Almost Adulting with Violet Benson
Immerse yourself in the BIGGEST self-love podcast and movement - your ultimate go-to for personal growth with a side of sass. We cover it all, from dating bootcamps to mental health moments, because self-love is the foundation of everything in your life – from your friendships to your own mental well-being and everything in between. I’m your host, Violet Benson, aka the Daddy Issues meme queen, comedian, and motivational speaker. But most importantly, I'm YOUR Russian big sister, dishing out that tough love you might not want to hear, but best believe you're gonna need! Get ready to feel empowered, liberated, and seen like never before! Change your life and subscribe to Almost Adulting! Your healing journey starts NOW. New episode drops every Thursday.
Episodes
The trip ended, the lessons didn’t.
In Part 2 of Finding My Husband: Vegas, I’m talking about the real game:
- how to keep him hooked without losing yourself
- Why even healthy love will still drive you a little insane sometimes
- How to self-regulate before you self-sabotage
- From overthinking to attachment theory
- Everything you need to know about dating an avoidant
- And how to actually win an avoidant over
It was supposed to be a romantic Vegas trip… until I got hemorrhoids, threw up in a $900 suite, did shrooms (allegedly), and had second thoughts about Bookman.
Why? Because this man did the unthinkable… he texted back, planned dates, opened doors, used empathy, and was willing to change. Is this too good to be true… or have I met my match? You tell me.
Welcome to Part 1 of Finding My Husband: Vegas -
Thinking about starting that business, becoming an influencer, or finally posting that video?? If the only thing standing between you and your dreams is worrying what people might think.. then this episode is about to set you FREE.
Truth is, other people’s opinions are keeping you Broke & boring babe.. which is why today, we’re unpacking Mel Robbins’ Let Them Think Bad Thoughts. And once you get it, you’ll real...
Do you pick the billionaire with private jets and a family fortune, or the guy who makes you feel safe but probably flies coach? In Part 6 of “Finding My Husband,” the universe drops a literal billionaire into my life right as I’m about to take things with Bookman to the next level. I unpack lust vs. stability, attachment wounds, and the messy decisions that follow… and by the end, I make a huge choice.
WHO WOULD YOU CH...
Welcome to our Monthly Zodiac Bonus Episode, dropping the third week of every month! This September, we’re giving you the ultimate guide to making a Libra man obsessed with YOU.
Get ready to discover:
🔥 How to charm the ultimate romantic and keep him captivated by you.
🔥 Foolproof ways to balance his love for beauty, harmony, and connection.
🔥 What he values most in a relationship (and what will tip the scal...
Think you’ve had the worst date ever? Try going out with a musician… WORST. DATE. FINAL. BOSS.
From men wearing my Skims to guys with kids my age, the dating pool isn’t just in hell… it’s swimming in piss and UTIs. Welcome to Part 5, besties. Buckle up because this episode is UNHINGED and will have you laughing your socks off.
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Welcome to the narcissist playbook
Think you’ve never dated a narcissist? Think again. From love bombing to gaslighting to the classic “I’m sorry you feel that way” non-apology—these are the Top 5 Mind Games Narcissists Play that’ll have you questioning your reality, your group chat, and maybe even your sanity.
On today's episode, Violetta is breaking down their playbook, exposing every trick, and telling you exactl...
From choking games to first kisses. Welcome to the most chaotic update yet. Is Bookman too good to be true… or did I just meet my match?
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He planned the perfect rom-com date.. five hours of sparks, soul-connection, and eye contact so intense - it puts your favourite book daddy to shame.
Twenty minutes later? I dumped him.
Did I fumble… or dodge a bullet? You tell me.
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No intro. No filter. Just me crashing out mid-coffee jitters, questioning a man’s job, his five passports, and whether I just met my future husband or the next Tinder Swindler. Welcome to Part 2.
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Welcome to our Monthly Zodiac Bonus Episode, dropping the third week of every month! This August, we’re giving you the ultimate guide to getting a Virgo man obsessed with YOU.
Get ready to discover:
🔥 The secrets to understanding his perfectionist tendencies—and how to meet his high standards.
🔥 Foolproof ways to earn his trust and keep his attention.
🔥 What he values most in a partner (and what will make hi...
Okay besties… it begins. I’m officially back in the dating game - I'm talking Hinge, matchmakers, awkward dates I already regret, and I’m taking you with me. This is Part 1 of Finding My Husband, and yes, there will be updates. Stay tuned as I take you on this journey.
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Think getting ahead is about luck? Think again. In this episode of Almost Adulting, I’m giving you my unfiltered playbook for turning every 'no' into a 'hell yes,' getting hired when you’re underqualified, nailing interviews, and beating the competition for the promotion you deserve.
Today you’ll learn how to:
• Get a YES (even when you’re not the obvious choice) through manipulation
• Turn rejection into opportunity
• O...
Why Women Are Choosing Younger Men
This week on Almost Adulting, I’m joined by the power couple that broke the internet—and probably a few age-gap double standards. Caroline Stanbury (yes, that Caroline from Ladies of London and Real Housewives of Dubai) and her hot husband Sergio (ex-pro footballer, full-time golden retriever energy) are here to prove that age is just a number—and chemistry is undefeated.
We’re talking:
- ...
Do you ever feel weirdly lonely in your relationships? Like you’re the one always doing the work—overthinking, overgiving, overfunctioning—and you still feel...empty? You’re not crazy. You might just have grown up with an emotionally immature parent.
In this special Benson Book Club episode, I break down the first chapter of Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents and walk you through the hidd...
If you're in your twenties then listen to this.
Your 20s are all about embracing mistakes, growth, and becoming the person you’re meant to be. In today's short episode, I’m sharing 20 things your 20s are too short for—like staying in toxic relationships, letting others define your worth, and holding back from living your best life. Plus, stick around for a powerful manifesting mantra at the end to help you shape the fut...
Welcome to our Monthly Zodiac Bonus Episode, dropping the third week of every month! This July, we’re giving you the ultimate guide to making a Leo man obsessed with YOU.
Get ready to discover:
🔥 What he craves in a partner—and how to become his ultimate desire.
🔥 Foolproof ways to grab his attention and keep his spotlight on you.
🔥 Subtle signs he’s losing interest—and how to win back his fiery passion.
🔥 H...
Ring ring… hellllllo? It’s your big sis Violetta coming to your rescue!
Hi besties!! It’s the second week of the month, and you know what that means: a brand new episode of Ask Violetta. But today, we’re doing things a little differently... We’re answering just one question. But not just any question—the one that haunts your group chat at 2am:
“What if they’re your soulmate… but the timing’s of...
Why are we so f*cking mean to ourselves?
This week, we’re diving deep into that nonstop voice in your head that tells you you’re not good enough, smart enough, hot enough, just... not enough. You’ll find out why it exists, how it got there, and how to finally shut it the hell up.
We’re talking:
· The real science behind your inner critic (yes, it’s a thing - it’s called the Default Mode Network)
· Why compa...
Think you’re low-maintenance until they stop texting back? Can’t breathe unless you’re together 24/7? Sounds like you’ve got a ‘Quality Time’ love language. But don’t panic... needing time isn’t the problem, ignoring it is.
Hi besties!! Today we’re breaking down everything you need to know about the second most common love language: Quality Time.
So before you call it quits, LISTEN UP.
If you’re feeling unloved, or t...
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