Episode Transcript
Available transcripts are automatically generated. Complete accuracy is not guaranteed.
Speaker 1 (00:00):
It's the bread show. This is what's trending.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
They think they know, at least how one of the
LA fires which started. A newly released video allegedly shows
the moment that a powered transmission line sparked the deadly
Eaten fire in Los Angeles. The video was filmed by
an Arco gas station security camera and Alta Dina during
that January seventh windstorm. Lawyers from the Edelson PC claim
(00:24):
a verse of light that's visible in the footage is
power lines from the Southern California Edison starting the fire.
About ten minutes after that initial spark was seen, the
fire broke out nearby. The blaze went on to kill
seventeen people at least and destroyed or damage over ninety
four hundred structures. You've been thinking about going to the
Super Bowl? I know many of you around here were
(00:45):
thinking about that.
Speaker 3 (00:46):
Hm.
Speaker 2 (00:47):
You can't wait to see the Eagles and the Chiefs.
Which I've also seen a lot of sports people saying
that they're not happy about this matchup.
Speaker 1 (00:53):
They don't think it's that good.
Speaker 4 (00:54):
Well, didn't we just do it a couple of years ago?
Speaker 1 (00:56):
It to have them before, because I remember.
Speaker 5 (00:59):
That's how Jason and Travis Kelsey kind of were put
on the map if you didn't know who they were,
because it was like brothers are facing off in the right.
Speaker 1 (01:05):
You're right, you're right. It was a couple of years ago.
Speaker 4 (01:07):
Yeah, and so I'm like.
Speaker 1 (01:08):
And the chiefs one. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (01:09):
And there's that famous video of Jason's daughter I saw
last night, actually Jason's daughter in the hotel room afterwards,
saying to Jason, Daddy, you didn't win, and he goes,
I didn't win. I didn't and she goes, no, Uncle
Traviy won. And then uh and then and then his
wife goes, did you want Uncle Travi to win? And
(01:31):
she goes no, And then he was just like, well,
you know, we'll let Uncle Traviy have this one. It's okay,
you know, or whatever. But the little girl and then
there's I also saw another video of those two last
night talking about how it was going to be the
eight grand or whatever to get the babies into the
Super Bowl because I guess back when they played before,
they have to buy tickets to get the kids in
(01:51):
and that what is his wife's name?
Speaker 1 (01:53):
Why is it escaping? Mek Kylie?
Speaker 2 (01:54):
And so Kylie's going it's going to cost us eight
grand to get a baby into the Super bowlous, this
is it's crazy. Well, you know, but if you want,
I guess you wanted the kid to get in and sit.
But players have to pay for their own Super Bowl tickets.
Speaker 5 (02:06):
Which is great Taylor alone, I know, can you get
your nieces in?
Speaker 6 (02:10):
I know?
Speaker 2 (02:11):
But tickets for Super Bowl fifty nine are cheaper than
last year's big Game, but there's still some of the
most expensive in Super Bowl history. This year, of course,
the Eagles and the Chiefs in New Orleans, a rematch
of Super Bowl fifty seven, which was two years ago,
and the what are they saying about eight thousand dollars? Yeah,
it's about eight grand the cheapest ticket as of yesterday,
(02:32):
on average, fifty seven hundred was the cheapest.
Speaker 1 (02:34):
Eight grand is the average. It goes up from there.
Speaker 2 (02:36):
So that's how much it costs if you want to
go to the Super Bowl, which again that is not
accessible to the average fan, which is why I said
a million times the super Bowl is a weird game
to go to because it's not really like when I went,
I went and sat. I was actually in the family
section of the Carolina Panthers when they went and got there.
Speaker 1 (02:55):
M A's just kicked and.
Speaker 2 (02:59):
Like ours was one corner, and then the the Broncos
were like the exact opposite corner, and those were the
two that had the colors, because like everybody was wearing
panther blue and everybody was wearing orange and you could
see and everything else was just like whatever. It was
some dude that like peeled off a Pepsi label and
won ticket to the super Bowl and like didn't it,
like didn't care or like corporate sponsors or whomever, like
(03:20):
people who don't really care who wins. Because the first
super Bowl I went to, I didn't it was Colts Saints.
I didn't care who won. I think I rooted it
for I think we picked one. We picked for the
Saints and rooted for them. How did you end up there? Hello,
because another friend of mine had a plug and some player, okay,
Drew Brees and I dated for a while. It's fine whatever.
(03:42):
Then the team you saw, yeah, Peyton Manning versus Drew Brees.
Yeah wow, but it no. Somebody was like, hey, I
I I can buy tickets from the NFL at face
value for the Super Bowl in a couple of weeks.
