Past Lives: Melancholy & Skype

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Toss Popcorn is a production of iHeartRadio.

Speaker 2 (00:11):
Hi, I'm Sietta.

Speaker 3 (00:12):
Jacob and I'm Leanna Holsten.

Speaker 2 (00:15):
And welcome to Toss Popcorn, the podcast where two idiots
watched every film on the AFI's one hundred Greatest American
Movies of All Time, the very slightly less racist tenth
Anniversary edition, and are now watching films of our own
and listeners, choosing or that have been in the zeitgeist,
and mainly that are directed by women. Even if we're

(00:36):
not feeling well.

Speaker 3 (00:40):
This podcast is a safe friendship for people who don't
know anything about movies. Today we're watching Past Lives and
Cream in a language that I can't understand, a film
neither of us had seen.

Speaker 2 (00:57):
Correct question Mark had been meaning to.

Speaker 3 (01:01):
You're right this morning there will be spoilers about this
recent film.

Speaker 2 (01:11):
Well, while I was getting I can say some things now,
which is while I was gathering my notes for this,
I started tearing.

Speaker 3 (01:21):
It's like, okay, all right, Sienna, can I please hear
your prediction for Past Lives?

Speaker 2 (01:28):
Yes, I have COVID nineteen.

Speaker 3 (01:33):
Yeah, okay here warning, Sienna has COVID nineteen.

Speaker 2 (01:37):
Hi, Leonna, this is Sienna. Yeah, I'm sick, but I'm
about to watch Past Lives. My guess about this movie
is it'll be what you thought. I think what you
thought the Holiday would be, where it kind of goes
through different points in time, maybe so quiet right now
or so loud. I have no idea I can really hear.

(02:00):
I could not hear that. Oh, I predict maybe it'll
be about a couple going through different phases, which I
think is already a movie with Anne Hathaway called like
One Day or some one Day anyway. Or maybe it'll
go through different like lives of people, like they have
the same soul reincarnation sort of thing. That'd be cool too.

(02:20):
I don't know. I predict someone's brother as a character.
I don't know why predict it. Okay, I love you, goodbye.
I had a strong sense that someone would be like,
and this is my brother.

Speaker 3 (02:34):
Is there a brother? There's not a brother in the film?
Is there not a brother to be? No brothers, no
brothers at all.

Speaker 2 (02:41):
I couldn't have been more wrong. Early.

Speaker 3 (02:44):
Hey, here's my prediction.

Speaker 2 (02:45):
I'd love to hear it.

Speaker 3 (02:47):
Hi, Sienna, it's Leanna. I am about to watch Past Lives.
I've never seen this before.

Speaker 2 (02:54):
I've been meaning to.

Speaker 3 (02:55):
So I'm excited. Question like, but I predict it will
be causing me to feel emotions.

Speaker 2 (03:06):
Let me die. Oh okay, that's all, okay, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,
for sure, forder for sure. Well, it might be causing
me to feel emotions, which.

Speaker 3 (03:17):
I might be prompted to feel emotions as a result
of this, and I don't know about that.

Speaker 2 (03:21):
Oh hey girl, Hey, let's talk about it.

Speaker 3 (03:24):
So, hey girl, so you have COVID nineteen.

Speaker 2 (03:27):
Here's what happened, all right, In the words of Adrian Monk,
here's what happened. Yeah, yeah, I decided to be social
this holiday season. I actually stayed a little longer than
expected so I could go to my partner Kelsey's stayed
in LA. Stayed in La a little longer. I was
gonna leave on like the fifteenth or the sixteenth or something,
but I decided to leave on the nineteenth, just a
few more days, which just sort of opened up the
possibility to go to a few more events. And the

(03:51):
whole point was that I was going to go to
this his office holiday party, which remember we talked about
last time, Like an office holiday party sounds amazing. Last week,
I was so excited to go. Well. I went to
a few events. I went specifically to this improv holiday
get together, and this is where we think something happened
because it was just a gathering of lots of people
screaming at each other's faces, and the timeline matches up.

(04:14):
But yeah, a few days later, I was feeling a
little off. I actually slept till two pm one day,
and I was like, that's crazy. I'm so irresponsible. But
now looking back, it's like, hmm, was my body fighting
something off?

Speaker 3 (04:28):
But yeah, the novel coronavirus perhaps.

Speaker 2 (04:35):
Anyway, I was feeling okay, but like maybe a little
cold coming on. Just fine, But again, looking back, there
were a few days where like I went to a
cookie party and then I was supposed to go to
drinks afterward, and I was like, Hey, do you guys
think I can wear sweats like my pajama pants that
I'm wear into this cookie party? Do you think I
could wear them to the drinks? And They're all like no, haha,
And I was like ha ha, because the idea of

(04:56):
putting on pants right now sounds absolutely insurmountable. Yeah, yeah,
which again is making sense. But I didn't feel sick,
sick until this one night, I became extremely hot and achy,
and I was like, oh no, well and so then
the next morning I noticed, I remembered I had a

(05:16):
COVID test in my room, and I was like, well, yes,
I'll take this. I take it. It lights up red
and I'm like, you're lying. Oh my god, I can't
be true. I have not heard of anybody in my
community having the coronavirus right now. Yeah, but yeah, it
got me good. I took two more tests after that
because I was so in denial because I had so
many plants. Yeah, oh no, So did you not get

(05:39):
to go to the holiday party? Did not go to
the holiday party? I missed the holiday party?

Speaker 3 (05:45):
No?

Speaker 2 (05:47):
I oh my god, so sad. That's like the number
one thing I missed.

Speaker 3 (05:52):
Your prediction that you'll never go to an office holiday
party has come true.

Speaker 2 (05:56):
What's also funny is that Kelsey and I have been
trying to do karaoke together for like two year years now,
and every single time it's thwarted in some way. And
it's starting to become like like this was like an
act of God right to give me the Corona.

Speaker 3 (06:08):
Universes, like do not somehow escape rooms cannot break you,
but a karaoke night would ruin your relationship.

Speaker 2 (06:17):
Well, I just want everybody out there to remember to
get boosted, to get back to the vaccine. I was
vaccinated this year. But yeah, this is my second time
getting COVID and second time getting it on Mike. Last night. Actually,
I had a wonderful time where I realized I could
go outside, and I sat out on the porch and
I wrapped gifts and I just sat up there for

(06:38):
probably like seven hours, and I had a wonderful time.

Speaker 3 (06:40):
Wow. Yes, convalescing. I was kind of going back there. Yes,
Beth mode. Oh wow, I love that. I really love that. Well,
I have to go Beth mode, going Beth mode.

Speaker 2 (06:54):
I'm going bell but going outside and still having the
best time, even though you have.

Speaker 3 (06:57):
To going Beth mode. You know, death is looming. Yeah.

