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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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Nine one and five. It still cracks me up when
I go to this thing that you, Jason, are on
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the format in the company. Yeah maybe, yeah, yeah, maybe
we might be considered number three on that list. I
know what they I know that seems impossible the way
they treat us. But you go there in a marketing
role because you're also the marketing director, and so you
go there as you know, they ask you to go
and help with like some behind the scenes stuff and
you've been doing this forever. You do such an amazing job.
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But what's funny to me is the way that people
who are technically beneath you, like you're a big deal
on a big show, and people will like hand you
their empty you know, glass or their Kleenex, and they
have no idea that like, they don't bother to ask.
It's like and then when I tell them, like, oh,
you know, he's on the show, he is, and free
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thing changes it. It's like all respect, you know, it's
all about humility, you see how people really are. Oh no,
you ever and then you never really forget that, do
you know? But you are such a humble guy and
you do go and you work so hard and you
do all this behind the scenes stuff, but you and
you refuse to tell anyone like, actually, I have a
larger role on my show than you do on yours,
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but you don't tell anyone that because you're a good guy.
It's interesting, But I do it for you. Now I
walk around and do the cleanup. I go, that's Jason,
he's he's on the show. And then people look at
me like, I probably should have not handed you my
dirty cleanex right, boy, that happened once too. I saw it.
I saw it. Yeah. My favorite was the guy backstage
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of the Heart Radio Music Festival, which you can get
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So I say, but I've said it by the way
four times in this break alom, I need to stop. Yeah,
it's terrible. My favorite was the guy who works for
our company who had someone whose job it was and
I am not making this up to follow him around
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with a hot and a cold drink. Oh yeah, he
had a hot and a cold drink. Because we couldn't
be cert I asked, I said, what are you doing?
What exactly is it you do here? Yeah? And oh no,
no no. I was standing at the refreshment table when
this person was making this, and he was saying like,
I need to make sure that I always have a
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hot and a cold drink for so and so, because well,
we don't know, we never know. And I'm like, huh, wow,
that's funny because I I'm here alone. I really you
had a glam squad? You did? I did? I did
my own makeup today. What are you doing? Okay, let
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wedding possibly for Travis and Taylor, I will tell you
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Like writing in our diaries, except we stay them aloud.
We call them blogs. And now with a financial reports
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Live from Canada.
Speaker 6 (05:31):
Do you blog? So this is not financial advice I'm
looking for. It's more, I guess, like parental advice that
could be American, human, Canadian, whatever you want it to be.
Speaker 1 (05:40):
If you're asking for the audience, parental advice from us
wouldn't be very valuable since none of us have kids.
Speaker 6 (05:46):
Well, I still think you guys have an input and
maybe some good advice. Obviously you're an uncle to t
small children's and you know, and they're the same age
as my daughter, or at least maybez was your niece.
So my daughter, Gigi is fourteen months. I hate that
I'm that pair, But like, I guess I get the
whole month thing now, because if you say a year,
it's like, well she's a little more than a year.
Speaker 2 (06:05):
But uh, yeah, we're in a very tough spot.
Speaker 6 (06:07):
And I remember, Fred, you saw a video on my
Instagram too, maybe like a couple weeks ago, and you
were like, damn, like I'm surprised that, like you know,
she's kind of having this kind of a melt down
at this young age. And I was like, I know,
why are we melting down at one year old? I
don't know, And I need advice. I need help because
it's getting really hard and I don't know what to
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do at this point, Like you don't discipline a toddler.
I could put her in time out in the chair
in the corner and she'll end up right back on
the couch, Like that's not gonna happen.
Speaker 2 (06:35):
And also I don't think she understands that. I don't
know if I even want to do that that way.
Speaker 6 (06:39):
So I'm trying to figure out a balance of like
how do you I don't know, how do you train
like a train of dog? Like how do you like
work with a one year old so that the one
year old stops doing things like she does a thing
where she hits now and I know a lot of
babies do this, Like she'll get but only when she's
mad if I take away my phone, which I can't
stand when she grabs my phone or anyone's phone.
Speaker 2 (06:58):
I take it away. Okay, we're taking this away.
Speaker 6 (06:59):
And she just hits and we look at her and
we're like, Gigi, no, And then she goes nice and
she rubs your head nice, just.
Speaker 1 (07:10):
Like it's I mean, there you go. You're you're doing something.
Because it's almost like if I'm interpreting it correctly, like
she's saying that wasn't nice and I need to be nice,
Like she knows the difference.
