Ep. 385 - Thanksgiving preview, controversy in the entertainment world and more

The team's talking about the upcoming Thanksgiving holiday, multiple controversies in the entertainment world and more.

Episode Transcript

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This is the FCD podcast Network breakJa Boot Change at top DA. We
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the Outlaw. Welcome to the Outlaws. This is Darvey O to Kingpennmarrow alongside
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Instagram at the Outlaws Radio. Youcan probably tell by the sound of my
voice that I'm a little under theweather of being sick all week, but
I'm getting better. And this isthe last episode of the month because next
month, well next week rather,we'll be off for Thanksgiving and the break

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can't come at a more perfect timebecause I need a break. And I'm
sure everybody know how that feels.You know, you start getting close to
the end of the year, andyou know, you start feeling it a
little more, and you know itgets a little harder to get to the
finish line there, but you know, we almost there. We're gonna make

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it. We're gonna make it.Miss O'Malley, how are you? Uh?
You know what? Uh, I'mgood. You know life. I
mean, I don't know if I'vebeen kicking my butt as much as yours,
but I'm good. Yeah. Ijust been working, working, working,
and you know, real quick.Actually, I would like to say

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one thing I actually did not tellmy co neither neither of my co hosts.
That's not long after my little cousinpassed away within probably a week or
two. Uh, my uncle actuallywas diagnosed with stage four uh blood bone
and I forget the other one.He was uh uh stage four cancer and

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within days of him returning home,which was just recently a couple of days
ago, he passed away. SoI would like to send my love and
condolences to my aunt Carol. Soit has been it's been crazy. It's
been really crazy. Yeah, absolutely, man. Yeah, I'm sorry to

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hear that, and sem my condolencesto your family as always as well.
Man. That's uh, cancer isa B word, yes, yes,
yeah, yeah, So it kindof caught you know, caught you caught
him by surprise. Because he wasactually he was here for my cousin's memorial.

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He looked like he was up anddoing good, cracking jokes, you
know, and being him silly selfand then bam. Right, so you
know, you just you never knowwhat anybody's dealing with. Yeah, right,
absolutely, so sorry to hear that, Sorry to hear that. Macndolas
has thought some prayers and once againI say, f cancer, we have

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to be like a country that hasas much money as we have, that's
spend as much money on the researchas we do. There's no reason why
we shouldn't have a cure for cancerat this point. Yeah, you know
what, Darvi. Actually, whatI do want to say is with that,

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you know what the doctors actually diagnosedhim with when he said he was
having complications, he didn't know whatwas going on. What they diagnosed him
with? What was it? Sinusinfection? Don't even get me started,
man. I had to and Itell this story real quick. I don't

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know if I've told this on theair before, but this was a few
years back and my dear mother hadsome uh some health issues and they had
it was a procedure that had wentwrong and my mother could have bled out.
It just so happened that I waslike, yo, we need to

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get you back to the hospital,and got her back to the hospital.
You know. The doctor a coupleof days later was like, you know,
it was a good thing your sondid what he did, because you
might not have made it if hedidn't, right. And the way that
they were this was this was likeat the beginning of COVID. COVID was
just starting, and you know,they were shutting every thing down, locking

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everything down. You couldn't get anyinformation. Nobody was telling me what was
going on. It was limits tohow much I could see my mother,
you know what I'm saying. AndI'm like, yo, I got a
problem with this. Y'all need tobe telling me what's going on. And
the doctors will be telling me,all right, we're gonna call you,
and they don't call me and allthis other stuff. And so I got

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to the point where, like mymother had called me once and she was
in a lot of pains, likeshe was delirious, and it infuriated me
to hear my mother in this levelof pain, right, So I called
back up there. She still talksabout this to this day. I called

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back up there right. And Idon't remember who it was that I talked
to, but I said, thedoctor said, they was gonna call me.
The doctor raint call me. Thisis like the third or fourth time,
blah blah blah blah. And Itold him, I said, let
me tell you something. I said, this is what I do for a
living. This is the industry onme in whatever whatever. I forget the
exact verbage, but there's one onepart of what I said that I remember

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exactly. I told him. Isaid, look, this is who I
am, this is what I do, et cetera, et cetera. If
some happened to my mother, Ipromise you, I'm gonna make you famous.
And guess what happened after that?They started treating my mother the way
that they should have been treated herin the first place. You know what,

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Barbiel, after you had told methat story. Actually, recently my
mom had to get foot surgery andshe's she's up there in age. I
won't say her age because she willkick my butt, but you know,
so she had to get surgery doneher ankle a couple of days ago,
and she had to be put,you know, to sleep for that,

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and immediately I'm like thinking exactly whatyou said to me about your mom's story,
Like you've just popped in my head, and I'm just like, Mom,
maybe you should just give me thedoctor's number so I can call them
ahead of time and let them knowthat you better wake up. So I
like was calling the hospital and I'mlike, I literally call the hospital.

