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June 10, 2024 29 mins

During today's show, we talked about kid's dance recitals, playing music at the pool, and household sports rivalries! 

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Ruvio, Did you do anything to advance society over the weekend?

Speaker 2 (00:05):
Uh?

Speaker 3 (00:05):
Yeah, I went to my niece's What it's I wrote
it in the in the in the sheet, it's I
went to my niece's dance recital and they did an
amazing job, like they had they're seven and five, and
they crushed it.

Speaker 4 (00:18):
They were in the front and doing everything.

Speaker 3 (00:19):
But dance companies, that's a racket, Like there's people wasting them,
their parents wasting their money, like.

Speaker 5 (00:28):
Their kids have no talent.

Speaker 4 (00:29):
Like there's like three year olds.

Speaker 3 (00:31):
That go out there, you know, the teacher brings them
out there, and the teacher's literally standing next to I'm
doing step by step and the kids just standing there.

Speaker 5 (00:39):
Well, how are you supposed to learn?

Speaker 4 (00:40):
Well, that's what you take the classes for. That's what
I'm assuming. There's three years old that I watched our food.

Speaker 3 (00:49):
Our friend who's also three years old, had her first
dance recital, and that girl was doing like three numbers.

Speaker 4 (00:55):
And but that's what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (00:58):
It's a racket, like like there's kids that go out
there and then just stand there and don't do any
of this.

Speaker 1 (01:04):
You can't figure out that your kid sucks at something
until you let them try it. And by the way,
I mean, some kids suck at stuff and then they
get better at it. That's isn't the point taking lessons? Yeah,
but I'm just saying criticizing the ability of a three
year right.

Speaker 6 (01:17):
No.

Speaker 4 (01:17):
No, I would like I would feel as a parent.

Speaker 3 (01:20):
I would feel like I'm wasting my money if my
kid went to classes every week for six months to
a year and then it's recital time and they just
stand there and don't do any game.

Speaker 4 (01:32):
Once they get on stage, they don't know until what
that's either on the dance company or that's on the parents.

Speaker 3 (01:38):
Like the dance company should have some kind of a
rehearsal where there's an audience, you know what I mean.

Speaker 1 (01:44):
Look, I agree that my parents should sue my school
for twelve years of Spanish and I can't remember very
much of it, and twelve years of athletics and I
was the captain every year and I still sucked.

Speaker 5 (01:54):
Yes, they should sue, but.

Speaker 1 (01:55):
My parents still went to every game, and my whole
family went to every game, And I think I want
to I don't think I can count on one hand
the number of games we won in four years. But
parents still win, and they knew I sucked, and everyone
else knew I sucked. You just go support your kid
because at the time I enjoyed it.

Speaker 3 (02:09):
I mean then it's also it's on the parenting as well,
because like my nieces were practicing at home, like with
their parents and doing the recite.

Speaker 1 (02:16):
I'm so scared for Ashland same if what if you
put him in a sport and he's not the best
at it.

Speaker 3 (02:22):
Then we're gonna pick a different sport if he doesn't
want to do it. I think he's doing soccer, Like
he's over soccer already. He starts t ball lessons on Tuesday,
So what happens They freeze?

Speaker 7 (02:33):
Yeah, I mean I was in dance. There were always
the little girls who got scared. I mean it's intimidating
when you look out and see everyone you were practicing
in a studio.

Speaker 4 (02:41):
And they're three, Like, let's keep that kid.

Speaker 1 (02:43):
Like your kid can't be the best at everything, No,
Like there's gonna be a worst.

Speaker 3 (02:47):
Like everyone in the class is not doing like one
movement the song was telling these kids what to do,
like lift your foot up, put it down, turn around,
and nobody's doing anything.

Speaker 1 (03:01):
This man's a parent, and I'm the one going asking
for a refund.

Speaker 4 (03:08):
Crazy, there are three. I don't know, man, I don't know.

Speaker 3 (03:15):
But like I said to a friend, her daughter was
in a dance recital over the weekend and she was
putting on a clinic.

Speaker 4 (03:22):
Well, let me tell you.

Speaker 5 (03:24):
Yeah, but that's what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (03:26):
It's also on the parent that you gotta do it too.
But I'm just saying, like, if the music is telling you, hey,
turn around, docy do whatever.

Speaker 1 (03:37):
You know, do her interpretive dancing. I'll have to post
a video plays a bit of an interpretive dancer. She
doesn't follow the instructions. And you have a three year old.
She's three. That girl does whatever she wants. She's not
paying attention to anybody. The other day, she asked if
she could call me on FaceTime, and then when my
sister got her on the phone, she was too busy

(03:57):
to talk to me. Literally said I'm sorry, I'm playing
right now, and then just refuse to talk to me.

