February 14, 2025 • 24 mins
Listen to Keke talk about her lover language, and Fred asks, "is Valentine's Day overrated?" Listen now!
See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Mark as Played
Transcript
Episode Transcript
Available transcripts are automatically generated. Complete accuracy is not guaranteed.
Speaker 1 (00:00):
It's a fresh show. This is what's trending.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
Oh and so it begins. Delta Airlines, your flight may
be affected by inclement weather. Oh no, no, no, no
no no no no no no no no, no, no
no no. I've enjoyed. I've enjoyed my time in Salt
Lake City. I've enjoyed meeting everybody who works here. Almost
everybody who works here, I've enjoyed, and almost every almost
(00:25):
everybody who works here has been kind to us, incredibly,
incredibly kind, to be honest with you, like amazing people here.
And I think our show is going to do really well,
and I'm excited, and I want to thank all the
people in Salt Lake City who listen, and all the
people in Chicago who have been putting up with us
talking about you know, our show growing a little bit,
But it only happens because of the thirteen, the original thirteen,
you know who made us this show, made us like this.
Speaker 1 (00:48):
You made us like this. You did this right you.
Speaker 2 (00:51):
You decided to support our mental illness and whatever this
is by listening to it a lot so much that
they decided to put it on other places, and other
poor people have to be exposed to it. So, and
I just want to thank everybody for the hospitality. But
it's ready to I'm ready to go home.
Speaker 3 (01:05):
It's ready to go.
Speaker 4 (01:07):
There were things I wanted to go line dancing. Our
girl Joyce sent us a line dancing place. I have
restaurants I need you to try if you go ahead
and sent it to me since I may not be leaving. Yeah, anytimes,
you know'll go ahead, just get an apartment. You should
Uh inclement weather, I mean maybe I will, maybe I will.
Speaker 1 (01:23):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (01:24):
We have lots of friends here now, you know, lots
of lots of new supporters. It's it's it's fascinating. But anyway,
I'm going one way or another. I will return home tomorrow.
It's time, you know, it's time. This business trips lasted
too long. Well, I think, well, Kiki's coming here tonight
to go to dinner with me for Valentine's Day, so
we're both maybe going to be stuck here to the
rest of our lives.
Speaker 3 (01:44):
I'll have the elk for two please.
Speaker 2 (01:46):
Yeahky do you like uh? Do you like elk meat?
Because I know just where to go.
Speaker 3 (01:51):
I can't say I doon.
Speaker 1 (01:58):
I got that too.
Speaker 2 (01:59):
Guys, most Americans aren't buying into the Valentine's State hype.
It turns out, well, I mean I think there's hype, right,
I mean everywhere you go this time of year, it's
a commercial holiday. You go into Target, you go into
you know wherever, it's flowers.
Speaker 3 (02:14):
In Saint Valentine's Valentine.
Speaker 2 (02:17):
He was, yeah, Well, a new survey shows it nearly
two third. It gets your own segment for you. Kylen's
fun fact doesn't work as well. A new survey shows
that nearly two thirds of people sixty four percent, I
think the holiday is overrated. However, there are, of course,
plenty of people who take Valentine's State pretty seriously. In fact,
they talk to two thousand people. One in six say
this year could actually make or break their relationship.
Speaker 1 (02:41):
So here's what I want to know. I'm going to
go on with the rest of the stories.
Speaker 2 (02:45):
But eight five five five three five, whether it's this
year or whether it happened in the past, is Valentine's
Day for you a test? Because we were talking about
this outside yesterday outside the studio, and it was, you know,
people saying, ah, my wife, my girlfriend says she doesn't
want anything.
Speaker 1 (03:03):
It's like, dude, get something.
Speaker 2 (03:04):
Go get a card, get it a little you know whatever,
her favorite candy, you know something something.
Speaker 1 (03:12):
Don't fall for that.
Speaker 2 (03:13):
Don't fall for the She doesn't want to be acknowledged
on a holiday about love and I love her or him,
don't do not fall for that. And it doesn't have
to be a grand gesture, because I know there are
people who don't like Valentine's Day. My sister, on the
other hand, it's her favorite holiday. Oh cute, and so
it always has been. And so like everybody in the
family used to send her stuff on Valentine's Day And uh, well,
(03:36):
now that's collins job, so he has to do it.
But he knows, he knows the assignment. But I just
wonder if and for you guys has Valentine's Day? And
I think I know the answer. But as Valentine's say,
ever been a make or break thing, like where you
sit back and go, is this person going to make
an effort for me on this day?
Speaker 1 (03:49):
Or not?
Speaker 5 (03:51):
Not a make or break? But it's it's it's it's something. Yeah, yeah,
make the effort. You have to make the make the effort. Yeah,
well how's this?
Speaker 2 (03:58):
How is a big tiam going to make the effort
when he got you know, a little sickness out of
both sides today, I don't know.
Speaker 5 (04:04):
You better order something, you know, like he can order
something to the house. I don't know. Put to put something,
make lux do something. I don't know.
Speaker 1 (04:12):
You get the dog, do something.
Speaker 5 (04:14):
Okay, you gotta put in some type of effort over
the top, but it's something.
Speaker 2 (04:20):
Yeah, But it's the same. It's the same with the
only fans lady. If if you know, she's claiming that
nobody wants to go out with her on VALENTINE'SDY because
of her things or whatever. If if you are breaking
up with someone on Valentine's DA because they didn't get
you a Valentine's Day present, I would imagine that there
are bigger problems than that.
Speaker 6 (04:36):
That's the right point, yeah, because then that would be
like a form of uh like resentment, right, because you're
already like questioning, am I going to get anything? And
then you don't, and then that kind of answers your question.
Speaker 2 (04:46):
But you can be annoyed if you don't get a
card or something for Valentine's say, but you're not breaking
up with someone simply because they didn't. You're breaking up
with them because they're they were an idiot, or like
they upset you, or because you don't like the relationship anymore.
And that was the tipping point, because I'm sorry if
I if I don't bring you. If we're in a
perfectly healthy relationship and I somehow forget to give you
chocolates and you break up with me, that's a little extreme,
(05:06):
don't you think.
Speaker 6 (05:07):
I don't think you'd forget though, if you were in
a health, yeah, loving relationship you want to forget.
Speaker 3 (05:11):
It's definitely something you clock like.
Speaker 4 (05:12):
I think it's not okay, I'm gonna break up with
you over this, but I think it's something that you
just like place in the back of your head and
you're like, Okay, that was interesting. Let me see if
anything else aligns with you know, the vibe that you
don't give hell about anything or want to or think
about me in any way. But definitely not over Valentine's Day.
But I've had Valentine's where I've been like, hmm, okay,
that's interesting. Let's put that in my pocket.
Speaker 2 (05:34):
And then uh yeah, looking at this text two two four,
It'll always be a test. My baby daddy gets me
stuff for Valentine's Day as the mother of his child.
So if he can my future boyfriend can.
Speaker 3 (05:46):
He says, I want to hear more about that relationship.
Speaker 1 (05:48):
Yeah, I kind of do too.
Speaker 2 (05:49):
Let's get her on the phone please, because that Yeah,
is he still gonna do that when you have a
boyfriend or a husband another guy? And like, is he
doing that because you're the mother of his child or
because he still wants to be.
