November 7, 2022 • 13 mins
Dear Steve and Shirley, my husband and I love to hang out after football games. We are Clemson fans and my husband played football so we are all into the games. We met a group of friends at our favorite bar and two of my single girlfriends came. They’re not into football, but they thought some single men might be out. We were sitting back and chilling and one of my friend’s friends joined us..........................
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Subject she slapped my husband. Dear Stephen Shirley. My husband
and I love to hang out after football games. We're
Clemson fans and my husband played football, so we were
all into the games. We met a group of friends
(00:45):
at our favorite bar and two of my single girlfriends came.
They're not into football, but they thought some single men
might be out. We were sitting back and chilling and
one of my friends joined us. She went to the
bar to her own food and drinks, even though we
had a waiter that checked on us. My husband was
(01:05):
joky joky with her, but I could see that she
had a bad vibe from the time she walked in.
She was on her phone, texting a whole lot. At
the same time, my husband seemed distracted and he checked
his phone a lot. I am watching them the whole
time because something was not right. If she texted, he
(01:27):
looked at his phone. Then she got up to go
sit at the bar, and it was packed by then,
so I could not really see what was what she
was doing. My husband went to the bathroom and stopped
by the bar to talk to her. He showed her
his phone and she showed him hers. Then she put
(01:47):
her finger in his face and lightly slapped him. I
walked over to them, and he looked like a deer
in headlight. He said he wanted to know why she
was being antisocial and sitting at the bar. So I
asked him why he cared. She echoed, saying yeah, why
do you care? He swears it was nothing at all,
and that I did not see her slap him. Why
(02:08):
would my friend invite this woman to join us, join
us if something is up with her and my husband.
I want to ask about this woman, but I don't
want to seem pressed. What should I do? You gotta ask,
what do you mean? You don't want to seem pressed?
This is your husband you saw this woman slap him.
You have every right to ask and find out what's
(02:29):
going on. I'm just surprised by this because where and
when could this ever happen. You see a woman slap
your husband and nothing there certainly seems to be something
going on. I mean, you know you peep did with
all the texting back and forth and all of that.
You know, you know when someone around you gets a
text from someone else because they're looking. You know, you
(02:50):
see someone texting, You know how this stuff goes. They
were very familiar. You know what you saw with your
own eyes. This woman had a lot of nerve to
slap him in front of you, and she did it
in front of everyone. I'm sure she definitely knew what
she was doing and that you were there with him,
which is why this all happened. Anyway, I say, believe
(03:11):
what you saw in spite of what your husband said.
He said you didn't see her slap him, and believe
everything your intuition is telling you. You said you knew
something was off, you knew something wasn't right. You know,
this is just crazy, because no woman is just gonna
slap someone randomly, you know, if there's not anything going
(03:32):
on between him. He said something crazy, she was mad
because you were there. All of that. Your friend is
wrong for inviting the woman. Your husband is wrong and
stupid for stopping to talk to her in the first place.
And the woman doesn't give a darn about your marriage
or you being there. Your husband is the one you
should be talking to about this though, he you know,
(03:55):
maybe even slap him again, you know, since he didn't.
He said, you didn't see her slap him the first time.
It's okay for you to be pressed. Speak up for yourself,
all right, Steve, Well, Shirley, My answer is going to
surprise you. And yeah, because I usually try to help
some guys out. The name of the letter, though, is
(04:20):
she slapped my husband. I'm gonna do something I hardly
ever do. I'm gonna start at the bottom. He swears
it was nothing at all, that I did not see
her slap him. Why wouldn't my friend invite this woman
to join us if something was up with her and
my husband? I just want to ask about this woman,
(04:43):
but I don't want to seem pressed. What should I do? Well,
I show want to know who the woman is that
wrote this letter, because you're amazing I've never had one
of you. This is it's great. You watched the woman
slap your husband and you don't want to seem pressed.
(05:10):
Oh my god. And then he told you you didn't
really see hush slap him. That was the move right there.
And you want to know why your friend invited this
woman to join us. If something were up with her,
(05:31):
my husband, your friend may not know anything about it.
She just invited the woman. But now let's go back
now and read this letter. Y'all go to the y'all
Clemson fans, y'all went to the game. So the single
women came. They ain't like football, but they thought some
single guys would be there. You're chilling, and one of
(05:54):
your friends joined us. So then she went to the
ball are to order her own food and drinks, even
though we had a waited that checked on us. My
husband was joking, joking with her, but I could see
that she had a bad vibe from the time she
walked in. She was on her phone, texting a whole lot.
