The Art of Love With Lucia

The Art of Love With Lucia

Lucia is an internationally known dating expert who specializes in getting an ex back. She will entertain, educate and enlighten you!

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July 23, 2025 12 mins

Struggling with no contact? If you have an anxious attachment style, silence from your ex can feel like physical pain.


In this episode, dating/relationship expert Lucia shares why no contact is so hard for you and the dopamine hacks to use to rewire your nervous system.


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Your ex finally reached out after no contact! This is where most people screw it up!Dating/relationship expert Lucia shares why most people mess it up when they hear from their ex and how to not be one of them!


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July 9, 2025 10 mins

Is your ex REALLY gone forever? Or will they return?Dating/relationship expert Lucia breaks down the clear signs your ex is gone for good vs. the hidden clues they might return.


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Struggling with no contact? The rules have evolved! Dating/relationship expert Lucia shares the new 2025 no contact rules to help you get your ex back.


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Avoidant partners often appear cold or indifferent after a breakup. Does that mean they don't care?

Dating/relationship expert Lucia breaks down the psychology and regret timeline of avoidant exes.


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If you've been dumped, you're probably wondering:  Is my ex confused after the breakup?  Does my ex regret breaking up with me? 


Dating/relationship expert Lucia shares why dumpers often second-guess their decision - and how their confusion puts YOU in a stronger position.


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Women are in shock that Life Coach & YouTuber The Wizard Liz was cheated on by her fiance Landon Nickerson, while she's 4 months pregnant.  


Dating/relationship coach Lucia explains why this was preventable and what you can learn from it.


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Why do avoidants run away from someone they claim to love?  Why do they sabotage the love they crave?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia shares why avoidants prefer to be with someone they're not in love with.

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When an avoidant is truly never coming back, their actions show clear signs of detachment.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia shares 9 signs your avoidant ex is gone for good.

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What really goes on in the mind of an avoidant when you don't chase them after a break up?  Do they start to miss you or do they just move on without looking back?  Dating expert Lucia reveals the truth about how avoidants react to the no contact rule.

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What happens when your avoidant ex finally cracks?  Will they reach out?  Will they come running back?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia shares exactly what happens when an avoidant cracks under pressure.

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What happens when your ex thinks you've moved on and don't care anymore?  This is a crucial moment that will change their attitude towards you.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia shares the shocking outcome of having your ex think you've stopped caring.

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You've been in no contact, haven't reached out to your ex and yet you still haven't heard from them.  Does that mean no contact failed?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia shares 2 actions you can take to get your ex to reach out.

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Is your breakup permanent or is it just a temporary detour on the path to forever?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia shares 8 signs you and your ex may get back together.


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By refusing to engage in your ex's breadcrumbs, you show self respect, deny your ex validation and force them to confront their true intentions.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia breaks down why ignoring insignificant messages is a silent power move that puts you back in control.

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There are 2 parts to getting an ex back - no contact and after no contact.  If you mess up once you're back in touch with your ex, you'll lower your chances of getting them back.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia shares what you need to do once you hear from your ex.

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If your ex is an avoidant, there's a good chance you're anxious.  If you let your anxiety take over when you're trying to get your ex back, your chances of success are very low.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what you absolutely must do if you want your avoidant ex back.

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Exes come back because they miss you and they realized what they lost when they broke up with you.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia shares how to motivate your ex to change their mind about the breakup and reach out.

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Believe it or not, even though your ex broke up with you, they do want to talk with you, even if weeks or months have gone by.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia shares why your ex wants to talk, even if they haven't reached out yet.

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There's a quote that says, "Dumper: Laugh Now, Cry Later.  Dumpee:  Cry Now, Laugh Later.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why eventually your ex will feel worse and you will feel better.

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