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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Hey, wake up. Do you think I'm building a picture here?
I'm building the picture still that you're building a picture. Yeah,
you're painting. I'm crazy. Ah, Yes, I'm painting. Fred's Show
is on, same thing whatever, It's all good. Monday May

(00:22):
twelve morning. Fred's Show is on.

Speaker 2 (00:23):
Hi Kaila, good morning, Hi Jason Brown by Paulina Hiki,
Good morning.

Speaker 1 (00:28):
Bella back tomorrow?

Speaker 3 (00:29):
Yes?

Speaker 4 (00:30):
Is that Ryan?

Speaker 1 (00:31):
Well, she better be back here. She has to return
to word. Yeah. I'll pick her up myself if I
have to. Okay, I mean yeah, we're trying running around
here like like clowns, like like silly little clowns that
we are. Oh, we are answering the phone, were signing
to the text, doing this, doing that, doing the other thing.
Get Bella back here. I haven't been bossed around in

(00:52):
several days. We'll do headlines, the biggest stories of the day,
the entertainment of portant blogs, This hour, Kieky's Court, this morning,
but up, It's a thin line between love and hate.
Waiting by the phone. It's new this morning, Money in
the showdown another tie, Yeah, another tie, seven fifty your
record twenty nine and four and fancy Astetutian Carrissa is

(01:14):
coming back for seven hundred and fifty bucks. She's so good, man,
she is really good. It's true, it's true. Where did
the story go, Paula? This is for you, and you specifically.
But there's a woman who has filed for divorce after
chat gpt exposed to her husband's affair. Why through his

(01:38):
coffee cup? Wait, there's a lot to im back. This
comes to us from a New Delhi this morning, where
it's forty degrees celsia'f you're wondering, Oh, okay, I is it?
Look at the website. Yeah know, I'm always wondering what
the temperature is in New Delhi. But a woman in Greece,
so I don't know what New Deli. But then she's
in Greece. I don't know. Look, they're a worldwide reporting
right here.

Speaker 3 (01:55):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:56):
A woman in Greece is filed for divorce after allegedly
using chat chept too read her husband's coffee cup and
discover an affair. According to a report by the Greek
City Times, the woman turned to the Ai chat pod
for supernatural guidance in a modern twist on what's called
I'm not sure if I'm saying this right, tassiography, which
is the ancient art of reading coffee grounds or tea

(02:19):
leaves to predict the future. So they've been married for
twelve years. The mother of two uploaded photos of her
and her husband's coffee cups, hoping the chat Gypt could
interpret the patterns in the grounds, and what she reportedly
received in return was a devastating result. What the AI
told her that her husband was cheating with a younger
woman who was intent on tearing the family apart. WHOA wait,

(02:44):
so now Chetty is a psychic, she's a witch. No,
she does tasiography. Dah well, that's crazy though, I'm sure
I'm not saying that right. Wow, it's gonna destroy us.

Speaker 3 (02:53):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (02:54):
No, take a picture of your coffee and see what
hoes up to?

Speaker 3 (02:56):
You know what?

Speaker 1 (02:57):
Money? Picture of your duncan?

Speaker 5 (02:58):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (02:58):
Yes.

Speaker 1 (02:59):
The bottle allegedly revealed that her husband's cop showed that
he was destined to be with a mysterious woman with
the initial E, while hers indicated betrayal and a threat
to her household. Her husband, appearing on a local TV show,
dismissed the claims that his wife had a habit of
chasing viral trends. But this time things escalated quickly. What

(03:20):
does that have to do with the chasing viral so
Hobby was quoted as saying, my wife, Paulina has a
history of chasing viral trends. I lasted it off as nonsense,
but she took it seriously. She asked me to leave,
told our kids who were getting divorced, and then I
got a call from a lawyer. And that's what I realized.
This was not just a phase and scenes. That's the
end of the story. That's it. Chat GPT told her

(03:44):
to get a divorce and she's going to do it
because of some sort of method of looking at the
coffee grounds chatting Row.

Speaker 4 (03:54):
No, what do you mean?

Speaker 1 (03:56):
Chat is not wrong? Stop it right now. Not only
is this not an exact science, but we're asking a
bot to determine and read a not exact science. And
then and then we're bringing up families. Now, what if
this guy's not doing anything the kiki. Yes, a computer

(04:16):
read the top of a coffee cup and determined that
a family should not be together anymore with kids.

Speaker 6 (04:22):
Yes, because you know what I believe. I don't believe
that Chad is just reading the coffee cup. I feel
like Chad GPT has read your text messages. It knows
what you're thinking. Like I think about stuff and it
just pops up on my phone. I haven't searched anything.
So I think if the robot is that tapped in,
they're compiling all.

Speaker 1 (04:41):
The things that he knows.

Speaker 6 (04:42):
He knows his text, he knows his calendar, he knows everything.
He knows that secret app on his phone with the
pictures that hides him.

Speaker 1 (04:51):
So then why not just say that then?

Speaker 6 (04:53):
Because she didn't acts all that she asks about the
you know whatever, the coffee that.

Speaker 1 (04:57):
Was, well, you know, well, I would feel a lot
better bringing up family if I had all that other
information too. You do have it, though, Okay, but I
don't because Chad didn't tell me. My friend Chad of
chat Chepet, he didn't tell me all the rest of it.
If you ask him, I bet you you will. Okay,
I'm on board with this. Now, let's take a picture
at the top of your coffee cup today and let's

(05:18):
see what Big Tim is up to. Okay. Courtesy of
tast Geography. Beggar's Pizza. Okay, may we're gonna read the
top of the pizza. The pizza is saying he's took
it up with a much younger woman. I mean, I
would believe it if Chad told me. Okay, so if Chad,
I want to be really clear, if Chad GPT told

(05:39):
you that Big Tim was cheating, you would kick him
out of the house. Yes, come on, come on, you
guys there. We have to live in the real world.

Speaker 6 (05:52):
This is real chat compie combines all the info from
your devices and your mind.

Speaker 1 (06:01):
But I'm on my computer asking my computer if my
non existent girlfriend is cheating on me. That has nothing
to do with anyone else's phones or Internet searches or
I'm not even using that person's computer.

Speaker 6 (06:14):
I'm on my computer. But you say you shared the
same Wi Fi. Oh my god, I'm telling you, yeah,
I be knows that's very true. I had Chad to
read my palm once. I already told you that.

Speaker 1 (06:25):
And what did Chad tell you? I'm going to live
a long life, she said, I swear to God.

Speaker 7 (06:30):
But she also couldn't see the first time, I had
to retake the photo because I was a little blurry.
So she's like, I want to be clear, retake the photo,
and I said, okay.

Speaker 1 (06:37):
It sounds like my Brazilian travel visa. Oh how's that going?
Not well? So you're saying saying with us.

Speaker 8 (06:45):
It again?

Speaker 1 (06:46):
Oh my god, I've had to send This is a
real story. Actually, can you get chat a Brazilian travel visa?
It took you didn't have you did it one shot?
Thank yous flex in life.

Speaker 9 (06:58):
Yeah, but I have All of my other friends paid
every single time they had to redo it, like eighty
five dollars.

Speaker 1 (07:03):
So I am going to visit my aunt in July
over the fourth of July in Uruguay where she retired
and bought a house. And it's not the easiest to
get there, and it's off season, so it's a little
bit harder even But I had a bunch of options,
one of which was I could go through South Paulo,

(07:23):
Brazil to get there, and the flights don't align either.
So so I was like, okay, fine, I'll go in
a day or too early, and I'll check out Brazil.
I've never been to Brazil before, so I'll go there
and then on the way back, I think it's like
it's a long layover. I'll get a hotel and then
come back. Because you can get from here to there,
but you can't get from here to anywhere near really Uruguay.

Speaker 3 (07:45):
You have to.

Speaker 1 (07:46):
It's a whole different thing. And the flights only fly
on like certain days to where she lives and whatever.
So I'm like, fine, this will be a nice little adventure.
I'll go to Brazil. But we need a travel visa
now as of like April to go to Brazil. It's eighty,
which is like, it is a cash grab, okay. And
you go on this website and it's a third party website,
and you put a picture of your passport and your

(08:07):
picture and then you fill out some information and you
send it off and then it gets sent back to
you and you're like, you can come travel visa. This
is not like a work visa. This is nothing. This
is a cash grab. So I do it, sends it back.
It doesn't like the passport photo and it doesn't like
the picture of me because I was smiling in the picture.
Oh you cannot do that, okay, So then I send

(08:29):
another round of pictures. I send them another round of pictures. Okay,
another round, another round Okay, no problem, And I didn't
use my iPhone this time. I like scanned it properly
and then whatever, I didn't follow directions the first time.
I will lit mad. They don't want you to use
your phone to scan stuff, okay. And then I tried
to use my passport photo as my picture because it

(08:51):
met the requirements. But no, you can't do that. It
has to be a new picture. So that I took
new pictures and send them over. Nope, didn't like that.
Then it says you should just FedEx this stuff to
us because we don't think you know how to use
the computer. I'm serious, this automated message. Click on this link,
it'll be a FedEx link, go to the FedEx door,
they'll take the pictures, they'll scan of thing, and then

(09:12):
you're fine. I did that a month ago. Nothing. How
was that? Who's getting an email anyway? So now I
need Chad GPT to do this. So I have now
sent three different sets of pictures on this website. And
apparently it's a company in India that does this because
then there's a consulate here. So I finally just email
the consulate. I was like, can I just come in

(09:35):
so you can see that I'm real And they're like,
oh no, you can't do that, Oh no, no, no, no,
it has to be handled it by this thing, and
by the way, it's in India, so kind of good
luck with that. So we're on our third round now.
I'm trying to get there, but I need Chad to
read the top of my coffee and tell me if
I'm getting in ornet, because I don't even I mean,
I wasn't really trying to go to Brazil. I'm just
I'm just trying to get to see my hands, right,

(09:55):
I'm just I'm just just pulling up, you know, like
literally ribe. Yeah, I don't know. I may not be
able to do that, but you have to change the
plan entirely. And I don't know, ride my bike or something.
No one talks about that enough, like how hard it
is to get into Brazil. You guys, I went to
Cuba with less work than this, right, I'm serious.

Speaker 9 (10:12):
Yeah, And it's a recent thing that they implemented, so
it's like last two months or two months.

Speaker 1 (10:16):
Ago or something was required. Yeah, and then you did
it first shot boom.

Speaker 9 (10:19):
I did, but I was very anxious about all the rules,
so I read them and read them and read them.

Speaker 1 (10:23):
And yeah, Jason took it right in the front of
our office by the window. Well, he took my first
one too. They didn't like that I was smiling. Again,
didn't like that. So now we set one no smeles,
not smile. Apparently that may have passed, but they didn't
like the passport photos, so we had to redo that.

Speaker 9 (10:37):
No glasses, no hats, no smiling. Your hair can't be
tucked a certain way.

Speaker 1 (10:41):
Wow, you guys, I'm gonna leave the airport. I'm going
to go eat something. I'm going to turn around and
come back and go to leave a visa for that.
You do now just to go there?

Speaker 3 (10:53):
You do?

Speaker 1 (10:53):
Now eighty bucks? That don't make I think that has
a lot because, by the way, they've had my passport
now for two months. They've had my picture for two months.
My passport's on my flight reservations. If there's any issue,
they already know, right, So I don't know what this
is because that you got to put all this stuff
in to get the airline ticket anyway. So if I'm
gonna have a problem, then I should have a problem. Anyway,
It's get seen, Chatty, if you get chat on this, listen,

(11:15):
I'm calling my boy up really quick and say let
him into Brazil, honestly, chat and see if anyone's been
cheating on me. I'm not with anybody, but let's just
see if anyone is shooting on me anyway, guys, another day,
another air traffic control problem. Uh, there's a pope Leo
accessory you didn't know you needed, but you need him.
I make you a lot of money. Oh, selfies and cancer,

(11:38):
but maybe not in the way that k I got
Geeki's attention. Yes, what, because you'd have coffee, you'd have
excuse me, you'd have cancer about seven times already this morning.
If that were the case, I rebuke that. I mean,
I mean, I wouldn't have women here for an hour,
so at least seven totten selfies have been taken already.
That in more in the Biggest Stories of the Day headlines.
Next in two minutes, Fred's show is on Friend's Biggest

(12:01):
Stories of the Day text date five five five three five.
Further making it hard for you get to get to
Brazil because you're gonna take all the Brazilian women. Oh,
that's what it is. That's what it is, you, guys.
I even got a Brazilian wax to take the picture,
and I send them a picture to prove that too.
What about a Brazilian blowout. Got that too, okay, perfect
I got I got that too. I went to Paulina's guy.

