May 22, 2020 • 12 mins
Dear Steve and Shirley, I’ve been dating a guy for six months and he’s one of the sweetest men that I have ever met. This weekend, he disclosed some information to me and I need your opinion. He and I met when I moved out of my condo. He was the supervisor of the moving company that I used and he was very professional and handsome, so when he asked me out, I accepted. We started out as friends and now we’re in relationship.................
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
All right, guys, it's time now for today's Strawberry Letter
and listen. If you need advice on relationships, on dating, work, sex, parenting,
and more. Please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve Harvey
FM and click submit Strawberry a Letter. We could be
reading your letter live on the air, just like we're
gonna read this one today. So before I actually read
(00:23):
the letter, I have to do a disclaimer here and
ask you please listen to the entire letter. It is
not what you'd think. Okay, it's gonna get a little
crazy in the middle, but stick with me, all right. Please,
thank you, Buggle up, hold on tight. We got it
for you. Here. It is the Strawberry Letter. Subject. You
can't have your cake and eat it too. All right,
(00:47):
one more time, you can't have your cake and eat
it too. Dear Stephen Shirley, I've been dating a guy
for six months and he's one of the sweetest men
that I've ever met. This weekend, he disclosed some information
to me and I need your opinion. He and I
(01:08):
met when I moved out of my condo. He was
a supervisor of the moving company that I used, and
he was very professional and handsome. And when he asked
me out, I accepted. We started out as friends and
now we're in a relationship. On our first date, he
said his favorite thing about me was my skin tone
(01:28):
and how soft and supple it looks. I have not
had that much attention in a while, so I was overjoyed.
Whenever we go out, he caresses my skin with his
great big hands and kisses my shoulders and neck. We
finally got intimate over the weekend, and it was everything
I hoped for I had hoped for, but then it
(01:51):
got tricky. After sex, we were lying in bed and
as usual, he was rubbing on me and kept saying
how he loves my skin. He then whispered to me,
I just want to eat you. I giggled and turned
to look at him, thinking he wanted to go for
round two. But then he said to me, no, I
(02:14):
literally want to eat you. I looked at this man
and asked him to repeat himself. He said he fantasizes
about eating a part of a woman's body, and it's
a big fetish that he has not been able to
live that out. He elaborated that overseas it's a big
thing where a man will take part of a woman's
(02:36):
buttocks and eat it. He said, he's been fascinated by
cannibalism since he was young, but this is just a
fetish and nothing serious. You hurt me? He okay, that's
(03:01):
he said, he's been fascinated. Let me get through the letter,
please deve. He said, he's been fascinated by cannibalism, yes,
since he was young, but that but this is just
a fetish and nothing serious. So I need to know
if this is really just a fetish or should I
run before it's too late? Have you ever heard of such?
(03:24):
I'm falling for this guy, but I don't want to
end up with my butt in a frying pan. Please
help me? Okay, I mean all I can say initially
is what wth? I mean? Really? Did I read this correctly?
Like you know you said in the letter? Did you
hear this correctly? People don't eat people, That's not what
(03:48):
we do. What is he talking about? I mean, this
is a fantasy he hasn't been able to live out yet. Listen.
Sure he could be just kidding and this could just
be a fantasy and he doesn't really mean this. Sure
a booty burger? I mean, he could just be kidding.
But but why take this chance? I mean, seriously, he
(04:09):
knows too much about it, He's researched it. Uh. No,
to answer your question, we've never heard of such cannibalism
and things like this. I mean we know what it is,
of course, but we haven't literally heard of anyone doing this.
And yes, I would run. He sounds too freaky. I mean, yeah,
he sounds too freaky and crazy to me. That's not
(04:30):
freaky to you. That's beyond. That's beyond. Yeah, it's beyond. Uh.
He wants to literally eat you. The term is called
veraire philia. If you guys want to know vare philia.
All right, you know that? All right, Steve, I'm done.
(04:50):
I think she should. This is too crazy. Well, let's
go over the letter and just go along on the
journey that this letter was taken us all day six
moms dating this man wanted the sweetest men she ever mad.
You know. He was a supervisor of a moving company
that moved her, professional, handsome, and so he asked her out.
(05:16):
She said, all right, Well, they started out as friends
without the relationship now, because on the first date he
told her the first thing he laughed about it was
how skin tone how soft and subtle it looked. Girl.
The attention about to dry this girl crazy. She was
(05:38):
over joy When we go out, he'd be caressing your
skin with his great big hand. Because then then furniture
moving hand. You know, he got the big ass hand.
