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Speaker 1 (00:01):
It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter, and if
you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting, and more,
please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEFM dot com
and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your
letter live on the air, just like we're going to
read this one right here, right now. You never know,
it could be yours.
Speaker 2 (00:21):
You never know, buckle Leven, hold on tight. We got
it for you. Here it is Strawberry.
Speaker 1 (00:26):
LETTA thank you nephew subject. I want to see it
every time. Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm a thirty five year
old married woman and I think all bodies are beautiful,
but my husband's is exquisite. He's got the curly chest, hair,
a little gut, love handles, and a real heavy hammer
that has had me hooked on him for fourteen years.
(00:49):
We met fourteen years ago at david Busters, where we
both worked while we were in college. My first day
of work, he told me that I was going to
be his wife, and he showed me what my reward
would be for marrying him. It was the most beautiful
thing I had ever seen, and to this very day,
I still want to see it. Every time I'm in
(01:11):
his presence, whether we're being intimate or not. He thinks
I've got a problem, but I don't see how loving
him from his head to his toes could.
Speaker 3 (01:20):
Be a problem.
Speaker 1 (01:21):
He used to send me photos while I was at work,
but he said that got old and I should be
past that stage of our marriage. But I'm trying to
keep the magic going. I don't say anything to him
if he falls wants to fall asleep with his hand
on my breast, So why is it a big deal
if I want to share, want to stare at his anatomy.
He says, being freaky has a time and a place,
(01:44):
and he's afraid that our sexting could get.
Speaker 3 (01:46):
Him in trouble one day.
Speaker 1 (01:48):
It makes me think that he's getting tired of me
and making up excuses.
Speaker 3 (01:52):
I don't understand what the big deal is. What's his
is mine and vice versa.
Speaker 1 (01:57):
My boobs are his to do as he pleases, so
why putting restrictions on what I do with his body?
Speaker 3 (02:03):
Now?
Speaker 1 (02:03):
He comes home and he showers with the door locked,
so I can't sit in the bathroom and talk to him.
He says he's keeping the marriage fresh and trying something new,
but I think there's a little more to it than that.
Could he be showing it to someone else? Wow, this
letter is strange because at thirty five, and I'm assuming
your husband is around that age too, because you didn't
(02:25):
say it was older or anything. But at thirty five,
you wouldn't think this would be that much of a
problem for him. You said you're trying to keep the
magic going. But I think there's something going on with him,
and it sounds like he just wants you to stop
asking him every day. I think he's over it. I
think he's tired of it and he just wants some peace.
He's at work, you want pictures of it. He's trying
(02:48):
to shower, you want pictures of it. You want to
watch him. It's gotten to be too much, especially when
he's at work. He's right, he could get caught sending
you picked and then what what if he gets fired?
All of that? You know, you got to think of
all of that. Sometimes people just want to shower by themselves.
They want some me time, some alone time. Sometimes they
(03:11):
do that, but it's like every time he turns around
there you are want him let you see it. He
shouldn't have to lock the bathroom door from his wife.
But the constant let me see it, let me see
it from you has just simply gotten on his nerves.
I think, especially if you're not being intimate at the time,
(03:32):
you just want to see it whenever, wherever. The question is,
why does he want you to stop? I don't think
there's enough to go on to say he's showing it
to someone else, So get that out your mind. I
just think he needs a break from you nagging him
to let you, let you see it every single day.
Just let him be, let it be organic and natural, Steve,
(03:56):
this is.
Speaker 2 (03:57):
A thirty five year old married woman that thinks all
bodies are beautiful, but my husbands is exquisite. Here lies
the problem. Here's a thirty five year old woman who
has stated up front she thinks all bodies is beautiful.
(04:19):
Right there? Oh, really, really, lady, you think all bodies
is beautiful, so you thought you'd open this letter with
this statement, and that Uncle Steve wasn't gonna pick up
on this one. Right here, let me make a real fact.