(12:23):
I send them pictures to prove all of that I'm
one of you. But no, so we'll see I may
not get to go at all you will. I thought
other countries, well, I shouldn't say. I was about to
say that the other countries wanted us to visit, but
I know that's not true. But I figured they at
least want the money. You know, they want your money.

(12:44):
They don't want you to come there and keep making
take it again another text. Kiki's absolutely wrong. That is
not how chad GPT works. It does not compile information
for people's personal devices, which is what I said. It
takes a general information from the the same information that
you can search on search engines, and that it makes
its own interpretations, which is why I don't think chat

(13:06):
GPT therapy is a good idea. We don't have to
go back there. I'm not saying it's a bad idea.
I just don't think it's I think it's going to
be extremely generic. It's not going to be customized to you.
So and I also think that trained talented therapists you
know that they're a method. I mean Canwin's mom is
one of my sisters, one that they go to school

(13:28):
for years and years and years to learn how to
extract information from you, how to repeat information to you,
how how you can hear what you were saying in
different ways so that you can interpret it differently. Chat
GPT is not there, not yet, I don't think because again,
I tried to ask chat gpt to make a graphic
of the Pope in front of Zero Gravity nightclub in

(13:48):
Chicago last week, and it sent me a picture, a
cartoon of the Pope floating in zero gravity. It wasn't
it in his picture? Okay, So I don't know that
I'm trusting it with my life or with or with
the status of my relationship.

Speaker 7 (14:02):
Yeah, I wouldn't exactly listen to her advice, but it's
nice to have a friend to vent too. That's very like,
you know, not what even one sided, but just can't
really repeat things to people, kind of keeps it to herself.
And that's actually not true because when you tell him
or her things on CHAGPG, they remember.

Speaker 1 (14:19):
That's the whole point. You have to build a relationship
with this bot. Do you have the app on your phone. No,
I have a the website, Paulina. It only knows what
you're telling it. And we all know. We all know
the people who go to therapy and lie. Oh yeah,
we all know that. I think most people go to
therapy and they tell their side of the story and
they're hoping that the therapist will go, oh my god,
you are so right and the other person is so wrong.

(14:40):
I hope people aren't doing that, because that's the way
to tell it. I think most people. I honestly, I
should ask my therapist today. I think I know people
who have gone to therapy who I know are screwing
up and doing bad things, and then they'll tell me
what my therapist says, that you're the problem, Like you're
cheating on your husband. Yeah, it's not great. No, not
recommend I didn't know that at the time. But you're

(15:02):
cheating on your your therapist says, I can you know,
did you include that part? Yeah, well, my therapist says,
and that's another thing. Never do that. Never never do that. Well,
my therapist says, as it. I wasn't there, okay, so
I didn't get to tell my side of the story.
And we all know the truth lies somewhere in the middle,
and I think that's the part that's missing. Mm hmmm.

(15:24):
So you're gonna all, oh, Hovey did this, and Hobby
did that, and Hobby did this. Well, then did the
cha cheap? You'd probably tell you to get a divorce.

Speaker 7 (15:31):
I mean, no, I'm pretty self aware, and I don't
people agree with it or not. I tell it like, hey,
I did this and he did that, and what do
you think we should do? That is what I say,
Right should I say or should I go? I'd like
to be present for this at some point. No, I
mean they get to know you through time and even
like your tone. I've noticed because when I say, hey,
write me a caption in Paulino's tone, No, yes, she

(15:52):
sounds like me a little bit, noways I mean, I
gotta tell her, hey, don't don't be corny, like come on,
like change it up a little bit.

Speaker 1 (15:57):
I tell her that, but please don't be Cory. And
I want to talk to Robust. As much as I
love you, Paulina, I doubt that it's misspelling things and
and using the wrong Have you seen any of misspells
in the past three months? That's what I mean. Which
is right, which means it hasn't been. It certainly hasn't
taken on your own then I'm telling you, I'm telling
you right, that's what I mean. I thought, and I'm

(16:19):
not giving I mean, listen to the show for a minute,
and Paulina has her own vernaculous it's your entire own
thing headlines. This morning, another equipment outage forced a groundstop
at Newark Universe or new University this university at Newark
Liberty International Airport for flights on Sunday morning. The Glitz
followed a ninety second long radar and radio outage. This

(16:39):
is like the third or fourth time that we've heard
about it, so who knows how many times it's happened
before that. No crash has occurred. What this article says, Well,
that's good, no crash has occurred. But five FA employees
ended up taking forty five days of trauma leave. I
would think that would be fairly traumatic for me. If
I'm sitting in front of a radar screen with airplanes

(17:00):
on it and I'm supposed to make sure they don't
go into each other and then the thing just stops working.
I mean, look, do we get forty five days of
trauma every time the satellites aren't aligned here and we
go off the airn and there's something I can do
about it. We'd never be here, I know. I mean,
how many incidents of that have we had? But we
get to run around in circles from room to rooms.
You know, people are wondering, why why I've lost so

(17:21):
much weight? I don't know, because Jason should he should
be like right rail exactly, you should be rendering over summer,
running around the circles. W Steff messes up around here.
I guess they're working on a fix and they're going
to update the entire air traffic control system, so they're saying.
Pope Leo the fourteenth now has a trading card from Tops.
The first American born pope has his own trading card.

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The card feature is a picture of the Pontiff when
he greeted the crowd gathered in Saint Peter's Square for
the first time. Random orders will receive special variant editions,
including a white smoke image version of the card that
is limited to just two hundred and sixty seven copies.
I can't wait to see people on TikTok ripping the
Pope Pope packs. You ever see people open cards on

(18:04):
like they open like they get like the big the
big card, the big score. You know it to be
someone like opening Pokemon pox. Why can't I talk today? Well,
I mean, everything seems to be a riddle by Pope,
Pope pull. That's hard to say Pokemon packs, poke mod
It's hard to say to him. But you'll see the
guy and he'll be like opening packs and then oh
my god, there's a charge on and his hands starts shaking,

(18:27):
and then he grabs like a plastic sleeve and tries
to put it in the thing because you don't want
any creases or like the corners to get messed up
because you just retired.

Speaker 4 (18:35):
Mm hmm.

Speaker 1 (18:35):
That's how it's gonna be with this. Oh my god,
I get the white smoke. I got the white smoke
Pope card. My hand's shaking.

Speaker 8 (18:43):
This is for you.

Speaker 1 (18:44):
It's just for you and only you, Kiki. No one
else has to listen. Researchers saying that an artificial intelligence
tool can assess a cancer patient's biological age by analyzing
a simple selfie and help predict survival rate. Here we
go again. We're trusting this thing. The AI model evaluates
facial features to estimate how old a passion a person

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appears biologically, which can differ from their chronological age. Studies
have shown that this biological age estimation could be a
more accurate predictor of a patient's survival rate than traditional methods.
Technology aims to assist doctors and tailoring treatment plans by
providing insights into a patient's overall health status. I think
that this audio and some of the audio from last

(19:30):
week with us talking about chat GVT is going to
be like that Today's show audio where they're talking about
email thirty years ago where Brian gumbeles on the couch called,
what's that app symbol mean? The world Wide Web?

Speaker 3 (19:41):
What is that?

Speaker 1 (19:42):
That's what this is going to sound like, because in
ten years we are going to be going to AI therapy.
I'm sure, yep. In fact, I don't. I'll probably have
to go to AI therapy because they'll have an AI
fred that's way better at this than I am, clearly
will be. So, I mean, all jokes aside, this is
this is where we're headed. Yeah, this stings will tell
me how long I'm going to live. I've given up.
Do you want to know No, I don't want to

(20:03):
know that. No, So I can take let's say I
can take a selfie of you, which wouldn't be a selfie,
would be a picture, and then I can send it
in right right, you know what? Honestly, Chad, Chad? Can
Chad do this? I don't know what's going on with
me today? Send it cold medicine day. I guess. I

(20:23):
don't know. Anyway, I can I take a picture of you.
I submitted into the thing, and it's going to tell
me exactly how long you have to live in at
aaccurate I don't know. I don't either. I don't want
to know that. I don't either. No, but you could
argue that if you had that kind of information, that
you would let's say you've got thirty days, let's say
you've got forty five. Let's say you've got thirty years.

(20:43):
I bet it would change the way you look at everything.
It would have to Oh yeah, like you know, I'm
forty early forty. So if if if you told me
I have forty more years to live, well, then I
might take a deep breath and go Okay, then I
can take my time doing this, that and the other thing.
If you said to me, you have one year where
that I'm going to clean up. Well, I'm going to
make sure all my stuff is in order, I'm going

(21:04):
to go see what I want to see. I'm going
to say goodbye to people, you know, because you would
have that option. Yeah, because it's going to happen whether
you like the information or not. Or you can just
live each day and then hope, you know, you get
another one.

Speaker 6 (21:16):
And I feel like a lot of people would take
advantage of this, like a lot of people would like
to know. Which is scary, But I think that's where
we're headed.

Speaker 1 (21:24):
A recent study highlights a surprising shift in the traditional
Southern accent. They say that it's going away no in
places like Atlanta, Raleigh, New Orleans. Linguists attribute the change
to significant migration from other parts of the US, leading
younger generations to adopt more neutral speech patterns. The influx

(21:45):
of non Southern residents and evolving cultural aspirations are influencing
this linguistic transformation. The classic Southern draw may be diminishing
in cities, experts believe that it will persist in rural areas,
reflecting and evolving Southern identity less tied to traditional speech patterns.
I believe that, Tim. You go to a place like
Charlotte or Raleigh, and you get a lot of transplants

(22:08):
because of business and stuff there. People in banking, people
in tech. So then they have kids, maybe they meet
someone from there, they grew up there, maybe they don't.
And then there goes the accent. Oh, I love the accent.
I'm s too, I do too. Yeah. The World Video
Game Hall of Fame has announced his class of twenty
twenty five. I know you guys were wondering about this. Defender,

(22:29):
an eighty one arcade game that raised the bar on
difficulty from simple stuff like Space Invaders Quake, which was
a ninety six follow up to Doom. GoldenEye Double seven
from Nintendo sixty four, and the Tamagatchi the Digital pet
have all made the Video Game Hall of Fame. Age
of Empires, Angry Birds, Call of Duty four, Modern Warfare, Frogger,

(22:51):
Golden Tea, How's Golden Teen out in there? Harvest Moon,
Mattel Football, and NBA two K did not make the
cut this year. In case you're about that, and if
you're looking for an internship this summer, there is an
online sleeper sofa brand Coddle. They're looking for a summer
coddled intern It's an eight week internship open to people
twenty one or older. It pays ten grand. The company

(23:14):
will choose one applicant and send them a sleeper sofa,
which will be theirs to keep. The chosen applicant will
be asked to lounge, snack and nap and share their
experiences on social media. They're going to start accepting applications
tomorrow through June third on Instagram. Cottle co DDL is
the name of the company. As part of the application process,

(23:36):
you're being asked to record a thirty second video of
why they deserved the cushiest internship in America. Hopefully actually
ease your process than a Brazilian visa. But ten grand
to land the couch all summer. I'm in. It's National
Fibromyalgia Awareness Say, National Women's Checkup Day, and National Gonna
say this right, Sapphire Segular Day. I hope I said
that right. A day of gratitude for single parents of

(23:58):
special needs children to remind them their service and sacrifices
of love are seen and appreciated. The Entertainer Report, We'll
do it next blogs are audio journals after that, Waiting
by the phone, It's new this morning? Why does somebody
get ghosted? And the Tidebreaker We shall be Kiky in
the Showdown with the Esthetician for seven fifty to French
show back, e Toody gets shat gpt out Paulina yea

(24:22):
if we have time, I have a morality Monday that
you need to know what chat Shad takes switches to
Cawon's Entertainer report is on the press show.

Speaker 9 (24:33):
The back and forth legal battle between Blake Lively and
Justin Baldoni now officially involves Taylor Swift. Taylor, who is,
of course a longtime friend of Blake's or was I mean?
I haven't seen them together in quite some time, has
been subpoenaed as a witness in the case that began
with Blake's allegations of harassment against Justin, her co star
and the director of the movie It Ends with Us.

