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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Good morning, Usa yo yo yo yo yo yo yo
yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo
Yohola me piece, don't playing in this Tuesday. We got
our guest host back, Jason leave Jason live. Hell oh Tuesday,

(00:20):
man's kinda scratch some things out, crack some things. No,
before you get today started. What's happening? How y'all feeling?
It's good this Tuesday? It's Tuesday. See that's what I mean.
You see you wish she had that four day work week, now,
don't you. Yep? She was just getting here. Yep, you
know what I mean speaking of four day work week.
That LARSA pippen Cliff went everywhere yesterday. Y'all actually did
the math thirty three thousand times. I didn't get the

(00:42):
exact numb. I just knew it was over thirty thousand,
But now I know she lying. There was so many
people comments, and especially women when women, women know their
their bodies. Women was like what about periods? Women was
like what about after pregnancies? You know, we know. It
was like, so you made every road trip. I guess impossible,
that this is impossible to have sex four times and
day every day. Did you see the clip we were

(01:02):
talking about, Jester? Shit, Yeah, you didn't hold me down.
I said, I can't protect your vagina. I don't know
nothing about that. She's still holding on to that. She
stayed holding it down. Stop lossing for four days, four
times a day, every day for twenty three years. She'd
be in the hospital right now, Come on, stop that
clip of us talking about it. Yes, shit made me
exhausted just watching it. People was like, so no sickness.

(01:23):
You didn't have the flu, you didn't have a cold,
like nothing. Come on, stop Jesus stop. All right, Well,
how are you feeling, Jason Lee? You was out last day?
Or you chill? You know what? I left here yesterday
and went to some bar and fell asleep. Not at
the bar, Yeah, you fell asleep at the bar. Yeah,
and didn't have one drink. I just tired, just tired,
And then I was up all night because I took
a nap. You just fell asleep at a random bar
and looking for my friends. I just said, order whatever

(01:45):
I want and I just took a nap. Hold on,
So that picture you posted on Instagram and you sleep
it was at a bar. Yeah, that's nice ball. I
thought it was a hoteltop situation. Okay, letsten like here
a good time. Well, Elliott Connie will be joining us
this morning. Elliott is one of the most culturally competent
therapist you're gonna ever meet in your life. And he
focuses on solution what is it called solution focused brief therapy. Okay, yes,

(02:11):
he's gonna break that down with all that means. That's
right this morning, all right. And then we got front
page news Tesla figure Out will be joining us. We
got a lot to talk about La. Seems like they're
shutting the schools there. I will let you know why.
And John Morant is he coming back? We'll tell you when,
so don't move get to it. Next is to Breakfast Club.
Good morning, everybody is dj n V Charlemagne the guy.
We are the Breakfast Club. We got our co host

(02:32):
Jason Lee hanging out with us, and let's get in
some front page news. We have Tesla figure O here out.
Now let's start off with John Morant. It looks like
John Morant is gonna return to the Grizzlies hopefully this Wednesday.
He was with the team last night as they played
who They played Mavericks last night and he was with

(02:52):
the team. He didn't play, he was in street clothes.
But it looks like he will be back tomorrow. Now,
what's going on with Trump? We got any updates with Trump? Yes,
we do. Good morning, breakfast clubbers. I want to remind
you again to do your own independent research because obviously
this is a lot of information, guys, and we can
only get in so much information. So let's do a
quick update on former President Donald Trump. Today is Tuesday,

(03:16):
and as we discussed yesterday, Donald Trump predicted that he
would be arrested today. So today we're going to find out.
But since the grand jury will not meet until Wednesday,
it is highly unlikely. And remember, Charlotte Mayne, you mentioned
that on yesterday, you said our dad is going to
be today. So we'll see if they move forward today

(03:36):
or Wednesday. Now, in the meantime, Trump has posted a
social media campaign style ad and it ends with always
remember they are coming after me because I am fighting
for you. So again, like we discussed on yesterday, this
is an advantage for President Trump. Former President Trump, my
apologies throwing that out there. He's been able to raise
money to galvanize his base and pretty much you turn

(03:59):
the world upside down to have us talking about Trump.
So it's working. I don't think Trump is getting the
rest of today. In fact, I'm not sure he's getting
in dieted an NYC at all. Be honest with you,
remember an end game when Thanos got hitting the chest
bout Thord Stormbreaker and he said, you should have went
for the head. This ain't a head shot at all,
Like everybody's saying, this is a weak case, and it's
just gonna make him stronger because it looks like more
of a witch hunt and it looks like the wolf

(04:20):
is attacking him again. And in the optics of Alvin
Bragg being black, he's gonna use that to his advantage too, first,
gonna use that this they're preparing in New York City
just in case. I know, they for barricades all around
the Trump Hotel and also downtown with the courts are
so I think it's just in case. I think I
think Trump did this on purpose. He's store up. He
stirred up the waters just to keep himself in the news,
just to keep the conversation going. But said, why do

(04:41):
you think Trump's message connects deeper with his audience than
like Biden's does with his America Loves gangsters? Yeah, perception
against And they're doing a rideout today from Long Island,
So I guess all the magga people they're gonna get
in their cause and it's probably gonna be the coming
out here. Yeah, to the city for real. Yeah, and
once again, when somebody uses the threat of violence to

(05:03):
avoid prosecution, were in the dysfunctional society or dysfunctional government?
Now what's going on, Florida Governor? Now? Yeah, absolutely, you
guys are right, And just as a piggyback on that,
they are that campaign ad. They're using Alvin Bragg's photo
in that. And you know, I told you guys years
ago when I came to the Breakface Club that Trump
is absolutely the Suga Knight of politics. But after being

(05:24):
pressured for several days by Trump allies, in other words,
they told them pick aside, a stepaside, Governor Ron DeSantis
finally broke his silence about Trump's potential indictment and honey,
his response was nice, nasty. He did not hold back
on the shade. Take a listen, I don't know what
goes into paying hush money to a porn star to
secure silence over some type of alleged affair. I just

(05:47):
I can't speak to that. But what I can speak
to is that if you have a prosecutor who is
ignoring crimes happening every single day in its jurisdiction and
he chooses to go back many many years ago to
try to use something about hornstar hush funny payments, you know,

(06:10):
that's an example of pursuing a political agenda and weaponizing
the office. That was shady, it was, and you know
he didn't have to say that, but he said it anyway.
And then Trump came back and said, well, in paraphrase,
and I won't read everything he said, but he said, well,
you'll you'll realize what this is life once you become
more well known. So he threw some shade back on

(06:31):
and then put up a picture saying that the Santista
might face allegations from underaged girls, are possibly a man
for them to get, for them to hate gay people.
They throw in the shade just like the girls. Dude,
man Son, you got to move that over to the
room report Jason and let us know what's happening with
in tens, what's going on with these LA schools? What's
what's happening in LA today? Yes, absolutely, this was really important.

(06:55):
I wanted to make sure that folks know that after
almost a year negotiation, Education Workers United voted to approve
a three day strike that starts today and is expected
to last until Wednesday. Now, thousands of members from cafeteria
workers to bus drivers working in the Los Angeles United
School District. Per usual, they're demanding more equitable wage, increases,

(07:18):
more full time work, respectful treatment, and increase staffing. And so,
my did you know fact on this story is the
longest teacher strike to date was an eight month strike
in nineteen eighty seven in Homer, Illinois. And before we
close the front page news, I want to just double
back on something I said yesterday. A lot of people said,
are you telling me I can run? When I mentioned

(07:40):
you can run for president in Nited States with a
felon being a felon, and somebody said, I can't believe
that's true. So I want to double down on that again. Yes,
you can run from president of United States even if
you are a convicted felon. Now you may have a
hard time getting a job or a place to live,
you know, on all the basic necessities. But you can
run for the highest office in the land and a
quick Google search can firm that fact. That was your

(08:01):
front page news. Okay, if they requirements to be president? Huh. Now,
honestly of question, did the Trump and Milania ever get divorced?
Did they get divorced? I don't know. I don't think so. No, no, no,
they're still married. They're still married. I never heard that.
She looked like she wanted to get divorced. She wasn't
holding his hand, and she was dodging. And never see
them together anymore, Like you know, it was the last

(08:23):
time y'll see them. She probably exhausted. Well, we really
didn't see it when he was running, I mean when
he was actually in office. Remember she was real, She
wasn't excited at all about the presidency. Remember it took
her a while to even move to DC. They probably
should have had sex four times a day, Larry, can't.
Nobody's trying to have Donald Trump on the four times
a day. Okay, thank you, chest, get it off your chest.

(08:44):
Eight hundred five eight five one oh five one. If
you need to vent fuonline to wide open again eight
hundred five eight five one oh five one to get
it off your chest? Call us up now it's the
Breakfast Club. Good morning the Breakfast Club. Yo, Charlotte man, dassy,
what up are we lying? This is your time to
get it off your chest? How into a pool? We

(09:07):
want to hear from you on the Breakfast Club. Get
on the phone right now here. Tell you what? Hello?
Who's this yo? This is rape be from the campbells
sup City? What's the Campbell Sioux City? You said this
yesterday and you still ain't able to work in the hospital.
Great day for everybody that's able to walk around. That's right.
What the Sioux City? Sir? What city is that? That's Campbell, Ohio?

(09:30):
The other side of youngster. Okay, okay, get it off
your chests, bro man, I'm still over here like stuck
on that Trump thing because it's feeling the regular Joe
Smo man, we would have been in prison a long
time ago. Still, Whitney, get our they see how much
more time we're gonna get. Well, it wasn't a regular.
Joe Smo was a privileged white man who happens to
be the former president of the United States of America, Right,

(09:53):
we get all that money. That's just letting anybody know
that when you got a lot of money, did you
know how to use it so occasion you could get
away with that type of stuff. I don't even know
if it's about money as much as it's about power
and privilege, because you know, they don't want to set
the precedent of locking up that kind of white man,
because you you know, he said the president of locking
up that kind of white man, and you gotta follow
us to locking up anymore. They don't want that to

(10:15):
become a pattern. Hello, who's this? This is tal Ya Hey,
tal yea good morning. Get it off your chest, mama,
good morning. Um. I pretty much just wanted to say
how blessed I am and to be a message to
other young people in my generation to just stop running
to drama. A month ago, I was in my bed
and I tried to run and go help because then

(10:36):
that God involved in the fight and I ended up
being shot and I have a foolage. It's part of
my spinal cord. It broke my comfy phone and shrunk
a nerve in my left leg. So I'm just blessed
to be here and again. I just want to be
a message to other people. Suggest if you're not in
trayna leave it alone and has us to do what
you just say, home and be checked up, to get

(10:56):
close to to God and just live life. Life is
too short. I'm so sorry that happened to you. Glad
you're okay. Where you from, Mama, I'm from West Palm Beam,
So I listen to you guys all the time. I win.
I want things from your radio nature like that. You
sound so positive and so upbeat. Yeah, regard despite the circumstances.