So it was like eight hundred dollars instead of eight
thousand because it was actually face value. Do you want
to go? And I was like, okay, I didn't think
(04:03):
i'd ever get to go to another Super Bowl ever. Again,
I'm like, oh, okay, there's a lot of money, but sure.
And then like I had to sign this whole form
from the NFL that said that I wouldn't sell the
tickets because I was buying them at face value. And
then I went and I remember on the both super
Bowls I went to on the because both super Bowls
I went to, I was able to buy tickets that way,
and the day that I went to the game, I
could have made at least ten times on my money
(04:24):
if I just sold the tickets right there you did.
Speaker 1 (04:26):
But I went. I looked at the back of Beyonce.
Speaker 2 (04:29):
I looked at the back of Beyond and the back
of the who who I.
Speaker 1 (04:33):
Know one of the first one? Did you explain that one?
Speaker 6 (04:35):
I know?
Speaker 4 (04:35):
The second one? You could buy?
Speaker 2 (04:37):
Same deal. It was same deal both times. Yeah, well
a little bit different, but same deal essentially. I never
had to pay that that markup.
Speaker 5 (04:43):
My nana went to one in New Orleans and I'm
jealous as how I'm just go this year.
Speaker 2 (04:47):
I mean, it's cool to say you did it right.
It's like an experience. There's just celebrities everywhere.
Speaker 4 (04:51):
I want to go to the parties like leading up
and act.
Speaker 2 (04:53):
Yeah. I went to one of the parties that was crazy.
I went to the official tail NFL tailgate. That was wild.
Speaker 1 (04:58):
That's cool. It was really crazy, like just just I
don't know who did he.
Speaker 2 (05:05):
Oh no, no, that was the that was the freak
out afterwards. And I couldn't I couldn't make it. Yeah,
I couldn't make it. I wasn't able to go. Okay,
but I I as you know, I like music from
well before the time that I was born, well before
the time that I was born. And I walked into
this tailgate in Miami and it was like it was
it was in Miami, so it was open. Yeah, it
(05:26):
was the first one with the Colts Saints was Miami.
And they were like the there's like an NFL tailgate's
pretty expensive, but there's like food and drink and all
you get.
Speaker 1 (05:34):
It's like pretty crazy.
Speaker 2 (05:35):
And I walked in and my friends and I are
all like looking at the thing at like who the
entertainment was and there were some big names, and then
it was and there aught that many people in this thing,
relatively speaking. And then someone goes, who the hell Steve Winwood,
He's like a yacht rock artist from the eighties. That
song Valerie call on Me is a sample call on Me.
It's a sample of a Steve Wood winds. And so
(05:56):
some I was like, who the hell is Steve win
went on this stage? Who the hell is that?
Speaker 1 (05:59):
I go, what you ran?
Speaker 2 (06:00):
Oh, Jeeve Wynwood's here, and I just like has I
like sprinted across this tailgate, like like pushing people across
the way, and they were like seven of us standing
there watching Steve. Oh my god, I was so exciting.
Is there there's no artists like that that would do
it for you? That like sounds kind of hokey. I
don't mean be.
Speaker 7 (06:18):
Two k right, because y'all already give me enough craft
for that.
Speaker 2 (06:22):
But there's you guys have to have hokey artists that
like if you if you walked into a venue at
you know, if you went to Lallapaloos and you didn't
know and they had some just random person and you'd
be like, oh my god, and you just run over
there to see them.
Speaker 1 (06:34):
Nobody. I'm sure nobody from yesteryear. Hmmm.
Speaker 5 (06:39):
I mean Cayle's got a whole long listome Oh my god,
there's so many Like Matchbucks twenty is one of the
best consciers that I've ever been s that's one.
Speaker 1 (06:45):
Of the people wouldn't necessarily.
Speaker 5 (06:47):
Like No, I'm embarrassed, Like I'm embarrassed to say that,
but I had the time of my life, I go.
Speaker 2 (06:51):
To Matchbucks twenty. I'd go to Nickelback again. I've been
to Nicoleback.
Speaker 4 (06:54):
I want to go for the person. I want to
see Creed on that damn tour. So I don't know, Yeah,
I'm embarrassing.
Speaker 2 (06:59):
Hey, Nickelback a little bit embarrassing. But people I give
them the hard time. I mean, for my money, there's
a few Nickelback songs that just go hard. They go
hard on the paint they do, and I don't care,
and I'm fine with it. Okay, never mind, I guess
it's gonna cost you a lot of money if you
want to go. So we're approaching groundhog Day and Pete
(07:19):
is calling for you another change to groundhog Day. They
don't want the Punksatani Phill to be an actual groundhog.