At the same time, my husband seemed distracted and he
(06:17):
checked his phone a lot. I'm watching them the whole
time because something was not right. Normally I would try
to help this guy with some lies. Steve Way, he
should hang on. Hang on, We'll have part two of
(06:39):
Steve's response coming up at twenty three minutes after the hour.
Today's Strawberry Letter subjects she slapped my husband, who goes back.
All right, we'll get back into it right after this.
You're listening show. All right, Come on, Steve, let's recap
today's Strawberry Letter and get your spons the titles she
(07:03):
slapped my husband. They had a bar, they clips some fans.
Guy used to play. They all go to the bar.
A couple of girl friends came, but they don't like football,
but they figured some single guys would be there. Then
another one of your friends came. According to you, she
was one of your friends. Came and had a very
(07:24):
bad vibe, and she went to the bar to order
her food, but y'all had a waiter that was checking
on y'all. Ever, she was on her phone texting a lot,
and at the same time, my husband seemed distracted and
he checked his phone a lot. So now they texting
each other. I'm watching them the whole time. Because something
(07:47):
was not right, she texts, he looked at his phone.
Oh lord. Then she got up and set at the bar,
and it was packed, so you couldn't really see what
was going on on. Your husband went to the bathroom,
stopped by the bar to talk to her. He showed
her his phone, she showed him hers. Then she put
(08:10):
her finger in his face and lightly slapped him. I
walked over to him. He looked like a dead headlight.
He said. He wanted to know why she was being
antisocialist sitting at the bar. So I asked him why
he can Now here's the part of the whole letter.
She echoed me, saying, yeah, why do you care? Now?
(08:34):
Right here? Who are you asking my husband any questions?
But when I walked over there, the fact that you
had slapped him changes our relationship from now on, because
wait a minute, why did you slap my husband? Now?
(08:57):
Your husband trying to get out of it. Now, baby,
she didn't slap me. What you're talking mother? Why slapped
me him? You should have asked her why did you
slap my husband? Because she answering all the other questions.
See that old? That old? And yeah, why do you care? Yeah?
Why do you care? Oh? She answering questions? Well, then
(09:20):
you should have asked her, why did you slap my husband. Yeah,
and then when she soon as she gave you her
her answer, why you ain't slap her ass? Is? Get it?
I don't understand this at all. See and then you
(09:40):
you something you're a little off. You said, why would
my friend invite this woman to join us? If something
is up with her and my husband? Your friend that
invited her to join and may not know nothing about this? Right?
Everybody in the dog that didn't nobody know about this?
I want to ask about this woman, but I don't
want to see him press, So you're gonna let God?
(10:01):
Who are you? Oh? This is? Do you have a
sister that was right there? Are you available after this?
Do you have friends that's available? Because I got partners
that want to meet this type of woman? I don't know.
I don't even understand how you let the woman slap
your husband and you ain't had no words for her?
(10:24):
He lied, so he did the best slie. Why does
she slap you? She ain't slapped me and you just
saw her do it? Crazy? What slap? Why was you
showing her your phone? I ain't showing her my phone.
She showed you her phone if you really wanted to
(10:46):
see it, get crazy man. You could have snatched his phone,
would have did it, But then I know you ain't
gonna snatch his phone because you don't want Tressy pressed
an actor. Don't want to be pressed, girl, girl, This
(11:14):
letter don't make no sense. Lady, I don't know what
should I do? Well for starters, let me tell you
what the average woman gonna do. This is far from over.
M Who is he and what is a he? To you? Who?
(11:35):
Come on board? Fingers Steve? That was this way song? Goom?
He always does that? You know a man we passed
and just try to stand me down? That garment? Who
is he? And what is a he? To you? Who? Now?
(12:01):
You did? That's a female version to that woman we passed?
Jays try to stem me down. Doom boom boom, doom doom.
And when I looked at you, you looked at the ground.
Yeah you did. I don't know who she is, but
(12:26):
I think that you do that gumment? Who is she
and what is a she? To you? Who? Ah? Now
that's that's an old Bill Witherson that I wanted to
give to you. And that's what you should do. But
(12:49):
if you don't feel like being pressed, let it go. Okay,
she shouldn't have even used that words girl doom. That's
not the word, all right. Hit us up on Instagram
at Steve Harvey FM to comment on today's Strawberry Letter.
You can also check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on
(13:10):
demand now. Coming up next it is Junior and Sports Talking.
You want to talk about the astros junior at all,
we'll get into it right after this. You're listening to
the Stave Harvey Morning Show.