(11:17):
Can you are you able to walk? Um? Yeah, I'm
able to walk on my left leg is because it
hit me on my left side on the left leg
where you know, it's the nerve at m. Like, if
I'm sitting down in a chair, I can't lift my
left leg up to my test. I'm taking a shower,
getting in and out of the car, I have to
like lift it up. So right now I have to
do physical therapy twice a week, and it's expensive and

(11:38):
it's just a lot of things that it happened at
our actual home. So the state attorney is kind of
trying to say that it might be a standard ground law,
even though I've been a victim of it. So me
and my family have been the one coming out of
pocket whether stuff, but it shouldn't be very strengthful. Well,
we're gonna claim that you're gonna walk fully and get
back to a better house. Sending you loving prayers for
sure all the time. God is great, chick to play

(12:03):
is good. Get it off your chests eight hundred five
eight five one oh five one. If you need to vent,
hit us up now, phone lines who wide open? It's
the breakfast Club. Good morning, the Breakfast Club. Wa. This
is your time to get it off your chest. Eight
hundred five eight five one oh five one. You want
to hear from you on the breakfast Club? Hello? Who's

(12:25):
this on the top of the morning. Everybody's saying, so
top of the top, getting off your chest. But man, first,
first of all, our whole music is official. You can
hear all the answer. That's yeah. I just wanted to say, uh,
you know, the morning everybody. I'm a trucker. I just
wanted to do say everybody be safe, you know, drive safe,

(12:47):
Just stay on the road, stay your lane and everybody
will be Okay. That's it. Are you in your truck now, yes, sir,
but that hard. Let's get it all right, man, be
safe out there, all right, we already know. But hello,
who this Hey? This is lyrical faith from the Bronx,
New York. Hey, lyrical from the Bronx without get it
off your chest, all right, y'all. First off, I just

(13:08):
want to say I love y'all. Y'all are amazing. I
listened to y'all every morning, and I am at the
hitter activist, spoken word poet, and I wanted to pick
home for y'all. Go ahead, go all right. So this
is this is a womanut piece to call all you
black black. My response to the men who take me
out tell me I'm pretty and asked if I am

(13:29):
just black, Well, I'm black mixed with black, So I
guess that made me black. Black like Afro American, like
my ancestry, be flayed black, like they played all day
in pencosucle with a TACKI shirt on your back, black,
like chance Atlantic trade black, like we always late black,
like only late because of two guys today. That's gonna
be our ghost out there for the rest of our days.

(13:49):
Like auction black black, like picnic black, like you won't
make it to the march. You caught up at the
sit in black like three thousand, four hundred and forty
six innch and you ain't never known a black mother's
who ain't pray for her kids. We open casket black
me close case. Were afraid at night because they try
to get in my neighborhood. And if you look like me,
you ain't safe. And as I pondered an answer to
your stupid question with my rustling b faith, well we

(14:13):
still wait in a reparation. So I hope you pay
for this day. Okay, okay, that's dope. What can you find?
That's right? I appreciate you so much. So my Instagram
is at lyrical faith, poetry, lyrical faith l y R
I c A L s A H poetry p r y.

(14:36):
You can find me on Old bring the Platform, YouTube, Facebook,
all of that at lyrical face, your lyrical face. As
I appreciate you so much, Thank you, y'all. Hello is
this the Silence Creek, Goose Creek, South Carolina? What's happening

(15:00):
up to her? Hey, Charlotte, Man, I got a quick question. Man,
when we're gonna have a chuck t on that? Man,
my guy chuck T. You know he's done a big
things out here man for Carolina's Man, that's a good question.
That's my guy, DJ Chuck T. Man, Chuck, my man,
Chuck used to when I was in between jobs. I
used to go and you know, buy mixtapes in bulk
from DJ Chuck T. And that's how I used to

(15:22):
make a little change on the side man, selling those mixtapes.
You're doing big things out here with the NBA and
just putting on the Carolina rappers. Man like, yeah, he
do the Hornets night, he do the Charlotte Hornets Night.
That's my guy, man, that's my that's my brother for life.
Love Chuck just I love to hear him on the
show one time and anytime, any anytime. All you gotta
do is Holly, Chuck is the reason the baby. We

(15:43):
had the baby up here back in the day when
he when he came, when he came and did his
first interview here. Yeah, he put me on a female
rapper name Haity lay Man. He needed to check out
she up and coming man, Haiti lay Yeah, I will
do that all right. Get it off your chests. Eight
hundred five ain't five one oh five one. If you
need this ent to hit this up now, Jason Lee,
we got rumors on the way. We'll we're talking about. Yeah, well,

(16:03):
apparently Tamar Braxton and Canny Birds heard the show yesterday
because the gloves are off and they're fighting again more again,
Jesus Christ. All right, we'll get into that next door move.
It is the Breakfast Club. Good morning, the Breakfast Club,
burning everybody. It's DJ n V Charlomagne the guy. We
are the Breakfast Club. We got our co host Jason
Lee with us, and let's get right to the rumors.

(16:25):
Got mastered the tea thing. The only place I want
to come and talk to about was here because I
really feel like everybody in the culture potentially off. But
I knew I can talk my talk talk to me.
This is the rumor report on the Breakfast Club. It's
the first I want to mention Triple X ten. You know,

(16:46):
he was murdered back in twenty and eighteen. The three
people have found guilty a first degree murder just went
down yesterday in Florida, So I just wanted to get
out of the way. No surprises there. I mean, he
was on videos on video, you know, and they deserve
every single second of that time, and they sad because
young brothers too. And I'm sure they're gonna learn, it's
just that they're gonna have to learn in prison. Yeah,
it was really sad. All right, So let's get over

(17:07):
to what's going on in Atlanta. The gloves are off again.
I love that sound effect. So apparently Tamar Braxon and
Candy Burst were watching the show yesterday or listening in
and heard us talk about what was happening in the
world of chaos that they're creating. Now, for those of
you that missed the show yesterday, Tamar Braxon was recently
I'll Watch What Happens Live with Andy Cohen and she
talked about being accosted by a real housewive of Atlanta

(17:30):
and her husband, and the fans found out that it
was Candy burs Well. Yesterday when we talked about it,
the fans went crazy, and Tamar went live on social
media to talk about what happened, and this is what
she said. Weeks go by, four or five weeks go by,
and we all have a concert together and I see
Candy in the hallway and I'm like, hey, bol and

(17:52):
I give her a hug, you know whatever. She just
look at me, and she's like, I ain't. I'm like,
what happened? She like, well, you say that you said
what about call those? King was bower. Now people were
saying that Tamar was lying and that this never happened,
and so Tamar continued to explain the conversation between her
and Candy. I didn't mean no harm, you know. I

(18:14):
wasn't trying to, you know, go against you or nothing
like that. It's you know. And she was like, nah
nah nah nah, you say you say you say, And
I'm like, sis we I'm listen. If I offended you,
I am so sorry. And plus I see her a DM,
and I said, I sent you with DM when you know,
when your fans out was coming to my page. Na

(18:34):
na Na, But you said and you did and did
and did and then you double damn and put it
in your start. I said, listen, Kenny, I'm not trying
to go that with you now. Yesterday I said that
Candy burst was allegedly and bully. You both said that
you couldn't see it. Now I'm telling you it's very
interesting because this is what happens when people don't like

(18:57):
being called out. When you shake the serial and all
the roaches fall out. I'm not calling black women roaches.
I'm just saying that I used to live in the
hood and we have roaches in our cereal. When you
shake the cereal box like Tamark did, the roaches fall out,
and Candy Burst did not like that, so she went
straight to social media to gas like the fans, and
this is what she said. The only thing I'd say
right now is you know, simply that that's not true.

(19:18):
My husband never sentence to her. He did not threaten her,
none of that. So that's why I was like, I
don't even want to like address that on Amazon Live.
She and I didn't have words, but he did, so
that's why I was like, Yeah, some people like to
twist things a little bit, but we can talk about

(19:38):
it later on a different platform or not. Well, let's
speak about on this platform, Candy, because you're playing twist.
So let's talk about receipts. Because here's a receiver right here.
This is a receipt from Tamark because after she called
her victim, Tamar said, I am the victim. When your
man steps to a woman sounds like an abused woman
to me, seeing nothing wrong with that. I hope he's
not beating your ass. I pray for your helling Jesus.

(20:00):
She also then posted this receipt, and this is a
receipt of her standing. They're taking a picture with a
fan while her man is back there checking Todd allegedly,
And she posted that that conversation happened. And then you know,
fans were still down in Tamark. What did they call
checking based off a picture? They just sis You see
them talk, They having a conversation. Okay, how do we
know that actually need a hostile converse? We don't. Well,

(20:21):
and this is what this is. This is Tamark's husband.
For Tamark's boyfriend, this white man to walk up on
a black man have a conversation. There was a lot
of courages, so she put to this receipt. He might
have been asking what can I do for the Black
Lives Matter? That he wasn't asking that that he wasn't
asking I think he actually can don't need some money.
He said what he said, This is what he's said.
What he said for the record, Yes, I did have
a conversation with Todd about what he said to Tamar,

(20:41):
and he immediately seemed embarrassed about it apologizing. Wanted to
make amends for saying quote, you know what it is.
He tried to rationalize what he said what he said,
but I stopped him and said it should have never happened.
I then asked him to clear it up with Tamar
and apologize in person. Now, I'm not mad at any man,
you know, approaching another man on behalf of the woman.
You let that white man check you. He probably thought

(21:02):
he was still producing the show. You know, That's how
they made He was a producer on the show, and
then they fell in love whatever, and now now he's
caught up in the storyline. But you know, maybe he
wants a peach. I don't know. But what I do
know is that Candy, and this is where celebrities have
a problem with me. I'm a likable person. Hollywood Unlocked
is not a likable platform all the time. You I
can like you, Hollywood unlock, could think you're corny. Hollywood

(21:23):
A lot could love you, and I could think you're corny.
You're Hollywood unlocked, Jason, No, that is your media platform.
Speaking of confusion, she continued playing twister yesterday, and Candy
had this is say about me and Hollywood alot that
particular person he had like been dogging me on his blog,
like he has said a lot of negative things. I'm

(21:43):
sure you got seen because some of the stuff who
was on different blogs or whatever. I guess other people
had picked it up. This is a while ago. And um,
so if somebody had dogged you, would you want to
interview for their page? No? Um, Jason Lee likes you can't.
And I said that yesterday. I said that in every interview.
I still like you, I really do. I'm a big fan.