Speaker 2 (07:04):
And one final thing I'll say that will come up
in this very episode is that because I've been in
my room looking for things to do, I've found some
things in my room, including I found some old hard
drives that I've been looking for, which thank god, oh
my god, oh my god, I hadn't lost lost them,

(07:25):
but I was just like, where are they?

Speaker 3 (07:27):
Oh?

Speaker 2 (07:28):
And I on there was an old reflection about my
first love, and it was like incredibly melancholy and intense,
and oh my god, oh my god. Can I watch
this movie the next day?

Speaker 3 (07:40):
And I was like, oh my god, whoa.

Speaker 2 (07:44):
And also, may I say it was very well written.
I could not believe that it was from college also,
and I'm like, obviously I was spending no time doing
my work in college. My god, what an incredible writer
when I was just writing about the things I was
interested in. Anyway.

Speaker 3 (08:02):
Wow, well, everybody, you've heard it here first from our
COVID nineteen correspondence Sienna. We will of course post her
reflection on her first love on oor Instagram channel no no, no,
no no, one screenshot at a time, one now, one,
twelve years from now, and four years from now.

Speaker 2 (08:24):
Wow. Leanna, hey girl, thank you for listening to all that.

Speaker 3 (08:28):
Oh my gosh, thank you for telling me how's it
going on. I'm sorry to say I did laugh when
I got your text message saying I have COVID nineteen.

Speaker 2 (08:35):
No.

Speaker 3 (08:36):
I just it tickles me how you always call it
COVID nineteen.

Speaker 2 (08:39):
Do I have the coronavirus? That is what it is.

Speaker 3 (08:41):
But it is just so funny to say the full
formal name of it.

Speaker 2 (08:46):
I have it.

Speaker 3 (08:46):
I have the novel Coronavirus? And also like, what why
did I get this? Literally, no one else I know
has it? Wow? How a girl? Oh fine, I'm going
back to I don't know.

Speaker 2 (09:02):
I don't know.

Speaker 3 (09:02):
There's nothing really to tell you. Oh my god, Oh
my god. Oh eight years of friendship and it's finally happened.
We've run out of things to talk about.

Speaker 2 (09:20):
Oh when you called this podcast a safe friendship, also,
that actually is what this podcast is. It's sort of
a podcast, but it's mostly a friendship, a safe friendship
that you get to listen to.

Speaker 3 (09:31):
Yeah, honestly, Yeah, this is our way of making sure
we talk once a week.

Speaker 2 (09:37):
We started a business.

Speaker 3 (09:40):
Oh yeah, I don't know.

Speaker 2 (09:43):
Do you have any questions? Yeah, okay, let's see. Have
you been to any Christmas markets? We were talking about that.

Speaker 3 (09:49):
Last Oh, yes, yes, I went to a couple of
Christmas markets on Saturday.

Speaker 2 (09:54):
I do have another It was hell, really, it was
hell on Earth?

Speaker 3 (09:58):
Why oh it was the pits of Hell. No. I
took the bus to central London, Trafalgar Square in front
of the National Gallery in the center of damn London
where there's a Christmas market and the throngs I had
to fight my way through in order to get to

(10:19):
the giant broughtworst stand. That's all you want to not
buy anything because it was brought worst. Yeah, candy brought worst.
I'm a damn vegetarian, right right, right right. The word
throngs was invented to describe this very situation. It was thronging.
So then I went across the river to a different

(10:41):
Christmas market that was lest thronged. I swam across the Thames.
I forded the Thames to go to a different Christmas market,
arrived stopping wet, and I bought myself a mulled wine.
And I've been doing this thing recently where I'll get
two beverages at once because I know I want to
over the course of an evening and I don't feel
like waiting in line again. Thank you, I'll just have.

Speaker 2 (11:02):
The two beverages.

Speaker 3 (11:03):
I got a regular mulled wine and then I was like, oh,
it's a Saturday, I'll splurge. I got a large spiced
cider with dark.

Speaker 2 (11:14):
Rum in it, which I was amazing.

Speaker 3 (11:16):
It was like I thought I was picking the vein
of spiced cider. But it turned out I was getting
a spiced cider with an extra shot of rum added
to it. And then I was just coosuded at this
Christmas market and wandering along the Thames. I want you
for like a mile and a half.

Speaker 2 (11:38):
I want to remind you at this time, hmm, how
different this is from Los Angeles. And I know, I
know that there are downsides, but like, honey, soak it.
Because I put on a sweater today to go move
my car and I went outside it and it was
sweltering hot, and I was like, what are we It's horrible.
What are we doing. You can't just like go get

(12:00):
zooited by the Thames over here.

Speaker 3 (12:03):
Yeah, you can't. You get high. You could get high
by the La River, which is the worst thing I
could possibly imagine.

Speaker 2 (12:14):
It is the worst thing I could possibly imagine. Like
that is what you are living it up over there,
and I know it has its own things, but wow.

Speaker 3 (12:24):
It's got its own things.

Speaker 2 (12:28):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (12:28):
So that was really it ended up being a lovely evening.
After I survived the throngs. Yeah, the throngs, Oh my god.
I went to Saint Paul's Cathedral and I just took
some photos of it. Ah, I'm like a peasant in
the past, Like I just spend my evenings like just
kind of like wandering.

Speaker 2 (12:45):
Around yeah yeah, yeah.

Speaker 3 (12:46):
Themes and observing the architecture. You know how peasants would
do architecture.

Speaker 2 (12:52):
Yeah, yeah, they'd wander around to look at the architecture.

Speaker 3 (12:55):
They'd spend pounds on a wild wine and a sighter.

Speaker 2 (13:00):
They look at architecture.

Speaker 3 (13:02):
Super peasant.

Speaker 2 (13:04):
We're I guess we're probably past Christmas on the pod
now a New Year's Eve in a past year. Well,
I need to know. Have you gotten gifts for people?
How's that going? Oh? Should I get you a gift?
Do you want something? Okay? Listeners.

Speaker 3 (13:20):
Siena got me an incredibly thoughtful, adorable gift and I've
got her nothing.

Speaker 2 (13:25):
It helped. I had an Etsy gift card and this
was a UK vendor. It all worked out.

Speaker 3 (13:29):
Okay, great, okay, good, that's all.

Speaker 2 (13:34):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (13:34):
I will not be getting you anything as long as
you I ordered. As long as you love them, that's
all I care I do. They're in my I have
a little corner of little guys in our and they're
in my little guy corners. We'll upload a photo of
the little guys for everybody to see. I I ordered
something for my brother, but it's cutting it real close
to whether it arrives before I fly home.

Speaker 2 (13:56):
Every time you've we've talked about Christmas presents, you I've
bought your brother something on like Christmas Eve or like
the day after Christmas. Like I just told him I'm
gonna get him this thing, and I ordered it.

Speaker 3 (14:09):
I print out a photo of it, and I'm probably
gonna have to do that again this year, even though
this year I ordered it on like the fifteenth.