The People for the Ethical Treatment of Animals have suggested
if Punk satoni Fill, the groundhog who predicts whether winter
will go on for six more weeks or spring will
arrive early, should be replaced with a weather revealed cake,
a gender reveal. I like it, yeah, basically more pink.
(07:40):
You would just cut it open and then be like,
ooo Spring. I guess they would just speak to Punk
Satani Phil. He would tell them verbally what was going
to happen, and then they just bake the cake. Right.
According to Peta the vegan, of course it would be
a vegan treat too, would mimic that of a sex
reveal for a baby. Once cut, the cake would show
one of two colors, blue meaning six more weeks of winter,
(08:02):
or pink, indicating in early spring. The animal rights advocates
out of the punkstunny Fill in his family should retire
to a reputable sanctuary instead of taking part in the
annual tradition. And I say this every year when they
come up with some idea of what we should do
on February second. Instead of that, I say it every
year that groundhog has got to be the best treated
groundhog in the world.
Speaker 1 (08:21):
Let Yeah, they worship this thing.
Speaker 7 (08:23):
You don't have anything else to do. He can get
to work on February second.
Speaker 2 (08:26):
I think the rest of the year he is in
a ruputy. He's probably treated like a king.
Speaker 8 (08:29):
He is.
Speaker 4 (08:30):
I think he lives in the library with Phyllis or
the other one.
Speaker 5 (08:34):
Yeah, we looked it up one year because we look
up weird stuff for our job.
Speaker 1 (08:37):
But I feel like things are probably great.
Speaker 4 (08:39):
This was a weird day at work, and Phyllis can
get out.
Speaker 1 (08:42):
There in the field. I think so too.
Speaker 2 (08:44):
President Donald Trump discussed a possible deal from Microsoft to
buy TikTok while speaking with reporters by phone from air
Force One. A lot of interest in TikTok. There's great
interest there apparently. So maybe we'll get something done and
then Microsoft will own it and everything will be fine.
Speaker 1 (08:59):
Kiki, you won't have to worry about PowerPoint.
Speaker 4 (09:01):
It's not the same already. You saw all the conspiracies, Rhythm.
Speaker 2 (09:06):
They switched that whole thing when they went offline. Was
the switch servers?
Speaker 5 (09:11):
Yes, why did Facebook make a TikTok the second before
it went down? And then it's down for the time
it takes to switch servers.
Speaker 4 (09:19):
I need the like, what's that show? That old show?
Speaker 3 (09:22):
Do do? Do?
Speaker 1 (09:23):
I want mysteries?
Speaker 3 (09:24):
I don't.
Speaker 4 (09:24):
Yeah, I need that playing because my conspiracy theories.
Speaker 2 (09:27):
Yeah. And finally, guys, in what's trending this morning? It's
tax season and this reminds me of an episode of
Ship's Creek. But nearly one in five gen Zers believe
they could write off literally anything as a business expense.
Speaker 1 (09:39):
Of course, Hey, they're not wrong. I did my taxes yesterday.
You guys shout out to Dan.
Speaker 4 (09:43):
Would you write off Dan and my taxes?
Speaker 9 (09:45):
Girl?
Speaker 3 (09:45):
It did?
Speaker 1 (09:46):
I not write off everything? Well? We know you have
too chowels for the business. Well I have three now.
Speaker 7 (09:51):
Because of Dan, and I got a baby that was
a nice little bar.
Speaker 3 (09:54):
Hell.
Speaker 2 (09:55):
Yeah, yeah, that one doesn't make sense to me. It
makes sense why there's a tax right off? No, it
makes this way here, but like really like I'm gonna
have a baby who's gonna cost me a million dollars
to raise. But I but I get like a twelve
thousand dollars tax credit or whatever it is. I don't
know how much it is on eight eighty five hundred
bucks or something. It's like that the math don't math
on that. It costs way more to have a kid
than that. You need to hook me up way better
(10:16):
than that, IRS.
Speaker 1 (10:17):
Yeah, way more.
Speaker 4 (10:19):
So be safe out there. But yes, I got, I
got my TAXI. You file with Harvey right, Yes, yes.
Speaker 1 (10:24):
That's another thing. You get it.
Speaker 2 (10:25):
You get like a joint tax credit too, don't you.
Speaker 1 (10:27):
I believe so she rich.
Speaker 4 (10:28):
Hey, I don't know.
Speaker 2 (10:28):
Dan does what he gotta do. Yeah, I don't want
to hear about how broke you are anymore. You got
a kid and a husband to write off.
