May 8, 2024 • 10 mins
Hailey and Andrew first met on Hinge a few weeks ago and immediately hit things off because Hailey admitted that she really liked Andrew’s mustache and his sense of style. Hailey tells us that it only took them a day before they planned their first coffee date. They also went on a second date to get sushi together and Hailey thought things were going really well, but ever since then she hasn’t heard back from Andrew and she’s not really sure why.
We call Andrew trying to figure out if there is anything else between him and Hailey that happened that may have caused things to go wrong and he tells us that he wasn’t a fan of what Hailey asked him during their date. Find out what’s really going on in this Second Date Update!
We call Andrew trying to figure out if there is anything else between him and Hailey that happened that may have caused things to go wrong and he tells us that he wasn’t a fan of what Hailey asked him during their date. Find out what’s really going on in this Second Date Update!
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(00:00):
In turns John and You were MorningShows second date update on intern John and
your Morning Show. Here's what's goingon. You go on a date with
somebody, you think there's a vibe, you think maybe there could be a
potential future. Then they stopped talkingto you. We try to figure out
exactly what is going on, Hailey, good morning. Hey, good morning
(00:21):
guys. So walk us through this. You and Andrew met where we met
on Hinge? Okay, and whatabout the Hinge version of Andrew made him
stand out to you? Well,was always really cute. He had a
great mustache or really into like facialhair cut. Yeah, absolutely, I
(00:42):
get that for sure. I'm likean actual sense of style, Like some
men just show up wearing like basketballshorts, and he had I don't know,
he just had like a good look. Okay. And so the one
thing I want to note that thatwas kind of interesting. Sometimes when folks
match and apps, it's like aweek or two of talking before seeing in
person. You said in your email, you guys within twenty four hours had
(01:03):
a first date. Yeah, yeah, it was nice. Like I'm not
one of those people who wants tolike have a pental for a month.
And yeah, you know it doesn'twork out. Yeah, So yeah,
we kind of just like chatted.It was really thirty. It was nice
and just like the next day,got a coffee and it was great.
Okay, So whose idea was itfor date one? Well, we were
(01:23):
just larting and it was sort oflike, oh, like we should what
are you doing tomorrow? And thenhe was like I'm down down for coffee
and I said that's perfect, perfectokay, So we have a coffee date.
Coffee date goes so well. Wedecided to have a dinner date later
that week. Is that fair?Yep? Exactly. And so walk us
through dinner? Does he pick youup? Do you meet there? Who
pays? Yeah? Yeah, sowe met there. We got sushi,
(01:48):
We split a bunch of stuff,which I love. I feel like that's
a good bibe already, like fromsharing the experience. Yeah, yeah,
and it was great. Like,you know, conversation follow really easily.
We have a lot in common,like their musical paste and you know we're
just like shooting were shooting the crap, shooting the crash. I'll just say,
(02:10):
conversation is going really well. Youknow, we have a lot in
comment. I think when the Billcame. I did that thing where like
I went to put my car downand he was like no, no,
I got it, and I waslike, are you yeah? Yeah,
yeah, yeah, Okay. Sothis was two weeks ago. First date
or really second date ends. Dowe we leave it open to like,
(02:30):
hey, I want to see youagain? Yeah? It was sort of.
I was just like this was great, like hang out next week and
he was like yeah, yeah,let's talk over text. Sure, And
here we are two weeks later.I haven't heard anything from him. Have
you tried to reach out and gethold of him? Yes? So I
texted a couple of times. Iwas like, is this dude, you
(02:51):
know, freaking ghosting me? Likewhat is happening? Yeah? Yeah,
so I've texted. I want tosay I texted like three times. Like
the first was like hey, thatwas fun, second was like what are
you? What's your week? Likeyou know, and then it was just
like I literally was just like ifyou're down, like I'm down to grab
another drink or something, and thatwas it. Got you? Okay,
(03:12):
So let's do this because I'm kindof curious too. We'll call Andrew,
We'll try to get him on theline and see what his side is okay,
yes, I would love that onesecond. It sounds like pretty spot
on and yeah, curious to gethis thoughts. Me too, no worries.
(03:39):
Yeah, hello Andrew, Hey lookingfor Andrew please? Yeah, Heyrew,
my first day Andrew. Real quickly, my name is intern John.
