July 18, 2024 • 20 mins
We return with a dramatic episode of our Sex and the City watch series with conversations about different stages of relationships and how past experiences can inform them.
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Speaker 1 (00:05):
Hey, this is Anny and Samantha.
Speaker 2 (00:06):
Were welcome to stuff I've never told your prediction of
iHeart Radio.
Speaker 1 (00:18):
And we are back with another episode of watching Sex
in the City or Annie and sam Yes, I'm just
making up new we go, but yes, we are back.
We are in season three, episode seven. We're doing pretty good.
We're doing pretty good. As we have been talking about previously,
we are still looking for one of y'all to come
(00:41):
and watch with us as well. I think we've picked
out the episode. It is coming up pretty soon, not
too soon, but kind of soon. So if you are interested,
you have do not have had to watch the show before.
You don't even have to listen to us and you're like,
what's going on? Just be prepared. You might want to
be prepared about us the necessarily the show, just us,
but to come on have a viewing party with us
(01:04):
and just talk about the issues that are related to
sex and the city and the nuances that is life
and sex of the city.
Speaker 2 (01:13):
Yeah. Yes, we can get some heavy stuff, sometimes not heavy,
but deep.
Speaker 1 (01:17):
We can do some deep things. Every now and then
it takes like a like a turn. You're like, wow,
where did it be come in there? Like we've had
a few of those great episodes. So if you're interested,
you can email us, or you can send us a
message through one of our mini social media contexts. Maybe
not YouTube or Facebook because we're not on there much,
so don't use that. But yes, we'll give you the
information at the end of this episode so that you
(01:40):
know who to contact or how to contact us. If
you're interested, just let us know. We'll put your name
in and we'll do a drawing and we'll let you know.
Super easy, super producer Christina is amazing, and we'll go
with you step by step. Yeah, I got this and
you'll be able to like podcast like a pro.
Speaker 2 (01:56):
Yes. Yes, And if you entered last time and didn't
get in one, enter again please do. All you really
need is a good internet connection, preferably headphones but not necessary.
But yeah, please come one, come on if you're interested.
Speaker 1 (02:16):
Yes, with that, Yes, we are back and we are
on episode seven. This is a happy hour, so if
you are partaking of anything, please do so responsibly. Annie,
Are you partaking of anything?
Speaker 2 (02:28):
Light beer? Very hot?
Speaker 1 (02:29):
Beer is very hot, which is why I'm doing my
sparkly water as usual, black cherry flavor this time y'all. Yes,
I'm fancy, And again we're not necessarily sponsored by any
of the things that we're mentioning currently. Things do change,
as you know, so content warning. We're talking about sex
and the city and many other things that are You're
(02:50):
welcome that are involved with the show. Nudity, adult language,
all of that just for you to be aware. Yes,
oh yes, Anny, get ready. This was a TVMA, one
of the first tvmas that I watch, goes, what are
the news first? Annie? Can you give us a rundown
of what has been happening on season three for those
(03:12):
who may just be joining us.
Speaker 2 (03:13):
Okay, yes, Well, Samantha is doing her Samantha thing. She's
gotten into a lot of shenanigans. She's having a lot
of fun, She's living her best life. Charlotte is on
the hunch for her husband, but continues to find men
(03:33):
with the strangest habits or her behaviors. Miranda is with
Steve after they've broken up and now they're back together,
but I feel like they're still feeling things out and
she's dealing with her I want to be really independent,
(03:54):
but I like this guy kind of thing. And then Carrie,
we started with like the breakup with mister Big and
then meeting his wife, his younger wife, and then now Aiden.
If you know anything about the show, Aiden has entered
(04:15):
the picture and they are dating. There was a big
conversation about lines and like what you will and won't
do in relationships. And from there, Carrie decided to give
up smoking for Aiden. So we'll see how that goes.
(04:36):
Very good, very good, very good.
Speaker 1 (04:38):
So this episode is going to be a little harder,
I think because the title is not as easy titled
Drama Queens, and I'm like, that's just them in general.
But with that, can you give a prediction of what
you think is about to happen.
Speaker 2 (04:54):
I'm gonna go off the oils all this one.
Speaker 1 (04:57):
Oh, go for it.