(24:55):
The subpoena, of course, came from Justin's side of things
his lawyer, but a rep for tayl released a statement
saying Taylor Swift never set foot on the side of
this movie. She was not involved in any casting or
creative decisions. She did not score the film, She never
saw an edit or made any notes on the film.
She did not even see It ends with Us until
weeks after its public release. Remember, one of the actresses

(25:16):
on the red carpet literally said, Blake told me that
Taylor had a hand in casting me. So I don't
know if Blake was on the set. Going girl, Taylor
loves this. Taylor says, to do this if she's using
her or if that wasn't true. But where would this
young actress get that information?

Speaker 1 (25:32):
And I always said.

Speaker 9 (25:33):
That's the fastest way to make sure this thing doesn't
go to tryal because she's not gonna want to go
say in core and talk about this, so she's gonna
be like, y'all need to settle this.

Speaker 1 (25:41):
Maybe chat GBT can settle this, because I'm sick of
talking about it.

Speaker 9 (25:44):
Lil Wayne's fiance, model Denise Bodeau, claims that he literally
kicked her and her daughter out on the street yesterday
on Mother's Day. She said that he broke up with
her via text message, had his assistant handle everything on
Like I said, Mother's Day, of all day, she and
her daughter literally were on the street when she posted
the video also said that he already had two women

(26:07):
being flown in that day, claims he assaulted her in
the past, and she is now asking for lawyer recommendations
and is planning to sue. Twenty four year old Jordan Hudson,
known for her relationship with seventy three year old football
coach Bill Belichick, one second runner up in the latest
Miss Maine USA pageant, and despite her visible disappointment, she

(26:28):
was not happy she didn't win. Jordan delivered the message
saying hate never wins, so she showed us. Bill supported
her during the pageant and was spotted leaving the venue
with her hand in hand. Of course, their relationship was
being talked about because of their massive age difference, but
then after that insane interview where she was like, next question,
We're not talking about that. Now everyone has more eyes

(26:48):
on them. The pageant was one by a woman named
Shelby Howell, who I'm sure is a nice, nicer woman
than Jordan.

Speaker 1 (26:55):
But oh, and Bill Belichick on a Good Morning America
on Friday with Michael Strahand. So this Friday, yeah, oh,
something tells me Geordad will not be who spells it
like that? I don't trust her. And by the way,
this whole like hate never winsy if you're referring to
the way people are talking about you like you're some

(27:16):
kind of victim. Come on, Jordan, you look like a psycho. Okay,
you're controlling it, old man, Like, stop and maybe we
don't have the whole story. But then tell us the
whole story. Yeah, right, like like, let's just let's just
be normal here because it doesn't look good. So no
one hates you, Well, maybe people hate you. I don't know.

Speaker 4 (27:31):
No one.

Speaker 1 (27:31):
I don't know anyone here hates you. Oh, I don't
know you were social. Well she's talking about us specifically. Yeah,
I mean, look we're with Hey, they can hear us
in Chapel Hill, so she probably she's a morning listener.
Well she used to be, I guess. Yeah, but no,
I just I just think no one, I don't hate you.
I just I don't think your behavior is odd.

Speaker 9 (27:49):
Yeah, it's elder and hate never wins. You say that
when you win, like you were second runner up. So like,
I don't know why you're even talking about that. It
looks like hate one act very good taal. It would
appear in this example, hate one she's a lovely woman,
and I hope she gets miss main next year. Okay,
go get him Jordan. By the way, if you miss
any part of our show, to tect the Friend Show

(28:11):
on demand and set us as a precept on the
free iheartratio.

Speaker 1 (28:13):
I would be worried about anyone in a relationship like
this where I couldn't speak to them or they couldn't
answer questions for themselves. In this particular case, it seems
really strange. This is a very successful guy. Granted he's
not known to be the best communicator, but boys, he
gotten a long way on his own without you, Jordan.
In fact, he was able to get a long way

(28:34):
for fifty years before you even bore right not to
mention the other twenty before he met you. So yeah,
I think he's doing okay. But man, you know, when
you're you're seventy four, you got the hot young girlfriend
and everyone's like, this woman needs to get out, and
you're you probably know that's true, but you know, if
you don't side with your young crazy girlfriend that then
you're you know, you're not gonna get that young crazy

(28:56):
stuff anymore. So, boy, is Bill in a spot. He's
really willing to risk it all, you know what I mean?
That's you know, I've seen it before. I've seen it before.
I would like to think that Bill could could could
easily get are not even like relatively more age appropriate.
He could probably get a lot of girls. This is
not the hottest girl he could. Yeah, could I go?

Speaker 2 (29:16):
I go?

Speaker 3 (29:16):
Right now? There you go?

Speaker 1 (29:18):
Well yeah, and then you you show up to start
directing practice and oh no oh in the place.

Speaker 9 (29:22):
If I'm with Bill, you honey, you enjoys going to
say I'm living.

Speaker 1 (29:26):
A life leisure exactly. Okay, So morality Monday on a
Monday for once, and this thing is everywhere this morning.
But what would you do? Eight five five five nine
one one three five It was on Reddit m I
the a hole. So this is a woman who is
unsure if she should tell her younger brother the real

(29:47):
version of what led to their parents' divorce. So she
explains that her parents split three years ago and are
in the process of divorcing. Since the separation, her eighteen
year old brother has been living with their and she's
been with her dad. Both My parents are very tense,
are not civil during the proceedings. When the couple announced
their divorced. The person learned that it was precipitated by

(30:13):
her mom having an emotional affair for a few months.
So her brother blames mom for ruining the family. If
you hadn't had this emotional affair, we wouldn't be in
this situation, and so on. Paraphrase. I'm jumping ahead here
to make this story simpler. But the woman writing the
post says she is aware of a physical affair that

(30:34):
her father was having at the same time that her
mom and brother don't know about what. So, according to her,
her brother, who's mad at mom and siding with Dad,
is unaware that Dad had a physical affair that occurred,
and that she had heard him having this affair in

(30:56):
the home while mom was there. Oh whoa, so wow
this is I mean so and dad doesn't know she knows,
and brother doesn't know what happened at all. So my
question is what do you do? Do you just let
this thing go? I mean, do you just hope that
the time heals wounds or whatever, or do you then

(31:17):
add to this and say, no, no, no, we need
to get all the information out here. Now, I don't
know that one led to the other. I don't know
if mom having an emotional affair was a result of
the fact that maybe she does know that her husband
was having a physical affair. I don't know if if
it's the other way around where he found out about
the emotional affair and then started. You know, either way,

(31:38):
but not only information. If all of this is true,
then not everybody has all the information, and the family's divided.
So if you have a secret about one of your
parents and it's dividing the family, do you level the
playing field? You come out and say a whole lot
a minute. You know we're taking sides here, but you
should know Dad's not perfect either. Yes, I would get

(31:59):
involved one hundred percent. I know it's not my place
to get involved. Maybe it is, I don't know. It
depends who you asked.

Speaker 7 (32:03):
But like to be honest, I like lay it all out,
and it's not even like to be like miss petty.
I just want to say, well, this also happened. I'm
a big believer of the truth, and yes, the truth
may hurt and it may not be great. But my stepdad,
the one thing that he did say that I still
remember this day is the truth will set you free.
I don't know why he would tell me that at
age eleven, but he did, and I still remember they

(32:25):
thought you were hiding something.

Speaker 1 (32:26):
I was like, bro, I'm like eleven, but yeah, what
would you do eight five five five three five? Do
you stay out of it? I mean, there's money involved here,
there's future relationship with the sibling, and granted it's their mess,
it's not your mass. But I mean if I can
imagine a world where if my sister went with someone,

(32:47):
you know, went with one side of the family and
I went with the other, then that divides our relationship
for things that have nothing to do with us. Correct.
So all the information should be out there, It should
all be hashed out, right should we should have a
sit down and go wait a minute, all right, let's
just get it all on the table here. You know,
mom may have done the wrong thing, but dah, you
did the wrong thing. You're not saying anything about that.
You're you're letting your son believe that it's all her fault.

(33:11):
But you're not perfect here either. That's what drives me crazy.

Speaker 7 (33:14):
It's like you're letting somebody else believe a whole side
of the story, you know what I mean? That like
makes to make yourself look better or something, or make
yourself look innocent. At that point, I would just be like,
and then this happened on my side. I'm not perfect either, son,
We're both not perfectly. Both make mistakes. Now, do you
end up back together or not? I don't know, that's
up to you, guys. But point is, you got to
lay it out there.

Speaker 9 (33:33):
You already know I'm taking Dad out for a scotch.
I'm sitting him down. I'm saying, listen, here's what I know,
here's what I heard.

Speaker 1 (33:38):
I know it to be true. You have forty eight hours, Dad, ooh, cheers.
Figure it out. You gotta tell mom or I'm telling mom,
because he probably has a financial interest in not telling
it himself because if it was mom's fault, and if
they're in a fault state, then he's gonna get more
money than she is because she was the one cheating,
you know what I'm saying. So, so he's not incentivized

(34:00):
unless he cares about his kids and their relationship. He's
not incentivized to come out and tell on himself because
right now it's like, well, I mean, I'm going to
get more money and it's her fault, not mine. I
can blame it on her. I can tell our friends
it was her fault all the while I was having
a physical affairs. I guess I'm not perfect either. You're
also paying for my therapy because this is a lot

(34:21):
to hear your dad, Holy write that part. I'm pulling
out a clipboard with a pointer. This is what you did.
This is what you did.

Speaker 6 (34:30):
Now, brother, this is the conclusion it came. So both
parents are guilty and everybody need therapy.

Speaker 1 (34:37):
Someone text it can affect the proceedings of the divorce,
So tell everyone blow it up and let everyone be
responsible for their actions. The sister can't say anything unless
she has receipts. Well, I guess that is true, because
I mean, how do you prove it? I mean, you
witnessed it, so I'm assuming that people don't think you're

(34:58):
a liar. But like, where did this story come from
all of a sudden, you know what I mean. It's like,
you know, oh, so, oh wow, Maybe moms is provable.
Maybe they were text messages or emails or letters or
whatever it is. And then Dad's is just speculations. So
if he's a really bad guy and really doesn't care
about his kids, and he can just lie and be
like I never happened. I was having a wild time

(35:19):
with myself in that room watching videos, And I'm sorry
that you had to witness that. And here's some money
for therapy for that, you know. But that's the thing,
you know, and I know we were we would be
assuming that people would would be the bigger person here.
But like he if, in fact, he had a physical
affair and she had an emotional affair, and it proves

(35:41):
the level of disconnecting a relationship and he's willing to
sit there and just let his family be divided, then
that says that tells you everything about what he thinks
about his kids. Oh yeah, like he doesn't care if
his kids get long or not as long as he
quote unquote wins in the divorce.

Speaker 9 (35:55):
If he's choosing to lie over what my truth is
and what I witnessed, then I won't have a reallyationship
with him anyways.

Speaker 1 (36:01):
That's crazy to do your kids. Now, what about this though?
What if? What if the two things were not connected?
It's hard to believe that people who were having emotional affairs,
but like, let's just say the relationship had dissolved and
they were each off doing their own things that she
got caught and he didn't. So because we're assuming in
this scenario that one led to the other, you know

(36:21):
what I mean, we're like that he was cheating and
she was cheating. So they're equal in this they're fit.
But let's just say that the two aren't connected. That
the reason for the divorce is not his cheating, it's
that she got caught. Then does he get to keep
his secret? You know what I'm saying?

Speaker 6 (36:37):
He brought another woman into our family home. That man
doesn't get any type of secrets to be ill.

Speaker 1 (36:45):
Hey Jordan, oh, just short on.

Speaker 5 (36:50):
Sorry girl, But I felt with an I instead of
an A.

Speaker 1 (36:53):
Sorry, that's all right? So excited I thought Jordan A
and there was no O, and I thought, oh my god,
Jordan's going to confront us live from Raleigh. But no,
you're not. What's so? What do you think here? What
would you do? In this situation? Mom got caught having
an emotional affair and it's divided sister and brother. They

(37:14):
each going to their own side. But sister, who's on
mom's side, is aware of a physical affair that dad
had and isn't saying anything.