Can I talk to you on theair real quick about something nothing bad,
just real quick. Sauces here aswell, roses here too, Yes,
(04:00):
sure, nothing bad. We're doinga second date. Update. I has
someone the other line, Hailey,if you want to say hello, Hi.
Andrew nailed that, and so Haleyreached out to us Andrew. She
told us the guys mash on Hingea couple of weeks ago, had coffee,
date, had dinner, but shehasn't heard from you since the dinner
date. We're trying to figure outwhere your head's at and see your thoughts
(04:23):
as to why we haven't followed upfor another date. Yeah that was well.
Yeah, I hadn't expected to hearfrom her. Yeah, I reached
out, So that's why we're wonderingwhy you haven't fallen through what's going on?
Well, I mean, okay,if you if you really want to
know, Yes, yeah, wewent out you know, it was a
(04:47):
it was a good dinner. Thedinner was good. But while we were
there, you know, she wewere sitting down getting started with the dinner,
and she asked me, you know, she was looking at our and
she said, hey, what doyou what do you think about our waitress?
Do you think she's attractive? AndI found that was a little bit
like I'll put you know, Andof course, of course you don't want
(05:09):
to, you know, you don'twant to make someone feel like they're yeah,
they're not like no, no,no, I'm absolutely not. I
didn't think anything of it. Andthen a few minutes later, she's looking,
you know, looking around the restaurantand she she sees a woman at
the next table over and she's like, well, what about her? Do
you think she's attractive? And youknow, and that's but no, no,
(05:30):
no, and then uh, youknow, and then and then it's
another lady in the restaurant and gettingit. Yeah, it's starting to it's
starting to get a little weird.And you know, I'm just playing it
off like oh no, no no, And you know, first it seems
like it's a cute game, andthen it's like, well, maybe she's
doing a bit and then it andthen it kind of gets weird, you
(05:53):
know, and then it's like,oh, well, what about celebrities?
Do you think? What do youthink about this? So? Okay,
yeah, and I feel like she'strying to okay, give me Hayley.
Is that is that accurate? Okay? I feel like this is unfair because
the way that started is that Isaid I thought our waiters, like our
(06:14):
waitress looked like Anne Hathaway. Okay, I think it's gorgeous. And he
was like, oh yeah, likeI kind of see that. Did you?
Did you continue going around the roomand like finding people the test?
Yes, but I was talking aboutlike what's your like, what's your celebrity
crush type? Like me included likeme being like, oh my god,
like celebrities. You have to hangout with one celebrity. Okay, let
(06:34):
me just I'm gonna put you guysin hold. Are you a team Andrew
or team Hayley? Eight seven sevenfour six state one to call me nine
nine three three eight to text Itis second date update on Intern John your
Morning Show. Second date update onintern John and your Morning Show. We
just talked to Haley and Andrew.I love your thoughts nine nine, three
(06:56):
three eight to a text DM's openas well at WYUS Radio. Well,
like get you at hold Shelby sauceyour thoughts. I think that's a little
odd that she was doing that,because if somebody was doing that to me,
even if it was a second date, I would feel so uncomfortable because
I don't want to keep comparing otherpeople just in general to each other even
and be like oh, like likeI don't know. I feel like she's
(07:17):
like trying to grade what he thinksis hot or not, or like get
an idea, and I just thinkit's not my thing. Well, I
don't love that. Can I offerto I think when you don't know somebody,
it'd be I think if you goto the celebrity route, maybe that's
a better way. Yeah, hesaw and halfway on TV and go wow,
she's really pretty. Yeah. Butlike if we're on a second date
(07:39):
and you're asking me as somebody astranger who is basically I know maybe a
little bit less than I know youif they're attractive, yeah, I feel
awkward. I just think it's alittle odd. It's definitely not for me.
Yeah, I don't like it.And as a dude. I think
every dude's been asked like don't youthink this person's pretty? And the answers
always no, yeah, no,not at all. And it's also not
very nice to like say somebody's likehot or not, especially like when they're
(08:01):
right there. Yeah, and thento keep going around the room and trying
to find more people. Yeah,I like that. I feel very uncomfy.