Speaker 2 (14:16):
Yeah, that sucks.

Speaker 3 (14:17):
But apparently it's coming from Latvia, which was news. It
was a die co dot UK website that I ordered
it from, and then it was like, your item.

Speaker 2 (14:26):
Has shipped from Latvia. I was like, well, no, h
this is my impression of you ordering that. This is
what I imagine Latvia. Is that right? That's exactly right.

Speaker 3 (14:45):
Ah. So every day I check my mail to see
if anything from Latvia has a rived. Nothing is still
from Latvia. No word from Latvia. Fingers crossed eagerly awaiting
my missive from Latvia.

Speaker 2 (14:58):
Missive from Latvia. Well, I guess we should start the
podcast now.

Speaker 3 (15:02):
Oh god, yeah, Okay, This comes out on New Year's Eve, which,
as I mentioned, is about to be a past year.

Speaker 2 (15:08):
Yeah that's wow.

Speaker 3 (15:09):
So Sienna, could you please tell us about a film
that addresses past years?

Speaker 2 (15:14):
Yes, very much. Twenty twelve.

Speaker 3 (15:16):
Oh my gosh, oh wow, yeah, past lives.

Speaker 2 (15:22):
Norah Moon and Hay Sung were great friends in middle
school in Korea, and then Norah left for Canada. Their
lives grow in different directions throughout the movie, with Nora
as a playwright in NYC married to some guy oh,
and Hey Sung as an engineer in Seoul. Over the

(15:44):
course of their lives, they reach out to each other
a few times, wondering what would have been if their
lives had gone differently. It is beautiful and melancholy, and
every character is kind and doing their best.

Speaker 3 (15:55):
Oh oh, they really are.

Speaker 2 (16:02):
It's like nobody's a bad guy in this. No, there's
not a villain. It's very the most.

Speaker 3 (16:10):
Modern film I've ever seen. I kept expecting there to
be tropes. I kept expecting there to be various which
we can get to, and there.

Speaker 2 (16:19):
Weren't no tropes. It was just people doing their best,
loving each other in different ways. Life is complex and confusing.
Oh god, Hi, sorry, it's been really great doing this podcast,
but there's some things I want to focus on, so
I just I'll be back. I'm just gonna take a
little break for about three minutes or maybe closer to

(16:41):
twelve years. We'll be right back, we Leana. Shall we
get into our phone notes and discuss the film.

Speaker 3 (16:56):
This is our segment phone Notes. Each of us watch
the film and takes notes on our phone while watching,
and then on the podcast we read each other's notes
for the first time.

Speaker 2 (17:06):
Thank you.

Speaker 3 (17:09):
A friend was asking today, Oh, yeah, you just make
it super clear that masse. Oh and yes, see on
your first note is I have COVID. That and I
can just picture you sitting down to watch the film
and saying, I.

Speaker 2 (17:26):
Have COVID my teeth. Okay, so you're just stop checking it.
Your first note is A twenty four? Is this going
to be scary? Okay? They are doing a lot of
scary stuff. I know, I think they're just indie guys,
but Indy these days is like we're indie and so.

Speaker 3 (17:43):
We're scare legs.

Speaker 2 (17:45):
Yeah you want feminism, how about feminism with blood? But
he eats you. Yeah, you're like what.

Speaker 3 (17:55):
So I was a little afraid a bit. But here's.

Speaker 2 (18:02):
Feminine feminism. But the patriarchy eats you. You get gobbled up.
Oh my gosh, wait, Leanna, you've said I love grete
Lee and I also said that you.

Speaker 3 (18:14):
Said I love this actress Greta Lee. Ah, you wrote
damn their moms are so cool.

Speaker 2 (18:22):
Okay, Yeah. I was like, sorry, do you have a
crush on anybody? And she's like, yeah, I do have
a crush on somebody in my class. And she's like,
do you want to go on a date with him?
But I'll take you on a date with him. Me
and his mom will like take you out and you
guys can can go on a date together.

Speaker 3 (18:37):
I was like, what that was an option?

Speaker 2 (18:40):
I know, I didn't know that. It was so sweet.
They didn't make it weird at all. They were just like, yeah,
why didn't you get to know each other? You're young,
It's fine, we'll be there, we'll chaperone. I just can't
imagine talking to a boy at that age.

Speaker 3 (18:53):
It's crazy, that is, I think what what was hard
for me to wrap my head around too. It was
terrifying even the nerds, I would a boy spend that
much time with me and vice versa. At aged twelve,
I was busy. I had to go to dance class.

Speaker 2 (19:09):
Sienna.

Speaker 3 (19:09):
Uh huh, yes, you asked, Leanna, did you used to
skype much?

Speaker 2 (19:13):
Let's talk about Skype. Oh, take a moment and talk
about Skype, because guess what it was. It was eradicated
from this world when Zoom took over during the pandemic Skype.

Speaker 3 (19:25):
I firmly feel that Skype fumbled the bag during the pandemic.

Speaker 2 (19:28):
Yeah, you did say, how did Skype fumble video calling
so so hard? Okay?

Speaker 3 (19:32):
Yeah, fumble is the verb of note.

Speaker 2 (19:36):
Were you skyping?

Speaker 3 (19:37):
It sounds like maybe you had a Skype past.

Speaker 2 (19:39):
So I used to skype my friend Alison Rains every
day after school. We would get on game fund in
eighth grade. We would get on game Fudge in eighth
grade and you would play games, play play games and
Skype Fudge. Yes, game Fudge was the name of the thing.
It was kind of like addicting games dot com, Hello
Brito Bison and such games. Yeah. I was scaped every

(20:02):
day after school pretty frequently. WHOA, I love Skype. I
skyped well into high school. I think I think I
skyped well in high school.

Speaker 1 (20:10):
WHOA?

Speaker 2 (20:10):
But that that sound was so comforting to me. The
doo yeah what about you?

Speaker 3 (20:18):
There really was some user interface in this film that
took me back.

Speaker 2 (20:21):
It was definitely too complex to be something for the pandemic,
for example, or something for work meetings.

Speaker 3 (20:27):
Okay, right, it's too requids. They had, they had it
in their grasp, and they did have it in the grasp.
My god, they had everything should have been them and
it wasn't. No, that's crazy. I think I was not
a skyper. I think I really didn't understand that friendship
was rooted in having things in common, such as like

(20:49):
your morals and things that you talk about morals until
like college. Yeah, I thought, if I don't have morals
in common with you, it's not going to work out. No.
I I think a lot of my friendships were text
based or proximity friendships, where it was like, well, we
go to the same dance school, so I guess we're
also going to hang out outside of that, But then

(21:10):
we didn't really have that much to like talk about.

Speaker 2 (21:12):
Ever.

Speaker 3 (21:13):
I also think I have a terrible memory, so this
coind wrong. All that to say, The only memory I
have of ever using Skype was have I told you
about this? At six in the morning, Colorado time. I
had to get measured by my mom.

