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Speaker 1 (00:03):
What's up his way up with Angela. Ye, and it's
time for some girl talk. Okay, it's Me and My
Homegirls Nini, Lisa and Sierra Glambshop. Thank y'all for joining
me straight out of the A. Is that where you're
traveling from? Yeah? Yeah, okay, And so now you guys
have a show together. Yes, it's a nice conversational show
where we get to get some of the tea from y'all,
(00:25):
but also just I think general information, the things that
us girls like to talk about, you know. And it
is called Me and My Homegirl, right yeah, all right,
So Sierra, you're the homegirl because I saw that was
the conversation on the first episode.
Speaker 2 (00:38):
Yeah, so Nini is me and I and I'm the homegirl. Well,
I don't know lately, Nini been a homegirl. You have
been outside.
Speaker 3 (00:49):
Yoo.
Speaker 2 (00:50):
Yeah, yeah, the hood one, the more vibrant one.
Speaker 1 (00:57):
One thing I will say is I do like randomly
running too, Ninni. Anytime I'm in Atlanta, I feel like
I see her somewhere. Yeah.
Speaker 4 (01:04):
Oh yeah, for sure, Nini. She likes to She like
to be outside.
Speaker 1 (01:08):
Stuff like chill for sure and the malf Yeah yeah,
restaurants that's how we actually not that.
Speaker 3 (01:19):
But yeah, I do a lot of things by myself.
Speaker 5 (01:22):
I really like almost alone in a sense, but not
I do everything alone. I travel, I you know, I shop,
you know, I just do a lot of stuff for
like drive my car around along.
Speaker 3 (01:32):
People are like, are you by yourself?
Speaker 1 (01:33):
I'm like, yeah, I wonder what that comes from.
Speaker 5 (01:37):
Like I feel like when I have somebody with me,
it slows me down. Okay, Like if I'm by myself,
I can kind of do it. You know, I could
get go in the store, pop out quick. I just
don't need anybody.
Speaker 1 (01:46):
Yeah. Here I saw on the episode you said that
you have never traveled alone. Like you're not getting on
a flight alone. You need somebody to key key with.
Speaker 2 (01:54):
Yeah, I'm not that brave, ye It like I don't
know how to yeah, because I'm just like and then
planning and figuring stuff out. Like, no, if I travel,
I will be in a hotel just chilling by myself,
not doing nothing.
Speaker 3 (02:07):
Because at the bar.
Speaker 1 (02:09):
Yeah, that I'll do by myself, go downstairs.
Speaker 2 (02:12):
And no no, no, yeah, I will be at the bar,
like that's my thing. I'm actually Me and Nini met
from just seeing each other by ourselves a lot in
the nail shot at the bar a few times, and
we was like we do the same thing, like be
by ourself, and we really do be by ourselves.
Speaker 1 (02:31):
So it was like, let's just be friends.
Speaker 4 (02:33):
Yeah, and then one thing became friends.
Speaker 2 (02:36):
We noticed that we had a lot of stuff in common,
Like it's crazy how much like down to the family,
how we like to do our upkeep with gleam and
just and yeah, yeah.
Speaker 4 (02:49):
We are like yeah a lot and people don't know that.
Speaker 1 (02:52):
Well. Atlanta can also be a bit of a small place.
Like I said, you run into people all the time,
and yeah, for you being han't been on Real Housewives
and all so love you said, you've never watched your
house and.
Speaker 5 (03:03):
She watched Housewife. I don't be like in at to
say that I don't watch I don't. You watched it
when I was on the back then you might not.
Speaker 1 (03:12):
Be watching it now she watched, but I seen. But
none of that is there's no way when you think
of Real Housewives, you don't.
Speaker 4 (03:19):
You can't think of you.
Speaker 2 (03:20):
You just don't. Like it's like they go together, they're
in a relationship.
Speaker 1 (03:24):
We are.
Speaker 3 (03:25):
Yeah, you're kind of broken a little bit.
Speaker 1 (03:29):
It's relationship like, yeah, you you're scary, but you've also
I think done a great job of in that situation
leaving and being nanny leaks outside of that too, you know, and.
Speaker 5 (03:43):
That's very hard to do because there's a lot of
girls after the show.
Speaker 3 (03:46):
They're no longer you know what I mean.
Speaker 5 (03:49):
And I think that comes from me being an original
housewife and me started in the beginning that you know,
so many people thought of me as Atlanta housewife. So
even after the show, to your kid, you couldn't nowhere,
I can go anywhere in the world and somebody's like, yeah.
Speaker 1 (04:08):
And let me tell you see erin. I met Nini
super early on. I don't know if you remember. We
was at Plies weekend in Tampa, Florida.
Speaker 3 (04:17):
They don't even do that anymore.
Speaker 1 (04:18):
That it was a stripe thon.
Speaker 3 (04:20):
Yes, yeah, I don't think that happened.
Speaker 1 (04:21):
And we both attended like you just win, and you know, guy,
it was a whole bunch of us.
Speaker 3 (04:26):
I don't think they do that anymore.
Speaker 1 (04:28):
No, no, no, that was I don't know how long ago.
Speaker 5 (04:31):
That that was very long ago. I told her that
when we were coming outside, know Angela.
Speaker 1 (04:35):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, And she's always been super cool, like.
Speaker 3 (04:38):
Yeah, we are regular. Yeah, I don't.
Speaker 5 (04:40):
I think there's a lot of girls in the industry
and they're not regular. Like I don't mean like regular
like regular, but I mean just really at yourself and
not you know, not getting and rolling eyes that you
and like not wanting to be.
