November 5, 2025 • 44 mins
In this sexy episode, TRP gets into the thick of Lily Allen’s new album, an anti-love letter to David Harbour. We too want to know who the f*ck is Madeline. We also want to know how busy or not people are in a threesome. And we dig into how much sex people are having - no wrong answer. Like we said up top, it's a sexy episode.
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Speaker 1 (00:14):
I can't wait to dive into this one because Erica.
Speaker 2 (00:18):
It's sexy, it is it's sorry, it's sexy, it's cheating,
it's giving adultery, which apparently some girl in love ie
in Australia didn't know what that word meant.
Speaker 3 (00:29):
We'll move on what he was She went, what is
Adultrey went, Oh, God, help her.
Speaker 4 (00:34):
You know it feels a little stuffy, just to give
her a little bit of a waiting room.
Speaker 1 (00:39):
Oh wow, your life's so fucking perfect. Nobody's ever cheated
on you.
Speaker 4 (00:42):
Oh, just like she's not coming in contact with that
kind of those words because no one's ever cheated on her.
I just thought it was like a lexicon thing, like
she just didn't have it in her vocap.
Speaker 1 (00:54):
I think it's that, but also it's giving Come on, honey,
and why someone cheat on you? Exactly like, uh, okay,
I get it.
Speaker 4 (01:04):
This reminds me of I heard a story about Margot
Robbie that this was like right after Wolf of Wall
Street and she was like talking to another actor and
she had just like signed with CIA. Yeah, and they
weren't signed with CIA, And I think they were very
much like a supporting actor in the movie Okay, she
was like, why weren't you sign a CIA, Like as
(01:24):
if like just everyone has the opportunity to sign with
the number one talent agency. Like that's what it makes
me think of. You're like, fuck off, you're Margot Robbie.
Speaker 3 (01:32):
It just doesn't know any doesn't know any different. No,
she doesn't know.
Speaker 4 (01:35):
She's just like she was like twenty, like twenty weeks
old when she said that.
Speaker 1 (01:40):
Totally she knows nothing. Well, this is this is the
rage pod. We just drop it. We gotta get to it.
We gotta get to it.
Speaker 3 (01:47):
Got to get right into the sex.
Speaker 1 (01:49):
Yeah, we're what we got to remind We rage against
the serene and all the.
Speaker 3 (01:53):
Things in between. That's right, including sucks, including sex.
Speaker 4 (01:58):
I'm here with the Tara Erickson and I'm here with you, var.
Speaker 3 (02:03):
I don't know how this works. Yeah, you were looking
at the ground and really.
Speaker 4 (02:07):
Focused because I was almost going to say my name,
but I never say my name. I want to say
her name, and she says my name, So that's why
I was like, I'm and then.
Speaker 3 (02:15):
Got to stick to the format we do Otherwise.
Speaker 4 (02:17):
People get upset, we get upset. Frendy Wendy will quit
the show.
Speaker 3 (02:21):
She will right out on us.
Speaker 4 (02:24):
All right, So should we get into these sexy comments.
Speaker 1 (02:28):
Yeah, we got it because we gave If you guys
don't know, we on Instagram, we posted about threesomes and
we wanted to know threesome etiquette, and you guys left
a lot.
Speaker 3 (02:37):
Of comments and you did.
Speaker 4 (02:38):
And the funny thing is, is just real quick for context,
we'll probably get edited out. But we didn't even mean
to talk about threesomes. It was just an announ randomly.
Speaker 3 (02:47):
Came up exactly.
Speaker 4 (02:48):
We slipped and fell right into a threesome. That's what happened.
Speaker 1 (02:53):
I hope that one day that that is a true
thing that happens in life to me.
Speaker 3 (02:58):
I don't know. I just stripped fell right into it.
Speaker 4 (03:01):
Okay, so Himan, anyway, go ahead, all right, So here's
a clip we're talking about, and then we'll go into
your comments right after.
Speaker 5 (03:08):
If any of our listeners out there have been in
a threesome and they do know how to maneuver that,
let us know.
Speaker 4 (03:15):
And has someone been left has someone been left out?
And like, have you seen that they've been left out?
And you've had to be like, okay, we've got to
stop what you're doing.
Speaker 2 (03:24):
Right now.
Speaker 3 (03:25):
Yes, and we need to do some docy dough you
know what I mean, absolutely have to know. Please leave
us a comment or call.
Speaker 4 (03:32):
Us, because now I'm just yeah, we really want to know.
Speaker 3 (03:35):
We want to know how it goes.
Speaker 4 (03:37):
And is there like a like is there a run
of show?
Speaker 3 (03:41):
You know what?
Speaker 4 (03:41):
On this podcast? We strive for fine.
Speaker 3 (03:44):
Yeah, we really do. We strive for fine.
Speaker 1 (03:46):
Honestly that leads to your life happiness. Oh my god,
Fine is great.
Speaker 3 (03:50):
Fine is great. Fine is fan fucking tastic. I'm with you.
Speaker 1 (03:53):
Yeah, Like uh Noel Conn says, uh, I stopped caring
about a month.
Speaker 3 (03:57):
Ago, and since then it's been smooth sailing. And I'm like,
he's got.
Speaker 4 (04:02):
Yeah, yeah, he's doing more than fine. But that's okay.
We're gonna do just fine.
Speaker 3 (04:07):
We're gonna do just fine. All right, So let's get
into this.
Speaker 1 (04:09):
Jay Baker ninety one says there's a British TV show
called Open House, which is all about couples opening up to.
Speaker 3 (04:16):
Threesomes and swapping.
Speaker 1 (04:18):
There are definitely some awkward moments or someone is a
spare wheel, and it's normally the male partner who pushed
for the whole thing.
Speaker 3 (04:25):
Doesn't surprise me.
Speaker 4 (04:26):
Okay, I'm so glad that Jay Baker said there were
awkward moments, because that's really where my head is going.
I just decided if I was gonna be in a threesome,
and I knew i'd probably I don't know how involved
I was gonna be, Like, am I the lead or
am I supporting? I would bring something to do and
(04:50):
the in between times.
Speaker 3 (04:51):
God, you are sitting in the corner reading Harry Potter,
aren't you.
Speaker 4 (04:54):
Well, I don't know if it's Harry Potter. Oh God,
I say, we can't be reading Harry Potter right now.
Speaker 1 (04:59):
I know it's three sometimes, but I just don't anything,
you know, I.
Speaker 3 (05:02):
Mean, I mean, it's not it's not good to be
reading Harry right right sitting in the corner reading Lord
Lord of the Ring.
Speaker 4 (05:08):
Yeah, I'm I'm I'm reading I don't know, like fucking
David Cross's bio. That's just what I'm reading right now.
But or something, honestly, you know what i'd be doing.
I'd be doing pips. I'd be doing the new the
New New York Times puzzle, which is pips. I'm not
very good at it, and that would and so I
could really something that I would.
Speaker 3 (05:27):
Like, how long does that take you? Pips?
Speaker 4 (05:30):
Easy, medium are hard, Easy is pretty fast. Medium could
take like it could keep me occupied.
Speaker 1 (05:35):
So that's good enough for the three some? Think medium
level pips. We can do the three some. You have
some stuff to.
Speaker 4 (05:41):
Do, because like, what else are you're just watching? You're
just exactly like you're like watching like a sporting event.
Speaker 3 (05:47):
Right, that's what I just thought.
Speaker 1 (05:49):
I remember when we talked about this, I was like,
I don't know someone, you're juicing somebody in my hand.
I guess you just got to fiddle somebody somewhere.
Speaker 3 (05:56):
I don't know.
Speaker 4 (05:57):
Okay, you're still involved. I could still I'll fiddle and
do pips.
Speaker 1 (06:02):
Wow, you're dedicated, you are?
Speaker 3 (06:07):
You love pips?
Speaker 4 (06:10):
I guess the idea is that, like you're getting really
turned on by watching them if you're not super involved. Sure,
but what but what if you're not turned on? Or
what if things start to get weird? That's the thing
he's saying, Things get.
Speaker 1 (06:25):
Awkwards, get weird because they're paying. Imagine it's your primary
part or your actual partner. You bring in a third
and now he's paying all this attention to.
Speaker 4 (06:34):
The not only that, what if you're a stranger does
it better?
Speaker 3 (06:39):
Exactly?
Speaker 4 (06:40):
What if the stranger makes him do things that he's
never done before with you, idiot?
Speaker 1 (06:45):
If he if he lets you even vibe that in
the moment that she's doing a better job, the divorce
papers better be ready to be signed.
Speaker 4 (06:53):
But I feel like we're giving this man a lot
of credit, a lot that he'd be able to incorporate
that level of nu once while ejaculating.
Speaker 3 (07:06):
All right, let's go to the next list.
Speaker 4 (07:07):
Comment it's one second, let's go here. It's a collage
of comments. All right, underscore, clout GPT underscore. I had
one in my early twenties, and they had to convince
me because I thought it was some horrible prank. Lol.
We went to the strip club beforehand where they planned
(07:28):
out asked. We went to a strip club beforehand where
they planned out asking me just like the mat guy said,
two of you are getting it on while the other
girl is being played with, which is what we just
talked about playing with the other girl, and then they switch,
rinse and repeat. Afterwards, we all laid up, watched TV
and vibed out. LOL.
Speaker 3 (07:49):
So his was a good experience. He loved it. Well,
it might be a girl. Right, Well, I can't tell.
Speaker 1 (07:57):
All I'm gonna say is that cloud GPT you got
to change your profile pick if you're a girl, because
that is a I'm.
Speaker 4 (08:03):
Looking at the Okay, that's but you know what the
key word in this comment was what twenties?
Speaker 1 (08:10):
Yeah, twenties young, you're figuring out.
Speaker 3 (08:13):
That it's fun.
Speaker 4 (08:15):
You have time to have a threesome, watch TV, and
vibe out like you had time to do all of
those things a lot in one day, let out any
other responsibilities.
Speaker 1 (08:28):
Only somebody in their twenties can do that. Yeah, that
kind of that kind of juice in all day.
Speaker 4 (08:32):
But I guess what's cool about this scenario is that
they all were on the same page. It seems like.
Speaker 1 (08:40):
Yeah, and also the girls liked each other, so they
knew that what they were going to get into y right,
that if he's juice in one, I'm doing more to you,
and then if he's juice in me, you're doing more
to Yeah. It's it's an actual threesome. They're s three
people and they're all some in it.
Speaker 3 (08:55):
They're all involved.
Speaker 4 (08:57):
They're all involved. I just love thinking about you in
the corner doing pips, me doing pips in the corner,
but also just like the real moments of like I
do not know what to do right now.
Speaker 3 (09:10):
I do not know what to do right now.
Speaker 1 (09:15):
If it's like he's full on juicer taking care of
the downstairs, they're also making out, I guess my hand
glide to cross her chest.
Speaker 4 (09:25):
Her chests are like like like the butt grab grabs
the butt. But like what if it's like she's not
doing anything and then you're like, I'm not doing anything or.
Speaker 3 (09:37):
She goes I'm she swaps your hand away.
Speaker 4 (09:40):
You want any meaning she's telling you what you're doing
is doing nothing for me, and.
Speaker 3 (09:47):
That's why you better have a backup, like Pips, I'm
with her on that. All right, let's get to the
next one. Chris, No Kingston Hawk threesomes are.
Speaker 1 (09:58):
My special Oh wow, okay, multi your throubles in my life,
including my current relationship.
Speaker 3 (10:07):
There's a ton of etiquette in psychology.
Speaker 1 (10:09):
You have to know to make a mess up to
not make a mess of things. The obvious one of
how and who to choose, But the last obvious is
performing in a way that satisfies both women and doesn't
create regret it either. It's ten times more difficult if
your partner loves you and isn't truly bi sexual.
Speaker 3 (10:29):
Yeah, and then it.
Speaker 1 (10:32):
Says, get your four play game right. You've got to
get familiar with toys. Relying on your innate ability is
fine until it's not and you don't want to come
up short.
Speaker 3 (10:43):
On the wrong day. He has to figure it out.
