December 14, 2017 • 10 mins
Hello Steve and Shirley. I'm a 43 year old female and I've always dated older men. Well about eight months ago I started dating a 36 year old man and after seven months of dating we decided to be intimate. Now here's the problem I guess since he's younger than me he wants to have sex or make love three to four times a night seven days a week.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Coming on, Hold on, tight, we gotta fun you here.
It is a Strawberry letter subject subject he loves to
do it. That is the subject. Let's get into it
all right, he finally Hello, Stephen Shirley. I am a
forty three year old female and I've always dated older men. Well,
(00:23):
about eight months ago, I started dating a thirty six
year old man, and after seven months of dating, we
decided to be intimate. Now here's the problem. I guess
since he's younger than me, he wants to have sex
or make love three to four times a night, seven
days a week. I work nights and he works days.
(00:46):
When I get off, I'm tired. I have tried to
talk to him about this and told him that I
need my rest. His response was that we should do
quickie sometimes instead of full sessions. This was not what
I wanted to hear. This was not it. Can you
give me please some advice on this situation. This is
(01:08):
running the love I have for him. This is ruining
the love I have for him because I can't take
all of the bedroom action. Should I break up with
this younger man? Please help? WHOA be careful what you
wish for, because you you you're not. You didn't. I
guess one you didn't tell us why you and the
older man broke up. But you guys were no longer together.
You probably should have stayed with him. Maybe he wasn't
(01:30):
doing it enough for you, but you should have stuck
with the older guy. I mean, this is too much,
clearly for you, for anyone. I don't even see how
the thirty six year old can handle this. You guys
are just sexually incompatible. Three to four times a night,
seven days a week. Yeah, I see your lips moving,
(01:52):
but I don't believe anything that's coming out of your mouth.
I really don't this the game. It's a lot for
any It's a lot for any human. I'm just sorry, Steve,
your nerves, remember your nerves. It's just a lot for anyone,
you know. I don't know how much longer you're gonna
(02:12):
be able to keep up. You're already tired. Have you
talked to him about it? If you have, he probably
doesn't want to hear it. And if you're not doing it,
he's probably gonna go out and get it to someplace else.
You guys are simply sexually incompatible. It is too much
for you. Uh. And unless you you know, want to
adhere to what he's doing unless he brings it down.
(02:33):
That's the only way this is gonna work. I don't.
I don't see that. I don't see this relationship working.
I really don't. Yeah, you might have to break up
with this younger man because you can't handle him. Simple
as that, Steve, O, we come back. I already know
what's I'm straight cracks back all right. Steve is gonna
(03:02):
have part two of his response to today's Strawberry Lett
when we come back. Oh, part well, that's right alright,
coming up in about twenty minutes. I'm excited about this.
A girl to J p Henson will be our special guest. Yes,
but right now, Steve, come on, it's up to you. Well,
(03:24):
is afforded three year old female and she always dated
older men in the past, but now she didn't dip
down into the pool and started dating and doing at
thirty six. After seven months of dating, they decided to
be intimate. Yeah. Well, I guess since he's younger than me,
(03:45):
he wants to have sex or make a little three
to four times a night, seven days a week. All right,
I work nights, he worked days. When I get off
I'm tired. I've tried to talk to this boy, but
I hadn't told him I needing damn rest his response
ward and we can do some quickly sometimes instead of
(04:09):
full session. That was not what I wanted to hear.
Can you please give me some advice on this situation.
This is ruined the love I have for him because
I can't take all this being room actions. Should I
break up with this younger man? Please help? Well, let's go.
Let's do some numbers. Right you're dating a man to
(04:29):
seven years younger than you. He thirty six, I'm six.
I remember them days, but I will not go three
four times a night, seven days a week. Ridiculous. Where
does he work? That is his goals in life? Do
we have anything he won't other than some tale? Right now?
(04:50):
He just got to be your one am in life?
When you got to have a three folk time week,
seven days a week, and let's do it. If it
three times we got twenty one times? Yeah, if it
four times a week, four times a night times, ain't
nothing left. Boy is in bad shape. Now let's go
(05:15):
into this party right here when I get off. I'm tired,
so I talked to him about it. And I told
him that I need my rest. His responsible. We are
we should just do quickly sometimes instead of full session.
But what we're learning is that he has no friends
(05:35):
of cutting back. We're gonna do it the same amount
of time. We can shorten the list. These sessions can
turn in the quickest, but to go in it's gonna happen.
This is going to happen. Now. That ain't what I
wanted to hear. Can you please give me some vice?
This is ruining the love out. He I can't take
(05:58):
all this bad room action. Okay, well you can't take
the bedroom. Should I break up with this young man?
Please help? Answer to this is yes, you must break
up night. Listen to me. Ain't no, you don't need
no one last night. You got this now here. You
need one more night for that because that's more time.
(06:25):
Normally you will hear people say, well that's just one
more time, see one more night with this boy. Hen
lose your job because this boy don't know. He don't
have no time. Now. A couple of things is happening here.