Speaker 3 (05:59):
With you want his family back? Yeah, she just knows.
I never met this man. She knows you are.
Speaker 2 (06:05):
But what he what did he do to what disrupt
his family? I'd like to know what did this man do?
Speaker 1 (06:09):
Right?
Speaker 3 (06:09):
We need answers.
Speaker 2 (06:12):
Someone else said, not attest, just an excuse to go
to dinner and drink champagne.
Speaker 1 (06:16):
Is Valentine's teak?
Speaker 3 (06:17):
Oh yeah that's nice, make it whiskey. But I agree.
Speaker 1 (06:20):
I do love that.
Speaker 2 (06:22):
Someone said they saw commercial with us on NBC. We
have commercials, Yes we do. We do editing to one
of them. Wait a minute, stop it. Our TV commercials
are being edited by you. Yes, we don't even have
like a TV commercial person. I am that person. Yes, yes,
oh good lord.
Speaker 3 (06:41):
So she puts her beret on, gets a cigarette.
Speaker 2 (06:45):
She gets a cigarette with one of those long holders,
you know, like like like a Corilla Deville or whoever
you know, the long like take anything. Yeah, Oh, there's Emily.
Let's talk to Emily. Pauline. This is the woman.
Speaker 1 (06:55):
Emily.
Speaker 7 (06:56):
Hi.
Speaker 1 (06:57):
Hi, So you are that girl.
Speaker 2 (06:59):
You are that girl who's ex baby current baby daddy,
former ex. I guess whatever is still buying you Valentine's presence? Why?
Speaker 7 (07:10):
I don't know. I don't know what.
Speaker 1 (07:13):
Did he want to be with?
Speaker 7 (07:14):
You talked about like relationships and like it's not gonna
happen between us, and we're both fine with that.
Speaker 3 (07:20):
I'm assuming maybe he's not, but it seems like he is.
And yeah, he still gets me. Valentine's a gift every year.
Speaker 5 (07:28):
I'm go ahead, go ahead, it's just gonna ex. Is
he in a new relationship? No, okay, I'm sure if he.
Speaker 7 (07:34):
Was, he wouldn't be doing this.
Speaker 2 (07:35):
Yeah, yeah, I think you're right. Would you take him back?
I mean, why, why isn't it a thing?
Speaker 7 (07:41):
I don't know that's on him? Because I've tried for
the sake of my son, and we were best friends
before I got pregnant, and you know, things kind of
fell apart, but we rekindled and yeah, no, it just
it's not on his radar. I've come to terms with it.
So now I'm just like all right, like let's just
(08:05):
move on. And but he still gives me Valentine's Day gifts.
Speaker 2 (08:07):
Emily, I'm so confused because he's buying you Valentine's Day
gifts but he doesn't want to be with you romantically.
Speaker 1 (08:13):
Like that's that's I don't get that.
Speaker 3 (08:17):
My therapist is just as confused as you are.
Speaker 2 (08:20):
It's almost like some kind of weird breadcrumbing like once
a year, I just want to I just want to
remind you that I'm here, and I you know, I
once cared for you enough to be with you, but
now I kind of care but not enough to be
with you, you know what I mean.
Speaker 3 (08:32):
Yeah, no, it.
Speaker 7 (08:34):
Definitely it messes with me sometimes. I mean it did
definitely a few years ago, but I don't know. I
mean now it's just kind of like, oh, thanks, Like
maybe he's doing it because he thinks it's from my son, Like, oh, here,
give your mom a Valentine's Day gift, you're her Valentine.
Speaker 1 (08:52):
Well, Emily, I feel for.
Speaker 7 (08:53):
You because I come across that way.
Speaker 2 (08:56):
I thought this was going to be a different story.
I thought you were going to tell me that this
dude was like pining for you still and he was
doing all these things like Valentine's gestures to get you back,
and you were like, nah, not having it.
Speaker 1 (09:06):
But it turns out the dude's doing it. It's kind
of like a mind game.
Speaker 3 (09:10):
Yeah, yeah, no.
Speaker 7 (09:11):
And I told him like, you don't have to, you
don't have to, And I mean he still does. I
don't know if maybe like his mom always did it
for them, so he does it, you know, for anyone
like that's important in his life. I don't know, but.
Speaker 1 (09:28):
That's true, Emily.
Speaker 7 (09:29):
It's weird, but it'll always be a test because if
he can do it, someone else that loves.
Speaker 1 (09:36):
Me can and they will, Emily, and they will.
Speaker 3 (09:40):
And we love you and we love you.
Speaker 1 (09:43):
Happy Valentine.
Speaker 7 (09:44):
Guys.
Speaker 2 (09:46):
If we had any sort of prizes, I would give
you something, but we don't have the budget for that.
Speaker 1 (09:52):
Already getting gifts, right, Yeah, you're right.
Speaker 2 (09:57):
Anyway, thank you, have a great day Valentine's Day.
Speaker 3 (10:01):
Yeah you.
Speaker 2 (10:02):
This reminds me also of I don't know why this
reminds me of this, and Calin. I know your parents
got divorced. My parents got divorced when I was young,
and this only lasted a year or two. And I
don't know if you if this, if your parents did this,
but it reminds me of like come holiday time or
or Valentine's Day or birthdays, you know, when you're too
young to drive, You know, when you're eight or nine
years old, you can't go buy your your parents' presence.
(10:25):
And so one or the other would have to wind
up taking me to buy a gift for the other one,
even though they hated each other, because well you know,
they wanted me to be able to give one or
the other a gift on Christmas. I didn't have any money,
I couldn't drive anywhere, so like my father, and this
didn't This lasted like one year. Then he stopped but ah,
well then he stopped. He did, he stopped showing up,
(10:46):
but he stopped attending parenting, but he stopped coming as
a whole. But no, but so he would like take
me somewhere and he would buy whatever. You pick something
out for your mom, and then she would have to
take me somewhere and be like, all right, picked something
out for your father or whatever. I don't know why
that reminds me of that, but it's like it was
almost obligatory because there were kids involved.
Speaker 1 (11:06):
You know, you never did this.
Speaker 3 (11:08):
The hate was real deep, so that didn't happen.
Speaker 4 (11:11):
But my angel of a grandmother, my dad's mom and
nana took care about that for me. So thank God
for her, because no, they were not buying each other gifts.
Speaker 2 (11:19):
I don't know why that reminds me. It was almost like, well,
I'm giving this gift. I mean, this sounds more like
of a mind messing with the mind situation. But it's
almost like why I have to respect this lady because
she's the mother of my kid. But really, on Valentine's
did a message you're sending is that I love you?
Speaker 1 (11:32):
Still?
Speaker 4 (11:33):
Yeah?
Speaker 6 (11:33):
Free Emily please because he's doing something to try to
keep her around. Oh yeah, Like yeah.
Speaker 2 (11:39):
I agree. I thought that story was going to be different.
But anyway, TikTok has returned to the US app stores
of Apple and Google as of yesterday, as President Donald
Trump delayed its ban until April fifth and ensured the
companies they would not be fined for distributing or maintaining
the app. So for those people who spend fifteen grand
on eBay to get a phone that already had TikTok
on it because he deleted it.
Speaker 1 (12:00):
Sorry about that.