He picked up frigerators. Gosh, you're this big man ass
hand kissing all over your shoulder. You got enter it
over the weekend and large jeesus, who it was everything.
(06:01):
Then it got tricking after sex. Y'all was laying in bed,
you know, just like, oh, you're just rubbing on you
kept saying, love your skin, Denny whisper, I just want
to eat now, we've all heard this before. Careful, alright,
(06:23):
let's don't ask me one, Steve. Hang on. We'll have
boo of your response coming up at twenty three after
the hour. Subject of today's letter. You can't have your
cake and eat it too. We'll get back into it
right after this. You're listening, all right, Steve, Let's get
(06:46):
back into the letter. You can't have your cake and
eat it too. Let's recap. Ain't no damn recap. She
didn't got to movie company boy, she'd have fell in
love with her and he out on the date with
her talk about the favorite thing about her was her
skin tone and hose off and supple. Oh, she hadn't
(07:07):
had this kind of tension in the while. She was
overjoyed go out caressing the skin, had the great big
hands kissing all on her shoulder. He had the moving
man hand. Yeah, picking flipping, taking whole rugs down by self,
down the steps, picking up on walls and moving entertainment sinners,
(07:33):
hardest boy power. So you finally got intimate over the
weekend and Lord Emercy, it was everything she hoped for
and right after she said everything I hope folk period.
But then it got tricky. Oh. They laying up in
the in the after glow, they laying in bed just
(07:55):
like usually, just rubbing on me, and they kept how
much he loved my skin. Then he whispered to me,
I just now. She giggle turned because she won't to
say yes to this. That's what the giggle was about,
(08:18):
and turned and looked at him, thinking he wanted to
go for a round two. Na. No, now he was
hoping that he was talking about what you thought he
was talking about. That he that what the giggle was for.
But then he said to me, no, I literally won't it.
(08:38):
I looked at this man and I asked him to
repeat himself, because you know what, if that's what you
really want to do, just gold say it to me.
But I don't know what you mean by literally, so
I asked him to repeat himself. He said that he
fantasizes about eating a part of a woman's and it's
(09:01):
a big fetish that he's not being able to live
out yet. Now at this point, you need to be
sitting up in the bed. You need to sit up.
You need to start eyeing his ass because this this
is going somewhere else. And then he elaborated that overseas
(09:21):
it's a big thing where a man would take part
of a woman's buttox and eat it. Now, I don't
know wearing this letter. You kept typing, but this would
have been a hard letter to type. You're want you what?
I don't know who this sister is, but this conversation
(09:43):
with you want to eat, You're gonna take you, You're
gonna cut who ass, hold on any words. You're crazy.
He said. It's fast needed by candles cannibalism since he
was young. But this is just to fetish and nothing
(10:05):
says so I need to know if this is really
just to fetish or should I run before it's too late?
What the hell did you just ask us? You're trying
to figure out if this is a fetish? A man
just told you that he wanted to a slice of
your ass, just you know, like his cheese, like like
(10:29):
you just a ham a honey break, sitting up on
the table. It was just wanting a slice of your ass.
Cause now he'd talk about this overseas. He been rubbing
on your skin. Now, love the texture. Now he said
he'd been fascinated by Canada canibalism since he was young.
(10:50):
But this just to fetish it? Nothing says now here
on the cold part right here. So I need to
know if this is really a fetish or should I
run for us too late? Have you ever heard, oh, such,
I'm falling for this guy, but I don't want to
end up with my butt in a frying pan. Okay,
so what is you're typing? Fall? Now? You might be
(11:11):
falling for this guy, but you ain't gonna be able
to fall on your ass because he gonna be the
navid What you're gonna wake up one night numb? You
ain't gonna know what's going on? And he gonna be
sitting over there with a plate with some hot sauce,
and he's gonna have a napkin rounding that baby. What
(11:33):
you eat? Now, he'd numbed you while you sleep. You
ain't up, your little booty just tingling. You don't know
half of it. It's over there on that damn plate,
sitting over there and got some hot saucing. He just
chewing your answer. You don't even know it. Joe stupid
(11:54):
behind Tom, have you ever heard of such a thing? Hell, no,
we're black people. Yeah, well no, we black people. The
first letter was kind of sexy. He he hall keep
talking about taking a slice of your ass, and you
(12:16):
don't learn enough and you send up in here. I
don't want to end up with my butt in a
frying pan. But go ahead, your little biceps and that
everything else like a little five meat. Now, all right, look,
we gotta get rid of this food. We gotta let
the people know that they can email or instagram us
(12:37):
