February 4, 2022 • 33 mins
We get philosophical... kinda. Do you think you'll ever go back to school?? We witnessed a first date last night...was it too much?! Could Anthony date in today's world?
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Welcome to the frozen Tundra that is the Carla Marine
Anthony My Day Friday Slash Twitch Show Studio. Listen. Being
a homeowner they tell you, they do tell you. It's
not one of those the things they don't tell you
about being a homeowner. They tell you all the things
you're gonna have to deal with. And two years into
the process, I finally have something broken, which is a
(00:22):
heater just in this room. And the way that Carl
Marie is heat works is like there's no central heating. No,
it's like each they're not radiators or radiators. However, people saying, um,
it's all electric, so each room kind of like has
its own little contraption. Um. Some of them are wall heaters,
some of them are m M. What is that called
(00:44):
like a event? I don't know either way. We gotta
get a heater fixed. I gotta go the whole wall
heater to FedEx and mail it out. As we record
this podcast, Carlamury is wearing a robe. Where'd you get
that robe? That's like a promotional robe of some sort
right below deck. It's embroidered with your name on it.
It's so warm, and that's what Carla Marie is she's
(01:06):
basically been using it like a snuggy. It's freezing in
this house. So as we kick off the mo Day
Friday podcast, just wanted to let you know kind of
what we are experiencing and if it's called by you,
if you're in the Cleveland area, maybe I know it's
been pretty chilly there. We slightly feel your pain in
a much more comfortable way. Hey, this is Kay. Hello, guys,
(01:27):
this is Niko Vince right here. Hi, this is c
I'm Lily Allen. Hey, it's Charlie. Y. I'm Igalia, and
you're listening to Carlin, Marie and Anthony. It's My Day Friday.
It's My Day Friday. It's My Day Friday, Friday Friday.
It's my Day fridayches, Roll up, Roll up, Welcome for
the Friday Podcast. I feel like I've said that three
(01:49):
times Noways February four, two thousand and two, that made
six years ago tomorrow would have been that last Monday
Friday that we recorded as people working for alb Us
in the morning show UM in that studio and we
set out on our cross country road trip to move
(02:10):
to Seattle. Six years ago tomorrow. It's kind of crazy.
It's been. It's been an interesting journey, to say the least.
And it was you know what's interesting. And we are
going to talk about the drinks that we had yesterday
at the Space Needle Um because it was one of
the cooler experiences we've been able to partake in here
in Seattle. But one of the things we were talking
(02:31):
about when we realized how long we have been in
the city of Seattle was, you know, we both grew
up in New Jersey. Right, That's that's our home, that's
where our families are, That's where we were born. But
we we grew up or matured differently in Seattle and
a different part of our lives. Like we were raised
(02:52):
in Jersey, But do we grow up here? Like no,
I right, I grew up in Jersey, but like grow
up in the sense of like whatever you do your twenties,
I would say. But like Anthony points out, like we
matured here and then we kind of just like have
a better I guess, better sense of self, you know,
than we did in our twenties, which is when we
lived in Jersey. I mean, you are a homeowner, and
(03:14):
I think we are the approximate size and age of adults.
I don't know if we are adults. I'm not the
size of an adult. That's true, you are kids sized.
But I think maybe we've we started our transition to
adulthood in I hope, but never saw transitions fully. I
don't know if you ever do. I think that's one
of those things like I used to tell um even
(03:35):
in my twenties, I would say this to our interns
that we had at Elvist right in the morning show, like,
oh my god, once I graduate, I've got to become
adults and say, no, you have to understand the whole
adult thing. It's all fake. No one knows what they're doing.
Everyone's pretending. It's something that like society makes you chase forever,
but you never get there. There was a meme I
(03:57):
saw recently that was like your child is spent wishing
you were an adult, and your adulthood has spent wishing
you were a child. Something like that. I'm sure it
was said in a much more profound way. I just
and I just stated it. But this does mark and
you're probably if you're not listening to it. On Friday,
we have now crossed the six year threshold from leaving
(04:21):
New Jersey, Well tomorrow. Yeah, but I'm saying if you're
if you're not listening to this podcast today Friday, Friday,
we have crossed that threshold while you're listening. It's just crazy.
Six years is an insane amount of time it is
to do anything. We could have got our masters, damn it.
It went all the way back to school, which I
don't want to do, and gotten our masters, which I
also don't want to do. Well, it depends what it
(04:43):
is in. What would you get your masters in environmental science?
Not worth it? Yeah, I'd be too depressed. Actually, well,
there's that. And I'm not saying if if that's your
path right now, I'm just saying that ship I don't know,
because I know why you want to do it. You
want to be a park ranger. You don't make enough
money as a park ranger to warrants getting a master's degree.
(05:06):
It's one of those weird conundries. Should once you graduate college,
there should be a certain like list of degrees are
aerating not degrees um majors for any college in America? Right,
so I did four years, I should be able to
go get my environmental science degree in two years wherever
I want you know what I mean, like, I don't
(05:28):
have to do all the bs like. But it's not
always like that because some schools won't let you do that.
You know most of your electives and stuff. You can
knock those out right with you show them your transcripts.
You say, oh, I took you know algebra too. I
don't think it works like that. Again, I'm not going
back to school. I think I will. You don't think
you'll ever go back? No. I think anything I need
to learn I can learn from the internet. I know
(05:49):
that sounds scary, right because people are learning probably wrong
information from the internet. But I think that anything I
need to do right with the equipment that I would
need to use in the future, endeavor or programs or whatever.
But I can learn online. No, okay, yes, of course.
But you don't think you like intellectually. I'm not talking
(06:12):
about using pro tools or Adobe addition, I'm talking about
a different passion or something else. Like you don't think intellectually, Anthony,
that you would want to know more and be more.
I don't know if I can get more intellectual than
I currently answer it. No, I don't. I would not
(06:32):
go back to school, and you should again, I think
that anything that I need to learn at this point,
I can learn from a book or the internet, or
or a course or a lecture series. I think there
are a podcast. There are a lot of different avenues
to get to attain knowledge today. I think that is
a fair argument, but I don't know that it is
(06:54):
a correct argument. Why I'm gonna be a philosophy major. Yeah,
good luck. I hated I love philosophy until they were like,
read this book and I was like it's too long, goodbye. Yeah.
I did pretty well in philosophy, but seton Hall because
it's a Catholic school. Are they even allowed to talk
about it? Um? We had the option because like your prerequisites,
(07:18):
there needed to be a total of four courses or
twelve credits. You had to take at least one religion
class and at least one philosophy class. Are you following?
So each of those classes would be three credits. As
long as you took one of each, the other two
didn't matter. So you could take three religion classes and
(07:39):
one philosophy. You could split it. What I did three
religion and one philosophy and I crushed the religion classes.
M So would you do? Went religion classes did you take?