(04:40):
All bodies ain't beautiful, and everybody ain't got a beautiful body,
knowing ask them. Classic surgery is at an all time
high cause something wrong, and you think something is wrong,
so you want to go do something about it. So
let's stop this lie. Bodies ain't beautiful and your husbands
(05:04):
is exquisite. And then you went on to describe him.
He got currently chess helm, a little gut love heim.
Speaker 3 (05:17):
Right there, right there?
Speaker 2 (05:19):
What hard were trying to work on these guts? Honey?
You know how we want these love heaven going lady,
you just a lot. And then you got a hammer
that had had me hooked on him for fourteen years.
(05:41):
This ain't a letter about him being gorgeous or you
want to see it. This is a letter about you
being quipped. The stuff you doing is crazy. In this letter,
he showed it to you my first day of work.
He told me I was gonna be his wife, and
he showed me what the reward will be for marrying him.
He's the most beautiful thing I had ever seen. To
(06:03):
this very day, you ain't seen nothing. You was in college.
You ain't got nothing to compare to. He ain't the
most exquisite, He ain't the most beautiful. Open your eyes,
look around that little pot belly love handle. Last man
you got and you're thinking he exquisite. Girl. Stop, I
(06:26):
want to see it every time I'm in his presence,
whether we be an intimate or not.
Speaker 3 (06:31):
Who want to do that too much?
Speaker 2 (06:34):
Every damn time? Hey, hey, hey, let me see.
Speaker 3 (06:38):
Coon now all right, all right, hang on, Steve.
Speaker 1 (06:42):
We'll have part two of your response coming up at
twenty three minutes after the hour. The subject is I
want to see it every time. We'll get back into
it right after this.
Speaker 3 (06:52):
You're listening hard morning show.
Speaker 1 (06:55):
All right, Come on, Steve, let's recap the Strawberry letter
for today.
Speaker 3 (06:59):
The subject is, I want to see it every time.
Speaker 2 (07:03):
Well, thirty five year old woman lied to us, told
us she thinks, allbod this is beautiful. We all know
that ain't true. But her husband not squeezy girl. You
got curly chest hair, he got a little gut, he
(07:27):
got love handles. Who are you? Described man? Hell sounded
like Jui, Yeah, Anthony Brown, Tash, you ain't what what
(07:49):
what anyway? Anyway that cad ain't never game work, said
Tash was exquisite. Maouj ain't ever called in there? All
the articles me done, it says my husband is exquisite,
and yours ain't either. He told me, I was gonna
be his wife, and he showed me what my reward
gonna be from the verse, and he was the most
(08:10):
beautiful thing I've ever seen. You ain't seen nothing news
in college. You ain't got nothing to compare to but
old big hammer right there. Now. You want to see
it every time you in this presence, the hammer, even
if we not being intimate. He thinks I got a problem,
But I don't see how love and it from head
to toe can be a problem. It ain't the love
(08:31):
that he's sick of. It ain't the love. It's the
obsession with it. It's the obsession with wontness see it? Damn?
I put my pants on already? What man sitting up
in the hell? He used to send me photos while
(08:54):
I was work, but he said that got old and
I should be past that stage by man in fourteen years.
You just saw it last night? What is I'm sitting
a picture of it for? I don't say anything to him.
If he want to fall asleep with his hand on
my breast, fall asleep, it's called cuddling, spooning. Y'all supposed
(09:17):
to like that. Now you won't equate that to let
me see it? Well? Yeah, what you're doing. Yeah, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey,
we're in this car. We finish, go in Walmart. Let
me see it. Hey, hey, before we go into service here,
(09:44):
let me see it. He says it's being freaky and
all that's gonna get him in trouble one day, all
this sextn on the job. I don't understand what the
big deal is. What is mind? What is his? Is mind?
And vice versa. My boobs are his to do as
(10:05):
he pleases. Yeah, but it's got to be some type
of prioritization here. Yeah, it's got to be some type
of order. So why is he putting restrictions on what
I do with his body because it's his body, just
like you can put restrictions on what he do with
your body because it's your body. He don't want to
(10:25):
show it to you all the time.
Speaker 3 (10:28):
Damn.
