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Speaker 1 (00:00):
It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter. If you
need advice on relationships, work, sex, parenting, and more, please
submit your Strawberry letters to STEVEBARBFM dot com and click
submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your letter live
on the air, just like we're going to read this
one right here, right now, and you never know it
could be yours.
Speaker 2 (00:20):
It could be, so buckle up and hold on tight.
We got it for you.
Speaker 3 (00:23):
Here.
Speaker 2 (00:23):
It is Strawberry Letter.
Speaker 4 (00:25):
Thank you, nephew. Subject talk dirty to.
Speaker 1 (00:27):
Me, but not that dirty, and to many dates, and
we're really digging each other. I was having a hard
time keeping my hands to myself when I was around him,
so I decided we would have sex. He is very spiritual,
so we prayed before we had sex the first time.
Speaker 4 (00:46):
Then we started getting freaky.
Speaker 1 (00:48):
There is no way that this man can be quote
saved and make love the way he does and use
all of the.
Speaker 4 (00:55):
Filthy language he uses.
Speaker 1 (00:57):
I thought he was happy to be getting so at first,
because he immediately started yelling profanity as loud as he could.
I've been told I am excellent in bed, but he
showed out too. Afterwards. I told him I like the
dirty talk, but not that dirty. I've never heard him
(01:18):
utter a curse word until we're having sex. It's his thing,
and I have tried to get used to it, but
I can't. We've been in a relationship for eight months,
and each time we have sex he acts like it
was better than the last time, and he uses new
curse words and strings them together to get his point across.
When I try to talk to him about his dirty mouth,
(01:40):
he suggests that we go back to being celibate. I
want to keep having sex, but I want him to
replace the cursing with soft.
Speaker 4 (01:48):
Moans and groans.
Speaker 1 (01:50):
He's talking about marriage, but I need him to stop
cursing during sex first. How do I fix this? Well,
there's no way you're going to be able to fix this.
This is not going to happen. He's not going to
stop cursing during sex. You said it in the letter.
That's his thing, and he proves it. Every time you
guys get together. He's yelling and cursing while you're having sex.
(02:11):
That's where he lets it all out in bed. That's
his release. Okay, he spends the rest of the time.
I guess being a good Christian and not cursing, but
thinking up new cursing combinations, like you said. But here
you go trying to change him. It's been eight months.
This is who he is, ma'am. He's not trying to
(02:31):
change for you. You've told him how you feel, and
you keep having sex with him. Okay, he said, you
guys could go back to being celibate.
Speaker 4 (02:40):
But you no, you don't want that.
Speaker 1 (02:43):
So it's either keep going with his over the top
dirty talk or no sex. I mean, you got to
make up your mind. What is it going to be, Steve.
I left all of this stuff for you right here.
Speaker 2 (02:58):
Oh yeah, I got ready to take some notes and
I just stopped. This is crazy.
Speaker 3 (03:05):
Why take notes about something you know somewhere? Talk dirty
to me?
Speaker 2 (03:15):
Yeah, but not that duty lords.
Speaker 3 (03:20):
Then, Steven Sherlan, I'm thirty years old and already divorced.
I took my ex husband from his wife, and then
he ended up cheating on me.
Speaker 2 (03:29):
Imagine that, I guess something we can imagine.
Speaker 3 (03:33):
You know.
Speaker 2 (03:33):
They always say, if that's how.
Speaker 3 (03:34):
You get them, that's how you're gonna lose them, That's
what they say. I had fun dating for three months,
and then I decided to abstain and give my.
Speaker 2 (03:43):
Life to Christ.
Speaker 3 (03:44):
Hallelujah, hallelujah. Right after this, though, this letter takes a turn,
she met this guy in this building that was doing
the same thing, had gave his life to Christ. Oh
my God. We went out on the date. We struck
up a comming saint elephant and went on the date.
Our day turned into many dates ever really taken each other.
(04:08):
I got a hard time keeping my hands to myself
when I was around him, so I decided that we
would have sex. He is very spiritual, so we prayed
before we have.
Speaker 2 (04:23):
Sex the first time.