Speaker 1 (04:57):
My girls, like don't I.
Speaker 4 (04:58):
Know, God, I don't even go. I can't stand it.
Speaker 1 (05:01):
Like that. That's what we were like.
Speaker 2 (05:04):
Like people, and I feel like from the outside looking
at people will think that you do, but we're so
I'm I mean, I'm a real hoodide so I'm like
I just like.
Speaker 5 (05:14):
Yeah, so cool with everybody, like until you're not with me,
Like I'm like, hey, yeah you will when I say
how the people some girls they be like and you
see something wrong.
Speaker 1 (05:28):
And you're good friends with Jennifer Williams.
Speaker 5 (05:29):
Yes, Jennifer was my bridemaid in my wedding and I've
known for a super long time. You went to her
wedding in Paris.
Speaker 1 (05:35):
At you Yeah you did?
Speaker 3 (05:36):
How was that?
Speaker 1 (05:37):
It was beautiful? Again?
Speaker 3 (05:38):
See her ring? I'm like, girl, that's a ring.
Speaker 1 (05:40):
Her dress was amazing. I want to say that, And
I know she had to make some adjustments, which is
not easy. But at the end of the day, if
you're getting married to somebody who you love and you
know you want to spend the rest of your life with,
no matter what the outside world has to say about
was like, yeah, yeah, knows all.
Speaker 5 (05:56):
About that has been married, honey, she know how to
get a husband.
Speaker 1 (06:01):
Now tell us about your last wedding that just happened.
Speaker 2 (06:04):
Oh it was magical, like you honest, I never had
a wedding. I got married, but I never had a wedding,
so like that was my first wedding. Like we went
to the courthouse, but it wasn't a thing like it
was like, okay, we just did the certificate. It was
that was it so like with my husband now, it
was it was very hard feeling like it was so
we were just entwined with each other. You know, he's
(06:25):
my childhood friend and I my kids love him.
Speaker 1 (06:29):
I love him. It just importantly it just feel normal.
Speaker 2 (06:31):
Honestly, can I say this and it sounds I know
it's gonna sound so crazy, But my ex mom used
to tell me things like when we first bought our house,
you know, the house that was robbed at gunpoint. It
was like our first manchion, big millions dollar house. She
was like, I know, y'all are fucking like rabbits around
his house. And I'm looking at him and he looking
at me. I'm like, I haven't touched this man in
two months.
Speaker 1 (06:52):
You know what I'm saying. We had been in the
house two months.
Speaker 2 (06:54):
But now I understand what she meant because she was
in love, you know what I'm saying. So now I
understand what she meant. I beg y'all, was itffing like rabbits?
Because me and my husband can't keep our hands off.
Speaker 1 (07:03):
First, so now you are rabbits And that's how you
know that it was meant to me. But that's interesting
to me. So when you before you guys were in
the house and for two months just not we that's
a wild.
Speaker 2 (07:14):
Yeah because and it's not even a because I feel like, honestly,
for real, I dated out of trauma. I dated out
of not knowing who I was as a person, as
a woman, a little girl just like crying out for love.
Speaker 1 (07:28):
And I can genuinely say that and it's okay, you know.
Speaker 2 (07:31):
And then I just had to say listen because it's
like I always I wanted that, so bad. You know
what I'm saying. Maybe it came from my dad not
being as president as he should in the household. Maybe
he come from a numerous amount of things, but it happened.
And I could say that proudly, but I mean, it's
a testimony. So when I actually found my husband and
(07:53):
the feeling that I felt behind my current husband, I
was like, I'm married for all the wrong reasons, right.
And when people used to said I used to be like,
oh my god, but I did I really did it.
Speaker 1 (08:04):
And you were a young mom. I was a great
mom too, by the way I could tell by the
way you know your your kids be snuggled up.
Speaker 2 (08:11):
Yeah, oh my god.
Speaker 1 (08:18):
Now, Nini, Yes, let's get to this because I want
to say. One thing I noticed on the podcast that
you guys have is that you like to redirect it
back to Sierra every time we talking about me, but
now back to you. Do you feel like you're more
protective of yourself and what you have going on now
because you've had your life out there for so long
(08:38):
with people watching everything, and now is it like I
want to kind of protect Well, what is what's going
on with that? I don't know.
Speaker 5 (08:45):
I didn't realize that I was doing that. Okay, Sierra
is really long winded. And when I get in a
place where we don't know what we're gonna say, I
just go back to see her because I know she
can talk about something for.
Speaker 1 (08:56):
A long long time.
Speaker 5 (08:57):
But no, you know, I may be a little bit
more private in certain areas of my life. I've always
been in an open book. Can you ask me anything,
I answer if I want to, Like, you know, I
hate you. That's so awful, like the hunt, just like yeah,
with the person that you.
Speaker 1 (09:16):
Really like, you know what I mean, not somebody I don't.
Speaker 5 (09:19):
Yeah. Yeah, I'm just amazing how she can get three husbands.
I'm over here, like you know, get one like I
don't know, and you can yeah, well yearly okay, yeah
yeah you can't.
Speaker 1 (09:29):
If you you know, because I think the misconception a
lot of times with women is if you're not married,
you can't get a husband. But the truth is you
just want the husband you want, not just no.
Speaker 5 (09:40):
I was married for twenty five yees, so I'm the
same man twice.
Speaker 3 (09:43):
You're the same great guy when you were.
Speaker 2 (09:46):
Yeah, And I love that, and I look up to
me in so many ways, like that's my good that's
my homegirl for real.