their email us. Nothing like this again on the Strawberry
Letter at Steve Harvey FM, or check out the Strawberry
Letter podcast on demand. All right, more of this crazy
ignorant Show, Steve Harvey Morning Show. Right after this, you're
listening to Steve Morning Show,
All right, guys, it's time now for today's Strawberry Letter
and listen. If you need advice on relationships, on dating, work, sex, parenting,
and more. Please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve Harvey
FM and click submit Strawberry a Letter. We could be
reading your letter live on the air, just like we're
gonna read this one today. So before I actually read
(00:23):
the letter, I have to do a disclaimer here and
ask you please listen to the entire letter. It is
not what you'd think. Okay, it's gonna get a little
crazy in the middle, but stick with me, all right. Please,
thank you, Buggle up, hold on tight. We got it
for you. Here. It is the Strawberry Letter. Subject. You
can't have your cake and eat it too. All right,
(00:47):
one more time, you can't have your cake and eat
it too. Dear Stephen Shirley, I've been dating a guy
for six months and he's one of the sweetest men
that I've ever met. This weekend, he disclosed some information
to me and I need your opinion. He and I
(01:08):
met when I moved out of my condo. He was
a supervisor of the moving company that I used, and
he was very professional and handsome. And when he asked
me out, I accepted. We started out as friends and
now we're in a relationship. On our first date, he
said his favorite thing about me was my skin tone
(01:28):
and how soft and supple it looks. I have not
had that much attention in a while, so I was overjoyed.
Whenever we go out, he caresses my skin with his
great big hands and kisses my shoulders and neck. We
finally got intimate over the weekend, and it was everything
I hoped for I had hoped for, but then it
(01:51):
got tricky. After sex, we were lying in bed and
as usual, he was rubbing on me and kept saying
how he loves my skin. He then whispered to me,
I just want to eat you. I giggled and turned
to look at him, thinking he wanted to go for
round two. But then he said to me, no, I
(02:14):
literally want to eat you. I looked at this man
and asked him to repeat himself. He said he fantasizes
about eating a part of a woman's body, and it's
a big fetish that he has not been able to
live that out. He elaborated that overseas it's a big
thing where a man will take part of a woman's
(02:36):
buttocks and eat it. He said, he's been fascinated by
cannibalism since he was young, but this is just a
fetish and nothing serious. You hurt me? He okay, that's
(03:01):
he said, he's been fascinated. Let me get through the letter,
please deve. He said, he's been fascinated by cannibalism, yes,
since he was young, but that but this is just
a fetish and nothing serious. So I need to know
if this is really just a fetish or should I
run before it's too late? Have you ever heard of such?
(03:24):
I'm falling for this guy, but I don't want to
end up with my butt in a frying pan. Please
help me? Okay, I mean all I can say initially
is what wth? I mean? Really? Did I read this correctly?
Like you know you said in the letter? Did you
hear this correctly? People don't eat people, That's not what
(03:48):
we do. What is he talking about? I mean, this
is a fantasy he hasn't been able to live out yet. Listen.
Sure he could be just kidding and this could just
be a fantasy and he doesn't really mean this. Sure
a booty burger? I mean, he could just be kidding.
But but why take this chance? I mean, seriously, he
(04:09):
knows too much about it, He's researched it. Uh. No,
to answer your question, we've never heard of such cannibalism
and things like this. I mean we know what it is,
of course, but we haven't literally heard of anyone doing this.
And yes, I would run. He sounds too freaky. I mean, yeah,
he sounds too freaky and crazy to me. That's not
(04:30):
freaky to you. That's beyond. That's beyond. Yeah, it's beyond. Uh.
He wants to literally eat you. The term is called
veraire philia. If you guys want to know vare philia.
All right, you know that? All right, Steve, I'm done.
(04:50):
I think she should. This is too crazy. Well, let's
go over the letter and just go along on the
journey that this letter was taken us all day six
moms dating this man wanted the sweetest men she ever mad.
You know. He was a supervisor of a moving company
that moved her, professional, handsome, and so he asked her out.
(05:16):
She said, all right, Well, they started out as friends
without the relationship now, because on the first date he
told her the first thing he laughed about it was
how skin tone how soft and subtle it looked. Girl.
The attention about to dry this girl crazy. She was
(05:38):
over joy When we go out, he'd be caressing your
skin with his great big hand. Because then then furniture
moving hand. You know, he got the big ass hand.
He picked up frigerators. Gosh, you're this big man ass
hand kissing all over your shoulder. You got enter it
over the weekend and large jeesus, who it was everything.