There was so everyone I believe at Seton Hall had
to take UM. It was like introduction to the Catechism
of the Catholic Church. And that's really like specifically the
(08:01):
Catholic churches feel like after how many years of c
c D, I should do well in that class, but
you have to have not Catholic. Yeah, c c D
wasn't a thing. Sunday School for us was very different
being Serrian Orthodox and it was I'm sure for Catholics UM.
And at the end of the day like, yeah, it's
all about Jesus, the Holy Spirit, God, all that stuff like,
(08:23):
so there's similarities. Obviously, it's not a completely different. Hated
having to go to So we had I did h
Catechism of the Catholic Church. That was a weird class,
mainly because the professor that we had. When I remember
the only thing I really remember from it, we had
(08:43):
this little book called the Catechism of the Catholic Church,
which was super boring. UM. Much like any guide book
is bad. Books are boring, whether it's religion, whether it's
a learning how to work on your car, it's an
instructional book, right, But I remember our professor was talking
about how she didn't let her daughter watched a Little
Mermaid because it was all about how a daughter didn't
(09:05):
have to listen to her father, and there was some
sort of like religious context your daughter should not like
watch a Little mermaids oh, and then part of it
also she makes a deal with the devils. Okay, but
that's not a fucking octopus. But in in my catechism
of the Catholic Church's professor's mind, she represented a deal
(09:28):
with the devil, which I understand that this lady see
what the part she's missing because the Catholic Church is
probably like, we don't care about this part, do it?
Is she gave up everything for a man that no,
it wasn't for love. She's an idiot, she barely no.
And this is where I understand that part of the
Lower Mermaid. I think what we are missing though in
(09:53):
that condensed synopsis of The Little Mermaid is Prince Eric.
I don't believe Prince Eric was her the goal. She
was trying to attain it out. She wanted out. Prince
Eric was her ticket. So she was so so Ariel's
bet she used. I think I think Ariel is a
lot smarter than we've given her credit for. She saw
(10:16):
an opportunity. She's a hair bush, what are you talking about?
She had gismos and gadgets galore. Um. I think she
saw Prince Eric as her ticket, and it was like,
if that's what I need to do to get out
of this place and go where the people are, where
she can see him dancing, walking around on those what
do you call him? She wanted to go up where
(10:38):
they walking, up where they run. She wanted to play
all day in the sun. Um. Prince Eric was her
ticket there, and who knows, there's no her maid too.
Maybe she dumped his assistic If they did that, they
didn't like. What was the name of the really rich guy?
That a Nicole uh Smith is her name? Yeah, I
(11:01):
thought we were telling Disney. So I was very good
the super rich guy and she's no no, But that
was that. Prince Eric was her rich old guy. He
just was younger a prince and had legs. Okay um okay,
So a little mermaid for anybody in the class. The
only thing I really remember from that class. Then I
(11:22):
took Introduction to the Bible, which was a phenomenal class.
Bet that's actually interesting and then the same professor I
had for UM and I love actually mad at myself
for not remembering this professor's name because I loved I've had.
It's okay, that doesn't mean you don't love them. And
then I had UM a World Religion class, which was
(11:43):
the first of those three religion classes I took that
didn't involve just learning about UM Christianity. That was the professor.
You loved Both of those classes, yea, the last two.
And then I my junior year or senior year I
had that's when I had to take philosophy. I took
philosophy freshman year, and there's no you know, no freshman
(12:03):
should be taken that because the words are too big.
At that point, I disagree. I think every freshman ship,
I think I would like it way more now you
know I actually took I'm glad you said that, Carl Murray.
The last time I was in New Jersey, UM, I
was going through a bunch of stuff in my parents
attic and I found this, like random. It's a small book,
but it's some sort of like philosophical questions. You can
(12:24):
ask yourself. It's downstairs right now, So if you wanted
to get into philosophy, brought one of those books into
this house. Yeah, um, I just remember Socrates And what's
the complex when like, you like your parents? The weird
one complex? Yeah, because the story of Oedipus was he
(12:48):
was a not abandoned um basically sent away as a baby.
Then he comes back, kills his dad even though he
doesn't know it's his dad because he wants to take
the throne, and then sleeps with this even though at
the time he doesn't know that it's his mom. So
then why so then if he didn't know what he
was doing, why would we call it Oedipus complex when
a kid actually likes their parents, because it's still what
(13:11):
he did. Okay, there's the other one. He still did
the things. The other one, the weird one. There's another
one that's similar where it's like, you don't want your
kid to have that, And it's a philosophical thing thinking, Marie,
is that we don't want our kids to be thinking
Marie's I don't know what. I don't know what you're
(13:34):
trying to say. There's another one. They're like, oh no,
the one about you always think about Peterson. Peter said
of me Alleck Phallick, What are you saying. There are
philosophy majors right now that are reporting this podcast. Um, No,
(13:58):
it's on the tip of my dad have I don't
know how to do. That's the problem my philosophy about dicks.
It's something about I don't know. You're looking at me
to like fill in the blank here, which normally is
it's something we do pretty well, but it's it's when you.
(14:23):
Sam always says it to me. What Sam from Elvis
the show? Also, while Carlin is looking at up, Sam
does have a brand new podcast he's doing with her fiance,
which is a weird word to say. There slip that
doesn't just have to do with penises, I know, but
(14:45):
I could. That's how I got to him. A Freudian slip. Okay,
do you know the Freudian slip is it's when you
say something you're like, oh, I didn't mean that, but
your back of your mind didn't mean that kind of
that's basically subconscious all of that for Freudian slip. Um.
But after you're done listening to this podcast, or if
(15:06):
you've just decided this moment, you're done forever. Because of
that experience, Sam does have a podcast with her fiance
Bill William William and it's all about them going through
the processed fam getting married. Sorry I didn't want you
you didn't say the name. Well that's next BAM Wedding podcast.
(15:26):
Why because BAM is Bill and Sam exactly, So that's
why I said. Bill originally otherwise be called the Wham
Said Wedding podcast, and I would actually like that better.
Wham wedding What idiots I'm calling it? Why I'm wedding?
Does wham saying wake me up before you go go?
That is wham, right, And that's George Michael using wham.
(15:47):
He follows me on Twitter, George Michael, he follows a
lot of people. Although and this is I do hope
to get to this point in life. Um, and no
offense to all the people who I've I've had great
conversations with on social media. I do hope to get
to a point in life where I don't need to
open social media anymore. And I feel like George Michael
does not do his own social media. I think he
(16:08):
does know there's an agency that knows his stuff. Just
like we all got followed by Hilary Duff that one day,
like she was out there just following everybody all willy
nilly um. I want someone like that. I want someone
who's like, oh, you know what, I'm gonna follow all
the right accounts for you. I'm gonna post, I'll use
all the hashtags. I think. I'll do all the things,
and then I could log in whenever I feel like
(16:30):
it and like be on the app and go on
rent and and then that's it, and then they'll have
to clean up my mess once. I like annoy people
on Twitter. Uh wait, George Michael, Oh wait, maybe he doesn't.