He does.
Speaker 4 (10:48):
He use words like psychology and toys and toys.
Speaker 3 (10:53):
He said, get familiar, used etiquette. He is the word etiquette.
I like that. It's like he's He's like, we got
to pay attention.
Speaker 4 (11:01):
There's a there's there's it's delicate.
Speaker 3 (11:03):
That's right.
Speaker 4 (11:04):
This like there were meetings, there were was strategy shut down,
there was planning.
Speaker 3 (11:10):
They blueprinted out. There was a blueprint.
Speaker 4 (11:12):
Yeah, there was maybe even some nowadays some chat GPT totally.
Speaker 3 (11:16):
How do we how do we do this?
Speaker 1 (11:18):
At what time do I bring in the toys? Is
that five to ten minutes in? Is that twenty minutes?
Depending on how quick one goes one doesn't. Who takes
more work?
Speaker 4 (11:29):
I get it.
Speaker 3 (11:30):
The toys.
Speaker 4 (11:31):
If this was a sport, the toys are your equipment.
You better know how to use it. Yeah, you need
to go to practice, You need to go to rehearsal Right,
you know you're right. But you know, one thing that
this brings up for me is I wonder like if
bisexual people think that non bisexual people just truly haven't
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opened up their sexuality yet, that if they think like
kind of everyone could have right that connection to sex
and the way that they do, but they just that
we're all like, if you're not bisexual, you're.
Speaker 3 (12:07):
Repressed, correct, And I think that that is very untrue. Yeah,
I think you.
Speaker 1 (12:12):
You either want to kiss a girl and juice with
the girl if you're a girl, or.
Speaker 3 (12:16):
You you don't.
Speaker 1 (12:16):
And if you don't then and you're just solely you're
you're getting the pussy flutters from a guy.
Speaker 3 (12:22):
Then that dad tells you everything.
Speaker 4 (12:24):
But you're you're saying like you think that like you're
either bisexual, like you you're like, oh, I get off
on both or I don't. But it doesn't mean that
if I don't, it doesn't have.
Speaker 3 (12:37):
That pleased repressed.
Speaker 1 (12:38):
If I don't, just because some person may not have
explored that, it just means, yeah, you're not interested, just
like if you're not freaking interested in eating a salad, it's.
Speaker 4 (12:49):
Just got like different ice cream flavors.
Speaker 1 (12:51):
Yeah, I mean, if you're not, if it's not getting
the fanny flutters, you got to skip right. Otherwise, what's
the point.
Speaker 4 (12:59):
I wonder, I wonder, I wonder what they think. Let
us know if you're bisexual.
Speaker 3 (13:04):
Let us know.
Speaker 4 (13:04):
If we're jumping to conclusions here. We probably are.
Speaker 1 (13:07):
We probably we usually do we we do we were
We jump quick, we do jump quick. Okay, But I
do have to say, do you see the pussy Ferguson
in replying to what I just read?
Speaker 3 (13:20):
Yes, he said, dude, I had. I had one once
and it went horribly two thousand and nine, never again.
I just had to read that because I know, hious, God,
I love pussy Ferguson. For me, I love that. God
bless all right God, because like I'm sure there's a
lot of bad ones.
Speaker 1 (13:35):
That's what I am saying, where they're like, never again,
they remember the.
Speaker 4 (13:40):
Year Yeah, yeah, that means you know, and they probably
didn't have pips.
Speaker 3 (13:45):
They did not have pips.
Speaker 4 (13:47):
Okay, let's go to the next one.
Speaker 3 (13:51):
All right.
Speaker 4 (13:52):
Oh my gosh, I do love this handle name. Yeah,
the name is Beanie Stylist. I love it too, And
I'm not looking at pro file, So I don't know
what preferred pronouns are, so I'm just gonna go off
of handles. Yeah, I will say my threesome fun was
a positive experience. I was not married at the time
of threesomes, though all of my group activities were when
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I was single. So I was the third This is
what we want to know, this is what we came
here for.
Speaker 3 (14:20):
I was the third wheel to the couples.
Speaker 4 (14:22):
Sometimes it was nice to just have a pretty friend
to play with solo, which was never an issue.
Speaker 3 (14:27):
I feel like we were all very.
Speaker 4 (14:28):
Transparent in what we wanted out of it, as well
as setting boundaries shout out to the boundary song there
we Go. Feel free to pipe that in a post,
as well as setting boundaries of where everyone stayed in
their lane. I felt like it was important for my
girlfriend to know nothing would ever happen without her being present.
Speaker 3 (14:48):
Oh I love that. Well, this is what's.
Speaker 4 (14:52):
Interesting about this, Okay tell me because again it's like
being honest, setting rules, setting boundaries, being transparent, And I
mean I know people that are in open relationships and
that seems to be a big thing, Like, yeah, you
have to set rules and you have to adhere to them. Yeah,
And on that note, there's somebody in the news that
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did not.
Speaker 1 (15:16):
That's a that's you are absolutely that is a good segue.
I mean more comments, but you are right.
Speaker 4 (15:23):
And stranger things have been happening.
Speaker 3 (15:26):
Oh this is good. But ump bump, but chit chit
chit chit chit chit cha. Yep. Oh yeah, he went
he went there and not in a good way.
Speaker 4 (15:35):
Kind of knew that they were married. I kind of knew,
like I think I knew it one time and then.
Speaker 3 (15:39):
I forgot for like years. Yeah.
Speaker 4 (15:41):
So Lily Allen and David Harber, obviously it's like just
bombarding people's socials because they broke up.
Speaker 1 (15:49):
They got a divorce yep, and got married in Vegas
in twenty twenty. They've only been together four years.
Speaker 3 (15:55):
And they met on Riah. Yes, they met on Riah.
Speaker 1 (15:57):
Yes.
Speaker 4 (15:58):
And my understanding, which is I learned from you two,
is that they were in an open relationship, but they
had rules that you couldn't hook up with someone that
they knew, right, it had to be a stranger. It
had to be a stranger. And then there may or
may not have always been money exchange, which is like
(16:19):
very very specific, very specific, and I guess the transactional
element that keeps it emotionally detached. But right, like what
if the other person didn't want money or like they
didn't have money on them, Like I guess that you
have to plan. This gets back to you have you've
got a plan.
Speaker 3 (16:34):
David Harber is always gonna have money on.
Speaker 4 (16:36):
You to do both of them, both of them.
Speaker 3 (16:39):
That's true. Both of them are true. That's troublishing baby.
Speaker 1 (16:42):
Yeah yeah, yeah, you know right, I mean literally probably
did too. But like in the song when she said
it had to be a stranger and there had to
be payment, I was like, oh, that's interesting.
Speaker 3 (16:53):
So it had to be a sex worker.
Speaker 1 (16:56):
Or maybe it was and or maybe it was like
or had to be a stranger and they're like, no,
you knowing, you're good, you're a stranger. We met up
one night on bumble and now by.
Speaker 4 (17:10):
I want to know how many open relationships have that
rule in place of like there needs to be like
whereas oh, yeah, because that was something I had never
heard before, right where it was like actually integrated into
the guard to so then he ended up having sex
with someone that they both knew.
Speaker 2 (17:32):
Magdalene Magdeleine Who the fuck is Magdalene?
Speaker 4 (17:36):
What she says in the song yeah, and who made Madeleine?
Speaker 3 (17:40):
Actually is what she says and in her.
Speaker 1 (17:42):
Amazing fuck Magdalene actually actually it's it's great her name obviously,
the woman's name is not Madeleine.
Speaker 3 (17:50):
But she was not a stranger.
Speaker 1 (17:52):
And apparently they were doing way more than just uic
in it. They were playing tennis, which.
Speaker 4 (17:58):
Is why there's that song tennis Tennis. They play tennis, so.
Speaker 3 (18:02):
You know how intimate it into mob they were playing.
Speaker 4 (18:06):
It's animalistic everyone, that's what you're you're listed.
Speaker 3 (18:10):
This is there for play. Ah.
Speaker 1 (18:14):
Yeah, and then they're like juice in it in the
freaking locker room.
Speaker 4 (18:17):
I bet they're doing a lot of they're doing a
lot of Alley's. They're doing they're doing a lot of volleys.
Speaker 3 (18:24):
Volley's get intense. It's short, it's at the net. It's
sort of like ping pong.
Speaker 1 (18:27):
See see they get all juiced up. They can't even
keep it for a long time. They can't even play
fool game.
Speaker 4 (18:32):
I say, okay, now, I have so many questions. I
wonder if she was really good at tennis. And that
turned them on like even more, and that made him
start to like have feelings for her. I don't know
did he have feelings for do we know this? I'm
lyrics right.
Speaker 1 (18:44):
We are solely going off of the song and like
one song she she says like, did you I have
a feeling you fell in love with someone who is
at me?
Speaker 3 (18:52):
Did you do that right?
Speaker 4 (18:53):
Remember?
Speaker 1 (18:54):
And that's great? But then also the girl in one
song she talks it out where the girl replies to
her and goes like, yes, I remember her, Like I'm
just saying it's exactly what he said, and there's no
emotional attachment and like it has been Soli saxon, I
just don't want there to be any her feelings and
you could contact me anytime, Love and light Madaline And
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that sounds like a script that he probably gave her,
and she sings about that. She goes, I can't trust
a word that comes out of his mouth and or hers,
And that that's the part that pisses me off because
it's gone so far as to her sing a song
about pussy Palace and she finds dildo's in a thousand tros.
Speaker 4 (19:35):
You guys know, the the next line was dojo. She
thought it was a dough She.
Speaker 3 (19:41):
Thought it was a dojo, and then we started discussing.
Speaker 4 (19:44):
And then I'm like, oh, yeah he does karate or
martial arts.
Speaker 3 (19:48):
Ah yeah.
Speaker 4 (19:49):
But because she says I don't trust a word, right,
this makes me think like, was this the only time
he violated the rules? No, the only person he did
that with? Or was there others?
Speaker 1 (20:03):
Right? I'm sure there were others, because in the song
it sounded like it was such a surprise to her
how many toys she found, like a butt plug and
a dildo and a thousand trojans and what are these
these other like clothing, like weird items that she's seeing
that like, he doesn't bring those to her. That never
happens to her. And I think the biggest line that
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like really hit me mm hmm is that she just said,
I would love to be your whore. It would be
my honor if you would do that with me. She's
saying those words meaning she is not a wife who's
like no, no, no, we can't, we.
Speaker 4 (20:41):
Can't like we did Missionary twice twice a year.
Speaker 1 (20:44):
She's not that, but he he you know. And it
really opened it up when she's like, am I looking
at a sex at it? And she says am I
looking at a sex at it multiple times and I
just go, oh, probably do we.
Speaker 4 (20:56):
Think that people And this is again a question for
for audience or new audience members. Yeah, do people that
like get really into toys and then you know, sort
of dive in like hardcore and have like just a
pleth run and it's like right chasing the next new
like the bigger toy, and then maybe.
Speaker 3 (21:15):
You can't get off on just the regular regular.
Speaker 4 (21:18):
Point an inflection point. Is there a saturation point where
you're like, I'm done with toys.
Speaker 1 (21:23):
We've bought all the toys, and now the toys don't work,
Like I just wonder if you if you ever like
you oversaturating? Yeah, yeah, I bet probably because it's sort
of the same thing with with like porn addiction, right,
and then they can't like really juce it with their
wife because they're they have to literally think about porn
porn because they're just so in their like head, it's
(21:44):
just dialed in that way. They have to leave it
in order for them to be able to have their
phone showing porn next to their.
Speaker 3 (21:51):
Wife's their wife.
Speaker 1 (21:53):
But even then they're like, I think they prefer their
hand because they're just so used.
Speaker 3 (21:58):
To the way they're doing And I think that.
Speaker 4 (22:01):
The toy stuff, right is I'm sorry, go ahead, no, no,
I say, is this? I mean some of sexual stuff
for people to get off is the surprise is the
new thing. So that's also interesting to me.
