March 22, 2023 • 11 mins
Are Women More Masculine Than Feminine?
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Speaker 1 (00:03):
It's topic time call eight hundred five five one oh
five want to join it to the discussion with the
Breakfast Club morning. Everybody is j n V. Charlemagne the guy.
We are the Breakfast Club. Now ifew just joined us.
We had a yan La bon zat here this morning
and we were talking about all women more masculine than feminine.
That's a that's a choosing, violent question. I'm gonna be
(00:27):
honest with you, but that's what Let's create a clip.
What is the distinction between feminine power and masculine power?
And we've been conditioned and trained to be men in skirts.
We do everything like men, we compete like man. I
said this on our spot a few weeks ago. I said,
most women want their boyfriend to act like their girlfriends,
(00:50):
you know, chatting, shopping, but when the man comes home,
what they meet as another dude. Now, when Ayala was here,
I was silent because I had nothing to say about that.
I'm not a woman. I don't identify as a woman.
I don't have a whoha okay, I have a he
heat all right, Um, yes you know. And so I'm
just here to I'm just here to listen to the
(01:11):
phone calls. And you know, I don't want to hear
from nothing but women about this. I don't want to
hear about it. I don't want to hear from nobody
with a penis. If you identify as a man, I
don't want to hear from you. Hello, who's this Hey, Shelisa,
Good morning, Good morning. Do you think a women are
more masculine than feminine nowadays? Yes? I do, But it's
not because we want to. I think it's because we
(01:33):
have to. Like I worked with a big superman and
when I tell you, I have argued with these been
like women just to prove that, Hey, you know, I'm
a woman. They don't open doors, they don't lift anything
happy anymore. And let's not even get started about how
a lot of them want you to become fifty fifty
(01:54):
and how old, Like why am I gonna sit here
and do all of that when I am already when
it on my own, Like I don't need you to
come in and su all of that, Like it's stupid. Lisa,
let me ask you a question. Do you think part
of this is because I would say in the last
I would say maybe ten years, everybody's been talking. Everybody
wants everything fifty fifty women want the same amount as men.
(02:17):
So it's kind of like, well, if you want the
same amount, do the same amount. I don't look at
it like that, but do you think maybe that's part
of it? It could be part of it, But I'm
gonna say this, like from where I come from, my
grandma worked, my grandfather worked, but when she wanted to
retire into her business, my grandfather made a show that
was possible. I have my other grandmother and my dad's side,
I don't ever recall her working like in my entire life,
(02:41):
I don't recall her having a job, but things got done.
I feel like they talk about the want these women
to step back into these roles, but they're not doing
well their grandfathers have done. And that was say all
the bills. M Okay, thank you. I'm just listening. Okay,
let's go to another I'm just listening to this, this
(03:01):
trauma being spilled over this radio this morning. What what
I've told Detroit? So what do you think you think
women are more masculine and feminine? I think women have
become more masculine because the saves hand to not because
we want to lore, because we choose to but because
we don't have men to lead up. And that's not
(03:22):
I'm not There are some very good strong men that
leads their women. But in most cases we have to
become masculine because we have to be, not because we
want to be. Um. Yeah, I don't think it's a
choice anymore. So, you know, it's interesting when people say that,
because it's like a man shouldn't dictate how you how
you move right, Like like just because a man isn't
(03:44):
showing up the way he needs to show up, doesn't
mean you got to be more masculine, does it. Well,
we're supposed to be a helpmate, and if we believe
we're not, we don't have the person that were supposed
to be helping. Then we got carried a load on
our own. But I think than us becoming more ambasculine
or feeling like we need to be in that position, no,
I think we've done it because it has to because
(04:06):
the pass through, not because we have a choice because
the men are making in that area. I also wonder
what the balance is right, because you gotta have sacred
masculine and you gotta have divine feminine, like they both
exist in in both genders. So I wonder what that
balance looks like. Well, what are you doing that you
feel like is masculine that you shouldn't be doing? Wearing
right guard? Shut up? Taking out the trash, yeah yeah,
(04:31):
taking out the trash, yeah, my oil change yeah, um,
taking my card to the car wash, yeah, well, taking carts,
things like that. That's things like that. My dad definitely
did that for my mom. My mom, I don't think
you ever been to a car wash, only a gas
station if she had to. And I do the same
thing for my wife. My wife does get car washes,
though she'll go with if she if she has time.
