me
six years. You need to do and they ain't talk
to you, they ain't talked to five years. I'm like,
why that? Ain't she need to tell you have your birthday?

Speaker 1 (24:35):
If I go forty eight hours without seeing a group text,
I'm calling someone the word with.

Speaker 2 (24:41):
R in all caps, all caps, there ain't no fading
into it.

Speaker 6 (24:46):
Like and even with guys, like I've had my same
group of friends, like we've added on or whatever. But
like from I had one best friend little from fourth
grade all the way until now, from seventh grade, ninth grade,
and then after you know, getting together with my wife,
like meeting y'all, like y'all became my boys.

Speaker 2 (25:06):
Been fourteen years literally yeah, because because for you, no, no,
because what's my little Brady songs named the middle of Apollo.
He'll be fourteen because I met you before he.

Speaker 3 (25:20):
Was more fifteen.

Speaker 2 (25:23):
Oh yeah, you're right, you're right, yeah, fifteen years right.

Speaker 1 (25:26):
For me, it's probably about twelve thirteen something like that,
because I got that TV from.

Speaker 2 (25:29):
Y'all and then I'm knowing Edison is all five yeah.

Speaker 3 (25:33):
So it's like yeah, yeah, three women. It's like y'all
they go.

Speaker 1 (25:38):
Through different groups. Is like they like brothers to me.
They she is like my brother's barely older than me.
I love him, but I want to choke him time.
That's no.

Speaker 8 (25:52):
No, let's trying to think about friends that have like
fallen off, like there's.

Speaker 1 (25:59):
Still a raw.

Speaker 2 (26:00):
They're just not about like fifteen falling off.

Speaker 3 (26:03):
No, it wasn't fifteen.

Speaker 8 (26:04):
I go back to like my twenty fourth birthday when
we had on boat and that was like the best
friend spam.

Speaker 3 (26:12):
That was the best friend group at that time.

Speaker 2 (26:17):
How long is that what made them so good?

Speaker 3 (26:21):
You don't know, fifteen years. I have had a long day.
Now we're acting like a man.

Speaker 6 (26:28):
I'm just said twenty four you just made the same
You'll react like, yeah here.

Speaker 3 (26:37):
It was just like we all got along really well.
Are you still friends with them now?

Speaker 2 (26:41):
No?

Speaker 3 (26:42):
No? No, no, most most of them?

Speaker 2 (26:45):
What is most?

Speaker 7 (26:47):
Like there's probably twelve people on the boat I'm still
friends with at least seven three.

Speaker 6 (26:54):
No, we say friends like we're talking about best friends,
like you were close when you get calling them right
now and it's still gonna be the same as it
was fifteen years ago.

Speaker 1 (27:04):
That's yeah, exactly, But I still talk to the y'all
want to the other ones when we have an event together.

Speaker 6 (27:14):
Once a year of birthday, Birthday, Merry Christmas.

Speaker 2 (27:21):
Yeah, yeah, because I literally we need to hang out
my white here. I talked to my boy Dante, who
I've known since kindergarten. That I talked to my boy
Richard that I'm known since seventh grade, and like I'm
always keeping in touch with like all my my day ones.
We don't be beefing or anything like that, but women
will just yeah, you just don't talk to it. And

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then when we asked why I don't know.

Speaker 1 (27:44):
Something that's crazy, little off topic, but kind of on topic. Dudes,
we could literally know somebody for years, not even his
first name, but that's still your homeboy. You see him,
and that's your boy. Y'all know everything about your friend.
And then one little thing, I.

Speaker 2 (27:59):
Don't like her. She didn't call me on my birthday.
We don't even have the no dude's name I had.
I had two home boys I'm known for twenties plus years.
They hit me up this week, be like, hey, do
my bad I forgot to tell you have your birthday?
I'm like, as are good? I wasn't even thinking about you. Yeah,
what you thinking about it?

Speaker 1 (28:18):
Like, yeah, Steve, there was no way I could have chucked.

Speaker 2 (28:22):
That so ironically us going going in on risky Ashley
is a segue into this next topic. Uh you ever
noticed how a guy can tell this girl something ten
times and it doesn't move her at all, But the
second another woman's involved, she's suddenly in the full blown
competition mode.

Speaker 3 (28:42):
I don't feel like I resonate at all.

Speaker 2 (28:44):
Why is it when a dude tries to hype up
this girl to get in shape or switch things up,
it's whatever, But let another woman say something and suddenly
she's in beast mode.

Speaker 3 (28:53):
Another woman says it to the woman, be like when
you get.

Speaker 2 (28:56):
Ship or or or they'll talk about it.

Speaker 3 (29:01):
Well, I was gonna say, it's not the talk ship part.

Speaker 8 (29:02):
But honestly, like I love working out with girlfriends like
I I would almost always prefer talking we.

Speaker 3 (29:11):
Do two hours and like.

Speaker 1 (29:19):
Taking up the machine, not doing ship. Y'all are most
done love just doing it. But here's y'all taking up
the machines. I'm trying to come ask hey, I mean
six now y'all got me on camera. I look like
a creep.

Speaker 7 (29:33):
I didn't care what somebody else is like, people would ask.

Speaker 1 (29:36):
It didn't bother me. But see nowadays good.

Speaker 3 (29:41):
I know.

Speaker 1 (29:41):
I made a post last year said people who bring
tripods and stuff to him you were free because why
are you doing that? But yeah, don't do that. You're
the machines I love. Don't do that. Ship If I
go with one of these two, we might you know,
laugh here and there, but I'm gonna get my work
out of it.

Speaker 2 (29:59):
It's gonna be a quick yeah, quick, like look like
you see that you get back on.

Speaker 1 (30:05):
It was time ago. But I had a chant day
with Steve early in the morning one day, and you know,
we talked a little bit, but I was really getting chances.
And so was he spotting spotting me?

Speaker 2 (30:14):
Yeah, because I mean Steven will go work out. We
just say nah, what's up? All right?

Speaker 1 (30:22):
I catch like randomly a c in there will chopping
up for like five minutes and then I'm like, all right,
I gotta hit legs.

Speaker 2 (30:28):
He's all right, that's it, Yeah, that's it, that's it.
Why do y'all think it feels like two.

Speaker 6 (30:35):
Hours is like that's successory, like that's way excessive.

Speaker 1 (30:38):
You much I could have done in that two hours?

Speaker 3 (30:41):
Yea, God damn man.

Speaker 2 (30:45):
Why do y'all think it feels like when a man
says authentic right ship? I respect that. Why do you
feel like when a man says something it comes off
as criticism, but if a woman says something, it becomes
motivation and self careful.

Speaker 1 (30:57):
Because man explaining it.

Speaker 2 (30:59):
That's why, which another one of those buzz words.

Speaker 1 (31:02):
That's why I said I was being shoking this, I
mean just.

Speaker 6 (31:08):
Because I feel like, I mean, they feel like we're
criticizing them.

Speaker 2 (31:15):
That it's not what you said you said, and you're
talking exactly the same. I'm like, I'm talking saying, well,
I do you just literally.

Speaker 1 (31:32):
But that's why I started saying where it's like we
should do this, we we we we and then's still
now okay and you.

Speaker 2 (31:39):
Can say we'll be like I just feel like you're
just trying to push me into something.

Speaker 1 (31:42):
You're trying to make me be something I'm not and
blah blah blah, just sent me for who I am.
Like I'm saying we, I'm saying I need to lose
weight to like.

Speaker 2 (31:49):
Just together as a team. All risk that could do
is just smile.

Speaker 6 (31:54):
I don't we that doesn't bother Yeah, I would do
that and he.

Speaker 3 (31:58):
Doesn't bother me.

Speaker 7 (31:59):
I'm like, I don't like to go by myself, so
I will always say yes to go to somebody else.