Speaker 1 (10:33):
So girl, it's nothing, show it off. Yeah, what I
got is nothing.
Speaker 2 (10:37):
But they literally think you can write off anything, dinners, PlayStations,
business expense, they say. A survey for Turbo Tax dug
into the tax knowledge of four thousand Americans, and twenty
percent of gen Zers think that you don't have to
file taxes if.
Speaker 1 (10:48):
You're a student. Oh but you do, oh boy.
Speaker 2 (10:51):
The survey also found that baby boomers have their own
tax myths to bust. A surprising twenty seven percent believe
that if you make under the IRS incomry requirements, you
can't get a refund or don't have to file. That
isn't true. The way that Americans file their taxes is
also changing. Smartphones are giving desktops a run for their money,
with both both devices tied to twenty percent usage. Millennials
(11:11):
are particularly fund of filing on their phones. The survey
also revealed that Americans would be willing to pay more
in taxes if they could choose exactly where the money goes.
Speaker 7 (11:22):
You know, yeah, you know what, Yeah, that's my big issue.
Speaker 2 (11:27):
He mean, look, I don't want to want to pay
more taxes, but that's my biggest issue with taxes.
Speaker 1 (11:30):
I don't know where to hell the money's going, right,
we need this. I need to say, like, how.
Speaker 2 (11:34):
Do we not have all these things that everybody wants,
but yet we just pay more in taxes? And then
people and I don't mean to make this like ultra political,
but then people run for president whatever party, and they say, well,
we're going to get this and this and this and this,
but we're going to raise taxes. It's like, but we
can't spend the money we already have my taxes, we
are how many gazillion dollars are we in debt? And
you still can't So you're just going to charge us more.
(11:56):
And then I'm supposed to I'm supposed to believe you.
That's like giving your oak friend your money for investments. Like, man,
I got ten grand to invest in something I know,
I'll give it to the guy who just felled bankruptcy.
Speaker 4 (12:06):
Like no, no, give it to me to gamble, I'll
double it.
Speaker 2 (12:09):
See, this is exactly what I'm talking about. It's National
plan for Vacation Day, which I've been doing for weeks
now and since I was on vacation last, and Data
Privacy Day, which reminds us to review how our data
is being used, which I don't do because if I
go to a website that's like cookies and you can't
look at it, I'm like, okay, cookies whatever, and then
I have no idea what I just accepted. I've never
(12:32):
read the terms of service, no, but I needed to
see what was on the Etsy side. I needed to
see it right now. The Entertainer Report after flow ride
in three minutes in the Fresh Show.
Speaker 1 (12:42):
The Fresh Show is on stay or go all right,
So it's like group therapy here. None of us are licensed.
Speaker 2 (12:51):
I have to say that legally every week for giving advice,
but it's you know, just kind of whatever.
Speaker 1 (12:59):
What you don't think our advice is kind of whatever.
Speaker 10 (13:02):
This is any way to discard.
Speaker 1 (13:03):
We're gonna do this, but this's whatever. I mean, you
should take what we're saying with the grain of salt.
You know you should.
Speaker 2 (13:10):
I mean, my advice is stellar, but as far as
everybody else, I can't speak of a Hi Savannah, Savannah.
Speaker 1 (13:18):
Hi, Hey, good morning.
Speaker 2 (13:19):
No, Kiki is a judge, so she obviously knows what
she's talking about. And I'm very good at telling other
people what to do in their relationships, and I'm a
complete and total imbecile when it comes to my own,
like honestly, Samamah, which is why I'm going. Sure, you're
glad you're called, but like you called, but I'm an idiot,
Like I do the dumbest I picked, I pick the
worst I do. I mean, it's just awful anyway, So
let me tell you how to live your life. What's
(13:41):
going on with this guy? So, I guess I don't
have his name here. I'm looking at a Christian mayor. No, no, no, no,
that's your religion. No, I'm looking I'm looking at the notes.
I'm looking at the notes, and usually I have the
person's name. I don't think I do hear. So you're
getting engaged, I know that, or you're engaging getting married?
Speaker 1 (14:00):
Read then what?
Speaker 9 (14:02):
Yeah, we're getting married.
Speaker 2 (14:04):
Man's name is Christian Christian and he is a Christian
Christian I don't know, right, no, w And it makes sense.
Sometimes we have the name in here and sometimes we don't.
But his name is Christian and he's a Christian.
Speaker 4 (14:16):
He observes Christian.
Speaker 8 (14:18):
What can't.
Speaker 4 (14:22):
That's your religion, so you.
Speaker 2 (14:23):
Can it's fine, Savannah tells what is going on? Please
save just save me from this.