Speaker 3 (09:54):
I love love and.
Speaker 1 (09:57):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (09:57):
I'm in a really odd place in the love department.
Speaker 1 (10:01):
Okay, She's like, and that's that.
Speaker 3 (10:04):
No, no, no, I'm open to talk about anything, but
I'm in a real odd place.
Speaker 1 (10:07):
Yeah, okay. Well I hope it all, whatever it is
that you want. Yeah, you know, I hope that everything
because you deserve it. Yeah, I really do. Yeah, you do.
And I know that as a friend, like from people
who know you really well.
Speaker 4 (10:18):
Yeah she wanted, Yeah, that's what she wants.
Speaker 1 (10:21):
Ninia is a wife at hard, just like I am.
Speaker 3 (10:23):
I was a wife for a really long time. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (10:25):
But you know what, it's weird too because you were
a wife for such a long time. It's weird. Not
is it weird to like.
Speaker 3 (10:32):
It's weird for me not being a wife. It's so weird.
But I got married so young.
Speaker 1 (10:36):
Yeah that's what I'm saying.
Speaker 5 (10:37):
You're, you know, really early in my twenties. But I
love love, and uh, I think now dating is totally
different from when I first started dating. Also, I don't
like older guys, and.
Speaker 1 (10:50):
I saw that you were, like, I like younger man
because I think the guy you were dating was eight
years younger.
Speaker 3 (10:55):
Yes, said yeah, I like guys a little younger.
Speaker 1 (10:59):
Yeah, well, because you have a very you have a
young spirit, a.
Speaker 5 (11:03):
Very young I also need guys to have their own money,
their own things. I think that's hard to fight, Like,
it's hard to fight guys with their own careers.
Speaker 3 (11:14):
Like I need you to have your own.
Speaker 5 (11:16):
Everything, right, but I need somebody that can pour into
me and I can pour into them and that.
Speaker 3 (11:21):
Kind of thing.
Speaker 1 (11:22):
All right, I'm here for it. Now. How did y'all
decide to even do a show? Whose idea was that?
We was just on the phone together.
Speaker 4 (11:30):
It was like we were just talking and I'm like,
I'm like, girl, we.
Speaker 3 (11:33):
Should do business. Yeah, we should have a podcast.
Speaker 5 (11:36):
I mean, why don't we get in there and talk
about so I've been asked to do a podcast so
many times that I never.
Speaker 1 (11:40):
Ever wanted that. Need a lip service service?
Speaker 6 (11:44):
Yeah, okay, maybe I already was on lips that's what
made us say that, But that would be great.
Speaker 3 (11:56):
I need to be a regular on lip service, that's
what senior?
Speaker 1 (12:00):
So good? Who do y'all have on that? Man? Anyway,
Meg and Jordan's and Jordan's was on the show a
Summerhouse Mark. No, she's a new addition to the show.
She's a little younger than us. What is she like
thirty one, thirty two years old, Summerhouse Martha. She's a
DJ also, and she was on the cover Playboy. You
know beautiful beautiful asked me to yeah, are you going
(12:24):
to do it? I don't know what would you tell her?
Her as her homegirl, Dewey Dewey, now, now, what's the time?
You look good? Amazing?
Speaker 3 (12:34):
I don't know, And I'm kind of scared when they
say it, I was like.
Speaker 1 (12:39):
Yeah, do it. Your body looks amazing. I would say,
as long as you're on the cover.
Speaker 4 (12:45):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, for sure.
Speaker 3 (12:47):
I'm not on the cover there, you're right?
Speaker 5 (12:49):
Not okayoy you first, if I'm not on the cover,
like maybe you're not just to do it together. I'm scared,
and I'll tell him what she have more.
Speaker 1 (13:05):
Like, she's not saying nothing about you know what.
Speaker 4 (13:07):
My husband he loves he liked, Oh she He's like
put that ship on.
Speaker 5 (13:12):
Well, I think, you know, as long as you don't
go too far. I think it's a way to be very.
Speaker 1 (13:17):
For sure, maybe having for real articles like I'm gonna
say that like they have well done journalists writing articles.
It's not like, you know, there's other magazines that aren't
as I guess you know, classy as Playboy. Yeah, I
think y'all should consider we will something.
Speaker 3 (13:33):
But don't forget to talk to me about little service.
Speaker 1 (13:35):
I got a lot of know I listen, I told
you that. I was like, listen, we need to have
you up here more. We discussed it because she got
some some things to get off her chest. But I
think all of us together, yeah, you know, it could
be a whole vibe. There would be.
Speaker 3 (13:50):
So freaking.
Speaker 1 (13:55):
Another thing. Y'all talk about everything, right, because it seems
like you guys are really comfortable with each other. So
another topic was plastic surgery, and you guys both said,
you've never put a knife to your face.
Speaker 2 (14:05):
No, not not, you know, not physically like somebody call it.
Speaker 5 (14:13):
You know, I feel like I get accused of all
the time having some kind of surgeon, and I'm like, girl,
you gotta be bandaged up. You gotta have time off
to do this kind of stuff. Like I don't do that,
Like I don't really. I was just in the bathroom
chair and I think I got lines under my fucking
These people are always saying something about surgery.
Speaker 3 (14:29):
I don't think I'm gonna go into surgery.
Speaker 1 (14:32):
Like no, no.
Speaker 5 (14:35):
They just accused you so much. And then I got
accused of using a filter. It's like, I think everybody
used filter, and I'm not posting Ship without cleaning it up,
because if you don't clean up your damn picture, they
pick it apart Ship.