Speaker 2 (07:22):
She's okay, so we're smarter than I think.
Speaker 1 (07:23):
I don't know, I mean if I mean, I haven't
I haven't seen her do this, but it almost it
feels like she knows what's nice and what's not nice.
Speaker 6 (07:30):
Yeah, but when she gets mad, like I mean, she'll
start even like fisting and shaking, like she'll start shaking
her fists at me and I'm like, whoa.
Speaker 1 (07:37):
I mean you do that to me. So that's where
she's getting it.
Speaker 6 (07:40):
Yeah, I mean, maybe it my temper because like I
try to be calm around her.
Speaker 2 (07:44):
I don't want her to be overwhelmed and like anxious
like me.
Speaker 6 (07:47):
But I don't know, I just want her to kind of,
I don't know, stop with the hitting obviously, and kind
of stop with the meltdowns and like, we're not doing
full meltdowns at Target yet.
Speaker 2 (07:54):
You know, when the kid doesn't get what they want,
they just.
Speaker 6 (07:56):
Like, we're not doing that yet, but I can tell
it's coming, and it makes me nervous.
Speaker 2 (08:00):
I know, kids are kids, but I just I don't know.
I don't want that.
Speaker 6 (08:03):
Plus, she looks like my mam a law and my
in law my mother in law, and I feel like
we all kind of parents parents, we all kind of
do things different.
Speaker 1 (08:11):
Oh oh oh yeah. My guess would be that your
your mom and Hobby's mom. My guess would be they
let her do it like this shit, it's just like here,
take it, take the phone or whatever.
Speaker 2 (08:23):
I think, so yeah, but I think you also.
Speaker 1 (08:26):
I don't know what I'm talking about here, but my
guess would be some of these melts that you have
to just let them do it and then walk away
and just let them process the meltdown.
Speaker 2 (08:34):
That's where I'm at.
Speaker 1 (08:35):
I read about that in the mel Robins Booth let them.
I don't know she I mean she did reference like
children like sometimes when in the aisle or whatever, and
when they want the toy, you don't want to buy
on the toy, Like yeah, sometimes, you know, I think
what would be frustrating for me falling it is that
like they're not of the age yet where you can
have a conversation even begin to reason with them, you
know what I mean. Like this whole, this whole theme
of today has been about reasoning with people. But it's like,
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I don't think like you get to a certain age
where you can say, you know, And I hear my
sister do it with my niece and she's a therapist.
So it's like, got it wildly annoying and the kid's
gonna be so screwed up. But it's like, you know,
you can make a choice. You know, you have a
choice here, your choices are, you know, and like so
Polly can talk back about the choice, but you can't
really do that necessarily with toddler.
Speaker 2 (09:16):
No, not like at one.
Speaker 6 (09:17):
And that's the thing too, It's like I want her
to like vocalize what she wants, right, but they can't
do that. So I think it's where a lot of
meltdowns come from. Right, even though I'm an adult who
has full meultdowns too, I can at lease vocalize frot.
I don't want this, or Hey, Caylen, can I have this?
Like I don't just like, oh my vocalizing.
Speaker 1 (09:33):
All right, she's giving the phone, I'm gonna punch in
the face.
Speaker 3 (09:35):
That's what she.
Speaker 2 (09:35):
Said, that's for sure.
Speaker 6 (09:38):
But I'm like, I don't want to raise a brat,
but I also don't want to, like, I don't know,
like not give her what she needs.
Speaker 2 (09:44):
So I don't know.
Speaker 6 (09:45):
I'm having a really hard time with this. She's only one,
so yay, we're just getting started. Like it's only I
think gonna get a little bit worse before it gets better,
before she understands right.
Speaker 1 (09:54):
People are saying the power of distraction, I have two
under two, Oh my gosh, none of the tricks worked
other than dist acting the energy to get back into
a good headspace under three. They don't understand traditional punishment. Yeah, yeah,
that's true too. I do a lot of like redirecting.
And my doctor asked, is she good with that? And
I said, yeah, I mean she's like me, it's.
Speaker 6 (10:11):
Like, hey, we're here, squirrel, look this way, now, look
over here, like if I want her to like stop
doing what she's doing, I'm really good at like kind
of being like, hey, look over there.
Speaker 1 (10:19):
Outside meltowns to normal. Those are big emotions for a
kid who doesn't have the tools to express how they're feeling.