(22:03):
I'm gonna play who should you run to? When I
got here? But let me tell who you should run to.
You should run to Elliott. Doctor Elliot can help you
with some psychlotherapy because at this point, your delusional Hollywood
Ulock thinks your corn and your storyline is tired. Your
man thinks he's a woman out there fighting with Tamo
or Braxton. And now guess what, I'm gonna unbreak your heart.
Nobody cares And I'm not gonna come to see your
show on April first because her and Tamar are gonna

(22:26):
be in concert together, which is crazy, which I don't
know if this is for a show or not, But
what I do know is Candy, You're always welcome to
Hollywood a lot, even though you're not gonna come because
t I canceled your appointment last time, and he'll probably
cancel it again. So what do you say. You're basically
saying that you know artists you can still be You
should be allowed to be critical of people and still
let them they can still want to sit down to
have a converence the same conversation we're happening about you
in the White House. You should be able to criticize

(22:47):
people and still break bread. But guess what, we have
a relationship with every celebrity. Some just choose to participate
or not. We're gonna still continue to talk about Candy's
tired storylines, and then I may pull up an old
lady gang and get whatever they serve on the your
damn mind if you talk crazy about Candy and they
go eat it a salmon bites are good though you
standing on, you ain't gonna talk crazy about me coming

(23:10):
he said, you pull up. Listen, I'm gonna support her.
You were smarter than that. Jon. You don't get a
little route put on or I'm gonna buy the restaurant
and bulldoz that hell out of it, like that some
old lady roots put on it. But you're gonna understand
the Candy don't want to sit off course call Let
me ask you a question. We talked about the back
and forth. I'm sorry, I know we gotta go, But

(23:30):
where did it start? Why they beef? What was the problem?
Why are going back? Like? I don't know what Jason made?
That sounds good, but I enjoyed them. I never like,
why would they be enjoy like? Why did she step
to it? Like? What was the problem in the first place?
I don't know, but I'm ready to see a fight
go down. I don't want to see them fight. We
never know why they fighting. I don't even think they
know why they fight. We got the fighter bells again.
I wouldn't mind being Todd in the white dude fight,
but I don't want to see the women fight. I

(23:51):
can't wait to see Todd with the peach Man. You
are crazy, z you think win? What you mean fight
Todd todd Man? You mean how about Tamar and Candy?
That's what I was talking crazy? All right? All right? Well,
thank you for that rumor report. Jason Lee so messy,

(24:12):
but I loved it. And I enjoyed it. Good morning too.
By the way, I thought I had. I thought I
was the only one with a new intro up here.
Y'all got introst for everybody else. I don't feel special.
Jess hilarious. You h portion had one? He need to?
I think Ninia had one. Yeah, just been flexing her
creative muscle. That's all all right, you know when we
come back, we got Front page News. Tesling figure will

(24:32):
be joining us, will break some things down, so don't move.
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Light Morning, Everybody's dj n V, Charlot Migne the Guy.
We are the Breakfast Club. We got our co host
Jason Lee with a us this morning, and it's time
for Front page News. We got ten figure out on
the line. She's back of Monitazz. Good morning, and everybody
now when you want to start the four guilty of conspiracy,
break that story down for us. Yes, four people associated

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with the far right anti government extreamist group known as
the Oath Keepers were convicted on Monday of conspiracy to
obstruct Congress and obstruction of Congress stemming from the attack
on the US Capitol. Both of these charges can carry
a sentence up to twenty years behind bars. And now
it's so far as the DLJ says that at least

(25:36):
one thousand Trump supporters have been arrested for the January
sixth Capitol riot. Now, I do again want to remind
people this particular story. Guys look it up because there's
a lot of information on this one that I couldn't
get in on who was charged and why, and their
husbands and baby daddy's and all. It's a lot with
this story. So I want to have you guys to
look it up. But I remember charlomagne An Mvu talked

(25:58):
about several times like when are people going to to jail?
And so I just want to remind people that there
have been over a thousand people who have been charged
now convicted and going to jail. As another story, but
there's some movement on that it's been. It's been quite
a few that have been cont And we also got
to talk about this Vermont High School basketball team, girls team.
They're forfeiting a tournament because they don't want to play

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against a transgender player. Yes, as of twenty twenty two,
the Vermont private schools are expected to follow the state's
antidiscrimination discrimination rules if they want to get state funding.
In other words, if you want to get the bag,
you have to do what we say. But earlier this year,
mid Vermont Christian School and another religious affiliated school told

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the Vermont Board of Education that they wanted to reserve
their right not to follow all of the antidiscrimination discrimination
rules due to their religious belief Well, it appears that
they try to exercise that right and decided in February
not to play in a tournament because they refuse to
play against a team with a transgender player. Now, the
head of school, Vicky Falk, explained that the reason for

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the forfeit was that her school did not think it
was fair to have girls a girls team play against
an opponent with a biological male, because it jeopardized the
fairness of the game and safety of the players. Since then,
the Diversity, Equity and Inclusion and Activities Committee, the Activity
Standards Committee, and the VPA Executive Council made a decision

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that the team violated the policies and they are now
banned for all future activities and tournaments moving forward. So
they can't play anything tournaments, not in a tournament, or
activity anything because they violated that policy. That's not fair
because that sounds like common sense to me. Like we've
all seen Juwanna man, we've seen Grandmama who I'm saying,

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we've seen that was probably out there averaging thirty and
twenty against the women. Man, remember that, Remember that swimmer
that he was a man and then he transitioned to
a woman, and when he was swimming as a man,
he was like number eighty, Yes, and then when you
transition to a woman like number one or something. That's
what I'm my point. Whoever they were playing again, I
got to see the status. If this person is averaging

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fifty two blocks, I'm not playing against them either. That's
not fair. Yeah. My concern is, you know, even the
religious beliefs, you know them saying up front, you know, hey,
we don't mind following your policy for we're a private
school and it's a Christian school, it's a Christian high school.
So it's really interesting to see, you know how, I

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guess they're not getting any leeway based upon you know,
their own individual right, you know, based on the religious beliefs.
And they attached that again to what okay, if you
don't do what we say, you won't get funding. And
so this is just a real interesting story and I
think guys should look it up and look more into it.
I knew, I knew they were going to ask the
resident gave his opinion. People would be surprised, But I

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actually agree with you. I just I don't think it's fair.
I mean, can you imagine, like when you look at
what happened with DeMar Hamley, if you put a biological
woman on the field than she was, he was to
get hit. There could be like some real serious I
don't know, people are gonna be mad because they said, oh,
you should say equality. I'm all for equality, but in
this instance, I just don't know that that's not equality
when somebody has a biological advantage against you, you know

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what I mean? And I just yeah, I don't, I don't,
I don't. I don't dig it. I don't think it's fair.
But I've always said, You've heard me on record say this,
you should put one transgender woman. But on every w
NBA team. I think that Kaylin out there. She's like
the greatest athlete ever. Get washed. Now the generation, the
WNBA player, the Agian Wilsons and all the middle wash

(29:34):
Kaylyn gen. But you should have if you want to
make the w NBA even more exciting, because I like
the fundamental basketball the w NBA plays. Where you really
want to make it more exciting, put one transgender woman
on each team. Can he plays? Not use Jawana Man
as a reference stuff, because that's what made me think
of Kaylin. But I'm just talking about how ridiculous it
looked when this person with a biological advantage was out

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there playing against women. That movie showed us what could
go down. You know, I'm not mad at him. I
do wish that this team wasn't hiding behind religion. No
task like even like even with the religious rule, just
stay straight up. No, it's just not fair what they did.
The statement. Yeah, they said in the statement that no,
this is this is not fair based on you know,
having a lady ladies play against a biological man. I

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was just pointing to the fact that when they changed
this policy, they put it on the table earlier last year,
saying we're telling you now, we're not going to be
in line with everything you know on this discrimination policy
they had in place. So they're they're doing they're playing
both angles on this plane, playing both angles, hilarious, having
Laverne concept here. I saw the trans Barbie back here

(30:41):
to that was Jason put that play together. I was
trying to get the stats, but I can't find this.
I need to see the stats. That's what I need.
I need to see how much this person was averaging
on that team playing both sides. It's too early in
the order for what do you think task Well, you know,
I think, but again, I'm always going to look at
the pop politics side of it, and I think when

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we remember last week we talked about separation of church
and state. UM, we talked about you know, being able
to have the right to do something, and the fact
that they said last year that this is not in
line with our beliefs, I'm leaning more towards that. I
hear what you guys are saying, but you know, I'm
always looking at looking at it from a legal lens
or political lens, and I think they made that clear

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last year. So they obviously they could have had an
opportunity as well not to accept the money. You know,
you could always not accept the money and do whatever
you want to do, so you can look at it
from from that way as well. That's true. So that's
two different sides of this no pun intended. Pause. All right,
now say y'all don't know if y'all think nothing to

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do with the hood whisper okay, warm up to Charlot.
Make sure y'all subscribe to this great shot note Chase
the podcast with Teslin Figua on the Black Affect I
Heart Radio podcast Network. Man, thank you so much, tests
no problem. We'll see you tomorrow and Ted's gonna be

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with us too in Atlanta on April twenty second at
Pullman Yards for the first step of Black Affect Podcast Festival.
She's gonna be on the Business and Podcasting panel and
the Woman in Podcasting panels. So make sure you go
to ben Bright and get your tickets. When is that again?
April twenty second in Atlanta at Pullman Yards. That's right,
all right, Well, thank you tess again and when we
come back, Elliott Connie will be joining us. He has
a new book, The Solution Focus Brief Therapy, culturally competent Psychotherapist.

(32:35):
You're gonna ever meet man and we're gonna chop it
up with him when we come back, So don't move.
It's to breakfast club the morning. The breakfast club because
I think we're told you respect your parents no matter what.
They can say whatever they want, they could do what
every they want. But yeah, I think that I don't
agree with that. Yeah, well I want one hundred percent.
Was raised that way, like you respect your parents, don't
matter what you do. But I was in such a
bad place. I was like, I'm pretty sure that I'm

(32:57):
not supposed to die behind that rule. Like I'm pretty
sure I'm I'm supposed to suicide out of here just
because I'm not supposed to talk back to my father.
So I got back. I got to a place where
it was like I gotta set this boundary or else.
I wonder if it's it's the term rules or an
adult you know what I mean? Because as an adult,
as you know, you set the rules. So now when
your child, because no matter how old you. Are you

(33:17):
still he still looks at you, I'm sure of as
his child grow, I'm sure is the setting of rules.
I think that's an interesting point, like if I said
something other than rules. But I think to your point,
but if you if you look at your child that
you wouldn't take anywhere the boundary rule request, it wouldn't
really matter. Like I was raised in that, you know,
nineteen eighties, nineteen nineties, where black child is to be
seen and not heard and all that stuff. I don't.