Speaker 3 (04:25):
This is where we need to take our first moment
of pause, because you all prayed before you had sex.
I've done a lot of prayers in my life. Come
on now, not one time have I prayed before sex.
(04:49):
What is this prayer that you must be have? Let
us pray. Lord, lay me down beside this water, but
don't let it be steal prayers, pray. I need some
(05:12):
prayer music, rhythm.
Speaker 2 (05:16):
We are praying before.
Speaker 4 (05:20):
Six now, Yes, yes.
Speaker 3 (05:23):
As I said, without the music, Lord, lay me down
beside the water, but don't let it be steal.
Speaker 2 (05:40):
Let it shake and move. Lord, help me to hold
out as I attempt to go into this for the
first time. Lord, help me to hold out.
Speaker 1 (05:57):
Thy rod.
Speaker 2 (06:00):
And staff, really hold me.
Speaker 4 (06:04):
Hold it right there.
Speaker 2 (06:05):
Oh, I'm about to pray girl.
Speaker 1 (06:08):
Part two of Steve's response coming up, which I'm sure
includes the rest of this prayer coming up in twenty
three minutes after the hour. Today's Strawberry Letters subject talk
dirty to me, but not that dirty.
Speaker 4 (06:21):
Okay, we'll get back into it right after this. You're
listening Hardy Morning Show.
Speaker 1 (06:28):
All right, Come on, Steve, let's recap today's Strawberry letter.
The subject is talk dirty to me, but not that dirty.
Speaker 3 (06:34):
We are going back to the prayer we left because
in this letter, this thirty year old woman has divorced
at metal husband by taking him from his wife.
Speaker 2 (06:45):
Then he cheated on her.
Speaker 3 (06:48):
She was enjoying the day in life, and then she
decided she was going to give her life to Christ. Yeah.
She met a Maine in the building on a hell
of vado conversation, struck up and found out that he
had given him life to Christ too. Had one day
(07:11):
turned into a lot of dates. She was having difficulty
keeping her hand off the main she said, let's go
on and have sex anyway. Uh, he be a spiritual
Maine too, said, let us pray, let us have prayer
(07:33):
before we have sex. I've been a Christian a long time.
I don't pray for many things. I even prayed for
thousands and ten thousands of things. I ain't never prayed
before sex. So I was only imagining what in the
world could this pray befoll sex. Be Let's go, Deacon,
(07:54):
I said, Lord, lay down beside the steal water, but
don't let the water be still. Ah then ask him, Lord,
since it's the first time, help me to hold out,
(08:17):
Help me to hold on. Lord, because the first time
in Uni go by kind of quick. But I'm asking
you to let me to hold down. And then I
realized I had to go deeper. I said, thy rod
out and thy staff. It comforts me, Yes, read into
(08:39):
that whatever you want. Though I walk in the valley
or the shadow of death, I will feel no evil.
Speaker 2 (08:50):
Because I'm up in him doing the best that I can.
Ah didn't realize.
Speaker 3 (08:57):
That do unto others as you would had him do
under you. So whatever you do to me, I'm gonna
show it up, spent around, and do it right back
to you. The presex prayer. The others that you would
have him do unto you a beginning to think of that.
I said, die shall not kill, but I.
Speaker 2 (09:20):
Don't say hurt it though. Lord, I'm just trying to
head it without kiddidate. Ah, just probably put the and
that was our presex prayer.
Speaker 3 (09:32):
We moved on and uh, then we started getting freaky.
And there's no way that this man can be saved
and make love the way he does. I have to personally,
uh interject here and disagree with you.
Speaker 2 (09:53):
Personally.
Speaker 3 (09:54):
Gonna have to jump in here and defend my brother
now because you made a statement. You said there is
no way this man can be saved and make love
the way he does. Well, as the reader of this letter,
I must say, and you did write in to me,
and sureley, I totally.
Speaker 2 (10:09):
Disagree with you. Come I having to be saved well
and have done some things.
Speaker 3 (10:18):
Yeah, Lord, listen that have made a many question me.
This is ruth and boy, I've been told hold on.
Speaker 2 (10:32):
What you're doing.