Speaker 1 (14:27):
Go ahead.
Speaker 11 (14:30):
Well, I mean it's kind of an nickname because so
we're getting married in about a year from.
Speaker 1 (14:37):
Now, and congratulations to Christians.
Speaker 6 (14:39):
Christian out of nowhere, I guess Christian.
Speaker 11 (14:51):
Decided the Christian.
Speaker 1 (14:54):
Whole name.
Speaker 9 (14:57):
Could be tell of it until the what and I like,
he kind of told me completely out of the blue,
and I don't know. I was like, I'm in shock.
Speaker 1 (15:11):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (15:12):
So, so you, Savannah, are to be married in maybe
a year or so, you think, and you've been dating
this guy for a little while, and I I just
need to clarify you have been intimate with him up
until this point.
Speaker 11 (15:26):
Yeah, yeah, I mean, neither of us have really ever
been religious. We're kind of raised loosely Christian, but that's
not been you know, a part of our relationship. Okay, yeah,
it's never been on like on the table at all.
Speaker 2 (15:42):
And then all of a sudden, this guy goes, hey,
we're get married in a year. I have an idea,
let's stop with the physical part of our relationship and
let's like, I guess, save ourselves for marriage, even though
that's not how it works, but let's just not until then.
Speaker 9 (15:57):
Yeah. Yeah, and it's not just the celgency thing. But
he also said that he wants to start like practicing
our faith and prioritizing that, which is like, it doesn't
seem like him. I've never seen him go to church
like ever.
Speaker 2 (16:20):
Okay, so obviously you guys have been intimate for all
this time. So then now the thought of stopping that
for a year, it's like, well, that's not ideal because
you know, people enjoy those sorts of activities and you've
been doing them.
Speaker 8 (16:34):
So yeah, I think it's really important in our relationship, right,
But then to stop now for religious reasons and again
I'm not I'm not a theologian, which surprises a lot
of people.
Speaker 1 (16:46):
I'm not I actually am the game. Yeah, no, he
never gave theologian.
Speaker 8 (16:49):
I don't.
Speaker 2 (16:52):
Someone just this is the text of the day. Someone
just texted today is giving Golf of America. It is
like we've officially just lost it. Like it's just but
I don't think that's it. I don't think it's ever
not given Gulf of America around. I feel like, if
it's not one thing, it's another. But I guess my
thing is it's not as though you can just I mean,
(17:14):
I get maybe he's trying to refocus on his faith
because you're getting married, maybe getting married in the church
or whatever, But I don't think that's how it works.
Like I don't actually think if you just stop now
that when you do go in a year, God's like
I didn't see anything, you know what I mean, Like
I think it's fine. You know, I checked in in
the last six months to a year and no Shenanigan's
(17:36):
so it's all good.
Speaker 1 (17:37):
I don't think that's how this works.
Speaker 9 (17:41):
Yeah, I just don't even know where this came from.
Speaker 11 (17:43):
And I'm I don't know, I don't know if like
I'm overreacting to this and just need to like talk
it out with him or if it's.
Speaker 9 (17:52):
Like kind of a red flag because we used to.
Speaker 4 (17:54):
Seem on the same page.
Speaker 2 (17:56):
And I don't know, he's just cutting you off a
year before you get married.
Speaker 7 (18:03):
Huh, this is not a problem, like the girl.
Speaker 2 (18:07):
Literally yes, okay, well I just got a text from Timothy,
your boyfriend. Not but you're single. But we've already heard
this before. Yes, and if you haven't heard, if you
haven't heard Teeky's theory about she's not married, so she's
technically single even though this man lives in her home
with her. And Okay, so he just texted me and
said a ring is coming. Okay, except he's cutting you
(18:28):
off for a year.
Speaker 7 (18:29):
Okay, that's fine. I think that what this man has
made intention to marry her. He wants her to be
his wife, and they've been hooking up all this time,
so maybe he's trying to see if he can connect
with her on a deeper level than just sex.
Speaker 2 (18:46):
So he's like, listen, shouldn't they have figured that out already?
They're getting married.
Speaker 7 (18:50):
Hold on, but that doesn't mean that he just he
probably wants to have like one day they won't be
able to have sex. It might not work anymore. And
so he won't make sure when it's not hidden. I
still love you, I still want to be with you,
I still enjoy you.
Speaker 2 (19:03):
People's if they're engaged to be married, like he should
have already figured that part out.
Speaker 7 (19:07):
When they're not doing it, people's possession gets blurry sometimes
when you hump it.
Speaker 1 (19:11):
Okay, when he out here having sex.
Speaker 2 (19:13):
With each other, as opposed to when you're doing anything
with yourself.