Speaker 1 (22:14):
Yeah, And I think because porn has so many new
things that you can type in a thing and just go,
this is exactly what I want and it can be
the weirdest thing in the world that they like, I
feel like men and women. I'm not saying it's just
all men feel like, Oh, in real life, I can't
get this because it's the same thing that Lily Allen
(22:36):
is saying in her album.
Speaker 3 (22:37):
She's like, you didn't you didn't talk to me about this,
you didn't ask me to do this.
Speaker 1 (22:42):
I would have done this, Like why aren't you begging
for me to be the one to do all of this?
Speaker 4 (22:48):
Well, he obviously had a lot of shame around it,
That's what I'm hearing. Yeah, that's what I'm maybe not
but that's that's what I am inferring.
Speaker 3 (22:57):
Yeah. Yeah, and also maybe.
Speaker 4 (23:00):
There was other things in their relationship, right, I mean,
I'm not gonna lie like I'm super bummed about this. Yeah,
because I loved a Violent Night. I'm super bummed because
I love Stranger.
Speaker 1 (23:16):
Stranger literally obsessed, and Eleven and him were my favorite.
Speaker 4 (23:20):
Yeah, my god, I thought you were just gonna start
naming off cast members.
Speaker 3 (23:25):
Oh got or character names and.
Speaker 4 (23:27):
Eleven and non Rioter's character's name and his relationship, I'm sorry,
are the best seventeen years since the last Stranger thing,
so I don't remember anyone's name.
Speaker 3 (23:38):
But but yeah.
Speaker 4 (23:39):
No, he he has a lot of likability on screen.
Speaker 3 (23:43):
Well, yeah, he does not as much anymore. I loved
Violent Knight too. It was it was fricking great.
Speaker 1 (23:48):
But I will tell you the second I listened to
this album and just her laying it all bear and she.
Speaker 3 (23:56):
Doesn't give up fuck what she says. No, she is like,
I'm a west girl. Now, you like, oh, here's one thing.
Speaker 1 (24:02):
I'll tell you this because you know how we're both actors, right,
And in that one line a west End Girl, which
is now her most popular song, she's like, yeah, you called,
and I said, hey, I actually have good news.
Speaker 3 (24:13):
I got the lead in a play.
Speaker 1 (24:14):
And he goes, I know, well, you'll probably have to audition,
and then She's like, I thought that was weird.
Speaker 3 (24:21):
She's like, I thought, why would you say that? I
thought that was weird? Why wouldn't you She.
Speaker 1 (24:25):
Doesn't say, why wouldn't you be like happy for me?
Speaker 3 (24:27):
But we both know in industry that like.
Speaker 4 (24:31):
Oh, oh no, that's a fucked up thing to say.
Why I am laughing? So why it's because I like
kind of quickly listened to that song. Yeah, and then
that part I thought it was reverse, Oh he got
the part no, And then she was saying.
Speaker 1 (24:49):
No, it was him being a jealous fuck and not
being supportive of course, and also fucking juice and some
girl on the side not screwing his wife, and on
top of it going well, I think you'll have to audition.
Speaker 3 (25:03):
Yeah, we don't know if you're good enough.
Speaker 1 (25:05):
Ewoo.
Speaker 3 (25:06):
No, But I just I love that this makes so
much more sense.
Speaker 1 (25:10):
I'm really I'm glad that you're on the same PIP
page now, I makes.
Speaker 3 (25:16):
So Yeah, right, we've got you. She telling him that
he has to audition, right, No, he does.
Speaker 1 (25:23):
My god, he's David harber Well made me know. Yeah,
he's he's Wow. I mean, I just I can't the
cheating and adult and adultery. We know that it happens everywhere, always,
all of the time, but in such a short span
from twenty twenty to twenty twenty four, and how she
explains how quickly it moved that it was just like, oh,
(25:44):
if you want this brown Stone, I'll get it for you.
This is for us, And she's like, it made me
feel uncomfortable.
Speaker 3 (25:48):
Everything was moving.
Speaker 1 (25:49):
Really fast, and then all of a sudden, you know
that phone call where.
Speaker 3 (25:52):
She's like, Okay, it makes me sad. I don't I
get want phone call.
Speaker 1 (25:56):
That's him going I want an open relationship. I'm gonna
be over here, right, we can juice it with other people.
And I'm just like, oh.
Speaker 4 (26:03):
And that's what she says, like, I don't know how
it's gonna work, Like how does this work?
Speaker 3 (26:07):
How does it work?
Speaker 4 (26:08):
And I think too right, we all know with most
of the time with cheating situations, Yeah, it's.
Speaker 3 (26:12):
The lie that really kills you.
Speaker 4 (26:14):
It's the fact that you're like, I could be around
this person over and over again, yep, and they just
kept lying to me and they had no problem lying
to me, right, you know, And obviously they would say no,
we did.
Speaker 3 (26:23):
I did have a problem.
Speaker 4 (26:24):
It was I was, you know, torn up inside, not
enough to stop lying to me, thank you, you know.
Speaker 1 (26:31):
And see that's where the openness gets in, where it
gets a litt muddy, because they're like, well, we talked
about it.
Speaker 3 (26:36):
It's open.
Speaker 1 (26:36):
He can do what he what he wants, right, But
it sounded like it got so far obviously with Madeline.
Madeline's not a stranger, but I isn't it crazy? You've
been in a very long term relationship, very long. He
lasted how long? Probably what two years? And then he
starts juicing Madeline. I'm like, you were only married for
(26:56):
four years.
Speaker 4 (26:58):
You guys were together for five minutes for five and
then he was loved bombing the fuck out of her
with all of these things that he was doing, like
back Groundstone, you're celerating everything everything, which yeah, I'm sure
that like, and then in retrospect it's like, oh my god,
not only were you lying to me, but you were
like pouring gasoline onto the fire by like you weren't
(27:19):
just like slowing shit down with me.
Speaker 3 (27:22):
So that's you don't give a fuck.
Speaker 4 (27:24):
Yeah, that's a big mind fuck for her. I agree,
big mind fuck for her.
Speaker 1 (27:27):
It's and you know, it's sad in the one song
where she's like, why wouldn't you why wouldn't you beg
for me? And I'm like, yeah, dude, that sus because
you know you're married, you would you would hope that.
He's like, no, please, like don't leave, Like this is
my problem.
Speaker 3 (27:40):
Let me confess. I'm a sex attic. This is what
I want. He's scared, he was. He's probably scared.
Speaker 4 (27:45):
He was scared to like to show that part of
himself to her, and maybe it was a lot easier
to do that with strangers.
Speaker 1 (27:51):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (27:52):
Probably.
Speaker 1 (27:52):
I'm just glad that she she wrote the song like
I'm not gonna let you win.
Speaker 3 (27:55):
I'm not going to carry all this. I'm not going
to carry your shame. I'm not going to.
Speaker 1 (27:58):
Carry your secrets. I am not could lie to our children.
I'll blow you up in this album. I don't know
how older kids are. I think they're teenagers.
Speaker 4 (28:06):
They don't have kids together. It's her kids from.
Speaker 1 (28:07):
A problem, her kids. Yeah, she's like, which they still
called like it because the kids knew right kind of
in her album, like, she's not gonna lie to her kids.
Speaker 3 (28:15):
How old are they? Apparently they're they're teenagers.
Speaker 1 (28:18):
Somewhere in there, so they they're fully aware of what's
going on.
Speaker 3 (28:21):
And I like that. She's like, I'm not gonna lie.
Speaker 1 (28:23):
I'm leaving this with my dignity and pride intact, and
guess what you're not.
Speaker 4 (28:30):
Well. It's also about being honest to your kids, like
so they don't look at what you're doing and say, oh,
I need to hide.
Speaker 3 (28:37):
I need to hide that's going on. I need to
hide the shame.
Speaker 4 (28:40):
I need to hide that things aren't going well, or that,
you know, I need to strive for this perfect life,
because that's just fucking bullshit.
Speaker 3 (28:49):
So it's like, be embarrassed, be be ashamed.
Speaker 1 (28:53):
We all are, We've all been there, and it's it's
amazing to just see you know that. Obviously, David Harbor
was the one that's bringing in all the money the fame,
initially with with Lily in the beginning of their relationship
and now but overnight with this albums.
Speaker 4 (29:07):
Because she hadn't made an album a long time.
Speaker 1 (29:09):
Correct, it's been a minute, so she was like kind
of a girl that was like, I used to be
quite famous, but now she's like Dan Harber's wife kind
of a vibe right right, and now I'm like, yeah,
lay lay it all, bear it all, and now your
net worth is doubled.
Speaker 3 (29:22):
Oh my god. It's like I can't.
Speaker 4 (29:24):
I'm just if he can go two degrees to the
left and running into a post about Lily Allen yes
and her music God bless it, which, yeah, I've always
liked her music.
Speaker 3 (29:32):
Right is great? This is this is fun. This is
a win. I agree? Is it fun?
Speaker 1 (29:37):
Like I feel like the world now is like if
you mentioned Lily Allen, they're like, let's gossip. Yeah, like
like let's oh, I want to know what you think.
Speaker 3 (29:47):
Let's gossip. Oh my god.
Speaker 4 (29:48):
David Harber's sex toys and Lily Allen's openness to sing
about it is bringing the world.
Speaker 3 (29:54):
Together, just like cold Play's affair. Oh yeah, oh yeah yeah.
Speaker 1 (30:00):
I guess it's sad to say, but affairs bring the
world together.
Speaker 3 (30:04):
Well, I think that was great.
Speaker 1 (30:05):
Why don't we Why don't we go to this comment
and then we'll tell him about our We have some
more sex stuff that we covered in Palm Springs were
sex re curision with sex because we love it, oozing
and cruising. Okay, so our last comment, it's great. Persephone
Personified said I had a threeesome with one of my
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best friends and my ex husband. We left him out,
hence why he is now my ex husband and I
am now extremely quite very gay. Oh and she and
I are still good friends, not sex friends, just b fs.
Speaker 4 (30:43):
Oh my god, I love that for her. I love
that she said extremely quite very gay in case you
were wondering.
Speaker 3 (30:52):
In case you were wondering, do I double down on it? Yes,
I do. Good for you, girl.
Speaker 1 (30:57):
I love that because maybe that is that is the
argument of like, momf you haven't tried it.
Speaker 4 (31:03):
You never know you could tell you something that you
don't know about yourself exactly.
Speaker 3 (31:12):
Well, guess what.
Speaker 4 (31:13):
We kind of need to hear from the ex husband
because he was left out and it's only what we
want to know.
Speaker 3 (31:20):
Can can persephone?
Speaker 1 (31:21):
Can you reach out and let us know because you're
still friends with him you said?
Speaker 3 (31:26):
Or no, you said, you're still friends with their friends
with you with your ex husband.
Speaker 1 (31:30):
But can you just skip into let us let us
know what he said, Tell him to reach out to us,
just message him on Instagram, just.
Speaker 4 (31:37):
Yeah, and and then be like, hey, I'm not telling
you that we're you know, talking again. Yeah, we still
fucking hate each other but can you just DM the
rage pod and let them know what it felt like
to be left out of our threesome that was fifty
decades ago.
Speaker 1 (31:54):
You're gonna have to come in here, anonymous, bro, because
right now what he's thinking is the some that I
was involved with from two girls my it turned my
wife gay.
Speaker 3 (32:05):
That's why I was at it. That's how he's gonna
look at it.
Speaker 4 (32:09):
And I never I never got tagged in. I never
got tagged in. I never got tagged in.
Speaker 1 (32:15):
Never one.
Speaker 3 (32:16):
I don't forgot I was there.
Speaker 4 (32:17):
I was told I was going to come in at
the very least in the fourth quarter to do all
the clean up. This is a football reference. And never
once And guess what he didn't have? What pips he
didn't he didn't have.
Speaker 1 (32:31):
He didn't got prepared because he thought he wasn't have needed.
Speaker 4 (32:35):
He didn't have any of the n y T slate
of game options. He's just a spelling b Can Graham
crossword pips.
Speaker 3 (32:47):
And he had so.