Speaker 4 (04:03):
I love it.

Speaker 5 (04:05):
And then when I pretended to.

Speaker 1 (04:06):
Cry because I was sad, and my sister was like,
that's that's scarring her. Stop that stop that stop that,
I'm like, well, you know what did? She just stop
playing with my emotions? And then I yelled at her,
who's gonna pay for college?

Speaker 5 (04:17):
Polly?

Speaker 1 (04:17):
You better start talking? And then Ruvio's over here. I
just I wouldn't. I wouldn't necessarily trust Polly to do
to follow the directions. I would Pauly's gonna do what
PROBABLY want to do. She's three years old, So I
guess I'm not gonna if I go to her little dancing.
I'm not going to criticize the teacher if Polly goes off.

Speaker 3 (04:35):
On her own little thing, like you're paying for these
lessons and they don't.

Speaker 4 (04:39):
They don't do anything.

Speaker 8 (04:42):
One day a week where they get a little break,
so they pay for an hour a week.

Speaker 4 (04:46):
Yes, go blow off some steam. Let me go get
a Starbucks, and you gotta get their hair done. You
gotta get there the dreads, that's the outfit.

Speaker 7 (04:53):
The performance, like they might enjoy going every week with
other kids.

Speaker 4 (04:57):
There was there was girls in a dance class.

Speaker 3 (05:00):
They weren't even like how many symbolisms it's given.

Speaker 9 (05:05):
Joe Johnson, you are like Jesus.

Speaker 1 (05:10):
Look cured. What's his name, Matthew Knowles One's dad?

Speaker 4 (05:16):
Whatever the hell his name, yeah.

Speaker 1 (05:18):
Earl, Like, okay, you have like fifteen, like fifty nephews.

Speaker 5 (05:22):
You didn't have like eleven was a town.

Speaker 4 (05:24):
No, it's just like six just like said yeah.

Speaker 5 (05:26):
And you and they Kiki, they range in age from
what they.

Speaker 2 (05:31):
Range in age from two until twenty five?

Speaker 5 (05:36):
Okay?

Speaker 1 (05:36):
And you so you've attended many different things athletic events.
You know what performances of how much how much of
the time were they the best at any of that?

Speaker 2 (05:46):
So I have two that over like they just they're
the Michaels, they're Michael Jackson and then the rest of Tito.
And it' said, okay, you got a roof of Tito,
like you root for Michael. You're not like you know,
one of my nephews. He is not coordinated at all,
but he has all the confidence. So I have to
have the same amount of confidence, like go baby. And
then you got your little micro and it's like he
is literally in front of like I went to a

(06:08):
preschool graduation for this kid. So he playing the fake
guitar with sunglasses on, and.

Speaker 4 (06:13):
You teach him to get the guitar. I didn't have to.
He was boring.

Speaker 5 (06:16):
Okay, then you should the teacher have to pay him.

Speaker 1 (06:19):
Then, since that kids gifted, said you want to refund
for the kids that aren't as gifted.

Speaker 3 (06:23):
I'm just saying, like I would hate to go to
a recital and your kid doesn't.

Speaker 4 (06:27):
They're not fun. That's why you drink. You put wine
in your coffee cup and you just sit there and smile.
Good job, honey.

Speaker 1 (06:33):
Yeah, Now I understand why my parents had their own
cups at every event we ever did.

Speaker 7 (06:37):
Yeah, because those things are long, and you see your
kid for about thirty seconds, and then you got.

Speaker 4 (06:42):
To watch all the other damn kids.

Speaker 5 (06:43):
And now I know what.

Speaker 1 (06:43):
They went out to the car during the basketball games too, Yeah,
like all good time out and then my grandfather and
my dad would go out of the car and open
the trunk and I'm like, what are you doing out there?

Speaker 5 (06:52):
I wonder who.

Speaker 1 (06:53):
Making it tolerable? Now I know I did it and
feel that you're asking for a refund. Trust me, my
parents should get a refund in almost everything there have
been paid for.

Speaker 7 (07:02):
But I'm you know what, the Olympics, you give me more?

Speaker 1 (07:11):
Tanya harding about it that it's more you you know,
take got her knees?

Speaker 5 (07:20):
Oh what Oh.

Speaker 1 (07:23):
Jesus Rufia, the future of the Rufio family.