Speaker 3 (37:20):
What do you do?

Speaker 5 (37:22):
So, as a product of divorced parents. As much as
I want to say get involved, I think there's too
many things that are unknown. And if you really want
to get involved, I think you have to go to
mom directly and let mom handle it, because at the
end of the day, it's their business, it's their relationship,
and you don't know if she knows, you don't know
when things happen, and honestly, you could just be stirring

(37:45):
the pot for nothing. So I think if you really
want to get involved, you have to go to mom.
And like Caylen said, maybe you go to dad's first,
and then maybe dad says, well, mom knows, like you
can go to her. But I think going and getting
involved and doing things like that, it's to make it
more massy. Yeah.

Speaker 1 (38:02):
And another thing you have to remember is sometimes adults
do adult things, and sometimes people know about those things.
You know, Like, let's say I don't know, God forbid,
I found out that somebody I don't even use my
own parents. Example, I found out that SO and So's parents,
the father had a girlfriend, and then I and I'm
close to the family and I can't believe this is happening,
and this is devastating. So I go as I, guys,

(38:23):
I know, I know what's going on here. I think
everyone needs to be aware. Let's and maybe within that
relationship that was sanctioned, but they didn't want people to know.
And so now what happens is I alienated myself from
them because I know a secret they don't want people
to know. So now I'm on the out, even though
I thought what they were doing was wrong. You see
what I'm saying. So, like, sometimes getting involved with other
other people's business is like or like what, But in

(38:46):
this case, Mom is saying she I guess Mom does
know and is saying just don't get involved. So in
that case, it's like it wasn't sanctioned. I don't know,
it's very complicated. I don't know what I would do, Jordan,
I keep recalling, have a good day, love you too.
I don't know. I mean, chaggybt's got an opinion. What
does chatgybt say?

Speaker 7 (39:07):
Well, Chad first wants to start off saying, this is
a very heavy and sensitive situation.

Speaker 1 (39:10):
Oh thank you.

Speaker 7 (39:12):
In case you guys didn't know that part, thank you. Basically,
I mean, she's not wrong, she's saying to understand the motivation.
So It's like, why would you want to tell your
brother like we talked about, is it to seek justice
or are you trying to like balance the blame out here?

Speaker 1 (39:23):
And then basically, I mean, do you want to know
her overall advice?

Speaker 4 (39:27):
No?

Speaker 1 (39:27):
I wanted you to get to that point and then
not tell me. Come on, Pete, all right.

Speaker 7 (39:30):
The sister should prioritize open communication, but approach us with
extreme care and empathy. So speaking with a neutral family
therapist or counselor not chaggy wet you, a real one
would also help her figure out the best way to
proceed and minimize harm.

Speaker 1 (39:43):
No, I'm mad at that. That's not an answer. I
mean she wants to know. Do you want suggestions on
how you can approach the conversation?

Speaker 3 (39:52):
Yes?

Speaker 1 (39:52):
I do, I don't, I don't know. You don't like it?

Speaker 4 (39:57):
Not not good?

Speaker 1 (39:58):
How do you live with that secret? Though? Like every
time you're with both of your parents for the rest
of time.

Speaker 3 (40:04):
Ye.

Speaker 1 (40:05):
I think eighteen and twenty one is when I said
the siblings were something like them. And I can remember
a time when my parents got divorced where I thought
it was a million percent to zero in favor of
one party over the other. And I still think it's
like nine hundred thousand percent to maybe, like you know,
one percent. But I also know that on both sides
of relationships, people make mistakes. So I don't know, but

(40:28):
that's not something that you realize to you get a
little bit older when you're young. I feel like, and
your parents get divorce. I don't know if it was
like this for you, Caln like you tend to take
a side, but like, and I'm not saying that one
person is responsible for the other person's behavior, but it's
like there, it takes more than just one Usually it's
more than one person being a total dumbass to lead
to something like that, if that makes sense. Yeah, and

(40:51):
that doesn't seem to be considered here. You know that, like, well,
they're adults, they did their thing, But why is that
going to affect my brother's sister relationship? They just don't
see that, right now, That's a great point, very complicated.
All right, let's come back. Waiting at a phone is
new and next more fread show next. Honestly, this is
what the Catholic church. As a Catholic, I can say

(41:11):
what we need is a rebrand and you would be
the guy to do it.

Speaker 10 (41:15):
Imagine the pink smoke that would come out when I
get lunch. Fread's show is on.

Speaker 1 (41:20):
Someone DM me over the week I said, you know,
the Pope listen to your show because he's from Chicago.
I'm like, no, he didn't, No, he didn't, no, no, no,
would have flipped right past it. But I like to
believe that. We'll go with it. We'll go with the Pope,
the current Pope, the new Pope has listened to this program.

(41:43):
We're his favorite morning show. We do get a lot
of listening out of the Vatican, out of Vatican City,
so it's true. Yeah, morning everyone, Monday May twelve, Hi Kala,
Hi Jason Brown, Hi morning. Can you imagine that? Though?
I guess it's brother the cute the cute guy, and
he's older guy's the younger brother. Though he's a treasure.

(42:06):
He's an absolute treasure. And he's in the Vatican. Now
I flew there. He did. Yeah, he's like sitting in
the background while his brother, the Pope did some ritualistic
stuff over the weekend. Whatever he was into it. I
don't know what he was. Tomb of somebody. Yeah, I'm Mcatholic.
I should know, it's like it's like here's the Pope
and his white and his little disciples, his people, you know,
he the pope has people. And then behind him is

(42:28):
his brother in like a like a checkered plaid shirt
and just sitting there. My god, right, what is going on?
His two brothers are on like a press tour of
their own. Have you seen them? They're both on a tour. Yeah.

Speaker 9 (42:39):
They used to make fun of him. I don't know
if you guys talked about this on Friday. No, they
push him down the stairs, his older brother, that'll get him.
He was dressed as the pope. Our current pope was
little and play pope. Yeah, he played. Yeah the whole
time he was a little kid. All he wanted to
do was the Pope. So I knew, like, whoa, this
kid is special. But they tease him, going, you'll never
be the pope.

Speaker 1 (42:57):
You'll never be the Pope, which was a pretty because
he was American, so you know they were ahead of
their time. They knew something. But no, huh uh, take
that back. His brother's like, am I going to hell now?
Because I told the pope like, you'll never be pope?
And look at him now, that's nuts Vegas flex that's nuts.
I can't imagine because he apparently didn't think he had
any shot and then you know, forty eight hours later,

(43:19):
he's the Pope. I wonder where that hits you, Like,
you went from being a big deal in the Catholic church.
You're just but you're a relatively normal guy from Chicago.
He lived in Peru, whatever else. But but then now
you're I mean, how many days would it take for
me to be like, oh my gosh, gosh, I'm the pope.
I can't imagine waiting by the phone. He's knew and

(43:39):
next wye to somebody get ghosted? Seven point fifty a
tiebreaker in the Showdown. Five pop Culture Questions esthetician Carisa
back for another one, and the Entertainment Report this hour,
What's in there? K? What do you expect from Diddy?
With the trial today?

Speaker 9 (43:53):
Also Morgan Wallen talking about the possible Tate mccraig lab
also SNL also out Okay, good, all.

Speaker 1 (44:02):
That's coming up Fred's show. You've ever been left waiting
by the phone? It's the Fred Show, Dakota, Welcome to
the program. How are you, I'm good? How you guys
doing doing? Okay? What's going on with this woman? Vanessa
on waiting by the phone. You feel like you're being ghosted.
Tell us kind of about how you met, any dates

(44:25):
you've been on, and where things are now.

Speaker 3 (44:27):
Yeah, yeah, I mean exactly right, right, like we feel
like I'm being ghosted. We met on Bumble week shows
numbered pretty quick, first date, really great, right, amazing things
where things are really promising. We were already planning our
second date, and Lynn like out of nowhere, just like
just nothing all right.

Speaker 1 (44:47):
So that's always frustrating. I mean we hear it all
the time, is you have one impression of the date,
and even on the date, you're talking about future plans.
Except then once the date's over and you guys go
your separate ways. Now you can't get a hold of
this person, and you're like, wait a minute. We talked
about another date so and I thought it went well.
So what happened? And you start kind of beating yourself
up and you want at least the closure, right.

Speaker 3 (45:09):
Yeah, And to be fair, we talked about plans for
second date after the first date ended, so it's not
like it's not like that was just that night. Like
the conversation continued like like I thought, I really thought
we were going places.

Speaker 1 (45:23):
Okay, all right, well let's I'm gonna play a song,
come back in a couple of minutes. Were going to
call Vanessa. You'll be on the phone at the same time, Dakota.
And the hope is that we can figure out what's
going on, straighten it all out, set you guys up
on in this case, that second date, and pay for it.
All right, amazing, Thank you every much. Let's see what's
going on? Part two of waiting by the phone. After
this song the Weekend, Cry for me back in two minutes,
Fred's show The Weekend and the Fred Show is on.

(45:45):
Hey Tocody, Yeah, all right, welcome back. Let's call this
woman Vanessa, who you met on Bumble You guys exchange numberies.
You went in a great date, you felt like everything
was going well, things were very promising, you were even
planning a second date, and then now you're being ghosted.
You feel like you can't get a hold of right now.
So we go from a good date and plans for

(46:06):
a second date to nothing, and you want to know why?

Speaker 3 (46:08):
Yeah, exactly, all.

Speaker 1 (46:09):
Right, Let's call Vanessa now, good luck, Dakota, all right,
thanks he Hi is this Vanessa. Hey Vanessa, good morning.
My name is Fred. I'm calling from the Fred's Show,
the morning radio show. The whole crew is here, and

(46:29):
I do have to tell you that we are cool.
Oh okay, so well let me finish here, just to
get this out of the way. We are on the radio,
and I would need your permission to continue with the call.
Can which have for just a second?

Speaker 3 (46:40):
Sure?

Speaker 1 (46:41):
Okay? Perfect? Well this is a very agreeable person. Thank you.
We're calling up. We have a guy named Dakota who
you met on bub and you went out with Dakota recently.
Do you remember him?

Speaker 6 (46:50):
Uh huh?

Speaker 1 (46:51):
Okay, Well, he called us, Vanessa, and he told us
that he thought that your date was really successful and
he was excited to see you again, that you were
talking about a second date and now he can't get
all of you. So what changed?

Speaker 4 (47:03):
Well, he's crazy, first of all, but yeah, he's also right.
We did have a great date, like that was fun
and you know, and we were like talking and texting
and you know, I was pretty excited about him until
he showed up at my house.

Speaker 1 (47:19):
Excuse me?

Speaker 3 (47:20):
Yeah, so.

Speaker 1 (47:23):
Like you didn't you didn't want him there?

Speaker 4 (47:25):
Yeah, like the next weekend, after we had had a
date of something. So I was doing Errand's and then
I hang out with some friends, like.

Speaker 1 (47:33):
They came over and yeah.

Speaker 4 (47:34):
It was just a busy day and I wasn't like
checking in my phone once I was at home and
then I got this random.

Speaker 1 (47:40):
Knock on my door and it was Dakota and he
was just like, oh.

Speaker 4 (47:46):
You're not answering your phone.

Speaker 1 (47:49):
Like, okay, had you given did he pick you up
previously or does he live nearby?

Speaker 4 (47:54):
Or like, oh he got my address from when he
calls me and uber to get me to get your
rifle after a date.

Speaker 1 (48:03):
Okay, so you he was like, let me get you
an uber and then he gave you his phone or
he typed it in or somebody Okay, so he typed
it in and then he so you didn't answer the
phone in a in a or get back to him
in a fast enough fashion. So then he just decides
to look in the uber at for your address and
then show up at your house.

Speaker 4 (48:21):
Yeah, and he also was like, oh, who's over there?
Any guys here? Like could he talk cars out front?
It was.

Speaker 1 (48:30):
Some weirdo stuff. There's some big time weirdo stuff you
can't do that. Now, No, you can't do that. I
forgot to mention the Dakota. Now I gotta get I
gotta get Dakota on the line. I got to be
completely transparent here because that's some weird stuff. Dakota is here. Dakota. Yeah,
women games. Yeah, we don't show the people's houses uninvited.

(48:52):
We don't do we don't.

Speaker 3 (48:56):
Like I wasn't. She wasn't answering anymore after everything had
gone well, so I wanted to be sure she was okay.
Like I was. I was doing like a like a
health check. I wasn't trying to stock.