(33:39):
I don't think it would have mattered. But I also
agree with you. I think part of the issue in
today's world is not respecting authority. I'm talking about not
respecting abusers. I'm talking about not allowing abusers to have
free reign to your life. I do think we have
to learn to respect the authority, and I think it's
a lot of reasons contributing to our kids. Don't do that.
You you told me the other day that you feel
like kids should disrespect their parents. I think parents should

(34:00):
expect I'm in the contract of wild in the context
of our conversation, go ahead, Jason, let me let me
put that in context. My mother would say, Ellie, go
do the dishes, and I would be like, why didn't
you ask one of them? And that would get me popped.
You know that that would get you luck to be
popp and I tell you so, yeah, yeah. But if
you're teaching your child to be confident, to be strong,

(34:22):
to value their voice, they should ask those kinds of
questions and it allows you to parent them. But we
shouldn't translate that as disrespect. They're just practicing. It's not disrespecting.
They're practicing their voice. That was in our era. I
would never think to talk back, and I would never
even think to talk to my parents the way my
kids talk to me, at least say it's not disrespect,

(34:42):
it's just them being like asking valid questions. I don't
agree with you with that, La, because and this is
gonna sound crazy here we go. I got six kids,
So if I tell one of my kids to do something,
I expect it to be done. I'm not gonna do
it something that's gonna be detrimental to their health, something
that's going to hurt them. It's part of what everybody
needs to do to be in this household. Agree with
meaning if if dad's shows a dad's way is to

(35:04):
make the money, pay the bills, do this, that and
the other, and I ask you to shovel the snow.
Don't ask me why don't say, well, why didn't you
ask this this? You know, sibling, why didn't you ask
this one? No, because I asked you to do it.
But you could explain it to them just the way
you explained to Just listen. You shouldn't have to. This
is a rule that applies to everything, because it's one thing.
If a kid says, hey, you know, I want to
try some finno, well no, don't do finn on. Let

(35:25):
me explain you why so you invite them to a
conversation about it versus I expect these things to be
done as your parents, so go do them. Yes, I
think when you start inviting the kid into I mean,
I don't have kids clearly yet, but when you have
this perceived negotiation of what you expect as a parent,
then you invite them into a different type of relationship
for sure, and not all things in negotiations. I just

(35:45):
think we need to have more conversations. If my child said,
don't want to try finno, it is perfectly okay to
say no and let me sit you down and we're
going to converse as to why. Like, conversation is powerful.
Look at what you guys have done with conversation. So
I've ended my relationship with my father a few years ago,
very intentionally, very you know, I told him it's over.
When you say you still because I want to go

(36:06):
back to you saying that you still want or desire
to have that relationship. People always try to guilt me
in that, like that's your dad. You need your dad
and he gonna die soon. You got to have that relationship.
I feel like people should have the permission to leave
a relationship forever if they choose to and still be
at peace. Because do you feel like people have guilted
you into believe in that you need to have closure.
You can't have closure aout having a relationship, right, Yeah, Jason,

(36:27):
it's a funny thing you say. So the situation I
was in and am in with my father, you talk
about people trying to kill you. I went to got
a whole master's degree in family therapy. My teachers would
talk to me about they talk to whole class, what's
your relationship like your dad? And then I'd say my situation, Oh,
you need to call him, You don't know, like people
telling me that I need to subject to myself to
abuse aren't listening. So when I tell you now, like

(36:48):
I pray every day, and it's true, I pray every
day for healing to happen and for me to have
a relationship with this man because because that's my dad
and I love him to this day, and I feel
like I have this gift of forgiveness that i'd like
to give him that he is not willing to accept
because he's got to do these things in order to
accept it. However, do I have peace? Of course I do,
because I've given myself this thing, and anybody can come

(37:08):
into my life as long as you give me emotional
and physical safety because I can sort out everything else.
Maybe maybe I don't understand because I don't I don't
have the type of relationship you guys have with your dad.
But I kind of feel like what you said, because
Charlemagne and I always talk about it like our parents
didn't have They didn't know right, There was no instruction manual.
They did the best that they could at that time,

(37:28):
especially that time, especially you know the grandparents and great
grandparents into slavery, so you know, my dad was growing
up when you know, he couldn't use a certain bathroom
because he was black. So I get it, but you
never feel that way, like I at least want to
try to menace and have a conversation before my dad dies.
Like when my mother died. Right before my mother died,
literally in the hospital, she said, I did the best

(37:50):
that I could. And she was a bad mom, I mean,
and when she got sick and all that, with drugs
and all that, and I felt given her peace by
accepting that as her apology and saying, I accept your apology.
It's good I forgave her. And then she passed away. Yeah,
I understood in that moment when she said I did
the best that I could. Was you basically did the
best that you could with the limitations of health and
drugs and all that. But at some point there also

(38:12):
has to be accountability. And I feel like we're taught
you know, no matter what your parents do, they can
bring you in this world, take you out, you know,
do what I say you do, Like at some point
you have to be accountable, all right, We got more
with Elliott Connie. When we come back, don't move. It's
to breakfast Club. Good morning, Envy. Charlomagne the guy we
are to Breakfast Club. We have Jason Leol co host him.
We're still kicking it with Elliott Connie. He has a

(38:34):
new book out and of course he's a therapist. Charlomagne,
you know what I want you to talk about. You
know you've you've you've created something called the solution focused
brief therapy. Can you break that down? What it is? That? Yeah, man,
solution f brief therapy. It's a type of therapy that
I could best describe as outcome driven, as opposed to
problem driven. I think I think we associate most therapies

(38:55):
with solving problems like I got this problem depression and anxiety, alcoholism, whatever,
and I go to a psychotherapist, couln't want to solve
that problem. And that never resonated with me when I
was in graduate school. And what solution, folks, a proof
therapy is is more like, regardless of the problem, what
are you trying to evolve into? What are you trying
to grow into? And who are you trying to become?
And let's figure out ways to create that because when

(39:15):
you create that, that's inherently going to solve or adjust
your experience with the problem. How do we do that
in the world where everybody is afraid of being canceled
and everybody that's canceling people act like they don't have problems, right,
you know what I mean? Like, are you talking about
Twitter or whatever? Ten years ago I said the craziest
things when I found Twitter. But now you'll be held
accountable for it. So how do you help people like

(39:36):
resonate in the world where their cancel culture is a
real fear that they may have? You know, Jason's funny.
So I started my career as a psychotherapist. I'm now
working on TV projects and all these other things, and
almost every entertainer I talked to talks to me about
cancel culture. And it's hard to me to explain. But
cancel culture in a lot of ways is irrelevant because,
like Jason for example, is don't do message it. I
like Jason, So if you are your authentic self, cancel

(39:59):
culture doesn't really exists unless you break like not just
for being out there, but you could break some significant
rules that all of us will say, We're not okay
with that as a world, And I think I'm okay
with that actually, But like if you're just being your
authentic self. There are some people that are saying I can't,
I can't do that, but there's some people are gonna
connect with it, and you just have to be yourself
with the people you connect with vibe with you. How

(40:19):
do you get the world on therapy? You invite therapists
up to the breakfast club. But I mean, seriously you.
That's what I said earlier when we were talking about
parenting is conversation is powerful. And invite people into the
conversation with all of your massive platform, and that's exactly
what you do. That's how we change the world. I
was going to ask you think everybody needs therapy. No,

(40:41):
I don't think everybody needs therapy. But I will say, Jason,
expect if I can use you as an example, Jason
having a trauma and appearing as if he's had a
trauma prove his mental health. For example, if you have
a physical illness in your body and you sneeze and cough,
that is evidence that your body is healthy because it's
responding to the germs within it. It would be weird

(41:04):
if Jason got shot, observed, or murder, and all the
other things that have happened if he's just running through life,
I'm an account working in my cubicle like that'd be weird.
So the fact that Jason was doing things evidence of
his trauma. It triggers him to say, man, you need
to go deal with that. And I think a lot
of people have dealt with things and we think that
it's weakness, but it's actually evidence of your mental health
that you went through something and you're emotionally sneezing like

(41:25):
you went through something, you're emotionally coughing. And we need
to be able to have the conversation to say, here's
how we deal with emotional sneezes and emotional costs. Is
that thing that we deal with do we have to
deal with though, and meaning not have to deal with
as as in speaking to somebody, but you know, let's
say you know Jason, you know, seeing somebody get shot,
and he dealt with it his own way. He was
able to think about it, talk about it. He's never
going to forget it. It doesn't traumatize him, but he

(41:47):
goes through it in his own way as he necessarily
have to speak with somebody. So I'm going to answer
you a question in two parts. When I say deal
with I don't mean talk about that issue like one
of the beautiful things about salute some focused brief therapies
I wouldn't require, Jason, all right, let's therapists use these
words that I told me either trigger words like let's
unpack that? Like no, I don't want to I don't

(42:08):
want to unpack that. I don't want to talk to
you about the shooting or whatever. Now, can we talk
about other things and get you to healing? Of course,
can you do it on your own? It's harder to
do on your own in a very similar way that
personal training. Anybody here ever hired a personal transfer. Of course,
a therapist needs to make you uncomfortable, and it's hard
for you to make yourself that uncomfortable, in the same

(42:30):
way that a personal trainer makes you uncomfortable and more
uncomfortable than you would have Like, can you be effective
you go to gym on your own, Sure, but a
personal trainer is going to push you a little bit
further than you would have pushed yourself on that day,
and you will have to be a bit more uncomfortable
to deal with the things a personal trainer ask you
to do. Your present training facts you should be angry
at your therapist time. I can't believe you asked me that.

(42:51):
I can't believe you said that. I can't believe I'm
in this space and you wouldn't have gone there on
your own, so and can you work on on your
own of course, But there's something about the uncomfortable nature
that a therapist can produce by asking the kind of
questions that way well, solute fu for your therapists a
very question oriented way of doing things. And it's hard
to be that uncomfortable if you're just doing it. And
a lot of times I think a lot well, I

(43:13):
think a lot of people know what they're supposed to do, yes,
but necessarily don't want to do that. Correct. Does that
mean that they need therapy because they know what they're
supposed to do, but they don't necessarily want to do
we though, well, but hold on. But to Envy's point,
let me think of an example, because I give you
a perfect example. I'm avengeful, hands down, straight up. There's

(43:33):
people that have done things to me that I need
my clap back, I need my revenge. I love that.
And if you mess with me, I'm cool. But if
you mess with my family, I need that revenge. And
I know I shouldn't feel like that, and I know
Charlemagne would be like, oh, you need to heal because
it's that. Yeah, but that's good and I understand that.
I know that as a person, but I need my
link back and I'm not happy until I get that

(43:56):
link back. When you mess with Gia, Madison, Logan, London,
Brooklyn Jackson and Peyton, I need my lick back. I
think he was like that before all of them came
in the picture, but not let me know. I'm led
a couple of times. But sometimes when it comes to them,
I know what I'm supposed to do, and I know
what a therapist is gonna tell me that. Is there
anything wrong with that thought? So I'm I don't personally

(44:19):
see anything wrong with that. I'm gonna tell you, I'm
gonna give you my therapist dance. I don't put on
my therapist had ant. No, there is nothing wrong with
being vengeful, petty getting my lick back clack back. I'm
that way too, right, Yeah, but there's nothing wrong with
that inherently as a trait. Here's where we might need therapy,

(44:40):
Like if you just came from to me for therapy, like, hey,
I do these things. Does it cause your life any
particular harm? No? Then why would you change it? But
oftentimes there's a secondary consequence that we pay for our choices,
and we need to not have that secondary consequence. Now
I don't search for it, like I'm not, it's not
on my mind every day, but if it comes around,
I remember and I make sure, but get out of trigger.