I don't follow him. Oh my god, how dare you?
What are you looking up right now George Michael's Twitter
to see. I don't think that's who I'm thinking about.
(16:53):
I think, yeah, he follows I have my mother. Boy
George follows me. Listen, they're both Georges. I get it.
It makes sense. Boy George follows you. Now, boy George
was Culture Club Curry. Yes, maybe I don't. I'm not
(17:15):
answering anything. It works on him. Actually, do you just
has to say it? His profile no like known from
you know, a good drag queen when you see one.
That's what his profile says. I mean, he's not wrong,
you do know, although if you're a phenomenal drag queen,
are you supposed to know? Like, if you're a good
(17:37):
enough drag queen, should I be confused that too are
a drag queen. That's a question for all the drag
queens out there. Boy, George is sixty years old. Culture Club, Okay,
that's what I thought. Did you ever go? This is
a very rang to the Culture Club in New York City.
I don't know what that is. It was like an
eighties inspired lounge. They had um when I by the
(17:59):
time I went, which I think Culture Club was kind
of on It's like Downturn. I don't know if it
exists inspired lounge now. It was. It was a huge
place for like, uh, bachelorette parties. I don't know if
I don't think it was considered a gay bar, but
I know the gay community also went there a lot. Um.
(18:19):
It was an eighties inspired bar, so like everything from
the decor, the drinks, like everything. It was a theme
bar essentially. And then upstairs they had a place I
want to say it was called Nirvana, and that was
a nineties inspired to see it and the one thing
that I remember because I went. I was way too
young to be going to bars at the time, but
I went there with a bunch of my older cousins.
(18:41):
Well upstairs to Nirvana, and one of like the v
I P tables you could get was built into like
an old white Bronco, like the car that OJ took
on his slow speed chase. So those things like that.
So this is like the selfie Museum, but a bar. Yeah,
before like Instagram is a thing. Yeah, the Culture Globe
(19:01):
was a good time. I mean it was especially I
want to say I went at like seventeen or eighteen
years old. Here's why that wouldn't work today, because it
would turn into an Instagram thing and everyone would be
taking pictures and it would be very gimmicky. I think
it was gimmicky. But the whole thing was a gimmick.
But it's not because you're enjoying it when you're there
to take photos. It's like people wouldn't be there to
(19:24):
enjoy what it is. People wouldn't actually like jump into
the experience and have fun. They would just be there
to take pictures. Maybe maybe it was a fun bar though,
and mainly because I love late eighties and early nineties
dance music. So like you, that's just my spot. Okay,
you should make a playlist and share it with the class.
(19:45):
I got a lot of playlists I gotta make. People
were asking for my dance solid I get on playlist.
People were asking I still there's like two thousand people
that follow my pop punk playlist. Now it's yeah, Well,
because we're all getting ready for when we were young
the other thing, and we've gone way longer than I
expected to before we got into this subject. But when
we were having drinks yesterday at the Space Needle, which
(20:07):
if you're in the Seattle area, especially for Valentine's Day, Um,
it's a great experience if you can reserve it, but
you've got to like book ahead because it's limited seating
and if you're visiting Seattle, do it. It's the Loop
Lounge is what it's called at the Space Needle. So
there was what we hypothesized as a first or second date,
(20:28):
an early date that was a couple of tables away
from us. Like, first of all, I think people on
first and beginning dates talk louder than people who are
I can see. I think you're kind of posturizing a
little bit. You're like showing that you're exciting. You don't
want to be like your lay mass self, so maybe
you turn the decibel up a little bit. Right off
(20:51):
the bat, this guy was saying, Oh, you've been dancing
through my head and I was like, uh, and for
that reason I have out. But what Carl Mury was saying,
before we get into the other things we've heard, you
thought for an early date, which is what we think
this was that the Space Needle and the Loop Lounge
specifically was a little overboard and almost like love bombing
(21:13):
based on Anthony standards. Yeah, because Anthony has said so
many times first dates it should just be like something
quick out a bar, drink or whatever. It shouldn't be
anything fancy. Even dinner for a first day is a
bit much, is what Anthony has said. Now, all of
a sudden, we're at this romantic a million feet in
the air looking out into Seattle. It's so romantic. Anthony's like, oh,
it's bad. It was like the Loop Lounge, which is
(21:35):
on the rotating level of the Space Needle, It's like
fifty five stories up something like that. And if this
was a fancy sit down dinner with like lobster and craziness,
and whatnot. I would say, you're right, Carl. The Loop Lounge, however,
(21:56):
and it sounds like we're doing an ad. They're not
paying us for any of this. The way that it's
set up, you buy like a drink package, so you
could do like a wine package or like a fancy
night frozen nitrogen drink package. And I think it's actually
a perfect day spot because the drinks are so unique.
There's like a spectacle to the drinks, especially if you
(22:17):
do the liquid nitrogen one, because there's like smoke and
talk and I do I think it's like they're great
talking points. You're trying drinks that are done a little differently,
so even if you're it gives you something to talk about, like, oh,
I've never had a margarita prepared this way and you
start talking about it that way. I actually think it's
a phenomenal early date place. And you get the fact
(22:42):
that it's on a rotating like floor and the uh
novelty of the space needle itself. And then where do
you go after that? Just to a regular bar where
nothing is moving and you don't flowing oxide or whatever
it is. If it goes well, you go home that
night and you steal the deal. Otherwise I don't know.
I think you can then I actually take that back.
(23:05):
I don't know where you go next to Carlibraine for
your second day, for the second or the day after
the loop lunge, because you're trying different types of drinks. Right,
Let's say you and your date love the margarita had.
Now one of you says, oh, I know a great
margarita bar. If we both like margarita's, or if we
both like paper planes, or we're both like negrons, you
then you take like your next step is a place
(23:28):
that specializes in those. Based on our date, we both
did love the margarita. Yes, were you taking me on
our next date? Oh? I'm busy that day? Um, I
don't know Chili's. Like this is why our relationship works
because if you had to fully like do a real
(23:48):
relationship in today's not not this isn't real, like with
a stranger and take them on date after date, and
you wouldn't do it like you you you would give
up because you're like, oh, I forgot to plan alright,
fell asleep and I took a nap and I didn't
text you back to go on this date. And I
just spent six hours at the gym and all I
can't come because I have to boil sixty five eggs. Sorry, Like, okay,
(24:10):
some of that is true. Some of that is true.
Like I did oftentimes I would fall asleep or whatever
and not text a girl back, and they'd be like,
are you dead? No, I just want to sleep. I
do spend a lot of time at the gym, which
anyone I've dated has understood thankfully. Um Like, think about
my college girlfriend I had. I did a throwing workout
for javelin. I did a running workout and a weight
(24:31):
training workout almost every single day for for my sophomore
and junior years of of college, which is when I
was dating her, and she like just didn't see me,
which is probably better off for her. Yeah. No, I'm
just saying I don't think you could. I disagree only
on one principle. I agree with you on some of
(24:52):
those points, Karl, but I disagree with I think I
would be able to plan some cool fun day. Now.