These are texts that we're getting and hasn't learned yet
how to regulate their emotions. Supporting them through the meltdown,
teaching them little by little coping skills will make them
emotionally balanced. As for hitting, it sounds like you're doing
everything right. I would make sure that they understand that
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hitting hurts and maybe look sad. Tell them that that hurts.
Please don't hit me, I didn't hit you, et cetera.
It sounds like you are a great mom. Someone said
this personal said, I'm impressed by friend's parenting advice, right, like,
I know what the all I'm talking about.
Speaker 4 (10:57):
Please don't hit me. I didn't hit you. Yeah, that's
hardly christ Hainsen.
Speaker 2 (11:02):
I'm gonna try all this though.
Speaker 1 (11:04):
She's sitting you and telling you that it's nice, right,
she's hitting you, and then you tell her no, and
then she's like showing you what nice, because like rubbing
her face would be like a nice feeling, or she'd
being like, no, this is nice to me. Slapping you
in the face. Yeah, I don't know I can't understand Gigi.
I don't speak her language. Same So once I come
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from a school, counselor start teaching her emotional regulation skills, books, modeling,
sign language, there are ways. Yeah, tell her to read
a book about it. Read this book? Have you read
let Them Stay or Go? The reason I think modeling
has got to work is because I see this in
my nieces, And I think the reason this is more
pronounced to me is because I don't see them every day,
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you know, maybe once a week or whatever. But like
the stuff they pick up on is incredible, Like it's
so I feel like that that's that's how you got
to do it when they're not talking to you, is
you just got to model the behavior that you want,
because like, where did you come up with that? Like
how did you notice say that? Man? No, it's crazy.
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It's like a little psychology experiment. Hi Alisa, good morning, Hi,
good morning him. Welcome to Stay or Go? So you
need some advice. This is about your boyfriend and sadly
last year you guys broke up out of nowhere, like really,
like truly, you know, we have people on the show
all the time, all waiting by the phone and like
the self awareness is lacking, but you're like, one day
everything's fine, the next day he's breaking up with you.
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That's how it.
Speaker 7 (12:28):
Happened, literally, like it came out of left field.
Speaker 1 (12:32):
I did not expect this, okay, And what was his
reasoning for breaking up with you?
Speaker 7 (12:39):
Basically he told me that he wasn't in love with
me anymore and then he just cut off all communication.
Speaker 1 (12:47):
Hmm okay, so so oh wow, all right, so you
guys are together and then he comes to you and
see the out of love with you anymore. Bye. So
you're upset about this and you have to move off,
and I assume you did that.
Speaker 7 (13:02):
Yeah, obviously I was devastated, but I had to pick
myself up and get my life together. So you know,
I started to move on, but like a few months ago,
he reached back out to me and he's like, oh babe,
I want to win you back, and I'll do whatever
it takes.
Speaker 3 (13:19):
Ah.
Speaker 1 (13:19):
Yes, tails so old as time, Alyssa. The grass was
in fact not greener elsewhere, right right.
Speaker 7 (13:27):
So initially, like I told him, I wasn't sure that
I could do that, But you know, he's been trying
really hard and he seems to have changed, but like,
so you know, slowly I've been letting heck in.
Speaker 1 (13:40):
Wow, okay, so you're going to take it back. So
after all this, you you hear what he's saying. You
believe that he in fact maybe learned his lesson or
at least you're willing to let him show you that.
So you you have slowly let him back in. So
where what do you need to know from us? Well?
Speaker 7 (13:57):
You know, I he says he wants to be together,
he wants to.
Speaker 8 (14:00):
Get married, the whole thing.
Speaker 7 (14:02):
But like my problem is like I'm having a hard
time trusting.
Speaker 9 (14:06):
Him and that like he won't just out of the
blue break up with me again. I think, yeah, yeah,
Like I just I just need advice as to like
am I dumb to get back with him? It's not
like he cheated or he didn't.
Speaker 7 (14:21):
He said he wasn't with anybody in between like us
being separated.
Speaker 1 (14:26):
So like, but I still feel betrayed.
Speaker 9 (14:27):
By him, and I just like I don't know if.
Speaker 1 (14:29):
I can get over it. Okay, I'd love to know
what people have to say five five, five, nine one
three five in our little group therapy thing here, what
is his justification? Like when he comes back to you
and says, I screwed up? Did he get scared? Did
do you think he thought maybe he likes someone else better?