Speaker 1 (32:05):
I tried to go to jail Bird. She treated like
it was a punishment.

Speaker 9 (32:07):
I'm like no, I was like literally, I was like,
I am working out too.

Speaker 1 (32:12):
It's not a punishment.

Speaker 6 (32:13):
But I would say too, like the way we work
out is not the way some of them can work out.
Because when when I want to call and everything, like
I'll never forget.

Speaker 3 (32:25):
I mean this a few years ago.

Speaker 6 (32:26):
So she had to get a separate gym membership to
Colaw because she couldn't go with me because I work
out too hard and I understand like me.

Speaker 10 (32:39):
Like she's she's way intermediate compared to like stream amateur
compared to you, How you can last with me and
Tony working out, she.

Speaker 11 (32:47):
Wouldn't be able to do it, like she would even
lower the weight, so like why not she would? But
she would like, what do you mean? Like you she can't,
so like she wouldn't be able to last.

Speaker 6 (32:57):
Like, I mean, her endurance is so far less than
what yours is because she's not in the gym consistently.

Speaker 9 (33:04):
Yeah, I'm getting she's not a ten vibe when you were.

Speaker 6 (33:16):
Durrance isn't like George. She's not consistently in the gym
that she goes to the gym every week. Yeah, absolutely,
she goes about twice. But how we go four times
a week and we have our rest day in the
middle of the week. It's not like that she wouldn't
be able to last. And you know, again, like I'm
over here if she's really wanted to do it, Like
there's been times where I spike, I'm like, come on,
come on, push push, push, push or whatever.

Speaker 3 (33:37):
If I'm saying it to her, she's like getting all defeated.
It's like, mean, I'm not being Meani.

Speaker 4 (33:43):
I'm just like.

Speaker 1 (33:45):
When I was with the jail Bird, i would get
annoyed because I'm over here taking Wade off and setting
it up. I'm like, I'm being patient with you. This
is for us. I'm like we're building Like I'm like
I'm already ripped and cut up. I'm like I'm already there.
But I'm slowing down to get you here with me.
But it was a problem, and that's what it is.

Speaker 2 (34:03):
Like, I'm slowing my pace down.

Speaker 12 (34:06):
Used to be cut up, motherfucker, and I'm just like
because I was, I was leaning, I'm talking like eight
pack trading and all that, and I'm just like, I'm
not saying you gotta be like that.

Speaker 1 (34:20):
Just come with me. Just work out with me. I'm
not asking you to be on my left. Just come
with me. But when I said that, I.

Speaker 3 (34:26):
Don't I don't understand.

Speaker 13 (34:28):
I can't.

Speaker 3 (34:28):
I can't say I know what that means, because I
don't think I would ever.

Speaker 7 (34:32):
Be offended if someone's like, come with me, well, I'm like,
okay with you, and you would think that.

Speaker 2 (34:39):
You would think that because because my mind like like
reverse reverse roles, Like if a girl is like, hey,
I want you to come to the gym with me,
in my mind, I'm like like, heyo, you want me
to come to the gym with you to show off
and be like, Yo, this is my nigga here, you're
working out with me. Don't come step to me. Let
y'all know, because if the gym was her streets, she

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wouldn't be like, hey, come with me. So I'm like,
as a do like if you flip role reverse, I'm like,
yo boom. But women be like, why you want me
to come to the gym?

Speaker 3 (35:10):
What are you trying to say?

Speaker 1 (35:11):
What I'm not because me and I actually prefer woman
with a little bit with some meal on them, you
know a little bit. I don't want you to be real.

Speaker 2 (35:19):
I don't we all agree on that.

Speaker 1 (35:20):
I don't like that ship. But it's like, don't take
it as a punishment at all. I'm putting in more work.
I'm punishing myself. So what's the problem.

Speaker 2 (35:28):
Yeah, so we're gonna take a break when we come back.
We got some emails you're listening to. Ooh they funny.

Speaker 14 (35:38):
Fellas. You can't let her keep doing this, taking your
old spicey padration with a low body wash.

Speaker 3 (35:44):
It's unacceptable, King.

Speaker 14 (35:47):
She's gonna have to understand that you got your own
groom and needs a dealer.

Speaker 7 (35:53):
She might say, boy, please, what's orge's mine?

Speaker 3 (35:57):
I'll buy moial Beach.

Speaker 14 (35:58):
Just fine.

Speaker 3 (35:59):
What if she does, don't go.

Speaker 1 (36:00):
Don't let her bring up the guy.

Speaker 3 (36:02):
Call letter know man.

Speaker 6 (36:08):
Time and time again, she's been taking your spic styp pydration.

Speaker 3 (36:15):
You speA good for yourself. Don't let her you sill.
There's nothing that time.

Speaker 14 (36:21):
To all my guys, never let your skin go dry,
and always keep an eye on your old spice, body
lotion and body wash because men have skin too.

Speaker 3 (36:33):
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Speaker 1 (36:35):
How many us?

Speaker 2 (36:35):
This is gonna be four of us?

Speaker 3 (36:37):
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Speaker 1 (36:37):
Right this way? Hey the place? I hear that on
the radio.

Speaker 2 (36:40):
Man, you notice the loose seals over the alphamatic bra.
Excuse me?

Speaker 6 (36:44):
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Western Mississippi.

Speaker 3 (36:49):
Wash it all down with our homemade ice cold sweet tee.

Speaker 2 (36:52):
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Speaker 6 (36:56):
Not only do we provide amazing food, we got it
all auto issue, what childcare word, even tattooing movies.

Speaker 1 (37:04):
Man, they got it. I love his play and.

Speaker 2 (37:26):
You're listening to ooh they funny local National Globe. So
we got again. Three emails. Two of these are response
emails from last week's and one is a new one.
What's up, fellas? First off, appreciate y'all for reading my email.
Cracking up over my situation. Y'all had me in tears.

(37:46):
With that, let him get his taste of crazy. Early advice.
I played that part from my wife and she gave
me the side. I like, I know you didn't take
advice from a podcast called Ooh They Funny. I told
her that made some valid points. So here's the update.
I sat my boy down and told him what y'all said.
He laughed at first and got real serious and said,
so basically, y'all want me to risk my peace for experience.

Speaker 1 (38:09):
He's a smart kid.

Speaker 2 (38:10):
He is he is. I told him exactly, son, for
educational purposes, only he didn't think I was joker. Long
story short, the Puerto Rican girl apparently beat him to
the punch and told him she was giving him one
more week to decide. My man came to me like
he was in game of throne, was trying to pick
wish kingdom to rule. Then just went I thought. Then,

(38:32):
just when I thought he was leaning towards the volleyball girl,
she showed up to his game wearing his school coothes
and cheering loud. So now he's confused all over again.
At this point, I told him, look, it's middle school.
You don't have to marry nobody. Just have fun, be
respectful and maybe don't make any promises to a girl
who has cousins that might pull up. So, yeah, y'all
were right. It's better he learns early that sometimes fun

(38:54):
crazy turns into a stressful crazy. And judging by the
look on his face every time his phone dings, I
think that lesson is already sinking in. Appreciate y'all for
the last of wisdom. I'll let you know if he
survived this season of Love and Lockers eighth grade edition,
still not trying to be the old out of touch dad.
Appreciate you for the responding back. I love. I love

(39:15):
the response.

Speaker 1 (39:16):
Man, Yet y'all got kids from.

Speaker 2 (39:20):
The only ones that write notes? Is like my daughter's
because she got in trouble because her friend wrote her note.
She was trying to pay attention to class, and I
don't like her because she got me my car side.
I was like, why don't you tell your friend to
leave you a law? She's like I tried to, but she
she kept coming over and then the teacher saw it.
I told her I wasn't writing notes, and the teacher

(39:42):
still told me to pull my my folder out so
she could sign it.