Speaker 2 (04:58):
I think this is so silly. I think they're going
to have a lot of drama while they are in Queens.
In Queens, yep, that's what I think, and that maybe
(05:21):
they'll be kind of called out for being dramatic and
then be like, are we drama queens And they're gonna
go to a club?
Speaker 1 (05:32):
How do you get so specific? It's so general at
the same time, like that is the most general.
Speaker 2 (05:38):
Queens.
Speaker 1 (05:39):
But also they're gonna be dramatic an.
Speaker 2 (05:43):
I got called out for a teacher for this in
high school once because she was like, you can't say
every version of an answer.
Speaker 1 (05:51):
I mean you can't. I'm make fun of you and
take these points away. Oh goodness, So thank you, thank
you for those predictions in the club. Last time you
said that you were wrong because they were the brunch.
Speaker 2 (06:05):
Yes, it's club or brunch. I'm trying to keep myself
from guessing both. Even yeah, you can't do both.
Speaker 1 (06:10):
They do both, It's true, but you can't. You can't
guess both. You got one or the other. So the
first guess was drama in Queens, literally in Queens. So
here we go.
Speaker 2 (06:34):
For the first time in my life, I was in
a relationship where absolutely nothing was wrong.
Speaker 1 (06:41):
Not yet, not yet. I mean, you're not clothed, but
sailing nothing but calm seas and blue horizon as far
as the I can see. Do you understand what I'm saying? Absolutely,
there's not a cloud inside.
Speaker 2 (06:52):
We adore each other, we have fun together.
Speaker 1 (06:56):
We mesh and this is a problem.
Speaker 2 (06:58):
No, it just well talked about this before. When you
get in a relationship it's too comfortable and you're like, yeah,
because there's that excitement at the beginning.
Speaker 1 (07:08):
And also like if you've been through like really traumatic relationships, yeah,
you feel like that's normal. Really.
Speaker 2 (07:16):
Me and my ex had to talk about that because
I was like, I'm not gonna cheat on you like
you're extend so please stop acting like I.
Speaker 1 (07:22):
Like, I mean, that's the thing where it's like, I
don't understand where this is coming from. But let me
go ahead and put this boundary here. If that's what you expect,
and that's what I'm gonna be accused of, we're gonna
have to stop because I'm not living by that other
person's mistake. You give me some more. I want to
(07:45):
take your hit of viagraa.
Speaker 2 (07:49):
Number one that's very presumptuous of you. And number two,
from what I can tell, you don't need any help
in that area whatsoever. Well, I don't need the stakey recreationally.
What does it do for you?
Speaker 1 (08:04):
Sends me on a rocket trip right through your solar system?
Why gosh, rocket trip right through your solar system? Sir, sir,
They're they're cream for that. There were dreams for that.
I really love that. Sam's sex scenes are so over
(08:26):
the top and dramatic. Yeah, I have no I have
no child. I have to think this because that was
pretty impressionable. But they truly believe that was That's what
sex is.
Speaker 2 (08:36):
I mean, honestly, a lot of sex in our media
is not realistic at all, and it can it can
push you up.
Speaker 1 (08:48):
I'm so these parents that are coming to town, they
happen to know what hell's wrong with you.
Speaker 2 (08:57):
Let's get you a donut.
Speaker 1 (08:59):
Look, that would work on me. Let's get you a donut.
Let's go a Then.
Speaker 2 (09:09):
That was Bundy.
Speaker 1 (09:16):
Dennis, a one great single friend that you have to
fix me up with. I don't know, I've never met
anyone that's desperately like trying to get set up. And
I say this as a person with online dating, like
that seems like, okay, this is easy. But to be
like set me up, set me up, unless they're they
have someone specific in mind.
Speaker 2 (09:38):
Yeah, I feel like I've like fielded interest between friends before,
but it was not like, go set me up. It
was sort of like, what's their deal?
Speaker 1 (09:48):
Right, tell me about them? They seem to Yeah, yeah,
I tell you one thing. When your boyfriend is so
comfortable he can't be bothered to because that's the end
of romance right there, some.
Speaker 2 (10:04):
Things can go wrong, all right.