He's first of all, is this is new to him? Yeah,
(06:49):
this is like a new toy to him, and he
ain't got past the newness of it. See. Plus, let
me tell you something. The letter that I saw after
seven months a date right there, You hail a man
out for seven months full trying. He making up for
lost TI. This is seven seven months of waiting. Even
(07:14):
you say three you may did boy wait seven months?
Now he in that backtrack. This is called retroactive. That's
what this is. This is I'm now I'm getting it
for what I should have got back there. So Duke
could be going through the makeup period in his mind.
(07:35):
Now you can have one more conversation with him and say,
listen to me, I love you, But in order for
us to remain together, this is what we're gonna have
to do. We're going to work this out because of
our shift. Different is different. I would night you were
days blah blah blah blah blah. We need some time off. Now,
will he go somewhere else? Probably? So got to because
(07:59):
jack Rabbit Johnson's committing what's jack rabbit, jack Rabbit Johnson committed.
Jack Rabbit Johnson's committed to doing what he do. And
now you have a situation. Now I don't agree that
you should date older men, but I think you're gonna have.
(08:22):
Then you went through a seven month here, so you
thought you knew it, but you didn't know how it
was in the bed room. See what you gotta start
doing this. You gotta start, you gotta break, You gotta
bring them me in slowly. You held him off for
seven months. You gotta walk here slowly. Now what's gonna
be hard for you to do is you can't backtrack
and start reducing the amount of sex you have because
(08:45):
he gonna know you can't backtrack it. So now that
she's up to three or four times a night, she's
got to stay there. Is that what you're saying, You're
gonna have to start missing night? Yeah, coming up missing? Yeah,
bull shift not to go. See what you're gonna have
to do is you're gonna have to take off some night.
(09:07):
You had to come up with some excuse. You got
to get into some type of program. You can get
away from it far a six weeks. If you're in
a rehab programs you take, Yeah, you witness detection program,
that's another one. You could attempt to kill him and
(09:31):
go on the run. That's another way to get away. Yeah,
you can get yourself into a self induced coma after
to put you in it. You could do something. But
if you keep going in there four nights, four times
a night, you're gonna be in a car. This boy
trying to pop up too much. That's eighty four times
(09:53):
a month on the lowing eight. But don't have all
the old man. Don't come over here with that. You're
gonna get the same damn thing. Okay, that's the one
tail on the high. You could do eighty four. All Right,
(10:13):
we gotta go, we gotta get out of here. Email
as their Instagram. I think the real problem is he
ain't that damn good. No, he's not. No, really close.
The four times or night you're working, you you're doing
something that ain't effect You're listening to the Steve Harvey
Morning Show
Coming on, Hold on, tight, we gotta fun you here.
It is a Strawberry letter subject subject he loves to
do it. That is the subject. Let's get into it
all right, he finally Hello, Stephen Shirley. I am a
forty three year old female and I've always dated older men. Well,
(00:23):
about eight months ago, I started dating a thirty six
year old man, and after seven months of dating, we
decided to be intimate. Now here's the problem. I guess
since he's younger than me, he wants to have sex
or make love three to four times a night, seven
days a week. I work nights and he works days.
(00:46):
When I get off, I'm tired. I have tried to
talk to him about this and told him that I
need my rest. His response was that we should do
quickie sometimes instead of full sessions. This was not what
I wanted to hear. This was not it. Can you
give me please some advice on this situation. This is
(01:08):
running the love I have for him. This is ruining
the love I have for him because I can't take
all of the bedroom action. Should I break up with
this younger man? Please help? WHOA be careful what you
wish for, because you you you're not. You didn't. I
guess one you didn't tell us why you and the
older man broke up. But you guys were no longer together.
You probably should have stayed with him. Maybe he wasn't
(01:30):
doing it enough for you, but you should have stuck
with the older guy. I mean, this is too much,
clearly for you, for anyone. I don't even see how
the thirty six year old can handle this. You guys
are just sexually incompatible. Three to four times a night,
seven days a week. Yeah, I see your lips moving,
(01:52):
but I don't believe anything that's coming out of your mouth.
I really don't this the game. It's a lot for
any It's a lot for any human. I'm just sorry, Steve,
your nerves, remember your nerves. It's just a lot for anyone,
you know. I don't know how much longer you're gonna
(02:12):
be able to keep up. You're already tired. Have you
talked to him about it? If you have, he probably
doesn't want to hear it. And if you're not doing it,
he's probably gonna go out and get it to someplace else.
You guys are simply sexually incompatible. It is too much
for you. Uh. And unless you you know, want to
adhere to what he's doing unless he brings it down.
(02:33):
That's the only way this is gonna work. I don't.
I don't see that. I don't see this relationship working.
I really don't. Yeah, you might have to break up
with this younger man because you can't handle him. Simple
as that, Steve, O, we come back. I already know
what's I'm straight cracks back all right. Steve is gonna
(03:02):
have part two of his response to today's Strawberry Lett
when we come back. Oh, part well, that's right alright,
coming up in about twenty minutes. I'm excited about this.