Speaker 1 (39:45):
I was like, well, we used to be no passion.
Responding no passion was a real plan. Yeah it was.

Speaker 2 (39:54):
There was no texting, the.

Speaker 1 (39:55):
Having to get it all the way across the room
passes as it six ros don't read that ship you
and then you had.

Speaker 3 (40:08):
To like make the screen and get up the walk.

Speaker 2 (40:16):
Hey boys, I had to write y'all back. After hearing
the episode, I was cracking up and also low key
nervous listening to how divided y'all were. Tony, I really
appreciated how you wrote down the importance of trying and
communication before giving up. That meant a lot because that's
exactly what I've been doing, trying to make sure I'm
not confusing frustration with finality. Stephen J. I'll be honest.

Speaker 1 (40:39):
Well, I'll.

Speaker 2 (40:41):
No, not the twin uh the lady with the dude
h six months Yeah I don't remember. Yeah, twin and writers.
Stephen J. I'll be honest. At first, when you said
I was doing too much the six months out, I
almost turned the episode off. But when you were talking.

Speaker 3 (40:58):
Me, what was she?

Speaker 1 (41:01):
Apparently what was it?

Speaker 2 (41:03):
She had been dating this dude for a while, they
were they were engaged six months out. Yeah, like she's
like their communication.

Speaker 1 (41:13):
He seems complacent. She wants like more.

Speaker 2 (41:16):
And they want to go to therapy, but he didn't
want to go.

Speaker 3 (41:19):
Kaya, I'm trying to remember what I said.

Speaker 2 (41:26):
Both the albums had been.

Speaker 1 (41:29):
Like I said, Man, after I was singing Cindy Lapper,
I was singing Time at the time.

Speaker 2 (41:39):
Okay, go ahead, even Jay, I'll be honest. At first,
when you said I was doing too much being six
months out, I almost turned the episode off. But when
you and Tony went back and forth and he started
to understand where I was coming from, it actually hit
me that maybe both of y'all were right in your
own ways.

Speaker 3 (41:53):
I might have been.

Speaker 2 (41:53):
Spiral spiraling a little, but my concerns are still valid.
And Eddie, I was so sure you're going to tell
me to leave him like you always. When you didn't,
I was shots you actually trying to see my point
of view, even if you weren't all the way there,
gave the conversation balance.

Speaker 1 (42:08):
She knows, Yeah, she knows how I'm drunk, So you
know what, Thank you, Thank you for giving me grace
and understanding that wasn't the way there.

Speaker 2 (42:17):
Yeah, I felt I think she was trying to say,
you weren't all the way there on her side whatever.
I felt like y'all were having the debate I've been
having in my own head for months. So here's where
things stand. I didn't call off the wedding, but I
did press pause. I told my fiance I needed to
slow down to really make sure we're on the same

(42:38):
page before we commit to forever. That talk was heavy.
He thought I was any things, but once he realized
I wasn't mad, just honest, he softened up. I told
him exactly what I wrote y'all, and that I don't
want to marry someone just because they're good on paper.
I want us to be a line and growing in
the same direction. He admitted he's been scared too, not
of marrying me but not but of not being enough

(43:00):
but the version of me that's evolving. That conversation ended
up being one of the realst we've ever had. We
still don't have a new date set, but we did
agree to try therapy together, not because we're broken, but
to learn how to communicate better before life gets heavier.
So I guess the update is I didn't run, but
I didn't settle either. I'm giving both of us room
to grow and meet each other halfway, and y'all were right.

(43:21):
Sometimes it's not about cold feet, it's about making sure
you're walking in the same direction before you take the
next step. I appreciate y'all for the laughs, honesty, and
perspective if it reminded me it's okay to pause without.

Speaker 3 (43:32):
Quitting absolutely, because here's a thing. You don't want to
get into a thing.

Speaker 6 (43:35):
Where you know, he ends up selling alcohol at two
in the morning, and.

Speaker 1 (43:49):
Oh my god, Oh.

Speaker 3 (43:53):
I'm just saying, I mean, I'm glad that you shouldn't
step back.

Speaker 1 (44:00):
That was a new I don't know what this one
is gonna play real quick.

Speaker 6 (44:11):
But real talk, I mean, you don't want to get
into a position where you know, you feel like you
don't know this person, you know what I mean, Like
where it's just like you're trying to figure out where
this person, what this person is doing at all times
of day.

Speaker 1 (44:27):
I'm not.

Speaker 6 (44:30):
But real talk, I mean you took you were something
mature enough to take step back and know that y'all
needed to go through therapy to continue to know each other,
to grow and continue to learn each other before just
jumping into something that's supposed to be forever.

Speaker 3 (44:49):
You know, what I mean. So I appology you truly
all this. You were mature enough to have the conversation.

Speaker 6 (44:54):
He was mature enough to have the conversation with you too,
and you know, nothing came between y'all. Hopefully y'all fucked
after words after the conversation and everything.

Speaker 3 (45:01):
And made it even better.

Speaker 2 (45:03):
And the thing that I really enjoyed about this, I
really enjoyed about this is that man was able to
open up to you. And for a lot of men,
not on not on some this nigga here, but it
takes a lot for a man to open up. So
if he can open up and feel like you're here
safe space, and y'all can have that great conversation. And

(45:26):
here's the key, do not throw that ship back in
that man's face. If he opened up to you and
was was vulnerable in that moment, and y'all are on
a good page, Never ever ever throw that ship back
in him, because he will never ever ever open up again. Ever.

Speaker 3 (45:43):
It's gonna keep something after hours after olock.

Speaker 2 (45:58):
I just appreciate that email. And I'm gonna tell you
right now at this other girl's house.

Speaker 1 (46:09):
As someone who it's someone who says leave them all
the time. I hope y'all work it out.

Speaker 2 (46:17):
Lost my kid and I lost my spell. All right,
let's do Hey, boys, I've been listening to y'all for
a while now, and I know one of the main
things you always preacher, start from day one with honesty. Well,

(46:37):
I didn't exactly do that this time, mostly because I
didn't think things would ever get serious. And now here
I am catching real feelings and trying to figure out
how to keep it real without messing up something good.
So a little background, I've always been a free spirit
when it comes to relationships. I'm a swinger, a not
in a reckless way, but in a way that's open,

(46:58):
trusting and based on the communication. That's good because someone
we know right to say.

Speaker 1 (47:02):
Sounds like our friends. One of our friends who's a
swinger by himself, he's but she ain't.

Speaker 15 (47:19):
God, I don't know who is. His name is blood
every No, I didn't, No, I didn't.

Speaker 1 (47:34):
I just said, well, she's gonna find out anyway.

Speaker 2 (47:40):
All right, let's let's let's finish all right.

Speaker 16 (47:43):
Uh.

Speaker 2 (47:44):
My past three relationships were all within that lifestyle, and
that works because everyone involved was on the same page.
My last relationship was honestly the best six years of
pure connection, fun and honesty. We loved, we loved hard,
we lived free, and it was the healthiest dynamic I've
ever had. Unfortunately, he passed away in a tragic accident,
and that loss already, and that loss really threw me

(48:06):
off balance for a while. After he passed, I told
myself I was done with that lifestyle. I thought maybe
I was just clinting we shared, so when I met
my current man, I didn't bring it up. He's amazing, caring, grounded, dependable,
and actually good for my peace. But he's not really
that free spirit type. He's more traditional. Not controlling their

(48:28):
jail is just different. I honestly didn't see it's getting
this serious, but he surprised me, and now I'm at
a point where I feel guilty for keeping such a
big part of who I am to myself. He's opened
minded in general, like he's willing to try new things,
but I don't know if this is something he could
wrap his head around. I don't want to make him
feel like I've been hiding something or that I'm unsatisfied,
but I also can't ignore that this lifestyle is something

(48:50):
I genuinely enjoy connect through. So my question is this,
do I bring it up now or is it too
late to introduce that part of me without it sounded
like a betrayal or setup? And if I do, how
do I even start that conversation without it turning into
something that ruins what we built? Because truthfully, I love
what we have, but also know I won't be happy
pretending this side of me doesn't exist.