I mean, does he is? Did he explain to you
why he was so abrupt? Because I'm with you, like
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if someone's if I'm if I'm invested in someone and
they that abruptly can walk away and then they come
back and say, nah my bad, then I'm probably always
going to be you know, unless you can justify why
you did that in some way, I'm probably always going
to wonder when that she was going to drop, the
next she was going to drop, Like, what's the next
time you're going to come to me and be like, eh,
I'm out again, right.
Speaker 7 (15:13):
And like he didn't actually give me a definitive answer.
Speaker 1 (15:17):
You gotta go? Why exactly you gotta go? You gotta go?
I'm sorry, I mean, this isn't you know. I'm not
currently licensed as a therapist. We're working on getting it back,
but I you gotta go because if this dude didn't
have a very good reason why he was able to
discard you like that in that way, if he can't,
I got scared. I had a tragedy happen in my life,
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you know. For example, I'll give you an example from
my life. Like I was dating a girl a few
years ago, and she was lovely and didn't do anything wrong.
There were some things about it that were a little
mysterious to me, things that didn't really add up. And
there it was moving at a pace that was a
little abnormal for me. I mean, we were talking she
to live somewhere else. There was talk about her moving
across the country. And this is not my talk, this
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was her talk. I'm gonna move there, I'm gonna live
with you. We're gonna, you know, do this and that.
And I liked her a lot, so I got it.
Around that same time, I lost two very close people
to me. I lost one of my closest friends and
I lost someone else very very suddenly, and I just
I retreated, Like I just it was too much, it
was moving it too fast of a pace. People in
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my life that I cared about were just disappearing, you know,
they died. It wasn't any wrongdoing of their own, and
I was just overwhelmed and I just had to pull
away at that moment. Months later, I went back and
explained all that, and sadly this person was no longer interested,
and that's fine and fair, but I also felt, while
I could have handled it better, I felt very justified.
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And this was like, this was two months old, and
it was moving at a very quick pace, and I
felt abandoned by a lot of people. And I just
couldn't imagine putting putting my heart into something else only
for someone else to disappoint me or leave me, you
know kind of thing. But and for this, that woman
was not willing to hear that that it wasn't good
enough for her, and she moved on. And that's I
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completely understand that. I also felt justified, not necessarily in
the way I handled it, but in the way that
I was feeling. But this dude has no explanation. He's
just he just left you hanging, and he's like, yeah,
I don't know, I want you back now that's not
good enough. Yeah, you're right.
Speaker 7 (17:21):
I mean, it's it's hard because I do love him,
like I really fell in love with him, but I
don't know that I could spend a lifetime just absolutely
in the back of my mind worrying that Okay, today's
going to be the day that he just is like
tired of me.
Speaker 1 (17:36):
You know, and knowing that he's able to be that
cold and calculated and not explain why. I mean, what's
going on? Is it a you thing? Is it a
hymn thing? It's probably a hymn thing. What is it?
What happened? Why? How are you going to work on it?
How are you going to get better? Are you gonna
go to therapy? Is this some kind of an abandonment thing?
What is it? And if he's not, if he has
no explanation, how do you trust this person?
Speaker 8 (18:01):
You're right, You're absolutely right.
Speaker 7 (18:03):
I mean that's not what I wanted to hear, but
it's what I need to see here.
Speaker 1 (18:07):
Let me get some phone calls on this. Listen, maybe
someone else will have a different perspective. But I appreciate you.
A good luck, have a good day.
Speaker 7 (18:13):
Thank you.
Speaker 1 (18:14):
I don't know much. I mean, I've been talking a bunch.
But what do you guys think? I mean, what does
your gut tell you? Is anyone in here of the
mindset that you can take this guy back with good conscience?
Speaker 10 (18:21):
I wouldn't because she's already established what she feels. And
I think you should trust your gut feeling on most things,
you know, like you're trying to trick yourself into believing
something else, or that he's a different person. But he's
shown you who he is, and if you feel that way,
you should take that and leave.
Speaker 3 (18:37):
I feel like she'll always wonder, though, And I think
that's the hard part, is like, are it would be
really difficult to walk away from someone that you loved
and wanted to be with And I wouldn't want that.
I would maybe try again, and if I got hurt,
it would be on me, so I didn't have to wonder.
Speaker 1 (18:54):
I think it would be hard to give yourself to
that the way that you once did with no explanation. Again,
this guy was Grandma something. If this guy wants to right,
come up with something. Man, Grandma, I missed my grandma,
you know, because when I think of you, I think
of my nana, right, and I was missing her a lot.
