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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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Speaker 1 (00:24):
Thank you nephews. Subject why does he keep giggling? Dear
Stephen Shirley. My husband and I have been together for
almost eleven years and we are inseparable. We still go
on dates and we still enjoy being freaky together in
the bedroom. We share our Facebook page and his friends
are my friends and vice versa. His parents have been
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married for almost thirty five years, and his dad thinks
he has all the best marriage advice. He recently told
my husband that he should have some things that he
enjoys doing without me. Right after that, my husband left
work early and got a haircut and went to rest
restaurant for drinks with his coworkers. He would never do
that without telling me. First, when he admitted to doing it.
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After he got home, he said, three of his coworkers
joined him.
Speaker 3 (01:10):
One of his female co workers.
Speaker 1 (01:12):
Tagged him in a picture they took and I saw
it before he got home. I asked him about the
photo and he started giggling. He was no longer trustworthy
in my eyes. So I devised a plan to try
to meet these new female coworkers of his. I told
him I wanted him to take me to the same
restaurant he took the women to, and he said cool.
Speaker 3 (01:34):
We went the next day after work and we ordered
our food.
Speaker 1 (01:37):
His female coworker that was in the picture walked in
and came over to us.
Speaker 3 (01:41):
She said she knew that she would.
Speaker 1 (01:43):
Find him there, and he started giggling like a fool.
She was talking about the rainy weather and my husband
was giggling. She asked what I ordered, and my husband giggled.
He was giggling so hard that he spilled beer down
his shirt. I want to know what's so funny. Is
a silly crush or was it a nervous giggle because
he's hiding something. Why was my husband giggling so darn much?
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I don't know why any grown men giggles like this.
I don't know any grown men who giggle, so I
don't know why he giggles so much.
Speaker 3 (02:17):
I mean, this.
Speaker 1 (02:18):
Letter's kind of frustrating because giggling is usually something teenage girls.
Speaker 3 (02:22):
Do you know?
Speaker 1 (02:23):
You asked if it was a nervous giggle because he's
hiding something. But what could he be hiding? You saw
the picture he took with his coworker. He didn't object.
When you asked him to take you to the same restaurant,
he said cool and took you there. The next day,
his coworker came over to you, guys and said she
knew he would be there.
Speaker 3 (02:41):
No hiding there.
Speaker 1 (02:43):
I know you didn't like it, but the advice his
father gave wasn't bad advice.
Speaker 2 (02:47):
Men do.
Speaker 1 (02:49):
They do stuff without their wives all the time. You
don't like the fact that he did something without you.
I think that's the issue, and you're blaming it on
his dad because before his dad told him that, you
said you guys were inseparable, your husband didn't tell you.
He left work early, got a haircut, and went to
a restaurant.
Speaker 3 (03:08):
He told you when he got home.
Speaker 1 (03:10):
Now you see that he enjoys going out on his
own sometimes without you.
Speaker 3 (03:15):
You question him.
Speaker 1 (03:17):
About it, and he obviously doesn't know what to say,
so he just starts giggling. Like I said, I don't
know any grown men or women for that matter, who giggle.
But I do know plenty of them men and women
who do things without their spouses, and there's nothing wrong
with that, unless, of course, they're cheating or something, and
I don't think that's the case here. He needs to
grow up, your husband, because the giggling from your adult
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husband is not an answer. It's just stupid. It just
needs to stop. Just learn how to talk, Steve.
Speaker 4 (03:45):
I'm a.
Speaker 2 (03:47):
Damn you know.
Speaker 4 (03:51):
What seems to be a perfectly good marriage.
Speaker 2 (03:57):
According to this letter suspicious because he laughed. Ah be
oh lord, let's review this right here.
Speaker 4 (04:12):
You and your husband beginning together eleven years, We are inseparable.
Speaker 2 (04:16):
It is separable. That's what you are to me. You
bring out the man and.
Speaker 4 (04:34):
Uh.
Speaker 2 (04:34):
We still go on dates.