Speaker 2 (12:01):
And I guess now I can update my phone again,
because I literally turned all updates off on my phone
because I was afraid that somehow they would take TikTok
away from me.
Speaker 3 (12:09):
Smart.
Speaker 2 (12:11):
Smart, I guess now I can update my phone and
you know, like have features that have been developed in
the last several months. The Jets of New York, Jason Brown,
they have split with Aaron Rodgers and they say they
wish him the best in his future endeavors. After all that, Audios, audios.
Speaker 1 (12:29):
You are the sports reporter. Any thoughts on that?
Speaker 8 (12:31):
Yeah, he should be dumped over and over and over again.
He's a better person. I'm here for it. Down with
Aaron Rodgers, all right, fair enough, Thank you, Jason Brown,
Sports reporter. A family another day, another egg story. A
family has purchased fertilized chicken eggs from Trader Joe's and
brought them home, and then they decided to incubate them
(12:52):
and hatch them. So, according to this TikTok or, a
case of one dozen fertile eggs from Trader Joe's that
they bought twenty four days ago from the market eventually
hatched after just three days in the incubator. Now they
have eight baby chickens and soon to be no egg shortage.
Speaker 2 (13:09):
I guess, which is extreme. Now it might raise I
didn't know this. By the way, you can buy fertilized
eggs from the grocery store. You can buy fertilized eggs
from farms, and they are safe to consume because unless
they're incubated, I guess they're the same as any other egg,
or they look the same. So it says here there
are no adverse effects from eating a fertilized egg, nor
(13:30):
is there any taste difference. You can prepare and serve
fertilized eggs just as you would unfertilized ones, fertile eggs
and eggs that are laid by hens that have been
in contact with a rooster.
Speaker 1 (13:40):
I guess this is what a fertile egg is.
Speaker 2 (13:42):
Even if an egg is successfully fertilized, if it's refrigerated
right away, then the incubation process is halted. The only
way you would wind up with a homegrown batch of
chickens is by carefully incubating them at around one hundred
degrees fahrenheit.
Speaker 1 (13:56):
I didn't even know you could. I don't even know
why we have.
Speaker 2 (13:58):
A choice at the grocery store, right, Like, I mean,
I can understand what you might go to a you know,
if you want to raise chickens, you gotta go get
fertilized X. But I didn't realize you could go to
Trader Joe's and get like potstickers in fertilized eggs.
Speaker 3 (14:09):
No, that scares me.
Speaker 4 (14:10):
I don't want to be buying eggs and then a
little I don't know, I don't like that stuff. Sorry,
right right, It scares me enough when there's two yolks
in there.
Speaker 2 (14:18):
Oh yeah, there's an this story right here. It reminds
me sadly of only one thing, and the fact that
this is still happening. I'm pretty sure I will not
be having my birthday party this year on this but
an ultra luxury UFO submarine that can dive six hundred
and fifty feet under the ocean and host twelve hour
undersea parties is available to be rented out for all
(14:40):
night bashes. You can get married on this thing. It's
the Triton six sixty nine AVA equipped with surround sound,
mood lighting, and climate control for the ultimate custom experience.
The Florida based engineers they throughout the rule book when
designing the new model. It can transform into anything from
a casino to a cocktail bar during its twelve hour cruises.
(15:03):
I guess it's ten feet long and sixteen feet wide
seven and a half feet tall. No more than how
many people you can put on this thing. But and
it's not going anywhere near as low as that submersible
from whatever that was last year, the year before, the
one that sadly exploded. But I think I'm good on submarines.
Speaker 3 (15:19):
Yeah, that's not.
Speaker 1 (15:19):
That's just not like as a dude.
Speaker 2 (15:21):
Who gets claustrophobic, Like the submarine itself is claustrophobic, and
then the thought of being surrounded by that much water
is closed.
Speaker 1 (15:27):
I'm good.
Speaker 3 (15:28):
Wait, which one would you rather do? A cruise or
a submarine?
Speaker 1 (15:31):
If you have.
Speaker 2 (15:33):
Well, cruise has like buffets, ye, well, but then you
get you they have a casino.
Speaker 6 (15:40):
All true, true, But it's like double dragon, you know
what I mean? You can get or do you want
to just be in a submersible for like whatever?
Speaker 2 (15:47):
End?
Speaker 3 (15:47):
Of an hour.
Speaker 2 (15:48):
You're if you're forcing me to do one or the other.
I think double dragon on a submarine is way worth.
Speaker 5 (15:53):
At least you could jump off the cruise, okay, yeah
when I jump in okay boy?
Speaker 2 (15:58):
Yeah, well yeah yeah, no I think so. And then
this video I sent to Jason this morning is it
up on a on the interwebs. So go to Fredshire Radio.
This is not a game. This is a like Jason,
you saw the video, yep, A kayaker survived being swallowed
by a humpback whale because he spit the dude out.
(16:19):
But he's literally on a kayak in the ocean and
he's just kayaking with his dad or his friend or somebody,
and all of a sudden, no joke, you see the
mouth come up and swoop the whole dude up and
then just go back underwater. And his buddy was filming
this somehow, and it sit there going what just happened?
My friend just got eaten by a hump back well
(16:39):
and then about three seconds later it spits him back out.
But his friend said, I guess it was his father
who was on nearby kayaks. I thought he was dead.
I thought it had eaten him I thought it had
swallowed him. So the twenty four year old kayaker said
that he was still worried that he could die in
the freezing waters. They both managed to get to shore safely,
but if you watch his video fred Share Radio dot Com,
(17:00):
you will see a whale like yeah, I mean, I
don't even know. It was like doesn't this doesn't taste good?
Spits it out? I don't know, and so quickly too.
It was almost like whoa, what's in there? Yeah? I
don't want that. A fertilized egg. No, no, no, I
don't want that. It's National Cream Filled Chocolate's Day, very specific,
(17:20):
a Ferris Wheel Day, National organ Donor Day, and guys,
it's Valentine's Days. So happy Valentine's Sadie Entertainment report. Kaitlyn
has that next waiting by the phone that you cannot
miss on the way as well.
Speaker 1 (17:30):
It's the Fred Show. It's Friday.
Speaker 2 (17:33):
Yeah, they talk better than these are the radio blogs
on the Fred Shows like riding in our diaries, except
we say them aloud.
Speaker 1 (17:41):
We call them blogs. Kiki, Yes, I take it away,
dear blogs.
Speaker 5 (17:45):
So in the spirit of love, yesterday I got a
chance to interview my true soulmate in Love of my
Life Omarion, which is you know, a guy from a
boy band in the early early two thousand, yeah, ask us.
So as I was interviewing him, I decided to ask
my future husband, what is your love language?
Speaker 2 (18:06):
Now?
Speaker 3 (18:06):
This man named all of.
Speaker 5 (18:08):
Them, so I was like, Okay, that's not helpful, but
it made me think about it. What is my love language?
And I truly don't know. I really feel like I
don't know. And I was talking to some people online.
They said that there's a quiz that I can take
to kind of figure it out. Here's his gifts, you
think gifts.
Speaker 2 (18:26):
Well, if people don't know about love languages, there are
five of them. Words of affirmation, quality, time, physical touch,
acts of service, and receiving gifts. And the five love
languages describe different ways that people receive an express love
in a relationship. Okay, and so you're saying gifts for
Kiki Cahan.