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She didn't even want a surgery yet. I'm at work and I'm calling the
hospital. How my mom surgery go? Is she awake? It Like she
didn't even go into surgery yet,but you popped into my head once I
knew she was going in for anklesurgery. Yeah, hey man, sometimes

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you gotta like you know, especiallylike as you as you get older and
as your parents get older, alot of times you got to be your
parents' advocate, you know what I'msaying. And the unfortunate thing, the
truth is about the way the healthcaresystem operates sometimes is that you know,
they don't really take sometimes they don'ttake as much care as they should on

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people that they feel like there's noconsequence for doing them wrong. You know
what I'm saying. I saw theway that a local hospital here I won't
say their name, but but away a local hospital treated my grandmother who's
now deceased, and a lot ofus in the family believed that it didn't
have to be that way. Andwhen you when they think that they can

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do whatever they want to to you, especially if you don't have a lot
of money and all of that,you know what I mean, sometimes you
know they're not always giving you thebest standard of care. So I was
thank god, you know, whenmy mother went to the hospital, I
was in a point in my lifewhere I had a little juice, you

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know, and I got more nowthan I did then. But then you
know, it's like I got alittle juice and the other thing. I
told them to Robin, just tomake sure that they knew I wouldn't be
yessing that I wasn't bluffing. Isaid, you can google me. You
can type my name and you can'tperiod because around to find out you can

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look me up. You can googleme. And so my mother called me
not too long after I had thatconversation, right, and she was like,
what did you do right? AndI said what she said. The
nurse came in here, she waslike, can you please call your son?

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I can hear your mon too.That is so funny. But guess
what they straightened up and fly andwas flying right up in that piece.
They understood, don't nothing nothing betterhappened to this life. I mean because
they was doing they was doing stupidstuff. They had her, they put
her in and they put her ina room next to a COVID patient,

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all kind of stuff she didn't whenshe ain't had nothing of that. And
you know what I'm saying, Likewhen she came back, we both got
sick, and we we believed laterbecause you know what happened, right,
this was still early, so likewe were still learning about COVID. But
I mean, the doctors should haveshould have known more than we did.

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But when my mother came out ofthe hospital, it was a time like
me and her both got real sick, like real real sick. And because
I was looking out for you knowwhat I'm saying, when she when she
got out and we both got real, real sick. And we thought later
like after we heard the symptoms orwhatever, and everybody was real familiar with

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COVID. Me and my mother waslike, did we have COVID? Like
we might we might have COVID atthe very beginning because we got af she
got to the hospital, we gotreal, real sick, real sick.
But yeah, man, sometimes yougotta do that. Sometimes you got to
make sure. And even if you'renot in the like if you listening and
you're not in the media or whatever, and you you know you can't do
what I did, you still canbe active, you know what I mean.

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I recommend everybody, like be beactive. If you have older parents
that are dealing with issues, youknow what I'm saying, dealing with with
with the health care system and havingto interact with with doctors and hospitals and
all that, be active because that'sanother thing too, Like some hospitals,
some doctors, and it's the rollof the dice, because sometimes you'll get

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a doctor that's really really good,you know what I mean, But sometimes
you won't. And a lot oftimes if they feel like this patient,
that nobody cares about this patient,then they not gonna really show the amount,
you know what I mean, becauseain't nobody looking over them and they
don't an answer to So you gotto make sure whether you whether you're in

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the position to do what I didor not. You know, when your
parents are getting older, man,you gotta you gotta be their advocates,
you know sometimes and and make surethat these doctors and these nurses do what
they supposed to do. Period.So miss O'Malley, like I said earlier,

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Thanksgivings coming up. So what areyour plans? Do you have any
plans for the holiday? Do youwant to know my plans? What's your
plan working getting paid that over time? Are you? Are you a like,
do you participate in cooking the Thanksgivingdinner? Or you just show up?

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Sit down? Letsie? Ah,yeah, mostly show up? Yeah
yeah, oh yeah. See mysister was actually gonna have me participate in
cooking. But I'm like, girl, I'm about to come straight from work,
like I'm gonna be so tired.She's like, fine, all that
you pass this time. So whothat's I was just about to ask you,

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like, so, who's who normallycooks? So it's it's your sister
that does, my sister, mybrother, my other sister. Oh honestly,
everybody does a little bit of theirown thing. So yeah, and
I kind of usually, you know, sometimes not everybody kind of goes to
the same house, not really likewhat it used to be. But I

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mean, so I really bounced aroundfrom place to place throughout the day of
Thanksgiving. Yeah, so it's likeeverybody does their own thing. That's always
fun. That's always fun too.I forgot, Like when you said,
just sic, I forgot, it'slike forty seven of y'all. So it's
not forty seven that is so extreme. There's only five. She got like

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she got like fifty siblings, y'all. I was like, I was like,
damn that sister too. It dependson who we adopted, you know,
you know, we might have adoptedthem from the streets whatever, but
another spot. Yeah, so Iforgot. Yeah, I forgot. It's

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a lot of y'all. That's alwaysfun sometimes, Like there's been Thanksgivings that
I've had like that where you're bouncingfrom like house to house. You know
what I'm saying. You go kickit over here for a little bit,
kick it over there for a littlebit. That's always fun too. Yeah.
And actually, hey, have somebodythat is also bringing me some dinner
when I get off work, SoI'm gonna be getting that and then I

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will go try to give everybody atleast an hour when I get off.
Yes, you're gonna have enough you'regonna have like thanks You're gonna be eating
Thanksgiving dinner for a week. Ifit makes it that long, you got
like five plates. No, becauselisten, work be kicking my butt.
Okay, so it's like being inthe gym. So I'm like always starving,

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so it may not make it.So before we go to break,
of course, we have to haveto ask this, what is your favorite
Thanksgiving dish? What is what's thething you like to eat the most?
Holm things good? That's tough.Ah, that's really tough. It really

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depends on whose house you're at.But like each of your siblings have like
their own specialties that they're really goodat or something. Yeah, i'd like
to think so everybody's good at theirown thing. You know. Sometimes my
sister she switches up, so it'sreally hard to say with her, you
know she honestly, all my siblingsare really good cooks. So, but

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I gotta say the mac and cheesefirst, and foremose devil eggs. I
love sweet potatoes, but they gottabe done right. I like the turkey,
but it better be cooked right.Yeah, because if it's not cook

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right, turkey can be dry,too dry. And then it's disappointing.
I do not eat ham, soI don't eat that. Yeah, I
don't really know on top of myhead, I don't really know them.
Yeah. The fact that that macand cheese was the first thing you said,
I'm like, yep, she fromthe yeah, mac and cheese.