(45:01):
Let me give you an example, like I don't know
your wife, but let's say your wife is anxious. I
got a very close friend his wife is super anxious.
So let's say you had an altercation with somebody, like,
I need to get this person back. They have threatened
the people. Correct, I gotta get this person back. If
you were to do that, if you were married to
my friend's wife, she'd be so anxious she wouldn't sleep
for a month because she'd be so afraid that they're
going to attack back. And at that point, you have

(45:23):
to protect her from you at that moment, because she's
not sleeping because you've done something that is now making
her available to anxiety. And now I would say envy,
like is it a problem being vengeful? No, But you
decided to marry this person who's paying a consequence because
you sought revenge, and now what something has to be solved.
I understand, but also like let's say, let's say you

(45:44):
say something about my family or whatever it may be.
Let's let it go, right. I know what it is,
and I know I'm gonna run into you. I know
we're gonna see something and not physically right. But then
I see online that your house is about to go
and foreclosure. This really happened. By the okay, I'm gonna
try to buy that house. I'm gonna bulldoze it, and
then I'm gonna give it to the good Will, which
really just really happened down that's the that's the time.

(46:08):
I'm one. I wasn't looking for it, but if the
lands and body looking for he was looking at the
lists in my lap, I am going to buy it.
I am going to bulldoze it, put your name on
the bulldozer, and then give it to the good Will.
I get my resent and I don't need the charity hurt.

(46:29):
Nobody got hurt, but envy, I actually have. His name
is envy. I envy that level of petting. I actually
have no run with that, and I envy that level
of pendingness. However I was looking for it. It just
fell on my lap. However, if you would now again
I don't know anything about your wife, but he would
married to a wife that knows you did that. She's like,
now they're gonna buy, They're gonna bulldoze. Now you've stressed

(46:50):
her out and you have to think about your choices
in the way, and now you might be married to
somebody else that's you know, I'm gonna help you drive
the bulldozs. So I don't think inherently because of the trait,
you need therapy, all right. We got more with Elliott
Connie when we come back Don't Move, just a breakfast club.
The movie Wanting Everybody is dj NV Charlomagne the guy
we are to Breakfast Club. We have Jason leeo't co
host hand. We're still kicking it with Elliott Connie. He

(47:11):
has a new book out, and of course he's a therapist. Charlemagne.
We always have these conversations about culturally competent therapists. And
one of the reasons I like talking to you is
because I don't have to explain a Twitter beef. You
know what I'm saying. I don't have to explain what
somebody said about me on a blog or you you
see it, you know it already. Like you know, other

(47:33):
therapists I've had, you've had to explain that to them.
That takes a lot of time out of a session. Yeah,
but that goes back to representation. I hope all of
you guys take that very very especially you, Like there
are people watching you that you're never gonna meet, never
gonna see in twenty years from now. They're still alive,
Like forget. They may be walking in your footsteps and

(47:53):
have their own media company, but they're still alive because
representation matters. And there's a frustration. I was talking to
somebody about that this weekend. There's a frustration associated with
being black because we have to explain things to people.
And I was talking with somebody the other day this
and I was furious, I'm tired of explaining this. But
I was talking to this person about racial trauma. And

(48:13):
this is a clinician. This is a professional clinician at
a professional clinician event, and somebody gave a lecture about
racial trauma. And this person came up from and said,
what do you think of the lecture? I said, I
thought it was I thought it was good. That person
explained a lot of things that y'all need to hear.
And she said, well, I liked it too, but I
was really frustrated because he said that black people and

(48:33):
particularly men, experienced trauma every day. That can't be true.
He said, it's absolutely true. I don't know a black person,
particularly black man, that don't experience trauma every day. And
she said, how could that be? Said, let me explain
it to you. If I locked you in your bedroom
and I took the most venomous snake and I threw
it in the bedroom with you, and I locked that

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door and I close it. I don't want you out
for a week. You didn't just experience trauma on the
day you got bit. You experienced trauma every second of
every day because you knew there was a venomous snake around.
And she was like, oh, I get it now. Well,
I'm tired of explaining that to y'all. Right, I don't
want to explain blackness twenty four hours of my day.
I don't want to explain to everybody what we mean.

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There's a context for living this life that you and
I just get and I think we need more black therapists.
Somebody said to me, why do I think black people,
in particular men don't go to therapy, and they said,
it's because black men doesn't such. So don't do that.
Don't say we don't go to therapy for some sort
of flaw on us. We don't go to therapy for
two very basic reasons. Number one, therapy was not built

(49:36):
for us. Number two, it is not currently being done
by us. So we need more therapists doing this so
that we fit into it. A lot of people go
to therapists and the first time they go, they don't
have a favorable time and they feel like and they
feel like because of that, they don't want to go back.
I just want to talk about that people who are

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looking for therapists, because sometimes you find the wrong person,
it's not the right fit, and people are scared to,
you know, to go back. Right. I tell people all
the time, like, you don't go to you know, a
restaurant and have a bad experience and then just boycott food. Right,
You don't do that, You find another restaurant, right, And
I think I think we need to recognize therapies the same.

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If I go to see a therapist and it doesn't work.
It doesn't mean therapy didn't work, just mean that's particular
therapist didn't work. And we need to be just as
variant in our attempts to find a good therapist as
we are on our attempts to find good food. I
want to ask too, like, you know, we've seen so
many people discussing mental health nowadays. Number one, do you
think it has been a rise of black people going

(50:38):
to therapy? And what do you think folks still get
wrong about mental health? Um? So, to answer the first question, yeah,
I think we do have more Black people going to therapy.
It's it's the Tiger Woods effect, right, Like we're all
old enough to remember when Tiger Woods took over golf,
Black people started going to play golf and they weren't
playing golf before that. Serena Williams and Venus Williams similar thing,
like young black girls go to tennis courts to play

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tennis because representation matter. So the fact that you guys,
probably more than any other platform in the world, platforms
talk about black mental health. More Black people are going
to therapy because they heard Charlemagne suggested someone they heard it.
So now they're like, man, maybe I can go do this.
And it's the exact same thing that happened in tennis.
It's the exact same thing that happened in golf. And

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what I think we get wrong more than anything else,
is we think the therapist is supposed to solve our problems,
and that's actually not true. Like life is a turbulent flight,
the therapist is supposed to make you a better pilot.
I just got one last question. I know, I know,
we're wrapping up. Charlemagne always talks about being anxious, and
people always talk about anxiety. But I don't look at

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anxiety as a bad thing. It's how you control it. Right.
I have six kids, Charlemagne has four. When they go
out until even to this day, when I go out
as a grown ass man, my mom and dad still
have anxiety about me going out because they're scared, right,
but they're not scared to a point where they're you know,
listening to the right, but not to the point where
they're calling me a six in the morning. Oh yeah,

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are you done? But anxious, same thing with my kids.
That's never gonna change. No, that's healthy anxious, Okay, Like
anxiety is like everything else is a degree of healthiness
to it. And then some people go way beyond the
spectrum to where and think about it in this term.
When something is interrupting your ability to live a normal
daily life, that's when it becomes a problem. So that
anxiety like my daughter's at NYU, she just called me,

(52:23):
told me she's going to a party. I'm gonna have
a hard time relaxing tonight because I'm something could happen,
Like that's that's normal. But if you have anxiety where
like my daughter's at NYU and I can't eat, I
can't sleep, like that's that's the problem. And I think
we have to learn how to manage that and learn
how to manage that. People here anxiety, they're automatically thing negative, right,
the only think bad. But there is healthy anxiety, like

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you love that daughter or all your children that not
in specificallycause we're talking about you don't want anything bad
to happen to her. So when she tells you, I've
done this thing that puts me at risk, even mild risk,
I'm gonna be worried about that. The only things that
will happen are things that intended for you to experience
and so you can't have faith and anxiety because anxiety

(53:06):
is fear based. So if I believe very strongly, like
like God's got me, that means if I'm going through
something hard, I'm going through that hard thing for a reason.
So there's no reason to I just have to trust everything.
And that's what I would say. I with an end
by saying like, if you can figure out a way
to trust every experience, you're going through all of these
things for a reason, and be grateful for everything, like everything,

(53:29):
you are untouchable emotionally, like you were just an indestructible force.
When you're just grateful for everything, not just grateful for
the good things, not just grateful for the profound thing,
but I mean, like grateful for all of it. Life
is different. What if I can only get there through medication?
You can get there through conversation. Conversation far more powerful
than medication. Okay, promise? What if I can only get

(53:49):
there by being petty? As we've already established, ladies and gentlemen.
The solution focus brief DEAs the artist solution focused therapy
solution building a couple of therapy. The solution focus Marriage
and solution focus brief therapy. I say something about the
new book. There's something I want to say about the

(54:11):
new book. The book is called The Solution Focus Brief
Therapy Diamond And and a lot of people out there like,
if you're a clinician, get the book is going to
teach you how to do solution focus brief therapy like
no other book will do. But what's more important to
me if you're not a clinician and therapy is hard.
Like my colleague and I wrote this book so you
could get therapy from this book, Adam Adam Freer, doctor
Adam Freus. So if you're out there and you're thinking,

(54:32):
like I want therapy, but I like, I got how
am I gonna get kids coverage? And how am I
gonna get to there? Whatever? You can have your life
change through conversation, and sometimes that conversation is through a book.
So this book isn't just for professionals. It's for people
who want to be inspired. And an inspired person can
do anything. And if you're not a clinician, the book
sounds clinical, but I promise you, if you read this book,

(54:53):
you'll be inspired to change your life. All right, Well, Elliott, Connie,
Ladies and gentlemen, we appreciate you doing this. Man, Yeah,
how can he find you? You can find find me
on social media at Elliott Speaks on Instagram, Twitter, Facebook,
Elliot spelled two els, two ts, and you can go
to my website Elliot Connie dot com and that's where
you can find all my stuff. All right, well it's

(55:13):
the Breakfast Club Elliot Conne Ladies and gentlemen, brning. Everybody's DJ,
Envy Charlomagne, the guy. We are to Breakfast Club. Jason Lee,
our co host is y'all, and let's get to the room. Les,
Let's go. I've mastered the tea thing. The only place
I want to come and talk to about was here
because I really feel like everybody in the culture pays
attentionally off. But I knew I can talk my talk

(55:33):
to me. This is the rumor report on the Breakfast Club. Listen.
One of the best R and B artists in the
world dropped a new song yesterday, and I'm talking about Tyrese.
He posted a snippet of his new remix to his
song I Don't Think You Ever Loved Me? And I
think it was addressed in Charlomagne, the remix man The

(55:55):
remix features two Chains and Jeezy, and instead of talking
about the song and the caption, he decided to talk
about you. Charlotmagne, did you see it? I did see that, actually,
he said. And for everybody out there, this is Tyrese's words.
He said, um, I sent my remix to Charlottage and
he texts back that nobody cares. That's facts the links
in the bio. And then he said, I see the

(56:18):
ex dark He's still losing sleep over me because I'm
still my original complexion, because you, Darky definitely not losing
no sleep. And first of all, I didn't say nobody cares.
I said, we don't care. We being me myself and
I okay, I don't care. Why are you so hard
on him? He just sent you his record. Look, in
this business, if you can't be used, you're useless. We notice.