Speaker 1 (14:50):
Who don't guess who don't use a filter? Who don't
know how to? I don't know how to.
Speaker 2 (14:54):
I don't I don't use it straight off the camp
when he's if he's seeing it on posting it.
Speaker 1 (15:01):
They just look like I.
Speaker 5 (15:05):
Have to look at it and be because I don't
know what Freddie donned to this picture. I got to
look at that picture and so But anyway, the both
of us wanted to talk about plastic surgeon. I'm very
open in what I do in plastic surgeon, all the
plastic surgery, most of them I think that I've had.
Speaker 3 (15:21):
I've been public because I got to give a discount
from the doctor. So you know, I'm.
Speaker 1 (15:25):
Like, I don't walk y'all through everything I do. Yeah,
I would not.
Speaker 3 (15:29):
I can't wait to do something to talk about He said,
you can't wait. I can't wait.
Speaker 5 (15:34):
Sure, I'm doing something, but you don't know yet. I
don't know yet exactly what. One thing I'm gonna do
is my boobs. And the reason why I'm going to
do my books. I love my boots and I love
the size of my boots. I've had these implants for
almost fifteen years and you're supposed to read. And that's
the only reason why. But my doctor did tell me
that he could possibly remove them and we could reuse
the same implants that I have. He removed my tissue around.
Speaker 3 (15:57):
Okay, that's the only reason.
Speaker 5 (15:58):
Like, I love my boots, I love the size of
them and everything, but I do have to take them.
Speaker 1 (16:02):
You gotta get an update, you gotta get Okay.
Speaker 5 (16:05):
That's the only thing. But besides that, I'm gonna do
something that's boob It's not it. I'm gonna do something.
I gotta find a doctor that's gonna give me a discount.
Talk about it. No, no, no, I'm doing it because I
really want it.
Speaker 1 (16:15):
Okay, I'm like, what is it that you're about to do.
Speaker 3 (16:17):
I can I'll tell y'all later, And I'm looking for
the doctor.
Speaker 1 (16:21):
Listen, I'm a fan of whatever you do, just make
sure you do it in the same way. You know,
because you say traveling, I think they where they have different.
Speaker 5 (16:30):
Law arm travel like here, l A or somewhere, but
not far because I want to go and get in
my bed.
Speaker 1 (16:36):
Right yeah, and getting on a flight afterward is probably
uncomfortable if you have to fly and see here. I
know you said that you were gonna you wanted to
get rid of but yeah, yeah, but.
Speaker 2 (16:46):
I got them when I was younger, and they gotta go.
And honestly, for real, for the girls that's still doing
it nowaday, they y'all need to stop because ten years
from now this ship, your leg's gonna be hurting.
Speaker 1 (16:57):
Yo. You stand up too long.
Speaker 2 (16:59):
Your legs be aching your ass, be aching your nigga,
can't slip your ass.
Speaker 1 (17:02):
They're heard because they really us.
Speaker 2 (17:06):
Yes, it is, it is, it is. It is a story.
It's a little snipplet on our show. And I'm like,
you see Blood Chinel, you see Kay Michelle, and people
probably gonna think I'm we're talking about them, but I'm
actually saying because they were open with their story.
Speaker 1 (17:20):
Yeah, and I'm like, I'm an open book. I don't care.
Speaker 2 (17:24):
My man been loving me since I was young, fifteen,
big no lips before I even got you know, injections
in my lips. So it's like I don't have to
hide from nobody. I just I like being transparent. I
feel like my story could help somebody, you know what
I'm saying. My story is my testimony.
Speaker 1 (17:40):
And that's a great warning for people because like you said,
it was hurt in your legs kill hurt.
Speaker 2 (17:44):
Like I haven't got them out yet. I have to
eventually got them, get them out. So if there's a
doctor out there that would like to do and want
me to be a part of their journey, hit me.
Speaker 1 (18:00):
Just famous people, but it's also regulations that are like
I need to figure out.
Speaker 2 (18:03):
Like I see girls all the time, and I can
tell when girls got it, especially a slimmer girl right
and that don't have any meat on her body, and
it's like, you know, you go try to get a butt,
your butt done. They don't have They can't pull a
fact from nobody nowhere because you're skinny, so they'll go
get the butt shots. I know girls, popular girls right
now that has gotten them. And I be like, I'm
so quiet into myself because I just like to stay
(18:26):
out the media and stay out the way. But I
be so wan to reach out to so many of
popular girls and be like suss, don't stop that shit hurts.
Speaker 1 (18:34):
It moves, it nots up like I feel in Cabo.
Speaker 2 (18:38):
And now I got like a little not like it's
as small, it's little, but still I have it.
Speaker 1 (18:43):
So it's just so so much that come with it.
Speaker 2 (18:45):
It looks cute, it's a temporary fix. Like it's not
worth it at all, you know what I'm saying. I
asked my younger self, like why did I do it?
You know, just doing just trying to who.
Speaker 1 (18:56):
Did you go to? Was it like some you know,
I know they was having a butt shot parties and
stuff like that. I went to the top party. Okay Ima.
It's a guy.
Speaker 2 (19:04):
I don't want to put him out there, but he
do a lot of people and he's a really good guy.
He's he's really good and I love him and he
got such a great spirit. But it's just you. You
you shouldn't get him.
Speaker 1 (19:14):
Done, go do it the la did you all watch that?
Speaker 4 (19:20):
And the girl and they put the fixer flat on her?