Speaker 1 (32:47):
Many wait for his name to be called, like you're
at the waiting room and you just can't wait, like
call my name.
Speaker 4 (32:54):
And we don't know if like podcasts were really a
thing back then hopefully these are these are all things
that I think are viable options to do. I agree
if you if you're left out of a threesome, that's
what I'm thinking.
Speaker 1 (33:07):
I think, so I feel like you got to prep
for that you do. And we gave them a lot
of options, which I like about us because we come
here and we give you, we give you information.
Speaker 3 (33:17):
Really, you're welcome. We're basically the news.
Speaker 1 (33:19):
Yeah, so we got to tell them when we went
to Palm Springs, we talked more about uh sex, and
we talked more about sex. We got to sex comments,
and then we we opened up about it.
Speaker 4 (33:30):
Yeah, so we when we were in Palm Springs, we
got so many responses to a post where we asked
are you having sex? And we thought it was so fascinating.
So we're going to cut to that episode where we
react and respond to those comments.
Speaker 1 (33:45):
Yeah, well, let us know in the comments real quick.
Speaker 3 (33:49):
We're going to get onto the next d M.
Speaker 1 (33:51):
If you are not having sex and think you would
like to have more, we want to know that was
all it was, and apparently we got we got a
bunch of comments, and we want to.
Speaker 4 (34:01):
Always make it clear, like we want to hear from everybody.
We want to hear from heterosexual couples. We want to
hear from homosexual.
Speaker 3 (34:10):
Queer people, queer people, try you want to.
Speaker 4 (34:12):
Hear from poly people. We want to hear from all
the people.
Speaker 1 (34:15):
Open people, close off, monogamy, nomination, asexual.
Speaker 4 (34:19):
We want to hear what, Like, what's the thing for
you that you want your relationships that you're not getting
If sex isn't a thing.
Speaker 3 (34:25):
I would love to hear about that.
Speaker 1 (34:27):
If there's anyone out there who is a sexual, if
you're like, well, what actually gives you? You know, I
don't know joy or like what do you need in
that relationship? If you are asexual, I would I would
like love to know what your top priorities are.
Speaker 3 (34:42):
Totally.
Speaker 4 (34:43):
I know, I just found out a couple that we know,
like they are married and they're both asexual.
Speaker 3 (34:49):
Wow, So it's like.
Speaker 4 (34:51):
That's so con I think they probably figured that out
before they got married.
Speaker 3 (34:55):
Totally.
Speaker 4 (34:56):
But then I know someone else is in an asexual relationship.
Speaker 1 (35:00):
Interesting because you know what now that I'm like, I'm
not I'm not juice and you know anybody haven't juiced
it in a minute that I just I care less
and less.
Speaker 3 (35:10):
The older I've gotten well and I don't libido change it.
Speaker 1 (35:14):
Oh yeah, yeah, I don't think it makes me asexual,
but I do care about it less and less.
Speaker 5 (35:20):
Like Yeah, I've got to say, you're in really good
company because a lot of the people that responded said
that they're not having sex. Oh, here are some of
the responses.
Speaker 3 (35:31):
Give it to us. Care Street Media.
Speaker 5 (35:33):
Said, I am not lol, and I don't think it's
a bad thing. When it happens, it happens. Life moves on,
and you have to as.
Speaker 4 (35:39):
Well centered what a center like way to look at things?
Speaker 5 (35:44):
Somehow, trigger said I am not. Unfortunately, I responded sorry,
and he wrote back, always thought some girls are too
cute for mel.
Speaker 4 (35:54):
Oh god, so this is this is what I said.
Speaker 5 (35:57):
I said, not true personality over looks any day. Women
love confidence. Just get out there and try true.
Speaker 4 (36:04):
So we just have to assume what they're saying is that, like, oh,
I don't look a certain way that would appealed it,
because like they didn't say that specifically, but we're gonna
we're gonna assume that of course. Oh my god, the
confidentality is like the sexiest thing ever.
Speaker 1 (36:22):
It's here and the other stuff is so much lower.
Here's the thing. You can see someone and go oh yeah,
which we've all listen. We go to a bar or
something and you see a really attractive person, whether it's
a guy or a girl. You're you're like, You're like,
you're so hot. I remember when Okay, yeah, I'll tell
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the real truth about this doctor Nicole.
Speaker 3 (36:46):
When we met her at the rage room.
Speaker 1 (36:47):
She has those big, beautiful blue eyes and and she'll
look she looks straight at you when she's talking.
Speaker 3 (36:53):
She's so rare.
Speaker 1 (36:54):
She keeps great eyes. And I was like, and I
made a joke when we got back in the car.
I was like, did you guys see the way that
she like looks at you and she talks to you.
I was like, I don't know. I felt like I
felt something like that, but it wasn't. And it was like,
of course she's attractive, but she also has personality. Followed up,
I've met other people where I go they're attractive, You're
talking to him, and I'm like, this is a freaking
(37:14):
snooze fest. I can't wait to get out of this conversation.
I do not care how attractive you are. That you're six',
four maybe you're built really, well you got a beautiful.
Face none of it freaking matters because you are a dial.
Speaker 5 (37:28):
Tone kevin, says it's been six years SINCE i would
last with someone, sexually And i've just given up Until
i'm more confident in.
Speaker 3 (37:36):
Myself what did we tell?
Speaker 2 (37:37):
Him?
Speaker 5 (37:37):
Exactly and SO i wrote, back confidence is, Key fake
it till you make, it.
Speaker 4 (37:41):
Baby there can be a pressure to be confident owning your,
vulnerability of owning like some of the things here and
think you're about can actually lead you to a more confident.
Speaker 1 (37:52):
PLACE i am with you because you know what if
you are not, vulnerable if you cannot open up to
me about if about really just. Anything and it's not
like we have to get super like deep on a first.
Date but if you if you cannot be, vulnerable IF
i ask you a question and you can't open, up
(38:12):
then LIKE i can't contell you this because then you're
not actually, there like the true you is not sitting
in front of.
Speaker 3 (38:21):
Me if you can't open up about some real, shit
it's just more.
Speaker 4 (38:25):
Interesting if there's like layers to somebody agree like that
has a more like they have a more lived human,
Experience they have more to share and it's just like
your humans fall in love with, humans, Right, Yes and
the human experience is pretty fucked. Up it's pretty. Flawed
there's a lot of wonderful things about, it but there's
also a lot of. Pain it's full of moments of.
(38:46):
Insecurity it's full of moments where you look ugly or
in whatever way that, means like, emotionally. Physically and that's
what you're gonna have to to your earlier, point, like
if you really want to be in a relationship with,
someone you have to be willing to be ugly in
front of, Them it's.
Speaker 3 (39:05):
True and if you and that's where the.
Speaker 4 (39:07):
Vulnerability if you can't be ugly and know, like, hey
this person isn't going to walk out on me in this,
moment they're not fucking worth. It, no or it's not
the right, relationship, right, right either? One? Right but, yeah
LIKE i know my partner has seen me at my.
Ugliest i've seen him in some pretty ugly. Moments.
Speaker 3 (39:30):
Yeah and if.
Speaker 4 (39:32):
It's if your relationship is predicated on everything going perfectly
and everyone's feeling their best and everyone being their most confident,
self like that is it is literally not going to.
LAST i don't even know what the overunder is like
five minutes to.
Speaker 3 (39:50):
A year to a.
Speaker 1 (39:51):
Year i'm with you on, that and think of how
like awesome it would be if you go on a
date guy, girl they them any anybody who sits down
in in front of you and says and it's just
just opens up or is just honest and is, like, well,
yeah you, KNOW i. HAVEN'T i haven't had sex in
six years Because i've just been sort Of i've been
(40:11):
a little too hard on. Myself i've felt like nervous
about going on. Dates And i'm, Interesting i'm immediately. Interesting
i'm an immediately, interesting especially if they go but you,
know But i'm Really i'm happy to be here with,
You Like i'm so excited that.
Speaker 3 (40:24):
We're here on my.
Speaker 1 (40:26):
Date because of course they would be be, honest like
if you're excited to be, arming it's exactly you know
What i'm gonna, do open up real, quick AND i
don't mean my legs but everything. Else but maybe, later
maybe like maybe, late maybe, later because in.
Speaker 4 (40:41):
A few days if you're saying, that it's actually it's
like going back to this full circle confidence, thing like
like even if you don't know that you're confident in
saying that that is an act of. Confidence, yeah to
be able to admit, that to be that, Vulnerable yeah freaking.
Speaker 1 (40:57):
Matters that is you being confident with Going i'm owning
my weaknesses because we all have, them like we we
just we all. Do and it makes you puts you
in a position where that person feels that those, things
the certain things that they feel about themselves that they
may not want to show to the public or show to.
(41:17):
People i'll bet you they're going to be, LIKE i
feel comfortable showing showing them to.
Speaker 4 (41:22):
You and you're because you have now open up to,
me and.
Speaker 3 (41:24):
Now you know what that that now we're on a
special bond.
Speaker 1 (41:27):
Here we're getting we're getting to the real, juice which
if you want a, relationship that's all that. Matters like
AND i know that you guys have heard me being
Like i'm going on dates and do you have enough?
Speaker 3 (41:36):
Sex and let's talk about conn like we'll talk about
it all.
Speaker 1 (41:39):
Here but LIKE i am initially always Like i'm looking
for a relationship that, matters not just to juice it with,
someone although that may seem what it comes across.
Speaker 3 (41:49):
As this, podcast but that's it's not.
Speaker 1 (41:52):
True LIKE i have to go on multiple dates with
you for me to even probably be sexually attracted.
Speaker 3 (41:57):
To, You, like you have to be vulnerable and and
we have to open. Up we had.
Speaker 4 (42:02):
And willing to get a seasoned past To. Disneyland, yeah
she's right about. That like, also by the, way it
is kind of by, design, guys this. Question what fucking
person is writing in and Saying i'm having sex all
the fucking? Time, Right, like let's think about that for a.
Second you totally someone who's so completely out of, touch,
(42:27):
Right they're just like having, it like they're just fucking with.
Speaker 1 (42:29):
Us even my friend who Is, polly he is not
having sex all the.
Speaker 3 (42:34):
Time, okay at all because he's. Tired it might be,
RIGHT i should ask.
Speaker 1 (42:39):
Him, NO i think it's because you, know he's He's
it's not like he's in like seven.
Speaker 3 (42:45):
RELATIONSHIPS i think he's in a couple. Relationships AND.
Speaker 1 (42:51):
I think it's just because sometimes they'll just hang out
and not choose, it you, know and like and so
even that when you look at someone who's in an open, relationship,
ye and he is not one but two people to pull.
From he's not even juice in it all the time
because that other person's.
Speaker 3 (43:06):
Tired he might be. Tired it's not the side money.
Speaker 4 (43:09):
Reasons to not have sex AND i and this is
a fucking disservice THAT tv and film and media, do
is LIKE i mean just right, away and we all
know my whole soapbox about uti, s but like right
away when you see the fucking scene where it's like
they meet and then like five minutes later they're fucking
juice in it in the back and the bathroom and
(43:31):
it's like, no, no, no like is she paying after right?
Away like you can't just stick it in, There like
there needs to be some lubrication that number one. Too
like this, idea you, know this idea that like people
are like having sex like, NonStop like every part of the.
Month like that's not happening. Right there are times where
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like physically there are limitations or people are, exhausted people are,
sad people are, stressed.
Speaker 3 (44:00):
Pressed they can't do they don't feel.
Speaker 4 (44:02):
It, no, no someone's hormonally, off somebody just went through some.
Grief like there's so many situations and this idea that
like the rest of the world is having all the
sex And i'm not like that's a problem that we
need to Address.
Speaker 1 (44:18):
I'm with you and or that the only healthy relationships
out there are juicing it five times a, week give
me a freaking, break Like i'm not gonna get into
a relationship.
Speaker 3 (44:27):
And be Like i'm gonna have sex every? Day are you?
KIDDING i have shit to. Do we love, you or
The Rage.