Speaker 5 (07:28):
I fear for it. Trending story's next, Okay, talk about.

Speaker 3 (07:32):
Yeah, they talk better than they about.

Speaker 1 (07:35):
These are the radio blogs on the Fred Show, like
running in our diaries, except we say to him aloud.
As soon as this happened yesterday, I was like, I'm,
I'm it's just going on the on the program, dear blog.

Speaker 5 (07:47):
Who made you?

Speaker 1 (07:50):
Who made you? The god or the goddess of the pool?
I am at the pool yesterday and I don't have
a I don't have a pool. I have a I
don't have a pool where I live, not an outdoor pool.
And I want to go to it was a nice day.
I want to go to outdoor pool to swim there.

Speaker 4 (08:07):
Remember you swim.

Speaker 5 (08:08):
You didn't look.

Speaker 1 (08:09):
Swims an indoor pool. It's more for like exercise something
I don't know.

Speaker 5 (08:12):
I don't want that.

Speaker 1 (08:13):
So my friends outdoor pool. She said, you want to
come over with outdoor pool. I said sure. So it's
like a big high rise building and there's you know,
let's say a little vibe out there, and we're there
and there's like a little music in the background right
when we show up. I don't know if that was
like the apartment complex had a little vibe thing going,
or like they pump something in or whatever. But then
all of a sudden, this group of folks come out

(08:35):
and out comes a wireless speaker and at a much
higher level than the the I don't know if somebody
else was already playing music or if it was the
apartment music, I don't know, but there was music, and
then somebody came out there and decided, I'm going to
turn mine up five times higher. And the whole pool,
now was that person made themself responsible for the vibe

(08:56):
and the playlist was was was just all off.

Speaker 4 (08:59):
It was who what kind of.

Speaker 1 (09:02):
Balls that you have to have to come to the
pool and decide my music is the music everybody out here,
one hundred people have to listen to. First of all,
it was way too much justin Timberlake, way too much
Maroon five. There was Black Eyed Peas in there, anywhere
near enough current songs. The nineties R and B was

(09:25):
way far reaching. Like I even I had a hard
time identifying with some of it. I mean, this was
just off. I'm like another justin Timberlake saw every other
song was justin Timberlake.

Speaker 8 (09:40):
I apologize Fred Right, who's dad was on That's what
I mean though, and I just I'm just like what
I almost what I almost did was I went in
my bluetooth and I found the speaker, and I.

Speaker 1 (09:50):
Almost hijacked it myself and then just took over the
speaker and then just started playing my own music. And
even the people they would have switched it back, but
then they would have at least known that they're there
were dissenters in the mix. I think I would have
done everybody this pool of favor because it was just bad.

Speaker 4 (10:06):
There were dissenters in this well.

Speaker 3 (10:07):
It probably no one ever tells this man or person
that it's bad, so he thinks it's good, you know
what I'm saying, Like you mean, it's no one either
wants to say anything to him or he's just the
person that will have confrontation if you do say something
to it.

Speaker 1 (10:22):
I mean, as a as an entertainment professional, I will
say it was it was.

Speaker 5 (10:26):
It was like a.

Speaker 1 (10:28):
Bad grocery store casino playlist like it was. It was
like nothing offensive, you know, like nobody could be like, man,
that's you know those words, those lyrics. It was very
like it was very like you know, gem pop. Yeah,
I mean, it would be hard for anyone to get
upset about the selections. But at the same time, it's like,
who decided that you get to turn yours up louder

(10:51):
and that we all have to listen to this?

Speaker 4 (10:53):
Yeah, no feeling as.

Speaker 7 (10:55):
An oxcord officionado, you can't if you're playing to a
crowd of all kinds of different people.

Speaker 4 (10:58):
You need to play more music that's like more background music.

Speaker 7 (11:01):
Like maybe a lighthouse remix to a song that everybody
knows something, you know.

Speaker 1 (11:06):
I would have taken this responsibility far more seriously.

Speaker 4 (11:09):
This is very serious.

Speaker 1 (11:10):
Frankly, Klin, I found this behavior arrogant. Oh, I found
it arrogant.

Speaker 7 (11:14):
Because you're kindly enough to go, oh, my niche, My
specific taste is for everyone. And then I would say, hey,
if anyone wants me to throw a song on, let
me know if I'm going to do that, right, come
on right.

Speaker 1 (11:23):
And as soon as I and maybe it's just because
of what we do, but as soon as I took
control of that bluetooth speaker, I would have started thinking
about everybody's nieces.