Speaker 1 (10:06):
I mean he is a fan, but he should honestly
be kindling that himself literally.
Speaker 3 (10:14):
Aids offering up both his parents on a silver platter.
Speaker 2 (10:23):
And I'm not sure I want to meet them. Maybe
it's too soon.
Speaker 1 (10:28):
I've never met Steve's mother, and believe me, I'm in
no rush. It took a long time for my partner
and I to meet the family, A long time they
like at least. So we started like kind of getting
to know each other before COVID, like a couple of
years before COVID, and then we went through COVID together
(10:49):
and then then we met the family. So it was like, good,
four years before you can live.
Speaker 2 (10:56):
Like, I met my exes pretty quick.
Speaker 1 (10:59):
I didn't want to.
Speaker 2 (11:00):
I wasn't Does that mean after his money he had
some money? Oh?
Speaker 1 (11:04):
Did he?
Speaker 2 (11:05):
I was not a concern. No, I was like, I'm good,
I'm tied up.
Speaker 1 (11:16):
What would happen if I tried one of these?
Speaker 2 (11:21):
I don't think they've established that it works for women.
Speaker 1 (11:24):
There's no harm in trying, is there?
Speaker 3 (11:26):
Doctor?
Speaker 2 (11:29):
Bathrooms up.
Speaker 1 (11:32):
Badams? Yeah.
Speaker 2 (11:37):
Twenty minutes later, Samantha officially became the first woman to
land on the moon.
Speaker 1 (11:43):
Oh I don't think that's been proven, like clinically proven, right,
I don't think so.
Speaker 2 (11:54):
I am tied now.
Speaker 1 (11:57):
I know I want to be with a man who
wants to be with me.
Speaker 2 (12:01):
You know I've had enough relationship drama for one lifetime.
Speaker 1 (12:04):
So do you think you should be telling this Dade?
Speaker 2 (12:07):
Miranda, it's three am.
Speaker 1 (12:08):
I'll wait until a more civilized hour the next morning.
Speaker 2 (12:12):
I waited until a decent hour to call Aiden at
the store and tell him how much.
Speaker 1 (12:15):
I missed him. As she wakes up my best friends.
Speaker 2 (12:18):
If you called me with that kind of.
Speaker 1 (12:21):
Hangs up, never done to take it. I'm trying.
Speaker 2 (12:30):
This is not no no, come on, come on, don't leave.
Speaker 3 (12:32):
Don't leave.
Speaker 1 (12:33):
You kept all of your great single friends away from
me to so you could cheat on your wife. You
should be ashamed of yourself. Such a spark plug. I
love that about you. I'm not interested in starting some
married man's car.
Speaker 3 (12:44):
Wait no, no, wait, wait, wait you.
Speaker 1 (12:51):
Wait.
Speaker 2 (12:53):
Some good lines in this episode. Oh my gosh, right,
oh no, I knew he was going to show up.
I've seen pictures.
Speaker 1 (13:07):
Kyle McLaughlin, all right, this was not such a dramatic one. Hanny.
(13:28):
There was drama, but not necessarily mentioned of queens, and
they definitely didn't go to queens. They never went to
a nightclub. I hate to tell you that. Yet failed
on that one. Yeah, failed, Oh man.
Speaker 2 (13:41):
I was on like a very short streaks really well.
Speaker 1 (13:45):
It had been working for you, like going with literal
interpretations of the title, which is why I was like,
this is a little more generic. So it was trickery
on this one. And we had an introduction of one
of the pretty big significant other, Trey, which we will
find more about later, and he does a great job
(14:06):
in the next few episodes. I think he's does fantastic job.
But yeah, like not so over the top. This one
very very low key, but we did see big again.
Speaker 2 (14:19):
We did, and we did have Charlotte almost get run
over by cab, which was got to be dramatic a
little bit. Yeah, so it did have So it had
its moments of drama for sure. I do find this
conversation interesting because I have the friends of mine have
had it where they'll be with maybe they've got out
(14:40):
of a relationship that was pretty dramatic and now they're
in a stable one that's really nice and it's almost
like they're confused by it. They're like, oh, he like
listens to what I say and he doesn't get mad
when we fight, like we kind of and it's it's
almost them getting used to the idea of a healthy
(15:04):
or just.