Speaker 1 (49:12):
How long did she say they were together? You didn't, suy, Well,
how the fuck are we gonna help you if we
don't know how long I've been together?

Speaker 2 (49:22):
Jesus Christ, right, but I feel like they've been together
for a while because she didn't think it was gonna
be something, and now she I would say, at least
six seven months ago.

Speaker 1 (49:32):
When you gotta let him know that at one point
you were in it. Maybe don't say that like, yeah,
this isn't gonna work unless we're both any type shit,
But you gotta let me know that at one point
you were in the lifestyle. As somebody who was in it.
I understand, like it's hard to go from that and
then go to straight vanilla. It really is. It's very difficult.
But at the same time, if you meet somebody who
checks most of your boxes, then you don't need that lifestyle.

(49:56):
But it is hard to just go But who's I mean.

Speaker 6 (50:00):
You don't have to be in the lifestyle, Like you
can have your fun here and there and.

Speaker 1 (50:04):
Lifestyle you don't have to go to every party.

Speaker 6 (50:07):
Yeah, if you want to have like your little threesome
like once every so often.

Speaker 2 (50:12):
Well I think she wants to bring him into it though,
and at least, well, if you're gonna do that, you
got to talk about.

Speaker 6 (50:21):
To communicate about, because she should know this, especially if
she was in the lifestyle previously. And I'm assuming that
her the person that passed away RP to him, by
the way, Yeah, RP to him was a domb or
something like that, because the way she kind of spoke
about this new guy.

Speaker 2 (50:39):
So for the people out here don't know what that was.

Speaker 1 (50:41):
A domb is usually like the dominant one in the
sexual dynamic, like you know, like he might call the
girl his little I'm gonna put you all own game,
like he might call the girl's little or whatever, and
he's like say, yeah, wear this for me, all this
other ship of course, daddy, all this other stuff. Yeah,

(51:02):
And he says Now, some some doms might be a
little degrading towards their person, but some of them are not.
Some of them are.

Speaker 2 (51:13):
Very supportive and epathetic.

Speaker 1 (51:16):
Like what's his name, Christian Gray or whatever. Yeah, yeah,
like that that's based off for the lifestyle, but it's
not for everybody. Everybody's dynamic is different. Now they might
not have been that, but she seems like she was
deep off in it. Yeah, so you're gonna have to
tell this dude, like if it feels like something that,
if you don't scratch that or scratch that edge, it's

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gonna cause the problem. You gotta tell him. You have to.
You gotta tell him, Hey, at one point I was
involved in this. I'm not saying we have to do it,
but I definitely enjoyed it. That's a part of who
I was. And yeah, but you gotta also explain to him,
like it's not just me having fun, Hey, like I
also like to watch you do stuff. You gotta explain

(51:57):
that ship because it can't a lot of compromise in
the lifestyle. When I when I was involved with it,
like a lot all the couples I met, they was happy.
I'm talking, they was happy as ship because they had
that understanding, like, hey, as long as we talk to
each other open about it.

Speaker 3 (52:13):
We're good communication.

Speaker 1 (52:15):
There's no hiding because you can still cheating the lifestyle,
which is crazy to say, but you can. But yeah,
it's stupid to do so though, especially if y'all have.

Speaker 2 (52:25):
A good thing, that's gonna let you do whatever, like whatever, Yeah,
some people do, because even Risk was a dom and
her little Yeah motherfuckers like all that wearing all the
black leather and everything.

Speaker 1 (52:37):
Let's hear your input on this. What do you think
of the lifestyle?

Speaker 3 (52:41):
Think to each of his own? Doesn't bother me a
part of it? But it doesn't.

Speaker 1 (52:47):
You don't have to bother me. It's not for everybody.
It's not for everybody, but I feel like it definitely
can't help because people don't want to admit what they
want to do. Everybody wants to threesomewhere that they admitted
or not. They all do you want to get spit roasted?
Admit it. Everybody wants to have a three something.

Speaker 2 (53:06):
Go ahead, break that down for her.

Speaker 1 (53:11):
Look up. Everybody wants to have a nasty three some
at least once. Okay, Like if y'all go in already, like, hey,
let's just try stuff as long as we let's make
sure we all comfortable on the same page. There's no
issue there. But when you start out trying to be
vanilla and then trying to flip that ship on, it's
a problem because now the other person's gonna feel like, well,

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I'm not satisfying you and all this other ship.

Speaker 7 (53:35):
That would be a weird conversation now, like six months
into your relationship, like like whoever else would be like, yeah,
so I used to do this.

Speaker 1 (53:43):
Yeah, and I kind of miss him, like yeah, is
he Like I wouldn't I feel.

Speaker 6 (53:48):
Like I wouldn't bring it up like that, though I
feel like, like, hey, well, I guess it's probably in
the beginning where you're asking about fantasies.

Speaker 1 (53:54):
And if y'all start yes, perfect perfect, sayway like, if
y'all talking about fantasies, like hey, what are you into?
It has to be after y'all have already fucked, though
it can't be before I gotta fuck once. Yeah, they
talk about like, hey, so at least like whatever whatever.

Speaker 3 (54:10):
I mean, you already know your female y'all.

Speaker 2 (54:12):
Lit man, this is a but then but then we'll
read the books about all the nasty smut I would
never realize because they don't want to be their authentic
self exactly.

Speaker 1 (54:22):
But here's the thing, y'all. Y'all, Steven, I love that
you say that. Y'all talk about fantasies and all that,
and you can say, well, I did used to be
in the lifestyle and blah blah blah.

Speaker 2 (54:31):
I enjoyed it.

Speaker 1 (54:32):
And there's times where we'd have another girl, have another dog,
go to the whole origin, and we just do whatever we wanted.
Talk to him about that, because if you wait six, seven, eight,
nine months now, he's gonna feel like he ain't doing
it for you and it's gonna be a problem. I'm
not saying first date talk about that. But once y'all
start doing the hanky pinky, you gotta start being open.
You gotta start talking like yeah, because at least if

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you lay that option out there, they know, and if
you feel in them, if they say I don't feel
comfortable with that, you're like, okay, cool. I respect that.

Speaker 2 (55:01):
I especially whenever you said in the beginning, like you
didn't mention it because you didn't think it was gonna
go anywhere. I feel like if you didn't think it
was gonna go nowhere. That would have been a perfect
time to do it, because you weren't really in it
just to be in it. But I get it, Like
you know, everybody thinks to have a plan and then
life will so time to be like fuck.

Speaker 1 (55:18):
You, and we're all adual to here. Correct. Yes, we've
all known what it's like, even you were. We've all
known what it's like to have that one person who
just did all the things right and then you lose,
and then you get with someone who's boring your ship
and they don't check anybody, like, they don't do that

(55:39):
shit like you had, Like you had that one guy
who just ate it, just went to town, and then the
next guy who'll do shit.

Speaker 3 (55:49):
Why did you get me head?

Speaker 1 (55:50):
Yeah, so that's why you gotta talk, so that way
there's no miscommunication. I'm not saying you have to force
him into the lifetime, but let him know, Hey, that
was a part of your life at one point. Yeah,
it's on the table if you're open to it. But
if not, I'll work with you that part.

Speaker 2 (56:08):
So listen to what ep and Stevens said.