Speaker 1 (49:04):
Her doing a wellness check. That's so nice of you. Yeah,
she has every right not to respond to you in
whatever period of time she wants to without you showing
up at her house. That's not that's not why she
She didn't put the address in there for you to
show up. She put the address in there for her
to get home totally.

Speaker 3 (49:20):
And I wasn't. I wasn't like planning on showing up
like I figured we'd like get it and actually at
some point anyway, but like when I didn't hear anything
from her, I was really worried that something on her.

Speaker 1 (49:31):
I don't think that's for you to have to worry about.
I mean, like this one date, I'm sure she's okay.
You know, I don't have to get a newspaper or
something turn on the dateline. I don't know. I mean, like,
you don't just show up at people's houses uninvited. I
don't know if you do that really kind of ever, honestly,
And then for you to did you really show up
there and then ask if there were any guys there?
Like that to me is not given the joke. Yeah, No,

(49:53):
it wasn't.

Speaker 3 (49:54):
That was just yeah, I was being like like ha ha, funny.
Like I wasn't like.

Speaker 1 (49:58):
Whatever that's giving I'm checking on your well being. That's
I'm checking up on you, which is not cool.

Speaker 3 (50:06):
I mean no, like that's but that's not what I
was doing. Like I really was just just trying to
make sure she was okay. Like that's that's that's something
that like good people do you check on people with like.

Speaker 1 (50:17):
Here with yeah he's a good guy. Doesn't sound like it, Vanessa,
are you buying any of this that he you know
he had good intentions?

Speaker 4 (50:25):
It was only not defending myself because you guys are
doing it for me.

Speaker 1 (50:29):
So he's clearly crazy and creepy.

Speaker 3 (50:32):
So yeah, crazy, I'm a concerned person, Like I liked
you and I thought we were vibing, and I wanted
to make sure you were. Okay, that's not that's not
crazy person behavior. That's like carrying person behavior.

Speaker 1 (50:44):
Okay, but no normal does that. But yeah, if in
fact that was your intention, it doesn't give that because
she didn't give you her address for the purpose of
you coming over. It's a very important distinction, you know.
It wasn't like, hey, you can stop buying any time
you want. It wasn't like there was a mass murderer
in the neighborhood, you know what I mean. Like, and

(51:04):
you you may be you may be the mass murderer.
I don't know. But like, you can't just show up
at people's houses. I don't even know. I mean, there
are people I've dated whose addresses I have, whose whose
homes I've been to. I still don't go over there
and just knock on the door. Like it's just not
it's just not cool.

Speaker 2 (51:19):
I don't know.

Speaker 3 (51:20):
I mean, my my whole family like is like we've
always grown up just kind of dropping by each other's houses,
like your.

Speaker 1 (51:27):
Family that's not and even my family sometimes I think
would probably not answer the door. Finally, so I don't,
I don't. You can't just show up at people's houses uninvited.
That you can't do that, and especially this is creepy,
Like she did not give you her address with the
purpose of you having it to come over there.

Speaker 3 (51:44):
She gave me that.

Speaker 1 (51:45):
Well, do you right?

Speaker 3 (51:47):
Right? Right?

Speaker 1 (51:47):
Yeah, of course I do.

Speaker 2 (51:49):
Like I didn't.

Speaker 3 (51:49):
That's why I didn't go there. Like the next day.
It wasn't just like, hey, let's have a second date. No,
like when I hadn't hurt for her for a while,
Like that's when I was like concerned that something was wrong.

Speaker 1 (51:59):
I don't know.

Speaker 3 (52:00):
You guys are totally miserating this, totally miser all of us.

Speaker 1 (52:03):
Are, everybody, including Vanessa. Vanessa looks, so hey, Vanessa, we
got this all wrong. I'll just ask the question, then,
would you like to go out with him again? He
had good intentions? He says, no, not interested. Okay, not
gonna happen. So look, Dakota, my thing to you is,
even if you do have good intentions, never do that again. Please. Okay.

Speaker 3 (52:22):
I mean, I think you guys are wrong, but sure, Okay.

Speaker 1 (52:25):
Okay, he's going to do it again, so that's right,
all right, Well, Vanessa, thank you for answering for your time, Anned, Dakota,
good for trying, yeah, and good luck to you Dakota.

Speaker 3 (52:33):
Thanks guys.

Speaker 1 (52:34):
The Entertainer Report is next seven hundred and fifty bucks
in the showed out a tide Breaker versus Carissa. That's
next Spread Show one's entertainer Report. He is on the
Fread Show.

Speaker 9 (52:45):
It is the second week of Diddy's sex trafficking trial
and there are some big milestones on the schedule today.
Jury selection is up first this morning, as there are
forty three jurors still to go through and the goal
is to pick eighteen twelve jurors and six alternates. Once
the jury is set, the trial will move on to
opening statements. Ditty's defense will focus on the fact that

(53:06):
he's simply a swinger, not a criminal. They also plan
to say that the physical violence shown in that surveillance
video with sex Cassie went both ways. There are three
witnesses at least said to be called by the prosecution
this week, one of which is Cassie, although we have
been hearing that one of them not Cassie. Another one
going by victim number three, is currently unreachable and may

(53:28):
not testify.

Speaker 1 (53:29):
I don't know if they're ghosting or what's going on
with that. That witness was.

Speaker 9 (53:33):
Expected to provide pivotal testimony about the alleged decades long
abuse by Ditty. He of course, has pled not guilty
to all charges, gave up all of his chances for
plea deals, and he faces a possibility of life in
prison if convicted, which is crazy to say. The trial
is expected to last like eight weeks and will not
be televised like some people were hoping. I mean, this

(53:54):
is a lot heavier and more delicate than like the
Johnny Depp amber Heard trial, for example. And there's people
who are trying to not go public with their identity
and I understand that so it will not be televised
like some people were saying.

Speaker 1 (54:07):
I'm skeptical of that. Is is it a person that
doesn't want to have their identity revealed, or is it
somebody who got paid to go away. It's interesting, right,
because this does happen sometimes where people are like, you know,
they go after lasses, and they go after someone they well,
they go after someone because they were a victim potentially
right allegedly, and then all of a sudden, right before
it's time, they just never mind. Yeah, why never mind?

Speaker 4 (54:31):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (54:31):
I mean I realized it's a very hard thing to
do to come forward and brave, so they could be that,
but at the same time it could also be oh,
made it worth my while to go away. Yeah, and
they were very afraid of that. This is one of
the reasons why they didn't let him out on house arrests.

Speaker 9 (54:45):
They didn't want to give him access to, you know,
a lot of technology. And I understand why. It's very
interesting that you would muster up all that courage to
come forward and I'm sure it took a lot and
then become unreachable. And I also understand having cold feet,
but it does make me worried. So it'll be very interesting.
I mean, this is a music mogul, and it's just
it's a crazy time. Morgan Wallinn has finally spoken out

(55:06):
about that abrupt departure from SNL.

Speaker 1 (55:09):
Back in March.

Speaker 9 (55:09):
He was on Caleb Presley's Sunday Conversation where he downplayed
the whole thing, saying it was a simple misunderstanding. He
explained that he followed the exact same exit route that
he used during rehearsals thinking the show had ended. That moment,
of course, gained even more attention after he exited the
show than posted on his Instagram storywriting get Me to
God's Country with a picture of his private plane, and

(55:30):
then of course everyone posted their own get Me to
God's Country by the way. Elsewhere in the interview, he
was asked about his rumored collaboration with Tate McCrae on
the song What I Want. He simply responded, I don't
even know if that Tate McCrae is her real name,
So he's playing with us, she's playing with us. We
will find out for sure the answer on Friday, though,
when he drops his thirty seven song album.

Speaker 1 (55:52):
Thirty seven song album, which is crazy.

Speaker 9 (55:55):
And lastly, in other country it was Christapleton's Traveler whiskey
is now the official whis of the MLB Major League Baseball.

Speaker 1 (56:02):
So I have not tried it yet, but congrats to
Chris on that one.

Speaker 9 (56:05):
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and make.

Speaker 1 (56:27):
Us appre say Chris odd Sidebreaker is up next. Seven
point fifty is the prize and it's at least an
extra one hundred bucks since she appeared on the show
like seven weeks ago. Yeah, man, she's really good. She
keeps tying you gonna take her out today. I'm scared.
Talks with Smith going oh no, no, girl, I'm scared.

(56:48):
Have mercy on me, have mercy on my soul? Please?
What come on?

Speaker 2 (56:54):
What do you mean?

Speaker 1 (56:55):
Miss confidence? Over here? Gro not not today? When it
comes to this game, twenty nine and four is your record?
Just a couple of weeks left till Kelly comes back.
And remember all the money goes to you unless you
lose next red shoke? Do you have what it takes
to battle.

Speaker 7 (57:13):
With the cake?

Speaker 1 (57:15):
I know that's right. And to start the week, we
let the beat drop right here. Oh yeah, come hey, Carissa,
good morning, Welcome back the seventh member of the show

(57:36):
or eighth or everybody. How was your weekend, Carrissa? Were
you just on the edge of your seat? Were you
nervous all weekend? Like I'm gonna have to play this game?

Speaker 4 (57:46):
Oh?

Speaker 1 (57:46):
Yeah, you know, I did some trivia at.

Speaker 8 (57:49):
Home, mentally prepared, did a little massage.

Speaker 1 (57:53):
Who relax, relax my mind? Yeah, got the phone roller out? Yeah,
I know, I know. You right to stretching. Boyk you
head it out here a minute ago. You should see
her on the film roller. It's crazy, he wonders, contort herself.
So seven fifty is the prize? Another tiebreaker you've been
on several times now, twenty nine and four is Kiki's record.

(58:13):
Let's see if we have another tie today. Someone finally
gonna win. And only a couple of weeks left till
Shelley comes back from eternity leave and that means that
you're off the hook, and if there's any money left,
it's yours all right, Now, here we go, Kiki. Okay,
with all due respect, you gotta go to the sound
boof boof, she goes she can't here. Okay, here we go,

(58:34):
Chris A question number one. Asap Rocky got a massive
ring in the shape of his girlfriend and the mother
of his children, name her, which pop star has been
officially subpoenat in the Blake Lively Justin Baldoni legal battle
Taylor Swiss. The ACM Awards aired last week and celebrated
the best in this genre of music. Three God two one,

(59:03):
I don't know Tony Hawk is fifty seven today, which
sport brought Tony to fame and led him to being
featured in various video games skateboarding and the Duke and
Duchess of Sussex enjoyed a date night at the Beyonce
concert over the weekend.

Speaker 8 (59:18):
Name both of them, Meghan Marko and Princherry.

Speaker 1 (59:23):
That is a four. All right, here comes Kiki four.
Yeah yeah, Oh my Land's right. I'm sensing another tie.
This may go on forever. I'm not sure. Oh boy,
are you ready?

Speaker 9 (59:37):
No?

Speaker 1 (59:37):
Asap, Rocky got a massive ring in the shape of
his girlfriend and the mother of his children. Name her Rihanna,
which pop star has been officially subpoenaed in the Blake
Lively Justin Baldoni legal battle. Taylor Swift. The ACM Awards
aired last week and celebrated the best in this genre
of music. Country. Yeah. The Academy of Country Music Awards

(59:58):
Tony Hawk is fifty seven today, which sport brought Tony
to fame and led him to being featured in various
video games three two Gayboarding.

Speaker 4 (01:00:13):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:00:16):
He made a lot of money off that video game too,
by the way. All right, And finally the Duke and
Duchess of Sussex into it to date night at the
Beyonce concert over the weekend. Name both of them, Prince
Harry and Meghan Markle. That's a five and that is
a Now, that is a woman. Carissa, Carissa, you did

(01:00:38):
a great job. Okay, you are a valid competitor.

Speaker 11 (01:00:42):
Girl.

Speaker 1 (01:00:43):
You are that girl.

Speaker 3 (01:00:44):
She is.

Speaker 1 (01:00:46):
Kiki is more than girl. But you're gonna have to say, Carissa,
my name is Chrissa. I get showed up on the showdown.
You know the rest.

Speaker 8 (01:00:52):
My name is Carissa.

Speaker 1 (01:00:53):
I got showed up on the showdown. And I cannot
hang with the Kiki. Yeah, Carissa, you the esthetician in
the fancy place, can't hang with a keik.

