The Art of Love With Lucia
Lucia is an internationally known dating expert who specializes in getting an ex back. She will entertain, educate and enlighten you!
Episodes
A lot of breakup advice about no contact is either oversimplified or flat-out wrong.
In this episode, I talk about why no contact is not right for every situation, why "respond so you don't look angry" is terrible advice, and the exceptions to no contact that most people don't know about.
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If they were consistent and then pulled away, don't assume it means you ruined it or they don't care.
In this video, I break down the "Silence Loop" (the emotions that keep people from reaching out) and what to do so you don't make things worse.
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When an avoidant goes silent, after they've ghosted or dumped you, sometimes they're waiting to see if you'll reach out first.
In this video, ex back expert Lucia breaks down the subtle signs that an avoidant is watching from a distance and leaving the door slightly open - without ever saying it directly.
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If your ex hasn't reached out, it doesn't always mean what you think. Most people misread the silence - and make things worse.
In this episode, ex back coach Lucia breaks down what it actually signals and how to handle it without sabotaging your position.
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Every avoidant has one person they can never fully let go of emotionally, no matter how much time has passed. Are you that person?
In this video, dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the specific traits and circumstances that make you unforgettable to someone with an avoidant attachment style.
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Most people think that dealing with an avoidant means explaining, checking in or trying to say things the "right way". That usually pushes them further away.
In this episode, ex back coach Lucia walks you through taboo ways people unintentionally make avoidants miss them - by doing less instead of more.
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Blocking an avoidant ex feels powerful - but it often does the opposite of what you want.
Ex back strategist Lucia explains why blocking can quietly backfire with avoidant attachment, what it does to their nervous system and the new rule you need to understand before you decide whether to block or not.
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When getting back with an ex, people usually say they're going to "take it slow", but rarely do.
Dating expert Lucia explains why pace is the deciding factor, especially with an avoidant ex and why talking doesn't actually move things forward.
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Being patient with an avoidant doesn't save the connection - it often kills attraction.
Dating expert Lucia explains why attraction fades when you're waiting, being understanding, and "not putting pressure on it". If you've been trying to stay calm and do the right thing while nothing changes, this episode is for you.
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When you've been dumped, the urge to chase can feel overwhelming, especially if you still want your ex back.
Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains what actually changes when you stop chasing your ex, and why pulling back often shifts the dynamic in ways chasing never can.
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You've been in no contact and after weeks - or even months - of silence, your ex suddenly texts you. What does it actually mean, and should you respond right away or wait?Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals why exes reach out during no contact, what they're really looking for, and how responding the wrong way can sabotage your chances.
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If your avoidant ex's actions are confusing, there's usually a very good reason.
Dating/relationship expert Lucia exposes the subtle behaviors avoidants show when they're starting to change their minds about the breakup.
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If you're convinced your ex will never reach out, you're probably wrong. Silence after a breakup triggers fear-based thinking, and your brain fills in the blanks with the worst-case scenarios.
Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains the psychology behind why people assume they'll never hear from their ex, and why that belief is usually not based on reality.
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If you're in no contact with an avoidant and wondering what they're thinking and feeling, this video will give you clarity.
Dating/relationship expert Lucia shares what happens psychologically when you and your avoidant ex both stop contacting each other.
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Have you been feeling stuck, confused or unable to move forward after a breakup?
In this video, dating/relationship expert Lucia asks one powerful question that instantly brings clarity about your real feelings for your ex. Most people are shocked by their own answer!
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There's a predictable window of time during the night when an avoidant is most likely to break their silence and reach out.Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what happens within this particular window that forces them to reach out, and what their text actually means.
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Are you wondering if no contact even works on someone who's stubborn, prideful and/or has a big ego?Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the internal battle that happens inside a stubborn ex during silence.
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Your ex isn't reaching out because they "miss you" and it's probably not because they suddenly want to get back together.
Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the real reason your ex is contacting you and pouring out emotional confessions.
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Everyone thinks the hardest part of no contact is the silence. Nope! The real danger begins when you finally hear from your ex.
In this episode dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why many people mess up at this point and what to do instead, so you actually get your ex back.
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#nocontact #nocontactrule #getexback
Your ex doesn't just suddenly decide to come back one day. There's a specific chain of events that have to happen first.
In this episode, dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals how your silence works in your favor, even when it feels like nothing's happening.
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