Speaker 3 (18:46):
I think so.
Speaker 4 (18:47):
I mean not in a bad way, like I think
people are ashamed to say that that's their love language.
But I do think that it's there's more to it.
Like somebody thought of you, somebody knew what you wanted.
But I mean correct me if I'm wrong. No, I
think that might be right because I'm looking at the list.
Physical touch is not one of them, Like I don't.
Speaker 5 (19:03):
Need words of affirmation, Like I don't know. I think
that's yours. You think, so I think that's your other one.
Speaker 6 (19:12):
There's two that you can have because I feel like
you like receiving.
Speaker 3 (19:15):
I don't know. I don't compliments.
Speaker 6 (19:17):
Maybe I don't know the same thing, but I feel
like you also like receiving. I was like, Hey, great
job today, Kiki. I feel like you like that, unless
you don't know I do. I would love I would
love that.
Speaker 5 (19:25):
I don't know if I I think I would be
okay if I didn't have it, you know what I'm saying.
Like I would, I would tell myself good job. But
then here quality time. Nope, leave me alone. That's only
that there's no acts of service, is cool?
Speaker 2 (19:38):
You know?
Speaker 5 (19:38):
I like when my cars cleaned the driveway shovel, you know,
stuff like that. But yeah, I think you might be
right on the money with receiving gifts, So maybe that's mine.
Speaker 3 (19:46):
What is everybody else's love length.
Speaker 2 (19:48):
Paulie, And I would guess yours is the same as mine,
which is words of affirmation.
Speaker 6 (19:52):
Yeah, it doesn't work as much on me anymore, maybe
because like now my frontal lobe is a little more
about loved animal, so like, I feel like I kind
of started shifting.
Speaker 1 (20:00):
It's weird, but minus physical touch.
Speaker 6 (20:02):
Really, I'm always touching Hobby and he's not that guy
like he does not want to be touched, so like
it's always like a fight of like, babe, not right now.
Speaker 3 (20:09):
I don't want to be smothered.
Speaker 6 (20:10):
I don't want to be this and I love touching.
Speaker 3 (20:13):
People like I love touching you guys, and just pass
its true school like morning.
Speaker 6 (20:18):
Yeah, I do like touch.
Speaker 3 (20:23):
It's weird. I gotta stop. Maybe that's how you show love. Yeah, yeah,
I show love that way.
Speaker 1 (20:29):
I'm gonna say quality time.
Speaker 3 (20:30):
Cal, I don't know about that. That's cool.
Speaker 1 (20:36):
I I feel like I don't even know you anymore,
any of you. I'm like you guys.
Speaker 4 (20:43):
I think it's either words of affirmation or physical touch,
but only sometimes.
Speaker 3 (20:49):
But that is how I show like I'm a.
Speaker 4 (20:51):
Big toucher like touch, but I think it's words of
affirmation as well.
Speaker 1 (20:56):
Yeah, Jason, what are you? Then? I won't guess because
I guess I'm not getting it right.
Speaker 8 (21:03):
I think it's acts of service both ways. Like I
think I show people that I love and care about them,
but like doing things for them.
Speaker 1 (21:12):
I agree with that.
Speaker 8 (21:13):
Yeah, And it's weird because I don't like people doing
things for me unless Mike does something for me. Like
so I don't know if there's like a differentiation between
like you know, your partner versus like friends or whatever.
But like if he does something for me, like like
he said, like fix the car or whatever, then like
that's like how I'm like, Okay, he does care.
Speaker 3 (21:32):
Yeah, you know. Yeah, so I don't.
Speaker 2 (21:34):
Know how words of affirmation all day long, all day long,
And how do you show m Not physical touch?
Speaker 3 (21:45):
No, No, probably not.
Speaker 2 (21:47):
I would say acts of service or gift giving if
I'm really into you, but I yeah, I wouldn't say
I gravitate towards like I'm going to show you my
love by touching you.
Speaker 3 (21:57):
Yeah, you don't like to touch I was going, you know,
for a little hug or something, and you're like, oh,
get on.
Speaker 2 (22:05):
My mom and my sister are the most loving people.
Of course I grew up with them, you know, I
grew up in a house of women, and like they
think it's funny, Like my mom will come over and
like literally try and smother me. My sister's the same way.
They think it's hilarious because I don't not reciprocate, but
it's like it's just not my thing for some reason. Yeah,
words of eff. I want people to tell me that
(22:25):
I did a good job. I want people to tell
me that they like me. Yeah, even if sometimes I'm
not likable, might be rip see.
Speaker 5 (22:33):
Yeah, I'm telling you where's the affirmation? Where's the affirmation?
And definitely gifts. So I think everybody today should text
their partner what their love language is because I think
a lot of us get in relationships and expect people
to just know how to love us, and we haven't
even told them what our true love language is, especially
if you're like us and we're evolving and changing.
Speaker 1 (22:54):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (22:54):
Maybe when you got with Hobby it was affirmation, but
now it's touch and now I can't deal with it.
Speaker 3 (22:59):
You gotta tell your partner what you want. Yes, And yeah,
and my husband he is super what is it?
Speaker 1 (23:06):
Uh? Quality time?
Speaker 3 (23:07):
Okay?
Speaker 6 (23:08):
And one thing about Paulina and Paulina is not a
quality time girl, quality.
Speaker 3 (23:12):
Time as we're in on her out.
Speaker 6 (23:13):
Yeah, we could sit in the couch and be on
our phones and I could do work on my laptop.
You're here next to me. We're physically next to each other, right,
physical touch. But to him, that's not quality time. Like
he's so about your focus in yours and I don't
have that to give.
Speaker 4 (23:25):
That's a good point, Kiki, because I my boyfriend the
way he shows.
Speaker 3 (23:28):
Love, his acts of service. But I always have.
Speaker 4 (23:30):
To gently say, sometimes we're too helpful sometimes, like he
tried to unpack my suitcase, God bless him, but like
he put everything in the wrong place.
Speaker 3 (23:39):
You know what I mean. Sometimes we can help too much.
Speaker 4 (23:41):
Now I love, I love that you want to help,
but sometimes it's too much.
Speaker 3 (23:45):
Yeah, I love.
Speaker 1 (23:46):
Huh.
Speaker 2 (23:46):
Okay, Well, hey, by the way, since we're talking to
the third person, if you could tell Paulina that I
thought that words of affirmation were Paulina's things. They are
just like tell me as all your teammates, like I
believe it or not, I really focus on like try
to do those like appeal to each of you in
the right way. And maybe this would explain why I'm
not because I don't don't have any of them right
(24:08):
Waiting by the phone.
Speaker 1 (24:08):
You've got to hear it. It's next in two minutes.
It's a fresh show. This is what's trending.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
Oh and so it begins. Delta Airlines, your flight may
be affected by inclement weather. Oh no, no, no, no
no no no no no no no no, no, no
no no. I've enjoyed. I've enjoyed my time in Salt
Lake City. I've enjoyed meeting everybody who works here. Almost
everybody who works here, I've enjoyed, and almost every almost
(00:25):
everybody who works here has been kind to us, incredibly,
incredibly kind, to be honest with you, like amazing people here.