Speaker 7 (19:19):
Yeah, your mind can get cloudy sometimes because of the
way they putting it down. You gotta see if you
still like a person outside of sex.
Speaker 5 (19:28):
But I can tell that when I'm talking to them
and not doing it, you know, like day.
Speaker 7 (19:32):
Or whatever you have, he might feel differently. He might
be like, it's bro, it's so good. I want to
marry you right honestly, to see if I still like
you outside of that.
Speaker 2 (19:41):
I mean, I'm sorry to interrupt you, Kiki, but to me,
it feels like he's trying to fake the funk. To me,
it feels like he's trying to all of a sudden
be like pious, like all of a sudden. It's like,
you know, because Jason and I were raised Catholic, right,
we were sweird. We were supposed to have stain, and
we were supposed to do all these things, which I
didn't do by choice until the age of t twenty
two or anything or twenty one. Actually I am stained
(20:03):
by absolutely by choice. It's not certainly wasn't. Yeah you
had that ring for lack of opportunity, but because nobody
wanted to But no, but yeah it was. They were
just banging the door down. But I chose not to.
Speaker 10 (20:14):
You said no, don't but but like, I just don't
think it works that way.
Speaker 1 (20:23):
Like I don't think you can.
Speaker 2 (20:24):
Just to me, what he's trying to do is make
himself feel better somehow about everything he's done in the past,
because somehow, if he just hit reset now, then I
don't know, then it's like it never happened or somebody
that doesn't the dean has been done. Okay, I don't.
I don't think that just now. And if you don't
know the person well enough, or if you're amasked by
(20:46):
the physical activity, then maybe you shouldn't have gotten engaged.
Speaker 4 (20:50):
I cannot believe you don't think he's getting it somewhere else?
Speaker 8 (20:52):
Right?
Speaker 2 (20:54):
What it feels like to me, It feel it feels
to me like maybe he Savannah. I don't mean to
put this out there, but it's almost like it's almost
like he did something bad and maybe he's got something
going on he's trying to resolve.
Speaker 7 (21:05):
Or who wakes up and says that, like, I don't
want to.
Speaker 2 (21:07):
Know something is up. Something is up, Savannah, and I
need to get to the bottom of mat. I think
you should. I definitely think this is this is raising
red flags to me, and it's something that should be
investigated because he could even he could say to you,
he could explain it to you and be like, hey, look,
I really I feel like I want to sort of
(21:28):
get back in touch with my faith and get in
touch with myself and like I and it would be
really maybe it would be more special if we But
he hasn't really given you any explanation, right, He's just like, well,
we're getting married in a church and I want to
be more religious, so we're not doing it anymore.
Speaker 4 (21:42):
He's taking meds for something. He caught something, and he's.
Speaker 2 (21:45):
That's what I'm thinking, So sad, I'm thinking he's going
to wait to tell her that he's got something that's
not going to go away until they get married, and
then once they're married. Then he's like, by the way,
bad news, but we're married.
Speaker 1 (21:57):
Oh my god. I just something's going on, Savannah. But
when let me take some Yeah, go ahead, I'm sorry,
go ahead.
Speaker 8 (22:02):
I'm more nervous than I was before.
Speaker 2 (22:04):
Yeah, why I should pursuit your own risk. But there's
something going on. But let me. I'm gonna take some
phone calls on this, Savannah, and and let's see what's
going on and see what people have to say. But
you have the radio on or iHeart or whatever, And
thank you for calling in for being patient with us,
because it's just been a day and a week and
a month. It really has a series of months. But anyway,
I have a great day, Savannah.
Speaker 4 (22:25):
Get some blood work done.
Speaker 8 (22:26):
Yeah, what's your doctor's name?
Speaker 2 (22:29):
Who I meant DoD Dr Mike, Doctor Mike.
Speaker 1 (22:31):
I carry this.
Speaker 2 (22:33):
That's my homide. He's my onecologist as well.
Speaker 1 (22:36):
Doctor Mike. Doctor Mike is a homeie. Yeah he is.
I liked the guy. I trust him my life. No,
I liked him.
Speaker 2 (22:42):
If I if I were I would, if I were
a woman, I would show you would know three five
what Jason, I do believe you putting STDs on this man?
Speaker 6 (22:54):
Start.
Speaker 1 (22:55):
Don't you just want to do like a fresh start
every time.
Speaker 2 (22:58):
Way, I'm not gonna for yet. We've been doing for years.
Speaker 10 (23:02):
It's not about forgetting it. It's just about what's gonna
make you feel good and want to like, Okay, we're
just gonna like try something like. I don't necessarily mean
that he has an STD. I don't know, are wed, No,
but that's not my choice. That wouldn't make me feel
good or refreshed. Maybe he's different.