Yeah me, you hate that.I like to feel comfy. You
love feeling comfy. Yeah, Idon't know. I uh, johnas right
now, Okay, I say it'sone thing like to do in a playful
way. Even like when I havean ex, girlfriends have asked we've been
(08:22):
like years in the dating. Yeah, I've never felt excited to have that
conversation. It's just always odd tobe like what do you think about her?
Do you find her attractive? Isshe pretty? And it's just like
a weird question. Yeah, Iknow, because then it's like if somebody's
like obviously attractive, you say,now, then you know the person's lying,
yeah, like what do you want? Right? Yeah? What what
do you want the end goal tobe? So? I know, let
(08:45):
me go in Kensington, Alison,good morning, Hi, you heard second
Date up date. What do youwant to say? Girl? Yeah,
okay, she's doing way too much. Like every once in a while,
I asked my boyfriend if, likeyou thinks social liberty is hot, but
like to be asking about people inreal life and like all the time,
that's just way too weird. That'slike over here, I wouldn't do that.
(09:07):
I think that's inappropriate. Yeah,I think that's a good point,
the celebrity aspect of it, becausethat's like unattainable. Yeah, and like
how long and your boyfriend been togetherfor Alison? About two years? Okay?
Yeah, so that you guys arealso in a place to where like
he knows you won't be angry,Yeah, responds away. If I was
on a third date and you're askingme about random people in the bar,
(09:31):
I would be terrified. I'd belike, am I being set up right
now? Like? Yeah, whatis this the stake? First? And
then all for one hundred, Ali, thank you for listening. To have
a great day. Yeah, thingstoo. In Leesburg, Gina, Good
morning, good morning. You heardsecond date update. What'd you want to
say? Girl? So, like, I was on this date with this
(09:54):
guy and you know he I decidedto ask him you know, like whether
he thought that some girls were hot, you know, just like you know
le'suff, that girl's Joe, youknow, like we wad them from one
to ten? Got you? Soyou give her the same spot? Then?
Yeah, did it work out inyour favorite Do you have a second
date or no? No? Okay, yeah we did not. Okay,
(10:16):
so looking back, maybe it wasn'tthe best move. No, it's not
the best move. I kind ofset myself up to fail on sounds like
it. At least we learned though, you know, yeah, you know,
but I mean I kind of wantedto know if she was a ten,
if he thought he was at tentoday comparison. I want to see
where I fell. I got you. Okay, thank you for listening,
Have a great day. Thank you. Would love to hear your thoughts over
(10:41):
text nine nine three three eight ifyou ever want to do a second date
update very simple. DMS always openat YMS Radio. Give us a your
info, give us their info.Intern John in your morning shows. True
I Heart Radio.
In turns John and You were MorningShows second date update on intern John and
your Morning Show. Here's what's goingon. You go on a date with
somebody, you think there's a vibe, you think maybe there could be a
potential future. Then they stopped talkingto you. We try to figure out
exactly what is going on, Hailey, good morning. Hey, good morning
(00:21):
guys. So walk us through this. You and Andrew met where we met
on Hinge? Okay, and whatabout the Hinge version of Andrew made him
stand out to you? Well,was always really cute. He had a
great mustache or really into like facialhair cut. Yeah, absolutely, I
(00:42):
get that for sure. I'm likean actual sense of style, Like some
men just show up wearing like basketballshorts, and he had I don't know,
he just had like a good look. Okay. And so the one
thing I want to note that thatwas kind of interesting. Sometimes when folks
match and apps, it's like aweek or two of talking before seeing in
person. You said in your email, you guys within twenty four hours had
(01:03):
a first date. Yeah, yeah, it was nice. Like I'm not
one of those people who wants tolike have a pental for a month.
And yeah, you know it doesn'twork out. Yeah, So yeah,
we kind of just like chatted.It was really thirty. It was nice
and just like the next day,got a coffee and it was great.
Okay, So whose idea was itfor date one? Well, we were
(01:23):
just larting and it was sort oflike, oh, like we should what
are you doing tomorrow? And thenhe was like I'm down down for coffee
and I said that's perfect, perfectokay, So we have a coffee date.
Coffee date goes so well. Wedecided to have a dinner date later
that week. Is that fair?Yep? Exactly. And so walk us
through dinner? Does he pick youup? Do you meet there? Who
pays? Yeah? Yeah, sowe met there. We got sushi,
(01:48):
We split a bunch of stuff,which I love. I feel like that's
a good bibe already, like fromsharing the experience. Yeah, yeah,
and it was great. Like,you know, conversation follow really easily.