Speaker 1 (15:05):
Like a normal relationship. And when I say normal in
the aspect of like there's no dramatic fighting or over
the top disagreement where you're crying and screaming and always
having to bargain with each other, the like the notions
of this. Sometimes it's just literally you sit around all
day trying to figure out what you're gonna have for dinner.
That's that's the next planning with like, oh, we haven't
(15:26):
gotten out of the house in a week, maybe we
should get out of the house mm hmm, every now
and again. And then you're kind of like, there's something
wrong with this.
Speaker 2 (15:34):
Yeah, because so much of the media we do consume
is the like you're dating and it's so exciting and
you're so attractious to each other and like right, but
then yeah, those is the quiet moments with the laundry
and learning people's habits and adjusting to two lives with
each other, right, which I think is can also be
(15:58):
really exciting and really I've also heard yeah you can
miss that other thing, but like where you are right right?
Speaker 1 (16:07):
Yeah, I think being content is different than that, and
sometimes you do get confused with being content as being boring.
And then also the reminder of like that you don't
have to be that way. You could plan things if
you want to. You're can afford things to do things
that's based on what you want to do and if
not having a conversation about why not all about communication,
(16:29):
which she learned about at the end with aiden.
Speaker 2 (16:34):
Yes, and it is something that again through my friends,
this is true facts. I have a friend who is
both she's she's a combination of all the characters. I
would say, so it's like we have all of us
are but I wouldn't say she's a Charlotte. But she
(16:55):
went through a period where she was doing that like
almost like a job, dating online and a good friend
of ours used to tell her be less available, and
I was always kind of like, ah, I don't know,
I get, I don't know, you don't want to be
(17:15):
cleany right, Yeah, Like the level of like the whole
like how long do you wait to text?
Speaker 1 (17:21):
How long do you call the blah blah blah blah
seems absurd. But also then they went to the other
stream of like love bombing and over the top and
two attached and things crash quickly, which I've been through
that and that's gross too.
Speaker 2 (17:33):
Yeah. Yeah, And as we were saying earlier, everybody, whether
you want to or not, on some level, you bring
in the baggage from your past relationships and to your
current right relationship. And you can deal with that and
it doesn't have to control you in any in any way.
But it is hard to like go of those kind
(17:55):
of learned behaviors or even things you might have witnessed
and like your parents or something like that, where you
think that's how relationship works, and it's like, oh, if
they haven't done this, then they must be mad at me,
or if they haven't done there's all kinds of insecurities
that come into play, right in that that can be
hard to not get in your head about.
Speaker 1 (18:16):
Relationships are not. It's difficult to not get in your
head about in justice, Yes, especially because you're trying to
play it cool.
Speaker 2 (18:22):
Yes, you're trying to look like you don't have any baggage.
Speaker 1 (18:26):
And then all of things come sneaky if you all
come out. Yeah, yes, that's being a dramatic queen, not
being dramatic in Queens.
Speaker 2 (18:39):
That would have been so funny. You know, if I
had gotten that right, you've gotten that right, I would
have I don't know.
Speaker 1 (18:49):
I think I would just drop if you've gotten it right.
Speaker 2 (18:56):
I just mean they've done stuff like that before. It's true.
Speaker 1 (19:01):
Oh dramatic in Queens. Hey, listeners and queens, are y'all dramatic?
Tell us? Tell us about the top?
Speaker 2 (19:12):
Oh my goodness.
Speaker 1 (19:15):
Oh sometimes m hmm. It pays to be literal sometimes.
Speaker 2 (19:21):
Yeah, yeah, there was definitely. Yeah. You know you got
your friend now trying to cheat on his wife with Charlotte, like,
that's pretty that's pretty dramatic.
Speaker 1 (19:32):
Yeah, Charlotte does not stand for that. Oh good on her.
Speaker 2 (19:37):
She was not having it. She was not having it. Also,
discussion of skid marks. I did not step coming.
Speaker 3 (19:44):
That.
Speaker 2 (19:45):
I can tell you.
Speaker 3 (19:47):
You know, they're not afraid no to hit some of
those like what, well, I foresee some drama.
Speaker 2 (19:58):
You know that big has been spotted to into the wild.
