Join Big Blend Radio for an intimate and insightful conversation with bestselling author, respected psychologist, and marital expert Bonnie Comfort. In this episode, Bonnie delves into her powerful new memoir, "Staying Married is the Hardest Part: A Memoir of Passion, Secrets, and Sacrifice" (She Writes Press, June 17, 2025).
Prepare for an unvarnished look at the complexities of marriage as Bonnie shares her personal journey and professional expertise. We explore the often-unspoken realities of expectations, communication challenges, and intimacy, and examine the profound impact of societal norms on personal relationships. From navigating trust and betrayal to the vital importance of self-discovery, Bonnie encourages an open dialogue about the triumphs and tribulations that define long-term commitment. This episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking a deeper understanding of love, partnership, and the courageous journey of staying married.
Learn more and get your copy of "Staying Married is the Hardest Part" at http://bonniecomfort.com
Chapter Notes: 00:00 – Introduction to Bonnie Comfort and Her Memoir 02:45 – The Realities of Marriage and Parenthood 05:37 – Disillusionment in Relationships: When Fantasy Meets Reality 08:00 – The Impact of Power Dynamics in Relationships 10:44 – Communication and Sexuality in Marriage: Breaking the Silence 13:35 – The Influence of Pornography on Relationships 16:24 – Navigating Consent and Boundaries: Essential Conversations 18:53 – The Challenges of Rebuilding Trust After Betrayal 21:42 – Expectations and Reality in Marriage: Bridging the Gap 24:20 – The Importance of Open Dialogue: Fostering True Connection 26:52 – Conclusion and Reflections on Marriage: A Journey of Growth
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