The difference. The difference no, that and this is all
all joking aside. The difference with how our relationship has
gone is work has allowed us to do a lot
(25:14):
of crazy things. So it's some of the things that
we probably would have done as a date we just
got to do anyway. So I don't know. I don't
know if that's a good thing or a bad thing.
It's just the thing. I can't see you Anthony being like, oh,
(25:35):
I made us reservations somewhere. I'm not really a reservation person,
but I've done it from time to time. I don't think.
I like places where you have to make it. I
like walking in I like flying by the seat of
my pants because you don't plan. Yeah, okay, but I
(25:56):
will say, listen, I'm all for like being what's the word,
not serendipitous word where you just thank you all for
being spontaneous. But at some point you need to have
somewhere like someone's like I planned this for you, right,
there's something where, at some point in your relationship, both
of you at separate moments like I planned this for us. Yeah,
(26:21):
I guess I'll do that one day. I don't know
a fair point, I guess um, but I think I could,
Like I have in the past planned fun things and
had fun experiences for like first date, second dates, whatever
with with with women mainly and The only reason I
(26:43):
know that is because I think I've only had one ever,
like first date that didn't end up as something else.
But we talked about that woman recently. She ends up
engaged like six months later, so I don't think I
was really her person to begin with. I don't remember
we talked about this recently, like within the last couple
(27:03):
of podcasts. I believe maybe it was Twitch shows. There's
a lot we talked about that I forget, um, But
there was a woman who I met actually a happy
birthday to Scary Jones, because I was I met Scary
at like some random weekday party in Brooklyn. Okay, I
remember we did talk about this and she lived in Poughkeepsie.
Is this refreshing? Remembery out? Um? We went out to
(27:26):
a place that had like sushi on the little conveyor Yeah, yeah,
the conveyor belt sushi place. Now I've been there plenty
of times before lunch, but she thought she was impressed.
It's a good meal. And then that was it. And
then she disappeared and she was engaged six months later.
(27:46):
Do you think she goes the conveyor belts she places
and thinks of you every time? I hope not because
I'm pretty sure she's married. She's just that doesn't mean
you can't think of people. I'm not saying ever broke
my heart. No, she didn't. Not say she fantasizes about you.
She should also fantasize. You mean you don't like think
of like, oh, that reminds me of someone that I
(28:06):
was with. You don't have that, I guess I do. Yeah, yeah,
I guess that makes sense. What what is it? What it?
What it makes you them kidding? I don't know. I
can't think of anything right now. I do think there's
actually one specific scenario, and it was a girl who
I was like, we were definitely flirting, we were friends first,
(28:30):
we were definitely floating, and then there were a couple
of moments where I thought like one of us would
make the move right. And one of those moments was
during the summer, she came over to watch Game of Thrones,
and I'll never forget this, Like we were both big
Game of Thrones fans watching the show and the show
(28:51):
ended with like a pretty messed up scene, not something
that really gets the flirty juices going. That's a weird sentence,
And I remember, like the scene just ends in its
disturbing fashion, and we just kind of like looked at
each other and I was like, all right, I guess
I'll I'll drive you home now. And I just drove
(29:14):
her home. But what do you do with reminding you
of so Game of Thrones specifically, like a couple of
characters in the show will remind me of that moment,
which then reminds me of of her and she's still
a friend. Like there's nothing. It's not a bad thing.
But yeah, that that ruined it. That's funny because it
was like, uh, ancestual aggressive sex scene that I did
(29:39):
not like, no one did, so I gotta ruined it all.
That's not really like it would actually be more messed up.
I think if you did hook up after that, absolutely,
and then we we joked about that later on. I'm
happy about that for you guys. But back to the
loop lounge, I still don't think. I still don't think.
(30:02):
I disagree with Carl and Marie and and that it
was too much or over the top for a first date.
Now over the top, but I think I think a
second date. I think a first date, like I feel
like a first date spot should be somewhere where you
could take all of your first dates to still take
all of your first dates there. But the other thing
(30:23):
that he said later on, which then I was like, Okay,
maybe this guy is crazy. There were two things was
and he said it very loud. It's not like we
were eaves dropping. He was dropping. He said, yeah, we
should definitely go to Amsterdam together, and I know we're
is that when we both cracked the bluffing them. There
(30:43):
was something else I said. He said we should definitely
go to Amsterdam together, and we were both we both
looked at each other because he said it's so loud
that it like cut through our conversation, okay, and we
both like, okay, that's absurd. However, I feel like I
have said crazier things too, like the like did he
actually mean? I don't know, like I bet people, and
I'm like, oh my god, we should totally like there
(31:05):
were some follow up things that he said or I
was like, he's really trying to get this girl to
fly to Amsterdam with him. Sounds fun, or maybe he's
paying you know. When they left, Anthony was like, yeah,
they're definitely av exact tonight, I said, I hope they do.
Whatever I said, I had a couple of drinks. I
could have said anything, but the drinks wore fantasmic. Um.
(31:28):
There's like every drink that they bring you don't choose.
They just okay, it's like a flight though. It's like
a there's a flight. Yeah, but you can also choose drinks.
It depends on the one week night you got and
we got whatever the liquid nitrogen package inspired drinks and
they throw it on the floor. It is pretty cool. Um.
(31:51):
What there is one other thing, Oh, Discord is the
last thing I wanted to say. So if you are
familiar with discord, which is a message being community building
like social platform or app, app and desktop, we will
have the link in the description of this podcast to
join our specific Discord server. If you have no idea
(32:11):
what that means, but you'd like some information, you can
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Hello at Carla Marine and Anthony dot com. And the
reason I'm saying that twice is we are that's the
only email that we're checking on a semi consistent basis now,
So anything else we may have said on this podcast
in the past, I don't use those anymore, and I
(32:34):
wish it was a way to like delete just that podcast.
The link is in the description. Um it's free, yeah,
click it, sign up and it's just a bunch of
people chat and we've got over a hundred people in
there in our little Carla Marie Anthony Show community now,
and you can adjust notifications so you don't get alerted
all the time. You can have it set we're like
only when someone acts you like it's at or Anthony
(32:57):
or whatever. If you use Slack for work, it's based
Slack for nerds, So definitely check that out if you're interested.
The link is in the description of this podcast, and
you can always email us honestly, yeah at Hello at
Carla Marne Anthony dot com. Hello at Carla Brine Anthony
dot com. If you've got advice, you need something you
want to talk about, something you think we might like
talking about on the show or on Twitch, you can
(33:17):
definitely do that. And the last thing we're gonna leave
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The second is a link to our newsletter very important.