Speaker 4 (44:36):
Pod, yeah And Keith hanson and just always remember bring a.
Speaker 3 (44:41):
Backup yes, suggested that's.
Speaker 5 (44:44):
Right if you're still, there, well thank, you thanks for,
listening and we hope you'll like follow and subscribe To
The Rage Pod wherever you, like follow and subscribe to
things
I can't wait to dive into this one because Erica.
Speaker 2 (00:18):
It's sexy, it is it's sorry, it's sexy, it's cheating,
it's giving adultery, which apparently some girl in love ie
in Australia didn't know what that word meant.
Speaker 3 (00:29):
We'll move on what he was She went, what is
Adultrey went, Oh, God, help her.
Speaker 4 (00:34):
You know it feels a little stuffy, just to give
her a little bit of a waiting room.
Speaker 1 (00:39):
Oh wow, your life's so fucking perfect. Nobody's ever cheated
on you.
Speaker 4 (00:42):
Oh, just like she's not coming in contact with that
kind of those words because no one's ever cheated on her.
I just thought it was like a lexicon thing, like
she just didn't have it in her vocap.
Speaker 1 (00:54):
I think it's that, but also it's giving Come on, honey,
and why someone cheat on you? Exactly like, uh, okay,
I get it.
Speaker 4 (01:04):
This reminds me of I heard a story about Margot
Robbie that this was like right after Wolf of Wall
Street and she was like talking to another actor and
she had just like signed with CIA. Yeah, and they
weren't signed with CIA, And I think they were very
much like a supporting actor in the movie Okay, she
was like, why weren't you sign a CIA, Like as
(01:24):
if like just everyone has the opportunity to sign with
the number one talent agency. Like that's what it makes
me think of. You're like, fuck off, you're Margot Robbie.
Speaker 3 (01:32):
It just doesn't know any doesn't know any different. No,
she doesn't know.
Speaker 4 (01:35):
She's just like she was like twenty, like twenty weeks
old when she said that.
Speaker 1 (01:40):
Totally she knows nothing. Well, this is this is the
rage pod. We just drop it. We gotta get to it.
We gotta get to it.
Speaker 3 (01:47):
Got to get right into the sex.
Speaker 1 (01:49):
Yeah, we're what we got to remind We rage against
the serene and all the.
Speaker 3 (01:53):
Things in between. That's right, including sucks, including sex.
Speaker 4 (01:58):
I'm here with the Tara Erickson and I'm here with you, var.
Speaker 3 (02:03):
I don't know how this works. Yeah, you were looking
at the ground and really.
Speaker 4 (02:07):
Focused because I was almost going to say my name,
but I never say my name. I want to say
her name, and she says my name, So that's why
I was like, I'm and then.
Speaker 3 (02:15):
Got to stick to the format we do Otherwise.
Speaker 4 (02:17):
People get upset, we get upset. Frendy Wendy will quit
the show.
Speaker 3 (02:21):
She will right out on us.
Speaker 4 (02:24):
All right, So should we get into these sexy comments.
Speaker 1 (02:28):
Yeah, we got it because we gave If you guys
don't know, we on Instagram, we posted about threesomes and
we wanted to know threesome etiquette, and you guys left
a lot.
Speaker 3 (02:37):
Of comments and you did.
Speaker 4 (02:38):
And the funny thing is, is just real quick for context,
we'll probably get edited out. But we didn't even mean
to talk about threesomes. It was just an announ randomly.
Speaker 3 (02:47):
Came up exactly.
Speaker 4 (02:48):
We slipped and fell right into a threesome. That's what happened.
Speaker 1 (02:53):
I hope that one day that that is a true
thing that happens in life to me.
Speaker 3 (02:58):
I don't know. I just stripped fell right into it.
Speaker 4 (03:01):
Okay, so Himan, anyway, go ahead, all right, So here's
a clip we're talking about, and then we'll go into
your comments right after.
Speaker 5 (03:08):
If any of our listeners out there have been in
a threesome and they do know how to maneuver that,
let us know.
Speaker 4 (03:15):
And has someone been left has someone been left out?
And like, have you seen that they've been left out?
And you've had to be like, okay, we've got to
stop what you're doing.
Speaker 2 (03:24):
Right now.
Speaker 3 (03:25):
Yes, and we need to do some docy dough you
know what I mean, absolutely have to know. Please leave
us a comment or call.
Speaker 4 (03:32):
Us, because now I'm just yeah, we really want to know.
Speaker 3 (03:35):
We want to know how it goes.
Speaker 4 (03:37):
And is there like a like is there a run
of show?
Speaker 3 (03:41):
You know what?
Speaker 4 (03:41):
On this podcast? We strive for fine.
Speaker 3 (03:44):
Yeah, we really do. We strive for fine.
Speaker 1 (03:46):
Honestly that leads to your life happiness. Oh my god,
Fine is great.
Speaker 3 (03:50):
Fine is great. Fine is fan fucking tastic. I'm with you.
Speaker 1 (03:53):
Yeah, Like uh Noel Conn says, uh, I stopped caring
about a month.
Speaker 3 (03:57):
Ago, and since then it's been smooth sailing. And I'm like,
he's got.
Speaker 4 (04:02):
Yeah, yeah, he's doing more than fine. But that's okay.
We're gonna do just fine.
Speaker 3 (04:07):
We're gonna do just fine. All right, So let's get
into this.
Speaker 1 (04:09):
Jay Baker ninety one says there's a British TV show
called Open House, which is all about couples opening up to.
Speaker 3 (04:16):
Threesomes and swapping.
Speaker 1 (04:18):
There are definitely some awkward moments or someone is a
spare wheel, and it's normally the male partner who pushed
for the whole thing.
Speaker 3 (04:25):
Doesn't surprise me.
Speaker 4 (04:26):
Okay, I'm so glad that Jay Baker said there were
awkward moments, because that's really where my head is going.
I just decided if I was gonna be in a threesome,
and I knew i'd probably I don't know how involved
I was gonna be, Like, am I the lead or
am I supporting? I would bring something to do and
(04:50):
the in between times.
Speaker 3 (04:51):
God, you are sitting in the corner reading Harry Potter,
aren't you.
Speaker 4 (04:54):
Well, I don't know if it's Harry Potter. Oh God,
I say, we can't be reading Harry Potter right now.
Speaker 1 (04:59):
I know it's three sometimes, but I just don't anything,
you know, I.
Speaker 3 (05:02):
Mean, I mean, it's not it's not good to be
reading Harry right right sitting in the corner reading Lord
Lord of the Ring.
Speaker 4 (05:08):
Yeah, I'm I'm I'm reading I don't know, like fucking
David Cross's bio. That's just what I'm reading right now.
But or something, honestly, you know what i'd be doing.
I'd be doing pips. I'd be doing the new the
New New York Times puzzle, which is pips. I'm not
very good at it, and that would and so I
could really something that I would.
Speaker 3 (05:27):
Like, how long does that take you? Pips?
Speaker 4 (05:30):
Easy, medium are hard, Easy is pretty fast. Medium could
take like it could keep me occupied.
Speaker 1 (05:35):
So that's good enough for the three some? Think medium
level pips. We can do the three some. You have
some stuff to.
Speaker 4 (05:41):
Do, because like, what else are you're just watching? You're
just exactly like you're like watching like a sporting event.
Speaker 3 (05:47):
Right, that's what I just thought.
Speaker 1 (05:49):
I remember when we talked about this, I was like,
I don't know someone, you're juicing somebody in my hand.
I guess you just got to fiddle somebody somewhere.
Speaker 3 (05:56):
I don't know.
Speaker 4 (05:57):
Okay, you're still involved. I could still I'll fiddle and
do pips.
Speaker 1 (06:02):
Wow, you're dedicated, you are?
Speaker 3 (06:07):
You love pips?
Speaker 4 (06:10):
I guess the idea is that, like you're getting really
turned on by watching them if you're not super involved. Sure,
but what but what if you're not turned on? Or
what if things start to get weird? That's the thing
he's saying, Things get.
Speaker 1 (06:25):
Awkwards, get weird because they're paying. Imagine it's your primary
part or your actual partner. You bring in a third
and now he's paying all this attention to.
Speaker 4 (06:34):
The not only that, what if you're a stranger does
it better?
Speaker 3 (06:39):
Exactly?
Speaker 4 (06:40):
What if the stranger makes him do things that he's
never done before with you, idiot?
Speaker 1 (06:45):
If he if he lets you even vibe that in
the moment that she's doing a better job, the divorce
papers better be ready to be signed.
Speaker 4 (06:53):
But I feel like we're giving this man a lot
of credit, a lot that he'd be able to incorporate
that level of nu once while ejaculating.
Speaker 3 (07:06):
All right, let's go to the next list.
Speaker 4 (07:07):
Comment it's one second, let's go here. It's a collage
of comments. All right, underscore, clout GPT underscore. I had
one in my early twenties, and they had to convince
me because I thought it was some horrible prank. Lol.
We went to the strip club beforehand where they planned
(07:28):
out asked. We went to a strip club beforehand where
they planned out asking me just like the mat guy said,
two of you are getting it on while the other
girl is being played with, which is what we just
talked about playing with the other girl, and then they switch,
rinse and repeat. Afterwards, we all laid up, watched TV
and vibed out. LOL.
Speaker 3 (07:49):
So his was a good experience. He loved it. Well,
it might be a girl. Right, Well, I can't tell.
Speaker 1 (07:57):
All I'm gonna say is that cloud GPT you got
to change your profile pick if you're a girl, because
that is a I'm.
Speaker 4 (08:03):
Looking at the Okay, that's but you know what the
key word in this comment was what twenties?
Speaker 1 (08:10):
Yeah, twenties young, you're figuring out.
Speaker 3 (08:13):
That it's fun.
Speaker 4 (08:15):
You have time to have a threesome, watch TV, and
vibe out like you had time to do all of
those things a lot in one day, let out any
other responsibilities.
Speaker 1 (08:28):
Only somebody in their twenties can do that. Yeah, that
kind of that kind of juice in all day.
Speaker 4 (08:32):
But I guess what's cool about this scenario is that
they all were on the same page. It seems like.
Speaker 1 (08:40):
Yeah, and also the girls liked each other, so they
knew that what they were going to get into y right,
that if he's juice in one, I'm doing more to you,
and then if he's juice in me, you're doing more
to Yeah. It's it's an actual threesome. They're s three
people and they're all some in it.
Speaker 3 (08:55):
They're all involved.
Speaker 4 (08:57):
They're all involved. I just love thinking about you in
the corner doing pips, me doing pips in the corner,
but also just like the real moments of like I
do not know what to do right now.
Speaker 3 (09:10):
I do not know what to do right now.
Speaker 1 (09:15):
If it's like he's full on juicer taking care of
the downstairs, they're also making out, I guess my hand
glide to cross her chest.
Speaker 4 (09:25):
Her chests are like like like the butt grab grabs
the butt. But like what if it's like she's not
doing anything and then you're like, I'm not doing anything or.
Speaker 3 (09:37):
She goes I'm she swaps your hand away.
Speaker 4 (09:40):
You want any meaning she's telling you what you're doing
is doing nothing for me, and.
Speaker 3 (09:47):
That's why you better have a backup, like Pips, I'm
with her on that. All right, let's get to the
next one. Chris, No Kingston Hawk threesomes are.
Speaker 1 (09:58):
My special Oh wow, okay, multi your throubles in my life,
including my current relationship.
Speaker 3 (10:07):
There's a ton of etiquette in psychology.
Speaker 1 (10:09):
You have to know to make a mess up to
not make a mess of things. The obvious one of
how and who to choose, But the last obvious is
performing in a way that satisfies both women and doesn't
create regret it either. It's ten times more difficult if
your partner loves you and isn't truly bi sexual.
Speaker 3 (10:29):
Yeah, and then it.
Speaker 1 (10:32):
Says, get your four play game right. You've got to
get familiar with toys. Relying on your innate ability is
fine until it's not and you don't want to come
up short.
Speaker 3 (10:43):
On the wrong day. He has to figure it out.
He does.