Speaker 2 (21:30):
Yes, you have to.

Speaker 3 (21:31):
Give my measurements to an irate Irish woman for a
dance dress. Yeah, and that was Yeah, my mom had
to measure my bust and tell it to an irishwoman
over Skype. Insane looking back, And that's Skype for me
looking back on my life. Conversation is really the only

(21:54):
thing I've ever done and the only thing I've ever
done well, and the one thing across the board and like, huh, well, hey,
look at you. Now you're conversing professionally.

Speaker 2 (22:08):
So I was gonna say if I could make money
talking and I guess we're almost Oh boy, don't we. Leanna,
you said to be hot on Skype. Massive achievement. Well
done both. Oh my, I was amazed. They were both
so gorgeous. Later, when her husband's like, do you find
him attractive? You're attracted to do any more attractive than me?

(22:31):
It's like, yeah, buddy, I wouldn't play this game. I'm sorry.
It's gonna be a losing battle every time for you.
I'm so sorry. A borderline anti semitic impression. I was
kind of going more for an Italian American thing. But
you know what, the New York it's a it's a

(22:53):
troublesome arena to be playing in. And I do apologize,
I do.

Speaker 3 (23:01):
I was like, obviously he's attractive, he's the hottest man
in her in her life.

Speaker 2 (23:06):
Yeah, she's like I've known him for years and years
and now he's a man. God, he looked so good.

Speaker 3 (23:15):
I feel like age thirty six, Leonna.

Speaker 2 (23:19):
I'm going to read your next note, which is melancholy,
but I want to read your next two notes actually
in a row. Okay, oh, because the juxtaposition makes us
who we are. You've said gazing at people in love
and feeling eternally alone mood. Oh my god. Then your
next note is Arthur. Okay, mister Ardvark.

Speaker 3 (23:49):
And let me tell you that I did not intonate
as kindly as you did. I said, Arthur. Okay, mister Ardvark.
Why that his name is?

Speaker 2 (24:01):
Her name is Arthur? Do you think Arthur is a
is a name? Are you an ark for children?

Speaker 3 (24:10):
What? Are you an ard Vark that doesn't look anything
like an ard Vark? Your name is Bob Bear, a builder?

Speaker 2 (24:17):
What? Oh you're going specifically? PBS? Gotcha gotcha, gotcha.

Speaker 3 (24:27):
Please, it's New York the public broadcasting system. Come on, yeah, yeah, yeah, okay, okay, okay, yes, Sienna,
you noted. Kay, she is making an inappropriate amount of
eye contact with this straight man as a married woman.

Speaker 2 (24:44):
It's funny how they're just are rules like that. It's like,
I think, if you're married, you're not allowed to make
eye contact for that long, that directly with anyone.

Speaker 3 (24:55):
How did you feel, because you you have f or
you have had in the past, fairly stern views on adultery,
did she you don't know, I don't know, it's come
up though. How did you feel about her? And hey son,

(25:17):
were you like, were you rooting for them? Or were
you like thou shalt not commit adultery?

Speaker 2 (25:24):
Well, I like when they laid out that whole thing
where this movie was so lovely, it is so clearly
women woman led women, so clearly woman led because when
they have that conversation her and her husband and he's like,
I kind of am just some guy. Yeah, He's like
we met sort of a regular way, Like our story

(25:45):
isn't that interesting? Like I know we love each other,
but wasn't it kind of circumstantial? Like you and Heysung
have like a much more a deeper connection kind of ultimately,
but she's sort of like, yeah, but he's not my
husband and he's not supposed to be my spend, you know,
so I was rooting for them. The thing that I
really this movie. That struck me about this movie was like,

(26:08):
there's so many depths of human relationships, Like, I don't
think what was so beautiful and melancholy when they were
talking about their relationship, is what is it that they
wanted that they want to be husband and wife and
have children? Like there was no version of Nora's life
that was supposed to be her in Korea just having
kids with the person she met when she was in
middle school. Like that's just not who she was, you know,

(26:31):
So where else would they have done that? Was he
supposed to have moved to New York? Like what version
of her song would have been somebody who moved to
New York City away from his awesome friend group, who
has dinner every night it's party hard, yeah, and like
away from her to life, you know, Like there just
wasn't a place where they could have met in this life.
So it's like they did have something else. It wasn't

(26:53):
like they were just gonna They just had something that
was meant to be physical or something, you know like that.
It was kind of of even layers beyond that. They
just had a connection. Oh so beautiful. So there are
nuances in life where there are people that you have
sort of an intimate love with, but they're not meant
to be your partner. So I was rooting for their

(27:18):
I was rooting for their situation definitely. I mean it
kind of is like, Wow, what a beautiful couple this
would be. And kay Song was so kind and wonderful,
like everybody was just a lovely person in this. So yeah,
I would have preferred for those two to have been
together then her and the other guy. But as she said,

(27:43):
this is my life and I'm moving in with you.
But yeah, it was adultery. When they were making eye contact, Yeah,
that was adultery. They were sinning, Leanna, you said, Okay,
you can still go do stuff in New York when

(28:05):
it's raining. Why because people were because they were all like, oh,
it's gonna be raining there.

Speaker 3 (28:12):
Yeah, they were like it's gonna rain the whole time
you're there. And then he was just like being melancholy
in the hotel while it was raining, and I was like,
go to the Goggenheim.

Speaker 2 (28:21):
There are so many Go to the city of buildings.

Speaker 3 (28:26):
New York is famously mostly indoors.

Speaker 2 (28:30):
Leoni, Leonna. I didn't. I've never heard this, you said
TVT DI at the time subway door closed on my head.
I'm sorry, I haven't told you about this. No, please

(28:50):
tell me about this.

Speaker 3 (28:53):
I so I had lived for the summer in Manhattan
and I had to move my stuff. It was like
at a friend's place, and I had to move all
my bedding because I'd been staying in student housing and
I was moving to different student housing. I had to
move all my bedding from like the Upper West Side
down to Brooklyn. And so I was carrying like two

(29:16):
pillows and a mattress cover or something like that, all
in their like little plastic carry bags. And I was
trying to hold all of that and get onto the
subway and one hand made it through with one pillow,
and I think the mattress topp or whatever. But then
the door closed on the other pillow, and like somehow

(29:37):
I had only gotten my head in the door, but
my body was still on the platform and it just
all kind of happened so fast, and I went, oh,
and then a guy just like yanked the subway door
open and he shoved me into the subway, pulled me in,
and he's my guardian angel, because I would have been decapitat.

Speaker 2 (30:00):
All of that is such a perfect encapsulation of what
New York is, because yeah, you're like, oh, I love
New York. The subway and then you have to bring
all your stuff on the train and like it almost
decapitates you, and you're like, I gotta get out of here.
But then somebody yanks the door open and you're like, oh,
we're all in this together. I love New York. Yeah,
but it's like, at the end of the day, you

(30:21):
could just drive your stuff somewhere in any other city.