Mm hmmm hm. Well, listeners again, if you would like
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Hey, this is Anny and Samantha.
Speaker 2 (00:06):
Were welcome to stuff I've never told your prediction of
iHeart Radio.
Speaker 1 (00:18):
And we are back with another episode of watching Sex
in the City or Annie and sam Yes, I'm just
making up new we go, but yes, we are back.
We are in season three, episode seven. We're doing pretty good.
We're doing pretty good. As we have been talking about previously,
we are still looking for one of y'all to come
(00:41):
and watch with us as well. I think we've picked
out the episode. It is coming up pretty soon, not
too soon, but kind of soon. So if you are interested,
you have do not have had to watch the show before.
You don't even have to listen to us and you're like,
what's going on? Just be prepared. You might want to
be prepared about us the necessarily the show, just us,
but to come on have a viewing party with us
(01:04):
and just talk about the issues that are related to
sex and the city and the nuances that is life
and sex of the city.
Speaker 2 (01:13):
Yeah. Yes, we can get some heavy stuff, sometimes not heavy,
but deep.
Speaker 1 (01:17):
We can do some deep things. Every now and then
it takes like a like a turn. You're like, wow,
where did it be come in there? Like we've had
a few of those great episodes. So if you're interested,
you can email us, or you can send us a
message through one of our mini social media contexts. Maybe
not YouTube or Facebook because we're not on there much,
so don't use that. But yes, we'll give you the
information at the end of this episode so that you
(01:40):
know who to contact or how to contact us. If
you're interested, just let us know. We'll put your name
in and we'll do a drawing and we'll let you know.
Super easy, super producer Christina is amazing, and we'll go
with you step by step. Yeah, I got this and
you'll be able to like podcast like a pro.
Speaker 2 (01:56):
Yes. Yes, And if you entered last time and didn't
get in one, enter again please do. All you really
need is a good internet connection, preferably headphones but not necessary.
But yeah, please come one, come on if you're interested.
Speaker 1 (02:16):
Yes, with that, Yes, we are back and we are
on episode seven. This is a happy hour, so if
you are partaking of anything, please do so responsibly. Annie,
Are you partaking of anything?
Speaker 2 (02:28):
Light beer? Very hot?
Speaker 1 (02:29):
Beer is very hot, which is why I'm doing my
sparkly water as usual, black cherry flavor this time y'all. Yes,
I'm fancy, And again we're not necessarily sponsored by any
of the things that we're mentioning currently. Things do change,
as you know, so content warning. We're talking about sex
and the city and many other things that are You're
(02:50):
welcome that are involved with the show. Nudity, adult language,
all of that just for you to be aware. Yes,
oh yes, Anny, get ready. This was a TVMA, one
of the first tvmas that I watch, goes, what are
the news first? Annie? Can you give us a rundown
of what has been happening on season three for those
(03:12):
who may just be joining us.
Speaker 2 (03:13):
Okay, yes, Well, Samantha is doing her Samantha thing. She's
gotten into a lot of shenanigans. She's having a lot
of fun, She's living her best life. Charlotte is on
the hunch for her husband, but continues to find men
(03:33):
with the strangest habits or her behaviors. Miranda is with
Steve after they've broken up and now they're back together,
but I feel like they're still feeling things out and
she's dealing with her I want to be really independent,
(03:54):
but I like this guy kind of thing. And then Carrie,
we started with like the breakup with mister Big and
then meeting his wife, his younger wife, and then now Aiden.
If you know anything about the show, Aiden has entered
(04:15):
the picture and they are dating. There was a big
conversation about lines and like what you will and won't
do in relationships. And from there, Carrie decided to give
up smoking for Aiden. So we'll see how that goes.
(04:36):
Very good, very good, very good.
Speaker 1 (04:38):
So this episode is going to be a little harder,
I think because the title is not as easy titled
Drama Queens, and I'm like, that's just them in general.
But with that, can you give a prediction of what
you think is about to happen.
Speaker 2 (04:54):
I'm gonna go off the oils all this one.
Speaker 1 (04:57):
Oh, go for it.
Speaker 2 (04:58):
I think this is so silly. I think they're going
to have a lot of drama while they are in Queens.