Speaker 4 (10:48):
He use words like psychology and toys and toys.
Speaker 3 (10:53):
He said, get familiar, used etiquette. He is the word etiquette.
I like that. It's like he's He's like, we got
to pay attention.
Speaker 4 (11:01):
There's a there's there's it's delicate.
Speaker 3 (11:03):
That's right.
Speaker 4 (11:04):
This like there were meetings, there were was strategy shut down,
there was planning.
Speaker 3 (11:10):
They blueprinted out. There was a blueprint.
Speaker 4 (11:12):
Yeah, there was maybe even some nowadays some chat GPT totally.
Speaker 3 (11:16):
How do we how do we do this?
Speaker 1 (11:18):
At what time do I bring in the toys? Is
that five to ten minutes in? Is that twenty minutes?
Depending on how quick one goes one doesn't. Who takes
more work?
Speaker 4 (11:29):
I get it.
Speaker 3 (11:30):
The toys.
Speaker 4 (11:31):
If this was a sport, the toys are your equipment.
You better know how to use it. Yeah, you need
to go to practice, You need to go to rehearsal Right,
you know you're right. But you know, one thing that
this brings up for me is I wonder like if
bisexual people think that non bisexual people just truly haven't
(11:52):
opened up their sexuality yet, that if they think like
kind of everyone could have right that connection to sex
and the way that they do, but they just that
we're all like, if you're not bisexual, you're.
Speaker 3 (12:07):
Repressed, correct, And I think that that is very untrue. Yeah,
I think you.
Speaker 1 (12:12):
You either want to kiss a girl and juice with
the girl if you're a girl, or.
Speaker 3 (12:16):
You you don't.
Speaker 1 (12:16):
And if you don't then and you're just solely you're
you're getting the pussy flutters from a guy.
Speaker 3 (12:22):
Then that dad tells you everything.
Speaker 4 (12:24):
But you're you're saying like you think that like you're
either bisexual, like you you're like, oh, I get off
on both or I don't. But it doesn't mean that
if I don't, it doesn't have.
Speaker 3 (12:37):
That pleased repressed.
Speaker 1 (12:38):
If I don't, just because some person may not have
explored that, it just means, yeah, you're not interested, just
like if you're not freaking interested in eating a salad, it's.
Speaker 4 (12:49):
Just got like different ice cream flavors.
Speaker 1 (12:51):
Yeah, I mean, if you're not, if it's not getting
the fanny flutters, you got to skip right. Otherwise, what's
the point.
Speaker 4 (12:59):
I wonder, I wonder, I wonder what they think. Let
us know if you're bisexual.
Speaker 3 (13:04):
Let us know.
Speaker 4 (13:04):
If we're jumping to conclusions here. We probably are.
Speaker 1 (13:07):
We probably we usually do we we do we were
We jump quick, we do jump quick. Okay, But I
do have to say, do you see the pussy Ferguson
in replying to what I just read?
Speaker 3 (13:20):
Yes, he said, dude, I had. I had one once
and it went horribly two thousand and nine, never again.
I just had to read that because I know, hious, God,
I love pussy Ferguson. For me, I love that. God
bless all right God, because like I'm sure there's a
lot of bad ones.
Speaker 1 (13:35):
That's what I am saying, where they're like, never again,
they remember the.
Speaker 4 (13:40):
Year Yeah, yeah, that means you know, and they probably
didn't have pips.
Speaker 3 (13:45):
They did not have pips.
Speaker 4 (13:47):
Okay, let's go to the next one.
Speaker 3 (13:51):
All right.
Speaker 4 (13:52):
Oh my gosh, I do love this handle name. Yeah,
the name is Beanie Stylist. I love it too, And
I'm not looking at pro file, So I don't know
what preferred pronouns are, so I'm just gonna go off
of handles. Yeah, I will say my threesome fun was
a positive experience. I was not married at the time
of threesomes, though all of my group activities were when
(14:14):
I was single. So I was the third This is
what we want to know, this is what we came
here for.
Speaker 3 (14:20):
I was the third wheel to the couples.
Speaker 4 (14:22):
Sometimes it was nice to just have a pretty friend
to play with solo, which was never an issue.
Speaker 3 (14:27):
I feel like we were all very.
Speaker 4 (14:28):
Transparent in what we wanted out of it, as well
as setting boundaries shout out to the boundary song there
we Go. Feel free to pipe that in a post,
as well as setting boundaries of where everyone stayed in
their lane. I felt like it was important for my
girlfriend to know nothing would ever happen without her being present.
Speaker 3 (14:48):
Oh I love that. Well, this is what's.
Speaker 4 (14:52):
Interesting about this, Okay tell me because again it's like
being honest, setting rules, setting boundaries, being transparent, And I
mean I know people that are in open relationships and
that seems to be a big thing, Like, yeah, you
have to set rules and you have to adhere to them. Yeah,
And on that note, there's somebody in the news that
(15:13):
did not.
Speaker 1 (15:16):
That's a that's you are absolutely that is a good segue.
I mean more comments, but you are right.
Speaker 4 (15:23):
And stranger things have been happening.
Speaker 3 (15:26):
Oh this is good. But ump bump, but chit chit
chit chit chit chit cha. Yep. Oh yeah, he went
he went there and not in a good way.
Speaker 4 (15:35):
Kind of knew that they were married. I kind of knew,
like I think I knew it one time and then.
Speaker 3 (15:39):
I forgot for like years. Yeah.
Speaker 4 (15:41):
So Lily Allen and David Harber, obviously it's like just
bombarding people's socials because they broke up.
Speaker 1 (15:49):
They got a divorce yep, and got married in Vegas
in twenty twenty. They've only been together four years.
Speaker 3 (15:55):
And they met on Riah. Yes, they met on Riah.
Speaker 1 (15:57):
Yes.
Speaker 4 (15:58):
And my understanding, which is I learned from you two,
is that they were in an open relationship, but they
had rules that you couldn't hook up with someone that
they knew, right, it had to be a stranger. It
had to be a stranger. And then there may or
may not have always been money exchange, which is like
(16:19):
very very specific, very specific, and I guess the transactional
element that keeps it emotionally detached. But right, like what
if the other person didn't want money or like they
didn't have money on them, Like I guess that you
have to plan. This gets back to you have you've
got a plan.
Speaker 3 (16:34):
David Harber is always gonna have money on.
Speaker 4 (16:36):
You to do both of them, both of them.
Speaker 3 (16:39):
That's true. Both of them are true. That's troublishing baby.
Speaker 1 (16:42):
Yeah yeah, yeah, you know right, I mean literally probably
did too. But like in the song when she said
it had to be a stranger and there had to
be payment, I was like, oh, that's interesting.
Speaker 3 (16:53):
So it had to be a sex worker.
Speaker 1 (16:56):
Or maybe it was and or maybe it was like
or had to be a stranger and they're like, no,
you knowing, you're good, you're a stranger. We met up
one night on bumble and now by.
Speaker 4 (17:10):
I want to know how many open relationships have that
rule in place of like there needs to be like
whereas oh, yeah, because that was something I had never
heard before, right where it was like actually integrated into
the guard to so then he ended up having sex
with someone that they both knew.
Speaker 2 (17:32):
Magdalene Magdeleine Who the fuck is Magdalene?
Speaker 4 (17:36):
What she says in the song yeah, and who made Madeleine?
Speaker 3 (17:40):
Actually is what she says and in her.
Speaker 1 (17:42):
Amazing fuck Magdalene actually actually it's it's great her name obviously,
the woman's name is not Madeleine.
Speaker 3 (17:50):
But she was not a stranger.
Speaker 1 (17:52):
And apparently they were doing way more than just uic
in it. They were playing tennis, which.
Speaker 4 (17:58):
Is why there's that song tennis Tennis. They play tennis, so.
Speaker 3 (18:02):
You know how intimate it into mob they were playing.
Speaker 4 (18:06):
It's animalistic everyone, that's what you're you're listed.
Speaker 3 (18:10):
This is there for play. Ah.
Speaker 1 (18:14):
Yeah, and then they're like juice in it in the
freaking locker room.
Speaker 4 (18:17):
I bet they're doing a lot of they're doing a
lot of Alley's. They're doing they're doing a lot of volleys.
Speaker 3 (18:24):
Volley's get intense. It's short, it's at the net. It's
sort of like ping pong.
Speaker 1 (18:27):
See see they get all juiced up. They can't even
keep it for a long time. They can't even play
fool game.
Speaker 4 (18:32):
I say, okay, now, I have so many questions. I
wonder if she was really good at tennis. And that
turned them on like even more, and that made him
start to like have feelings for her. I don't know
did he have feelings for do we know this? I'm
lyrics right.
Speaker 1 (18:44):
We are solely going off of the song and like
one song she she says like, did you I have
a feeling you fell in love with someone who is
at me?
Speaker 3 (18:52):
Did you do that right?
Speaker 4 (18:53):
Remember?
Speaker 1 (18:54):
And that's great? But then also the girl in one
song she talks it out where the girl replies to
her and goes like, yes, I remember her, Like I'm
just saying it's exactly what he said, and there's no
emotional attachment and like it has been Soli saxon, I
just don't want there to be any her feelings and
you could contact me anytime, Love and light Madaline And
(19:15):
that sounds like a script that he probably gave her,
and she sings about that. She goes, I can't trust
a word that comes out of his mouth and or hers,
And that that's the part that pisses me off because
it's gone so far as to her sing a song
about pussy Palace and she finds dildo's in a thousand tros.
Speaker 4 (19:35):
You guys know, the the next line was dojo. She
thought it was a dough She.
Speaker 3 (19:41):
Thought it was a dojo, and then we started discussing.
Speaker 4 (19:44):
And then I'm like, oh, yeah he does karate or
martial arts.
Speaker 3 (19:48):
Ah yeah.
Speaker 4 (19:49):
But because she says I don't trust a word, right,
this makes me think like, was this the only time
he violated the rules? No, the only person he did
that with? Or was there others?
Speaker 1 (20:03):
Right? I'm sure there were others, because in the song
it sounded like it was such a surprise to her
how many toys she found, like a butt plug and
a dildo and a thousand trojans and what are these
these other like clothing, like weird items that she's seeing
that like, he doesn't bring those to her. That never
happens to her. And I think the biggest line that
(20:25):
like really hit me mm hmm is that she just said,
I would love to be your whore. It would be
my honor if you would do that with me. She's
saying those words meaning she is not a wife who's
like no, no, no, we can't, we.
Speaker 4 (20:41):
Can't like we did Missionary twice twice a year.
Speaker 1 (20:44):
She's not that, but he he you know. And it
really opened it up when she's like, am I looking
at a sex at it? And she says am I
looking at a sex at it multiple times and I
just go, oh, probably do we.
Speaker 4 (20:56):
Think that people And this is again a question for
for audience or new audience members. Yeah, do people that
like get really into toys and then you know, sort
of dive in like hardcore and have like just a
pleth run and it's like right chasing the next new
like the bigger toy, and then maybe.
Speaker 3 (21:15):
You can't get off on just the regular regular.
Speaker 4 (21:18):
Point an inflection point. Is there a saturation point where
you're like, I'm done with toys.
Speaker 1 (21:23):
We've bought all the toys, and now the toys don't work,
Like I just wonder if you if you ever like
you oversaturating? Yeah, yeah, I bet probably because it's sort
of the same thing with with like porn addiction, right,
and then they can't like really juce it with their
wife because they're they have to literally think about porn
porn because they're just so in their like head, it's
(21:44):
just dialed in that way. They have to leave it
in order for them to be able to have their
phone showing porn next to their.
Speaker 3 (21:51):
Wife's their wife.
Speaker 1 (21:53):
But even then they're like, I think they prefer their
hand because they're just so used.
Speaker 3 (21:58):
To the way they're doing And I think that.
Speaker 4 (22:01):
The toy stuff, right is I'm sorry, go ahead, no, no,
I say, is this? I mean some of sexual stuff
for people to get off is the surprise is the
new thing. So that's also interesting to me.