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Of course, of course I'm nota devil edged guy. So I don't
eat that. But other than that, pretty much everything you said now,
I do eat ham. So ifit's just honey bag ham too all I
used to. I gave it upa long time ago. Amazing. Yeah,
if it's a honey bag ham,amazing. The uh oh god,

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what my mind is blanking Cranberry sauce. Cranberry sauce that used to be a
favor as a child for me,but now no, really really Yeah,
I like Cranberry, so you gotta. It depends on the brand, though.
It depends on the brand, becauseI feel like it's like too cranberry.

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It's just too much Cranberry's loss istoo cranberry. It's just granberry.
He's got that. Oh, likeyou know, it really depends on the
But I do look and like stuffingwith the gravy. Oh stuffing, Yes,

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honestly, it really depends. Iactually this is probably gonna be like
this might be the whitest thing.Uh. I like green bean cast role,
but it's got to be made honestly. Only persons that I've ever tried
is my kids Nana, and shemakes that stuff like chef's kiss, like
it's so good. So I dolove that one. No they are she

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is French, okay, but she'sshe's white, so but she makes it
so fun and I didn't even lie. I love mashed potatoes and gravy.
I love that absolutely. Yeah withthat. You know what though, is

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so I'm not really too much likehow I was back in the day,
like growing up, me and mynephew specifically, like we was the tiniest
people in the family, and butour plates would be entirely back Like I
would have a lot on my plateand you'd be like, how where are

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you putting it? Now? Onthe green bean castle role, I've never
had it before, so I can't. It sounds very very white, but
but I can't make a judgment onwhether it's good or not because I've never

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had it before. So I tryit when I like green beans, so
I do well it's like not necessarilylike pastoral castrole. It's got like the
you know, she puts like thecrumbs and stuff on the top, and
it's actually really really good. Soit's got like green beans and it's got
that crunch. It just gives itsomething. I don't try it one day,

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just so just I'm gonna have tohave her make it just so you
can. Yeah, absolutely, andI will try it because I've never had
it. Like I said, itdoes sound very very Caucasian, but I
can't. I can't say it's badbecause I've never had it before. So
I gotta I gotta try it.So yeah, I'll try it at least

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once. I'll try it. Oh. Wait, you know what neither one
of us said what we should havesaid. Shame on us. What cornbread?
Oh, you gotta have a cornbread, and it's got to be
made right. My grandmother, bothof my grandmothers, the one that passed
away and my grandmother that's still herenow and she's you know, over ninety

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years old. But her corn bread, oh my god, Oh I'm jealous.
Amazing, amazing. And then letme guess you never learned how to
make her corn bread? No,what's crazy. It's like she man,
and y'all know this. If y'alllistening, like most people, like old
black people from the South, theyain't really teaching you recip You ain't gonna

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take I'm taking this too different learnThey learned from scratch. There were times,
like my grandmother that that passed away. There were times when I'll be
like, hey, Grandma, teachme how to do someone on such and
such. She can't. She don'tknow what the measurement is in this.
You know what I'm saying, Becauseshe learns of this and you know with
my eyes, you know, justin there, baby, and put a

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little bit there, you know whatI'm saying. Like she didn't go off
a cookbook. She cooked from scratch. You know what I'm saying. My
grandmother grew up in the depression.Like she was from a farm in Tennessee.
She wasn't reading books. Her mamaknew how to do it. Her
mama taught her. And that's whatit is, you know what I'm saying.

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It was so there was there weretimes where especially like when I was
in high school and we had acooking class that was one of my electives.
So we had to go get tolike the little the little measuring cups
and the little measuring spoons and allof that. And I was learning how
to cook stuff from a from acookbook. But Grandmother's like, what is

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this blasphemy? You know what I'msaying. So so yeah, it's like
I would have I would have lovedto learn, man. But but black
people from the South who cook likethat, they not. They ain't got
no dog on cookbooks. There puta little put a little picture this in
there, take a little bit ofthis. We're gonna mix this a little

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bit in there, and then I'mgonna taste it to see how it tastes.
You know what I'm saying. That'swhat it is. That's like I'm
I'm gonna tell you something. I'mgonna say this out lot because I have
not said this on the air,and you actually asked me a long time
ago if I'm gonna say it,and I did not, So anyway,
I'm gonna say it out loud.So the guy that I am dating from

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the South, yes, yes,but he is very much Southern. So
yeah, imagine dating somebody that isfrom the country, like deep South,

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raised on the farm, and andI am cooking definitely did not reach my
DNA, So yeah, I definitelyget that. So like when you say
he's like, oh, you know, you do this and you do that,
and he's always trying to feed me, always come in here with some
food, always trying to feed me, I'm like, I'll take it.