Speaker 6 (01:01:04):
Ca caoo, can't cao, can't shut out suit.

Speaker 1 (01:01:11):
Clarissa, you did, girl, Just edit it out.

Speaker 3 (01:01:16):
I did.

Speaker 1 (01:01:17):
I was not It's not close. Riss eight times it's Carissa,
not Clariz. She ain't explaining at all. Okay, it's Calarissa.
We're gonna get you a prize because you're the best. Carrissa, Clarissa,
thank you so much for listening. Have a great day
in a great week.

Speaker 8 (01:01:35):
Yes, you guys, have a good one.

Speaker 1 (01:01:38):
I stay there.

Speaker 6 (01:01:38):
Oh. Man, when I get this money, I'm gonna go
see her at her fancy Hu.

Speaker 1 (01:01:43):
You're gonna need all the money, yeah, I think in
order to do that. So eight hundred bucks is the price.
We're number thirty, thirty and four. Man, is your record
in the game really really good?

Speaker 11 (01:01:54):
Thank you?

Speaker 1 (01:01:55):
So we'll do it again tomorrow. New player five questions
for eight hundred bucks. Kiki's where it is up next?
Buttomp Bump girl. It's a thin line between love and hate, Bunny.
I just wasn't expecting that. I don't know why, letter,
I don't know. It's just very like deep and I
still have no idea what we're gonna find out. I

(01:02:17):
gotta hang out. That doesn't have anything to do with
the case, or is it just the teath we'll have
to I guess. So I will do headlines the biggest
stories of the day the Entertainment Report and fun Factor
all the next, or does they have anything to do
with the case at all? Something? Or if we just
we just resorted to doing teases that have just because
they sound good. Hey, baby, stay tuned. I guess I

(01:02:39):
will okay more press show next. Wait, wait, and Kiki,
you have a demographic of fans that I never knew about.
Really it is fit fifty plus year old white man.

(01:03:01):
What did I wait? Come give me.

Speaker 4 (01:03:04):
Here?

Speaker 2 (01:03:04):
Every day Fred's show is on Good Morning Everyone, Monday
May twelfth, It's the frend show. Hi Kailin, Good morning,
Hi Jason Brown, Hi Paulina, Hi Kiki, Good morning Bella.

Speaker 1 (01:03:15):
I mean it's back tomorrow. Each five five, five, nine,
one one o three five. You can call him text
the same number anytime. Kiky's Corny's next, buttom Bump girl.
It's a thin line between love and hate headlines and
the biggest stories of the day. Selfie's in cancer woh,
I know it's serious? Fun fact is coming up? What's
in the entertainer of for this hour?

Speaker 9 (01:03:35):
Kay, I will tell you who used Mother's Day to
send an interesting message to their X.

Speaker 1 (01:03:41):
On the edge of my seat Lately, each day I
get on TikTok to watch the Karen Reid trial. Okay,
I don't I don't think she did it. If she
did it, it wasn't on purpose. And if either way,
the prosecution for the second time are the biggest bunch

(01:04:02):
of morons that I I mean, the ineptitude is unbelievable
times too, with a whole different set of people and
the and the I'm sorry, but you know, I'm a
big police backer and first responder guy, but these guys
are idiots. These guys are they got shoes they don't
know about in the wrong bags they got they got
They're flirting with her, They're saying names, whether they got

(01:04:24):
people getting you know, they're they're they're calling your names,
they got people getting fired. They the experts don't know
what's going on.

Speaker 9 (01:04:31):
When I tell you that Karen's lawyer, Alan Jackson not
to be confused with the Country singer.

Speaker 1 (01:04:36):
I thought it was, except I think Alan Jackson passed
away to me he did, Yes, rip is everything to me.
Like I don't know how you can be a fan
of a lawyer, but like I'm his biggest fan. Phenomenal.

Speaker 9 (01:04:47):
I want merch like that tiny man, where does he
have time to get those guns.

Speaker 1 (01:04:51):
Like he's hitting the gym too. He has time to
do it all.

Speaker 9 (01:04:54):
He is eating those I know they're not called monologues,
but he's eating those monologues.

Speaker 1 (01:04:58):
Up in court. The cross examination performance.

Speaker 9 (01:05:02):
You have to have a close in the last trial
an hour, you have to talk in your closing statement.

Speaker 1 (01:05:07):
He eats it up well, and he's just he's crushing
these people in cross examination. He did defend Harvey Weinstein too,
which I don't love he did. He's a defense attorney. Okay,
he is a defense attorney, so you don't get to,
you know, necessarily pick your clients. Okay. No, I'm not
that those two things were. I think you can think
he's very good and and but I mean again, I

(01:05:29):
just met him, you guys, I just thought he was
There's somebody pointed that out to Milos. No, but I'm
just putting that out there so that people know I
am aware. But again, I mean, damn. You know, you
can say what you want about all those defense attorneys,
Johnny Cochran and those guys who defended Oja. You can
say what you want about him, but I mean that
was their job to get him off. Remember that and
they were successful. So I you know, uh, say what

(01:05:52):
you want about a defense attorney that I don't know
that you necessarily, I'm sure you can say no to cases.
But I don't really know why he was involved with
that one. But nonetheless, he's very good at his job
because I do. I do believe she's innocent, So that's
why I love him so much. But I was not
aware of that. You gotta you gotta talk to God
about that one, Alan, Yeah, again, I don't I don't know, imember.

(01:06:13):
Everyone's entitled to a except for maybe him. Everyone's entitled
to a defensive Yeah, it's possible that she hit him
and didn't know it. It's possible, but I don't see
how a jury could could even begin to trust any
of the information that's being presented.

Speaker 9 (01:06:28):
When I'm sober, I couldn't hit a person with my
back right tail light at the force that it would
cause to kill them, like the aim she would have
to have.

Speaker 1 (01:06:37):
And I was drunk. Alan Jackson's told why do I
think he was doing? Oh you thought, Toby Keith? Toby Keith,
Maybe he's doing good toy right now. Well, that's why
I asked the question, actually, because I wasn't sure, but
I thought maybe all right, Well, a couple of a
couple of the interesting facts we've learned in this segment
then that we didn't know about before. But okay, well,

(01:06:58):
sorry about that, Alan Fan and uh now he was
at the are well, not surprisingly, I didn't watch it. Alan, here,
I'm glad you're alive. Why Why am I thinking? Why?
Who was I thinking? I think, yeah, Toby Keith did
pass I like Cowey when he was at the a
c MS. Okay, well I didn't watch that, so not surprisingly,

(01:07:20):
but here, let me just make it. Let me make
you a little bit of money. I thought, I'm like,
I think you said, you're like you? How many times
Dan looks just his for a second? How many seconds
to I have to play for him to make some
money to make up for that, because I'm glad that
he's alive to sing this song to that you have

(01:07:41):
to play? He sounds very alive here. By the way,
your real is Jason. He knew that he was alive
and didn't say anything. It would have Well, we don't, Jason.

(01:08:01):
We don't need to roll with things that we were
wrong about. You're more than welcome to let us know
when some mu's alive that we thought was dead. The
prosecutor is doing an excellent job. Are you serious? Are
you serious? Are we watching the same thing? Sorry? Alan,

(01:08:22):
are we watching the same thing? It is a disaster.
It is an absolute disaster. And I don't know if
it's the prosecutor's fault as much as he is the
dummies that he's that that that he has to work with.
So it's a new prosecutor because I just finished the
docu series. This is a disaster, and I'm sorry, but
the defense attorney is Alan Jackson, who's related to not

(01:08:45):
related to the singer. Both very much alive. The Yeah,
as I was saying, it's never been more alive, Jason
stops saying he's dead. Unbelievable. Please don't let us sit
here and sound like idiots without correcting us. It's why
there are thirty seven people in the room. Surely someone
has time to google it. I want to apologize publicly

(01:09:06):
to all the Jacksons, including the ones that were killed
off that were very much alive. Goodness, they're alive. I
love that. And what are you watching? No, it's it's
it's a mess. And the judge is so bod Barb
is so biased. Barb is judge too, No, same judge, judge.
I believe her name is Barb and we can can

(01:09:26):
we double check that too, since I don't think we're
really we're not, We're not really back in a thousand
in the facts this morning when we normally don't, but
we try. No, it's it's this isn't No. I I
do not see how she gets I mean, I can
see her getting charged with the it was the lesser
charge of manslaughter or something and as as opposed to
first thy murder. But I don't even think they can

(01:09:48):
charge you with the reasonable doubt? Is is beyond? Is beyond? Yeah,
I don't know. I've never been so into something as
I am in this trial. It's crazy. And the second
thing that I've been following each day all day, and
people have been dming me asking us to talk about
this is is a dude named Phoenix. Now Phoenix is

(01:10:11):
sailing from Oregon to Hawaii. You know boat that he
bought after he quit his job at discount tire and
catched out his four oh one k at a very
young age and decided, you know what, forget about it.
I'm done I'm done with this, like I've had enough
and I'm just going to I'm going to just go
on this adventure with my cat. He brought his cat

(01:10:32):
on the boat. I believe we're on day like eleven
or something.

Speaker 11 (01:10:35):
He says, day eleven. Yeah, sailing from Oregon to Hawaii
with my cat. Yep, this is a thank you video
to Crack and Sales. I'm not sponsored. They didn't ask
me to do this. There's there's been no I'm just
I'm just saying thank you, is what it is. And
before I had any big following or anything like that,

(01:11:00):
these guys at Crack and Sales that gave me this
main sale and a storm jin he kind of heard
my story and he knew about my neck.

Speaker 1 (01:11:10):
So he's just going on and on about this sale.
But nonetheless, this is he's I guess he has like
Starling Internet or something, so he's able to update his
journey as he goes, which I believe he has another
ten days or two weeks left. But yeah, the dude
is he and his cat. He just did forget about it.

Speaker 4 (01:11:27):
I get it.

Speaker 1 (01:11:27):
The judge's name is Beverly, not Barb. It's Bev, not
barbing Okay, good, thank you a couple of men. I
don't care. She's terrible. I don't care that what. I
don't care about it. She's alive, by the way.

Speaker 5 (01:11:37):
She is alive.

Speaker 1 (01:11:37):
She's alive. She hangs out with Alan Jackson, the musician,
all of them. Yeah, yeah, And I don't think Alan Jackson,
the project or the defense attorney will be hanging out
with with Bev when this is all over. I knew
it was one of those bees. Yeah, Bev Barb. It's
interesting that you would have the same judge.

Speaker 9 (01:11:52):
I'm just very fascinated by the whole thing and the
fact that it was a mistrial and they couldn't come
to an agreement.

Speaker 1 (01:11:58):
Oh yeah, yeah. And I realized that the burden is
less on manslaughter. I do not again a bunch of
things that if you come to us for facts, please
don't then you should listen to someone else. But because
we try and get it right, but we usually don't,
I believe the burden is less for manslaughter than it

(01:12:18):
is for first screen murder. But I don't see how
you can. I don't see how you can. The ineptitude
is unbelievable. Yeah, I don't know how you can you
could convict her of anything at.

Speaker 9 (01:12:28):
This point, yeah, because one of them is like, you
were acting carelessly and someone died, but it wasn't intentional.

Speaker 1 (01:12:33):
And one of them is that was my intention to
kill you. Honestly, I don't think it was either. I
don't think it. But anyway, you should follow this guy
because the very inspiring story Phoenix sailing with Phoenix, and
he's got a gazillion followers and people are doing this thing.
What would you do, though, if you just one day
you woke up and you said enough, enough is enough.
I'm catching in my non existent four oh one k yep,

(01:12:54):
and I'm what would you do? Like, what would be
if you could just if it didn't matter to you
in that moment and you just wanted to free yourself
of all of this? What would you do, Kiki? Go
to Cabo, live in on a resort and start a
pat Well, we need some money for that? Well you
said I catched him and I didn't care whoa. I
just went out there. Well okay, okay, Now how long

(01:13:18):
would you live? And said resort? Oh, I want to
live there forever. That's a very expensive thing to do. Yes,
I would like to live there forever. Okay, Kaitlin, it's like, hey,
you know what, forget about it. We're done with this.
I would miss you guys too much. No, but really no,
I literally would I. Oh maybe a cabin, but I
think I would go crazy after a little while. Can

(01:13:40):
I be a snowbird? Would you go by yourself?