Speaker 2 (10:31):
I don't want to see myself all the time. Hell,
I got to go to work. I got stuff to do.
He comes home and he showered with the door lock,
so I can't sit in the bathroom talk to him.
If I won't talk to you while I'm in the bathroom, No,
(10:53):
were they're trying to shower. You put the lid down there.
You're just running your damn mouth. You know what, He
tied to you? You too much. You. This is an
obsession you have and the obsession has gotten to be
too obsessing. You are too much. It's nothing to it
(11:14):
no more. It ain't even you no more. He just
tied to you. But I think it's a little more
to it than that. Could he be showing it to
somebody else? See, lady, your problem is you think allbodies
are beautiful, and you problem you think everybody think you
think you think allbody is are beautiful, and you think
(11:35):
everybody think like you, And that's not the case. This
does not say he's showing it to somebody else. He
just tied his showing it to your ass. He's sick
of you, and you gonna run your man off with this.
(11:55):
You gotta start prioritizing this. You got you gotta make it.
Can't be that excite if damn you too much. Now
you need gonna sit your ass down so you mess
around and don't see it no more. Wow, Yeah, you're
gonna mess around. He just gonna going up the letter going, yeah,
(12:18):
out of balling, let up. Yeah, Hey look hey, look, hey,
look I like playing in the sandbox, but not every.
Speaker 3 (12:24):
Day, all day, every day, all right.
Speaker 2 (12:30):
I like being intimate.
Speaker 1 (12:33):
Okay, here we go to what not every day?
Speaker 3 (12:38):
All right?
Speaker 2 (12:39):
I don't live with nobody where I'm going to go. Hey, Hey,
let me.
Speaker 1 (12:42):
See your comments on today's Strawberry Letter right at Steve
Harvey FM on Instagram and on Facebook.
Speaker 3 (12:52):
And check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on the.
Speaker 1 (12:55):
Free iHeartRadio app downloaded today. Okay, coming up at forty
six minutes after the hour, we'll hear from Junior and
Sports Talk. Right after this, you're listening to The Harvey
Morning Show.
It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter, and if
you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting, and more,
please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEFM dot com
and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your
letter live on the air, just like we're going to
read this one right here, right now. You never know,
it could be yours.
Speaker 2 (00:21):
You never know, buckle Leven, hold on tight. We got
it for you. Here it is Strawberry.
Speaker 1 (00:26):
LETTA thank you nephew subject. I want to see it
every time. Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm a thirty five year
old married woman and I think all bodies are beautiful,
but my husband's is exquisite. He's got the curly chest, hair,
a little gut, love handles, and a real heavy hammer
that has had me hooked on him for fourteen years.
(00:49):
We met fourteen years ago at david Busters, where we
both worked while we were in college. My first day
of work, he told me that I was going to
be his wife, and he showed me what my reward
would be for marrying him. It was the most beautiful
thing I had ever seen, and to this very day,
I still want to see it. Every time I'm in
(01:11):
his presence, whether we're being intimate or not. He thinks
I've got a problem, but I don't see how loving
him from his head to his toes could.
Speaker 3 (01:20):
Be a problem.
Speaker 1 (01:21):
He used to send me photos while I was at work,
but he said that got old and I should be
past that stage of our marriage. But I'm trying to
keep the magic going. I don't say anything to him
if he falls wants to fall asleep with his hand
on my breast, So why is it a big deal
if I want to share, want to stare at his anatomy.
He says, being freaky has a time and a place,
(01:44):
and he's afraid that our sexting could get.
Speaker 3 (01:46):
Him in trouble one day.
Speaker 1 (01:48):
It makes me think that he's getting tired of me
and making up excuses.
Speaker 3 (01:52):
I don't understand what the big deal is. What's his
is mine and vice versa.
Speaker 1 (01:57):
My boobs are his to do as he pleases, so
why putting restrictions on what I do with his body?
Speaker 3 (02:03):
Now?
Speaker 1 (02:03):
He comes home and he showers with the door locked,
so I can't sit in the bathroom and talk to him.