(04:51):
But yeah, my wife has never seen the inside of
an other places like real men like your wife getting
hit on the most at the dance station. You should
never let your wife go to the dance station. That's
what she don't get. What's driving and she's on E
Like come on, now, some of this is ridiculous. That's
that's the true because like when like when my wife,
(05:12):
when I usually on the weekends, I take all I
take my wife's cars to get gas, to take my
daughter's cars to get gas. What if she's driving during
the weekend, she's on E. Also, let's reverse that if
a man cooks and a man cleans, is that things
that are are regulated only the women know. Because there's
plenty of single men out here who don't have nobody
to cook for them and have nobody to clean for them,
needs to survive, and they probably a look more. They
(05:35):
probably look more in touch with they feving inside as well. Yes,
you right, and you're right, not in a negative way
like a next note, but there's probably more in touch
with I think cooking when I looked by myself cooking
and cleaning with just basic necessities you needed to survive.
And Lowland, you're right, and that's why you appreciate a
woman more once you finally do get one, because she's
(05:56):
your helpmate and she usually takes on those type of
responsive Okay, and Lola, you're right. Yesterday my wife went
to the car wash to get a call clean and
you know what, dude, tolerance, that's the last time she's
going to that guy, damn every day for that damn
car was be jealousy like I want to get Holida,
I want to go to the car I want to dude,
hollidat me, shut up man eight und five eight five
(06:20):
one oh five one. I Yan Love Zon. She was
here earlier this morning and she was saying that women
are more masculine today than feminine. Let's talk about it.
We'll take your calls when we come back as the
breakfast Club of the morning. Call me to the breakfast
(06:41):
Club top on. I did five five one five one morning.
Everybody is DJ Envy Charlomagne, the guy we all the
breakfast club. Now if he's just joining us, we're talking
about Iyan Love von Zon. She was here earlier and
she was talking about women being more masculine than feminine today.
Let's just listen. I'm just listening. What is the distinction
(07:02):
between feminine power and masculine power? And we've been conditioned
and trained to be men in skirts. We do everything
like men, We compete like man. I said this on
our spot a few weeks ago. I said, most women
want their boyfriend to act like their girlfriends, you know,
chatting shoppings, but when the man comes home, what they
(07:25):
meet as another dude. I'm just sitting here listening like
I was sitting here listening when I Yalla Bonzan was talking.
Because I'm not a woman and I don't identify as
a woman, I have thoughts, but I would rather hear
what women got to say. Let's go to the phone lines. Hello,
who's this angel? Angel? What I do? What I do?
You know what we're talking about? I called him to
(07:46):
get in on y'all like carel y'all know it's twenty
twenty three. Of course we're doing way more masculine works
than feminine. Or if we use the more, way more
masculine energy than we're working in our femin it has
to stop. I'm gonna need you all to get these
communities and rebuild these fells. Okay, they don't took over
our clothes. They want to do everything we do, so
(08:06):
now we gotta do everything y'all supposed to be going.
I'm over it. Okay, thank you? Hello, who's this ard?
Good morning? God? What do you think you think women
are more masculine and feminine? No? I think that depending
on the situation, the woman's gonna shout her femininity. Like
if you're not giving enough energy where we feel the
(08:28):
need to be soft and subtle, then we're not going
to be. We're going to be. I guess men were masculine,
but all in all, not at all true. Okay, well,
thank you mama, Thank you every today too. Hello. Who's
this the subscriber? Hey, good morning. We're asking do you
think women are more masculine and feminine? Um? Yes, here
(08:51):
tend to be more masculine. Um. I'd myself from real life,
and I didn't a lot more masculine than I would warmly.
And I feel like that's just a hardship men today,
at least the men that I came across, has not
been masculine themselves. So I find myself having to pick
up where they're not doing, and I just find myself
(09:13):
just being you know, in your face round, I got
it myself, I'm gonna do it myself like. And I
realized that I was masculine when I had finally had
a daughter, and I realized there was something feminine about me.