And I think our show is going to do really well,
and I'm excited, and I want to thank all the
people in Salt Lake City who listen, and all the
people in Chicago who have been putting up with us
talking about you know, our show growing a little bit,
But it only happens because of the thirteen, the original thirteen,
you know who made us this show, made us like this.
Speaker 1 (00:48):
You made us like this. You did this right you.
Speaker 2 (00:51):
You decided to support our mental illness and whatever this
is by listening to it a lot so much that
they decided to put it on other places, and other
poor people have to be exposed to it. So, and
I just want to thank everybody for the hospitality. But
it's ready to I'm ready to go home.
Speaker 3 (01:05):
It's ready to go.
Speaker 4 (01:07):
There were things I wanted to go line dancing. Our
girl Joyce sent us a line dancing place. I have
restaurants I need you to try if you go ahead
and sent it to me since I may not be leaving. Yeah, anytimes,
you know'll go ahead, just get an apartment. You should
Uh inclement weather, I mean maybe I will, maybe I will.
Speaker 1 (01:23):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (01:24):
We have lots of friends here now, you know, lots
of lots of new supporters. It's it's it's fascinating. But anyway,
I'm going one way or another. I will return home tomorrow.
It's time, you know, it's time. This business trips lasted
too long. Well, I think, well, Kiki's coming here tonight
to go to dinner with me for Valentine's Day, so
we're both maybe going to be stuck here to the
rest of our lives.
Speaker 3 (01:44):
I'll have the elk for two please.
Speaker 2 (01:46):
Yeahky do you like uh? Do you like elk meat?
Because I know just where to go.
Speaker 3 (01:51):
I can't say I doon.
Speaker 1 (01:58):
I got that too.
Speaker 2 (01:59):
Guys, most Americans aren't buying into the Valentine's State hype.
It turns out, well, I mean I think there's hype, right,
I mean everywhere you go this time of year, it's
a commercial holiday. You go into Target, you go into
you know wherever, it's flowers.
Speaker 3 (02:14):
In Saint Valentine's Valentine.
Speaker 2 (02:17):
He was, yeah, Well, a new survey shows it nearly
two third. It gets your own segment for you. Kylen's
fun fact doesn't work as well. A new survey shows
that nearly two thirds of people sixty four percent, I
think the holiday is overrated. However, there are, of course,
plenty of people who take Valentine's State pretty seriously. In fact,
they talk to two thousand people. One in six say
this year could actually make or break their relationship.
Speaker 1 (02:41):
So here's what I want to know. I'm going to
go on with the rest of the stories.
Speaker 2 (02:45):
But eight five five five three five, whether it's this
year or whether it happened in the past, is Valentine's
Day for you a test? Because we were talking about
this outside yesterday outside the studio, and it was, you know,
people saying, ah, my wife, my girlfriend says she doesn't
want anything.
Speaker 1 (03:03):
It's like, dude, get something.
Speaker 2 (03:04):
Go get a card, get it a little you know whatever,
her favorite candy, you know something something.
Speaker 1 (03:12):
Don't fall for that.
Speaker 2 (03:13):
Don't fall for the She doesn't want to be acknowledged
on a holiday about love and I love her or him,
don't do not fall for that. And it doesn't have
to be a grand gesture, because I know there are
people who don't like Valentine's Day. My sister, on the
other hand, it's her favorite holiday. Oh cute, and so
it always has been. And so like everybody in the
family used to send her stuff on Valentine's Day And uh, well,
(03:36):
now that's collins job, so he has to do it.
But he knows, he knows the assignment. But I just
wonder if and for you guys has Valentine's Day? And
I think I know the answer. But as Valentine's say,
ever been a make or break thing, like where you
sit back and go, is this person going to make
an effort for me on this day?
Speaker 1 (03:49):
Or not?
Speaker 5 (03:51):
Not a make or break? But it's it's it's it's something. Yeah, yeah,
make the effort. You have to make the make the effort. Yeah,
well how's this?
Speaker 2 (03:58):
How is a big tiam going to make the effort
when he got you know, a little sickness out of
both sides today, I don't know.
Speaker 5 (04:04):
You better order something, you know, like he can order
something to the house. I don't know. Put to put something,
make lux do something. I don't know.
Speaker 1 (04:12):
You get the dog, do something.
Speaker 5 (04:14):
Okay, you gotta put in some type of effort over
the top, but it's something.
Speaker 2 (04:20):
Yeah, But it's the same. It's the same with the
only fans lady. If if you know, she's claiming that
nobody wants to go out with her on VALENTINE'SDY because
of her things or whatever. If if you are breaking
up with someone on Valentine's DA because they didn't get
you a Valentine's Day present, I would imagine that there
are bigger problems than that.
Speaker 6 (04:36):
That's the right point, yeah, because then that would be
like a form of uh like resentment, right, because you're
already like questioning, am I going to get anything? And
then you don't, and then that kind of answers your question.
Speaker 2 (04:46):
But you can be annoyed if you don't get a
card or something for Valentine's say, but you're not breaking
up with someone simply because they didn't. You're breaking up
with them because they're they were an idiot, or like
they upset you, or because you don't like the relationship anymore.
And that was the tipping point, because I'm sorry if
I if I don't bring you. If we're in a
perfectly healthy relationship and I somehow forget to give you
chocolates and you break up with me, that's a little extreme,
(05:06):
don't you think.
Speaker 6 (05:07):
I don't think you'd forget though, if you were in
a health, yeah, loving relationship you want to forget.
Speaker 3 (05:11):
It's definitely something you clock like.
Speaker 4 (05:12):
I think it's not okay, I'm gonna break up with
you over this, but I think it's something that you
just like place in the back of your head and
you're like, Okay, that was interesting. Let me see if
anything else aligns with you know, the vibe that you
don't give hell about anything or want to or think
about me in any way. But definitely not over Valentine's Day.
But I've had Valentine's where I've been like, hmm, okay,
that's interesting. Let's put that in my pocket.
Speaker 2 (05:34):
And then uh yeah, looking at this text two two four,
It'll always be a test. My baby daddy gets me
stuff for Valentine's Day as the mother of his child.
So if he can my future boyfriend can.
Speaker 3 (05:46):
He says, I want to hear more about that relationship.
Speaker 1 (05:48):
Yeah, I kind of do too.
Speaker 2 (05:49):
Let's get her on the phone please, because that Yeah,
is he still gonna do that when you have a
boyfriend or a husband another guy? And like, is he
doing that because you're the mother of his child or
because he still wants to be.
Speaker 3 (05:59):
With you want his family back? Yeah, she just knows.
I never met this man. She knows you are.
Speaker 2 (06:05):
But what he what did he do to what disrupt
his family? I'd like to know what did this man do?
Speaker 1 (06:09):
Right?
Speaker 3 (06:09):
We need answers.
Speaker 2 (06:12):
Someone else said, not attest, just an excuse to go
to dinner and drink champagne.
Speaker 1 (06:16):
Is Valentine's teak?
Speaker 3 (06:17):
Oh yeah that's nice, make it whiskey. But I agree.
Speaker 1 (06:20):
I do love that.
Speaker 2 (06:22):
Someone said they saw commercial with us on NBC. We
have commercials, Yes we do. We do editing to one
of them. Wait a minute, stop it. Our TV commercials
are being edited by you. Yes, we don't even have
like a TV commercial person. I am that person. Yes, yes,
oh good lord.