Both of those are unbelievably important, and Carlamrae just bounced
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the place there you go, all right, Well, thank you
so much. You spent about half an hour hanging out
with us UM and we appreciate you letting us into
your ear holes. You look great. St
Welcome to the frozen Tundra that is the Carla Marine
Anthony My Day Friday Slash Twitch Show Studio. Listen. Being
a homeowner they tell you, they do tell you. It's
not one of those the things they don't tell you
about being a homeowner. They tell you all the things
you're gonna have to deal with. And two years into
the process, I finally have something broken, which is a
(00:22):
heater just in this room. And the way that Carl
Marie is heat works is like there's no central heating. No,
it's like each they're not radiators or radiators. However, people saying, um,
it's all electric, so each room kind of like has
its own little contraption. Um. Some of them are wall heaters,
some of them are m M. What is that called
(00:44):
like a event? I don't know either way. We gotta
get a heater fixed. I gotta go the whole wall
heater to FedEx and mail it out. As we record
this podcast, Carlamury is wearing a robe. Where'd you get
that robe? That's like a promotional robe of some sort
right below deck. It's embroidered with your name on it.
It's so warm, and that's what Carla Marie is she's
(01:06):
basically been using it like a snuggy. It's freezing in
this house. So as we kick off the mo Day
Friday podcast, just wanted to let you know kind of
what we are experiencing and if it's called by you,
if you're in the Cleveland area, maybe I know it's
been pretty chilly there. We slightly feel your pain in
a much more comfortable way. Hey, this is Kay. Hello, guys,
(01:27):
this is Niko Vince right here. Hi, this is c
I'm Lily Allen. Hey, it's Charlie. Y. I'm Igalia, and
you're listening to Carlin, Marie and Anthony. It's My Day Friday.
It's My Day Friday. It's My Day Friday, Friday Friday.
It's my Day fridayches, Roll up, Roll up, Welcome for
the Friday Podcast. I feel like I've said that three
(01:49):
times Noways February four, two thousand and two, that made
six years ago tomorrow would have been that last Monday
Friday that we recorded as people working for alb Us
in the morning show UM in that studio and we
set out on our cross country road trip to move
(02:10):
to Seattle. Six years ago tomorrow. It's kind of crazy.
It's been. It's been an interesting journey, to say the least.
And it was you know what's interesting. And we are
going to talk about the drinks that we had yesterday
at the Space Needle Um because it was one of
the cooler experiences we've been able to partake in here
in Seattle. But one of the things we were talking
(02:31):
about when we realized how long we have been in
the city of Seattle was, you know, we both grew
up in New Jersey. Right, That's that's our home, that's
where our families are, That's where we were born. But
we we grew up or matured differently in Seattle and
a different part of our lives. Like we were raised
(02:52):
in Jersey, But do we grow up here? Like no,
I right, I grew up in Jersey, but like grow
up in the sense of like whatever you do your twenties,
I would say. But like Anthony points out, like we
matured here and then we kind of just like have
a better I guess, better sense of self, you know,
than we did in our twenties, which is when we
lived in Jersey. I mean, you are a homeowner, and
(03:14):
I think we are the approximate size and age of adults.
I don't know if we are adults. I'm not the
size of an adult. That's true, you are kids sized.
But I think maybe we've we started our transition to
adulthood in I hope, but never saw transitions fully. I
don't know if you ever do. I think that's one
of those things like I used to tell um even
(03:35):
in my twenties, I would say this to our interns
that we had at Elvist right in the morning show, like,
oh my god, once I graduate, I've got to become
adults and say, no, you have to understand the whole
adult thing. It's all fake. No one knows what they're doing.
Everyone's pretending. It's something that like society makes you chase forever,
but you never get there. There was a meme I
(03:57):
saw recently that was like your child is spent wishing
you were an adult, and your adulthood has spent wishing
you were a child. Something like that. I'm sure it
was said in a much more profound way. I just
and I just stated it. But this does mark and
you're probably if you're not listening to it. On Friday,
we have now crossed the six year threshold from leaving
(04:21):
New Jersey, Well tomorrow. Yeah, but I'm saying if you're
if you're not listening to this podcast today Friday, Friday,
we have crossed that threshold while you're listening. It's just crazy.
Six years is an insane amount of time it is
to do anything. We could have got our masters, damn it.
It went all the way back to school, which I
don't want to do, and gotten our masters, which I
also don't want to do. Well, it depends what it
(04:43):
is in. What would you get your masters in environmental science?
Not worth it? Yeah, I'd be too depressed. Actually, well,
there's that. And I'm not saying if if that's your
path right now, I'm just saying that ship I don't know,
because I know why you want to do it. You
want to be a park ranger. You don't make enough
money as a park ranger to warrants getting a master's degree.
(05:06):
It's one of those weird conundries. Should once you graduate college,
there should be a certain like list of degrees are
aerating not degrees um majors for any college in America? Right,
so I did four years, I should be able to
go get my environmental science degree in two years wherever
I want you know what I mean, like, I don't
(05:28):
have to do all the bs like. But it's not
always like that because some schools won't let you do that.
You know most of your electives and stuff. You can
knock those out right with you show them your transcripts.
You say, oh, I took you know algebra too. I
don't think it works like that. Again, I'm not going
back to school. I think I will. You don't think
you'll ever go back? No. I think anything I need
to learn I can learn from the internet. I know
(05:49):
that sounds scary, right because people are learning probably wrong
information from the internet. But I think that anything I
need to do right with the equipment that I would
need to use in the future, endeavor or programs or whatever.
But I can learn online. No, okay, yes, of course.
But you don't think you like intellectually. I'm not talking
(06:12):
about using pro tools or Adobe addition, I'm talking about
a different passion or something else. Like you don't think intellectually, Anthony,
that you would want to know more and be more.
I don't know if I can get more intellectual than
I currently answer it. No, I don't. I would not
(06:32):
go back to school, and you should again, I think
that anything that I need to learn at this point,
I can learn from a book or the internet, or
or a course or a lecture series. I think there
are a podcast. There are a lot of different avenues
to get to attain knowledge today. I think that is
a fair argument, but I don't know that it is
(06:54):
a correct argument. Why I'm gonna be a philosophy major. Yeah,
good luck. I hated I love philosophy until they were like,
read this book and I was like it's too long, goodbye. Yeah.
I did pretty well in philosophy, but seton Hall because
it's a Catholic school. Are they even allowed to talk
about it? Um? We had the option because like your prerequisites,
(07:18):
there needed to be a total of four courses or
twelve credits. You had to take at least one religion
class and at least one philosophy class. Are you following?
So each of those classes would be three credits. As
long as you took one of each, the other two
didn't matter. So you could take three religion classes and
(07:39):
one philosophy. You could split it. What I did three
religion and one philosophy and I crushed the religion classes.
M So would you do? Went religion classes did you take?
There was so everyone I believe at Seton Hall had
to take UM. It was like introduction to the Catechism
of the Catholic Church. And that's really like specifically the
(08:01):
Catholic churches feel like after how many years of c
c D, I should do well in that class, but
you have to have not Catholic. Yeah, c c D
wasn't a thing. Sunday School for us was very different
being Serrian Orthodox and it was I'm sure for Catholics UM.