(56:41):
But Tyrese is the person only who only reaches out
when you want something. I like it shot use your useless?
Yeah yeah yeah, but when we know that in this business, right,
But he's a person who only reaches out when he
wants something. You never say what's up? Man? How are you?
It's always me? Me, me, me, me me, me, me,
and he sent me that. So like two or three times,

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we're like, yo, we don't care when he texts you that,
and you said I'm gonna text him back. I thought
you were. I thought you are like homies. You were
really serious that you don't care. No, No, they go
back and forth. There was a group text with me,
him and Tyres and it gets nasty. Wow, we don't care.
And then he replied, back light kin behavior. Listen, I
was saying, I was saying, Jesus. I was saying outside

(57:24):
the room. Last time I saw Tires. He was at
the Clide Davis party and he was walking out with
Kim Burrell. You know Kim Burrell. She's had a lot
to say about the games. And so later when he
said that she had pneumonia and that he wanted us
to pray for I was like, I wanted to text
me and say my gay prayers. That wasn't gonna happen.
Gay prayers worked too, prayers prayer na I left that

(57:46):
one alone. God bless her. Listen Clode Bailey, and you're
not gonna play a clip of his record? Who record?
You know what Yellow found game? Let's keep Oh. He
did say though, he said, Hey, homie, this is when
you know it's about to get real. He said, hey, homie,
what you cannot do is disrespect one of the only
real R and B singers that doesn't need auto tune,
that is still out here giving us real R and
B music and real lyrics. Who's that? Tyres said that

(58:09):
to you? No? Oh sorry, oh sorry it was a
mister financial advisor on social media said that sorry, we
ain't taking you advice. All right? Well, anyway, moving on,
Halle Halle Berry and Chloe Bailey are in the news now.
Chloe Bailey's sex scene and Swarm, I guess is kicked
off a conversation about colorism and this is a topic
that I hate talking about because this was created by
white supremacy. But whatever. Social media started giving their opinions

(58:31):
on Chloe Bailey's opening sex scene in the Donald Glover's
show Swarm, and people are criticizing her for her choice
to accept the role, and one person said that where
is the Chloe Bailey mentor police. She's been making terrible
decisions lately. She should have never done that sex scene
and Swarm. And I'm not even gonna go into her
most recent collaboration. Now people are saying, can't do a
sex scene in the movie Well, people are comparing it

(58:51):
to halle Berry, halle Berry saying that she could have
she could get an oscar because halle Berry got one
from the movie Ball And people are saying the only
reason why she got that is because she's light skinned.
I'm so confused. I'm lost. This is ridiculous. I don't know.
I did say, I did see the scene. I will
say I love Chloe and I love the fact that
she's doing whatever she wants to do and it's her body,

(59:13):
her choices. But uh, I couldn't stop thinking about Laurie
Harvey in that scene for some reason. Why that she
was getting humped on by her man. It's a movie,
it's acting. That was kind of sponsored by pornhub dot com.
I remember, well. I had a conversation with Making Good
last year on my late night Talks to Hellable week
and she was talking about how she got to be
cautious of the role she chooses now because nowadays people

(59:36):
can't determine reality from acting. And I thought that was
so strange, But now I'm starting to see it play out.
She's an actress. I see a problem with I don't
see a problem with me. But even what you just
said about you can't think Laura Harvey. I wouldn't be
thinking that. I'd be like, this is a movie. Well,
and then you can't. I mean her sister is a mermaid.
I mean, I don't know where it but got Disney

(59:57):
start now, I don't. I don't know it is acting.
It should be escaping, but people look at colorism is
not our issue, but it's become our problem. I don't
know it's it's this is a crazy conversation. I don't
even know what the skin color got to do with
any of that. I was confused. Then they said Hallie Berry,
Hallie Berry getting backshots, bro got her an oscar? I think,

(01:00:18):
I mean was that why she got the oscar? I
mean I didn't personally care from Austar. I don't think
anybody personally cared for as well. That's it. I don't
even know why we're talking about. I mean, yeah, that's
the room report. Okay, we'll just swarm on TV. Yeah
not play man, shut up Mancord. Yes, okay, y after

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day Tis posted this one. Got a good thing. You
put the ways brothers he put Jamie Fox put Martin
let his single, but then the Second Wife was his song.
That was too easy. But I didn't say nothing because
I'm not petty, right, but that was very easy. But
you had the comments. I know. I started to like,
how was nobody posting your song? I want to go
go it all fairness type races and the major artists.

(01:01:03):
I mean that that. That last album he had was
Fire Shame was one of my favorite songs. I didn't
know y'all have beef. We don't have any I don't
have any text nobody. He said, I'm trying to get
Charlotte Mane to play your record. Gotta be funny. He
might get on live and just don't know DJ. And
by the way, you old tyres Re saved your life.
He didn't say my life. He saved your marriage. Didn't

(01:01:24):
say if he helped save my marriage. Sounds wow? It
does sound wild, really wow. See that man had actually
done something for you. He never done anything. I've done
a zillion things with Race. I love Tarras. What do
you do? We can't talk about it that right I
talk We talk about it when we come back. Ok
Now he did though, absolutely positively. Tire saved your marriage.
That's wild and that's nothing I want to tell my kids.

(01:01:45):
Are were gonna play that. We're gonna play the record
on the way out? No, wow, can we edit it
with just two change in Jesu Versus? You'll come on, man,
we just ordered several copies and bulldoz. Come on, man,
I'm gonna play recording the mix. I'm not gonna tell
you that. No, no, no, I'm not gonna let you
do that. I'm not gonna let you do that. I'm

(01:02:07):
not gonna let you do that. No. No, He's gonna
go at you for about an hour on Live Today.
Call types of names. He's gonna calle me a beach bench.
She gonna call you darkie. He's gonna go back and
he bad nut hanging with Kim Brown. You bad not
say no gay jokes. Jesus Christ, please get it your
donkey too, man oh Man. Four after the hour, somebody

(01:02:29):
that's capital Riyant White. Okay, his name is Cleveland grow
but married junior. He needs to come to the front
of congregation. We like to have a word with him
for we're gonna do that. We're gonna edit. No, we're
not the new tireasion right now the way it's just
jeez and two change verses. He can't do that, man,
that'll be so amazing. No, come on, man, stop no
man at one time? What no, No, I ain't messing
with you. Man, didn't just have a segment with the psychotherapist. Yes,

(01:02:51):
ain't work. That ain't that ain't me being petty. That's
just funny. That's just pure comedy. I'm sure if I
got the group chat, I'm gonna sare the group chat
with us in it. Donkeny days up next at the
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And there are problems in this country between police and community. Yes,
you are a donkey. The latest on that police killing

(01:03:34):
of a black man, now the new developments in the
deadly Spaw shooting Rampagny was a really bad day for him,
and this is what he did, and so we are
in a state of emergency. Okay, White supremacives violence is
always have been the number one threat to our sucide.
But I'm also very proud that my wife was white.
Because the breakfast club bitches, please tell me, why was

(01:03:56):
I your donkey of the day, Yes, Donkey to day
for Tuesday March. When he first goes to a man
named Cleveland Grover Meritive Junior. Who is Cleveland Grover Meritive Junior. Well,
he's a human jar of helmets, okay, the type of
person that gets excited when Donald Trump calls for a protest,
the type of human who stands back and stands by
when Trump tells him to and waits for a command

(01:04:16):
to take back his country. I'm not making this up, Okay,
I'm not assuming things, all right, Because he was arrested
and pled guilty back in twenty twenty one to make
to making interstate threats, which is a felony, and he
was sent us to serve more than two years in
prison and three years probation probation after being arrested the
day after the Capitol riots because he threatened to shoot
former House Speaker Nancy Pelosi. Yes, he was arrested after

(01:04:39):
his own mama, his mother the womb from which he came,
called the FBI concerned about a text he sent to
an uncle saying thinking about heading over the Pelosi speech
and putting a bullet in her nogging on live TV.
He also made a similar threat to the mayor of
a DC. Now here's the thing about those kind of threats.
He didn't just text it. You know. He got in
his vehicle, probably a pickup truck, and headed to DC

(01:05:02):
for the insurrection that happened on January six, But he
was delayed because of car trouble, and he arrived on
the evening of January six, after the riots were over. Now,
when this man got arrested in a Washington, DC hotel room,
listening to what was seized from him and his arrest,
an assault rifle, a semi automatic handgun, and more than
twenty five hundred rounds of ammunition, including armor piercing rounds.

(01:05:25):
And now Cleveland wants his stuff back. Okay, he doesn't
just want his stuff back. He wants his stuff back
for a specific reason. He's done his time and he
wants his ammunition and his artillery back. And Manning's is
so heavy on this one. Let's go to eleven A
Live for the report. Police. A Georgia man who served
time for his part in the insurrection at the US
Capital now once his guns at ammunition returned Cleveland, Meredith

(01:05:48):
Junior was arrested soon after the insurrection. Agents found he
drove hundreds of miles to DC and brought twenty five
hundred rounds of ammunition and two guns with him. Meredith
was released from in December, and violins obtained by eleven Alive.
We have learned that he is now asking the court
to release the firearms and the mcs during his arrest

(01:06:09):
back to his attorney so they can be sold. Come home, man, Now,
I'm not mad at anyone who knows the law and
uses the law to their advantage. Because the motion sites
twenty fifteen US Supreme Court case that in cases where
a defendant was banned from owning guns, judges may allow
the transfer of sees firearms to a third party as
long as the judges convinced the defendant will not have

(01:06:31):
access to them, and in this case, the motion will
call for his lawyer, Tyler Dixon and salt the fire
arms to a buyer unknown to Meritith. That's the law. Okay,
I'm not mad at it at all. But the reason
Cleveland Grover Meritith Junior is getting donkey at the dead
because yes, he served his prison time. But can you
imagine threatening to kill an elected official, threatening to shoot them,

(01:06:52):
getting caught with guns, sent to prison, and then coming
home and asking for your potential murder weapons back so
you can sell them and make money. Imagine, if you will,
a big beach from being bath Right coming home from
prison and asking law enforcement to give his lawyer to
twenty one million dollars worth of assets they seized, including
the cash, the jury, the thirteen homes between Detroit, Georgia

(01:07:13):
and la the three dozen vehicles. Hey give my lawyers
that so I can sell them, so I can sell
them to make some money. The absurdity, right, do you
think they would laugh big meat out the courtroom. You
think they would laugh big meatch lawyer out the courtroom.
Only in America can you threaten to kill someone literally
say I want to shoot her in the head, get
caught with guns after traveling where you are to where
the person is, get caught with the weapons you threaten

(01:07:34):
the person with, and then there is a law that
allows you to possibly get said of weapons back, and
you want those weapons back so you can sell them.
Why do you want to sell them because you need
the money. You just got out of prison trying to
get back on your feet. But if I'm to judge,
I'm gonna say get back on your feet. How about
you get back in this cell. Okay, I'm locking you
back up. You need to go back in this cell
and sit here until you learn the era of your ways.