Speaker 1 (30:23):
You know what I mean?

Speaker 2 (30:25):
That is true.

Speaker 3 (30:26):
Then I think, if I had to live in an
American city, which one would it be? I always think
New York, And then I remember the time the subway
doors closed, Yeah, and I second guess it.

Speaker 2 (30:40):
But walking around is the best?

Speaker 3 (30:45):
Is your childhood friend hot? Now you're gonna need to
have a conversation with your husband. You've got three Now,
see you soon, Sienna. A double note from you here
to display you know we contain multitudes. You've noted one

(31:10):
of life's strange truths is that your partner necessarily can't
know all of you. And then you've written Shazam is
one of the best apps ever?

Speaker 2 (31:19):
Can we talk about Shazam? I guess it is unbelievably
reliable almost everywhere. The tunes I did when they were
at the bar. When they were at the bar, I
was like, what is this song because it's also making
me When it was just the two guys at the bar,
and they were like, uh, I love when women make things. Yes, Leonna,

(31:45):
you said, while life is life really is long? If
you met your soulmate at age twelve, completely so jealous
of these Some people must have that experience, whether like
I literally met somebody who I have strong love for
when I was in middle seer, which insane. The main
thing I remember doing in middle school was one time
we'd like sold sandwiches in sixth grade for the Super Bowl,

(32:10):
And I remember my friends, my two best friends and
I both gay. Now, my two best friends and I
wrote a little jingle that we thought was so funny
about buying a subway sandwich, and we got to read
it on the announcements, and we spent like all week
working on it and we laughed so much and then
that's awesome, thank you. We presented it and when we

(32:31):
came up, we were like waiting for everybody to be
cheering for us, and nobody said anything.

Speaker 3 (32:34):
Hmmm, that sounds like a vocal warm up. Selling sandwiches
for the Seattle super Bowl.

Speaker 2 (32:41):
Selling subway sandwich, selling subway sandwiches, sandwiches for the Seattle
super Bowl, selling subway sandwiches for.

Speaker 3 (32:46):
The Seattle super Bowl.

Speaker 2 (32:48):
It was so awesome.

Speaker 3 (32:50):
That's that's banging, that's dope, and we'd make eyemovies stuffe
of having a soul mate.

Speaker 2 (32:56):
You know what I think.

Speaker 3 (32:57):
I think I wasn't comfortable with myself as a person
until college, and as a result, I didn't know what
I was supposed to be looking for in a friend.

Speaker 2 (33:06):
Whoa whoa I know, fascinating. Ooops. Well, I'm so grateful
that I met you in college.

Speaker 3 (33:19):
Oh yeah, thank god, Oh my god, you were one
of the first people. You know, this is gonna be
so sincere stuffing me for this, Okay, don't look at me.
I think our friendship was one of the first ones
in my life where I was like, we have so
much fun, Like we just are always laughing, like it's

(33:40):
just like a joy to be around them. Like I
just like craved spending more and more time with you
because I was like, it's just always like wonderful and
I hadn't really experienced something like that before. Sorry, thank
you for giving that to my COVID heart, Mary christ.

Speaker 2 (34:02):
I feel the same way nineteen Hart.

Speaker 3 (34:07):
No, but you had friendships where you were like giggling,
teaing hahha.

Speaker 2 (34:10):
Yeah. But even to this day, even to this day,
when there's something that I'm like, this is hilarious or
like the depths of life funny type of thing, you
know what I mean, like bottom of the barrel whatever,
or like I send it to you, I'm like this,
I gotta Tellana about this. Leonna. You said you kept

(34:33):
entering my mind when I was in the military mood.

Speaker 3 (34:40):
I know I'm not to relate to that as someone
who has not served in the armed forces, but I
was just like, yeah, I feel that way.

Speaker 2 (34:50):
All the time.

Speaker 3 (34:52):
I was thinking of you know, well, when you're just
like going through it and there's just somebody on your
mind and you're like huh, it's interesting that this person
is so on my mind right now. Yeah, I know again,
I can't compare my day to day hardships with me.

Speaker 2 (35:10):
But you've read so much about it.

Speaker 3 (35:12):
But I have read a lot about it. Oh.

Speaker 2 (35:18):
I loved the opening of this movie. Yeah, wow, like,
who is that? Who are listening to each other? I
have no idea?

Speaker 3 (35:27):
What what an interesting way to start a film.

Speaker 2 (35:30):
Thank you? And then by the end we're like, I
see why they did that because it is a complex
situation to each other and oh we judge and expecting
from people that your lives go so many ways you
can't predict.

Speaker 3 (35:43):
I really enjoyed this film, and they could have.

Speaker 2 (35:46):
Been something else to each other in different lives. All
three of them could have been important things that.

Speaker 3 (35:51):
I forgot about that.

Speaker 2 (35:52):
Yeah, I was writing down so many of the quotes
by the end. Yeah, to me, you were someone who left. Oh, oh,
I love is the person who leaves.

Speaker 3 (36:02):
I felt very afeared when he said to me, you
are someone who leaves, because I was like, am I
that person? Because I keep leaving things, leaving cities, I
keep leaving friendships.

Speaker 2 (36:12):
For me, you're someone who leaves, but also something every week.
Thank god.

Speaker 3 (36:21):
I loved I loved their conversation at the bar so much.
It was amazing. Like when they finally just like have
have it out, hash it out, whatever it out, and
they're like, oh, when she's like that girl that you

(36:42):
knew when we were twelve, she doesn't exist anymore. But
that doesn't mean she wasn't real. It just means that
I left her with you. My god, oh my god?

Speaker 2 (36:56):
What is life about? Literally? What are we all doing here?
Life is so confusing? How do people even choose to
make decisions? Well?

Speaker 3 (37:07):
What That's how I feel when I see a play?

Speaker 2 (37:13):
How do people choose to make decisions? What? Why do
we do this? Leona? You've written anguish.

Speaker 3 (37:23):
Oh yeah, I was in anguish, I think, or I
was more experiencing anguish from a distance. I mean I'm medicated. No,
you know, stuff lands a bit less.

Speaker 2 (37:34):
Deep believe in it normally would Leona, Your last note
is oh baby, if I was able to cry, I
would be. And then your next note is, oh, JK,
I am crying.

Speaker 3 (37:43):
Love that that end scene where they walk together to
the uber and stand and stare at each other. I
was like, oh yeah, if I could cry, I definitely
for sure would be crying. And then when she walks
back and she starts crying, I I said, oh, this
movie really effectively made me feel the deep, unnameable melancholy

(38:06):
of life. Do you think any of that was perhaps
heightened by your having.