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Haus all right. Uh, we'regonna move right on. I'm gonna leave
that joke alone, all right,Stay tuned. We have Ta Ta with
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Turn it up, set the complication, the latest to celebrity news and

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gossip explamation. It's Tea Time withRoe on the Outlaws Radio show. Hey
guys, so I have a lotof tea for you. It's actually so
much it's messy. Uh where doI begin? So we can vaguely touch

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up on this story just a littlebit. We don't really have to say
too much on this, but Iwill say it is along the lines of
surviving R Kelly. So just recently, if any and all who know who
Cassie is, she was an Rand B singer still is I don't know

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if she still does music. Shewas under the record label of P Diddy
U, which was which was alsoknown as puff Daddy. So she recently
she had went and did a presscharges on him or to to suit him

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and let me pull it up letme pull it up because I do not
want to get this incorrect. Shesays, after speaking in silence and darkness,
I am finally ready to tell mystory and to speak up on behalf
of myself and for the benefit ofother women who face violence and abuse in

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their relationships. Cassie is ready tobreak for silence and has filed a federal
lawsuit against her ex boyfriend Diddy.The singer accuses him of alleged rape and
repeated alleged physical abuse over about adecade ago now according to the documents,

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So she sings the song Me andYou so maybe that I'll give you guys
an idea. So she was aboutnineteen years old when she met P Diddy.
At the time, P Diddy waslike, I think he was like
thirty thirty two, like somewhere aroundthere. He was older. He allegedly
began a pattern of abuse and controlthat included allegedly forcing her to do intercourse

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with male prostitutes while he filmed andphysically abused her, also supplying her with
drugs. And it's just it's moreand more and more detail. I don't
want to go too deep into thedetail because it is a lot to say,
you know, so this this isreally all like I said, it's

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really along the lines of surviving rKelly, if you may, if you
guys know about that story. Idon't know if this is true or not,
you know, if she's telling thetruth or if he's telling the truth,
he does deny it, So yeah, I mean, I don't really
know, so go based off ofthis. I mean, but then again,
there's a lot of people in thecomments. They're like, why so

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long? Why she wait so longto say something, and so right now
she is past the statue of limitationswhere she cannot you know, take him
to and potentially put him away.So now she, like I said,
she's trying to suit him the thirtymillion dollars if mistaken, Yes, a

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specific number, you know. Andlike I said, you know, the
thing is on this type of topic, you know, Darby, I know
that you can't really say too muchon this because it's I don't really it's
early. I don't like these thesethings are tough because like you really have

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to let this thing play out becausewhat we heard is her allegations. She
could be telling one hundred percent thetruth. She might not be right,
like we don't. We don't know. We what do we know? We
know that Cassie was signed to badBoy Records, which is Diddy's label.

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We know that she was in arelationship off and on with him for years.
We know what we've seen from theoutside. There were times where it
didn't look like she was the happiestperson in the world when they were together.
We know that there was some levelof turbulence because they were on again,
off again. They would break up, get back together, break up,
get back together. But we don'tknow. We weren't there, you

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know what I mean? Right?But see on that part where you say
they were on and off again.So allegedly, what I was reading is
that that with that being said,is she was saying no, I said
Allegedly, she was saying that basically, when she would get away from him,
he would sent his people after herand make her go back to him,
and he was holding it over herhead, like making sure that she

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don't make it anywhere in the industryif she disappears on him, And he
was forcing her to take drugs anddo these sexual acts allegedly, And see
that's the thing, It's like,we don't we don't know, and so
in situation like this, I wouldnever want to be like Chelsie's lying and

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she's telling the truth. I alsodon't want to be like crucified Diddy if
he's telling the truth. I thinkit's just it's it's I think the responsible
thing to do in situations like thisis to let it play out. Yeah,
you know, and it's unfortunate.I mean, you're right, because

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truthfully, it's like he could bean innocent man could or she could be
telling the truth, right, orshe could be telling the truth, or
she could be telling the truth.And the thing is is for a lot
of people to say, why waitso long? Why wait so long?
And here's the thing, if you'venever been a domestic violence victim, and
you've never had these horrible things happento you, to be forced to do

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something you won't understand, like youwill not understand how terrifying it is to
speak up. You're scared if thatperson is going to come after you,
scared if they're going to send peopleafter you. You don't know what's to
come, You don't know, So, you know, I really hate when
I see the comments that are likethat, why wait so long? Why
wait so long you if you,like I said, if you've never been
through it, you need to notsay that. Well, And here's here's

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the thing. This is why Idon't like, especially early on touching these
topics period, because there's so manydifferent nuances you're, right, like,
if you're a person, if you'rea if you're a victim of sexual abuse,
like, nobody can predict how you'regoing to respond to that, right
like it no one knows, Likethere is no there's no book that you

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can read that tells you exactly howeverybody is supposed to respond to trauma,
right like, it just doesn't.Life doesn't work that way. We all
respond to me and you can gothrough the exact same thing, and we
can respond to it completely differently becausewe're different people, right So you know,
I don't like making that judgment either, you know. But also on

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the other hand, we have seenpeople, we have seen people use that
for their benefit as a money grab. So it's it's one of those things
where it's like that's why I'm like, I don't want to make any value
judgments period because it's just too early. We don't right now, it's allegations,
we don't know, we weren't there. You know what I'm saying,

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We don't know what we don't know. There's a lot of rumors surrounding Puffy.
There's been a lot of rumors surroundingPuffy for a very long time,
all kinds of stuff. But again, we ain't we weren't there. We
don't know. So this is oneof those things where it's like, you

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know, she could this be amoney grab. It could be money grab.
Could she be telling the truth?She could be telling the truth.
Both of those are logical scenarios andyou got to give equal amountel way to
both of them. So this isone of those things I don't it's when
it's early like this, I don'treally like commenting on it, Like I
want to let it, let itplay out. We need more information,

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right right, I agree? Nick? All right, So we're just gonna
switch it up a little bit andthen we'll come back to something similar.
So first we just want to goto so Terrence Howard. I don't know
if any and all who know whoTerrence Howard is. If you don't,
you are living under a rock.In my opinion, Terrence Howard is probably
one of my most favorite male actors. What was that hold on Robin?