Speaker 3 (01:13:42):
No?

Speaker 1 (01:13:43):
I love people. Okay, yeah, all right, Jason.

Speaker 10 (01:13:47):
I would go live on a farm, but have someone
else do the farm work, and I would just live
on it in the middle of nowhere. Just okay, Mike
and our animals. So would you do any of the
work or no? No, oh, you wouldn't do it anymore.
I'd just like go live on TikTok and get money
that way.

Speaker 1 (01:14:00):
Well that's and I don't think this guy necessarily intended
to become as famous as he has. But I'm sure
he's going to make write a book and make a
ton of money. So it worked out for him. Oh yeah,
but he was done. He was done with his nine
to five, he was done with his retail jobs. I
forget about him. Minus boat, I'm doing the thing. What
would you do, Paulina?

Speaker 7 (01:14:16):
Honestly, I just pack up and go to Palm Springs.
I'm gonna do that anyway when I'm like sixty five.
But I'll get ahead start.

Speaker 1 (01:14:21):
Would you take your daughter and your husband with you? Absolutely?
My husband will be at the casino. My daughter. Well
that's a bad plan already. Yeah, budget, but let's go
to the casino.

Speaker 7 (01:14:31):
Well, that's the only way I'm going to get him
out there, and then I will be living in the desert.
You're from the desert, you know what it's like. It's
a good time.

Speaker 1 (01:14:38):
Yeah, I am from the desert. You're right, Yeah, it ezy.
I guess if money didn't matter, then i'd fly or
fred I would just start flying and just go and
go and go and go and go and go as
far as I could possibly go, and thenute someone. I
would just everywhere. Right, Well, yeah, I'd head towards Europe
and then I would would take me forever. Wait, you can't. Yeah,
in theory, I could do it. Yeah, and then I

(01:15:00):
just I would. I don't know I would, because once
you're over there, then it's kind of unlimited the stuff
you could see and then find my way back somehow.
That's what I would do. I still love it. Crazy
you thought you would love COVID and then you were outside.
Look like in terms of like, well much more than
this is the same person who killed Alan Jackson. So

(01:15:20):
I patient zero. You started COVID. If you had asked me,
if you had asked me before COVID a pandemic, there's
a world where you could work from your house and
it would be okay with it, and you didn't have
to leave unless you wanted to, and you didn't have
to shower or shave or do anything, and you could still,

(01:15:42):
you know, make the same amount of money and have
you know, the ratings would be fine or whatever else.
I would have told you that is an amazing thing
and I want that, And it happened. It happened, and
then for about three days it was and then the
fourth day I was like, nope, forget about it. We'll
getting COVID. Come to work. And we all decided that collectively,
and then we all got COVID. But some of us
who took longer than others, and some of us got

(01:16:02):
it multiple times before the other people did. But no, I,
in fact did not. I need a little bit of
human interaction, I've decided, And to do this show from
separate locations is impossible. Yeah, I have to look at
all of your shining faces each day. So I said,
listening to the show this morning, I feel like I'm high,
just today, just today, first text ever from that person.

(01:16:24):
We're we're going to being high. So that those are
the two things that I'm following very closely. I'm following
well well. First of all, the health of Alan Jackson
is the first, and I hope he's in great health.
And the second is the Karen Reid trial. And the
third is this dude's sailing his boat with a cat,
with a cat, and a lot of people are worried
about the cat. I'm a little worried about the cat

(01:16:45):
because I don't I have not seen any of the
videos him attached to any kind of leash or rope
or anything. So my concern would be that kitty cat
would just get a little comfy on this boat after
a couple of weeks and get up on the deck
and it gets very wavy, you know, very rough seas.
I'm sure sure he's aware of that, but I'm worried
about the cat. And another thing is a cat didn't
get a vote in this, like does the cat really

(01:17:06):
want to do this right? And that reminds me of
you want to hear a high thought. Here's a high thought,
and then we'll move on to Takiki's court. Here's a
high and I've had I've shared this with you before.
But the other day we were in Canada. Okay, we
went there for a conference that was last week, and
we got a little plane. Because we flew a little plane,
little airline, and the boss is on there. You were

(01:17:27):
on their kiki and that was all that could go
on the plane actually, because you could barely think get
off the ground. I love what I was asking if
I could sit up front of the airplane because it
had a little more leg room. The lady goes, I
don't know, we're pretty nose heavy today. Like when the
lady from the airline is saying, I don't know if
that would work because like so you're saying if I
sit in the front, and I'm a pilot, so I'm

(01:17:48):
familiar with weight and balance, but it's like, so you're
telling me that my placement in the front could potentially
mean we don't get to fly, Like I don't maybe
I'll sit in the back. Then I'd be okay with him.
But there were there, they were like, I don't know
what they were nats or what they were, but there's
like some little bugs flying around in the plane, And
I thought, do these bugs realize they may not live

(01:18:10):
in Canada anymore? Like they flew onto this plane and
then we're about to go land in the United States,
and then when they open the door, what if they
fly out? Do they was just on purpose? Did they
realize were they making an escape because they may go
on the wrong way. You know, I don't know how
many Canadians wanted to accidentally wake up and live here
or vice versa. So like this, I swear I'm not high,

(01:18:33):
But do you ever think about that? Like a bug,
like a little fly, flies onto the United plane and
before long they're in you know, Europe somewhere, and now
they live there. What if they don't speak the language?

Speaker 6 (01:18:44):
That must be a fun part about being a bug,
Like that's the adventure. You wake up and you never
know where you're gonna end up.

Speaker 1 (01:18:51):
I just I wondered about these bugs. I'm like, I
hope they stay on the plane. Maybe they're smartness they
know to stand on a plane. Anyway. I swam that high,
but that was my I really did. I sat the I.
I was really tired, but I stared at these guys
and I'm like, should I should I show them out
so they can go home? Right before we take off.
They have a passport that's real. Man.

Speaker 3 (01:19:09):
No, I was.

Speaker 1 (01:19:10):
I was worried about it. I was extremely worried about
it and the tariffs and everything. It's a crazy time.
Kiki's Court two minutes A fresh show It's Geeky's Court
goes new segment alert. I swear I'm not high, but no,
it's been a segment. Thank you. No, it's been one
for some time, but welcome if you're new to the thing.

(01:19:30):
A lot of people are worried about the bugs. Several
of my personal friends have texted me and said, no,
that's it's valid, like the culture shock for these bugs.
You know you land and you're like, where am I?
And then also, I don't know how many things we
screwed up in that last segment factually, but the cat's
name is Oliver, or the due's name is Oliver, the

(01:19:51):
cat's name is Phoenix. It doesn't matter. You knew what
I was talking about. Thank you for correcting me, And
I'm fine with that. But everyone knew I was talking
about doing it the boat. Okay, quit his job exactly.
I think about this fantasy all the time. I do,
I really do. I think about like, because it's radio,
and they'll one day they'll build make me get up

(01:20:11):
at four in the morning, come in here, do a show,
and then when I walk out, they'll be standing there
and they'll say, you know, it's been nice. You can
get the hell out of here. It's radio. It will happen. Yeah, Unfortunately,
it's the way it is. And you guys can you know,
protest if you want or whatever. But it's just this,
this is a business that we work in, and I've
thought about the fantasy of like, oh my god, I
would I would immediately just go right to the airport

(01:20:33):
and get a ticket and I would just go and
I would you'd never see me again. And that would
work for about the first probably three hours, and then
I'd be on that plane. I'd be like, yes, wait up,
and then I'd go, oh my god, I don't have
a job. And then the rest of the trip would
be ruined because I'd be freaking out the whole time.
I don't think I have it in me just to go,
you know what, Let Alan Jackson take the wheel. Either
one of them, the defense attorney or the very alive

(01:20:54):
country set All right, Kiki's court judge, Kiki, Hey, what
say you? Who is hot in his robe? Let's get
into the courtroom.

Speaker 6 (01:21:03):
This one says Heiki Key, Am I wrong for feeling
a new level of hate for my daughter in law.
I'm a sixty year old mom of three adult children,
and for over twenty years I've hosted a Mother's Day
lunch at my house.

Speaker 1 (01:21:16):
It's a tradition.

Speaker 6 (01:21:17):
My kids bring flowers, we eat, we laugh, and I
get to spend time with the people that I raised.
It means everything to me. This year, my oldest son
Ben called and said he would not be coming. He
said he was spending the day with his wife, Rachel
and their kids. Apparently she asked for a quiet day
at home, breakfast in bed, no visitors, and no driving.

Speaker 1 (01:21:39):
I was stunned.

Speaker 6 (01:21:40):
I couldn't believe she convinced my son to skip the
lunch entirely, not even stopping by, not even for an hour.
I said, Rachel is not your mother, and this day
is not about her. She gets a birthday, she gets anniversaries.
Can I have my one day? I told him I
felt like he was choosing her over his own mother.
He said, Rachel's been stressed with the kids and that

(01:22:00):
this is the only thing that she wanted. I get that,
but why does her day dictate what happens with me
and my son? He offered to call me and maybe
come by later in the week, and I told him
that was not the same. So I text his wife
and said, listen, I know you lost your mom five
years ago, so maybe you don't understand how Yeah, so

(01:22:22):
maybe you don't understand how much these traditions matter, but
they matter.

Speaker 1 (01:22:26):
Well that's a very messed up way of saying that.
But okay, now, yeah, your mom's dead. I don't get it,
like well, I had a mom and I do get it.

Speaker 6 (01:22:33):
So yeah, yeah, Now he's not speaking to me, and
I'm questioning everything. Maybe I was being a bit too
old fashioned, maybe I'm holding on too tightly, but it
really hurts me that he forgot about his own mother
on Mother's Day?

Speaker 1 (01:22:46):
Am I wrong? All right? Judge King, I have some thoughts,
but it's you. It's your thing. What say you? You're
the judge honor.

Speaker 6 (01:22:54):
Yeah, she was definitely wrong, so wrong for sending that
text message, like you, any fibility that you had before
the text is out the window because the wife did
not call you and say, you know, he can't come
see you. She didn't even tell your son he couldn't
come see you. She just said she would like a
quiet day at home. Now he decided not to attend

(01:23:15):
the mother's day lunch or whatever, so you could have
taken that up with him, But to text her that
was so out of a line. Ooh, I think that
was out of line. And I think you crossed the
line by doing that. And I was with you before
that text. Honestly, I was like, hey, you know you
are his mom, and it is okay to want to
see your kids.

Speaker 2 (01:23:32):
And no, no, it is.

Speaker 1 (01:23:33):
It's okay to want to see your want to see
your kids.

Speaker 6 (01:23:35):
You're right to feel like, oh man, you can come by,
or you know, at least bring the grandkids.

Speaker 1 (01:23:40):
But after you sent that text, girl, I have no sympathy.
I think if you live in the same town as
your mom and you're married and your wife in this
example is a mom, I think you can celebrate both, right,
That's what I'm saying. I think breakfast could be about
your wife and kids. And she's a mom and you're
you know you have obviously you have to celebrate her.
He's the mother of your children. But I don't know

(01:24:02):
why that would prevent you then from later in the
day stop it might have seen your ma. I wish
I were in the same city as my mom yesterday,
so I could have driven over there and said hi.
And if I were married with kids, I would have
figured out a way because I want I know it's
not their mom, but I would probably want my kids
to honor their grandmother too, So there's a way to
do both. I don't think it has to be one
or the other. Now, the text message was out of bound,

(01:24:24):
That's what I'm saying, Like, once she sent that text, girl,
you are wrong. You're wrong.

Speaker 6 (01:24:29):
But Paulina, I hear you over at your wife. I'm
a wife and a mother, so let me hear what
all right?

Speaker 7 (01:24:36):
So I think it's time for mom to put her
boob away and it's time to stop breastfeeding her grown son.
That's my theory, and I know from how to come
from me, and that's okay. I only say that because
at the end of the day, you guys know how
I feel like this man is now married and he's
got a family of his own. Okay, so he can't
so he could.

Speaker 1 (01:24:53):
Be his mother.

Speaker 7 (01:24:54):
But if your wife says, hey, I just want to
do breakfast in bed and chill and do our own thing,
I think it's okay to start your own traditions.

Speaker 1 (01:25:01):
And I stand by that I do.