Speaker 2 (38:13):
Me having COVID nineteen and having just read an essay
about my first love that I wrote when I was
in college. It's like everything that I feel when I
listened to Elliott Smith walking around the quad, who I
felt while watching this where it's like, I can't name it,
but there's something deep and sad.

Speaker 3 (38:28):
You were like your own emotional fluffer for this film
by reading your own essay.

Speaker 2 (38:32):
I mean I have been sitting in the dark for
like three days. Oh yeah, I think that it also
just effectively touched on it, like it was trying to
touch on that something more specific than just like losing
a love, But it was just like life is has
so many more layers than just you meet someone and
you're supposed to be with them or like what would
what would that even be? It's like it's having kids

(38:53):
the ultimate thing. Who knows, like dying together the ultimate thing.
I don't know, seeing each other for more phases than
one maybe.

Speaker 3 (39:01):
Or maybe.

Speaker 2 (39:03):
I don't know. Yeah, I don't know. Completely random side
note that I'm decided to say now in this emotional state,
you're somebody who I think is one of the best
at making friends and having great friendships. WHOA I was
thinking earlier when you were saying like you struggled to
do that in middle school when people whenever I'm like

(39:23):
pointing things out about your showing people like oh yeah,
this is leonor or whatever, I'm like, oh, yeah, she
has like so many great friends, Like she gathers like
great friends and whatever. And like you went to London
and found some lovely friends, and a lot of people
will move and like have a lot of trouble with that,
like that's their biggest issues. They're like, I don't have
any friends. Thank you.

Speaker 3 (39:41):
That really means a lot to me. Yeah, I've actually
been feeling very insecure about my No, you're really good
at that friendship capacity. No you recently, wow, because you're
like such a Yeah, you're you love goofy friendships and
you're good at gathering people.

Speaker 2 (39:55):
Yeah, that's true.

Speaker 3 (39:57):
You would love the people that I've befriended here. It'd
be very fun if one day, everybody overlapped.

Speaker 2 (40:03):
I have a little goal. I've been looking at my
been looking at my flight miles, and this year I'm
thinking of popping over. So I wonder, my God in
February should want to do it before we find out.

Speaker 3 (40:16):
It before I like maybe get deported. Maybe it's kind
of an asshole in February.

Speaker 2 (40:25):
Sorry what? Sorry? What? Oh my god? That's so not what.

Speaker 3 (40:33):
That's I don't know what phrase I was looking for.

Speaker 2 (40:38):
London is an asshole? Do you know? How is it
over there? Kind of an asshole? But I've actually never
heard that phrase used in this context me neither.

Speaker 3 (40:51):
I think what I was trying to say was like
it was some sort of it became a hybrid of
it's kind of a shithole, it's kind of ship, and
it's kind of ass It's kind of an asshole.

Speaker 2 (41:07):
I'm surprised that's not actually more of a frequent phrase.
It's kind of an asshole.

Speaker 3 (41:12):
Yeah, assholes never used to describe something that's just kind
of like garbage.

Speaker 2 (41:19):
It's more like you are vile. I'm kind of standing
in an asshole. It feels like I'm in a bit
of an asshole. I think it feels more visceral than shithole.

Speaker 3 (41:39):
It definitely does.

Speaker 2 (41:40):
Okay, well, not the only option, so we'll see.

Speaker 3 (41:42):
Okay, can't wait, Oh, Siena, let us let us befriend
our segment badges and tradges where we award the film
badges for.

Speaker 2 (41:58):
Besties, Yeah, for besties, and trages for traveling. It's just
not meant to be. Yeah, it's gonna be an extra
long episode because Sana just really needed to Sanna needed

(42:18):
to talk as gadgets.

Speaker 3 (42:24):
Badges.

Speaker 2 (42:24):
Okay, I don't, Okay, I forgot.

Speaker 3 (42:27):
I have a badge for I'm fine and you. I'm
fine and you. When they're practicing English, that was so
cute and it's so funny.

Speaker 2 (42:35):
I love when people this is going to be I
will perhaps cut out it is a very white American statement,
but also it's true. I love when I am effectively
given insight into the immigrant experience. Yeah, because there's so
much I don't understand about what it would be like
to fully get up and move to a different country,
specifically like North America or English speaking country where people

(42:58):
have decided it's like the most rele place to be
for certain career paths. But it was so cute to
watch these sisters be like, oh, I'm fine, you am
you yeah and you yeah. But I did. I felt
like I understood more so funny. My first badge is
for Skype. Love Skype, Love to hear it, And it
was just fun. All the twenty twelve throwbacks. I was like,

(43:19):
oh yeah, and that was my first era of under
of perceiving the world. Oh.

Speaker 3 (43:26):
A badge for Greta Lee.

Speaker 2 (43:27):
Love her, I love her, I love her, badge for
her outfits. Love those. I think I'm gonna go through
and just kind of buy all of those and be
set for viewers.

Speaker 3 (43:39):
A badge for Key's phone wallet, written on the wall
by her door in her New York apartment.

Speaker 2 (43:45):
She's one of us. Oh my god, I'm pretty bold
to just straight up write it on there. But I
guess you can paint that as well. Yes, But then
I was like, she's an artiste. Badge for this is
so beautiful. I just I love that they decided to
make it beautiful. But but how do I put this?
Not in a male way. It's not in a way
where it's like, oh, look at this girl and the colors. Yeah,

(44:11):
we're gonna say things that don't make sense. Instead, they
would just have full on conversations that take as long
as a conversation actually takes, and they make you think,
and then they'd be yeah, the beautiful parks okay, yeah
yeah women. Badge for wired headphones, Game recognize game, let's
go wired headphones. Hell yeah, she did use those in

(44:33):
twenty twelve.

Speaker 3 (44:34):
I will never have air pods, honestly, this is this
is the hill I die on.

Speaker 2 (44:40):
I lose them every time. They don't work. They don't work. Yeah,
Cordy's headphones are right. I no badge for I really
miss New York City. This really made me dis miss nyc.

Speaker 3 (44:51):
All well, badge for two cuties. These two are some
real cutie pies.

Speaker 2 (44:58):
They're so sweet.

Speaker 1 (45:00):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (45:01):
I love the montage of them skyping with each other.

Speaker 2 (45:03):
They're so nice to each other. They're so supportive of
one another. Even when they're like, we need to not
talk anymore. They both understood. Oh badge for all the
characters are doing their best question mark similar to you going,
oh my gosh, Arthur, the ardvark is actually kind of
slaying right now. He was really supportive and he's like,
I know this needs to be done. This is the
right thing. I know it's not about me. I'm gonna

(45:26):
express the ways I feel insecure, but thank you for
talking to me about it. And I'm still here to
hug you when you cry about it because I know
it's something deeper than that. Yeah, she left her life behind.

Speaker 4 (45:37):
Hmm.

Speaker 2 (45:39):
There's so many paths in this life. We can't control it.
We only have one shot.

Speaker 3 (45:47):
I have a badge for Ooh, I do love rustic chickens.