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What was that big show that hewas on, Empire if you ever watched
it. Yes, the most recentbig, big show that he was on
was Empire. He played uh,was it Lucius Lucious? Yes, so
he played Lucius on Empire. Healso played in Hustle and Flow, which,

(33:58):
by the way, even though it'ssuch an old movie, it is
still one of my favorites. Andlisten, diehard fan. But so Terrence
Howard was. Actually he revealed justrecently that he only made twelve thousand from
that movie Hustle and Flow, Andhe said, you guys, quote unquote,
you guys owe me about twenty yearsworth of residuals. And I'm just

(34:22):
like, is it? You knowwhat's wild? Because I saw that.
I actually saw that story and Isaw his quote. Now, you know,
if you've seen Hustle and Flow,you know they were doing rap songs
and stuff in the movie. Nowwhen he was talking about the twenty years
of residuals, what he was saying, what he said in that video clip

(34:45):
was he recorded those songs. Andit seems by the way that he was
talking that he might have wrote himtoo. He said he did those songs,
but they had him do it asthe character and not Terrence Howard,
the person. Well, Paramount Picturesowns the character, so they never had

(35:06):
to give him any royalties for thoserecords, which is crazy. That's why
you know what I mean. Solike no, because normally how it works
in the business, and many ofy'all know that I'm on that side of
the business as well. Sorry,Let's say, okay, Robin, me
and you, we write a songtogether, right, and we because we're

(35:28):
both the writers, we're gonna splitthe writing credit. So it's going to
say, when we send this songto you know, the performance rights organizations
or whatever, you know, writtenby Darvil Marrow, written by Robin O'Malley,
and when the song gets played,whether it's streamed, whether it's on
the radio, whether it's on videoTV, whatever, when the song gets

(35:51):
played, you get paid as awriter. Well, if Paramount Pictures controlled
the songs, and if Terrence Howardwas writing those songs, but they had
him do it as the character,and he was never credited as Terrence Howard,

(36:12):
now he don't get that writing credit. That's crazy. So no matter
how big those songs get, youknow, Hustle and Flow been watched hundreds
of thousands of times. Right,no matter how big that gets, he
doesn't get anything. No, that'scrazy, Ain't no way, ain't no
way. That was a good movie. Yeah, that's a good movie,

(36:36):
and I'll always be talking about It'shot out he appearance. Shout out to
Terrence Howard. He's from Cleveland,by the way. As a matter of
fact, I believe he's from myold hood. Believe shout out to,
shout out to that's why, that'swhy. Okay, all right, So
next one, So do you guysknow who Andre three thousand. So he

(37:02):
was from the group Outcast. SoAndre three thousand, he recently came back
out of the woodwork, and hewas a rapper, which, by the
way, a very good one.And so he recently came dropped an album

(37:23):
playing a flute, no words,no lyrics, and he made sure he
specified that no, there's no lyrics. Okay, so I didn't know.
I didn't know that part. Ihaven't heard it yet. So there's no
lyrics on it at all, zerolyrics. Yeah, So he says,

(37:44):
it sometimes feels inauthentic for me torap. I don't have anything to talk
about in that way. I amforty eight years old. Because as a
rapper, you know how that goesstarbo you know, they talk about a
lot of toxic things and stuff.I mean, I'm sure what wasn't one
of the songs. I'm sorry,miss Jackson. Yeah, I mean Outcast

(38:06):
wasn't really that toxic. But hejust talked, he said because one of
the quotes, he said, well, what am I supposed to rap about?
You know? I got to geta colonoscopy. Yeah, that's what
he said. I'm just saying,like what I'm supposed to say? Like,
so I get it. But youknow a lot of people are like,
honestly, even if you did rapabout that, I'd listen to because
I'm tired of hearing shake my bootywhole brown blah blah blah. You know,

(38:32):
like that's right, that's right tothe poet. Absolutely. And I'll
tell you this as someone you know, I'll be thirty seven soon in a
couple of months, you know,And I did my I mean I've been
I learned. I taught myself howto rap when I was like the fourth
grade. But I did my firstalbum in twenty eighteen, and it is

(38:58):
It is hard sometimes when you're inwhen you're in a full grown adult to
know what to talk about. ButI think and I've been, you know,
trying to do some new stuff orwhatever, but my issue now is
just time. I never have thetime to just sit down and write and
come up with stuff. But youknow it, I actually think hearing that

(39:21):
progression is a good thing. Ithink your fans would would like that,
you know what I mean, Becausehere's the thing I mean, think about
it. You know, we're alllike we're in our thirties. You know,
you got people like late twenties,early thirties, late thirties, early
forties, even going into the fiftiesnow where it's like, yeah, we

(39:43):
still love hip hop, but wecan't relate to a lot of the new
stuff that's going on right now.We don't. We can't relate to because
some of it's whack, you knowwhat I'm saying. It really reminds me
of my dad, mostly my dad, because he was always like, God,
what is that garbage you're listening to? Its call this music? But