But you know I'm over it. Now give me something
this very much, And someone texted this. It very much
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gives to me that he thought there was something better,
went and realized there wasn't exactly and then now he now, Oh,
my bad because he doesn't have an explanation, and that
one's not going to work. If he went to her
and said, no, I there was a shining new object
that I was going to chase after and now I
decided I don't want that anymore. That's not going to
help his cause. But he doesn't seem to have any
(19:35):
other story, so you know what I mean, Like maybe
if he wants to get vulnerable and sit down and
really like bear his soul, make up something and.
Speaker 2 (19:43):
Was right, make up dog, I miss my childhood dog.
Speaker 1 (19:48):
You know we're whiteboarding here. We're going to need to
improve the story a little bit, but you know, we'll
get there. Marabelle, Hi, good morning, are you good morning?
Speaker 8 (19:57):
I'm one of your thirteen listeners here?
Speaker 1 (19:59):
Well, thank you. So what you hear the story? You
hear this woman she was dating a guy. He suddenly
they were in love, she thought. He suddenly says I'm out,
no communication, and then he reappears, I'm sorry, I'm gonna
make it all right now, makes up. We don't know why.
It's still no explanation. What do you think?
Speaker 11 (20:16):
Absolutely, do not get back together with him.
Speaker 12 (20:19):
He obviously show you his true colors.
Speaker 11 (20:22):
He took you a while to pick yourself back up,
and it is very hard to come back from when.
Speaker 12 (20:26):
You're broken in a relationship.
Speaker 11 (20:28):
He obviously went no contact, no communication, He could care
less if you were okay, and then all of a
sudden he loves you again. Yeah, I don't think so.
I think that you honestly, you gotta follow your gut feelings.
Speaker 4 (20:40):
Don't do this again.
Speaker 11 (20:42):
You do not want to fall back in that hole
where you're gonna have to pick yourself up again, especially
if he's trying.
Speaker 13 (20:47):
To get married with you.
Speaker 11 (20:48):
You cannot trust a person who cannot both with you
through sick and thin and file through their struggles as
supposed to just running away from you every single time
he feels like there's something better on the.
Speaker 8 (20:59):
Other It's very good.
Speaker 1 (21:02):
Marville is very much giving that his his whatever, whatever
his agenda is, is more important than yours. It's not
an equal thing. And he's not willing to admit that.
He fully that he made a mistake. And why that's
the thing. Maybe he's saying he made a mistake, but
why help me understand why you were able to do I.
Speaker 11 (21:19):
Think there was someone out there. There was he was
probably you know, going before someone else, and that person
probably kicked them to the curve, and all of a
sudden now he wants to come back.
Speaker 8 (21:28):
I think that's what happened.
Speaker 1 (21:29):
Yes, it's giving that. Thank you, Maraville. Have a good day.
Speaker 11 (21:33):
You have a good one.
Speaker 1 (21:34):
It is giving that utsag hot girls summer as somebody said, yeah, yeah,
get out there girl. Hey Rosie, Hey, hi Rosie. What
do you think I think she.
Speaker 8 (21:45):
Should shad out you? No, like, do not stick for that.
He broke up with you, He hurt you ount know where,
and like just wants to get back to you. I'm
a feeling that he shown somebody and then that's why
he decided to break up with her. That did work out,
and then now he wants to come back. I don't
think that's cool. I got that okay, and then for
you to earn that trust again and just be okay
(22:09):
with that, and I don't think that's going to end
up working out because she canna comfortably have this doubt
and then trust issue.
Speaker 1 (22:16):
Yeah, yeah, I think you're right. I think you're right.
Thank you, Rosen. Have a good day.
Speaker 12 (22:19):
Yeah, thank you, glad you called.
Speaker 1 (22:21):
Thank you for listening. Hi, I'm Ailie. Good morning.
Speaker 12 (22:24):
Oh that's gun.
Speaker 1 (22:25):
Hey great, thanks for callin, Thanks for listening. What are
you think is going on here or what would you do?
Speaker 12 (22:30):
I think it's like that thing, you know, where you
get in a relationship and it's like your exes all
had that like sixth sense that you know you're happy
or whatnot. So she absolutely needs to run hide. Just
don't put yourself through it.
Speaker 14 (22:43):
Again, especially you know, I agree with everything that's since
it's like I just can't reason out, like if he's
not going to at least give her some sort of
conversation to get like an insight to his mind, like
just like where his mind was at when he broke
it off, Like there has to be something. It can't
just be I got bored. And if it is that,
then like the.