Speaker 1 (22:14):
Yeah, And I think because porn has so many new
things that you can type in a thing and just go,
this is exactly what I want and it can be
the weirdest thing in the world that they like, I
feel like men and women. I'm not saying it's just
all men feel like, Oh, in real life, I can't
get this because it's the same thing that Lily Allen
(22:36):
is saying in her album.
Speaker 3 (22:37):
She's like, you didn't you didn't talk to me about this,
you didn't ask me to do this.
Speaker 1 (22:42):
I would have done this, Like why aren't you begging
for me to be the one to do all of this?
Speaker 4 (22:48):
Well, he obviously had a lot of shame around it,
That's what I'm hearing. Yeah, that's what I'm maybe not
but that's that's what I am inferring.
Speaker 3 (22:57):
Yeah. Yeah, and also maybe.
Speaker 4 (23:00):
There was other things in their relationship, right, I mean,
I'm not gonna lie like I'm super bummed about this. Yeah,
because I loved a Violent Night. I'm super bummed because
I love Stranger.
Speaker 1 (23:16):
Stranger literally obsessed, and Eleven and him were my favorite.
Speaker 4 (23:20):
Yeah, my god, I thought you were just gonna start
naming off cast members.
Speaker 3 (23:25):
Oh got or character names and.
Speaker 4 (23:27):
Eleven and non Rioter's character's name and his relationship, I'm sorry,
are the best seventeen years since the last Stranger thing,
so I don't remember anyone's name.
Speaker 3 (23:38):
But but yeah.
Speaker 4 (23:39):
No, he he has a lot of likability on screen.
Speaker 3 (23:43):
Well, yeah, he does not as much anymore. I loved
Violent Knight too. It was it was fricking great.
Speaker 1 (23:48):
But I will tell you the second I listened to
this album and just her laying it all bear and she.
Speaker 3 (23:56):
Doesn't give up fuck what she says. No, she is like,
I'm a west girl. Now, you like, oh, here's one thing.
Speaker 1 (24:02):
I'll tell you this because you know how we're both actors, right,
And in that one line a west End Girl, which
is now her most popular song, she's like, yeah, you called,
and I said, hey, I actually have good news.
Speaker 3 (24:13):
I got the lead in a play.
Speaker 1 (24:14):
And he goes, I know, well, you'll probably have to audition,
and then She's like, I thought that was weird.
Speaker 3 (24:21):
She's like, I thought, why would you say that? I
thought that was weird? Why wouldn't you She.
Speaker 1 (24:25):
Doesn't say, why wouldn't you be like happy for me?
Speaker 3 (24:27):
But we both know in industry that like.
Speaker 4 (24:31):
Oh, oh no, that's a fucked up thing to say.
Why I am laughing? So why it's because I like
kind of quickly listened to that song. Yeah, and then
that part I thought it was reverse, Oh he got
the part no, And then she was saying.
Speaker 1 (24:49):
No, it was him being a jealous fuck and not
being supportive of course, and also fucking juice and some
girl on the side not screwing his wife, and on
top of it going well, I think you'll have to audition.
Speaker 3 (25:03):
Yeah, we don't know if you're good enough.
Speaker 1 (25:05):
Ewoo.
Speaker 3 (25:06):
No, But I just I love that this makes so
much more sense.
Speaker 1 (25:10):
I'm really I'm glad that you're on the same PIP
page now, I makes.
Speaker 3 (25:16):
So Yeah, right, we've got you. She telling him that
he has to audition, right, No, he does.
Speaker 1 (25:23):
My god, he's David harber Well made me know. Yeah,
he's he's Wow. I mean, I just I can't the
cheating and adult and adultery. We know that it happens everywhere, always,
all of the time, but in such a short span
from twenty twenty to twenty twenty four, and how she
explains how quickly it moved that it was just like, oh,
(25:44):
if you want this brown Stone, I'll get it for you.
This is for us, And she's like, it made me
feel uncomfortable.
Speaker 3 (25:48):
Everything was moving.
Speaker 1 (25:49):
Really fast, and then all of a sudden, you know
that phone call where.
Speaker 3 (25:52):
She's like, Okay, it makes me sad. I don't I
get want phone call.
Speaker 1 (25:56):
That's him going I want an open relationship. I'm gonna
be over here, right, we can juice it with other people.
And I'm just like, oh.
Speaker 4 (26:03):
And that's what she says, like, I don't know how
it's gonna work, Like how does this work?
Speaker 3 (26:07):
How does it work?
Speaker 4 (26:08):
And I think too right, we all know with most
of the time with cheating situations, Yeah, it's.
Speaker 3 (26:12):
The lie that really kills you.
Speaker 4 (26:14):
It's the fact that you're like, I could be around
this person over and over again, yep, and they just
kept lying to me and they had no problem lying
to me, right, you know, And obviously they would say no,
we did.
Speaker 3 (26:23):
I did have a problem.
Speaker 4 (26:24):
It was I was, you know, torn up inside, not
enough to stop lying to me, thank you, you know.
Speaker 1 (26:31):
And see that's where the openness gets in, where it
gets a litt muddy, because they're like, well, we talked
about it.
Speaker 3 (26:36):
It's open.
Speaker 1 (26:36):
He can do what he what he wants, right, But
it sounded like it got so far obviously with Madeline.
Madeline's not a stranger, but I isn't it crazy? You've
been in a very long term relationship, very long. He
lasted how long? Probably what two years? And then he
starts juicing Madeline. I'm like, you were only married for
(26:56):
four years.
Speaker 4 (26:58):
You guys were together for five minutes for five and
then he was loved bombing the fuck out of her
with all of these things that he was doing, like
back Groundstone, you're celerating everything everything, which yeah, I'm sure
that like, and then in retrospect it's like, oh my god,
not only were you lying to me, but you were
like pouring gasoline onto the fire by like you weren't
(27:19):
just like slowing shit down with me.
Speaker 3 (27:22):
So that's you don't give a fuck.
Speaker 4 (27:24):
Yeah, that's a big mind fuck for her. I agree,
big mind fuck for her.
Speaker 1 (27:27):
It's and you know, it's sad in the one song
where she's like, why wouldn't you why wouldn't you beg
for me? And I'm like, yeah, dude, that sus because
you know you're married, you would you would hope that.
He's like, no, please, like don't leave, Like this is
my problem.
Speaker 3 (27:40):
Let me confess. I'm a sex attic. This is what
I want. He's scared, he was. He's probably scared.
Speaker 4 (27:45):
He was scared to like to show that part of
himself to her, and maybe it was a lot easier
to do that with strangers.
Speaker 1 (27:51):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (27:52):
Probably.
Speaker 1 (27:52):
I'm just glad that she she wrote the song like
I'm not gonna let you win.
Speaker 3 (27:55):
I'm not going to carry all this. I'm not going
to carry your shame. I'm not going to.
Speaker 1 (27:58):
Carry your secrets. I am not could lie to our children.
I'll blow you up in this album. I don't know
how older kids are. I think they're teenagers.
Speaker 4 (28:06):
They don't have kids together. It's her kids from.
Speaker 1 (28:07):
A problem, her kids. Yeah, she's like, which they still
called like it because the kids knew right kind of
in her album, like, she's not gonna lie to her kids.
Speaker 3 (28:15):
How old are they? Apparently they're they're teenagers.
Speaker 1 (28:18):
Somewhere in there, so they they're fully aware of what's
going on.
Speaker 3 (28:21):
And I like that. She's like, I'm not gonna lie.
Speaker 1 (28:23):
I'm leaving this with my dignity and pride intact, and
guess what you're not.
Speaker 4 (28:30):
Well. It's also about being honest to your kids, like
so they don't look at what you're doing and say, oh,
I need to hide.
Speaker 3 (28:37):
I need to hide that's going on. I need to
hide the shame.
Speaker 4 (28:40):
I need to hide that things aren't going well, or that,
you know, I need to strive for this perfect life,
because that's just fucking bullshit.
Speaker 3 (28:49):
So it's like, be embarrassed, be be ashamed.
Speaker 1 (28:53):
We all are, We've all been there, and it's it's
amazing to just see you know that. Obviously, David Harbor
was the one that's bringing in all the money the fame,
initially with with Lily in the beginning of their relationship
and now but overnight with this albums.
Speaker 4 (29:07):
Because she hadn't made an album a long time.
Speaker 1 (29:09):
Correct, it's been a minute, so she was like kind
of a girl that was like, I used to be
quite famous, but now she's like Dan Harber's wife kind
of a vibe right right, and now I'm like, yeah,
lay lay it all, bear it all, and now your
net worth is doubled.
Speaker 3 (29:22):
Oh my god. It's like I can't.
Speaker 4 (29:24):
I'm just if he can go two degrees to the
left and running into a post about Lily Allen yes
and her music God bless it, which, yeah, I've always
liked her music.
Speaker 3 (29:32):
Right is great? This is this is fun. This is
a win. I agree? Is it fun?
Speaker 1 (29:37):
Like I feel like the world now is like if
you mentioned Lily Allen, they're like, let's gossip. Yeah, like
like let's oh, I want to know what you think.
Speaker 3 (29:47):
Let's gossip. Oh my god.
Speaker 4 (29:48):
David Harber's sex toys and Lily Allen's openness to sing
about it is bringing the world.
Speaker 3 (29:54):
Together, just like cold Play's affair. Oh yeah, oh yeah yeah.
Speaker 1 (30:00):
I guess it's sad to say, but affairs bring the
world together.
Speaker 3 (30:04):
Well, I think that was great.
Speaker 1 (30:05):
Why don't we Why don't we go to this comment
and then we'll tell him about our We have some
more sex stuff that we covered in Palm Springs were
sex re curision with sex because we love it, oozing
and cruising. Okay, so our last comment, it's great. Persephone
Personified said I had a threeesome with one of my
(30:25):
best friends and my ex husband. We left him out,
hence why he is now my ex husband and I
am now extremely quite very gay. Oh and she and
I are still good friends, not sex friends, just b fs.
Speaker 4 (30:43):
Oh my god, I love that for her. I love
that she said extremely quite very gay in case you
were wondering.
Speaker 3 (30:52):
In case you were wondering, do I double down on it? Yes,
I do. Good for you, girl.
Speaker 1 (30:57):
I love that because maybe that is that is the
argument of like, momf you haven't tried it.
Speaker 4 (31:03):
You never know you could tell you something that you
don't know about yourself exactly.
Speaker 3 (31:12):
Well, guess what.
Speaker 4 (31:13):
We kind of need to hear from the ex husband
because he was left out and it's only what we
want to know.
Speaker 3 (31:20):
Can can persephone?
Speaker 1 (31:21):
Can you reach out and let us know because you're
still friends with him you said?
Speaker 3 (31:26):
Or no, you said, you're still friends with their friends
with you with your ex husband.
Speaker 1 (31:30):
But can you just skip into let us let us
know what he said, Tell him to reach out to us,
just message him on Instagram, just.
Speaker 4 (31:37):
Yeah, and and then be like, hey, I'm not telling
you that we're you know, talking again. Yeah, we still
fucking hate each other but can you just DM the
rage pod and let them know what it felt like
to be left out of our threesome that was fifty
decades ago.
Speaker 1 (31:54):
You're gonna have to come in here, anonymous, bro, because
right now what he's thinking is the some that I
was involved with from two girls my it turned my
wife gay.
Speaker 3 (32:05):
That's why I was at it. That's how he's gonna
look at it.
Speaker 4 (32:09):
And I never I never got tagged in. I never
got tagged in. I never got tagged in.
Speaker 1 (32:15):
Never one.
Speaker 3 (32:16):
I don't forgot I was there.
Speaker 4 (32:17):
I was told I was going to come in at
the very least in the fourth quarter to do all
the clean up. This is a football reference. And never
once And guess what he didn't have? What pips he
didn't he didn't have.
Speaker 1 (32:31):
He didn't got prepared because he thought he wasn't have needed.
Speaker 4 (32:35):
He didn't have any of the n y T slate
of game options. He's just a spelling b Can Graham
crossword pips.
Speaker 3 (32:47):
And he had so.