Speaker 3 (10:34):
I thought you knew the Lord, Wait a minute, what
what are you doing? I'm just I'm doing my thing.
I don't know what to tell you. I'm just doing
my thing. But you cannot make the statement that there's
no way you can be saved and make love the
way he do. Now Christians do it? Where do you
think little Christians? Colch that it's some people that's in
(10:58):
the church. That's baby making mechs anyway it again, and
and and and use all the filthy languages he uses.
I thought he was happy to be getting some at first,
but he immediately start yelling profanity as loud as he could.
(11:19):
I've been told I'm excellent in bed, but he showed
out too.
Speaker 2 (11:23):
What did he say to it though?
Speaker 3 (11:25):
What he calls I can't repeat that, But this is
the most important part.
Speaker 2 (11:31):
I'll get to that in a minute.
Speaker 3 (11:33):
I told him I liked the dirty talk, but not
that dirty. I've never heard him utter a curse word
until we're having sex.
Speaker 2 (11:43):
Yeah, that's usually when it come out. That is usually
when it come out.
Speaker 3 (11:49):
It's this, it's his thing, and I've tried to get
used to it, but I can't. We've been in a
relationship for eight most and each time we have sex
he acts like it's better than the last town and
he uses new curse words and strings them together like
nobody else to get his porter. Because let me stop
you again, I'm gonna tell you right now, he ain't
(12:10):
using no.
Speaker 2 (12:10):
New cuss words.
Speaker 3 (12:11):
Ain't none. I've used them all, My brothers have used
them all. And you can stop this here he's stringing
them together in new way. No he not, ain't no
new cuss words. We've used them all, me and my brothers.
Speaker 4 (12:24):
And how do you.
Speaker 2 (12:25):
Stop all that? Yeah? You just thirty. You ain't met nobody.
Speaker 1 (12:27):
Go back at it all right, listen, leave your comments
on Today's letter on Instagram at Steve Harb FM, and
check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on demand on the
free iHeartRadio app. Okay, it's right there. Coming up next
in a sports talk with the nephew in for Junior.
Right after this
Speaker 4 (12:45):
You're listening Steve Hardy Morning Show
It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter. If you
need advice on relationships, work, sex, parenting, and more, please
submit your Strawberry letters to STEVEBARBFM dot com and click
submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your letter live
on the air, just like we're going to read this
one right here, right now, and you never know it
could be yours.
Speaker 2 (00:20):
It could be, so buckle up and hold on tight.
We got it for you.
Speaker 3 (00:23):
Here.
Speaker 2 (00:23):
It is Strawberry Letter.
Speaker 4 (00:25):
Thank you, nephew. Subject talk dirty to.
Speaker 1 (00:27):
Me, but not that dirty, and to many dates, and
we're really digging each other. I was having a hard
time keeping my hands to myself when I was around him,
so I decided we would have sex. He is very spiritual,
so we prayed before we had sex the first time.
Speaker 4 (00:46):
Then we started getting freaky.
Speaker 1 (00:48):
There is no way that this man can be quote
saved and make love the way he does and use
all of the.
Speaker 4 (00:55):
Filthy language he uses.
Speaker 1 (00:57):
I thought he was happy to be getting so at first,
because he immediately started yelling profanity as loud as he could.
I've been told I am excellent in bed, but he
showed out too. Afterwards. I told him I like the
dirty talk, but not that dirty. I've never heard him
(01:18):
utter a curse word until we're having sex. It's his thing,
and I have tried to get used to it, but
I can't. We've been in a relationship for eight months,
and each time we have sex he acts like it
was better than the last time, and he uses new
curse words and strings them together to get his point across.
When I try to talk to him about his dirty mouth,
(01:40):
he suggests that we go back to being celibate. I
want to keep having sex, but I want him to
replace the cursing with soft.
Speaker 4 (01:48):
Moans and groans.
Speaker 1 (01:50):
He's talking about marriage, but I need him to stop
cursing during sex first. How do I fix this? Well,
there's no way you're going to be able to fix this.
This is not going to happen. He's not going to
stop cursing during sex. You said it in the letter.
That's his thing, and he proves it. Every time you
guys get together. He's yelling and cursing while you're having sex.