And I realized, like maybe that was a problem in
a lot of my relationships that I didn't know how
to be just a woman in a skirt. I was
(09:35):
trying to be, you know, play the role of a
man while still being a woman. And I feel like
a lot of women are like that, because not all men,
but a lot of men in a round, they are
not masculine anymore. So if a woman is what a
man that's not presenting a safe an environment where she
can grow and flourish and be feminine, her masculine decided
wanted to come out. Okay, I'm gonna be honest with you, man.
(09:58):
I blame Beyonce. Why do you blame Beyonce? We have
a generation of women raised by Beyonce, you know, and
I love Beyonce. Y'all know my Pinkett Smith went free
knows Carter. But Beyonce, you know, she told y'all to
be independent women. Oh my lady independent? Oh yeah, hand
the man man all of that, you know, And then
it was all my single ladies. And then she wouldn't
get married on y'all ass okay, and left y'all out
(10:19):
here confused with no direction. What happened to the independent
woman era? Somebody has to admit that being an independent
woman is overrated. And the reason women were independent is
because they had to be, Okay, it was almost out
of out of survival, right, not because they wanted to be.
I do know. We have to find a balance, though,
because the world is never gonna be what we needed
(10:41):
to be until everyone has the right balance of sacred
masculine and divine feminine. That's when the world is, uh,
you know, gonna gonna be, gonna be what we wanted
to be. Is that your moral of the story. That
is definitely my moral of the story. Nobodycause nobody said that.
Yet nobody has said you know, uh, you know, nobody
admitted being an independent woman was overrated. And by the way,
(11:03):
being a single man is overrated. Like the only reason
people want to be independent is because they feel like
they have to be in that moment. But everybody wants
a partner, bro. Everybody wants a partner that they can
grow with. Everybody wants a partner that they feel protects them,
provides for them. Everybody wants a partner that's gonna have
their back. Man. That's it. Like what mefor Man said,
all I need rubbed me on my back baby and
(11:25):
tell me everything will be okay. Everybody wants that. Say
it with me. Stop stopping. See this is y'all problem.
Y'all spend fifteen years singing all them damn songs and
telling the universe y'all want to be a single lady.
I'm a single lady. I had to damn that back then.
Forget all that. Tell the universe you want a partner
a man. Okay, men, tell the universe you want you
(11:46):
a woman. Say it. We need more positive music. What's
the record that can bring people together? Man,
It's topic time call eight hundred five five one oh
five want to join it to the discussion with the
Breakfast Club morning. Everybody is j n V. Charlemagne the guy.
We are the Breakfast Club. Now ifew just joined us.
We had a yan La bon zat here this morning
and we were talking about all women more masculine than feminine.
That's a that's a choosing, violent question. I'm gonna be
(00:27):
honest with you, but that's what Let's create a clip.
What is the distinction between feminine power and masculine power?
And we've been conditioned and trained to be men in skirts.
We do everything like men, we compete like man. I
said this on our spot a few weeks ago. I said,
most women want their boyfriend to act like their girlfriends,
(00:50):
you know, chatting, shopping, but when the man comes home,
what they meet as another dude. Now, when Ayala was here,
I was silent because I had nothing to say about that.
I'm not a woman. I don't identify as a woman.
I don't have a whoha okay, I have a he
heat all right, Um, yes you know. And so I'm
just here to I'm just here to listen to the
(01:11):
phone calls. And you know, I don't want to hear
from nothing but women about this. I don't want to
hear about it. I don't want to hear from nobody
with a penis. If you identify as a man, I
don't want to hear from you. Hello, who's this Hey, Shelisa,
Good morning, Good morning. Do you think a women are
more masculine than feminine nowadays? Yes? I do, But it's
not because we want to. I think it's because we
(01:33):
have to. Like I worked with a big superman and
when I tell you, I have argued with these been
like women just to prove that, Hey, you know, I'm
a woman. They don't open doors, they don't lift anything
happy anymore. And let's not even get started about how
a lot of them want you to become fifty fifty
(01:54):
and how old, Like why am I gonna sit here
and do all of that when I am already when
it on my own, Like I don't need you to
come in and su all of that, Like it's stupid. Lisa,
let me ask you a question. Do you think part
of this is because I would say in the last
I would say maybe ten years, everybody's been talking. Everybody
wants everything fifty fifty women want the same amount as men.
