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October 20, 2025 31 mins
Episode 128 Step-4 "Revised" Taking off the Armor
Positive Connections Radio (Podcast)
HALT and Call for Backup
Coast to Coast with Mike Koch and Jim McLintock

Summary
In this 12-Step Podcast Series, Mike Koch and Jim McLintock dive deep into Step Four of the secular version of the 12 steps, focusing on the importance of taking an honest look at oneself. They discuss the challenges many face when confronting their past, the emotional honesty required, and the significance of support systems like sponsors and therapists. The dialogue emphasizes the need for self-reflection, accountability, and the tools that can aid in this process, such as journaling and open communication. Ultimately, the conversation highlights that recovery is a personal journey that requires courage and commitment.

Takeaways

Step Four is about taking an honest look at ourselves.
Many struggle with Step Four due to emotional honesty.
Self-reflection is crucial for personal growth.
Support from sponsors and therapists is invaluable.
Resentments can hinder recovery and personal growth.
Writing down thoughts can aid in self-inventory.
Understanding our past helps shape our present actions.
Communication with loved ones is essential during recovery.
Recovery is a personal journey, not a competition.
Progress is more important than perfection.

Chapters

00:00 Step Four: Honest Self-Reflection
04:54 The Challenge of Facing Our Past
10:04 Taking Responsibility for Our Actions
15:26 The Importance of Self-Awareness
20:04 Tools for Effective Self-Inventory
23:05 Therapeutic Approaches to Recovery
29:05 Communication and Grace in Recovery

“Be Strong, Stand Up, Speak Your Truth, and Break the Stigma.”


Music by Rod Kim-Let’s Play Soundtrack

Firstresponderwellness.com
MentalHealthNewsRadionetwork.com
Positiveconnectionsradio.com
McLintockcounseling.com
http://www.youtube.com/@HALTandCallforBackup



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