And at the end of the day like, yeah, it's
all about Jesus, the Holy Spirit, God, all that stuff like,
(08:23):
so there's similarities. Obviously, it's not a completely different. Hated
having to go to So we had I did h
Catechism of the Catholic Church. That was a weird class,
mainly because the professor that we had. When I remember
the only thing I really remember from it, we had
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this little book called the Catechism of the Catholic Church,
which was super boring. UM. Much like any guide book
is bad. Books are boring, whether it's religion, whether it's
a learning how to work on your car, it's an
instructional book, right, But I remember our professor was talking
about how she didn't let her daughter watched a Little
Mermaid because it was all about how a daughter didn't
(09:05):
have to listen to her father, and there was some
sort of like religious context your daughter should not like
watch a Little mermaids oh, and then part of it
also she makes a deal with the devils. Okay, but
that's not a fucking octopus. But in in my catechism
of the Catholic Church's professor's mind, she represented a deal
(09:28):
with the devil, which I understand that this lady see
what the part she's missing because the Catholic Church is
probably like, we don't care about this part, do it?
Is she gave up everything for a man that no,
it wasn't for love. She's an idiot, she barely no.
And this is where I understand that part of the
Lower Mermaid. I think what we are missing though in
(09:53):
that condensed synopsis of The Little Mermaid is Prince Eric.
I don't believe Prince Eric was her the goal. She
was trying to attain it out. She wanted out. Prince
Eric was her ticket. So she was so so Ariel's
bet she used. I think I think Ariel is a
lot smarter than we've given her credit for. She saw
(10:16):
an opportunity. She's a hair bush, what are you talking about?
She had gismos and gadgets galore. Um. I think she
saw Prince Eric as her ticket, and it was like,
if that's what I need to do to get out
of this place and go where the people are, where
she can see him dancing, walking around on those what
do you call him? She wanted to go up where
(10:38):
they walking, up where they run. She wanted to play
all day in the sun. Um. Prince Eric was her
ticket there, and who knows, there's no her maid too.
Maybe she dumped his assistic If they did that, they
didn't like. What was the name of the really rich guy?
That a Nicole uh Smith is her name? Yeah, I
(11:01):
thought we were telling Disney. So I was very good
the super rich guy and she's no no, But that
was that. Prince Eric was her rich old guy. He
just was younger a prince and had legs. Okay um okay,
So a little mermaid for anybody in the class. The
only thing I really remember from that class. Then I
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took Introduction to the Bible, which was a phenomenal class.
Bet that's actually interesting and then the same professor I
had for UM and I love actually mad at myself
for not remembering this professor's name because I loved I've had.
It's okay, that doesn't mean you don't love them. And
then I had UM a World Religion class, which was
(11:43):
the first of those three religion classes I took that
didn't involve just learning about UM Christianity. That was the professor.
You loved Both of those classes, yea, the last two.
And then I my junior year or senior year I
had that's when I had to take philosophy. I took
philosophy freshman year, and there's no you know, no freshman
(12:03):
should be taken that because the words are too big.
At that point, I disagree. I think every freshman ship,
I think I would like it way more now you
know I actually took I'm glad you said that, Carl Murray.
The last time I was in New Jersey, UM, I
was going through a bunch of stuff in my parents
attic and I found this, like random. It's a small book,
but it's some sort of like philosophical questions. You can
(12:24):
ask yourself. It's downstairs right now, So if you wanted
to get into philosophy, brought one of those books into
this house. Yeah, um, I just remember Socrates And what's
the complex when like, you like your parents? The weird
one complex? Yeah, because the story of Oedipus was he
(12:48):
was a not abandoned um basically sent away as a baby.
Then he comes back, kills his dad even though he
doesn't know it's his dad because he wants to take
the throne, and then sleeps with this even though at
the time he doesn't know that it's his mom. So
then why so then if he didn't know what he
was doing, why would we call it Oedipus complex when
a kid actually likes their parents, because it's still what
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he did. Okay, there's the other one. He still did
the things. The other one, the weird one. There's another
one that's similar where it's like, you don't want your
kid to have that, And it's a philosophical thing thinking, Marie,
is that we don't want our kids to be thinking
Marie's I don't know what. I don't know what you're
(13:34):
trying to say. There's another one. They're like, oh no,
the one about you always think about Peterson. Peter said
of me Alleck Phallick, What are you saying. There are
philosophy majors right now that are reporting this podcast. Um, No,
(13:58):
it's on the tip of my dad have I don't
know how to do. That's the problem my philosophy about dicks.
It's something about I don't know. You're looking at me
to like fill in the blank here, which normally is
it's something we do pretty well, but it's it's when you.
(14:23):
Sam always says it to me. What Sam from Elvis
the show? Also, while Carlin is looking at up, Sam
does have a brand new podcast he's doing with her fiance,
which is a weird word to say. There slip that
doesn't just have to do with penises, I know, but
(14:45):
I could. That's how I got to him. A Freudian slip. Okay,
do you know the Freudian slip is it's when you
say something you're like, oh, I didn't mean that, but
your back of your mind didn't mean that kind of
that's basically subconscious all of that for Freudian slip. Um.
But after you're done listening to this podcast, or if
(15:06):
you've just decided this moment, you're done forever. Because of
that experience, Sam does have a podcast with her fiance
Bill William William and it's all about them going through
the processed fam getting married. Sorry I didn't want you
you didn't say the name. Well that's next BAM Wedding podcast.
(15:26):
Why because BAM is Bill and Sam exactly, So that's
why I said. Bill originally otherwise be called the Wham
Said Wedding podcast, and I would actually like that better.
Wham wedding What idiots I'm calling it? Why I'm wedding?
Does wham saying wake me up before you go go?
That is wham, right, And that's George Michael using wham.
(15:47):
He follows me on Twitter, George Michael, he follows a
lot of people. Although and this is I do hope
to get to this point in life. Um, and no
offense to all the people who I've I've had great
conversations with on social media. I do hope to get
to a point in life where I don't need to
open social media anymore. And I feel like George Michael
does not do his own social media. I think he
(16:08):
does know there's an agency that knows his stuff. Just
like we all got followed by Hilary Duff that one day,
like she was out there just following everybody all willy
nilly um. I want someone like that. I want someone
who's like, oh, you know what, I'm gonna follow all
the right accounts for you. I'm gonna post, I'll use
all the hashtags. I think. I'll do all the things,
and then I could log in whenever I feel like
(16:30):
it and like be on the app and go on
rent and and then that's it, and then they'll have
to clean up my mess once. I like annoy people
on Twitter. Uh wait, George Michael, Oh wait, maybe he doesn't.
I don't follow him. Oh my god, how dare you?
What are you looking up right now George Michael's Twitter
to see. I don't think that's who I'm thinking about.