(40:10):
our stuff was actually good like this, like this stuff, like some of
this new stuff is garbage. Itgives actual garbage. It really is garbage,
like, and it's crazy because ourgeneration and our parents generation can all
actually agree upon us. Yeah right, right, you know what I'm saying.
So I do think like I wouldlike to hear Okay, Andre three

(40:32):
thousand is forty eight years old.I would like to hear what's going on
in his life right now? Yeah, that would that would actually be great.
I mean he's always had a reallygood vibe about him. Sure,
yeah, I mean I can tellyou so. Wait, So a lot
of the comments I was reading,because you know, I like get into
the comments to get a little inputand stuff, right, And a lot

(40:52):
of the girls are like, andyou bet, I bet you. I'm
gonna be tworking to that flute songtoo. I'm like, y'all, are
have you heard any of it?Yeah? No, no, not yet,
Actually I have not, but Idefinitely will like some jazz because I
like jazz too. So the wayhe says his new project is uh uh

(41:20):
like a melody piece featuring no barsbut plenty of flutes and other wind instruments.
I'll check it out. I'll checkit out, see I go.
Yeah, yeah, So the nextnext one, Okay, do I want
to go messy or do I wantto go funny? Pick one? Darve
you you want messy or you wantfunny. Let's go messy. Okay,

(41:45):
we'll go messy, a little messy. So this one is messy. But
you know a lot more on thistopic than I do. It's like I
said, it's similar to the onewe were kind of on earlier in a
way. Uh. So, kiKi Palmer has filed a restraining order against
her ex, Darius Jackson, andshe this is so I'm gonna say this

(42:06):
was recently, so she requested afull custody of their eight month old son
and put the restraining order. Sheturned around and they did approve her.
They granted her the custody of theson. Temporary restraining order against Darius Dalton
as there was a video that surfacedartist she put out that he was abusing

(42:27):
her. So and I guess this, These altercations happened more often than not.
And then following these situations was actually, I don't know if you guys
remember where it was trending just recently, it was trending where she was all
up on Usher at one of Usher'sshows in Vegas and he did not he

(42:47):
was not having it. He said, you are a mom like we did.
We did, so there was actuallya lot behind that, not just
her being some messy girl out inthe streets. So there was more behind
the scenes than what was meet whatmeets the eye. Now, I do

(43:10):
want to put out there that Darviodid share some info with me. You
guys, I did not know aboutSo I knew there was a video that
was trending of her being abused,but it also shows that that allegedly,
I'm gonna say that she was alsoabusive to him, So it's a that's

(43:32):
what it seems like, that's whathe is alleging as, right, So
but I do want to throw outthere, so not only is he allegedly
abusive, but there was backstory.There was more proof that came out that
not only was his brother abusive tothe mother of his child, but it

(43:53):
went back even further and their fatherwas also abusive to their mother. So
this story is pretty messy. Andthis, you know, this really says
a lot when I say men goheal. Yeah, again, this is
I think another one of those situations. You know, if you heard the

(44:17):
tape of allegedly Kiki and her mothercussing this dude out. Yeah, it
was pretty brutal, and there werereferences or allusions to the fact that maybe,
you know, he might have beengetting hit too. And in those

(44:37):
situations, again, it's like itbecomes messy, right because we don't know,
all right, well, who who'sthe initiator of it? Right?
Like if you just like, areyou just beating her ass and she's defending
herself or are y'all both just toxicand beat each other? You know what

(45:00):
I mean, we don't know weare we don't know. You're right,
you are right. There's a lotof situations like that exactly. And then
and at the same time, likeif if you're in a situation where you
being where the dude is being abusiveto you and you kick his ass,
and that just it is what itis as far as I'm concerned, Like
he's coming, like if he youcan't you can't go. If if you're

(45:24):
beating on her and she turned aroundand knock your block off, you don't
get the then turn around and claimvictim. As far as I'm concerned,
you know what I'm saying, Shedefended herself and if she kicked your ass,
then that's just tied. Go.Those are the break is it is
what it is, right, itis what it is, because that's that's

(45:46):
my answer. Baby. If youif this man putting his hands on you,
if you can you knock his assout, whatever you if your fist
or skill it or chair, whatever, you get your ass. Period,
you you understand. So so that'sthe thing is like we just don't know.
But but you also know, weboth know that there are some women

(46:07):
who are who be on that youknow what I'm saying, period, who
are just who beat up dudes andall this stuff. So it's like,
this is why don't these the domesticsituations are always tough because especially when there
are two people alleging abuse, Yeah, those are always tough because we weren't

(46:34):
there, and you know what Imean, it's just and you don't want
to like I'm never going I neverwant to accuse somebody of doing something that
they didn't do. But I'm alsonever going to accuse someone of lying if
they're telling the truth, you knowwhat I mean. Yeah, that's true,
very much true, and you knowit's unfortunate in this day and age,

(46:54):
just like you you don't know,right because there's so many people that
lie, I mean in this situation, though obviously sometimes right right somebody,
they're not lying, but it's like, Okay, how did this happen?
How did it start? Like there'slike we're basically getting the middle and not

(47:15):
the beginning, the middle and endexactly exactly, and really we were being
and it's because they're public figures,so like we're being thrust into their situation.
So we're all outsiders trying to figureout, okay, what happened,
and we're really we ain't there,we weren't there. We we don't know,

(47:37):
you know what I mean, Andso it puts everybody kind of in
a weird space, like I'm notI've seen too many of these cases where
it's like it makes me not wantto just jump out out the window automatically,
you know what I mean. Andthat may make some people mad,

(47:58):
and you know, uh, youknow, my apologies to you if you're
offended by that, but you know, I always try to error on the
side of caution, you know,when it comes to these sorts of cases,
because we just don't know, wejust don't know. Yep, all
right, you got anything else Ido? Actually, so this one is

(48:21):
probably the end of the world.It's it's kind of humorous actually, but
also said at the same point,uh, Snoop Dogg, and I don't
want to hear that, not nanone of you don't know who the hell
Snoop Dogg is. We all know. You better know who Uncle Snoop is.