(06:01):
Then it got tricking after sex. Y'all was laying in bed,
you know, just like, oh, you're just rubbing on you
kept saying, love your skin, Denny whisper, I just want
to eat now, we've all heard this before. Careful, alright,
(06:23):
let's don't ask me one, Steve. Hang on. We'll have
boo of your response coming up at twenty three after
the hour. Subject of today's letter. You can't have your
cake and eat it too. We'll get back into it
right after this. You're listening, all right, Steve, Let's get
(06:46):
back into the letter. You can't have your cake and
eat it too. Let's recap. Ain't no damn recap. She
didn't got to movie company boy, she'd have fell in
love with her and he out on the date with
her talk about the favorite thing about her was her
skin tone and hose off and supple. Oh, she hadn't
(07:07):
had this kind of tension in the while. She was
overjoyed go out caressing the skin, had the great big
hands kissing all on her shoulder. He had the moving
man hand. Yeah, picking flipping, taking whole rugs down by self,
down the steps, picking up on walls and moving entertainment sinners,
(07:33):
hardest boy power. So you finally got intimate over the
weekend and Lord Emercy, it was everything she hoped for
and right after she said everything I hope folk period.
But then it got tricky. Oh. They laying up in
the in the after glow, they laying in bed just
(07:55):
like usually, just rubbing on me, and they kept how
much he loved my skin. Then he whispered to me,
I just now. She giggle turned because she won't to
say yes to this. That's what the giggle was about,
(08:18):
and turned and looked at him, thinking he wanted to
go for a round two. Na. No, now he was
hoping that he was talking about what you thought he
was talking about. That he that what the giggle was for.
But then he said to me, no, I literally won't it.
(08:38):
I looked at this man and I asked him to
repeat himself, because you know what, if that's what you
really want to do, just gold say it to me.
But I don't know what you mean by literally, so
I asked him to repeat himself. He said that he
fantasizes about eating a part of a woman's and it's
(09:01):
a big fetish that he's not being able to live
out yet. Now at this point, you need to be
sitting up in the bed. You need to sit up.
You need to start eyeing his ass because this this
is going somewhere else. And then he elaborated that overseas
(09:21):
it's a big thing where a man would take part
of a woman's buttox and eat it. Now, I don't
know wearing this letter. You kept typing, but this would
have been a hard letter to type. You're want you what?
I don't know who this sister is, but this conversation
(09:43):
with you want to eat, You're gonna take you, You're
gonna cut who ass, hold on any words. You're crazy.
He said. It's fast needed by candles cannibalism since he
was young. But this is just to fetish and nothing
(10:05):
says so I need to know if this is really
just to fetish or should I run before it's too late?
What the hell did you just ask us? You're trying
to figure out if this is a fetish? A man
just told you that he wanted to a slice of
your ass, just you know, like his cheese, like like
(10:29):
you just a ham a honey break, sitting up on
the table. It was just wanting a slice of your ass.
Cause now he'd talk about this overseas. He been rubbing
on your skin. Now, love the texture. Now he said
he'd been fascinated by Canada canibalism since he was young.
(10:50):
But this just to fetish it? Nothing says now here
on the cold part right here. So I need to
know if this is really a fetish or should I
run for us too late? Have you ever heard, oh, such,
I'm falling for this guy, but I don't want to
end up with my butt in a frying pan. Okay,
so what is you're typing? Fall? Now? You might be
(11:11):
falling for this guy, but you ain't gonna be able
to fall on your ass because he gonna be the
navid What you're gonna wake up one night numb? You
ain't gonna know what's going on? And he gonna be
sitting over there with a plate with some hot sauce,
and he's gonna have a napkin rounding that baby. What
(11:33):
you eat? Now, he'd numbed you while you sleep. You
ain't up, your little booty just tingling. You don't know
half of it. It's over there on that damn plate,
sitting over there and got some hot saucing. He just
chewing your answer. You don't even know it. Joe stupid
(11:54):
behind Tom, have you ever heard of such a thing? Hell, no,
we're black people. Yeah, well no, we black people. The
first letter was kind of sexy. He he hall keep
talking about taking a slice of your ass, and you
(12:16):
don't learn enough and you send up in here. I
don't want to end up with my butt in a
frying pan. But go ahead, your little biceps and that
everything else like a little five meat. Now, all right, look,
we gotta get rid of this food. We gotta let
the people know that they can email or instagram us
(12:37):
their email us. Nothing like this again on the Strawberry
Letter at Steve Harvey FM, or check out the Strawberry
Letter podcast on demand. All right, more of this crazy
ignorant Show, Steve Harvey Morning Show. Right after this, you're
listening to Steve Morning Show,
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