Speaker 2 (45:56):
Work?

Speaker 3 (46:00):
Is that at the at her house in the Yeah,
the residency in Montalk. There's like little chickens and like
a fence and grass.

Speaker 2 (46:10):
That was all my badges because I kept him. Oh,
I guess badge final badge for There were many quotes
that I wrote down that were very yeah, god so
good A badge for.

Speaker 3 (46:20):
I love his backpack. It is practical and respectful.

Speaker 2 (46:24):
Okay, I love that the what oh that means? What
is a respectful backpack?

Speaker 3 (46:36):
He wears a backpack around New York because he's like
solo traveling. He needs to have a lot of stuff
on him at all times. But it's not too big
and it's very well kept close to his back and
it's not hitting other people. It's not bad anybody. It's
not swinging around.

Speaker 2 (46:54):
There were a number of times where I had a
backpack on the train in New York and people would
be like, please please move, or you need to set
that down. Yeah, yes, you're hitting us.

Speaker 3 (47:05):
Yes, a badge for oh my god. He brought her
food when they get on the boat.

Speaker 2 (47:12):
Oh that was so.

Speaker 3 (47:13):
He was like, did you eat and she was like no,
And he had brought her something because he knew she
wouldn't have eaten.

Speaker 2 (47:18):
Oh my god.

Speaker 3 (47:19):
And my final badge is a badge for their conversation
at the bar because it was so beautiful and it
also it helps you as the audience, understand why they're
making the choices that they are with their lives.

Speaker 2 (47:34):
It's beautiful and honest, and I appreciate that they just
say things out loud instead of being like, h yeah,
I can't say you know, they just talk it through
because I was so so rare. Yeah. Usually these movies
that are kind of I think that they the way
that they make it sort of mysterious and melancholy is
by just not.

Speaker 3 (47:52):
Saying everything, leaving things unsaid, but instead, oh, you're.

Speaker 2 (47:55):
So right here. We got to follow the whole thing and.

Speaker 3 (47:58):
Just they just said it.

Speaker 2 (47:59):
They just because and they respect It was very respectful. Also, hm,
it was tragic. I have one trage, m My trage
is what is life all about? What is it for? Okay?

(48:25):
And also there were times I will say where this
also made me go like, oh my god, she's so
ambitious in her life. I remember when I was ambitious her.
What does it maybe?

Speaker 3 (48:34):
Oh?

Speaker 2 (48:36):
Oh, oh goals.

Speaker 3 (48:39):
Oh, I have a trage for once again, I am
wondering if the sound is on.

Speaker 2 (48:49):
Listen.

Speaker 3 (48:49):
I love this movie, but put some sounds at the
beginning so I know that the audio is working at
the very beginning.

Speaker 2 (48:55):
I was also like before it started, Hello, what's going on?
Why did they do that? I've never seen that before.
Just like indie movies love to.

Speaker 3 (49:04):
Be like, we're a quiet film.

Speaker 2 (49:05):
We're quiet, We're gonna be very quiet. It's like, hello, hello,
quiet film, We're being quiet. I'm like, is this alling quiet?
The volumes at ninety seven? Get ready to perceive, get
ready to think? Get ready? Yeah, medicine U Tragferd.

Speaker 3 (49:20):
Why isn't anyone else around? This is when she arrives
at the Residency House in montak and there's no one there.
It was like a zombie film. I was like, where
is everyone?

Speaker 2 (49:33):
I guess I just when she got there early, and
I thought that maybe just the house was empty. But
now that you've said it's like a zombie film, I
do get why if you were looking at it through
that lens that you would be seeing that because a
zombie could appear at any moment.

Speaker 3 (49:47):
The doors are all wide open.

Speaker 2 (49:49):
That was weird. I was like, why are you accepting
that the coffee is brewed and the doors are open
just for you. I think she was just kind of
being a flirty girl. She's like, ugh, somebody lives here.
Now a trage for it?

Speaker 3 (50:03):
Doesn't Her shoulder hurt from using a shoulder bag. She
has a tote bag that she carries around in New
York and I was like, that's gonna hurt if you're
doing a full day out with a tote on one shoulder.

Speaker 2 (50:13):
I think one of the main reasons I continued dating
my boyfriend, who was completely incompatible with in New York City,
was so I had somebody to carry my stuff because
he had a backpack. I just if my arm hurt,
I'd be like, can you carry this? And it's truly
the only thing I ever asked of him. Wow, it's
like the only place that I used the boyfriend girlfriend
thing in a very traditional.

Speaker 3 (50:34):
Way, traditional sense, he should carry stuff. My last trage
is if they don't bang once in this, I swear
to god, it would have been very beautiful. It would
have been beautiful. But I also I understand, yeah, it
would have been wrong for the story and wrong for
this lifetime.

Speaker 2 (50:51):
Maybe they can just make a fan fix sequel.

Speaker 3 (50:54):
I bet there's so much fanfic out there about this.

Speaker 2 (50:59):
Oh my goodness. Life is so complex. I just think.

Speaker 3 (51:03):
I just think if I were in a partnership where
my partner's first love from twenty four years ago was
coming to visit them once and they have so much
visible chemistry, I think I'd be like, do you know
what you too? Go bang, get it out of your system,
have at it, have at it, have at it, then
come on back.

Speaker 2 (51:23):
I don't know.

Speaker 3 (51:24):
I think they needed to bang once and then maybe
be like, oh, okay, yeah, well we did that. That's good.
Oh my god.

Speaker 2 (51:33):
Yeah, when he said like, maybe this is our past
life and maybe in the future we're already something to
each other, see you, then oh boo, that is what
those connections in life are like, like, oh, I'm not
gonna even with friendships, certain friendships where you're like, we

(51:54):
just don't get to be around each other the amount
that I would expect because of the way that we're connected.
Mm hmm. But I'll see you in the next life.
Yeah yeah, yeah, Well Leanna, or have you done all
your trages?

Speaker 3 (52:13):
I have?

Speaker 2 (52:14):
Okay, great, let's move on to our next segment, which is,
of course, how to pretend you've seen this film? Mm hmmm,
uh this is oh excuse me. You are in You're
in New York City. You're on the ferry going to
see the Statue of Liberty, which, by the way, very
pointy crown, dangerously pointy.

Speaker 3 (52:34):
Well, it's pretty pretty far away. Who's it gonna get?

Speaker 2 (52:37):
You know, they're getting close on that ferry crown and
you're looking up at that Statue of Liberty and Arthur
comes up to you. M h and he says, careful. Wow,
I'm just gonna go for gravelly absolutely associated with the

(53:00):
accent of any sort. Wow.

Speaker 3 (53:02):
Ah.

Speaker 2 (53:06):
I love New York City. I love the Statue of Liberty.
One of my favorite movies I saw is called Past Lives.
My favorite thing about it is how I assumed that
they were secretly boning the whole time. And that's the
only thing I thought out, nothing about the beautiful nature

(53:27):
of a connection unh unboned.