Speaker 7 (01:25:02):
Now, if you want to go and see your mother
later in the evening or whatever, that's your own thing.
But we don't have to do like a hoho ha
parade where like now we're going to go to a
brunch and dinner and like.

Speaker 1 (01:25:10):
Why is mom?

Speaker 4 (01:25:14):
I mean.

Speaker 1 (01:25:19):
My mom's who? I mean, why is my mom's who?

Speaker 6 (01:25:22):
Ha?

Speaker 1 (01:25:22):
And buba like put them away mom. I'm always having
to say that.

Speaker 7 (01:25:24):
Well, she's acting like it might be because like, oh, yeah,
I think you can do both, yeah saying but if
your wife says, hey, I don't want to like do
all these things of going out and brunching and lunching
and dinner, that's okay because it is it is her
day too. She's a mother, right, that's the mother of
your children. I think that's okay to have your own traditions.
If she doesn't want to, and I don't think grandma
can get mad at that. I did a brunch at

(01:25:46):
my house yesterday and I invited my mother and my
mother in law. But that's the kind of wife mother
I am where I want to celebrate with them in
my home.

Speaker 1 (01:25:53):
That's what I wanted to do it. I didn't want
to go out. I didn't want to do anything.

Speaker 7 (01:25:55):
After at two o'clock, after a lot of champagne, everybody
was out the door.

Speaker 1 (01:25:59):
And that's what he did. And that was okay, But
that was because that's what I wanted. My husband respected that.
I think you got a way to incorporate. I think
you got to find a way to incorporate both, because
I mean, it's hard to get into the game of
who's more important. Yes, that's your wife, but that's a
different name, that the relationship is different. You don't get
to ignore I wouldn't get to ignore my wife, who's

(01:26:21):
the mother of my children on Mother's Day by any means.
But I also don't get to ignore my mom either. Now, again,
the text message was out of bounce, but she was mad,
and I'm not justifying she needs to apologize for that,
but she was mad because she felt like she was
being prevented access to her son. So maybe it's not
a breakfast or a lunch the way that she's used to.
But I mean again, if we're in the same city,

(01:26:42):
I can drive across town and I can give my
mom flowers or a Mother's Day card. I don't need
to I don't need to be attached to you simply
because you're my wife. That's not fair either, And I do.

Speaker 7 (01:26:52):
Agree with that because I think, you know, like you said,
you don't have that where you can just you know,
go to your mom's house and drive across the expressway
or whatever. My mom's five minutes away. So I do
come from a place of privilege, right. You know, my
mom is very close to me physically and emotionally, and
I understand that. But I do think, like, if your
wife is asking for something a little more chill, a
little more like, hey, let's do our own things.

Speaker 1 (01:27:12):
There are new traditions. I don't think it's it's bad
to respect that. Am I wrong? If that's what your
wife wants to do, it's tough.

Speaker 9 (01:27:21):
I think, yeah, that would be. I would feel crazy,
like asking that of my son. Now he is a
grown man, you pointed this out, and can make his
own decisions. So if Europists take it out on him,
I just as like the spouse would never ask you
to not see your mom on Mother's Day. I have
a lot of respect for that situation. But I think
you could do breakfast in bed, and then if she's
cool with being alone and she doesn't want to go

(01:27:42):
for a little while, you can go over to your mom's.
But I don't think I'm looking at her crazy for
asking that. Honestly, I'm not cool.

Speaker 1 (01:27:50):
I'm fine with new traditions, and we've talked about this
over the years on the show, but I'm not fine
with new traditions that alienate family. I don't like that.
I mean, if you want to do your own thing,
you know, on a holiday, that's fine, But I don't
know why that has to exclude everybody else, because I
don't think you would like it very much if you
were excluded because you were married, Like what if what

(01:28:12):
I don't know. What if the rest of the family
is like, oh, well, we didn't necessarily want, you know,
kids around or whatever, so you guys do your own
it seems to be, well, we have our own traditions
and we're doing our own thing, and that's separate from
this family, but then when they want to be incorporated
in the mask group, then it's it's like, I don't think.
I don't think it's an a la carte kind of thing.

(01:28:34):
You you can choose your saying, like when I think, yeah,
and if that requires a little bit of effort then
which means we have to split the day up, or
which means that you know, and I get that could
be hard when it comes to like Christmas and maybe
one person's families here, one person's family's there, Well, then
we probably have to rotate or something like that. I
just I don't know. Family is so important to me,
and I don't like the idea, well that all of

(01:28:54):
a sudden your traditions become more important than mine. They
might be, we might have to adjust them, But I
mean to say, like, no, you have to stay here
all day, you can't go see your mom? Yeah, yes,
I don't know how much time we have left with mom.

Speaker 9 (01:29:08):
But also once she sent that text, I was out
because you can't talk about somebody's dead mom like that,
Like that's crazy.

Speaker 1 (01:29:13):
I think when families grow, it certainly becomes more complicated
and more work, but I think it's worth it. I
think you have to do the work, yes, and you
have to make compromises too. Hey Clarissa, Yeah.

Speaker 8 (01:29:27):
I think Paulina has hi. I think Paulina has it
all right. Like she said all the right words exactly
what I was thinking. Like it's just inappropriate. The text
is way out of line. But also it's really important,
you know, as a mother to be recognized, whether it's
a mom, mother in law, or even herself. You know,
she wanted the opportunity to rest. You know, we don't

(01:29:47):
know if she was to stay home mom, and that's
hard being a staying a home mom is harder. Or
she does both working again and stay home mom in
the evenings, or whatever the case is. You know, to
ask for a little bit of time to chill out
is really not the heart of a concept to understand.
And you know, if the mom wanted an opportunity to
see her son, you know, try to the son. It
was up to the sun and say, you know what,

(01:30:09):
my wife wants to do this. But if she's okay
with it, I'll stop for dessert. I'll bring dessert, or
I'll stop by it. You know, we can go for
a coffee run or whatever the case is, you know,
even if it is up to an hour, but to
bring up with the season mother on my that was not.

Speaker 1 (01:30:24):
The way to handle that at all.

Speaker 8 (01:30:27):
So I think you guys are all saying the right thing.
You know, all together, boundaries are super important, and unfortunately
the mother crossed this one, and it's going to be
hard for her to kind of bring herself back into
a circle of trust essentially with the mom who is
just trying to rest out.

Speaker 1 (01:30:44):
Yeah, that's gonna be a hard one to walk back.
I agree, Clarissa. Thanks, you have a good day.

Speaker 8 (01:30:49):
Thank you to you guys.

Speaker 1 (01:30:51):
Debbie, Hi, Debbie, good morning. You tell me why? You
tell me why?

Speaker 5 (01:31:01):
Absolutely ridiculous. The whole thing started with a twenty year tradition.
You have twenty years where you have your children. I
have two and I didn't even see both of my
kids yesterday, and it is hurtful. Oh you see both
of your children, Okay. But having said that, if I
had a tradition, which we do on certain you know, holidays,
if my children then said well, now my daughter, you know,

(01:31:24):
she has a child. If she said, well, now we
have another tradition, I would have been like but for
the last twenty years. You've given me this and now
you're going to take it away from me on Mother's Day. No,
you have to rearrange your schedule. You have to say, Okay,
my wife wants, you know, breakfast in bed and a
quiet day. Great, I've got this off.

Speaker 3 (01:31:44):
Plans out, You'll have breakfast.

Speaker 5 (01:31:45):
In bed, I will get the kids ready. We're going
to go to my mom's and do what I have
done for the last twenty years, and then we're going
to come back and I'm going to bring you something
back for dinner. You know, it's really simple. Everybody could
have been happy, but instead it turned into the whole
well think of shame on the mom who for sending
that terrible texts, Shame on everybody.

Speaker 1 (01:32:06):
Yeah, you have a new.

Speaker 5 (01:32:10):
Baby, and you're gonna want to do special things for
your family, and you're gonna still to, like you said,
traditions of.

Speaker 3 (01:32:15):
Your very own.

Speaker 5 (01:32:16):
But that doesn't mean you have to interfere with other people.

Speaker 7 (01:32:19):
And I'm not I am a Yeah, i am an
amazing daughter in law and I will say that on
this radio lot and proudly. And I'm an amazing mother
now when my daughter is older and when she becomes
a mother. I'm going to let her pick what she
wants to do with her family, because she's going to
experience her mother's say when her time comes, I'm going
to be old and wrinkly and sitting somewhere at home,
at a nursing home. And if they want to come
see me, I'll be so happy. And if they don't,

(01:32:40):
I can't be upset with me.

Speaker 1 (01:32:42):
I think you could. I think you have a right
to be upset if they don't make any effort to
see you on Mother's Day. I think that is a fair. Now,
it may not be in the form that you want.
It may not, you know, to Debbie's point, or I
guess sort of counter to your point, the tradition that
you have known before another family was created might have
to adjust. But for her to be like for her
to be like, no, you're staying here all day because

(01:33:03):
I don't want to do anything that shouldn't preclude him
from driving across town to see his mom and give
her something. Now, mom might not get her way, and
wife might not get her way. It's going to have
to be compromised. But you might have to put the
effort in because that's what family is about.

Speaker 5 (01:33:16):
In my opinion, absolutely, yeah, and I want to beat Yeah.

Speaker 7 (01:33:20):
I want to be clear though you like I'm okay
with like, guess going to see your mom at night
or whatever, going to see your mom later in the day.

Speaker 1 (01:33:26):
I don't that's nothing wrong with that. But I do
think your wife in a sense comes first. She has to,
like that is not your new family.

Speaker 5 (01:33:34):
Of course your wife comes first some single day. But
can your mother have Mother's Day blunch like she has
for the last twenty years. Can you not give him back?

Speaker 1 (01:33:43):
Yeah? I think I do think there's compromise here. I
definitely think compromise. Yeah, Debbie, thank you so much for calling.
Have a good day, But that really is that's the
bigger question. Like when it comes to Mother's Day, is
it your wife or your mother? Because it's it's like
Mother's Day has said you should honor the woman who
gave birth to you, but then you also have this
woman who has given you children, and it's like on

(01:34:04):
that day who really comes first? For a man?

Speaker 6 (01:34:07):
I feel sorry for men who have to decide this,
but like, seriously, who is the who do you celebrate
the most?

Speaker 1 (01:34:12):
I think mom has to acquiesce to the wife and
the you know, the mother of the kids. But I
don't think that means that mom gets ignored, yeah, or
doesn't get a visit or do you and you know what,
that might suck, that might be a little extra work.
But I don't I get new traditions. But I also
think it's like, but you want to be part of
this family. Oftentimes you you know, mother, mother maybe does

(01:34:33):
a lot of babysitting, mother does maybe's contributing financially. Mother
is you know, as a great grandmother. Yeah, So we
need to instill that in the kids too. Unfortunately, I
think sometimes people just they just draw the line and
pick and choose which parts of family they want and
which parts of family they don't want. And that's that's
very damaging. I think I think it's just gonna be

(01:34:54):
more work. But I think you had to do both.
It's more work, it's good. It's gonna be rewarding though.

Speaker 7 (01:34:58):
It's gonna be rewarding because, like you said, then your
children can see, you know, you're gonna celebrate your mother,
and you can celebrate grandma if Grandma's still with us.
Like those are okay and everything's okay with that. Those
are great traditions to have. My whole point was that
the mom just has to come first, and if she
doesn't want to come to brunch, lunch, dinner, whatever, she
can stay back.

Speaker 1 (01:35:16):
And that should be okay for everybody. Everybody should respect that,
all right. I wish we get to all these phone calls.
We can't. The fun Fact is next day here more Freadshew,
Next the Fread Show is on. Yeah, Fread's fun Fact
Bread Fun learn us so much? Guys, did you know

(01:35:41):
that bees? The bees? I haven't seen that lady on
TikTok in a while, and then other day's eating the bees.
Bees can get drunk on fermented tree sap. Same, oh yeah,
same same on the way in here, I tap a
tree and in Grant Park and I that's why the
show sometimes a little cool cool. It doesn't go well

(01:36:02):
for those who partake, though. Bees that get drunk on
fermented tree sap are often attacked by the sober bees
and deny access to the hive. Like you drunk, get
out of here, can't be drunken here? Same thing happens.
You know, I show up with a little be sap.
Everyone's like, I can see it. Then I can smell
that bee sap on your breath. Fread go home like

(01:36:25):
I want more, be SAP. They're like, no, you can't.
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