(48:43):
You better know if you don't whoraised you. Uh so Snoop dog
So I don't know if you guys, like you know, with laws passing
everywhere, like like for example,here in the state of Ohio, they
recently passed, uh where marijuana willbe legal, but obviously not from the
streets. But so I think thisis like a big thing now. So

(49:08):
a lot of people were saying,well, if Snoop don't quit because there
were people are like saying, oh, it's bad for you. Because there
was something else that followed that fewdays later, and they were saying,
scientists, our doctors were saying,you know that it's caught, it's going
to cause like health problems and thingslike that, or it's causing health problems
things like that, and so alot of people were saying, like,

(49:28):
oh, if Snoop Dogg don't comeout and say he's quitting. I ain't
quitting, I ain't taking his erietsAnd weirdly, Snoop Dogg actually came out
and said, I'm giving up smoke. And that's really you know, when
you are when you get into afield like acting, rapping, singing,

(49:52):
you know, just anywhere, evenmodeling, anything that has to do with
the industry, anything that you're doingto promote yourself or put yourself out there,
like that's thing, right, Andso that just happened to be his
thing, Like everybody just kind ofconnected the two, and so I think,
you know, like I said,it's kind of a funny thing.

(50:13):
But it's not like I kind offeel for him because with him quitting,
I know that that's going to besomething that is going to be hard because
his body is accustomed to it,his brain like or he thinks automatically like
that's what I'm supposed to be doing, and he's not going to be doing
all right. Yeah, you know, he smoked a lot of weed,

(50:36):
like he was smoking allegedly eighty oneblunts a day at one point. Yeah,
you know, I was. WhenI first saw it, I was
like, is this a is thisa publicity stunt? Like does he have
Like some people were saying, youknow, he's selling weed brownies or gummies
or something, and that's with it. That's why you said he ain't smoking

(50:59):
no more. But I mean it'syou know, we do kind of like
pretend like there's nothing wrong with it, but it, I mean, it
has some health issues with it too, you know what I'm saying. So,
and you know, I just fulldisclosure for me, I'm not a
fan of it. I've never beena fan of it. That ain't one
thing. I ain't never really beeninterested in it. But but there are

(51:20):
health issues with it. And youknow, Snoop is not young anymore,
right, Like he's he's a wholegrandfather, right right, So imagine like
you've been smoking this much since youwere eighteen nineteen years old, not in
your fifties. You know. Ijust hope, and I've seen other people

(51:43):
say this too. I just hopehe's okay, that it's not for a
health you know what I'm saying.Where it's like the doctor was like,
yo, you got to stop thisand you're gonna die, you know what
I mean. So I hope he'sa yeah, because he and his thing
he's said after much consideration and conversationwith my family, I've decided to give

(52:05):
up smoke. Please respect my privacyat this time. So, yeah,
that is questionable. And I praythat nothing is wrong with his health,
because Lord forbid not snook right rightlike we need him. Okay, And
by the way, I'm gonna justadd this to the story because this came
out later. Meek Mill said,I'm gonna by and completely stop smoking.

(52:29):
I'm gonna follow snoop. My doctorsaid, I got a little bit in
physema in my chest. If Idon't stop smoking, it cuts my lifeline
and half I was addicted to theto the nicotine and this new we got
too many chemicals and too risky toplay with my mental Yeah, yeah,
yeah, I was actually gonna beI was actually get right to throw that

(52:50):
that. It's like weird, we'rejust like kind of connected there. But
uh yeah, so truth be told. I mean, you smoke anything,
it's going to cause some damage toyour lungs because you know, it's freaking
like tar. It's like it's builtup when you go to you know,
cleanse your body, that's all blackinside, you know, and it's blockages

(53:14):
and especially when you're doing it everyday. You know, they say that
your your your lungs is an amazingthing. It heals itself. You meet
like a day, Like if youdon't do it for a day or two
days or three days, your yourlungs starts to heal itself feel better.
Yeah, but you got people whoare like smoking every day. I mean,

(53:35):
but see, here's the thing,right, and that's crazy. I
mean, like I ain't gonna saywhat and doing that back in the day
when I was younger, I ain'tgoing to tye it. But you know
what I can tell you is partof the reason that I did quit when
I was younger is because I alreadynaturally have uh, like I don't have

(54:00):
good memory, Like I'm not asponge, you know what I mean.
And so when you do that,it also causes you to be forgetful.
So you was forgetting everything. Listen. I was definitely very forgetful, and
I couldn't uh, I wasn't updoing like productive things. I wasn't you

(54:24):
know what I mean. Like itwas just constant, constant, constant,
was just doing that. That's it, just kicking it. I mean I
was young, right, you know, I was young still nineteen twenty twenty
one. You know, I wasyoung, But yeah, so that but
I can say with that though,is people in the comments, they're like,

(54:45):
now see, one person said,now see he said he was gonna
give up smoking. He ain't saynothing about edibles. And I'm like,
you got a point, Like,so, I mean does that does that
count? Well, I mean that'sthe that's the question, right, Like