Speaker 3 (53:34):
And in order to fling Arthur into the Hudson Ah splash,
We're gonna give you a few sentences you can say
to pretend you've seen the film Past Lives.

Speaker 2 (53:48):
I'm so sweaty. I'm so sweaty from illness.

Speaker 3 (53:56):
Arthur, I've seen the film Past Lives. I'm gonna quote
to you the most relevant quote from it for this conversation.
I want us to stop talking.

Speaker 2 (54:06):
For a while.

Speaker 3 (54:11):
Yeah, and by for a while, Arthur, I mean forever.

Speaker 2 (54:16):
Oh my gosh, Yes, Arthur, I've seen the film. I
have seen the film Past Lives. This was Selene's Song's
directorial debut. Oh my god, I hope she makes so
so much more.

Speaker 3 (54:32):
It slapped, she slaid.

Speaker 2 (54:34):
There was a real life event that inspired this film?

Speaker 3 (54:37):
Was it having a friend?

Speaker 2 (54:39):
She had a childhood sweetheart who flew in from Korea,
and she had an American husband who only spoke English.
She was sitting there trying to translate for the two
of them, and there was something really special going on. Oh,
she said, I was sort of becoming a bridge or
a portal between these two men, and also in some

(54:59):
ways these two worlds of language and culture. Something about
that moment really sparked something, and then it made me
feel and it made me really feel like maybe this
could be a movie.

Speaker 4 (55:08):
Okay, yeah, okay, all right, So okay, the rest of
it is she starting about mating, Okay, because she's a
movie person, Okay.

Speaker 2 (55:19):
But besides that, very very beautiful that that really happened. Wow, Arthur,
I've seen Past Lives. That is a film that features
what I would argue is the best bob haircut in
cinematic history. Oh my gosh, yeah, wow, hair in this

(55:40):
was I kept looking at those outfits and I'm like, well,
they only look good with her amazing hair.

Speaker 3 (55:44):
Hmmm.

Speaker 2 (55:45):
I don't know.

Speaker 3 (55:45):
Her hair was so straight and her haircut was so sharp,
and then when she tucked it behind her ears the
scene where she's writing her name and year on the
wall in Montauk, I was like, oh my god, if
my hair was straight, you guys wouldn't believe the number
of things I would.

Speaker 2 (56:00):
I would chop it, I would pin it back I
would make it different shapes, different straight shapes. Oh, I
would mold it in all sorts of ways. Okay, yes, Arthur,
I have seen the film. I have seen the film
Past Lives. Fun fact, during the scene in the bar
towards the end of the movie, the song that can

(56:21):
be heard is Don't Look Back, a song from nineteen
sixty five by the Irish group Them featuring Sir Van Morrison.
Whoa And also, I should sam that song? And that
is not the song it gave me a so maybe
should sam isn't as amazing.

Speaker 3 (56:45):
That.

Speaker 1 (56:47):
Oh?

Speaker 3 (56:50):
Yes, Arthur, I've seen the film Past Lives, And in
order to end this conversation with you, I'm gonna devastate
you with one of the lines in it that devastated me,
so that you are so devastatd that you end up
in the Hudson River swimming away from this conversation. That
line was I didn't know that liking your husband would
hurt this much.

Speaker 2 (57:09):
Oh oh my god. Yes, yes, Arthur, I have seen
the film Past Lives. In an interview with NPR in
twenty twenty three, Greta Lee said that when she told
her friends and family she was taking the role many

(57:31):
of them were surprised and wondered if she could even
speak Korean, which is so classic of your friends and
family to do when you get a big when like this,
you're like, oh, really, sorry, can you do that? She's like, yes, oh,
you live with me?

Speaker 3 (57:48):
What that's like the scene in Fleabag where they're like, Claire,
you're a lawyer and she's like, I went to business school,
well you, hona.

Speaker 2 (57:57):
Shall we move on to our next segment, which is,
of course should you watch or where we tell you
if you should watch this film or if you should
do anything else with your time? What would you say?

Speaker 3 (58:05):
Oh, my gosh, I would say yes, absolutely. You can
watch Past Lives. If you're feeling afrail about a past relationship.

Speaker 2 (58:14):
Oh, do you know what.

Speaker 3 (58:17):
If you are at all at risk of texting your
ex uh huh, or your crush who's not nice to you,
If you're at all at risk of getting back in
touch with someone who's not actually nice to you, Yeah,
you should still watch Past Lives, but keep an eye
out for the way that he treats her in the film,
and you'll have to you'll have to note that that's

(58:39):
not what's going on in your life yep, and therefore
you should not reach out to note that.

Speaker 2 (58:43):
Mm hmm.

Speaker 3 (58:44):
You're gonna have to make notice some things. It's tough film,
watch it, how about you, Sianna?

Speaker 2 (58:49):
I would also say you could watch Past Lives if
you're not in the mode to watch something. This is
the perfect thing to do when you're thinking about life's nuance.
And honestly, sometimes I get overwhelmed when I want to
sit down and write something down, and this was a
good thing to do instead. That makes you think a lot.

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But otherwise you could just write in your diary. Ah, yes, Leonna.
What would you rate this film? Ooh?

Speaker 3 (59:18):
I would give Past Lives five respectful backlooks out of
five gosh.

Speaker 2 (59:26):
I just I enjoyed it so much. He too.

Speaker 3 (59:30):
It felt easy to watch it, Yeah, I really did.

Speaker 2 (59:33):
It was a it was a well. There was a
point where I was just like, this is my kind
of movie. It's slow, it's interesting, it's beautiful, but not
obnoxiously beautiful.

Speaker 3 (59:44):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (59:45):
What would you rate the film? I would also give
this film five spotty skype calls out of five.

Speaker 3 (59:53):
Day.

Speaker 2 (59:55):
I enjoyed it so much. It really I did not
know I was going to enjoy it this much. It
was lovely. It's very watchable too. I could easily watch
it again right now, right now, right now, And you know.

Speaker 3 (01:00:04):
What, maybe I will, Hey, careful, I will. I've got
twenty four hours left on that rental.

Speaker 2 (01:00:09):
Well, Happy New Year, everybody, happy, almost new happy. I
have a thoughtful new year. We've been toss Popcorn. We're
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(01:00:31):
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see you then.

Speaker 3 (01:00:46):
Oh.

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I definitely when I was twelve, I more had like

(01:01:12):
a couple of crushes on teachers and stuff, oh hello,
and like oh saucy, but I wouldn't admit it. I
wouldn't know you were saucy.

Speaker 2 (01:01:21):
I didn't know that either until I was saying it.
Saucy C. Well, I think it's because I just was like,
how saucy. No, No, it's not true. It's not true.
I wasn't a minx at all. You were a SAUCYX.