It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter, and if
you need advice on relationships, work, sex, parenting, and more,
please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEFM dot com
by clicking submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your
letter live on the air, just like we're gonna read
this one right here, right now. You never know. It
could be yours. It could be you never know. Buckle
(00:24):
up and hold on tight. We got it for you
here it is Strawberry Letter. All right, Thank you, nephew.
Subject she slapped my husband. Dear Stephen Shirley. My husband
and I love to hang out after football games. We're
Clemson fans and my husband played football, so we were
all into the games. We met a group of friends
(00:45):
at our favorite bar and two of my single girlfriends came.
They're not into football, but they thought some single men
might be out. We were sitting back and chilling and
one of my friends joined us. She went to the
bar to her own food and drinks, even though we
had a waiter that checked on us. My husband was
(01:05):
joky joky with her, but I could see that she
had a bad vibe from the time she walked in.
She was on her phone, texting a whole lot. At
the same time, my husband seemed distracted and he checked
his phone a lot. I am watching them the whole
time because something was not right. If she texted, he
(01:27):
looked at his phone. Then she got up to go
sit at the bar, and it was packed by then,
so I could not really see what was what she
was doing. My husband went to the bathroom and stopped
by the bar to talk to her. He showed her
his phone and she showed him hers. Then she put
(01:47):
her finger in his face and lightly slapped him. I
walked over to them, and he looked like a deer
in headlight. He said he wanted to know why she
was being antisocial and sitting at the bar. So I
asked him why he cared. She echoed, saying yeah, why
do you care? He swears it was nothing at all,
and that I did not see her slap him. Why
(02:08):
would my friend invite this woman to join us, join
us if something is up with her and my husband.
I want to ask about this woman, but I don't
want to seem pressed. What should I do? You gotta ask,
what do you mean? You don't want to seem pressed?
This is your husband you saw this woman slap him.
You have every right to ask and find out what's
(02:29):
going on. I'm just surprised by this because where and
when could this ever happen. You see a woman slap
your husband and nothing there certainly seems to be something
going on. I mean, you know you peep did with
all the texting back and forth and all of that.
You know, you know when someone around you gets a
text from someone else because they're looking. You know, you
(02:50):
see someone texting, You know how this stuff goes. They
were very familiar. You know what you saw with your
own eyes. This woman had a lot of nerve to
slap him in front of you, and she did it
in front of everyone. I'm sure she definitely knew what
she was doing and that you were there with him,
which is why this all happened. Anyway, I say, believe
(03:11):
what you saw in spite of what your husband said.
He said you didn't see her slap him, and believe
everything your intuition is telling you. You said you knew
something was off, you knew something wasn't right. You know,
this is just crazy, because no woman is just gonna
slap someone randomly, you know, if there's not anything going
(03:32):
on between him. He said something crazy, she was mad
because you were there. All of that. Your friend is
wrong for inviting the woman. Your husband is wrong and
stupid for stopping to talk to her in the first place.
And the woman doesn't give a darn about your marriage
or you being there. Your husband is the one you
should be talking to about this though, he you know,
(03:55):
maybe even slap him again, you know, since he didn't.
He said, you didn't see her slap him the first time.
It's okay for you to be pressed. Speak up for yourself,
all right, Steve, Well, Shirley, My answer is going to
surprise you. And yeah, because I usually try to help
some guys out. The name of the letter, though, is
(04:20):
she slapped my husband. I'm gonna do something I hardly
ever do. I'm gonna start at the bottom. He swears
it was nothing at all, that I did not see
her slap him. Why wouldn't my friend invite this woman
to join us if something was up with her and
my husband? I just want to ask about this woman,
(04:43):
but I don't want to seem pressed. What should I do? Well,
I show want to know who the woman is that
wrote this letter, because you're amazing I've never had one
of you. This is it's great. You watched the woman
slap your husband and you don't want to seem pressed.
(05:10):
Oh my god. And then he told you you didn't
really see hush slap him. That was the move right there.
And you want to know why your friend invited this
woman to join us. If something were up with her,
(05:31):
my husband, your friend may not know anything about it.
She just invited the woman. But now let's go back
now and read this letter. Y'all go to the y'all
Clemson fans, y'all went to the game. So the single
women came. They ain't like football, but they thought some
single guys would be there. You're chilling, and one of
(05:54):
your friends joined us. So then she went to the
ball are to order her own food and drinks, even
though we had a waited that checked on us. My
husband was joking, joking with her, but I could see
that she had a bad vibe from the time she
walked in. She was on her phone, texting a whole lot.