Speaker 3 (06:41):
So she puts her beret on, gets a cigarette.
Speaker 2 (06:45):
She gets a cigarette with one of those long holders,
you know, like like like a Corilla Deville or whoever
you know, the long like take anything. Yeah, Oh, there's Emily.
Let's talk to Emily. Pauline. This is the woman.
Speaker 1 (06:55):
Emily.
Speaker 7 (06:56):
Hi.
Speaker 1 (06:57):
Hi, So you are that girl.
Speaker 2 (06:59):
You are that girl who's ex baby current baby daddy,
former ex. I guess whatever is still buying you Valentine's presence? Why?
Speaker 7 (07:10):
I don't know. I don't know what.
Speaker 1 (07:13):
Did he want to be with?
Speaker 7 (07:14):
You talked about like relationships and like it's not gonna
happen between us, and we're both fine with that.
Speaker 3 (07:20):
I'm assuming maybe he's not, but it seems like he is.
And yeah, he still gets me. Valentine's a gift every year.
Speaker 5 (07:28):
I'm go ahead, go ahead, it's just gonna ex. Is
he in a new relationship? No, okay, I'm sure if he.
Speaker 7 (07:34):
Was, he wouldn't be doing this.
Speaker 2 (07:35):
Yeah, yeah, I think you're right. Would you take him back?
I mean, why, why isn't it a thing?
Speaker 7 (07:41):
I don't know that's on him? Because I've tried for
the sake of my son, and we were best friends
before I got pregnant, and you know, things kind of
fell apart, but we rekindled and yeah, no, it just
it's not on his radar. I've come to terms with it.
So now I'm just like all right, like let's just
(08:05):
move on. And but he still gives me Valentine's Day gifts.
Speaker 2 (08:07):
Emily, I'm so confused because he's buying you Valentine's Day
gifts but he doesn't want to be with you romantically.
Speaker 1 (08:13):
Like that's that's I don't get that.
Speaker 3 (08:17):
My therapist is just as confused as you are.
Speaker 2 (08:20):
It's almost like some kind of weird breadcrumbing like once
a year, I just want to I just want to
remind you that I'm here, and I you know, I
once cared for you enough to be with you, but
now I kind of care but not enough to be
with you, you know what I mean.
Speaker 3 (08:32):
Yeah, no, it.
Speaker 7 (08:34):
Definitely it messes with me sometimes. I mean it did
definitely a few years ago, but I don't know. I
mean now it's just kind of like, oh, thanks, Like
maybe he's doing it because he thinks it's from my son, Like, oh, here,
give your mom a Valentine's Day gift, you're her Valentine.
Speaker 1 (08:52):
Well, Emily, I feel for.
Speaker 7 (08:53):
You because I come across that way.
Speaker 2 (08:56):
I thought this was going to be a different story.
I thought you were going to tell me that this
dude was like pining for you still and he was
doing all these things like Valentine's gestures to get you back,
and you were like, nah, not having it.
Speaker 1 (09:06):
But it turns out the dude's doing it. It's kind
of like a mind game.
Speaker 3 (09:10):
Yeah, yeah, no.
Speaker 7 (09:11):
And I told him like, you don't have to, you
don't have to, And I mean he still does. I
don't know if maybe like his mom always did it
for them, so he does it, you know, for anyone
like that's important in his life. I don't know, but.
Speaker 1 (09:28):
That's true, Emily.
Speaker 7 (09:29):
It's weird, but it'll always be a test because if
he can do it, someone else that loves.
Speaker 1 (09:36):
Me can and they will, Emily, and they will.
Speaker 3 (09:40):
And we love you and we love you.
Speaker 1 (09:43):
Happy Valentine.
Speaker 7 (09:44):
Guys.
Speaker 2 (09:46):
If we had any sort of prizes, I would give
you something, but we don't have the budget for that.
Speaker 1 (09:52):
Already getting gifts, right, Yeah, you're right.
Speaker 2 (09:57):
Anyway, thank you, have a great day Valentine's Day.
Speaker 3 (10:01):
Yeah you.
Speaker 2 (10:02):
This reminds me also of I don't know why this
reminds me of this, and Calin. I know your parents
got divorced. My parents got divorced when I was young,
and this only lasted a year or two. And I
don't know if you if this, if your parents did this,
but it reminds me of like come holiday time or
or Valentine's Day or birthdays, you know, when you're too
young to drive, You know, when you're eight or nine
years old, you can't go buy your your parents' presence.
(10:25):
And so one or the other would have to wind
up taking me to buy a gift for the other one,
even though they hated each other, because well you know,
they wanted me to be able to give one or
the other a gift on Christmas. I didn't have any money,
I couldn't drive anywhere, so like my father, and this
didn't This lasted like one year. Then he stopped but ah,
well then he stopped. He did, he stopped showing up,
(10:46):
but he stopped attending parenting, but he stopped coming as
a whole. But no, but so he would like take
me somewhere and he would buy whatever. You pick something
out for your mom, and then she would have to
take me somewhere and be like, all right, picked something
out for your father or whatever. I don't know why
that reminds me of that, but it's like it was
almost obligatory because there were kids involved.
Speaker 1 (11:06):
You know, you never did this.
Speaker 3 (11:08):
The hate was real deep, so that didn't happen.
Speaker 4 (11:11):
But my angel of a grandmother, my dad's mom and
nana took care about that for me. So thank God
for her, because no, they were not buying each other gifts.
Speaker 2 (11:19):
I don't know why that reminds me. It was almost like, well,
I'm giving this gift. I mean, this sounds more like
of a mind messing with the mind situation. But it's
almost like why I have to respect this lady because
she's the mother of my kid. But really, on Valentine's
did a message you're sending is that I love you?
Speaker 1 (11:32):
Still?
Speaker 4 (11:33):
Yeah?
Speaker 6 (11:33):
Free Emily please because he's doing something to try to
keep her around. Oh yeah, Like yeah.
Speaker 2 (11:39):
I agree. I thought that story was going to be different.
But anyway, TikTok has returned to the US app stores
of Apple and Google as of yesterday, as President Donald
Trump delayed its ban until April fifth and ensured the
companies they would not be fined for distributing or maintaining
the app. So for those people who spend fifteen grand
on eBay to get a phone that already had TikTok
on it because he deleted it.
Speaker 1 (12:00):
Sorry about that.
Speaker 2 (12:01):
And I guess now I can update my phone again,
because I literally turned all updates off on my phone
because I was afraid that somehow they would take TikTok
away from me.
Speaker 3 (12:09):
Smart.
Speaker 2 (12:11):
Smart, I guess now I can update my phone and
you know, like have features that have been developed in
the last several months. The Jets of New York, Jason Brown,
they have split with Aaron Rodgers and they say they
wish him the best in his future endeavors. After all that, Audios, audios.
Speaker 1 (12:29):
You are the sports reporter. Any thoughts on that?
Speaker 8 (12:31):
Yeah, he should be dumped over and over and over again.
He's a better person. I'm here for it. Down with
Aaron Rodgers, all right, fair enough, Thank you, Jason Brown,
Sports reporter. A family another day, another egg story. A
family has purchased fertilized chicken eggs from Trader Joe's and
brought them home, and then they decided to incubate them
(12:52):
and hatch them. So, according to this TikTok or, a
case of one dozen fertile eggs from Trader Joe's that
they bought twenty four days ago from the market eventually
hatched after just three days in the incubator. Now they
have eight baby chickens and soon to be no egg shortage.