Speaker 3 (19:22):
Bla.
Speaker 1 (19:22):
You said you don't watch TV. You never know what.
Speaker 2 (19:24):
You're putting because I was just sick, so I was
just watching. It's crazy because I just seen.
Speaker 1 (19:28):
It for real and that look. I saw that because.
Speaker 3 (19:30):
Even they didn't do that to you today.
Speaker 2 (19:32):
No, they put silicon. I mean because I went to
the like I went to the good guy. But yeah,
it is like I'm telling you, yo, I'd be so nervous.
I'd be like, God, please don't let my lists.
Speaker 3 (19:44):
Maybe he's product now it's.
Speaker 1 (19:47):
Well, you know you're not even supposed to do but
shots though at all, right, it's.
Speaker 2 (19:51):
Not it's not even about the product. You just don't
supposed to be doing it.
Speaker 1 (19:56):
Just think about all the pressure that goes, like, yeah,
the nerves and then like the firing things in your.
Speaker 2 (20:04):
Yeah, it's like it's a farm something in your body. Girl,
but my butt is so you try to make.
Speaker 6 (20:11):
Any but yeah, I.
Speaker 1 (20:20):
Can't do it now. What are some things y'all learned
about each other while doing this that maybe you didn't
know before, because sometimes you could be great friends them
cameras start rolling, you guys start talking, and you're like,
oh my god, this is a topic we never discussed before. Yeah,
we got what we've got so much in coming.
Speaker 2 (20:39):
Well, I did learn that, you know, like she do
have a lot of stuff in coming with me, family stuff.
You know, she went through a lot of stuff for
her family. The people just saying that we both had
surgeries and stuff like this, so we.
Speaker 1 (20:51):
Just for me coming types of right.
Speaker 2 (20:54):
She's very aggressive and very direct and very very smart. Now, yeah,
very direct, very direct to.
Speaker 5 (21:04):
The one thing I did learn about I learned about
serious that she's extremely late and seriously like it's really
a problem. And I didn't know that before because she's
a businesswoman and she's so good at doing all her stuff.
Speaker 3 (21:18):
I'd be like, how should be laid?
Speaker 1 (21:20):
So tell me about this lateness? What's going on here?
Speaker 2 (21:23):
It's just something I gotta work. It's something I gotta do.
But honestly, for real, I don't even I don't know.
I just got to do better at it. That kind
of okay, it comes from being spoiled. I have a
lot of people on my team. I have an assistant,
I have three brand managers. I have and I'm not
gonna lie. It was the money, Okay. It was kind
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of like the Red the Richest story. It was like
when I got that money, baby, I just forgot how
to do everything, and I gotta put that structure back
in because I'm still humble, you know what I'm saying.
I'm very relatable. People can come up, I'm gonna hug
you because of my background. But I never want to
lose that too, because sometimes when you get money, you
can lose certain things.
Speaker 1 (22:04):
And I see you super, super, super successful, and you
you're very respectful of people time, you don't have them waiting,
and I admired it, and that made me check myself.
I'm like, girl, that's good.
Speaker 3 (22:16):
No, that's good. I like that.
Speaker 1 (22:17):
I like that you were able to tell her that
and she can see that and say, I do need
to work on that.
Speaker 3 (22:21):
You see the first.
Speaker 1 (22:24):
No, But that's good because honestly, because somebody taught me
this a long time ago. Because I have to be
on time, you know our radio. If I'm late like everybody,
even when I always plan to be here an hour
earlier than I need to because anything could go wrong.
So on the way here, I hate rushing, like I
hate the idea that I'm in traffic now I'm trying
to speed through things. Something could happen, So I'd rather
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just plan to be way earlier. Even when I have
to leave here, like I have to be somewhere else,
I'll tell them I got to be there half an
hour earlier than I really have to, because I don't
want them to make me late to go do the
next thing. But somebody told me early on that if
you're late, it's like a disrespect to somebody else's time,
you know, And so you never want to have somebody
like waiting like Dann she don't know. It's like this
(23:05):
is a legend.
Speaker 4 (23:06):
This is me need leads and she's on time.
Speaker 1 (23:08):
You get your ass up. Come on, I ain't putting
enough work.
Speaker 4 (23:12):
Yet, okay, saying like I ain't putting enough words.
Speaker 2 (23:15):
So I'm like, you still need to be on to
I had to check l I check myself so and
and I'm going to work towards.
Speaker 1 (23:23):
And whenever I am late, I always get somebody heads
up as soon as I know I'm gonna be late.
That's her. Yes, well that's good, that's great, that's you.
I learned that now. I want to know you're going
to talk about finances on there at all, because I
always like okay, because I feel like for me, that's
something that I've been really trying to like get better
at you know too for myself and thinking about things
(23:43):
that I've done in the past, investments that I have
now and I you know, I know you guys both
have a ton of investments, but I know you have
both probably blew through a lot of money too. Yeah.
Speaker 5 (23:51):
Sure, I've thrown a lot of money in there, and
I often look back and wish I could get that money.
Speaker 3 (23:57):
Mane like when I just do way, Yeah, why don't
I do that?
Speaker 5 (24:00):
Why did I do this? Why did I throw that away?
I throw money away a lot. That doesn't make any sense, right,
So we almost need someone to come on and tik
to us finance.
Speaker 4 (24:09):
Yeah, it really don't make no sense. How much we
spent on food, like.
Speaker 3 (24:13):
To eat and drinks everything we really enjoy.
Speaker 1 (24:15):
Yeah, so we have to I say that.