At the same time, my husband seemed distracted and he
(06:17):
checked his phone a lot. I'm watching them the whole
time because something was not right. Normally I would try
to help this guy with some lies. Steve Way, he
should hang on. Hang on, We'll have part two of
(06:39):
Steve's response coming up at twenty three minutes after the hour.
Today's Strawberry Letter subjects she slapped my husband, who goes back.
All right, we'll get back into it right after this.
You're listening show. All right, Come on, Steve, let's recap
today's Strawberry Letter and get your spons the titles she
(07:03):
slapped my husband. They had a bar, they clips some fans.
Guy used to play. They all go to the bar.
A couple of girl friends came, but they don't like football,
but they figured some single guys would be there. Then
another one of your friends came. According to you, she
was one of your friends. Came and had a very
(07:24):
bad vibe, and she went to the bar to order
her food, but y'all had a waiter that was checking
on y'all. Ever, she was on her phone texting a lot,
and at the same time, my husband seemed distracted and
he checked his phone a lot. So now they texting
each other. I'm watching them the whole time. Because something
(07:47):
was not right, she texts, he looked at his phone.
Oh lord. Then she got up and set at the bar,
and it was packed, so you couldn't really see what
was going on on. Your husband went to the bathroom,
stopped by the bar to talk to her. He showed
her his phone, she showed him hers. Then she put
(08:10):
her finger in his face and lightly slapped him. I
walked over to him. He looked like a dead headlight.
He said. He wanted to know why she was being
antisocialist sitting at the bar. So I asked him why
he can Now here's the part of the whole letter.
She echoed me, saying, yeah, why do you care? Now?
(08:34):
Right here? Who are you asking my husband any questions?
But when I walked over there, the fact that you
had slapped him changes our relationship from now on, because
wait a minute, why did you slap my husband? Now?
(08:57):
Your husband trying to get out of it. Now, baby,
she didn't slap me. What you're talking mother? Why slapped
me him? You should have asked her why did you
slap my husband? Because she answering all the other questions.
See that old? That old? And yeah, why do you care? Yeah?
Why do you care? Oh? She answering questions? Well, then
(09:20):
you should have asked her, why did you slap my husband. Yeah,
and then when she soon as she gave you her
her answer, why you ain't slap her ass? Is? Get it?
I don't understand this at all. See and then you
(09:40):
you something you're a little off. You said, why would
my friend invite this woman to join us? If something
is up with her and my husband? Your friend that
invited her to join and may not know nothing about this? Right?
Everybody in the dog that didn't nobody know about this?
I want to ask about this woman, but I don't
want to see him press, So you're gonna let God?
(10:01):
Who are you? Oh? This is? Do you have a
sister that was right there? Are you available after this?
Do you have friends that's available? Because I got partners
that want to meet this type of woman? I don't know.
I don't even understand how you let the woman slap
your husband and you ain't had no words for her?
(10:24):
He lied, so he did the best slie. Why does
she slap you? She ain't slapped me and you just
saw her do it? Crazy? What slap? Why was you
showing her your phone? I ain't showing her my phone.
She showed you her phone if you really wanted to
(10:46):
see it, get crazy man. You could have snatched his phone,
would have did it, But then I know you ain't
gonna snatch his phone because you don't want Tressy pressed
an actor. Don't want to be pressed, girl, girl, This
(11:14):
letter don't make no sense. Lady, I don't know what
should I do? Well for starters, let me tell you
what the average woman gonna do. This is far from over.
M Who is he and what is a he? To you? Who?
(11:35):
Come on board? Fingers Steve? That was this way song? Goom?
He always does that? You know a man we passed
and just try to stand me down? That garment? Who
is he? And what is a he? To you? Who? Now?
(12:01):
You did? That's a female version to that woman we passed?
Jays try to stem me down. Doom boom boom, doom doom.
And when I looked at you, you looked at the ground.
Yeah you did. I don't know who she is, but
(12:26):
I think that you do that gumment? Who is she
and what is a she? To you? Who? Ah? Now
that's that's an old Bill Witherson that I wanted to
give to you. And that's what you should do. But
(12:49):
if you don't feel like being pressed, let it go. Okay,
she shouldn't have even used that words girl doom. That's
not the word, all right. Hit us up on Instagram
at Steve Harvey FM to comment on today's Strawberry Letter.
You can also check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on
(13:10):
demand now. Coming up next it is Junior and Sports Talking.
You want to talk about the astros junior at all,
we'll get into it right after this. You're listening to
the Stave Harvey Morning Show.
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