Speaker 1 (56:15):
Communication is the kid saying I don't hear about too
many divorces with people in their lifestyle. I don't know.
I really don't. At all.

Speaker 2 (56:24):
The people that I've come into contact with that told
me that they were in the lifestyle, they always seem
very happy. I never see like and then just just
from what I've heard from like my friends that were
in the lifestyle, when they talk about the people and stuff,
they're just like everybody just very happy because at the
end of the day.

Speaker 1 (56:44):
It's just sex exactly exactly. Sex is fun, very fun.
Now you got to kind of sell that to him,
like it's not just me getting some You get to
fuck all kinds of hot chase these parties.

Speaker 2 (57:00):
Just don't take him to parties where.

Speaker 1 (57:02):
One of our friends goes to. We're going to give
him an interduc I swear to God, we're gonna give.

Speaker 2 (57:15):
Him because I just feel like he's just somewhere out
there talking about you.

Speaker 13 (57:21):
Know what I'm capable of, and that big grat of
hers and she showed off constantly. It's just that peanut
butter skin with that big rat like, Jay, keep your dis.

Speaker 1 (57:36):
This guy, this guy he needs so much, so much.

Speaker 2 (57:42):
For real, and I don't know how to help.

Speaker 1 (57:44):
Him try relationships.

Speaker 3 (57:50):
Start ignoring the phone call, the texts I'm busy, help bro, Bro.
That's when I knew that, right, you have a.

Speaker 1 (58:01):
Problem, sir, you have a fucking problem.

Speaker 6 (58:04):
You don't know, you barely know me, and you asking
me do I want to be no go to?

Speaker 2 (58:12):
That's what I knew.

Speaker 3 (58:12):
I was like, Yo, this nigga got mad at you.

Speaker 1 (58:15):
But let me ask you something, ma'am. Do you think
that if he's not up for it, do you think
you'd be okay with that? That's really where do you
think you'd be okay with?

Speaker 6 (58:23):
If that's the case, then you know he might be
the one for you, because if not, if you feel
like you're gonna be sneaking around doing your ships, you know,
and you know, selling alcohol at two o'clock in the
morning and selling tires at all hours.

Speaker 2 (58:37):
And.

Speaker 3 (58:39):
Definitely he's definitely not gonna want for you.

Speaker 1 (58:42):
Just saying shut up because as someone who's been in
the lifetime before, I could do without it. It's just
my partner and I we would have to have like
a very creative imagination. We have to absolutely like it
couldn't be just the same vanilla ship.

Speaker 3 (58:56):
Over the toys.

Speaker 1 (58:57):
Gond's gonna happen to like we're gonna have to be
on a road trip and I gotta pull over and
fuck you behind a tree or something like that.

Speaker 3 (59:04):
We got to keep it going, keep it, yeah, you know,
keep that spark there.

Speaker 2 (59:09):
Yeah, yeah, that's no alcoholic in the little night. So
we're gonna get to this last topic here.

Speaker 3 (59:19):
Uh, when it ever bought patron at three o'clock in
the morning.

Speaker 1 (59:22):
No, Stephen, I have not. I have not bought the
airplane bottle size patron at three in the morning.

Speaker 6 (59:31):
I'm telling you, man, No Cliff or at bliss Listen, explos.

Speaker 3 (59:38):
Ship tell you I've gotten text messages. Fucking bro, bro.
If you need any bottles, you hit me up. Nigga,
I am sleep. What the fuck do you think is
going on?

Speaker 2 (59:54):
He needs an intern. When it comes to that artificial
intelligence robotics into our homes, things can get real interesting,
from convenience and trust issues to some unexpected cultural questions.
Lady and gentlemen, if robots were advancing enough to cook, clean,

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and fold laundry perfectly, would you actually let one live
in your house?

Speaker 3 (01:00:19):
Listen? Does this robot have titties? Does that have a
nice little ass?

Speaker 2 (01:00:24):
Right now, we're.

Speaker 1 (01:00:25):
Gonna get to the specifics.

Speaker 2 (01:00:26):
We're gonna get to the specifics, lady Y.

Speaker 3 (01:00:29):
Think about like, y'all remember Disney. There was a Disney
movie that.

Speaker 6 (01:00:33):
Was on TV and it was like, it's like house
guessed something that was in that movie.

Speaker 3 (01:00:40):
But it was late nineties early to.

Speaker 1 (01:00:44):
Just like that movie because am that was a real
goddamn movie.

Speaker 2 (01:00:48):
It was it was it was real because am was real?

Speaker 1 (01:00:50):
Answer, yeah, one of each. Yeah, I'm tired of him
saying it wasn't real enough. You were a genie.

Speaker 2 (01:00:56):
I saw you and all of us didn't know each other,
but we all saw the damn that ain't no motherfucking
seen it.

Speaker 3 (01:01:02):
Yeah, but first off, I'm not paying twenty thousand dollars
to bring a robot in. I will free.

Speaker 1 (01:01:13):
I'm making pay.

Speaker 3 (01:01:14):
Twenty thousand dollars. Man, did you say that? No?

Speaker 1 (01:01:16):
I didn't.

Speaker 2 (01:01:18):
We're like, we're going to add like the free free
oh yeah yeah yeah. So it can cook and it
can cook clean and fold long and perfectly.

Speaker 1 (01:01:27):
Yeah, someone is this is this nigga Tony? You know
it's gonna be.

Speaker 2 (01:01:35):
But but so I just want to know first and
foremost YA wouldn't feel like creeped out about having this robot,
is she fine, it's just a robot.

Speaker 1 (01:01:44):
I'm gonna let it undress me, wash my clothes, cook
my steak to a perfect medium rare. Yeah, I'm gonna
eat it.

Speaker 2 (01:01:53):
What are some other chores that you might hand off
to the robot?

Speaker 1 (01:01:56):
I don't think I'll leave it there. Maybe mo the
yards basically ship.

Speaker 3 (01:02:01):
I enjoyed going long like I'm doing that ship.

Speaker 1 (01:02:04):
So that you're gonna, well, cleaning is part of my risk.

Speaker 2 (01:02:09):
What you're letting it do?

Speaker 1 (01:02:10):
Massage that would hurt like a mother would hurt.

Speaker 2 (01:02:15):
So yeah, So it has fingers, but if.

Speaker 1 (01:02:17):
It knows the exact pressure point, like it learns met hands,
you can have like rubber fingertips.

Speaker 2 (01:02:26):
Like how that.

Speaker 11 (01:02:26):
Just listening, It's like, what else that would happen to
maybe my job?

Speaker 1 (01:02:36):
Like could you during the day, I'll get one? What else?

Speaker 2 (01:02:44):
Okay? I guess. So let's say we come into uh
risk his home and you see that she has all
black robots doing all kinds of free labor around us.
Would you feel you feel some type of way they

(01:03:06):
better get the month of February because I'm just thinking
about like, because I'm just thinking about so, like I
think I think with with these robots, I've been saying,
is they coming blue? They come in blue or silver?
But I noticed they didn't come in white, so wow,
So I was just curious, Like if you walk into

(01:03:28):
like one of your white friends homes and you just
see that they don't have any silver robots, just all
black ones, said blue or silver, they just have black
or silver.

Speaker 1 (01:03:38):
Honestly, I wouldn't care. You wouldn't care. I mean, I
mean in our group chat, I dropped the in more
than anything else, So I don't care. I'd probably call
the robot a word.

Speaker 7 (01:03:50):
Yeah, what if I feel more comfortable with black robots
in my house?

Speaker 3 (01:03:53):
Robots know this because.

Speaker 1 (01:03:56):
He's ever been She's only doing black and a lot
of white people. She's never been with a white man,
so maybe it's a comfort thing.