Speaker 2 (24:17):
I'm like, I'm not like a girl that needs the most,
So let me enjoy my drinks and food every day.
Speaker 5 (24:22):
Say that all the time. So let me be able
to eat and drink what I want. And I spend
money on hotels, Yeah, I travel like I love that.
Speaker 1 (24:31):
I think that I work really hard on getting the
perks and upgrades so that I could get what I want,
but I have to stand.
Speaker 2 (24:36):
Yourn Yes, oh y'all don't play no. When you said
the purpose, I was like, oh, she's so.
Speaker 1 (24:47):
I'm I'm very disciplined when it comes to that, Like
I'll be like, okay, we want to fly den to one,
but I'm not trying to pay thirty five hundred dollars.
Speaker 3 (24:55):
Yeah, I know somebody like.
Speaker 2 (24:58):
Me, I just be like up book at book itt.
But my husband is like you. He balanced me out
so good. He make everything makes sense. And he told
me off hand, he was like, you're not gonna fuck
this money upright, Like I think about it every day
when I wake up because I will be living in
La La land sometimes and ordering ship and the way
it's not good blow through money.
Speaker 1 (25:19):
And when I me.
Speaker 4 (25:20):
And my husband, he was like, listen, you're not gonna
fuck this money up.
Speaker 2 (25:23):
I had to take too many sacrifices to get these Like, okay,
calm it down.
Speaker 3 (25:28):
You do need a good balance.
Speaker 1 (25:30):
Yeah, Because I was like, you do need a good balance.
That's when I knew I really loved him.
Speaker 2 (25:36):
I like, I really really loved him because I in
my head I would have been thinking I'm crazy, but
I wasn't I respect what he said.
Speaker 4 (25:42):
You know what I'm saying, and it's looking out for you,
and it's definitely looking out for me.
Speaker 1 (25:46):
Yep. What would you say, are some of the money
lessons that you learned? Oh my god, give me, give
me like three top money and then yeah.
Speaker 3 (25:57):
Lessons I've learned. I don't know.
Speaker 5 (25:59):
You know, I have to tell you that I learned this.
And this is gonna sound so crazy, but it's the truth.
I've always been cash heavy, right, so I use cash
for everything, Like I buy this, I buy cash money.
You know, we talked about this before I buy a car,
I buy everything.
Speaker 1 (26:15):
In cash, in cash.
Speaker 3 (26:17):
I used to do that. I used to do that.
Speaker 5 (26:19):
I don't do that anymore because I've learned, you know,
to keep my cash and use others cash. But for
a very long time, when I started eating this guy,
he said to me, what's your credit score? And I
was like, I don't know why, Like I never cared
what my credit score. It was because I need cash heavy,
so I spent my money. And one of the things
I've learned as of it's so crazy, as a last
(26:42):
about the last couple of years, is now I have
a great credit score number and to use my credit more.
I actually never used my credit. I never really cared.
You know, that didn't matter to me.
Speaker 1 (26:53):
I spoke to someone when I was hosting this podcast,
and she was like, if she didn't have the cash,
she wasn't doing it. I'm not buying it. She would
buy her house cash and not want to get a mortgage.
And people have to understand, like positive.
Speaker 3 (27:05):
Datha, I did all of that because I've lost stuff
in the past and I didn't want to I want
to take it.
Speaker 2 (27:11):
Oh my god, I feel like, for real, we are
the same person sometimes, like literally down to everything she
just said that was me up to just like a
year ago.
Speaker 4 (27:23):
I just stopped doing it like I didn't. I don't
play about it.
Speaker 2 (27:26):
I don't want to be because all my cars used
to get repold, I used to have to move all
the time. Like it really was my struggle story. So
I had to say, you're not that girl anymore. You're
not that fifteen year old mom struggling going from house
to house, sleeping on couches, Sierra, you.
Speaker 1 (27:42):
Know, and sometimes for real, you really be need and.
Speaker 2 (27:44):
Counseling because you you you don't even see your yourself
or who you are because of your trauma, you know,
like I said, with the marriages and stuff, so all
of that had something to do with trauma because I
would I'm not.
Speaker 1 (27:57):
I wasn't. I'm paying for listen money monster.
Speaker 3 (28:01):
Yeah, and now I have monthly bills.
Speaker 1 (28:06):
But you know, when you have a budget and certain
things that are the same every month, you know, I
just you know what I wish like because there are
times and I was like that too. That's why I'm
saying this because I hated owing money on things, but
I did care about my credit, you know. But at
the same time, like I wish that an opportunity comes. Man,
I wish I would have had some cash for this,
(28:26):
but instead I paid off this thing, you know what
I mean. But you can also call out equity in it,
but that's a whole nother process.
Speaker 5 (28:33):
The funny thing is, I'm obsessed with my credit scoring.
Now I am looking like it dropped?
Speaker 3 (28:39):
How happened? And I'm like it went up? And why
is this one?
Speaker 1 (28:42):
Lord?
Speaker 3 (28:42):
I almost want somebody to stock market. Yes it really does.
Speaker 1 (28:45):
Yeah, but it's important to monitor it. And I definitely
have like the app on my phone. So I locked
my credit because.
Speaker 5 (28:51):
Yeah, and I never did that. The last three years
have been like really interesting.
Speaker 1 (28:58):
I've learned.
Speaker 3 (28:58):
So I've learned that Angela.
Speaker 1 (29:01):
You know, I like the transparency that both of you have,
and I think this is something that could be educational
for a lot of people who are watching. Just also
see y'all all the homegirls.