Speaker 1 (32:47):
Many wait for his name to be called, like you're
at the waiting room and you just can't wait, like
call my name.
Speaker 4 (32:54):
And we don't know if like podcasts were really a
thing back then hopefully these are these are all things
that I think are viable options to do. I agree
if you if you're left out of a threesome, that's
what I'm thinking.
Speaker 1 (33:07):
I think, so I feel like you got to prep
for that you do. And we gave them a lot
of options, which I like about us because we come
here and we give you, we give you information.
Speaker 3 (33:17):
Really, you're welcome. We're basically the news.
Speaker 1 (33:19):
Yeah, so we got to tell them when we went
to Palm Springs, we talked more about uh sex, and
we talked more about sex. We got to sex comments,
and then we we opened up about it.
Speaker 4 (33:30):
Yeah, so we when we were in Palm Springs, we
got so many responses to a post where we asked
are you having sex? And we thought it was so fascinating.
So we're going to cut to that episode where we
react and respond to those comments.
Speaker 1 (33:45):
Yeah, well, let us know in the comments real quick.
Speaker 3 (33:49):
We're going to get onto the next d M.
Speaker 1 (33:51):
If you are not having sex and think you would
like to have more, we want to know that was
all it was, and apparently we got we got a
bunch of comments, and we want to.
Speaker 4 (34:01):
Always make it clear, like we want to hear from everybody.
We want to hear from heterosexual couples. We want to
hear from homosexual.
Speaker 3 (34:10):
Queer people, queer people, try you want to.
Speaker 4 (34:12):
Hear from poly people. We want to hear from all
the people.
Speaker 1 (34:15):
Open people, close off, monogamy, nomination, asexual.
Speaker 4 (34:19):
We want to hear what, Like, what's the thing for
you that you want your relationships that you're not getting
If sex isn't a thing.
Speaker 3 (34:25):
I would love to hear about that.
Speaker 1 (34:27):
If there's anyone out there who is a sexual, if
you're like, well, what actually gives you? You know, I
don't know joy or like what do you need in
that relationship? If you are asexual, I would I would
like love to know what your top priorities are.
Speaker 3 (34:42):
Totally.
Speaker 4 (34:43):
I know, I just found out a couple that we know,
like they are married and they're both asexual.
Speaker 3 (34:49):
Wow, So it's like.
Speaker 4 (34:51):
That's so con I think they probably figured that out
before they got married.
Speaker 3 (34:55):
Totally.
Speaker 4 (34:56):
But then I know someone else is in an asexual relationship.
Speaker 1 (35:00):
Interesting because you know what now that I'm like, I'm
not I'm not juice and you know anybody haven't juiced
it in a minute that I just I care less
and less.
Speaker 3 (35:10):
The older I've gotten well and I don't libido change it.
Speaker 1 (35:14):
Oh yeah, yeah, I don't think it makes me asexual,
but I do care about it less and less.
Speaker 5 (35:20):
Like Yeah, I've got to say, you're in really good
company because a lot of the people that responded said
that they're not having sex. Oh, here are some of
the responses.
Speaker 3 (35:31):
Give it to us. Care Street Media.
Speaker 5 (35:33):
Said, I am not lol, and I don't think it's
a bad thing. When it happens, it happens. Life moves on,
and you have to as.
Speaker 4 (35:39):
Well centered what a center like way to look at things?
Speaker 5 (35:44):
Somehow, trigger said I am not. Unfortunately, I responded sorry,
and he wrote back, always thought some girls are too
cute for mel.
Speaker 4 (35:54):
Oh god, so this is this is what I said.
Speaker 5 (35:57):
I said, not true personality over looks any day. Women
love confidence. Just get out there and try true.
Speaker 4 (36:04):
So we just have to assume what they're saying is that, like, oh,
I don't look a certain way that would appealed it,
because like they didn't say that specifically, but we're gonna
we're gonna assume that of course. Oh my god, the
confidentality is like the sexiest thing ever.
Speaker 1 (36:22):
It's here and the other stuff is so much lower.
Here's the thing. You can see someone and go oh yeah,
which we've all listen. We go to a bar or
something and you see a really attractive person, whether it's
a guy or a girl. You're you're like, You're like,
you're so hot. I remember when Okay, yeah, I'll tell
(36:43):
the real truth about this doctor Nicole.
Speaker 3 (36:46):
When we met her at the rage room.
Speaker 1 (36:47):
She has those big, beautiful blue eyes and and she'll
look she looks straight at you when she's talking.
Speaker 3 (36:53):
She's so rare.
Speaker 1 (36:54):
She keeps great eyes. And I was like, and I
made a joke when we got back in the car.
I was like, did you guys see the way that
she like looks at you and she talks to you.
I was like, I don't know. I felt like I
felt something like that, but it wasn't. And it was like,
of course she's attractive, but she also has personality. Followed up,
I've met other people where I go they're attractive, You're
talking to him, and I'm like, this is a freaking
(37:14):
snooze fest. I can't wait to get out of this conversation.
I do not care how attractive you are. That you're six',
four maybe you're built really, well you got a beautiful.
Face none of it freaking matters because you are a dial.
Speaker 5 (37:28):
Tone kevin, says it's been six years SINCE i would
last with someone, sexually And i've just given up Until
i'm more confident in.
Speaker 3 (37:36):
Myself what did we tell?
Speaker 2 (37:37):
Him?
Speaker 5 (37:37):
Exactly and SO i wrote, back confidence is, Key fake
it till you make, it.
Speaker 4 (37:41):
Baby there can be a pressure to be confident owning your,
vulnerability of owning like some of the things here and
think you're about can actually lead you to a more confident.
Speaker 1 (37:52):
PLACE i am with you because you know what if
you are not, vulnerable if you cannot open up to
me about if about really just. Anything and it's not
like we have to get super like deep on a first.
Date but if you if you cannot be, vulnerable IF
i ask you a question and you can't open, up
(38:12):
then LIKE i can't contell you this because then you're
not actually, there like the true you is not sitting
in front of.
Speaker 3 (38:21):
Me if you can't open up about some real, shit
it's just more.
Speaker 4 (38:25):
Interesting if there's like layers to somebody agree like that
has a more like they have a more lived human,
Experience they have more to share and it's just like
your humans fall in love with, humans, Right, Yes and
the human experience is pretty fucked. Up it's pretty. Flawed
there's a lot of wonderful things about, it but there's
also a lot of. Pain it's full of moments of.
(38:46):
Insecurity it's full of moments where you look ugly or
in whatever way that, means like, emotionally. Physically and that's
what you're gonna have to to your earlier, point, like
if you really want to be in a relationship with,
someone you have to be willing to be ugly in
front of, Them it's.
Speaker 3 (39:05):
True and if you and that's where the.
Speaker 4 (39:07):
Vulnerability if you can't be ugly and know, like, hey
this person isn't going to walk out on me in this,
moment they're not fucking worth. It, no or it's not
the right, relationship, right, right either? One? Right but, yeah
LIKE i know my partner has seen me at my.
Ugliest i've seen him in some pretty ugly. Moments.
Speaker 3 (39:30):
Yeah and if.
Speaker 4 (39:32):
It's if your relationship is predicated on everything going perfectly
and everyone's feeling their best and everyone being their most confident,
self like that is it is literally not going to.
LAST i don't even know what the overunder is like
five minutes to.
Speaker 3 (39:50):
A year to a.
Speaker 1 (39:51):
Year i'm with you on, that and think of how
like awesome it would be if you go on a
date guy, girl they them any anybody who sits down
in in front of you and says and it's just
just opens up or is just honest and is, like, well,
yeah you, KNOW i. HAVEN'T i haven't had sex in
six years Because i've just been sort Of i've been
(40:11):
a little too hard on. Myself i've felt like nervous
about going on. Dates And i'm, Interesting i'm immediately. Interesting
i'm an immediately, interesting especially if they go but you,
know But i'm Really i'm happy to be here with,
You Like i'm so excited that.
Speaker 3 (40:24):
We're here on my.
Speaker 1 (40:26):
Date because of course they would be be, honest like
if you're excited to be, arming it's exactly you know
What i'm gonna, do open up real, quick AND i
don't mean my legs but everything. Else but maybe, later
maybe like maybe, late maybe, later because in.
Speaker 4 (40:41):
A few days if you're saying, that it's actually it's
like going back to this full circle confidence, thing like
like even if you don't know that you're confident in
saying that that is an act of. Confidence, yeah to
be able to admit, that to be that, Vulnerable yeah freaking.
Speaker 1 (40:57):
Matters that is you being confident with Going i'm owning
my weaknesses because we all have, them like we we
just we all. Do and it makes you puts you
in a position where that person feels that those, things
the certain things that they feel about themselves that they
may not want to show to the public or show to.
(41:17):
People i'll bet you they're going to be, LIKE i
feel comfortable showing showing them to.
Speaker 4 (41:22):
You and you're because you have now open up to,
me and.
Speaker 3 (41:24):
Now you know what that that now we're on a
special bond.
Speaker 1 (41:27):
Here we're getting we're getting to the real, juice which
if you want a, relationship that's all that. Matters like
AND i know that you guys have heard me being
Like i'm going on dates and do you have enough?
Speaker 3 (41:36):
Sex and let's talk about conn like we'll talk about
it all.
Speaker 1 (41:39):
Here but LIKE i am initially always Like i'm looking
for a relationship that, matters not just to juice it with,
someone although that may seem what it comes across.
Speaker 3 (41:49):
As this, podcast but that's it's not.
Speaker 1 (41:52):
True LIKE i have to go on multiple dates with
you for me to even probably be sexually attracted.
Speaker 3 (41:57):
To, You, like you have to be vulnerable and and
we have to open. Up we had.
Speaker 4 (42:02):
And willing to get a seasoned past To. Disneyland, yeah
she's right about. That like, also by the, way it
is kind of by, design, guys this. Question what fucking
person is writing in and Saying i'm having sex all
the fucking? Time, Right, like let's think about that for a.
Second you totally someone who's so completely out of, touch,
(42:27):
Right they're just like having, it like they're just fucking with.
Speaker 1 (42:29):
Us even my friend who Is, polly he is not
having sex all the.
Speaker 3 (42:34):
Time, okay at all because he's. Tired it might be,
RIGHT i should ask.
Speaker 1 (42:39):
Him, NO i think it's because you, know he's He's
it's not like he's in like seven.
Speaker 3 (42:45):
RELATIONSHIPS i think he's in a couple. Relationships AND.
Speaker 1 (42:51):
I think it's just because sometimes they'll just hang out
and not choose, it you, know and like and so
even that when you look at someone who's in an open, relationship,
ye and he is not one but two people to pull.
From he's not even juice in it all the time
because that other person's.
Speaker 3 (43:06):
Tired he might be. Tired it's not the side money.
Speaker 4 (43:09):
Reasons to not have sex AND i and this is
a fucking disservice THAT tv and film and media, do
is LIKE i mean just right, away and we all
know my whole soapbox about uti, s but like right
away when you see the fucking scene where it's like
they meet and then like five minutes later they're fucking
juice in it in the back and the bathroom and
(43:31):
it's like, no, no, no like is she paying after right?
Away like you can't just stick it in, There like
there needs to be some lubrication that number one. Too
like this, idea you, know this idea that like people
are like having sex like, NonStop like every part of the.
Month like that's not happening. Right there are times where
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like physically there are limitations or people are, exhausted people are,
sad people are, stressed.
Speaker 3 (44:00):
Pressed they can't do they don't feel.
Speaker 4 (44:02):
It, no, no someone's hormonally, off somebody just went through some.
Grief like there's so many situations and this idea that
like the rest of the world is having all the
sex And i'm not like that's a problem that we
need to Address.
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I'm with you and or that the only healthy relationships
out there are juicing it five times a, week give
me a freaking, break Like i'm not gonna get into
a relationship.
Speaker 3 (44:27):
And be Like i'm gonna have sex every? Day are you?
KIDDING i have shit to. Do we love, you or
The Rage.
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Backup yes, suggested that's.
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