Speaker 2 (13:09):
I guess, which is extreme. Now it might raise I
didn't know this. By the way, you can buy fertilized
eggs from the grocery store. You can buy fertilized eggs
from farms, and they are safe to consume because unless
they're incubated, I guess they're the same as any other egg,
or they look the same. So it says here there
are no adverse effects from eating a fertilized egg, nor
(13:30):
is there any taste difference. You can prepare and serve
fertilized eggs just as you would unfertilized ones, fertile eggs
and eggs that are laid by hens that have been
in contact with a rooster.
Speaker 1 (13:40):
I guess this is what a fertile egg is.
Speaker 2 (13:42):
Even if an egg is successfully fertilized, if it's refrigerated
right away, then the incubation process is halted. The only
way you would wind up with a homegrown batch of
chickens is by carefully incubating them at around one hundred
degrees fahrenheit.
Speaker 1 (13:56):
I didn't even know you could. I don't even know
why we have.
Speaker 2 (13:58):
A choice at the grocery store, right, Like, I mean,
I can understand what you might go to a you know,
if you want to raise chickens, you gotta go get
fertilized X. But I didn't realize you could go to
Trader Joe's and get like potstickers in fertilized eggs.
Speaker 3 (14:09):
No, that scares me.
Speaker 4 (14:10):
I don't want to be buying eggs and then a
little I don't know, I don't like that stuff. Sorry,
right right, It scares me enough when there's two yolks
in there.
Speaker 2 (14:18):
Oh yeah, there's an this story right here. It reminds
me sadly of only one thing, and the fact that
this is still happening. I'm pretty sure I will not
be having my birthday party this year on this but
an ultra luxury UFO submarine that can dive six hundred
and fifty feet under the ocean and host twelve hour
undersea parties is available to be rented out for all
(14:40):
night bashes. You can get married on this thing. It's
the Triton six sixty nine AVA equipped with surround sound,
mood lighting, and climate control for the ultimate custom experience.
The Florida based engineers they throughout the rule book when
designing the new model. It can transform into anything from
a casino to a cocktail bar during its twelve hour cruises.
(15:03):
I guess it's ten feet long and sixteen feet wide
seven and a half feet tall. No more than how
many people you can put on this thing. But and
it's not going anywhere near as low as that submersible
from whatever that was last year, the year before, the
one that sadly exploded. But I think I'm good on submarines.
Speaker 3 (15:19):
Yeah, that's not.
Speaker 1 (15:19):
That's just not like as a dude.
Speaker 2 (15:21):
Who gets claustrophobic, Like the submarine itself is claustrophobic, and
then the thought of being surrounded by that much water
is closed.
Speaker 1 (15:27):
I'm good.
Speaker 3 (15:28):
Wait, which one would you rather do? A cruise or
a submarine?
Speaker 1 (15:31):
If you have.
Speaker 2 (15:33):
Well, cruise has like buffets, ye, well, but then you
get you they have a casino.
Speaker 6 (15:40):
All true, true, But it's like double dragon, you know
what I mean? You can get or do you want
to just be in a submersible for like whatever?
Speaker 2 (15:47):
End?
Speaker 3 (15:47):
Of an hour.
Speaker 2 (15:48):
You're if you're forcing me to do one or the other.
I think double dragon on a submarine is way worth.
Speaker 5 (15:53):
At least you could jump off the cruise, okay, yeah
when I jump in okay boy?
Speaker 2 (15:58):
Yeah, well yeah yeah, no I think so. And then
this video I sent to Jason this morning is it
up on a on the interwebs. So go to Fredshire Radio.
This is not a game. This is a like Jason,
you saw the video, yep, A kayaker survived being swallowed
by a humpback whale because he spit the dude out.
(16:19):
But he's literally on a kayak in the ocean and
he's just kayaking with his dad or his friend or somebody,
and all of a sudden, no joke, you see the
mouth come up and swoop the whole dude up and
then just go back underwater. And his buddy was filming
this somehow, and it sit there going what just happened?
My friend just got eaten by a hump back well
(16:39):
and then about three seconds later it spits him back out.
But his friend said, I guess it was his father
who was on nearby kayaks. I thought he was dead.
I thought it had eaten him I thought it had
swallowed him. So the twenty four year old kayaker said
that he was still worried that he could die in
the freezing waters. They both managed to get to shore safely,
but if you watch his video fred Share Radio dot Com,
(17:00):
you will see a whale like yeah, I mean, I
don't even know. It was like doesn't this doesn't taste good?
Spits it out? I don't know, and so quickly too.
It was almost like whoa, what's in there? Yeah? I
don't want that. A fertilized egg. No, no, no, I
don't want that. It's National Cream Filled Chocolate's Day, very specific,
(17:20):
a Ferris Wheel Day, National organ Donor Day, and guys,
it's Valentine's Days. So happy Valentine's Sadie Entertainment report. Kaitlyn
has that next waiting by the phone that you cannot
miss on the way as well.
Speaker 1 (17:30):
It's the Fred Show. It's Friday.
Speaker 2 (17:33):
Yeah, they talk better than these are the radio blogs
on the Fred Shows like riding in our diaries, except
we say them aloud.
Speaker 1 (17:41):
We call them blogs. Kiki, Yes, I take it away,
dear blogs.
Speaker 5 (17:45):
So in the spirit of love, yesterday I got a
chance to interview my true soulmate in Love of my
Life Omarion, which is you know, a guy from a
boy band in the early early two thousand, yeah, ask us.
So as I was interviewing him, I decided to ask
my future husband, what is your love language?
Speaker 2 (18:06):
Now?
Speaker 3 (18:06):
This man named all of.
Speaker 5 (18:08):
Them, so I was like, Okay, that's not helpful, but
it made me think about it. What is my love language?
And I truly don't know. I really feel like I
don't know. And I was talking to some people online.
They said that there's a quiz that I can take
to kind of figure it out. Here's his gifts, you
think gifts.
Speaker 2 (18:26):
Well, if people don't know about love languages, there are
five of them. Words of affirmation, quality, time, physical touch,
acts of service, and receiving gifts. And the five love
languages describe different ways that people receive an express love
in a relationship. Okay, and so you're saying gifts for
Kiki Cahan.
Speaker 3 (18:46):
I think so.
Speaker 4 (18:47):
I mean not in a bad way, like I think
people are ashamed to say that that's their love language.
But I do think that it's there's more to it.
Like somebody thought of you, somebody knew what you wanted.
But I mean correct me if I'm wrong. No, I
think that might be right because I'm looking at the list.
Physical touch is not one of them, Like I don't.
Speaker 5 (19:03):
Need words of affirmation, Like I don't know. I think
that's yours. You think, so I think that's your other one.
Speaker 6 (19:12):
There's two that you can have because I feel like
you like receiving.
Speaker 3 (19:15):
I don't know. I don't compliments.
Speaker 6 (19:17):
Maybe I don't know the same thing, but I feel
like you also like receiving. I was like, Hey, great
job today, Kiki. I feel like you like that, unless
you don't know I do. I would love I would
love that.