(02:11):
That's where he lets it all out in bed. That's
his release. Okay, he spends the rest of the time.
I guess being a good Christian and not cursing, but
thinking up new cursing combinations, like you said. But here
you go trying to change him. It's been eight months.
This is who he is, ma'am. He's not trying to
(02:31):
change for you. You've told him how you feel, and
you keep having sex with him. Okay, he said, you
guys could go back to being celibate.
Speaker 4 (02:40):
But you no, you don't want that.
Speaker 1 (02:43):
So it's either keep going with his over the top
dirty talk or no sex. I mean, you got to
make up your mind. What is it going to be, Steve.
I left all of this stuff for you right here.
Speaker 2 (02:58):
Oh yeah, I got ready to take some notes and
I just stopped. This is crazy.
Speaker 3 (03:05):
Why take notes about something you know somewhere? Talk dirty
to me?
Speaker 2 (03:15):
Yeah, but not that duty lords.
Speaker 3 (03:20):
Then, Steven Sherlan, I'm thirty years old and already divorced.
I took my ex husband from his wife, and then
he ended up cheating on me.
Speaker 2 (03:29):
Imagine that, I guess something we can imagine.
Speaker 3 (03:33):
You know.
Speaker 2 (03:33):
They always say, if that's how.
Speaker 3 (03:34):
You get them, that's how you're gonna lose them, That's
what they say. I had fun dating for three months,
and then I decided to abstain and give my.
Speaker 2 (03:43):
Life to Christ.
Speaker 3 (03:44):
Hallelujah, hallelujah. Right after this, though, this letter takes a turn,
she met this guy in this building that was doing
the same thing, had gave his life to Christ. Oh
my God. We went out on the date. We struck
up a comming saint elephant and went on the date.
Our day turned into many dates ever really taken each other.
(04:08):
I got a hard time keeping my hands to myself
when I was around him, so I decided that we
would have sex. He is very spiritual, so we prayed
before we have.
Speaker 2 (04:23):
Sex the first time.
Speaker 3 (04:25):
This is where we need to take our first moment
of pause, because you all prayed before you had sex.
I've done a lot of prayers in my life. Come
on now, not one time have I prayed before sex.
(04:49):
What is this prayer that you must be have? Let
us pray. Lord, lay me down beside this water, but
don't let it be steal prayers, pray. I need some
(05:12):
prayer music, rhythm.
Speaker 2 (05:16):
We are praying before.
Speaker 4 (05:20):
Six now, Yes, yes.
Speaker 3 (05:23):
As I said, without the music, Lord, lay me down
beside the water, but don't let it be steal.
Speaker 2 (05:40):
Let it shake and move. Lord, help me to hold
out as I attempt to go into this for the
first time. Lord, help me to hold out.
Speaker 1 (05:57):
Thy rod.
Speaker 2 (06:00):
And staff, really hold me.
Speaker 4 (06:04):
Hold it right there.
Speaker 2 (06:05):
Oh, I'm about to pray girl.
Speaker 1 (06:08):
Part two of Steve's response coming up, which I'm sure
includes the rest of this prayer coming up in twenty
three minutes after the hour. Today's Strawberry Letters subject talk
dirty to me, but not that dirty.
Speaker 4 (06:21):
Okay, we'll get back into it right after this. You're
listening Hardy Morning Show.
Speaker 1 (06:28):
All right, Come on, Steve, let's recap today's Strawberry letter.
The subject is talk dirty to me, but not that dirty.
Speaker 3 (06:34):
We are going back to the prayer we left because
in this letter, this thirty year old woman has divorced
at metal husband by taking him from his wife.
Speaker 2 (06:45):
Then he cheated on her.
Speaker 3 (06:48):
She was enjoying the day in life, and then she
decided she was going to give her life to Christ. Yeah.
She met a Maine in the building on a hell
of vado conversation, struck up and found out that he
had given him life to Christ too. Had one day
(07:11):
turned into a lot of dates. She was having difficulty
keeping her hand off the main she said, let's go
on and have sex anyway. Uh, he be a spiritual
Maine too, said, let us pray, let us have prayer
(07:33):
before we have sex. I've been a Christian a long time.