We have a lot in common,like their musical paste and you know we're
just like shooting were shooting the crap, shooting the crash. I'll just say,
(02:10):
conversation is going really well. Youknow, we have a lot in
comment. I think when the Billcame. I did that thing where like
I went to put my car downand he was like no, no,
I got it, and I waslike, are you yeah? Yeah,
yeah, yeah, Okay. Sothis was two weeks ago. First date
or really second date ends. Dowe we leave it open to like,
(02:30):
hey, I want to see youagain? Yeah? It was sort of.
I was just like this was great, like hang out next week and
he was like yeah, yeah,let's talk over text. Sure, And
here we are two weeks later.I haven't heard anything from him. Have
you tried to reach out and gethold of him? Yes? So I
texted a couple of times. Iwas like, is this dude, you
(02:51):
know, freaking ghosting me? Likewhat is happening? Yeah? Yeah,
so I've texted. I want tosay I texted like three times. Like
the first was like hey, thatwas fun, second was like what are
you? What's your week? Likeyou know, and then it was just
like I literally was just like ifyou're down, like I'm down to grab
another drink or something, and thatwas it. Got you? Okay,
(03:12):
So let's do this because I'm kindof curious too. We'll call Andrew,
We'll try to get him on theline and see what his side is okay,
yes, I would love that onesecond. It sounds like pretty spot
on and yeah, curious to gethis thoughts. Me too, no worries.
(03:39):
Yeah, hello Andrew, Hey lookingfor Andrew please? Yeah, Heyrew,
my first day Andrew. Real quickly, my name is intern John.
Can I talk to you on theair real quick about something nothing bad,
just real quick. Sauces here aswell, roses here too, Yes,
(04:00):
sure, nothing bad. We're doinga second date. Update. I has
someone the other line, Hailey,if you want to say hello, Hi.
Andrew nailed that, and so Haleyreached out to us Andrew. She
told us the guys mash on Hingea couple of weeks ago, had coffee,
date, had dinner, but shehasn't heard from you since the dinner
date. We're trying to figure outwhere your head's at and see your thoughts
(04:23):
as to why we haven't followed upfor another date. Yeah that was well.
Yeah, I hadn't expected to hearfrom her. Yeah, I reached
out, So that's why we're wonderingwhy you haven't fallen through what's going on?
Well, I mean, okay,if you if you really want to
know, Yes, yeah, wewent out you know, it was a
(04:47):
it was a good dinner. Thedinner was good. But while we were
there, you know, she wewere sitting down getting started with the dinner,
and she asked me, you know, she was looking at our and
she said, hey, what doyou what do you think about our waitress?
Do you think she's attractive? AndI found that was a little bit
like I'll put you know, Andof course, of course you don't want
(05:09):
to, you know, you don'twant to make someone feel like they're yeah,
they're not like no, no,no, I'm absolutely not. I
didn't think anything of it. Andthen a few minutes later, she's looking,
you know, looking around the restaurantand she she sees a woman at
the next table over and she's like, well, what about her? Do
you think she's attractive? And youknow, and that's but no, no,
(05:30):
no, and then uh, youknow, and then and then it's
another lady in the restaurant and gettingit. Yeah, it's starting to it's
starting to get a little weird.And you know, I'm just playing it
off like oh no, no no, And you know, first it seems
like it's a cute game, andthen it's like, well, maybe she's
doing a bit and then it andthen it kind of gets weird, you
(05:53):
know, and then it's like,oh, well, what about celebrities?
Do you think? What do youthink about this? So? Okay,
yeah, and I feel like she'strying to okay, give me Hayley.
Is that is that accurate? Okay? I feel like this is unfair because
the way that started is that Isaid I thought our waiters, like our
(06:14):
waitress looked like Anne Hathaway. Okay, I think it's gorgeous. And he
was like, oh yeah, likeI kind of see that. Did you?
Did you continue going around the roomand like finding people the test?