(01:07:55):
Because you don't think you did anything wrong. If you
thought you actually did something wrong, didn't want to go
near any guns, but in particular the weapons that essentially
got you locked up. But in America they called Cassidy
rules everything around me, because let's be clear, only a
human that's capitol riot white is getting two years for
all those guns and AMMO in the first place, hand

(01:08:16):
a threat to an elected official. An white would just
be happy to be home. A non white would only
only okay, I don't know what a non white would
do in a situation like this, because he wouldn't have
the option. He'd still be in prison. Okay, Only a
member of Vanilla Isis would feel privileged enough to say,
run me my weapons back so I can make some money.
Some donkey. The days just sell themselves. Please give Cleveland

(01:08:39):
Grover Meritith Junior the biggest he hall. I'm tripping, Chelsea.
Let Chelsea handle give him the biggest hell. He ha
he ha. That is way too much. Dan mann Is,
oh man, Oh, Kathy Griffin just hit me. She what
she got something to say to? Please give this giant
jar of male the biggest heahaway, Chris Rock feel about

(01:09:03):
the situation. Oh oh my girl, she clocked in yet right, Okay, okay,
anybody else I think that's all we do? All right, well,
thank you for that. Don't get to day. So all right,
let's open up the phone lines eight five five, one
oh five one. Now. Elliott Connie was joining us at

(01:09:26):
last hour and one of the most coachingly competent psychotherapist
you're ever gonna meet in your life. And during that
conversation we were talking about get back, like getting your
licks back. We have a piece of that combo. I
give you a perfect example. I'm avengeful, hands down, straight up.
There's people that have done things to me that I
need my clap back. I need my revenge. I love
that actually, and if you mess with me, I'm cool.

(01:09:50):
But if you mess with my family, I need that revenge.
And I know I shouldn't feel like that. I know
what the therapist is gonna tell me that. But is
there anything wrong with that? Though? So I'm I don't
personally say anything wrong with that. I'm gonna tell you.
I'm gonna give you my therapist ance. I don't put
on my therapist had answer. No, there is nothing wrong
with being vengeful petty getting my look back clack back.

(01:10:10):
I'm that way too though, right, all right, So we're
asking eight five eight five one oh five one. What's
the pettiest thing you've done to get your look back,
to get revenge? That is the question. I waited to
hear this from YouTube Paige individuals, Jason Lee and DJ Envy.
I can't wait to hear I think I know a

(01:10:31):
lot of them though, you know most of my Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,
I don't. I'm trying. I actually was thinking about it
because I know I've done so many things. Um, because
I can't really think of anything that I sought out
to be petty. Four. Because there's probably been so many.
One thing I will say recently, my pettiest get back
was that I felt good about and I didn't even
have to be messy, was when there was a video

(01:10:52):
that went viral of me going to a party with
Asap and Rihanna, and then they took it and said
that basically I was sneaking in the picture. They made it.
They made it look crazy again, like to be honest thing,
and I wanted to say something, but then I thought,
you know what, what can you say with the internet.
You're never gonna beat the internet. So I just left
it alone. And then Rihanna gave me the baby photos

(01:11:13):
and I put them out, So that was my getback.
It was petty, the way I put it out and
the way I, you know, through it in everybody's face
that they couldn't get it. But I can't remember. I'm
trying to think of things that I've been really really petty,
And we'll talk about it when we come back, and
we want to hear from you. I've never been petty.
Eight hundred five eight five one oh five one. That's
a damn lie. You just trying to take time. Reis
had his own song exactly I'm going to do that.

(01:11:34):
But that's funny. That's not petty. We're talking about it
when we come back. It's the breakfast club. Go about it.
The breakfast club, my family. I'm the type. I'm gonna
buy your house. I'm going to get a bulldoze up,
I'm gonna knock it over, and then I'm gonna give
the land to goodwill. That is me. I'm the type
if you if you park in front of my driveway,

(01:11:56):
I'm gonna let all the airs out of your tire.
You're gonna think it's a flat tire. You're gonna go
to the place to try to change the flat time
you're gonna realize it's just air. That is me. I
used to have road rage. I used to throw it.
I used to keep a cup of McDonald's McDonald's cup
with change in it just to throw it. Drives if
they cut me off. That used to be me. I'm
a change guy. Though I'm a change individual. That's not
me anymore. I'm calm, I'm cool, Jason, full of change

(01:12:21):
at people all day long. It's New York. We used
to keep pennies in a cup just for people. That
used to walt I don't do that anymore. I'm a
change individual. That's nuts. I couldn't remember times I've been
petty because I've so since tried to become a different person.
So I called somebody on my team and she gave
me a list. You know. One of the things I
remember when I started my podcast, I wanted to have
Little Mama on, and I invited her on and she

(01:12:43):
wanted glam and she wanted a car service and all that,
and I was like, we ain't got no money for that.
So she didn't show up, and we still had to
show to produce. So I printed out the photo of
her here when you interviewed her, and I taped it
on a chair and I interviewed the chair for forty
five minutes. That's petty. That's kind of petty. Yeah, that's
kind of petty. I don't I honestly haven't done anything petty, Really, No,
I haven't. I have learned in life there is nothing

(01:13:05):
I could do or say that will take care of
a person who harmed you more than life can, all right,
Because here's the thing about those kinds of people. They
are just those kinds of people, and they didn't just
do you wrong. They've done a bunch of people wrong,
so eventually it all catches up. And I promise you
when it comes to that, I'm undefeated. I let people
say whatever, I let people do whatever. I used to
be the person who I can't wait to run back

(01:13:26):
here and talk about you on this microphone. But just
like now, for what like, nobody can piss you off
without your consent, and I'm not letting it. Nobody piss
me off, old petty, I'm not And I don't even
think got up as petty. I think when you when
you say something about a person, a person may have
said something about you, and you respond verbally, that's just
a response. That's not going out of your way to

(01:13:47):
try to get get out of person. You know what
I mean. I've never I've never used any energy going
out of my way to try to hurt somebody. Yeah,
well I get that. I don't go out of my
way either. I do respond, though, and sometimes that is
looked at as being petty. Right, Like you don't have
to respond to your point. Every everything doesn't require response.

(01:14:08):
I'm learning that times that's still get We can give
it to him. It just depends where you take it.
Like you know, buying somebody's house. You're wanting the bulldozer.
That's that's an ex tree, you know what I mean.
That takes a lot of energy to exert that have
to go into that. I'm not doing all now. The
person that that I was going to do that to hit,
what he did wasn't extreme, Oh Barry, Okay, energy was matched,

(01:14:32):
But you shouldn't always match energy going not. You know
what I'm saying. Sometimes you got to you can't. You
got to teach people how to treat you. Sometimes times
you got to. Sometimes sometimes you gotta punch somebody in
the face. I don't know if those people that were
learned because it's not about you. Those people that treat
you like that, treat everybody like that. We take those
type of things personal, but it's not just us. That's
why those people always end up crashing and burning in

(01:14:54):
such a harsh way because it's not just us. They
do like that. They do everybody like that, so eventually
it catch us up. I don't even take stuff like
that person as that person's character. They gotta live with that,
they gotta deal with that. The just the punch in
the face just feels better sometimes and when I mean
to punch in the face, you know what it is.
I just I like to kill people, right, and not
kill people in the physical form, but kill them in
the fact that they just can't do anything. They can't eat,

(01:15:16):
they can't pay their bills, like they are dead to
the world. That's how I feel. That's not your place
to do, though. Life goes deaf for people. And I'm
actually in the lawsuit right now now to just remember
that something paid that I did. Somebody was harassing me
online and I told him, nigga, I'm king calling in
the internet. Don't play with me and you keep doing
what you do with everybody else, and he kept doing.
He released my home address. So what I did was
I waited, waited, waited, and I saw this kid stream

(01:15:39):
saying that he was trying to have sex with him allegedly.
So what I did was I took that clip, called
his department build and tell him I was gonna hire
people on Craigslist of protest and leaflet the community that
he was a pedophile. Jesus. I called Twitter. I had
his Twitter deleted because he was harassing me on Twitter
releasing my home address. I trademarked his business and owned
it and then I had a removed from the app

(01:15:59):
and he lost all of his income. So still that's
a lot, Jason, that's what I'm talking about. That But
that's my code. That's what I'm talking about. That took
a lot of time, a lot of energy. It's still
good for My assistant did all the research and called
his up. I'm gonna chance bumping right now, why can't you? Now?
We called the Baltimore Police Department. We filed charges, and

(01:16:20):
I reached out to the kids too much as a
former child molest survivor and UH and an advocate to
let them know that their son was That's a lot.
That's a lot, bro, that's a lot. Is the king
of a le. Now you got me one to do
something good. I heard something that Hies song. I'm gonna
do that, Jason. I'm gonna That's exactly what I'm gonna do.
I'm gonna play Tyreesa's song to show that I am
not petty and I don't have any ill feelings towards

(01:16:44):
Tyresa that we're gonna play at the end of this break,
we're gonna play ty Rees's new record Wow, Hello, Who's Astring? Two?
Change in jeez, it's carry Hey Carrie, good morning. Have
you done something petty? What's the pettiest thing you've done
to get your look back? And that's what I'm calling.
I'm hoping you and Charlotte Mane to give me petty lessons.
People have done some nasty things to me and I'm
always nice like a big mine. Now you sign Caribbean?

(01:17:06):
Where are you from me? Come come on now, you
know what to do. Go get that goddamn chicken bone
and get you a little piece of that person. You
know what to do. You know what. I kept listening
with you. I can't Charlotte, I have one lady. I
feel sorry for her letter at my house. You destroyed
my house. You rats and roaches and at the holes

(01:17:30):
stole my plan for my furniture eat revanage. But I
just can't do it. I can't believe we're sitting there
having this conversation as a black magic don't exist. It's
hard to do. Jay. Hello, yo, yo morning, good morning,
good morning. What's up? Man. What's the pettiest thing you've

(01:17:52):
done to somebody? He is Jay Coodle. I'm from the city.
Sorry all right, So I'm working for the city and
I have a lifeguard or whatever, and um, I got
wrote up for a no car or no show, so
and I called off. I had somebody, you know, I
called off or whatever. They they didn't believe me for
whatever reason, so they gave me like three days spending
me or whatever. So I, uh, I took the boss

(01:18:14):
uh chestick, yeah, and uh you know, hit my goots,
hit my under arm. Listen. I'm like, listen, y'all, darn
me dirty, you know what I'm saying. I'm like, listen,
if I wouldn't, if I wouldn't have called off, I
can see that. But I really called off, and y'all
still wrote me up and gave me three days off.
Somebody gotta pay for this. Maybe wild if you had crabs, though,

(01:18:35):
if you had crabs, that would just like totally deliver.
I got another story about that. But that's that's what
what what? What flavor goots though? Because the gooch can
change flavors depending on what time of day. And I
did I just finished hoping, Oh my god, so confused.
Vinegard goobye, sir, so vinegaroches nut? Goodbye, sir? Whoa wow?