He says he's keeping the marriage fresh and trying something new,
but I think there's a little more to it than that.
Could he be showing it to someone else? Wow, this
letter is strange because at thirty five, and I'm assuming
your husband is around that age too, because you didn't
(02:25):
say it was older or anything. But at thirty five,
you wouldn't think this would be that much of a
problem for him. You said you're trying to keep the
magic going. But I think there's something going on with him,
and it sounds like he just wants you to stop
asking him every day. I think he's over it. I
think he's tired of it and he just wants some peace.
He's at work, you want pictures of it. He's trying
(02:48):
to shower, you want pictures of it. You want to
watch him. It's gotten to be too much, especially when
he's at work. He's right, he could get caught sending
you picked and then what what if he gets fired?
All of that? You know, you got to think of
all of that. Sometimes people just want to shower by themselves.
They want some me time, some alone time. Sometimes they
(03:11):
do that, but it's like every time he turns around
there you are want him let you see it. He
shouldn't have to lock the bathroom door from his wife.
But the constant let me see it, let me see
it from you has just simply gotten on his nerves.
I think, especially if you're not being intimate at the time,
(03:32):
you just want to see it whenever, wherever. The question is,
why does he want you to stop? I don't think
there's enough to go on to say he's showing it
to someone else, So get that out your mind. I
just think he needs a break from you nagging him
to let you, let you see it every single day.
Just let him be, let it be organic and natural, Steve,
(03:56):
this is.
Speaker 2 (03:57):
A thirty five year old married woman that thinks all
bodies are beautiful, but my husbands is exquisite. Here lies
the problem. Here's a thirty five year old woman who
has stated up front she thinks all bodies is beautiful.
(04:19):
Right there? Oh, really, really, lady, you think all bodies
is beautiful, so you thought you'd open this letter with
this statement, and that Uncle Steve wasn't gonna pick up
on this one. Right here, let me make a real fact.
(04:40):
All bodies ain't beautiful, and everybody ain't got a beautiful body,
knowing ask them. Classic surgery is at an all time
high cause something wrong, and you think something is wrong,
so you want to go do something about it. So
let's stop this lie. Bodies ain't beautiful and your husbands
(05:04):
is exquisite. And then you went on to describe him.
He got currently chess helm, a little gut love heim.
Speaker 3 (05:17):
Right there, right there?
Speaker 2 (05:19):
What hard were trying to work on these guts? Honey?
You know how we want these love heaven going lady,
you just a lot. And then you got a hammer
that had had me hooked on him for fourteen years.
(05:41):
This ain't a letter about him being gorgeous or you
want to see it. This is a letter about you
being quipped. The stuff you doing is crazy. In this letter,
he showed it to you my first day of work.
He told me I was gonna be his wife, and
he showed me what the reward will be for marrying him.
He's the most beautiful thing I had ever seen. To
(06:03):
this very day, you ain't seen nothing. You was in college.
You ain't got nothing to compare to. He ain't the
most exquisite, He ain't the most beautiful. Open your eyes,
look around that little pot belly love handle. Last man
you got and you're thinking he exquisite. Girl. Stop, I
(06:26):
want to see it every time I'm in his presence,
whether we be an intimate or not.
Speaker 3 (06:31):
Who want to do that too much?
Speaker 2 (06:34):
Every damn time? Hey, hey, hey, let me see.
Speaker 3 (06:38):
Coon now all right, all right, hang on, Steve.
Speaker 1 (06:42):
We'll have part two of your response coming up at
twenty three minutes after the hour. The subject is I
want to see it every time. We'll get back into
it right after this.
Speaker 3 (06:52):
You're listening hard morning show.
Speaker 1 (06:55):
All right, Come on, Steve, let's recap the Strawberry letter
for today.
Speaker 3 (06:59):
The subject is, I want to see it every time.