In Queens, yep, that's what I think, and that maybe
(05:21):
they'll be kind of called out for being dramatic and
then be like, are we drama queens And they're gonna
go to a club?
Speaker 1 (05:32):
How do you get so specific? It's so general at
the same time, like that is the most general.
Speaker 2 (05:38):
Queens.
Speaker 1 (05:39):
But also they're gonna be dramatic an.
Speaker 2 (05:43):
I got called out for a teacher for this in
high school once because she was like, you can't say
every version of an answer.
Speaker 1 (05:51):
I mean you can't. I'm make fun of you and
take these points away. Oh goodness, So thank you, thank
you for those predictions in the club. Last time you
said that you were wrong because they were the brunch.
Speaker 2 (06:05):
Yes, it's club or brunch. I'm trying to keep myself
from guessing both. Even yeah, you can't do both.
Speaker 1 (06:10):
They do both, It's true, but you can't. You can't
guess both. You got one or the other. So the
first guess was drama in Queens, literally in Queens. So
here we go.
Speaker 2 (06:34):
For the first time in my life, I was in
a relationship where absolutely nothing was wrong.
Speaker 1 (06:41):
Not yet, not yet. I mean, you're not clothed, but
sailing nothing but calm seas and blue horizon as far
as the I can see. Do you understand what I'm saying? Absolutely,
there's not a cloud inside.
Speaker 2 (06:52):
We adore each other, we have fun together.
Speaker 1 (06:56):
We mesh and this is a problem.
Speaker 2 (06:58):
No, it just well talked about this before. When you
get in a relationship it's too comfortable and you're like, yeah,
because there's that excitement at the beginning.
Speaker 1 (07:08):
And also like if you've been through like really traumatic relationships, yeah,
you feel like that's normal. Really.
Speaker 2 (07:16):
Me and my ex had to talk about that because
I was like, I'm not gonna cheat on you like
you're extend so please stop acting like I.
Speaker 1 (07:22):
Like, I mean, that's the thing where it's like, I
don't understand where this is coming from. But let me
go ahead and put this boundary here. If that's what you expect,
and that's what I'm gonna be accused of, we're gonna
have to stop because I'm not living by that other
person's mistake. You give me some more. I want to
(07:45):
take your hit of viagraa.
Speaker 2 (07:49):
Number one that's very presumptuous of you. And number two,
from what I can tell, you don't need any help
in that area whatsoever. Well, I don't need the stakey recreationally.
What does it do for you?
Speaker 1 (08:04):
Sends me on a rocket trip right through your solar system?
Why gosh, rocket trip right through your solar system? Sir, sir,
They're they're cream for that. There were dreams for that.
I really love that. Sam's sex scenes are so over
(08:26):
the top and dramatic. Yeah, I have no I have
no child. I have to think this because that was
pretty impressionable. But they truly believe that was That's what
sex is.
Speaker 2 (08:36):
I mean, honestly, a lot of sex in our media
is not realistic at all, and it can it can
push you up.
Speaker 1 (08:48):
I'm so these parents that are coming to town, they
happen to know what hell's wrong with you.
Speaker 2 (08:57):
Let's get you a donut.
Speaker 1 (08:59):
Look, that would work on me. Let's get you a donut.
Let's go a Then.
Speaker 2 (09:09):
That was Bundy.
Speaker 1 (09:16):
Dennis, a one great single friend that you have to
fix me up with. I don't know, I've never met
anyone that's desperately like trying to get set up. And
I say this as a person with online dating, like
that seems like, okay, this is easy. But to be
like set me up, set me up, unless they're they
have someone specific in mind.
Speaker 2 (09:38):
Yeah, I feel like I've like fielded interest between friends before,
but it was not like, go set me up. It
was sort of like, what's their deal?
Speaker 1 (09:48):
Right, tell me about them? They seem to Yeah, yeah,
I tell you one thing. When your boyfriend is so
comfortable he can't be bothered to because that's the end
of romance right there, some.
Speaker 2 (10:04):
Things can go wrong, all right.
Speaker 1 (10:06):
I mean he is a fan, but he should honestly
be kindling that himself literally.
Speaker 3 (10:14):
Aids offering up both his parents on a silver platter.