Speaker 5 (11:32):
We would have thrown in some you know.

Speaker 3 (11:34):
Nah, you would have went straight yeat rock, no hold on.

Speaker 5 (11:38):
You, because that would have been all about me.

Speaker 1 (11:40):
But at this point now I'm responsible for everybody's enjoyment.
So we would have had a little current. We would
have had a little you know, top line throwbacks that
everybody knows. We would have thrown in some country, We
would have thrown in some dance, and we would have
checked the vibe. I would have looked measured and I
would have seen, like, what's the level enjoyment?

Speaker 5 (12:01):
Ye are people? Are they?

Speaker 4 (12:03):
What are they responding to?

Speaker 1 (12:04):
They seem into it? Like did people get in the
pool that they get out of the pool? Did people leave?

Speaker 5 (12:09):
Did they leave the pool?

Speaker 6 (12:11):
Right?

Speaker 4 (12:11):
It's to My rule is two for them, one for me, So.

Speaker 7 (12:13):
Like two songs everybody would enjoy and then one that
I think is a good song that people might discover
or like I just.

Speaker 1 (12:20):
As you get into pool season, if I'm on your boat,
I have to listen to your music, I'm on your boat.
If I'm at your pool, I have to listen to
your music. But if we are in a public setting
that we share, then we need to be more responsible
than this.

Speaker 4 (12:35):
Yeah, but you couldn't do anything that's not your pool,
that's not your place.

Speaker 1 (12:38):
It wasn't his either, this guy, No, it was. It
is a rental environment. We're a shared environment. And I
was with a resident, but she I was with her
by proxy, so she was equally offended. So I had
every right as a guest of hers. She had the
same vote as that man on the HOA board or whatever.

(13:01):
I just want to say, I found this behavior arrogant.
I found it irresponsible. Yes, I found it upsetting. And
I want people to listen to this show to be
more thoughtful.

Speaker 5 (13:12):
Thank you.

Speaker 4 (13:14):
Coming up, we got justin Timberlake on the way.

Speaker 5 (13:17):
We certainly go more fread show.

Speaker 8 (13:20):
Next, Caitlin's entertainment report is on the Bread Show.

Speaker 7 (13:26):
The alleged villain from Dancing for the Devil on Netflix
was the subject of two previous criminal investigations, but neither
have resulted in any changes.

Speaker 4 (13:35):
Cops say that two.

Speaker 7 (13:37):
Sexual battery cases were filed against Robert Schin and reported
to the LAPD in August of last year, which tracks
with what was covered in the documentary. With some of
his accusers coming forward and noting that they had gone
to cops. Robert has been thrust into the spotlight with
the release of this documentary which characterized his organization as
the seven M TikTok Cult, which he calls a church.

Speaker 4 (14:00):
So if you guys haven't seen it, essentially he.

Speaker 7 (14:04):
Kind of got this group of young dancers to join
his church and then started taking money for the church.

Speaker 4 (14:11):
Did you watch it? I saw all the trailers for it. Yeah,
I watch you yet though. Yeah.

Speaker 7 (14:14):
So they give a big piece of their paycheck and
he kind of allegedly distanced them from their families. Miranda Derek,
whose parents were in the documentary, kind of pleading for
her to come back to them, pushed back against claims
of being brainwashed or controlled by Robert and yeah, like
I said, it details how his management company oversees these
TikTok famous dancers. I mean they were going on Ellen,

(14:36):
they were doing all this stuff. And it includes a
bunch of allegations for people who have left what he
calls a church or his management company. And I'm in
a cult documentary phase right now. I've been watching so
many and it is very hard to take legal action
against the called, especially if they call it a church,
because of you know, one of the Amendment rights, as
well as like people it's hard to figure out if someone's.

Speaker 4 (14:58):
Been brainwashed or if they're doing something their free will.
You know what I mean.

Speaker 1 (15:02):
It's the last thing cold documentary I watched was that
Nexium one.

Speaker 5 (15:06):
Okay, Keith Ranieri guy. But they got him, did they They.

Speaker 1 (15:09):
Got a lot of those people involved with but that
that was like sex crimes and also.

Speaker 4 (15:13):
You recommend that one.

Speaker 5 (15:15):
Yeah, it's it's frightening.

Speaker 4 (15:17):
Oh, I'm very inticults.

Speaker 1 (15:18):
Especially because I the Keith Ranieri guy actually reminds me
of a person I knew, which is why it's even scarier,
Like who used tried to use like religious and this
idea they were smarter than everybody else, Like they almost
they almost ran their own little like Yeah, I don't know,
it's he's a scary individual.