Speaker 2 (23:23):
Yeah, I just uh, I don't know. Hey, coach coach Mason, Well,
wet how you doing?
Speaker 1 (23:29):
All right?
Speaker 3 (23:29):
Hey? Hour, you guys do it? I am coach Mason.
I'm a behavior therapist here in the South suburbs of Chicago.
Speaker 2 (23:35):
This is fantastic. We have an actual licensed individual. Go ahead,
Oh we do.
Speaker 3 (23:40):
I think that one. All of the suggestions you've given
her are great. Yes, go get checked out medically. I
think it's wonderful when people have spiritual epiphanies and they,
you know, choose to to make themselves better, you know,
through religion. In addition to that, I think also making
sure that he hasn't had like the rapid onset of
like some underlying psychological issue that she may not know about.
(24:03):
I come from a family that is severely impacted by
mental health issues, and the rapid switch of like going
religious or being hyper religious is sympematic of a couple
of different mood disorders that could be going on. So
just making sure that she truly does know the person
that you know she loves, and that she knows his
(24:23):
history and his family history, and if there's a likelihood
that this could be related to something else, not that
people don't you know, find the Lord or you know,
get involved and make themselves better once we become older
and we're getting ready to have big life changes, but
just making sure that it's not something else that's going
on that maybe she doesn't know about.
Speaker 2 (24:42):
And Coach Mason all jokes aside, I do think there's
something to the fact that this just hit him all
of a sudden that you pointed out, Like I say,
this is something that you might discuss over time, Like
you know, I'm really thinking of it. People who just
wake up one day and go I'm religious now and
we're not doing this and the other thing. Okay, But
like if you're in a year's long relationship with someone,
(25:03):
I feel like it might be something that is, like,
you know, hey, maybe months ago she would have heard like,
have you you ever thought maybe we like what if
we were to abstain until we got married kind of
like hey, I don't know, or maybe we should start
going to the church more because we're going to be
getting married in the church and it would be more
authentic if we were like really in touch with our spirituality.
Like I feel like that's something that you would discuss
over time. You wouldn't just wake up one day and go, hey,
(25:23):
none of that until we get married in about a
year or so.
Speaker 1 (25:26):
Sorry, you know, because and we.
Speaker 3 (25:28):
Need to get like super involved in this new thing
that I decided to wake up and do yesterday. So there,
I want to make sure there's nothing else going on there.
Speaker 2 (25:36):
Yeah, Coach Mason, thank you, have a good day. Thank
you guys, and thank you for listening. Francis, Francis, you
agree with Kiki.
Speaker 1 (25:43):
Thank you finally, very much much, Thank you, frank.
Speaker 12 (25:49):
There will be a time that is hopefully if they're
getting married forever, that they won't be able to have sex.
Don't you want to have a deeper connection now? Don't
you want to know somebody to the level that you
all don't have to be physically intimate to be intimate.
I think that's beautiful that he.
Speaker 3 (26:06):
Loves her enough.
Speaker 12 (26:06):
So let's wait. No, I do believe they should have
had a discussion, but the fact that she has to
call a radio station instead of talking to him is
saying a lot.
Speaker 2 (26:14):
Well, now, hold on a second, what do you mean
I would have? Well, yeah, and also like I don't know,
I mean we let's say it wasn't religious and somebody
called up here and said, yeah, my fiance just won't
sleep with me anymore like that, that would that would
indicate some sort of lack of connection or some sort
of guilt or some sort of deeper issue.
Speaker 1 (26:35):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (26:36):
It just to me, it seems so sudden and it
doesn't and it just seems like a real It almost
feels like a reaction to something else.
Speaker 1 (26:42):
But what is that thing? I don't know.
Speaker 12 (26:47):
But on the fact what you said, the fact where
you said, it's not like he's like, oh, I didn't
see you all have sex. That's why you can repent. Yes,
we have sex before, but now we're taking we're taking
this out, we're reaching.
Speaker 8 (27:01):
Yeah.
Speaker 12 (27:01):
I just feel like.
Speaker 8 (27:02):
It's beautiful.
Speaker 1 (27:06):
Francis.
Speaker 2 (27:07):
I do love you, Francis, but here's something I don't
think I could possibly repent. Like like God and I
have a nice relationship.
Speaker 6 (27:15):
I am.
Speaker 1 (27:15):
I am a spiritual person.
Speaker 6 (27:16):
I do.