Speaker 5 (29:09):
We are homegirls, and there's a lot of homegirls that
can relate to us with paying for things, with pay
for every everything, every everything.
Speaker 1 (29:17):
Now, business wise, I know you also have. First of
we got to take your cooking one day.
Speaker 3 (29:21):
Oh my god, she.
Speaker 1 (29:24):
Can for you do Yeah, I got it, Hurri Cane cook.
One of my goals for this year is to cook more.
Speaker 3 (29:30):
I like to cook.
Speaker 1 (29:32):
Yeah. But your Thanksgiving.
Speaker 5 (29:34):
No, don't do that. I am so everybody asking me
that is so error doing that ship?
Speaker 3 (29:40):
That is it was not Thanksgiving, it was Thanksgiving.
Speaker 1 (29:43):
But why And I came in.
Speaker 2 (29:44):
I came her house at like three o'clock in the morning,
busting in her house with with my men.
Speaker 1 (29:50):
I was mad at my husband. I was like yeah,
she was like come on.
Speaker 2 (29:56):
And then I as soon as I got older, I
said I missed my husband.
Speaker 3 (30:01):
I said, call him.
Speaker 2 (30:02):
I don't have time for this ship. I'm telling them
a therapist. So he came out and see her.
Speaker 5 (30:09):
I have all this I do like Marcus, and they
do have the school items, yeah, that you can purchase
and see her just having to notice those things, and
was like, and I don't know it's good ever thought
the market.
Speaker 1 (30:27):
But like on the episode you say she'd be bringing
her man everywhere, like if she does, okay here, Mary.
Speaker 3 (30:39):
Was not lying. She is everywhere. She's literal in it.
Speaker 2 (30:44):
But you know what, and it's just like her and Greg.
Greg was never leaving her side. Greg was with me
a lot. Greg was never leaving her side. And you
know they does he he does does what he does.
But if I'm traveling, if I'm doing, he's gonna be
there to protect me.
Speaker 3 (31:00):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (31:00):
It makes traveling fun too, because it's like everything's like
a little bay trip. I'd be like, come with me,
like come on, is you coming?
Speaker 3 (31:12):
I used to have them no longer.
Speaker 1 (31:14):
All right, well one day again and you can come
and again, Okay, we'll see. I felt like during the
course of this podcast going, we're gonna learn more and more.
Speaker 3 (31:24):
It's not like I don't have a lot talking to me.
But like you said, I just want the one.
Speaker 1 (31:28):
That you want, the one that you want. Okay, I'm
sure your dms be lit, though.
Speaker 3 (31:32):
I don't really look at them.
Speaker 5 (31:33):
Have you ever, because I feel like there's a lot
of weird people in your d My DM is on
fire with weirdos.
Speaker 1 (31:40):
Have you ever done online dating? Now that's a show.
Speaker 3 (31:44):
I feel like you would meet a lot of No.
Speaker 1 (31:46):
Listen, let me tell you something. So I have three
people around me right now that are all on different
like dating apps, right and they are going on some
good dates. You face, Oh my god, like one.
Speaker 3 (31:56):
I sing be a bunch of weird She's standing.
Speaker 1 (31:58):
A doctor that she met and she showed me that
handsome man. She really likes him. My other friend went
out when I can't he get a date.
Speaker 3 (32:07):
Think about it like this.
Speaker 1 (32:11):
People hit people up in the d ms for dates
and they do things like that's the same thing, and
then you go out and meet somebody in person. But
people don't go out like they used to, you know,
and sometimes people don't have time if they.
Speaker 5 (32:23):
Well, this successful musician was in my h d MS
for a minute, okay, and.
Speaker 3 (32:32):
Over the holidays I saw him out with somebody else.
Speaker 1 (32:36):
Oh.
Speaker 5 (32:40):
I was just like, oh my God, and he had
the nerve on Christmas to d M me and be like,
Merry Christmas, baby.
Speaker 3 (32:46):
I was like, you don't get out, my I see
you all on the blocks for this girl.
Speaker 1 (32:53):
Oh that's wow. Well you know they play too much here?
Huh No, okay, in this country.
Speaker 3 (33:12):
They might.
Speaker 1 (33:15):
Well listen you guys. I appreciate y'all so much, and
I'm I promise you. I really wanted to do this
Colloud because I thought you gave a good time. Yes,
I have a boyfriend. You don't for you, I do
feel like I always have a man, but no, this
one is this is going really really well. Yeah, this
is like my man. I don't know that I want
to get married. Sorry, ser but but I.
Speaker 3 (33:39):
Don't have to get married.
Speaker 1 (33:40):
I don't have to, you know, you know, but if
I changed my mind and decide to, I will. But
I like you have to know, you don't.
Speaker 2 (33:47):
I just feel like gods like you make sure it's
the right one though.
Speaker 4 (33:55):
I told you you can't, y'all.
Speaker 2 (33:57):
Okay, from now that I'm doing this interview, I officially
say my first two you can't count. Well, I'm not
gonna say my my shooter because he wasn't. But yeah,
like the other one, he definitely like I don't even
know who was that, but like I was the trauma.
Speaker 1 (34:11):
You get what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (34:12):
So yeah, I'm thirty five now, so it's like, okay,
now I know what I want.
Speaker 1 (34:17):
Right those were it was all like and then let
me start a situation.
Speaker 2 (34:20):
It's like just because it was three guys, people, because
you date, probably you're on television and stuff, it's like,
oh my god, you've been married a hundred times.
Speaker 3 (34:30):
It's like, I ain't even had this.