Speaker 1 (23:01):
Horrible him, my guess is the real story is just
is just not justifiable. My guess is it is about
another person or something that he did swung and missed
and failed or whatever or thought the grass was greener.
Because if if it were something more emotional and the
guy was willing to be vulnerable, then I think, you know,
there's a chance, there's a chance somebody could hear you
and realized that you were weak and made a mistake.
(23:24):
But the fact that there's no explanation either he's a
narcissist and doesn't care about you, it just expects that
you'll take him however he is, or somehow his problem
was yours. And again she didn't say any of that,
so I don't know if that's true, but it definitely
is giving. I don't have a good story for you.
I just I just want you back, and that's not
good enough for me. Love you, guys, Thank you, Emily,
(23:48):
have a good day. Glad you called Jackie. Hi, Jackie, Hi,
Oh my god.
Speaker 13 (23:53):
I love you, guys. I'm so nervous.
Speaker 1 (23:54):
I don't be nervous. Love you too. But you get
the final say in this. This actually happened to you.
And then the dude came back, and then what happened.
Speaker 13 (24:02):
Yeah, So we broke up suddenly, a few weeks into
the pandemic who had made everything a lot worse. It
was super sudden. We got back together a year later,
and he was like, I'm so sorry. I regret everything.
You know, I want to be better, but I never
truly like learned to trust him fully again. I was,
and I told him as much. When we broke up again,
I was like, I've been waiting for the other shoe
(24:24):
to drop for the last year, and I just it
was never the same, and so I just I think
she's always going to be waiting for something to happen,
and she's always going to be like tiptoeing around this guy,
especially if he hasn't given her like a true reason
for having broken up in the first place. So like,
it sucks, and I understand, like I totally understand where
she is where she is right now, but I just
(24:48):
for me, it was too much to get over, okay.
Speaker 1 (24:50):
And I'm sorry you mentioned this, but howe to go
Eventually you just you called it like we.
Speaker 13 (24:55):
Can't do this, Yeah, basically because I was just like
it had just gotten to the point where I was like,
all right, we're going to see each other like once
a week. And I was suddenly okay with that, and
then I wasn't okay with that. Who was just once
a week? So when I thought about why, you know,
we went from like I need to see you every
day to just once a week, it was kind of like, uh,
(25:15):
something changed, and it just I always thought about what
he said while we broke up. Yeah, it was just
always in the back of my head.
Speaker 1 (25:23):
Yeah, makes makes sense. Thank you, Jackie. Have a good day,
Caitlin's Entertainment report. He's on the Bread Show.
Speaker 3 (25:30):
The BET Awards went down from LA last night, hosted
by Kevin Hart, who opened with some digs at the
Ditty Trial, Jamie Fox's health, and Kanye West, all while
working in a sinner's reference. Speaking of Jamie, Stevie Wonder
helped to present him with one of the night's ultimate
Icon Awards, and then Ashanti, Jim Jones, Amory Bow Wow,
(25:52):
Maya Ti and a B two K Reunion helped to
headline a tribute to one O six in Park and
honor of twenty five years since his debut in two thousand.
Speaker 4 (26:03):
I missed that show. I missed Tierra.
Speaker 1 (26:05):
That show was Lala. Who was the other guy?
Speaker 10 (26:07):
Oh no, it was Arne and Terrence Scene Free and AJ.
Speaker 4 (26:11):
They were the original.
Speaker 1 (26:12):
I thought La was one.
Speaker 3 (26:15):
Til yeah, I remember when she got engaged.
Speaker 4 (26:19):
I remember that episode.
Speaker 2 (26:22):
Oh yeah.
Speaker 3 (26:22):
But I would flip back and forth between TRL and
one O six in Park based on just to see
You Now if I didn't like.
Speaker 4 (26:29):
Something on one or the other. But twenty five years.
Speaker 3 (26:32):
They also brought back former hosts like you just mentioned
Terrence j and then Cam Newton and Ashley Nicole Moss
announced the launch of a sports themed spin off, one
O six in Sports, So We'll see how that is
after an intro from Doctor Dre Snoop Dogg took the
stage as well with a run of classic classic hits
like drop It Like It's Hot and nothing but a
(26:52):
g Thing, guest appearances from Charlie Wilson, Corrupt Warren G.
