Instructions Needed!

Instructions Needed!

Instructions Needed! is an audio-only podcast about the moments in life where there’s no clear right answer. Each episode explores a real, anonymous dilemma sent in by listeners — stories about love, family, friendships, boundaries, identity, and the quiet conflicts we don’t always say out loud. There are no experts and no perfect solutions. Just honest conversation, multiple perspectives, and the space to sit with uncertainty. This podcast isn’t here to tell you what to do. It’s here to remind you that you’re not alone in not knowing. New episodes weekly. Anonymous submissions always welcome. Because life didn’t come with instructions — and sometimes we need help finding our own.

Episodes

February 20, 2026 3 mins

Ever wonder what would happen if three three strangers someone they didn’t know? Well this podcast might be for you!

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I've been away but the podcast is coming back with new panelists and new dilemmas. See you soon!

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What does support look like when love and addiction collide? In this episode, we explore the challenges of being married to a high-functioning alcoholic who desperately wants to quit—but keeps relapsing in secret. We talk about shame, honesty, emotional boundaries, and the impossible position partners are often placed in: choosing between compassion and accountability. This conversation dives into addiction as a disease, the toll i...

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Is it insecurity—or intuition? In this episode, we dive into the early warning signs of emotional cheating and broken trust in a new relationship. After discovering sexting, hidden messages, and secrecy around Snapchat conversations, a woman questions whether she’s overreacting or ignoring clear red flags. We explore boundaries, transparency, trauma from past infidelity, and how to decide when a relationship no longer feels emotion...

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In this episode, a man reflects on an uncharacteristic conflict in an otherwise emotionally healthy relationship. Despite shared therapy work and strong communication habits, a difficult week, unspoken needs, and external fears collided—leading to defensiveness, shutdown, and missed support on both sides. As his partner needed emotional presence, he found himself overwhelmed by his own feelings and unsure how to show up without aba...

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In this episode, we hear from a woman who feels completely stuck in a marriage marked by repeated betrayal, emotional abuse, and fear. After years of discovering messages, infidelity, and financial deception—and while raising a severely autistic child and a baby far from her own support system—she knows she needs to leave but doesn’t know how. Isolated, blamed, and frightened of the consequences of trying to go, she asks a heartbre...

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January 26, 2026 26 mins

In this episode, we explore a painful crossroads in a long-term marriage. After 14 years together, a man finds himself deeply in love with his wife—but struggling with the loss of intimacy, unresolved hurt, and a fundamental disagreement about having children. Past comments, unmet expectations, and years of emotional distance have turned sex into obligation rather than connection, leaving him feeling rejected, depressed, and trappe...

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In this episode, we confront a painful family dilemma centered around loyalty, boundaries, and unresolved history. As a wedding approaches, a father insists his wife be invited—or he won’t attend at all. The decision was originally made to protect the mother’s feelings after a difficult divorce, but it now threatens to fracture the family further. Caught between fairness, empathy, and long-standing wounds, the siblings are forced t...

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January 22, 2026 27 mins

In this episode, we explore a moment of quiet panic sparked by an unexpected discovery. After finding pregnancy tests in her girlfriend’s makeup drawer, a woman grapples with fear, uncertainty, and the sudden possibility that her life could change overnight. Despite a healthy, trusting relationship and open communication, her anxiety takes over as she wrestles with whether to say something—or sit with the unknown. This conversation...

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January 20, 2026 35 mins

In this episode, we unpack a question rooted in deep emotional exhaustion: How do you find direction when everything feels wrong? A woman opens up about feeling lost, depressed, and stuck amid strained family relationships, housing instability, and conflicting priorities in her marriage. After losing a home, relocating across states, and now living indefinitely with in-laws, she struggles to reconcile financial practicality with he...

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January 18, 2026 27 mins

In this episode, we tackle a deeply personal question: When does a lifelong passion start to feel immature?

A 30-year-old musician reflects on nearly two decades of playing, performing, and finding identity through music—only to now feel embarrassment and doubt when stepping on stage. Once a vital outlet for expression and mental health, music has begun to feel at odds with adulthood and self-perception. Is this a natural growing p...

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January 16, 2026 21 mins

In this episode, we explore a powerful question: How do you start over after everything falls apart? After turning 40, one man reflects on a five-year stretch marked by chronic injury, multiple surgeries, opioid dependence, and the loss of a career he held for nearly two decades. Now clean and medically stabilized after discovering and treating a pituitary tumor, he feels physically renewed but emotionally in rebuild mode. Grateful...

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This dilemma is from episode 5. A woman sees the reaction her husband and in-laws has, when her sister-in-law comes out to the family.

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The podcast is being relaunched in 2026 and here is a dilemma from Episode 2, 2023.

After nearly a decade of marriage, years of infertility, and a heartbreaking loss in 2022, a man faces an impossible choice. His wife wants to keep trying for a baby, but her health makes pregnancy dangerous. He hasn’t told her his fear — that becoming a father might mean losing the woman he loves.

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On this panel, we have Renee Vardouniotis and Chandrika Phea. Renee is the Founder of the CAPE Movement where they have developed mindset and empowerment programs for kids. Chandrika is the author of the book "Lord, I Don't Want to Die a Christian..." Speaker Provocateur, and Outdoor Curator. 

This Monday's dilemmas are:

  • My boyfriend isn't respecting my trauma after his checking.
  • My husband...
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On this panel, we have Brittany Storti and Cindy Gersch. Brittany is the founder of The Bridge Coaching Services and has a background in empowerment, relationships, and addiction recovery. Cindy is the founder of Neu Marketing Group, a single mom of two, and was diagnosed with a rare arterial disease called fibromuscular dysplasia in 2018, and travels around the world to raise awareness about fibromuscular dysplasia.

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On this panel, we have Jenny Lee, Janessa Finley, and Michelle Valiukenas.

Jenny is a  life coach who focuses on building resilience in women by creating joyful morning routines and is a teacher of 20 years. Janessa is an empowerment coach certified in energy psychology with areas of expertise in healing relationships, addictions, and injury from the criminal justice system. Michelle was a family law attorney represent...

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On this panel, we have Carrie Conrad, Nicole Aquilina, and Erin Fleming. Carrie Is an expert in prevention and defense and specializes in helping mothers to find their voice and their power in keeping themselves and their kids safe. Nicole is the owner of a Residential & Commercial cleaning company located in Howell, MI. I'm an entrepreneur & mom with a passion for helping others maintain a balanced lifesty...

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Due to some editing issues, this episode was delayed and I do apologize for that.  On this Tuesday's panel, we have Robert and Noelle Peterson, Alex Macklin, and Suzy Wood. Robert helps business owners step into their happiness and emotional freedom by taking control of their time and author of “Entrepreneur Mindset $hift” and Noelle helps women step into their identity and power to create the life they desire. Aut...

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On this Monday's panel, we have Maria Grove, Holly Hughes, and Denise Damijo. Maria is a professional home organizer who teaches how to start good habits in your home, Holly Hughes is an intuitive healer, author, and speaker, and Denise is the creator of "The Healer's Realm Podcast" and "The Shamanic Group" and currently working on her Ph.D. in Mind, Body, and Medicine specializing in Comple...

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