Speaker 2 (10:23):
And I'm not sure I want to meet them. Maybe
it's too soon.
Speaker 1 (10:28):
I've never met Steve's mother, and believe me, I'm in
no rush. It took a long time for my partner
and I to meet the family, A long time they
like at least. So we started like kind of getting
to know each other before COVID, like a couple of
years before COVID, and then we went through COVID together
(10:49):
and then then we met the family. So it was like, good,
four years before you can live.
Speaker 2 (10:56):
Like, I met my exes pretty quick.
Speaker 1 (10:59):
I didn't want to.
Speaker 2 (11:00):
I wasn't Does that mean after his money he had
some money? Oh?
Speaker 1 (11:04):
Did he?
Speaker 2 (11:05):
I was not a concern. No, I was like, I'm good,
I'm tied up.
Speaker 1 (11:16):
What would happen if I tried one of these?
Speaker 2 (11:21):
I don't think they've established that it works for women.
Speaker 1 (11:24):
There's no harm in trying, is there?
Speaker 3 (11:26):
Doctor?
Speaker 2 (11:29):
Bathrooms up.
Speaker 1 (11:32):
Badams? Yeah.
Speaker 2 (11:37):
Twenty minutes later, Samantha officially became the first woman to
land on the moon.
Speaker 1 (11:43):
Oh I don't think that's been proven, like clinically proven, right,
I don't think so.
Speaker 2 (11:54):
I am tied now.
Speaker 1 (11:57):
I know I want to be with a man who
wants to be with me.
Speaker 2 (12:01):
You know I've had enough relationship drama for one lifetime.
Speaker 1 (12:04):
So do you think you should be telling this Dade?
Speaker 2 (12:07):
Miranda, it's three am.
Speaker 1 (12:08):
I'll wait until a more civilized hour the next morning.
Speaker 2 (12:12):
I waited until a decent hour to call Aiden at
the store and tell him how much.
Speaker 1 (12:15):
I missed him. As she wakes up my best friends.
Speaker 2 (12:18):
If you called me with that kind of.
Speaker 1 (12:21):
Hangs up, never done to take it. I'm trying.
Speaker 2 (12:30):
This is not no no, come on, come on, don't leave.
Speaker 3 (12:32):
Don't leave.
Speaker 1 (12:33):
You kept all of your great single friends away from
me to so you could cheat on your wife. You
should be ashamed of yourself. Such a spark plug. I
love that about you. I'm not interested in starting some
married man's car.
Speaker 3 (12:44):
Wait no, no, wait, wait, wait you.
Speaker 1 (12:51):
Wait.
Speaker 2 (12:53):
Some good lines in this episode. Oh my gosh, right,
oh no, I knew he was going to show up.
I've seen pictures.
Speaker 1 (13:07):
Kyle McLaughlin, all right, this was not such a dramatic one. Hanny.
(13:28):
There was drama, but not necessarily mentioned of queens, and
they definitely didn't go to queens. They never went to
a nightclub. I hate to tell you that. Yet failed
on that one. Yeah, failed, Oh man.
Speaker 2 (13:41):
I was on like a very short streaks really well.
Speaker 1 (13:45):
It had been working for you, like going with literal
interpretations of the title, which is why I was like,
this is a little more generic. So it was trickery
on this one. And we had an introduction of one
of the pretty big significant other, Trey, which we will
find more about later, and he does a great job
(14:06):
in the next few episodes. I think he's does fantastic job.
But yeah, like not so over the top. This one
very very low key, but we did see big again.
Speaker 2 (14:19):
We did, and we did have Charlotte almost get run
over by cab, which was got to be dramatic a
little bit. Yeah, so it did have So it had
its moments of drama for sure. I do find this
conversation interesting because I have the friends of mine have
had it where they'll be with maybe they've got out
(14:40):
of a relationship that was pretty dramatic and now they're
in a stable one that's really nice and it's almost
like they're confused by it. They're like, oh, he like
listens to what I say and he doesn't get mad
when we fight, like we kind of and it's it's
almost them getting used to the idea of a healthy
(15:04):
or just.