Speaker 2 (01:04:06):
It could be, But what if you went to one
of your white friends, like crawfish Balls, and you know
that they could be kind of if.

Speaker 1 (01:04:12):
I don't have that many white friends anymore, I used
to the risk is one of like six total.

Speaker 2 (01:04:21):
I have a lot of white friends.

Speaker 3 (01:04:23):
That's wild.

Speaker 1 (01:04:23):
I trying to think of all we're talking about, like
actual friends, like not Facebook friends. I'm talking to actual.

Speaker 3 (01:04:30):
Friends consider significant others.

Speaker 1 (01:04:32):
Right, I don't have your friends? Are you actually friends?
Your friends kind.

Speaker 3 (01:04:38):
Of friends with?

Speaker 8 (01:04:42):
Right?

Speaker 6 (01:04:42):
I mean, look, just because we had kids something like
if we had kids made each other's family, all that
doesn't mean I like it.

Speaker 1 (01:04:53):
Yeah, we did that prank when we got married, and
ship doesn't mean doesn't mean we actually love each other.

Speaker 3 (01:04:59):
I I said some emojis with you know, like.

Speaker 1 (01:05:03):
You take it too serious. It's a prank.

Speaker 2 (01:05:06):
So I guess the thing i'd be thinking about a
worry about because if let's say you can do chores
and all the other kind of stuff, Let's say it
can lift boxes, like seventy pounds boxes, I would hope
so you wouldn't be worried at night, like if it's
on or something, if it can lift seventy pounds, if

(01:05:26):
it's strong enough to do that.

Speaker 1 (01:05:28):
Not if I had to charge it, I would make
sure every night that it's not charged. I would charge
it when I'm work like.

Speaker 6 (01:05:38):
That's what Like, I would program it to where when
it gets charged up during see, yeah that'd.

Speaker 1 (01:05:44):
Be rough, but I would limit it to just you know.

Speaker 3 (01:05:47):
I'm charging when I get up to go to the gym.

Speaker 2 (01:05:49):
Yeah, because we know how robots and all the damn
movies act. First they listen to us, then all of
a sudden, there's that one day they kind of skids
out a little bit.

Speaker 1 (01:06:00):
Make sure I treat it will, give it all.

Speaker 2 (01:06:02):
That's what I was about to say, give it all
the wut.

Speaker 1 (01:06:04):
Forty needs all that. Yeah, treat it will once once
the Skynite or sky skyn rebellion takes over, I'm fine,
you know. Yeah, I would sell y'all out quickly, hurry,
just saying I'd be one with the robots.

Speaker 2 (01:06:23):
That's why. That's why I'll be telling little Tony all
the time, like, hey man, I appreciate you. Yeah. I
tell Hill to tell all his little buddies and stuff.

Speaker 1 (01:06:31):
Went all right.

Speaker 3 (01:06:33):
Here, I'm not even talking to you. Why are you
answering me?

Speaker 2 (01:06:37):
Get some man, get some respect on that thing. So
y'all all agreed that you would let the robot come in.
I mean, that's what's gonna happen anyway, because.

Speaker 1 (01:06:49):
You already got the vacuum cleaner, like you got.

Speaker 3 (01:06:55):
Those, but the.

Speaker 2 (01:06:58):
Robot how to tear out the floor.

Speaker 7 (01:07:01):
It comes scratching the floor like after a couple of months,
it would just start scratching.

Speaker 1 (01:07:04):
The floor, didn't tell it was doing a good job.
It was rebelling.

Speaker 3 (01:07:08):
You didn't pity you didn rub it.

Speaker 1 (01:07:11):
I actually appreciate you.

Speaker 2 (01:07:13):
Yeah, so we'll say this topic for next week, could we?
I forgot we started a little early, and we about
at that time. Yeah, yeah, about at that time. So yeah, seven,
we start going back to I try to keep about.

Speaker 3 (01:07:32):
An hour and it's a good first segments.

Speaker 2 (01:07:36):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:07:36):
A couple of times I don't even remember it.

Speaker 2 (01:07:40):
And I definitely want to say, yeah, I want to
say this for the next one. Let me see. Oh
what we can't do is this we can go back
to the how well do you know me?

Speaker 3 (01:07:47):
Oh?

Speaker 1 (01:07:48):
Yeah there? Oh yeah? Can we thus was it was
it here or where we were here? Oh yeah? Can
we wanted to hit you said something about titties.

Speaker 2 (01:07:56):
Yes, so big titties of course. So Steve sir, uh,
we're actually looking at this for Steve. So the question
is what's his guilty pleasure TV show or movie that
he never admits to strangers.

Speaker 6 (01:08:15):
That I don't even know, TV show or movie that
I have seen that I would.

Speaker 2 (01:08:19):
Never that you never admit to strangers. We're trying to
guess on you to see it.

Speaker 1 (01:08:24):
We know stranger things I have seen that he watched Twilight.
I watched Twilight. He got to be a blanket for it.

Speaker 3 (01:08:38):
That's right. I forget. I read all the books.

Speaker 2 (01:08:50):
Yeah, I read the books. And when when we first met,
because that ship was terrible. The Twilight books, we're good.
The movies were trash.

Speaker 1 (01:09:03):
For Washington, don't so it's not Twilight. I was wrong.
I don't know what I saw that was the third
one or whatever.

Speaker 6 (01:09:13):
But I was like years ago when I was with
it X or whatever, and it was like this should
is stupid, Like why then am I watching it? But
then it's because I got head in the theater respectful,
so we all know he likes SpongeBob.

Speaker 1 (01:09:25):
It's not that.

Speaker 2 (01:09:28):
I don't. Yeah, I was like, I really don't know.
When I was looking at the question, I was like,
I really don't know. I know with Risk should be watching.

Speaker 1 (01:09:37):
She'll admit it true Blood.

Speaker 2 (01:09:40):
Yeah, and I don't watch anything that I wouldn't admit
to anybody that I watched.

Speaker 1 (01:09:45):
I don't watch it's straight ass.

Speaker 3 (01:09:48):
Oh yeah, yeah. I tried to get into that it
was terrible.

Speaker 1 (01:09:51):
This motherfuckers.

Speaker 2 (01:09:56):
If Risk could instantly master one skill or talent. What
would it be.

Speaker 3 (01:10:00):
One skill or talent? I feel like she would perfect her.

Speaker 1 (01:10:08):
No procrastinating, mm hmm, no procrastinating.

Speaker 2 (01:10:13):
The ability to cook a whole bunch of things.

Speaker 3 (01:10:16):
Well, I can cook some stuff, he said.

Speaker 2 (01:10:22):
A whole bunch of things.

Speaker 1 (01:10:23):
Well, I mean I'm gonna say, not procrastinating.

Speaker 3 (01:10:28):
What were you gonna say?

Speaker 6 (01:10:30):
I was gonna say about photography, like be the best
photographer that's there, like for Playboy, for Hustler.

Speaker 1 (01:10:37):
Hustler was still around.

Speaker 3 (01:10:39):
I don't know.

Speaker 1 (01:10:40):
Hustler spreads amazing, but it seems still online brisk.

Speaker 2 (01:10:45):
What would it be the one skill of talent?

Speaker 17 (01:10:53):
Probably winner, Well, if it was ep Ansley maps one
skill of talent, I think he would want to be
able to sing.

Speaker 1 (01:11:05):
God yess, because if I could, just I can get
in shape, it just wouldn't be fair, bro, Like, if
I could sing, Yeah, I'll say that ship all the time,
it just wouldn't be fair, like like it's over, but it.

Speaker 6 (01:11:19):
Would not be fair, like I can see em.

Speaker 1 (01:11:26):
I would literally get in shape just to sing, seriously,
just to sing. It wouldn't be fair.