Speaker 4 (04:36):
We still enjoy being freaky together in the bedroom. We
share Facebook pages, friends of my friends, vice versa. His
parents been married for thirty five years, and his dad
thinks he has all the best marriage advice. He recently
told my husband he should have some things that he
enjoys doing without me, And I'll tell you something that's
good ass marriatal advice, because rebody needs some meantime. You
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cannot be so attached at the hip that you can't
function unless you have the hip.
Speaker 2 (05:09):
You ain't a baby, you ain't a kangaroo.
Speaker 4 (05:15):
You got to get out the pouch. You got to
be able to hop on your own. I think that
vice was solid. Right after that, your husband left work early,
got a haircut, went to a restaurant for drinks with
cowork He would never do that without telling me first.
But I gotta tell you I'm getting a hair cut.
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What wait a minute, hold up, I got to call
my wife and tell my wife I'm getting a haircut.
Speaker 1 (05:46):
Uh.
Speaker 4 (05:47):
It seems to me like you are a bit control?
Who excuse me, a bit control?
Speaker 3 (06:01):
Make a plane for the faith back.
Speaker 2 (06:06):
Controlled? Because he would never do that without telling me first.
Speaker 4 (06:11):
When he admitted to doing it after he got home,
he said three of his coworkers doing it. When he
told you that after he got home, he wasn't even
hiding that. And one of his female co workers tagged
him in the picture and they took it.
Speaker 2 (06:25):
I saw it before he got home.
Speaker 4 (06:29):
Okay, I asked him about the photo, and he started giggling.
Speaker 2 (06:33):
Right there, we come back.
Speaker 4 (06:36):
We're gonna do a reenact, all right, wow, and why
he giggled?
Speaker 1 (06:41):
All right, we'll have part two of Steve's response coming
up in twenty three minutes after the hour subject why
does he keep giggling?
Speaker 3 (06:49):
We'll get back into it right after this.
Speaker 1 (06:52):
You're listening Steve Hardy Morning Show. All right, come on, Steve,
let's recap today's strawberry letter. The subject is why does
he keep gigg This.
Speaker 4 (07:01):
Woman right here has what she considers a perfectly fine
marriage to been married eleven years. They're totally acceptable. They
do everything together. They still go out on dates. They
still freaky in the bedroom. They got Facebook page, his friends,
they share friends. His friends is her friends, is her friends,
it's his friends, vice versa. His daddy and mama been
married for thirty five years. He thinks he got the
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best marital advice. He told his son, you need to
find something that you enjoy doing alone, which is great
marital advice. Absence makes the heart grow fond. It's always
good to have some me time. You should go.
Speaker 2 (07:38):
Somewhere with just the fellas or something like that, you know, and.
Speaker 4 (07:41):
So you gotta have it or most men need that,
most women need some girl time. Just go out with
your girls so y'all can talk like y'all want to talk.
Speaker 2 (07:50):
You know that's not you right.
Speaker 4 (07:52):
Well, anyway, after that, he went there one day after work,
Your husband left work early, got a haircut and went
to a restaurant for drinks with his coworkers. He would
never do that without telling me first. Now you think
your husband got to stop and tell you that he
get a haircut. He'd see something wrong with this picture
right here. That sounds a little bit controlling to me.
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You're gonna just go somewhere and get a haircut, and
you didn't tell me. He would never do that first. Well,
well he did it, damn. But then he went to
a restaurant for drinks with some coworkers. He would never
do that without telling me first. When he admitted to
doing it, after he got home, he got home and say, hey, baby,
I went to the restaurant, had some drinks with some coworkers.
Speaker 2 (08:34):
He said. Three of his coworkers joined him there.
Speaker 4 (08:36):
One of his female co workers tagged him in the
picture and they took and I saw it before he
got home, so you already knew this information. He came
in and said it anyway. The man wasn't lying. I
asked him about the photo, and he started gigging. He
was no longer trustworthy in my eyes. So I devised
a plan to try to meet these new female coworkers
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of his.
Speaker 2 (08:58):
IH see you too much, he waged, Yeah, he gonna
end up leaving you. Ass.
Speaker 4 (09:02):
I'm just seeing that coming right now. I'm just gonna
put that out there. Hold, I got doctor. Devised the
plan to try to meet these court I told him
I wanted to take me to the same restaurant he
took the women to him.
Speaker 2 (09:12):
He said cool.