Kendrick took home Album of the Year, Video of the Year,
her Best Male Hip Hop Artist, and Best Collab for
Luther with Sizza, who also took home an award. Chris
Brown Doci also took home some as well, and Mariah Carey,
who will be at our iHeartRadio Music Festival, did her
(27:13):
new song Type Dangerous and today at nine one in
five is your last chance for now to win a
trip to that.
Speaker 4 (27:20):
The lineup is stacked by the way, I'm getting choked up,
how good it is.
Speaker 3 (27:25):
Taylor Swift was granted a temporary restraining order against a
man who visited her La home multiple times and claims
that she's the mother of his child. Taylor filed the
restraining order on Friday after alleging that he made statements
about living on her property and needing to see her
in person. Luckily, Taylor has been living in Florida with
her man, Trevis Kelce, And while we were talking about them,
(27:46):
this is the story that Fred was referencing earlier. I
want to mention that some people think they are secretly married,
and this is because event planner Ali Nitali said that
at NFL play, Eric Holcomet's wedding envelopes addressed to quote
Taylor and Travis Kelsey were placed at Table thirteen are
(28:07):
written in elegant calligraphy, setting off lots of whispers. Taylor
and Travis actually ended up skipping that wedding they were
seeing photographed the night before at Travis Cousin's wedding in Tennessee,
but some fans were pointing out that it's normal to
name couples that way, even if they're not married.
Speaker 4 (28:24):
I've never heard of that or seen that.
Speaker 1 (28:27):
Yeah, I don't know. I'm trying to think, like when
I've been asked to go to a wedding and I
bring somebody along, if they really even bother to ask
what the other person's information is, And I don't know that.
I'm trying to think of times when I brought someone,
it was like the person knew who I was bringing,
but the little card that would get passed on to
the person who makes the calligraphy stuff would just say
(28:49):
me and guest, right, so they would probably refer to
them under my name.
Speaker 3 (28:54):
We can know we're not married, no, because like I
get addressed to my boyfriend and me and both of
our last names every single time.
Speaker 1 (29:05):
Yeah, well, well but you guys are together and I
don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I'm not
sure what the etiquette is on that, but it sounds
to me like it was just an easier way to
do it.
Speaker 7 (29:13):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (29:13):
Maybe, but that's why people think they secretly got married.
I personally do not think they did that as a
swifty but I don't know. By the way, if you.
Speaker 3 (29:21):
Want to follow us on social if you have not
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Speaker 5 (29:32):
It's the Fred Show. Do you have what it takes
to battle show Biz? Shelley in the show Biz Showdown, show.
Speaker 1 (29:43):
Me, Shelley's Back, Show Bis, Shelley's Back, We should play
the show Bizkiki intro once and have her do a
little breakdown kick you do the pop it? Yeah, we
should see you see how.
Speaker 2 (29:58):
You're Baby number two?
Speaker 4 (29:59):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (30:01):
Hey, how about baby number three?
Speaker 4 (30:02):
Yep, baby number three too far?
Speaker 1 (30:07):
Hey, baby number two was a bit of a surprise,
so you know what, you.
Speaker 4 (30:13):
Know, we're gonna take her that.
Speaker 1 (30:16):
Oh we're gonna we're gonna shut it down.
Speaker 2 (30:18):
Are we're gonna shut down the operation?
Speaker 1 (30:20):
Yes, indeed, let's go give me a challenger for day
number two? Is a tell you yesterday, Hi, Brianna, good
morning guys.
Speaker 12 (30:27):
How are you?
Speaker 1 (30:28):
Good morning? So you might have earned yourself fifty extra
dollars seven fifty is your price today? Shelley's record one
ten wins, sixty eight losses, a six game win streak
which predates baby and Baby Liam, and tied yesterday on
her first day back. Let's play the game.
Speaker 4 (30:43):
Good luck guys, Okay, good luck, good luck?
Speaker 1 (30:47):
All right? If you go sholly down, boof boof Brianna.
Question number one which award show hosted by Kevin Hart
went down from LA last night.
Speaker 8 (30:56):
The BP Award.
Speaker 1 (30:57):
We just talked about it. What you were on hold?
Which actor has seemingly lost his legal battle with Blake
Lively after his lawsuits were dismissed.
Speaker 12 (31:07):
Justin Valderini.
Speaker 1 (31:10):
These Birds of a Feather singer seemingly confirmed her relationship
with Nat Wolfe after they re spotted making out in Italy.