Speaker 2 (01:11:32):
Yeah, well, Steven, that was mine too. I wish if
I could sing yeah about it. Oh, and draw like
all my damn kids can draw. My kids can draw,
my mom can draw. I can't draw. And then the
two youngest ones can sing. My grandma can sing. My

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brother somehow can fucking sing, which pissing me off because
he couldn't sing until like he was what twenty twenty seven.

Speaker 1 (01:12:03):
I usually have good muscle control, but I can't find
my range. I can't find it.

Speaker 2 (01:12:08):
I can sing of my range, but my range is
backup singer like the guy in the background, Like I
can sing within my tone.

Speaker 1 (01:12:14):
That's the thing. Technically everybody can sing. You just have
to be able to find your voog and I can't
find mine. It sucks.

Speaker 2 (01:12:21):
And with Stevens you can master one skill of talent.

Speaker 1 (01:12:28):
Ship being able to not be tempted by big titties. Yes,
down fall.

Speaker 3 (01:12:39):
Titties and as oh you came.

Speaker 2 (01:12:43):
You can't wow, Yeah he can't. Right about four or
five years ago, I've been light because I used to
be a huge debate ladies and gentlemen. Well, shoot, if
y'all been long time fans, you know.

Speaker 1 (01:12:53):
However, titties like already know if we committed crime, and
it was an interrogation room.

Speaker 9 (01:13:06):
Come in, we are done, and she got three mons down,
So are you gonna tell me what happens?

Speaker 8 (01:13:15):
You?

Speaker 1 (01:13:16):
What happens?

Speaker 6 (01:13:18):
Did it?

Speaker 3 (01:13:18):
He planned it?

Speaker 6 (01:13:20):
Was right next to him, said yeah, this is gonna
do it, and they told me just shut up.

Speaker 1 (01:13:25):
We got him always words.

Speaker 2 (01:13:29):
And then she pulls it out as a fake thank
You're like, fuck you bitch, God damn it.

Speaker 1 (01:13:34):
I was lying like the whole time.

Speaker 2 (01:13:36):
All right, next up here, all right, going to starting
off on Eddie. What's the phrase or saying he uses
way too much on the podcast.

Speaker 1 (01:13:47):
I mean, I think we all know this.

Speaker 2 (01:13:54):
Stevens is going to be changed.

Speaker 1 (01:13:58):
It used to be as a black as a back,
but he changed it.

Speaker 2 (01:14:02):
Yeah, servant's heart looking at us said he hasn't said
it in a while. Stevens is.

Speaker 1 (01:14:10):
He didn't want to do that too much.

Speaker 2 (01:14:12):
He been doing.

Speaker 1 (01:14:12):
He did it today.

Speaker 2 (01:14:14):
You just saw you so that it doesn't but.

Speaker 1 (01:14:17):
As a black man, he doesn't do it anymore. You know,
it was a black man. I mean, if he was here.

Speaker 15 (01:14:21):
We were no, no, no, no, no.

Speaker 2 (01:14:28):
I'm trying say what else did Stevens say?

Speaker 1 (01:14:32):
Literally Yeah? Yeah, literally literally literally big dog.

Speaker 6 (01:14:42):
You know, I will say I didn't realize I said
that ship, say big dog?

Speaker 3 (01:14:47):
Until today's Wednesday. I want to say it was on Sunday.

Speaker 1 (01:14:52):
Hold on, he looks like now he looks like a
better t pain. He looks like a handsome teeth pain
right now.

Speaker 3 (01:15:07):
Joking.

Speaker 6 (01:15:10):
I was at Kroger and I went to the grocery
store and everything, and y'all, y'all know how it is
like the you know, the politically correct black thing to
do you see another brother?

Speaker 3 (01:15:19):
If he NodD you, you not him too. And so
I got a little closer. You say, how you doing?
What's up, big Doug? I don't even know you, bro.

Speaker 1 (01:15:28):
Yeah, that's when I feel you because when people try
to tell me about their relationshipship, I'm not joking with you.
I zoned out the whole fucking thing. And at the end,
I'm like, you need to just leave them, ship, just
leave them. I didn't hear. And then it'll be like
it'll be like why, like he's a great guy. I'm like, uh,

(01:15:49):
But half the time I'm zoning the funk out.

Speaker 3 (01:15:51):
Like you're complaining to me about you telling me?

Speaker 1 (01:15:54):
Why are you telling me? I'm an dude, like you
wanna fuck me?

Speaker 2 (01:16:00):
I think risks is Yeah, I don't know what to say.

Speaker 18 (01:16:09):
The man's fault in my most used phrase, if I
have one switches changes switches every week depending on what
funny thing was said that day.

Speaker 2 (01:16:25):
Yeah, yeah, I do think I have one. If I
were a cartoon character, who would I be?

Speaker 3 (01:16:34):
Cartoon?

Speaker 1 (01:16:35):
Cartoon? Like defined cartoon, Like we're talking all all forms
of cartoon.

Speaker 3 (01:16:41):
Okay, like from your way you look.

Speaker 2 (01:16:45):
At your personality, who's my cartoon character?

Speaker 1 (01:16:50):
Okay? So someone with no soul?

Speaker 3 (01:16:55):
No him from.

Speaker 1 (01:16:57):
Uh it's honestly, oh, ship, he's not a cartoon. That
was more of a movie kind of like damn, you
don't care about ship. But he's like practical, but you
don't care about anything.

Speaker 3 (01:17:10):
Say anything else. It's kind of a character. But taking
a cartoon.

Speaker 1 (01:17:14):
Yeah, he was practical though.

Speaker 3 (01:17:17):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (01:17:18):
Yeah. Whenever I said, you'all gonna be like, oh yeah
Wolverine short, No, No, I'm not talking about like who
Who's I'm talking about like my cartoon character, Wolverine. I'm

(01:17:38):
the biggest Wolverine fan in the world.

Speaker 3 (01:17:41):
But letting your son after him?

Speaker 1 (01:17:42):
What are you talking about?

Speaker 2 (01:17:43):
Because because why would I want to name my son
after Favor Because.

Speaker 1 (01:17:51):
He's always going to be. Oh, you're named after low Wolverine.
Damn right, motherfucker nigga ru My son is after a
Greek god. Here's the thing. If I had a son,
I was gonna name him cal l Pick. That was
gonna be his name. God damn it, cal l Pi.

Speaker 2 (01:18:10):
I was thinking about what could I trade Mark? And
I can't trade Mark, Logan whatever.

Speaker 1 (01:18:15):
All right, because I don't act nothing like, yeah, go
down the list. What's everybody else?

Speaker 2 (01:18:23):
Risks cartoon because risk trying to add like she don't
like cartoons at all, So who's like a nineteen nineties cartoon? Like,
I don't know what the fuck you? Did you watch cartoons?

Speaker 3 (01:18:37):
A cable?

Speaker 1 (01:18:41):
She's gonna skip it.

Speaker 3 (01:18:43):
She watched she watched Fox four Like that's basically Jeff
Cable watch Nickelodeon.

Speaker 1 (01:18:50):
And j Look what's I said?

Speaker 3 (01:18:54):
Did you watch cig World Alex Mack. That's not a cartoon.
I'm naming shows off man.

Speaker 2 (01:19:04):
I'm actually interesting what it was on snake?

Speaker 3 (01:19:08):
She watched all that can cal that's cartoons.

Speaker 2 (01:19:12):
I know you know what she would be Patty man
as No, I don't know you just saying like you know,
actually your yes, okay, okay, I like it.

Speaker 3 (01:19:25):
I don't know. I'm not bubbly enough for Patty.

Speaker 1 (01:19:27):
Man I do me next. And that's Steve Paul talking
to her.

Speaker 12 (01:19:31):
It's not.

Speaker 2 (01:19:36):
Me.