Speaker 2 (27:16):
But he knows we're at a point. We're at a
point now where he's just like I got it, okay,
Like we're moving forward. We're on to Pittsburgh, you know
what I mean, Like Bill Belichick, We're moving on to
New York.
Speaker 1 (27:31):
Thank you, Francis, have a good day.
Speaker 9 (27:33):
Thank you you too.
Speaker 1 (27:34):
Yeah. I don't know about that, but it's a sweet sentiment.
Speaker 6 (27:38):
It is.
Speaker 2 (27:38):
But I also think again, I think it's something you discuss.
It's something you'd come to together. And he would communicate
exactly what Because if I'm dating somebody and or I'm
engaged them or whatever, and they come to me one
day and say we're not sleeping together anymore, just like that,
there is something going on.
Speaker 7 (27:53):
He didn't say anymore, he said until the wedding, well
basically anymore, because a year I was suppose to no Jennifer, Yes.
Speaker 2 (28:02):
Y High, How a good morning, Jennifer Wilken, What did
you want to say?
Speaker 13 (28:06):
I just want to say she needs to go I
mean the fact that she needs to even call in
and ask about this, Like, no one wakes up one morning,
especially when they're in that they're not religious, to say
that they want to follow this. It's not like they're
taking marriage classes with their pastor and their pastor's advising this,
Like she needs to look deeper. He's just not into
her anymore, sadly, And I think she he's just needing
(28:28):
some kind of excuse to kind of not be physical
with her right now.
Speaker 14 (28:31):
And she's just she knows her everyone has a good feeling.
She's a woman, she knows That's why she called it.
Speaker 2 (28:38):
Yeah, and Jennifer, the only time in relationships that I've
ever been like no more of that is when something
is very disconnected.
Speaker 1 (28:44):
The only because otherwise I'm in a relationship with you.
Speaker 2 (28:46):
We're going to commit a relationship, Like that's a perk,
right if you choose to do that, if that's what
you're into, you know, And I realize people feel different, Well, no,
I'm in you're into this. But I realized that people
feel differently, and people have different religious beliefs, and people
do have stain or celibate and all that.
Speaker 1 (28:59):
But again, like that and it's all good. But like
if I'm in a.
Speaker 2 (29:02):
Relationship and I'm just like, I don't that's not a
part of the relationship. I want to explore right now,
then something's raw and we got to figure out what
it is. And instead of talking about it, he's just saying, Jennifer,
thank you for calling.
Speaker 1 (29:18):
Of course, you have a good day.
Speaker 2 (29:19):
Someone win does, Shawnie, Shanny, you went to me the
same thing I did. Okay, So what happened?
Speaker 14 (29:26):
So my spouse all of a sudden wanted to go
to church and want to do not necessarily be sullivant,
but I wanted to do more Christian like things. And
come to find out, it was because her girlfriend is
very religious.
Speaker 1 (29:41):
Her girl, her girlfriend.
Speaker 14 (29:44):
Yeah, so I was married to a woman. I was
actually on stair though I was the fake cheater.
Speaker 4 (29:51):
Oh oh yeah yeah, Okay.
Speaker 14 (29:53):
Okay, so she was actually cheating and her girlfriend is
very religious, comes from a very religious house family, and
that's why would be religious. She wanted to appease her girlfriend.
Speaker 9 (30:05):
I see.
Speaker 2 (30:06):
Okay, So in this case, she wasn't doing it necessarily
for her own religious stand. She was doing it for
the person who she was cheating on you with.
Speaker 14 (30:16):
Right, and now that we're divorced, she is and she
goes to church and she ties and she's everything. She's
like everything for this essentially that she has.
Speaker 1 (30:27):
We've met her you, we've met you before.
Speaker 4 (30:29):
Yeah, I have the meet and green.
Speaker 2 (30:31):
Yeah you're fine as now, You'll be fine. Don't worry
about it. She'll be totally fine. I remember her.
Speaker 4 (30:38):
I'm about to text my boyfriend and see how he reacts.
Speaker 2 (30:41):
Oh yes, I would have to say, yeah, yeah, I
want you to text text Shane and say, hey, you
know what the problem is. He knows you're with a
bunch of clowns right now, so he but if you're.
Speaker 4 (30:49):
Like, hey, you know what, what should I say?
Speaker 1 (30:51):
I I want to be closer today.
Speaker 2 (30:54):
Keiki wants to take me to church this weekend, and
she was suggesting that maybe I need to abstain if
I'm truly going to embrace you know what I'm experiencing.
Speaker 1 (31:03):
And I just wanted to know how you feel about that.
Speaker 7 (31:05):
Okay, I knew she wasn't a real friend.
Speaker 4 (31:10):
He want to start taking me to church