Yes, but I was talking aboutlike what's your like, what's your celebrity
crush type? Like me included likeme being like, oh my god,
like celebrities. You have to hangout with one celebrity. Okay, let
(06:34):
me just I'm gonna put you guysin hold. Are you a team Andrew
or team Hayley? Eight seven sevenfour six state one to call me nine
nine three three eight to text Itis second date update on Intern John your
Morning Show. Second date update onintern John and your Morning Show. We
just talked to Haley and Andrew.I love your thoughts nine nine, three
(06:56):
three eight to a text DM's openas well at WYUS Radio. Well,
like get you at hold Shelby sauceyour thoughts. I think that's a little
odd that she was doing that,because if somebody was doing that to me,
even if it was a second date, I would feel so uncomfortable because
I don't want to keep comparing otherpeople just in general to each other even
and be like oh, like likeI don't know. I feel like she's
(07:17):
like trying to grade what he thinksis hot or not, or like get
an idea, and I just thinkit's not my thing. Well, I
don't love that. Can I offerto I think when you don't know somebody,
it'd be I think if you goto the celebrity route, maybe that's
a better way. Yeah, hesaw and halfway on TV and go wow,
she's really pretty. Yeah. Butlike if we're on a second date
(07:39):
and you're asking me as somebody astranger who is basically I know maybe a
little bit less than I know youif they're attractive, yeah, I feel
awkward. I just think it's alittle odd. It's definitely not for me.
Yeah, I don't like it.And as a dude. I think
every dude's been asked like don't youthink this person's pretty? And the answers
always no, yeah, no,not at all. And it's also not
very nice to like say somebody's likehot or not, especially like when they're
(08:01):
right there. Yeah, and thento keep going around the room and trying
to find more people. Yeah,I like that. I feel very uncomfy.
Yeah me, you hate that.I like to feel comfy. You
love feeling comfy. Yeah, Idon't know. I uh, johnas right
now, Okay, I say it'sone thing like to do in a playful
way. Even like when I havean ex, girlfriends have asked we've been
(08:22):
like years in the dating. Yeah, I've never felt excited to have that
conversation. It's just always odd tobe like what do you think about her?
Do you find her attractive? Isshe pretty? And it's just like
a weird question. Yeah, Iknow, because then it's like if somebody's
like obviously attractive, you say,now, then you know the person's lying,
yeah, like what do you want? Right? Yeah? What what
do you want the end goal tobe? So? I know, let
(08:45):
me go in Kensington, Alison,good morning, Hi, you heard second
Date up date. What do youwant to say? Girl? Yeah,
okay, she's doing way too much. Like every once in a while,
I asked my boyfriend if, likeyou thinks social liberty is hot, but
like to be asking about people inreal life and like all the time,
that's just way too weird. That'slike over here, I wouldn't do that.
(09:07):
I think that's inappropriate. Yeah,I think that's a good point,
the celebrity aspect of it, becausethat's like unattainable. Yeah, and like
how long and your boyfriend been togetherfor Alison? About two years? Okay?
Yeah, so that you guys arealso in a place to where like
he knows you won't be angry,Yeah, responds away. If I was
on a third date and you're askingme about random people in the bar,
(09:31):
I would be terrified. I'd belike, am I being set up right
now? Like? Yeah, whatis this the stake? First? And
then all for one hundred, Ali, thank you for listening. To have
a great day. Yeah, thingstoo. In Leesburg, Gina, Good
morning, good morning. You heardsecond date update. What'd you want to
say? Girl? So, like, I was on this date with this
(09:54):
guy and you know he I decidedto ask him you know, like whether
he thought that some girls were hot, you know, just like you know
le'suff, that girl's Joe, youknow, like we wad them from one
to ten? Got you? Soyou give her the same spot? Then?
Yeah, did it work out inyour favorite Do you have a second
date or no? No? Okay, yeah we did not. Okay,
(10:16):
so looking back, maybe it wasn'tthe best move. No, it's not
the best move. I kind ofset myself up to fail on sounds like
it. At least we learned though, you know, yeah, you know,
but I mean I kind of wantedto know if she was a ten,
if he thought he was at tentoday comparison. I want to see
where I fell. I got you. Okay, thank you for listening,
Have a great day. Thank you. Would love to hear your thoughts over
(10:41):
text nine nine three three eight ifyou ever want to do a second date
update very simple. DMS always openat YMS Radio. Give us a your
info, give us their info.Intern John in your morning shows. True
I Heart Radio.
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