(16:53):
I think, yeah, he follows I have my mother. Boy
George follows me. Listen, they're both Georges. I get it.
It makes sense. Boy George follows you. Now, boy George
was Culture Club Curry. Yes, maybe I don't. I'm not
(17:15):
answering anything. It works on him. Actually, do you just
has to say it? His profile no like known from
you know, a good drag queen when you see one.
That's what his profile says. I mean, he's not wrong,
you do know, although if you're a phenomenal drag queen,
are you supposed to know? Like, if you're a good
(17:37):
enough drag queen, should I be confused that too are
a drag queen. That's a question for all the drag
queens out there. Boy, George is sixty years old. Culture Club, Okay,
that's what I thought. Did you ever go? This is
a very rang to the Culture Club in New York City.
I don't know what that is. It was like an
eighties inspired lounge. They had um when I by the
(17:59):
time I went, which I think Culture Club was kind
of on It's like Downturn. I don't know if it
exists inspired lounge now. It was. It was a huge
place for like, uh, bachelorette parties. I don't know if
I don't think it was considered a gay bar, but
I know the gay community also went there a lot. Um.
(18:19):
It was an eighties inspired bar, so like everything from
the decor, the drinks, like everything. It was a theme
bar essentially. And then upstairs they had a place I
want to say it was called Nirvana, and that was
a nineties inspired to see it and the one thing
that I remember because I went. I was way too
young to be going to bars at the time, but
I went there with a bunch of my older cousins.
(18:41):
Well upstairs to Nirvana, and one of like the v
I P tables you could get was built into like
an old white Bronco, like the car that OJ took
on his slow speed chase. So those things like that.
So this is like the selfie Museum, but a bar. Yeah,
before like Instagram is a thing. Yeah, the Culture Globe
(19:01):
was a good time. I mean it was especially I
want to say I went at like seventeen or eighteen
years old. Here's why that wouldn't work today, because it
would turn into an Instagram thing and everyone would be
taking pictures and it would be very gimmicky. I think
it was gimmicky. But the whole thing was a gimmick.
But it's not because you're enjoying it when you're there
to take photos. It's like people wouldn't be there to
(19:24):
enjoy what it is. People wouldn't actually like jump into
the experience and have fun. They would just be there
to take pictures. Maybe maybe it was a fun bar though,
and mainly because I love late eighties and early nineties
dance music. So like you, that's just my spot. Okay,
you should make a playlist and share it with the class.
(19:45):
I got a lot of playlists I gotta make. People
were asking for my dance solid I get on playlist.
People were asking I still there's like two thousand people
that follow my pop punk playlist. Now it's yeah, Well,
because we're all getting ready for when we were young
the other thing, and we've gone way longer than I
expected to before we got into this subject. But when
we were having drinks yesterday at the Space Needle, which
(20:07):
if you're in the Seattle area, especially for Valentine's Day, Um,
it's a great experience if you can reserve it, but
you've got to like book ahead because it's limited seating
and if you're visiting Seattle, do it. It's the Loop
Lounge is what it's called at the Space Needle. So
there was what we hypothesized as a first or second date,
(20:28):
an early date that was a couple of tables away
from us. Like, first of all, I think people on
first and beginning dates talk louder than people who are
I can see. I think you're kind of posturizing a
little bit. You're like showing that you're exciting. You don't
want to be like your lay mass self, so maybe
you turn the decibel up a little bit. Right off
(20:51):
the bat, this guy was saying, Oh, you've been dancing
through my head and I was like, uh, and for
that reason I have out. But what Carl Mury was saying,
before we get into the other things we've heard, you
thought for an early date, which is what we think
this was that the Space Needle and the Loop Lounge
specifically was a little overboard and almost like love bombing
(21:13):
based on Anthony standards. Yeah, because Anthony has said so
many times first dates it should just be like something
quick out a bar, drink or whatever. It shouldn't be
anything fancy. Even dinner for a first day is a
bit much, is what Anthony has said. Now, all of
a sudden, we're at this romantic a million feet in
the air looking out into Seattle. It's so romantic. Anthony's like, oh,
it's bad. It was like the Loop Lounge, which is
(21:35):
on the rotating level of the Space Needle, It's like
fifty five stories up something like that. And if this
was a fancy sit down dinner with like lobster and craziness,
and whatnot. I would say, you're right, Carl. The Loop Lounge, however,
(21:56):
and it sounds like we're doing an ad. They're not
paying us for any of this. The way that it's
set up, you buy like a drink package, so you
could do like a wine package or like a fancy
night frozen nitrogen drink package. And I think it's actually
a perfect day spot because the drinks are so unique.
There's like a spectacle to the drinks, especially if you
(22:17):
do the liquid nitrogen one, because there's like smoke and
talk and I do I think it's like they're great
talking points. You're trying drinks that are done a little differently,
so even if you're it gives you something to talk about, like, oh,
I've never had a margarita prepared this way and you
start talking about it that way. I actually think it's
a phenomenal early date place. And you get the fact
(22:42):
that it's on a rotating like floor and the uh
novelty of the space needle itself. And then where do
you go after that? Just to a regular bar where
nothing is moving and you don't flowing oxide or whatever
it is. If it goes well, you go home that
night and you steal the deal. Otherwise I don't know.
I think you can then I actually take that back.
(23:05):
I don't know where you go next to Carlibraine for
your second day, for the second or the day after
the loop lunge, because you're trying different types of drinks. Right,
Let's say you and your date love the margarita had.
Now one of you says, oh, I know a great
margarita bar. If we both like margarita's, or if we
both like paper planes, or we're both like negrons, you
then you take like your next step is a place
(23:28):
that specializes in those. Based on our date, we both
did love the margarita. Yes, were you taking me on
our next date? Oh? I'm busy that day? Um, I
don't know Chili's. Like this is why our relationship works
because if you had to fully like do a real
(23:48):
relationship in today's not not this isn't real, like with
a stranger and take them on date after date, and
you wouldn't do it like you you you would give
up because you're like, oh, I forgot to plan alright,
fell asleep and I took a nap and I didn't
text you back to go on this date. And I
just spent six hours at the gym and all I
can't come because I have to boil sixty five eggs. Sorry, Like, okay,
(24:10):
some of that is true. Some of that is true.
Like I did oftentimes I would fall asleep or whatever
and not text a girl back, and they'd be like,
are you dead? No, I just want to sleep. I
do spend a lot of time at the gym, which
anyone I've dated has understood thankfully. Um Like, think about
my college girlfriend I had. I did a throwing workout
for javelin. I did a running workout and a weight
(24:31):
training workout almost every single day for for my sophomore
and junior years of of college, which is when I
was dating her, and she like just didn't see me,
which is probably better off for her. Yeah. No, I'm
just saying I don't think you could. I disagree only
on one principle. I agree with you on some of
(24:52):
those points, Karl, but I disagree with I think I
would be able to plan some cool fun day. Now.