I don't pray for many things. I even prayed for
thousands and ten thousands of things. I ain't never prayed
before sex. So I was only imagining what in the
world could this pray befoll sex. Be Let's go, Deacon,
(07:54):
I said, Lord, lay down beside the steal water, but
don't let the water be still. Ah then ask him, Lord,
since it's the first time, help me to hold out,
(08:17):
Help me to hold on. Lord, because the first time
in Uni go by kind of quick. But I'm asking
you to let me to hold down. And then I
realized I had to go deeper. I said, thy rod
out and thy staff. It comforts me, Yes, read into
(08:39):
that whatever you want. Though I walk in the valley
or the shadow of death, I will feel no evil.
Speaker 2 (08:50):
Because I'm up in him doing the best that I can.
Ah didn't realize.
Speaker 3 (08:57):
That do unto others as you would had him do
under you. So whatever you do to me, I'm gonna
show it up, spent around, and do it right back
to you. The presex prayer. The others that you would
have him do unto you a beginning to think of that.
I said, die shall not kill, but I.
Speaker 2 (09:20):
Don't say hurt it though. Lord, I'm just trying to
head it without kiddidate. Ah, just probably put the and
that was our presex prayer.
Speaker 3 (09:32):
We moved on and uh, then we started getting freaky.
And there's no way that this man can be saved
and make love the way he does. I have to personally,
uh interject here and disagree with you.
Speaker 2 (09:53):
Personally.
Speaker 3 (09:54):
Gonna have to jump in here and defend my brother
now because you made a statement. You said there is
no way this man can be saved and make love
the way he does. Well, as the reader of this letter,
I must say, and you did write in to me,
and sureley, I totally.
Speaker 2 (10:09):
Disagree with you. Come I having to be saved well
and have done some things.
Speaker 3 (10:18):
Yeah, Lord, listen that have made a many question me.
This is ruth and boy, I've been told hold on.
Speaker 2 (10:32):
What you're doing.
Speaker 3 (10:34):
I thought you knew the Lord, Wait a minute, what
what are you doing? I'm just I'm doing my thing.
I don't know what to tell you. I'm just doing
my thing. But you cannot make the statement that there's
no way you can be saved and make love the
way he do. Now Christians do it? Where do you
think little Christians? Colch that it's some people that's in
(10:58):
the church. That's baby making mechs anyway it again, and
and and and use all the filthy languages he uses.
I thought he was happy to be getting some at first,
but he immediately start yelling profanity as loud as he could.
(11:19):
I've been told I'm excellent in bed, but he showed
out too.
Speaker 2 (11:23):
What did he say to it though?
Speaker 3 (11:25):
What he calls I can't repeat that, But this is
the most important part.
Speaker 2 (11:31):
I'll get to that in a minute.
Speaker 3 (11:33):
I told him I liked the dirty talk, but not
that dirty. I've never heard him utter a curse word
until we're having sex.
Speaker 2 (11:43):
Yeah, that's usually when it come out. That is usually
when it come out.
Speaker 3 (11:49):
It's this, it's his thing, and I've tried to get
used to it, but I can't. We've been in a
relationship for eight most and each time we have sex
he acts like it's better than the last town and
he uses new curse words and strings them together like
nobody else to get his porter. Because let me stop
you again, I'm gonna tell you right now, he ain't
(12:10):
using no.
Speaker 2 (12:10):
New cuss words.
Speaker 3 (12:11):
Ain't none. I've used them all, My brothers have used
them all. And you can stop this here he's stringing
them together in new way. No he not, ain't no
new cuss words. We've used them all, me and my brothers.
Speaker 4 (12:24):
And how do you.
Speaker 2 (12:25):
Stop all that? Yeah? You just thirty. You ain't met nobody.
Speaker 1 (12:27):
Go back at it all right, listen, leave your comments
on Today's letter on Instagram at Steve Harb FM, and
check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on demand on the
free iHeartRadio app. Okay, it's right there. Coming up next
in a sports talk with the nephew in for Junior.
Right after this
Speaker 4 (12:45):
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