Speaker 4 (09:14):
We went the next day after work, and after we
ordered our food, his female coworker that was in the
picture walked in it came over to us. She said
she knew that she would find him there, and he
started giggling like a food. She was talking about the
rainy weather. My husband was giggling. She asked, what I ordered?
My husband giggle? He was giggling so hard a spilled
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being down his shirt.
Speaker 2 (09:36):
I want to know what it's so funny?
Speaker 4 (09:38):
Is this a silly crush or was it a nervous
giggle behind because he's hiding something? Either way, the way
you just phrased it, it's no good answer.
Speaker 2 (09:48):
Something's wrong.
Speaker 4 (09:49):
The way you phrase it, you said, is this a
silly crush that ain't good for your husband to have
a crush on a female cowork Or was said the
nervous giggle because he hiding something that ain't good?
Speaker 2 (10:04):
Because now you're saying he cheating?
Speaker 4 (10:06):
Either way? Was my husband giggling? Why was my husband giggling?
So there, I'll tell you why. But let's do a reenact.
You're gonna be the lady in the left, and I
want you to question me when I come home about
this picture, about these strengths, about this woman, everything, and
I'm gonna show you what happened when he was go ahead,
he was coming to the house. Hey, baby, I went
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out to the restaurant.
Speaker 3 (10:30):
This picture on Facebook.
Speaker 2 (10:32):
Yeah I know, Yeah, Well I don't want to I
went on a restaurants coworkers. We had some dreaming.
Speaker 3 (10:38):
Why didn't you call me and let me know that
you were going? You know, maybe I wanted.
Speaker 2 (10:44):
To go, You wanted to go?
Speaker 3 (10:47):
Yeah, maybe, Why don't you let me know?
Speaker 1 (10:51):
Let you know Yeah, who are these female coworkers?
Speaker 3 (10:55):
I want to make them.
Speaker 2 (10:56):
Oh, they just worked there. You can meet him if
you want to.
Speaker 3 (11:00):
Where's those restaurants? I want to go tomorrow?
Speaker 2 (11:03):
Okay, we can go to morning prom. So we go
on to the restaurant.
Speaker 4 (11:07):
Uh huh, and in walks the female who was posted
the picture, and she walked right over to us and saying,
go ahead.
Speaker 3 (11:15):
What kind of what did you order? What is that
that you ordered?
Speaker 2 (11:18):
Baby? This is my coworker right here.
Speaker 3 (11:20):
H Hello, who is this? Who is this?
Speaker 1 (11:24):
Honey?
Speaker 3 (11:24):
Is this one of the This is my coworker? Why
are you giggling? Watch your beer? Want your beer?
Speaker 2 (11:36):
You can? Don't worry about that, baby always Well, I'll
be wasting this stuff.
Speaker 3 (11:44):
How long have you guys worked together?
Speaker 1 (11:47):
Oh?
Speaker 2 (11:47):
About hello?
Speaker 4 (11:49):
Hello?
Speaker 2 (11:50):
Then hello?
Speaker 4 (11:51):
Are you.
Speaker 2 (11:53):
About three? Three?
Speaker 3 (11:58):
What is what is funny? It's just a normal question.
Speaker 2 (12:02):
Funny. Just when you ask how long she's been here?
Speaker 4 (12:04):
And I said three, I will because there's three of
us in here.
Speaker 3 (12:08):
Sounds like you're hiding something. Sounds like she right here?
Speaker 2 (12:12):
Why am I she right here? Right here?
Speaker 4 (12:15):
Well?
Speaker 3 (12:15):
You see look out fine, you don't giggle that much
at home? Why are you giggling so much.
Speaker 2 (12:22):
You ain't funny like she is. You ain't funny like
she is.
Speaker 3 (12:28):
Fun So you coming here every day after work? Is
that it?
Speaker 2 (12:32):
At one time?
Speaker 4 (12:33):
We probably be back next week because you know, my
daddy told me I need to start doing something by myself.
So I'm sitting up in here by myself.
Speaker 2 (12:41):
Yes, a lot of fun.
Speaker 1 (12:44):
I'm gonna find out what all this giggling is about
when we get home in the meantime. That's kind of
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