Billie Island, Which actor and comedian told Raven's running back
Derrick Henry that he would put him in a movie
if he rushed for over two thousand yards This season,
(31:33):
The Bank and Which children's movie dominated the box office
for a third weekend in a row. The movie dominated
the box office for a third weekend in a row.
Speaker 4 (31:47):
Three God and I have two You have one son.
Speaker 1 (31:52):
And I had to I had to, u, you know,
offer my apologies to this movie because I thought there's
just no way that it would be mission impossible. And
I hate to say this to you, Brianna, but you
got one. Two was closed but not correct. You got three,
so you got two? Right? Yeah, ah yeah, yeah, unfortunately.
But anyway, let's see how this go. It's gonna be okay.
(32:15):
I don't think we'll have any controversy today, but let's try. Shelley,
which awards show hosted by Kevin Hart, went down from LA.
Speaker 4 (32:22):
Last night the BET Awards, yep.
Speaker 1 (32:24):
Which actor has seemingly lost his legal battle with Blake
Lively after his lawsuits were dismissed. Justin Baldoni, Justin Baldoni,
I think you said Balderini or something. This Birds of
a Feather singer seemingly confirmed her relationship with Natt Wolfe
after they were spotted making out in Italy.
Speaker 4 (32:42):
Billie Eilis Yeah.
Speaker 1 (32:43):
Which actor and comedian told Raven's running back Derek Henry
that he would put him in a movie if he
rushed for over two thousand yards this season. Adam Sandler, Yeah,
And which children's movie dominated the box office for a
third weekend in a.
Speaker 4 (32:56):
Row Leland Stitch.
Speaker 1 (32:57):
That's it. That's a five. That's a when there's no
doubt about it. Hey, Brianna, you did a great job.
We'll get you some kind of an amazing consolation prize.
Amazing might be an overstatement, but we'll see. But you
have to say, my name is Brianna. I got showed
up on a showdown. You know the rest.
Speaker 12 (33:12):
My name is Brianna, and I got showed up on
the showdown and I can't.
Speaker 2 (33:16):
Hang with.
Speaker 1 (33:23):
That was really good you, Brianna, can't hang with the gorilla.
Speaker 10 (33:33):
Cat shut out to Briann.
Speaker 1 (33:42):
Brin, No, you are, in fact not a loser because
you this is your second appearance. You did a great job. Yeah,
hang on a second, have a great day. You and
the kids? All right?
Speaker 12 (33:57):
Thank you?
Speaker 1 (33:59):
I love that I have kids. Yeah, I guess they
don't know about Lilo and Stitch. Yeah, Shelley, you weren't here,
but I was a couple of weeks ago. I'm like,
there is no way that, Like, why would Leelo and
Stitch even bother to go up against Mission Impossible? That
you guys are dummies? Go the next weekend like you
all are crazy?
Speaker 4 (34:16):
Oh no, oh yeah, no killed huge, huge. Oh my
neighbors kids saw it.
Speaker 1 (34:21):
It's what I mean. Why would you go up against
Mission Impossible? That's crazy? No, no, Mission Impossible should have
gone up against them, exactly. It turns out, all right,
eight hundred tomorrow. That's win number one thousand and eleven
and a seven game win streak. So how's this back
to work stuff going for you? A good? Are are
you currently energized? But like maybe later you'll be like no, I.
Speaker 15 (34:44):
Think maybe, but it was more like overwhelmed, Like I
forgot passwords to something like. It was just trying to
figure everything out. So I'm slowly getting back into it.
I feel like I feel like.
Speaker 1 (34:53):
It's that week after vacation, except yours was three months
and not to vacation. But it's like, oh, the first
couple of days, you like, ah, good to be back,
and at the third day you're like, I liked it better.
Speaker 15 (35:04):
I know because the first few weeks sub materially and
I was like, oh my god, this is wonderful. And
then I was like, you know what kind of miswork
a little bit, and then yeah, we'll see.
Speaker 2 (35:12):
I'll keep you posted.
Speaker 1 (35:12):
It's like, sorry, kids, mom's got to go to work.
We're gonna have to fend for yourselves. I guess all right,
we'll see you tomorrow. Have a good day.
Speaker 4 (35:19):
You two bye.
Speaker 1 (35:20):
Waiting on the phone from the vault.
Speaker 6 (35:21):
Give us a hint, girl, that is not enough money,
so stop playing.
Speaker 1 (35:30):
Okay period. I guess I'll stick around more press show
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