(01:18:56):
Whoa one five one? What's the pettiest thing you did
to get your lick back? Let's talk about it is
the Breakfast Local Morning. Call me your opinions to the
breakfast club topic. Come on, I five five one five

(01:19:18):
one morning. Everybody is DJ Envy Charlomagne the guy. We
are the Breakfast Club and now if you just joined us,
we're talking. Uh. We have our co host Jason and
we're talking get back. All right, what's the pettiest thing
you did to get your get back? Hello? Who's this? Hello? Hey?
What's your name? Hey? I'm Nia. How are you? Hey? Neil?
What's the pettiest thing you did to get your get back? So?

(01:19:41):
The pettiest thing I did? Um, I was working at
a job with my ax whatever I thought my boys
and long story show. I had this dark opportunity that
I taught like, Okay, this is gonna put me on
the mat, gonna make back back whenever. Well, he basically
he was like, yeah, you should take it. Who used
to be a real supporters. I'm like, you know, I
got the best boyfriend. Let me came my two weeks

(01:20:02):
in and get a different job. So I went to
the new job or whatever. Come to find out, everybody
at the old job was like girl. The reason why
he did that because a new girl is then he's
like having up film. Huh, that's the oldest made me
leave this job or he could do him. That's okay.
So me and my brain, me being petty, I had

(01:20:22):
made like he's like wanted post to saying he was
wanting for rape. Oh my god, no, no, that's criminal.
That's criminal. Jesus, you need to be a jail. Oh no,
he tried, he tried. That's I can't say my name
on him because you're going with support right now. But anyway,
I thought he was waningful rap. I've been all over
the park a lot in his job, and I went
to his MoMA neighborhood because he lived. His mom would
put it all over the old the stop side. So

(01:20:44):
you falsely accused this man a rap. I did that.
That's more than petty. People like you should actually be
thrown under the jail, like like you should be like that,
be like that. You're playing with that man's life. You're
playing with that man. There have to have lecca me
leave my job. Another female. He could have just broke

(01:21:04):
it off. And until it is dead because of people,
and until it is dead because of people like you. Exactly,
god Man, Tenti park five did years in prison because
of people like her. What are you talking about? That
beyond that's not even that like, that's criminal. She should
be in jail. All right, Well, I don't want to
play anymore with you, guys. I want to. I want to.

(01:21:26):
I want to do something positive. I'm gonna. I want
to salute to Tyrese. So you know, your new single Tyrese,
I Don't Think You Ever Loved Me is actually tough.
It's dope. I think the record is dope. The atl
Legacy remix with Two Chains and Geez is fire. So
I just want to congratulate Tyrese on the release of
the record and let's play it. Let's play the record
right now, just Two Chains and Geez featuring Tyrese. You

(01:21:48):
have evolved. I don't Think You Ever loved Me? Okay,
we're talking about on the record, tyres was all over
the record. No, no, he's not singing on the record.
That was tyre He's all over the record. That's the
vision he sent me. That is the version he sent me.
He sent me that version with just two changing Jeezy
and him doing the atlets and here, see Jason here,

(01:22:09):
I thought he changed. I thought, I don't think you
have thought I was a different person, But you're not.
You're the same shot. I thought that was a dope
way for him to like embrace what we all saw
him go through. And the denial is making it even worse.
What y'all talking about, salute the black time man. That
is crazy, you know what I mean? You try to
do something nice and then y'all gonna jump on. And
that's why he called your darky yesterday. Well I'm happy
to be a darkie. Okay. You see how you saw

(01:22:30):
these beige people doing, you Tyres discouraging me from playing
your records. You know what, when we come back, he
got the room report. What we're talking about Cameron is
now I think he's leaving hip hop to get into talk.
He's gonna launch his own advice talk show. Okay, all right,
well we'll get into that next. It don't move. It's
the breakfast Club. Good morning, the Breakfast Club. Not right?

(01:22:52):
What you did, Tyre, spot I didn't do not to
stop it, knock it off. That was just playing. I'm
having a little fun this morning. That's all, super petty.
He can joke. I can't joke. See, that's why I
don't like to play, because he when I play, everybody
you know all I'm tight when I played. When I
want to have a little fun, it's because you're not
doing it regularly. When you do it regularly, if I'm
not doing it, well, I don't do it regularly for
a reason, I hurt people. Yes, anyway, we are to

(01:23:12):
Breakfast Club. Good morning. Jason Lee is here, our co host.
Let's get you the rooms. I've mastered the tea thing.
The only place I want to come and talk to
about was here because I really feel like everybody in
the culture parstially off. But I knew I can talk
my talk talk to me. This is the rumor report
on the Breakfast Club. Well listen, I said that the

(01:23:34):
Dip Sat the Dip Sat. Dip said Rapper Cameron was
launching his own advice talk show, uh and leaving hip hop.
I sort of lie, but he did say he's launching
a talk show and he's calling out doctor Phil. This
is what he said, come and talk to me, taking
the doctor filling number, doctor pell y'all number. I'm taking
everybody out of doctor Phil. Mug rapping because I'm doing

(01:23:57):
everybody black well prawn for my not even black and
prayer every race. I'm gonna tell them a real advice
they need to hear, to stop trying to act like,
well we got with my friend in the crowd, he's
a specialist. Hey, where do you think? No, stop cheating
on him. You can talk about your girl crazy and
all this crazy, but you come over with postive seven
eight talk in the morning. Every one right with O.

(01:24:20):
That's that's the responses I like. Well, Cameron is a
highly entertaining human, So if he wants to do a
talk show, he could do a talk show and that
show that he got with him and Mace as funny
as hell. Who would you love to see on that?
But Doctor Phil shows over right? Phil shows camp. So
that was the other part. Doctor Phil already announced this
show is going up there after over twenty years. Correct,
I don't know who I would like to see on that,
but I do remember, and maybe I'm wrong, maybe I

(01:24:41):
got my timelines mixed up, but I remember Cam saying
he was going to do a show that ended up
being what we now know is to catch a predator.
I remember him saying that years ago it's when like
all hip hop was the booming sight and it was
on the Ill Seed Rumor report. They went to beat
him up though right, I don't remember what I remember
him saying he was gonna do a show where he

(01:25:02):
was gonna be setting up, remember, and then while to
catch a pretty theme. It was like twenty years ago,
not even joking. I'd love to tune in if he
had Karen Simbil on there. Oh my god, what I mean,
because you're giving it, Joe Budden, you stop like one, no, no,
that's too much for whatever. So he could have Joe
to see seeing the intro music. Come and talk to

(01:25:23):
me anyway. On the Jason Lee Show tonight, I got
n l E Chopper. He came on to talk about
a lot of things, and one thing I had to
ask him was his beef that everybody on the internet
was talking about with him an NBA young boy, and
I was really amazed at the conversation what he shared.
But this is what he said. But I think about you,
and I think about another rapper who's really successful as

(01:25:44):
an Organs. I like how he can kind of see
one on one who has a really huge following. And
I'm like this guy's everything about him as positive. What
has he ever had any beef with anybody at all?
And then of course you know I found the stuff
with NBA. Young boy, y'all had your time. That was
at a time when you were in lle travel with
no love at offer anybody for myself, Are you in

(01:26:06):
a different place now with what that relationship? Where that
relationship ended, It's no beef. It was another in the
beef more so like misunderstanding or anything like that. But
it was never no beef. See beef to me or
we come from it is like somebody died and like
you trying to get to get back for that person
that passed away. But it was another in new beef

(01:26:27):
with men bro. I don't really get a lot of
young male rappers on my show talking about the issue
that they have with other rappers. But I always see
like academics or blad talking to them about the beef
that they have and it gets really real in the streets.
I've had a lot of friends die from violence. So
it was interesting here in his perspective. So as he
kept talking, he really went into a place that I
had never heard a rapper in this generation speak about

(01:26:50):
beef with other rappers. That's what he said. But when
he said in the song that your mother will be
devastated when young boys send your stupid ass to God,
that's beef. I mean, it's internet music beef whatever. It's
not like somebody's chasing you down in the street. But
that's kind of I mean, especially with your fans being
as rather as they are his fans being the way
that they are, that gets people gasolate to when now

(01:27:12):
the fans turning into something. You know, some people have
to release certain tension, certain anger on a on a
beat or musically, so that it's not bottled hands where
when you see a person you want to release it physically.
He murged me on a beat, he killed me on
a beat, but physically I'm here. I actually heard of
og rappers say something like that. They said that if

(01:27:34):
social media was around back in the nineteen hundreds, um,
it would have been a lot less beef in the street,
because people would have been saying things on social media
and getting it out right. So a lot of things
probably would have got squashed before it got to this
to the actual street level, because back then, all you
have to do all you can do is running to
a person, right, you know what I mean? If I
have heard have heard stuff like that, but hearing that

(01:27:55):
from a twenty year old who's in the game now
that all these rappers getting killed up, I actually admired it,
saying that Anna Lee Chop is very small dude. Him
and his mom they run close. I think she was
probably I'm sure. Yeah, she manages him, so they run
pretty close. He really but really bright individual. I just
can't wait till his rhetoric that he displayed in interviews
matches the continent of his music. That's what I can't
wait for. Well, he's a new hit, new project out,

(01:28:18):
I think out today. She hasn't been here in New York,
and I'm gonna go check it out. And that's that episode.
There's on the Jason Lee Sham Revolt tonight, and that
record did his new record don't I don't, I don't.
I don't believe he goes there that it's more of
a dance record. You probably heard of it, Damn Love
Don't Live. Remember we had this conversation last time. He
was so crazy. The last time he was here, he
was sounded just like that, very positive. But then the

(01:28:39):
music didn't match that, you know what I mean. So
I just hope that you know, well, speaking to project,
speaking to social media, gas like and everybody's reacting to
the conversation we just had about Tamar Braxton and Candy
and Todd and whether or not Todd is going to
get a peach. And I don't know that they're saying
that Tamar was the bully. But then when we were
looking at that photo, people are saying, that's not a
receipt of Tamar's man checking Todd. Yeah, he said he's

(01:28:59):
looked little a little bigger than Todd. You know, I
said earlier because you asked me a question. You said,
who would win in the fight between Todd and Tamar
Braxton Beyonce. I think his name is JR. Jail Ye,
And I said, Todd right with a punt further review, Okay.
I was told JR is the X Marine and I
can tell that there's a clear side size advantish and

(01:29:21):
Jay all looks irish. Okay, he does look irish. I
might root for Todd, you know publicly that backdoor. Bet No,
you can't take it back. Earlier, you like it's hot
as black. I'm going with the black man didn't have
all the stats of the fighters, so I didn't. You
didn't give me that. You know, I'm looking at the
stats of the fighters now, I'm looking at the height
and weight and the arm reaching background X Marine. You

(01:29:46):
have hell with an ex marine bro, especially at X Marine.
That's irish. I'm telling you that, right with j'all backdoor
bet that's what I'm doing at the table publicly, go Todd,
you know what I mean. But you know, put your
money on that's right, jail, Okay. I don't want to
see any any of that happened. I don't want to
see turn the violence. It was no Jesus, stop it, Jason.
It was just a hypothetical. Yeah, all right, well, thank

(01:30:10):
you for I do No, I don't know. I don't
I'm working on me. All right, Well, people's choice mixes
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