The difference. The difference no, that and this is all
all joking aside. The difference with how our relationship has
gone is work has allowed us to do a lot
(25:14):
of crazy things. So it's some of the things that
we probably would have done as a date we just
got to do anyway. So I don't know. I don't
know if that's a good thing or a bad thing.
It's just the thing. I can't see you Anthony being like, oh,
(25:35):
I made us reservations somewhere. I'm not really a reservation person,
but I've done it from time to time. I don't think.
I like places where you have to make it. I
like walking in I like flying by the seat of
my pants because you don't plan. Yeah, okay, but I
(25:56):
will say, listen, I'm all for like being what's the word,
not serendipitous word where you just thank you all for
being spontaneous. But at some point you need to have
somewhere like someone's like I planned this for you, right,
there's something where, at some point in your relationship, both
of you at separate moments like I planned this for us. Yeah,
(26:21):
I guess I'll do that one day. I don't know
a fair point, I guess um, but I think I could,
Like I have in the past planned fun things and
had fun experiences for like first date, second dates, whatever
with with with women mainly and The only reason I
(26:43):
know that is because I think I've only had one ever,
like first date that didn't end up as something else.
But we talked about that woman recently. She ends up
engaged like six months later, so I don't think I
was really her person to begin with. I don't remember
we talked about this recently, like within the last couple
(27:03):
of podcasts. I believe maybe it was Twitch shows. There's
a lot we talked about that I forget, um, But
there was a woman who I met actually a happy
birthday to Scary Jones, because I was I met Scary
at like some random weekday party in Brooklyn. Okay, I
remember we did talk about this and she lived in Poughkeepsie.
Is this refreshing? Remembery out? Um? We went out to
(27:26):
a place that had like sushi on the little conveyor Yeah, yeah,
the conveyor belt sushi place. Now I've been there plenty
of times before lunch, but she thought she was impressed.
It's a good meal. And then that was it. And
then she disappeared and she was engaged six months later.
(27:46):
Do you think she goes the conveyor belts she places
and thinks of you every time? I hope not because
I'm pretty sure she's married. She's just that doesn't mean
you can't think of people. I'm not saying ever broke
my heart. No, she didn't. Not say she fantasizes about you.
She should also fantasize. You mean you don't like think
of like, oh, that reminds me of someone that I
(28:06):
was with. You don't have that, I guess I do. Yeah, yeah,
I guess that makes sense. What what is it? What it?
What it makes you them kidding? I don't know. I
can't think of anything right now. I do think there's
actually one specific scenario, and it was a girl who
I was like, we were definitely flirting, we were friends first,
(28:30):
we were definitely floating, and then there were a couple
of moments where I thought like one of us would
make the move right. And one of those moments was
during the summer, she came over to watch Game of Thrones,
and I'll never forget this, Like we were both big
Game of Thrones fans watching the show and the show
(28:51):
ended with like a pretty messed up scene, not something
that really gets the flirty juices going. That's a weird sentence,
And I remember, like the scene just ends in its
disturbing fashion, and we just kind of like looked at
each other and I was like, all right, I guess
I'll I'll drive you home now. And I just drove
(29:14):
her home. But what do you do with reminding you
of so Game of Thrones specifically, like a couple of
characters in the show will remind me of that moment,
which then reminds me of of her and she's still
a friend. Like there's nothing. It's not a bad thing.
But yeah, that that ruined it. That's funny because it
was like, uh, ancestual aggressive sex scene that I did
(29:39):
not like, no one did, so I gotta ruined it all.
That's not really like it would actually be more messed up.
I think if you did hook up after that, absolutely,
and then we we joked about that later on. I'm
happy about that for you guys. But back to the
loop lounge, I still don't think. I still don't think.
(30:02):
I disagree with Carl and Marie and and that it
was too much or over the top for a first date.
Now over the top, but I think I think a
second date. I think a first date, like I feel
like a first date spot should be somewhere where you
could take all of your first dates to still take
all of your first dates there. But the other thing
(30:23):
that he said later on, which then I was like, Okay,
maybe this guy is crazy. There were two things was
and he said it very loud. It's not like we
were eaves dropping. He was dropping. He said, yeah, we
should definitely go to Amsterdam together, and I know we're
is that when we both cracked the bluffing them. There
(30:43):
was something else I said. He said we should definitely
go to Amsterdam together, and we were both we both
looked at each other because he said it's so loud
that it like cut through our conversation, okay, and we
both like, okay, that's absurd. However, I feel like I
have said crazier things too, like the like did he
actually mean? I don't know, like I bet people, and
I'm like, oh my god, we should totally like there
(31:05):
were some follow up things that he said or I
was like, he's really trying to get this girl to
fly to Amsterdam with him. Sounds fun, or maybe he's
paying you know. When they left, Anthony was like, yeah,
they're definitely av exact tonight, I said, I hope they do.
Whatever I said, I had a couple of drinks. I
could have said anything, but the drinks wore fantasmic. Um.
(31:28):
There's like every drink that they bring you don't choose.
They just okay, it's like a flight though. It's like
a there's a flight. Yeah, but you can also choose drinks.
It depends on the one week night you got and
we got whatever the liquid nitrogen package inspired drinks and
they throw it on the floor. It is pretty cool. Um.
(31:51):
What there is one other thing, Oh, Discord is the
last thing I wanted to say. So if you are
familiar with discord, which is a message being community building
like social platform or app, app and desktop, we will
have the link in the description of this podcast to
join our specific Discord server. If you have no idea
(32:11):
what that means, but you'd like some information, you can
email us. It's hello at Carla Marine and Anthony dot com.
Hello at Carla Marine and Anthony dot com. And the
reason I'm saying that twice is we are that's the
only email that we're checking on a semi consistent basis now,
So anything else we may have said on this podcast
in the past, I don't use those anymore, and I
(32:34):
wish it was a way to like delete just that podcast.
The link is in the description. Um it's free, yeah,
click it, sign up and it's just a bunch of
people chat and we've got over a hundred people in
there in our little Carla Marie Anthony Show community now,
and you can adjust notifications so you don't get alerted
all the time. You can have it set we're like
only when someone acts you like it's at or Anthony
(32:57):
or whatever. If you use Slack for work, it's based
Slack for nerds, So definitely check that out if you're interested.
The link is in the description of this podcast, and
you can always email us honestly, yeah at Hello at
Carla Marne Anthony dot com. Hello at Carla Brine Anthony
dot com. If you've got advice, you need something you
want to talk about, something you think we might like
talking about on the show or on Twitch, you can
(33:17):
definitely do that. And the last thing we're gonna leave
you with our two other things in the description of
this podcast. One is the link to our Twitch channel.
The second is a link to our newsletter very important.
Both of those are unbelievably important, and Carlamrae just bounced
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(33:37):
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so much. You spent about half an hour hanging out
with us UM and we appreciate you letting us into
your ear holes. You look great. St
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