A girl to J p Henson will be our special guest. Yes,
but right now, Steve, come on, it's up to you. Well,
(03:24):
is afforded three year old female and she always dated
older men in the past, but now she didn't dip
down into the pool and started dating and doing at
thirty six. After seven months of dating, they decided to
be intimate. Yeah. Well, I guess since he's younger than me,
(03:45):
he wants to have sex or make a little three
to four times a night, seven days a week. All right,
I work nights, he worked days. When I get off
I'm tired. I've tried to talk to this boy, but
I hadn't told him I needing damn rest his response
ward and we can do some quickly sometimes instead of
(04:09):
full session. That was not what I wanted to hear.
Can you please give me some advice on this situation.
This is ruined the love I have for him because
I can't take all this being room actions. Should I
break up with this younger man? Please help? Well, let's go.
Let's do some numbers. Right you're dating a man to
(04:29):
seven years younger than you. He thirty six, I'm six.
I remember them days, but I will not go three
four times a night, seven days a week. Ridiculous. Where
does he work? That is his goals in life? Do
we have anything he won't other than some tale? Right now?
(04:50):
He just got to be your one am in life?
When you got to have a three folk time week,
seven days a week, and let's do it. If it
three times we got twenty one times? Yeah, if it
four times a week, four times a night times, ain't
nothing left. Boy is in bad shape. Now let's go
(05:15):
into this party right here when I get off. I'm tired,
so I talked to him about it. And I told
him that I need my rest. His responsible. We are
we should just do quickly sometimes instead of full session.
But what we're learning is that he has no friends
(05:35):
of cutting back. We're gonna do it the same amount
of time. We can shorten the list. These sessions can
turn in the quickest, but to go in it's gonna happen.
This is going to happen. Now. That ain't what I
wanted to hear. Can you please give me some vice?
This is ruining the love out. He I can't take
(05:58):
all this bad room action. Okay, well you can't take
the bedroom. Should I break up with this young man?
Please help? Answer to this is yes, you must break
up night. Listen to me. Ain't no, you don't need
no one last night. You got this now here. You
need one more night for that because that's more time.
(06:25):
Normally you will hear people say, well that's just one
more time, see one more night with this boy. Hen
lose your job because this boy don't know. He don't
have no time. Now. A couple of things is happening here.
He's first of all, is this is new to him? Yeah,
(06:49):
this is like a new toy to him, and he
ain't got past the newness of it. See. Plus, let
me tell you something. The letter that I saw after
seven months a date right there, You hail a man
out for seven months full trying. He making up for
lost TI. This is seven seven months of waiting. Even
(07:14):
you say three you may did boy wait seven months?
Now he in that backtrack. This is called retroactive. That's
what this is. This is I'm now I'm getting it
for what I should have got back there. So Duke
could be going through the makeup period in his mind.
(07:35):
Now you can have one more conversation with him and say,
listen to me, I love you, But in order for
us to remain together, this is what we're gonna have
to do. We're going to work this out because of
our shift. Different is different. I would night you were
days blah blah blah blah blah. We need some time off. Now,
will he go somewhere else? Probably? So got to because
(07:59):
jack Rabbit Johnson's committing what's jack rabbit, jack Rabbit Johnson committed.
Jack Rabbit Johnson's committed to doing what he do. And
now you have a situation. Now I don't agree that
you should date older men, but I think you're gonna have.
(08:22):
Then you went through a seven month here, so you
thought you knew it, but you didn't know how it
was in the bed room. See what you gotta start
doing this. You gotta start, you gotta break, You gotta
bring them me in slowly. You held him off for
seven months. You gotta walk here slowly. Now what's gonna
be hard for you to do is you can't backtrack
and start reducing the amount of sex you have because
(08:45):
he gonna know you can't backtrack it. So now that
she's up to three or four times a night, she's
got to stay there. Is that what you're saying, You're
gonna have to start missing night? Yeah, coming up missing? Yeah,
bull shift not to go. See what you're gonna have
to do is you're gonna have to take off some night.
(09:07):
You had to come up with some excuse. You got
to get into some type of program. You can get
away from it far a six weeks. If you're in
a rehab programs you take, Yeah, you witness detection program,
that's another one. You could attempt to kill him and
(09:31):
go on the run. That's another way to get away. Yeah,
you can get yourself into a self induced coma after
to put you in it. You could do something. But
if you keep going in there four nights, four times
a night, you're gonna be in a car. This boy
trying to pop up too much. That's eighty four times
(09:53):
a month on the lowing eight. But don't have all
the old man. Don't come over here with that. You're
gonna get the same damn thing. Okay, that's the one
tail on the high. You could do eighty four. All Right,
(10:13):
we gotta go, we gotta get out of here. Email
as their Instagram. I think the real problem is he
ain't that damn good. No, he's not. No, really close.
The four times or night you're working, you you're doing
something that ain't effect You're listening to the Steve Harvey
Morning Show
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