Speaker 1 (15:05):
Like a normal relationship. And when I say normal in
the aspect of like there's no dramatic fighting or over
the top disagreement where you're crying and screaming and always
having to bargain with each other, the like the notions
of this. Sometimes it's just literally you sit around all
day trying to figure out what you're gonna have for dinner.
That's that's the next planning with like, oh, we haven't
(15:26):
gotten out of the house in a week, maybe we
should get out of the house mm hmm, every now
and again. And then you're kind of like, there's something
wrong with this.
Speaker 2 (15:34):
Yeah, because so much of the media we do consume
is the like you're dating and it's so exciting and
you're so attractious to each other and like right, but
then yeah, those is the quiet moments with the laundry
and learning people's habits and adjusting to two lives with
each other, right, which I think is can also be
(15:58):
really exciting and really I've also heard yeah you can
miss that other thing, but like where you are right right?
Speaker 1 (16:07):
Yeah, I think being content is different than that, and
sometimes you do get confused with being content as being boring.
And then also the reminder of like that you don't
have to be that way. You could plan things if
you want to. You're can afford things to do things
that's based on what you want to do and if
not having a conversation about why not all about communication,
(16:29):
which she learned about at the end with aiden.
Speaker 2 (16:34):
Yes, and it is something that again through my friends,
this is true facts. I have a friend who is
both she's she's a combination of all the characters. I
would say, so it's like we have all of us
are but I wouldn't say she's a Charlotte. But she
(16:55):
went through a period where she was doing that like
almost like a job, dating online and a good friend
of ours used to tell her be less available, and
I was always kind of like, ah, I don't know,
I get, I don't know, you don't want to be
(17:15):
cleany right, Yeah, Like the level of like the whole
like how long do you wait to text?
Speaker 1 (17:21):
How long do you call the blah blah blah blah
seems absurd. But also then they went to the other
stream of like love bombing and over the top and
two attached and things crash quickly, which I've been through
that and that's gross too.
Speaker 2 (17:33):
Yeah. Yeah, And as we were saying earlier, everybody, whether
you want to or not, on some level, you bring
in the baggage from your past relationships and to your
current right relationship. And you can deal with that and
it doesn't have to control you in any in any way.
But it is hard to like go of those kind
(17:55):
of learned behaviors or even things you might have witnessed
and like your parents or something like that, where you
think that's how relationship works, and it's like, oh, if
they haven't done this, then they must be mad at me,
or if they haven't done there's all kinds of insecurities
that come into play, right in that that can be
hard to not get in your head about.
Speaker 1 (18:16):
Relationships are not. It's difficult to not get in your
head about in justice, Yes, especially because you're trying to
play it cool.
Speaker 2 (18:22):
Yes, you're trying to look like you don't have any baggage.
Speaker 1 (18:26):
And then all of things come sneaky if you all
come out. Yeah, yes, that's being a dramatic queen, not
being dramatic in Queens.
Speaker 2 (18:39):
That would have been so funny. You know, if I
had gotten that right, you've gotten that right, I would
have I don't know.
Speaker 1 (18:49):
I think I would just drop if you've gotten it right.
Speaker 2 (18:56):
I just mean they've done stuff like that before. It's true.
Speaker 1 (19:01):
Oh dramatic in Queens. Hey, listeners and queens, are y'all dramatic?
Tell us? Tell us about the top?
Speaker 2 (19:12):
Oh my goodness.
Speaker 1 (19:15):
Oh sometimes m hmm. It pays to be literal sometimes.
Speaker 2 (19:21):
Yeah, yeah, there was definitely. Yeah. You know you got
your friend now trying to cheat on his wife with Charlotte, like,
that's pretty that's pretty dramatic.
Speaker 1 (19:32):
Yeah, Charlotte does not stand for that. Oh good on her.
Speaker 2 (19:37):
She was not having it. She was not having it. Also,
discussion of skid marks. I did not step coming.
Speaker 3 (19:44):
That.
Speaker 2 (19:45):
I can tell you.
Speaker 3 (19:47):
You know, they're not afraid no to hit some of
those like what, well, I foresee some drama.
Speaker 2 (19:58):
You know that big has been spotted to into the wild.
Mm hmmm hm. Well, listeners again, if you would like
to join us for one of these, they're very fun.
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