Speaker 5 (19:25):
I don't know if I I think I would be
okay if I didn't have it, you know what I'm saying.
Like I would, I would tell myself good job. But
then here quality time. Nope, leave me alone. That's only
that there's no acts of service, is cool?
Speaker 2 (19:38):
You know?
Speaker 5 (19:38):
I like when my cars cleaned the driveway shovel, you know,
stuff like that. But yeah, I think you might be
right on the money with receiving gifts, So maybe that's mine.
Speaker 3 (19:46):
What is everybody else's love length.
Speaker 2 (19:48):
Paulie, And I would guess yours is the same as mine,
which is words of affirmation.
Speaker 6 (19:52):
Yeah, it doesn't work as much on me anymore, maybe
because like now my frontal lobe is a little more
about loved animal, so like, I feel like I kind
of started shifting.
Speaker 1 (20:00):
It's weird, but minus physical touch.
Speaker 6 (20:02):
Really, I'm always touching Hobby and he's not that guy
like he does not want to be touched, so like
it's always like a fight of like, babe, not right now.
Speaker 3 (20:09):
I don't want to be smothered.
Speaker 6 (20:10):
I don't want to be this and I love touching.
Speaker 3 (20:13):
People like I love touching you guys, and just pass
its true school like morning.
Speaker 6 (20:18):
Yeah, I do like touch.
Speaker 3 (20:23):
It's weird. I gotta stop. Maybe that's how you show love. Yeah, yeah,
I show love that way.
Speaker 1 (20:29):
I'm gonna say quality time.
Speaker 3 (20:30):
Cal, I don't know about that. That's cool.
Speaker 1 (20:36):
I I feel like I don't even know you anymore,
any of you. I'm like you guys.
Speaker 4 (20:43):
I think it's either words of affirmation or physical touch,
but only sometimes.
Speaker 3 (20:49):
But that is how I show like I'm a.
Speaker 4 (20:51):
Big toucher like touch, but I think it's words of
affirmation as well.
Speaker 1 (20:56):
Yeah, Jason, what are you? Then? I won't guess because
I guess I'm not getting it right.
Speaker 8 (21:03):
I think it's acts of service both ways. Like I
think I show people that I love and care about them,
but like doing things for them.
Speaker 1 (21:12):
I agree with that.
Speaker 8 (21:13):
Yeah, And it's weird because I don't like people doing
things for me unless Mike does something for me. Like
so I don't know if there's like a differentiation between
like you know, your partner versus like friends or whatever.
But like if he does something for me, like like
he said, like fix the car or whatever, then like
that's like how I'm like, Okay, he does care.
Speaker 3 (21:32):
Yeah, you know. Yeah, so I don't.
Speaker 2 (21:34):
Know how words of affirmation all day long, all day long,
And how do you show m Not physical touch?
Speaker 3 (21:45):
No, No, probably not.
Speaker 2 (21:47):
I would say acts of service or gift giving if
I'm really into you, but I yeah, I wouldn't say
I gravitate towards like I'm going to show you my
love by touching you.
Speaker 3 (21:57):
Yeah, you don't like to touch I was going, you know,
for a little hug or something, and you're like, oh,
get on.
Speaker 2 (22:05):
My mom and my sister are the most loving people.
Of course I grew up with them, you know, I
grew up in a house of women, and like they
think it's funny, Like my mom will come over and
like literally try and smother me. My sister's the same way.
They think it's hilarious because I don't not reciprocate, but
it's like it's just not my thing for some reason. Yeah,
words of eff. I want people to tell me that
(22:25):
I did a good job. I want people to tell
me that they like me. Yeah, even if sometimes I'm
not likable, might be rip see.
Speaker 5 (22:33):
Yeah, I'm telling you where's the affirmation? Where's the affirmation?
And definitely gifts. So I think everybody today should text
their partner what their love language is because I think
a lot of us get in relationships and expect people
to just know how to love us, and we haven't
even told them what our true love language is, especially
if you're like us and we're evolving and changing.
Speaker 1 (22:54):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (22:54):
Maybe when you got with Hobby it was affirmation, but
now it's touch and now I can't deal with it.
Speaker 3 (22:59):
You gotta tell your partner what you want. Yes, And yeah,
and my husband he is super what is it?
Speaker 1 (23:06):
Uh? Quality time?
Speaker 3 (23:07):
Okay?
Speaker 6 (23:08):
And one thing about Paulina and Paulina is not a
quality time girl, quality.
Speaker 3 (23:12):
Time as we're in on her out.
Speaker 6 (23:13):
Yeah, we could sit in the couch and be on
our phones and I could do work on my laptop.
You're here next to me. We're physically next to each other, right,
physical touch. But to him, that's not quality time. Like
he's so about your focus in yours and I don't
have that to give.
Speaker 4 (23:25):
That's a good point, Kiki, because I my boyfriend the
way he shows.
Speaker 3 (23:28):
Love, his acts of service. But I always have.
Speaker 4 (23:30):
To gently say, sometimes we're too helpful sometimes, like he
tried to unpack my suitcase, God bless him, but like
he put everything in the wrong place.
Speaker 3 (23:39):
You know what I mean. Sometimes we can help too much.
Speaker 4 (23:41):
Now I love, I love that you want to help,
but sometimes it's too much.
Speaker 3 (23:45):
Yeah, I love.
Speaker 1 (23:46):
Huh.
Speaker 2 (23:46):
Okay, Well, hey, by the way, since we're talking to
the third person, if you could tell Paulina that I
thought that words of affirmation were Paulina's things. They are
just like tell me as all your teammates, like I
believe it or not, I really focus on like try
to do those like appeal to each of you in
the right way. And maybe this would explain why I'm
not because I don't don't have any of them right
(24:08):
Waiting by the phone.
Speaker 1 (24:08):
You've got to hear it. It's next in two minutes.
The Fred Show On Demand News
Show Links
Official WebsitePopular Podcasts
Las Culturistas with Matt Rogers and Bowen Yang
Ding dong! Join your culture consultants, Matt Rogers and Bowen Yang, on an unforgettable journey into the beating heart of CULTURE. Alongside sizzling special guests, they GET INTO the hottest pop-culture moments of the day and the formative cultural experiences that turned them into Culturistas. Produced by the Big Money Players Network and iHeartRadio.
On Purpose with Jay Shetty
I’m Jay Shetty host of On Purpose the worlds #1 Mental Health podcast and I’m so grateful you found us. I started this podcast 5 years ago to invite you into conversations and workshops that are designed to help make you happier, healthier and more healed. I believe that when you (yes you) feel seen, heard and understood you’re able to deal with relationship struggles, work challenges and life’s ups and downs with more ease and grace. I interview experts, celebrities, thought leaders and athletes so that we can grow our mindset, build better habits and uncover a side of them we’ve never seen before. New episodes every Monday and Friday. Your support means the world to me and I don’t take it for granted — click the follow button and leave a review to help us spread the love with On Purpose. I can’t wait for you to listen to your first or 500th episode!
Dateline NBC
Current and classic episodes, featuring compelling true-crime mysteries, powerful documentaries and in-depth investigations. Follow now to get the latest episodes of Dateline NBC completely free, or subscribe to Dateline Premium for ad-free listening and exclusive bonus content: DatelinePremium.com