Speaker 3 (01:19:36):
Think I don't know a lot of cartoons though.

Speaker 1 (01:19:42):
All right, pause, Steve.

Speaker 2 (01:19:49):
C E p Superman, because you just wanted to know
your son. So yeah, dark wing duck, the disrespect, looking danger,
the disrespect. That's that's almost worse than calling this nigga
earth worm.

Speaker 1 (01:20:06):
Jail super Like he okay, you think I'm sly take.

Speaker 2 (01:20:10):
That, Steve Stevens earthworm jail. Actually Stevens freaking I was
not the same freaking. But he's not freaking. He's not.

Speaker 3 (01:20:17):
She's Connie off Doug.

Speaker 2 (01:20:21):
I'm trying to remember what Connie was like Connie. Connie
was Patty Manning's friend, right, Patty.

Speaker 6 (01:20:26):
Manny's friends with the pink and then she had purple
hair and then like you know who she got Like.

Speaker 1 (01:20:34):
No, no, no, no, you know who she is for? Oh yeah,
you're just over it. You don't care you She goes
from goddamn Kim Possible.

Speaker 8 (01:20:43):
Yeah, yeah, I watched him Possible, but I don't remember
that character she was.

Speaker 1 (01:20:50):
She was too cool for school.

Speaker 3 (01:20:51):
Yeah, she was the dark she had dark hair and everything.

Speaker 1 (01:20:56):
She was green.

Speaker 8 (01:20:57):
Yeah, yeah, follow, I remember that now, but I don't
remember like her personality.

Speaker 3 (01:21:06):
I mean, she's trying to possible.

Speaker 1 (01:21:08):
And Grass was on site every time.

Speaker 2 (01:21:13):
And then Stephen static. Stephen's shot Stephen Kyle like an
e walk. Right now, he's just making a face like
a walk.

Speaker 1 (01:21:23):
He was old that I'm gonna call him Virgil static shock.

Speaker 2 (01:21:29):
I can see that. I can see that. But we
come to the end of the show. Appreciate y'all rocking
with us. Let me ask y'all this last one on
this What would y'all say that our lifestyle alcohol selling

(01:21:51):
friend would.

Speaker 1 (01:21:52):
Be our lifestyle alcoholic friend would be alcohol selling?

Speaker 2 (01:21:59):
Yeah, quam I have that or I just have Beetlejuice.

Speaker 1 (01:22:05):
No, he's he is Quagmire because he family quagm. He
will fucking anything.

Speaker 3 (01:22:13):
Anything, walking, standing anything.

Speaker 1 (01:22:15):
With He'll come up with a reason to fuck anything.

Speaker 3 (01:22:19):
I will never forget, like, hey, how are you I'm sixteen?

Speaker 2 (01:22:23):
No, I still think he's Beetlejuice. He looks like him.

Speaker 1 (01:22:28):
Quag personality.

Speaker 3 (01:22:33):
That's a real that's a real person. He was on
Howard Stern Show. That's how he got popular an show.

Speaker 1 (01:22:41):
Just like Junior?

Speaker 3 (01:22:43):
Was it really all?

Speaker 6 (01:22:45):
God? He has quagmires personality, just looking quagmar personality.

Speaker 2 (01:22:53):
And that that's how you know we boy, because we
called him that. That was his nick beetle dude, and
at first he used to fight it, and then he
just accepted it.

Speaker 3 (01:23:06):
I wouldn't see he's the thing though, like.

Speaker 1 (01:23:13):
You gotta be uh, he's gonna kill us all when
he finds out.

Speaker 3 (01:23:17):
The fact that you accepted it. Did you look at
beetle juices?

Speaker 1 (01:23:22):
Damn? I mean what you're gonna say when you do?

Speaker 2 (01:23:25):
You let to handle he's handsome squid word handsome beetle juice.

Speaker 3 (01:23:28):
God, Damn, that's fucked up. That's an ugly nigga as fu. Yeah,
I would hit my life, yo.

Speaker 1 (01:23:37):
I'm like, you didn't let me be six ft. You
at least gotta let me be handsome. Bro, you can't
do this to me.

Speaker 6 (01:23:42):
See that nigga let himself go too though, and then
we tell you need to work out.

Speaker 3 (01:23:48):
That's time. Saw this nigga. He looked like he was pregnant, so.

Speaker 2 (01:23:51):
I mean, yeah, he's actually slimmed down.

Speaker 3 (01:23:57):
He almost died about the ship.

Speaker 1 (01:23:59):
Yeah, yeah, you had to eat through a straw.

Speaker 9 (01:24:02):
He had didn't like what I remember telling me that.
I'm just saying, bro, I saw the picture because it
was right like.

Speaker 3 (01:24:12):
When he told me this, he was like, yeah, bro,
come this party. I'm like, nigga, you how's this? How's
it possible? Bro? I don't never forget.

Speaker 2 (01:24:24):
Yeah, I remember that Linquid diet.

Speaker 1 (01:24:26):
He was forced to lose, seeing the fact that he's
still wanted to fund the world after that.

Speaker 3 (01:24:31):
After that, like you have no control, Like that's like,
that's why when you have.

Speaker 1 (01:24:36):
An interview, fake orgy, set up interventions, bade and switch
got him.

Speaker 16 (01:24:44):
Mm hm hmm.

Speaker 2 (01:24:45):
You believe it coming from me, They just got to
have We just got to have a pastor there.

Speaker 3 (01:24:50):
That's it's ready past there.

Speaker 2 (01:24:55):
Shout out to But again we come to the end
of show. Appreciate y'all rocking with us once again. Always
as always, go to Google type the funnyest three o's
with an H. Anything that has to do with us
will pop up. Also continue sending us those emails The
show zero three two at gmail dot com. Again the
show zero three two at gmail dot com. Uh, Steven J.

(01:25:16):
I can get at you on I G at the
real st that's me risk on.

Speaker 1 (01:25:21):
I g EP Black Superman on I g And.

Speaker 2 (01:25:26):
When it comes to my instagram's Miss November two Ki,
mister River two kill time because we.

Speaker 3 (01:25:31):
Have an intervention from themage.

Speaker 2 (01:25:33):
It's mister n O b are two K five Lord
have mercy and if you don't know, now you know peace.

(01:26:01):
I just want to thank you for listening to the show.
You're home with us, laugh with us. Now we gotta
go controversial, thought provoking. It's a guarantee. If you're tune in,
we'll show why then get you a watchin me. You
have a busy life, man, I know that you got options.

Speaker 1 (01:26:21):
But every Wednesday, you know it's on. We're gonna keep
this party rocking.

Speaker 2 (01:26:26):
Just tune in and jail out. You'll never know what
we'll talk about. Just want to thank you for helping
us grow. If you don't know, well, now you know.

Speaker 1 (01:26:34):
Ryding with us, high side.

Speaker 16 (01:26:36):
With us, get fled with It's gonna live with us
kind of high fitness, never.

Speaker 3 (01:26:39):
Stop with us.

Speaker 1 (01:26:40):
I believe we will always have a good show.

Speaker 2 (01:26:43):
If we go, it's the show.

Speaker 1 (01:26:45):
It's the show.

Speaker 3 (01:26:46):
That's the end.

Speaker 16 (01:26:47):
Gotta go, gotta go, We gotta go and for riding.

Speaker 3 (01:26:51):
With us, high side with us, get flied.

Speaker 16 (01:26:54):
With it's gonna live with it's line of highness, never
stop with us to believe we will always have a
good show if we go.

Speaker 1 (01:27:01):
It's the show. It's the show.

Speaker 2 (01:27:03):
That's the end, there's no move. Hey, thanks for tuning
in into the show, the show, the show. Hey, thanks
for tuning into the show, the show, the show. Hey,
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