(02:17):
So it's kind of like, well, if you want the
same amount, do the same amount. I don't look at
it like that, but do you think maybe that's part
of it? It could be part of it, But I'm
gonna say this, like from where I come from, my
grandma worked, my grandfather worked, but when she wanted to
retire into her business, my grandfather made a show that
was possible. I have my other grandmother and my dad's side,
I don't ever recall her working like in my entire life,
(02:41):
I don't recall her having a job, but things got done.
I feel like they talk about the want these women
to step back into these roles, but they're not doing
well their grandfathers have done. And that was say all
the bills. M Okay, thank you. I'm just listening. Okay,
let's go to another I'm just listening to this, this
(03:01):
trauma being spilled over this radio this morning. What what
I've told Detroit? So what do you think you think
women are more masculine and feminine? I think women have
become more masculine because the saves hand to not because
we want to lore, because we choose to but because
we don't have men to lead up. And that's not
(03:22):
I'm not There are some very good strong men that
leads their women. But in most cases we have to
become masculine because we have to be, not because we
want to be. Um. Yeah, I don't think it's a
choice anymore. So, you know, it's interesting when people say that,
because it's like a man shouldn't dictate how you how
you move right, Like like just because a man isn't
(03:44):
showing up the way he needs to show up, doesn't
mean you got to be more masculine, does it. Well,
we're supposed to be a helpmate, and if we believe
we're not, we don't have the person that were supposed
to be helping. Then we got carried a load on
our own. But I think than us becoming more ambasculine
or feeling like we need to be in that position, no,
I think we've done it because it has to because
(04:06):
the pass through, not because we have a choice because
the men are making in that area. I also wonder
what the balance is right, because you gotta have sacred
masculine and you gotta have divine feminine, like they both
exist in in both genders. So I wonder what that
balance looks like. Well, what are you doing that you
feel like is masculine that you shouldn't be doing? Wearing
right guard? Shut up? Taking out the trash, yeah yeah,
(04:31):
taking out the trash, yeah, my oil change yeah, um,
taking my card to the car wash, yeah, well, taking carts,
things like that. That's things like that. My dad definitely
did that for my mom. My mom, I don't think
you ever been to a car wash, only a gas
station if she had to. And I do the same
thing for my wife. My wife does get car washes,
though she'll go with if she if she has time.
(04:51):
But yeah, my wife has never seen the inside of
an other places like real men like your wife getting
hit on the most at the dance station. You should
never let your wife go to the dance station. That's
what she don't get. What's driving and she's on E
Like come on, now, some of this is ridiculous. That's
that's the true because like when like when my wife,
(05:12):
when I usually on the weekends, I take all I
take my wife's cars to get gas, to take my
daughter's cars to get gas. What if she's driving during
the weekend, she's on E. Also, let's reverse that if
a man cooks and a man cleans, is that things
that are are regulated only the women know. Because there's
plenty of single men out here who don't have nobody
to cook for them and have nobody to clean for them,
needs to survive, and they probably a look more. They
(05:35):
probably look more in touch with they feving inside as well. Yes,
you right, and you're right, not in a negative way
like a next note, but there's probably more in touch
with I think cooking when I looked by myself cooking
and cleaning with just basic necessities you needed to survive.
And Lowland, you're right, and that's why you appreciate a
woman more once you finally do get one, because she's
(05:56):
your helpmate and she usually takes on those type of
responsive Okay, and Lola, you're right. Yesterday my wife went
to the car wash to get a call clean and
you know what, dude, tolerance, that's the last time she's
going to that guy, damn every day for that damn
car was be jealousy like I want to get Holida,
I want to go to the car I want to dude,
hollidat me, shut up man eight und five eight five
(06:20):
one oh five one. I Yan Love Zon. She was
here earlier this morning and she was saying that women
are more masculine today than feminine. Let's talk about it.
We'll take your calls when we come back as the
breakfast Club of the morning. Call me to the breakfast
(06:41):
Club top on. I did five five one five one morning.
Everybody is DJ Envy Charlomagne, the guy we all the
breakfast club. Now if he's just joining us, we're talking
about Iyan Love von Zon. She was here earlier and
she was talking about women being more masculine than feminine today.