(55:07):
that's the million dollar question. That'swhat I saw some people saying, like,
oh, well, maybe he hasan edible line or something, and
this is a you know, thisis a stunt for that. I don't
know, but well, I'll tellyou this. I can't because, like
I said, I've never been aweek guy. I had a lot of
friends who were potheads, and itjust never looked sexy to me. So

(55:30):
I never had any interest in itbecause a lot of my friends in high
school, in particular, a lotof my friends in high school were doing
it, and it just it justdidn't look sexy to me. So I
never really had any interest. ButI will tell you this, So you
so you asked about the edible.Now, again, I don't have the
experience with it, but I dohave a relative who is a who is

(55:52):
a weed head? Right, hewill tell you he's a weed head.
He called me one day. Hecalled me one day he was having he
had had a brownie or something likethat, and he told me he said,
bruh. He didn't say bruh.He said another word that I'm not

(56:12):
going to say on the air thatwe used to greet. That we used
to greet each other. But it'slike, bruh. He said bruh.
He said he had that brownie.Now he's thinking he's a weedhead, right,
so you're like, ah, thisain't gonna be no thing. He
said he had that brownie, hesaid he is. He was higher than

(56:34):
he had ever been in his entirelife. He's never wanted to do that.
Again, he's not supposed to eatthe whole brownie. What was that
from? Like I seen something?I think it was how high? Yeah,
they fed the whole staff brownie.Like they mixed the truth serum in

(57:00):
with the weed or something. Itwas. It's been so long since I
say how high? But yeah,But which is? Which is funny to
me? By the west Side,note, I've never I've never been a
fan of weed, never used weed, never wanted to use weed. But
I love the get high movies.Right, I love, I love how
I love, I love Friday.I love you know what I mean,

(57:22):
Like, I love the It's weirdbecause I don't I have no interest in
use in smoking weed or ingesting weed, but I love to get high movies.
So but yeah, like so it'sso from what I hear, And
that's the reason why I tell thatstory. From what I hear, it's
really strong. It's really strong,and it ain't no joke, and it's

(57:46):
actually you know, that's actually ina serious manner. That's the danger with
some of this stuff because we thinkof weed as like you know, cheech
and chong weed, right, whatyou just mentioned. But you know,
this stuff, from my understanding,this stuff got is way stronger. That

(58:08):
was one of the things that micNeil just said in this tweet. You
know, some of this new stuffis way stronger than the regular stuff that
people were smoking in the fifties andsixties. And well, I'm sorry,
no good, no good, WellI was gonna say, and not to
mention a lot of these you knowa lot of it out here. You
don't know what's put into it becauseit all has more chemicals in it now,

(58:30):
like and it could have things inthere that could immediately like take you
out. That's right, that's right, that's right. It's not you know,
it ain't really nothing like this isprobably and again I'm not a drug
guy. I've never been a drugguy, but this is probably the most
dangerous time to be experimenting with drugs, especially when you have when you have

(58:50):
drug drug dudes mixing fit and allwith everything. They put in everything,
you know what I'm saying, nota care in the world. Yeah,
and people out here just you thinkyou're doing one thing and then you dropping
dead because your overdosing on fending onand didn't even know it. So it's
like, this is this is theworst time right now to be experimenting with

(59:14):
drugs because a lot of times there'sno way to tell. And there has
been reports there there have been reportsof people putting fitting all in weed,
Like you're putting fitting all in everything, you know what I mean, right,
right, Yeah, so you gottabe careful. But I mean,
if it's and again we don't knowif it's sincere or if it's the stunt,

(59:35):
but if it's sincere, I mean, congratulations to snoop. I hope
he's okay. That's the thing I'mreally concerned about, Like, you know,
I hope physically, like he's okaythat he didn't like there wasn't like,
man, if you don't do ifyou don't stop doing this, you're
gonna die, you know what Imean? Like, I hope he's okay.
Yeah, but you know, goodfor him. Uh you got anything

(59:57):
else where? Is that it?Actually? You know, I just got
one more for and it's kind ofhilarious. It's hilarious. Actually, so
does everybody know who fifty cent is? And I don't mean the coins.
They should they should, if notjust a little bit, you know,
go go go go shorty, it'syour birthday. That dude, yeah him,

(01:00:19):
yeah, so so is officially jumpedoff the ledge. He's like lost,
he's off his rocker. Okay,fifty now says quote unquotes, please
refer to me as the thing fiftyI do not identify as a person anymore.

(01:00:45):
I am a thing. Thank youin advance. That's his pronouns.
The way is that is? Thatis that damn day? Yeahs Like so
that's Dave them then, right,like yeah, that's what it is.
Right, there's so many. I'mso confused. So it's them. So

(01:01:09):
he's ad them because if you're athing, if you're not identifying as a
person anymore, you're identifying as athing, then that would have to be
a day them then right, itonly makes sense Yeah, logically, like
it would have to be mm hmm. That's so weird. Like is he

(01:01:32):
trolling? Troll? Like you know, like fifty is a chaos agent,
like that's what he does. He'stoxic. Yes, he does the absolute
most. So it's like, ishe being serious because I think I'm telling
you, I think he just sitshome and comes up with ways to fiss

(01:01:54):
people off, to make people gohmm. I'm telling we go from talking
about Snoop Dogg quitting smoking weed tothis dude that it's got to be something
like MESSI crazy. But yes,that is all that I had for tea

(01:02:15):
time. I did tell you allthat I had a lot of hot tea
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