Speaker 2 (07:03):
Well, thirty five year old woman lied to us, told
us she thinks, allbod this is beautiful. We all know
that ain't true. But her husband not squeezy girl. You
got curly chest hair, he got a little gut, he
(07:27):
got love handles. Who are you? Described man? Hell sounded
like Jui, Yeah, Anthony Brown, Tash, you ain't what what
(07:49):
what anyway? Anyway that cad ain't never game work, said
Tash was exquisite. Maouj ain't ever called in there? All
the articles me done, it says my husband is exquisite,
and yours ain't either. He told me, I was gonna
be his wife, and he showed me what my reward
gonna be from the verse, and he was the most
(08:10):
beautiful thing I've ever seen. You ain't seen nothing news
in college. You ain't got nothing to compare to but
old big hammer right there. Now. You want to see
it every time you in this presence, the hammer, even
if we not being intimate. He thinks I got a problem,
But I don't see how love and it from head
to toe can be a problem. It ain't the love
(08:31):
that he's sick of. It ain't the love. It's the
obsession with it. It's the obsession with wontness see it? Damn?
I put my pants on already? What man sitting up
in the hell? He used to send me photos while
(08:54):
I was work, but he said that got old and
I should be past that stage by man in fourteen years.
You just saw it last night? What is I'm sitting
a picture of it for? I don't say anything to him.
If he want to fall asleep with his hand on
my breast, fall asleep, it's called cuddling, spooning. Y'all supposed
(09:17):
to like that. Now you won't equate that to let
me see it? Well? Yeah, what you're doing. Yeah, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey,
we're in this car. We finish, go in Walmart. Let
me see it. Hey, hey, before we go into service here,
(09:44):
let me see it. He says it's being freaky and
all that's gonna get him in trouble one day, all
this sextn on the job. I don't understand what the
big deal is. What is mind? What is his? Is mind?
And vice versa. My boobs are his to do as
(10:05):
he pleases. Yeah, but it's got to be some type
of prioritization here. Yeah, it's got to be some type
of order. So why is he putting restrictions on what
I do with his body because it's his body, just
like you can put restrictions on what he do with
your body because it's your body. He don't want to
(10:25):
show it to you all the time.
Speaker 3 (10:28):
Damn.
Speaker 2 (10:31):
I don't want to see myself all the time. Hell,
I got to go to work. I got stuff to do.
He comes home and he showered with the door lock,
so I can't sit in the bathroom talk to him.
If I won't talk to you while I'm in the bathroom, No,
(10:53):
were they're trying to shower. You put the lid down there.
You're just running your damn mouth. You know what, He
tied to you? You too much. You. This is an
obsession you have and the obsession has gotten to be
too obsessing. You are too much. It's nothing to it
(11:14):
no more. It ain't even you no more. He just
tied to you. But I think it's a little more
to it than that. Could he be showing it to
somebody else? See, lady, your problem is you think allbodies
are beautiful, and you problem you think everybody think you
think you think allbody is are beautiful, and you think
(11:35):
everybody think like you, And that's not the case. This
does not say he's showing it to somebody else. He
just tied his showing it to your ass. He's sick
of you, and you gonna run your man off with this.
(11:55):
You gotta start prioritizing this. You got you gotta make it.
Can't be that excite if damn you too much. Now
you need gonna sit your ass down so you mess
around and don't see it no more. Wow, Yeah, you're
gonna mess around. He just gonna going up the letter going, yeah,
(12:18):
out of balling, let up. Yeah, Hey look hey, look, hey,
look I like playing in the sandbox, but not every.
Speaker 3 (12:24):
Day, all day, every day, all right.
Speaker 2 (12:30):
I like being intimate.
Speaker 1 (12:33):
Okay, here we go to what not every day?
Speaker 3 (12:38):
All right?
Speaker 2 (12:39):
I don't live with nobody where I'm going to go. Hey, Hey,
let me.
Speaker 1 (12:42):
See your comments on today's Strawberry Letter right at Steve
Harvey FM on Instagram and on Facebook.
Speaker 3 (12:52):
And check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on the.
Speaker 1 (12:55):
Free iHeartRadio app downloaded today. Okay, coming up at forty
six minutes after the hour, we'll hear from Junior and
Sports Talk. Right after this, you're listening to The Harvey
Morning Show.
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