Speaker 4 (34:31):
You gotta think I was married my whole life. I
ain't even have this with that many people.
Speaker 1 (34:35):
One and a half.
Speaker 3 (34:36):
I said that too. I was married for so long.
Speaker 5 (34:40):
I don't feel like I've been a whole and I
really have got to be a well I'm dying to be.
Speaker 3 (34:45):
It's time girl, girl. Yes you about how long have you?
Speaker 1 (34:56):
Guys? Two years? That's nice? Yeah?
Speaker 3 (35:00):
I love that.
Speaker 1 (35:00):
He's a very girl.
Speaker 4 (35:02):
Oh y'all goat really well?
Speaker 1 (35:05):
Okay, he balances me. I'm not to balance him, praying,
yes he does. And you're so pretty too.
Speaker 3 (35:12):
Yes, you want to have a baby, about to get it,
but you want to have a baby, I.
Speaker 1 (35:16):
Don't know if I mean, if I got pregnant. You know,
it happens.
Speaker 3 (35:19):
You can have a saragate.
Speaker 2 (35:21):
Okay, Yeah, when you come to Atlanta, I'm gonna take
you to get some little fellers.
Speaker 1 (35:25):
I'm scared of it's that's so painful. No, I got
the numb and the monster. Nom girl, you don't feel
I want to get micro blady too, you do?
Speaker 3 (35:35):
You don't need micro blady.
Speaker 1 (35:37):
You don't, well, how natural? It's real natural, like a natural.
I'm not to come to Atlanta and hang out me
and my home girls.
Speaker 3 (35:45):
I don't even have it. I don't get the micro
but I got it.
Speaker 1 (35:48):
I got it because we like to be made right right,
and I would do you know what I've done. I
did this, Morpheus, I did it too. I like that here.
Speaker 6 (36:01):
I was just like it's kind of like MicroC Oh,
that ship hurt.
Speaker 1 (36:07):
I wasn't.
Speaker 2 (36:08):
I thought it was nice though for my You know,
it was very glowy and bouncing using your own blood, and.
Speaker 1 (36:13):
You put it on your face. You didn't.
Speaker 3 (36:17):
I don't. I can't deal with pay. I needed some
mo you need the most.
Speaker 1 (36:21):
Mom.
Speaker 3 (36:23):
You hurted me. I was carrying all like a baby.
Speaker 1 (36:25):
Oh yeah, it was great. You do not to face. Okay,
well good, I'm excited you come. I'm we're gonna, we're gonna,
we're gonna go through a glam treatment. Yeah, okay.
Speaker 3 (36:34):
You have tattoos, No.
Speaker 1 (36:36):
You want one small one. I don't trying. You're trying
to correct.
Speaker 3 (36:40):
I don't have.
Speaker 1 (36:43):
No, you don't have anything that's not that's my edgy side. Yeah,
but you did get you had an issue with your
last because the girl.
Speaker 2 (36:51):
Let me show you how big this tattoo was. It's
from here all the way to my that's your whole Yeah,
people do it was because it was so huge. I
should have never gotten into that bid. My body just rejected,
like what the hell? But she probably wented this.
Speaker 1 (37:11):
I supposed to. This supposed took me like a year
to do. I did it one day. You try to
be gangstering because that monster. Know.
Speaker 4 (37:16):
I ain't feel shit.
Speaker 1 (37:17):
I was like ship.
Speaker 2 (37:17):
But when I when it wore off, my body was
like no and went into a protection mode. And that's
how it swallow.
Speaker 1 (37:24):
Up on me. Yeah. Well, I'm sorry. I don't know
if that's selling us on getting one, but we can get.
Speaker 5 (37:30):
I would do one on my finger. You get when
I get my husband for this initial.
Speaker 1 (37:36):
Cute cut speaking into existence. Yeah all right, well, ladies,
thank y'all so much for joining us. Can watch you guys,
Me and my Homegirl. This starts on the sixteenth January sixteenth. Yes, okay.
How many episodes have your filmed or is it still
in progress? We did too, okay, yeah, so this is
gonna job. How how frequently.
Speaker 2 (37:55):
We're thinking, like twice a month? Yeah, maybe four times?
And then as we maybe four times a month.
Speaker 1 (38:01):
Okay. Are you gonna have guests? You think? Are? Sometimes?
Speaker 3 (38:04):
We will sometimes, but it'll be more about us focusing.
Speaker 1 (38:07):
Yeah that's good because y'all have been kicking it.
Speaker 5 (38:09):
I just feel like we don't want to struggle trying
to get a guest, you like, I feel like we
could just talk about everything and sometimes have a guest
sometimes not.
Speaker 1 (38:17):
Yeah, okay, yeah, all right, well I like it. Well,
thank you so many, and everybody make sure y'all listen
watch it because it is really entertaining and it's cute.
Thank you, and that's the type of energy that we need,
like good positive.
Speaker 3 (38:29):
There's so many podcasts out here.
Speaker 1 (38:30):
Uh yeah, I mean, ain't me and my honger I know.
Speaker 3 (38:34):
I ain't worry about it.
Speaker 1 (38:35):
But honestly, that's what people are listening to now because
there's so many people out here that want things that
they can relate to, that they could listen to. Yeah,
and so nothing wrong with that as long as the
cream always rises us to the top. Yeah, that's right,
that's good. All right, all right, thank you for having
thank you, thank you so much. I know we're going
to do some more together. Yeah, all right, thank you
(38:57):
so much. Thank you
Speaker 3 (39:01):
One