Let's just listen. I'm just listening. What is the distinction
(07:02):
between feminine power and masculine power? And we've been conditioned
and trained to be men in skirts. We do everything
like men, We compete like man. I said this on
our spot a few weeks ago. I said, most women
want their boyfriend to act like their girlfriends, you know,
chatting shoppings, but when the man comes home, what they
(07:25):
meet as another dude. I'm just sitting here listening like
I was sitting here listening when I Yalla Bonzan was talking.
Because I'm not a woman and I don't identify as
a woman, I have thoughts, but I would rather hear
what women got to say. Let's go to the phone lines. Hello,
who's this angel? Angel? What I do? What I do?
You know what we're talking about? I called him to
(07:46):
get in on y'all like carel y'all know it's twenty
twenty three. Of course we're doing way more masculine works
than feminine. Or if we use the more, way more
masculine energy than we're working in our femin it has
to stop. I'm gonna need you all to get these
communities and rebuild these fells. Okay, they don't took over
our clothes. They want to do everything we do, so
(08:06):
now we gotta do everything y'all supposed to be going.
I'm over it. Okay, thank you? Hello, who's this ard?
Good morning? God? What do you think you think women
are more masculine and feminine? No? I think that depending
on the situation, the woman's gonna shout her femininity. Like
if you're not giving enough energy where we feel the
(08:28):
need to be soft and subtle, then we're not going
to be. We're going to be. I guess men were masculine,
but all in all, not at all true. Okay, well,
thank you mama, Thank you every today too. Hello. Who's
this the subscriber? Hey, good morning. We're asking do you
think women are more masculine and feminine? Um? Yes, here
(08:51):
tend to be more masculine. Um. I'd myself from real life,
and I didn't a lot more masculine than I would warmly.
And I feel like that's just a hardship men today,
at least the men that I came across, has not
been masculine themselves. So I find myself having to pick
up where they're not doing, and I just find myself
(09:13):
just being you know, in your face round, I got
it myself, I'm gonna do it myself like. And I
realized that I was masculine when I had finally had
a daughter, and I realized there was something feminine about me.
And I realized, like maybe that was a problem in
a lot of my relationships that I didn't know how
to be just a woman in a skirt. I was
(09:35):
trying to be, you know, play the role of a
man while still being a woman. And I feel like
a lot of women are like that, because not all men,
but a lot of men in a round, they are
not masculine anymore. So if a woman is what a
man that's not presenting a safe an environment where she
can grow and flourish and be feminine, her masculine decided
wanted to come out. Okay, I'm gonna be honest with you, man.
(09:58):
I blame Beyonce. Why do you blame Beyonce? We have
a generation of women raised by Beyonce, you know, and
I love Beyonce. Y'all know my Pinkett Smith went free
knows Carter. But Beyonce, you know, she told y'all to
be independent women. Oh my lady independent? Oh yeah, hand
the man man all of that, you know, And then
it was all my single ladies. And then she wouldn't
get married on y'all ass okay, and left y'all out
(10:19):
here confused with no direction. What happened to the independent
woman era? Somebody has to admit that being an independent
woman is overrated. And the reason women were independent is
because they had to be, Okay, it was almost out
of out of survival, right, not because they wanted to be.
I do know. We have to find a balance, though,
because the world is never gonna be what we needed
(10:41):
to be until everyone has the right balance of sacred
masculine and divine feminine. That's when the world is, uh,
you know, gonna gonna be, gonna be what we wanted
to be. Is that your moral of the story. That
is definitely my moral of the story. Nobodycause nobody said that.
Yet nobody has said you know, uh, you know, nobody
admitted being an independent woman was overrated. And by the way,
(11:03):
being a single man is overrated. Like the only reason
people want to be independent is because they feel like
they have to be in that moment. But everybody wants
a partner, bro. Everybody wants a partner that they can
grow with. Everybody wants a partner that they feel protects them,
provides for them. Everybody wants a partner that's gonna have
their back. Man. That's it. Like what mefor Man said,
all I need rubbed me on my back baby and
(11:25):
tell me everything will be okay. Everybody wants that. Say
it with me. Stop stopping. See this is y'all problem.
Y'all spend fifteen years singing all them damn songs and
telling the universe y'all want to be a single lady.
I'm a single lady. I had to damn that back then.
Forget all that. Tell the universe you want a partner
a man. Okay, men, tell the universe you want you
(11:46):
a woman. Say it. We need more positive music. What's
the record that can bring people together? Man,
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