Speaker 4 (15:40):
Yeah, okay, I'll have to edit to my list.

Speaker 7 (15:43):
The Jake Paul Mike Tyson boxing match that was supposed
to take place next month will now be held on
November fifteenth. Remember it was postponed after Mike had what
they called an ulcer flare up last month on a
flight that required them to land and get medical attention.
He was told by doctors. Suliminus Training says he's going
to be ready to go soon.

Speaker 4 (16:00):
I mean, I know some of us are worried about this.
It's going to still be held in.

Speaker 7 (16:03):
Dallas, but will now be on a Friday, since the
Cowboys have a home game that following Monday. And by
the way, while Jake Paul does train for Mike Tyson,
female boxing champion Claressa Shields so she can beat him too,
So the offer is always up there if Jake wants
to scrap. I don't think that he's that good of
a boxer. She mentioned that he once called her a
loser after she lost a split decision in her MMA debut,

(16:25):
and she has beef with him ever since.

Speaker 4 (16:27):
I would love to see him.

Speaker 7 (16:28):
Get beat up by a female boxer.

Speaker 4 (16:30):
That would be amazing and really quick.

Speaker 7 (16:32):
Bad Bunny was caught in a really interesting position with
one of his dancers during his show in Puerto Rico.
He accidentally wound up with his crotch caught on one
of his dancers tights in the middle of performing, and
she was dancing on him, which is how they got stuck.

Speaker 4 (16:48):
The fabric of her tights was on his shorts.

Speaker 7 (16:50):
She tried to pull away, but they were pulled together
because they were literally stuck by each other's crotches. Shortly after,
the rest of the dancers kind of covered and they detached,
and then he giggled as he popped out of the group.

Speaker 4 (17:03):
So great, Pauline, his dream, right, we'll stuck again. I
don't know there.

Speaker 1 (17:10):
I don't want to stuck to because I'm not wearing
any clothes. Well, when you go.

Speaker 4 (17:14):
And put velcro on his.

Speaker 7 (17:16):
Cries, you know, and the other sign on yours, Yeah,
that'll probably happen.

Speaker 5 (17:20):
I got a chill while we're here, if you wouldn't mind.

Speaker 7 (17:25):
If you want to follow us on social media. Had
to Instagram and follow Fred Show Radio as well as
the Fred Show TikTok So.

Speaker 5 (17:32):
Pauline was talking about this off the air.

Speaker 1 (17:34):
There's a bit of an issue going on in the U,
in the Paulina household, and it has to do with
sports teams and no matter where you're listening to us,
you know, people listen all across the country. You know,
we have a lot of different rivalries that we that
we deal with, you know, in the room and outside
the room. You've got of course, you got Bears Packers,
that's a big one. You got Duke UNC. You got

(17:55):
my case, Southern Methodist and Texas Christian SMU TCU. You
got Michigan Michigan State, Kalin's and Michigan State Girl.

Speaker 5 (18:04):
Jason.

Speaker 1 (18:04):
I mean, I know you have a very difficult time,
you know, because you're the sports guy. Yeah, yeah, what
would you say is one of the hardest rivalries for
you to deal with?

Speaker 3 (18:11):
Yeah?

Speaker 4 (18:12):
You know, like the Bears versus the Hornets. That's a
really rough one.

Speaker 5 (18:17):
The Bears in the Hornets.

Speaker 1 (18:18):
So the Bears football team and the Hornets basketball team.
It's a rivalry that people are not often talking about.

Speaker 8 (18:25):
Integue, it's interlea, really go through it when they play
each other.

Speaker 1 (18:28):
Okay, yeah, when they play each other. Wow, Yeah, that
would be something to such.

Speaker 3 (18:32):
You didn't have a problem with all the teams in
Rhode Island. You know, there's a lot of teams out there.

Speaker 1 (18:37):
Which one do you choose? Honestly to the people, no, right,
and it's not your problem. And in your household it's
Cubs Socks, Cubs versus So Now, if you're not familiar
somehow with the Cubs Socks rivalry, there is no middle.

Speaker 5 (18:53):
You pick one or the other.

Speaker 1 (18:55):
That just so happens, like I grew up a Cubs
fan because I grew up in Arizona spring training. We
didn't have baseball. My great grandmother was a fan. We
didn't have baseball growing up. We did eventually get baseball,
but I was just a Cubs fan. But coming here,
it was you choose one or the other. If you
don't have an allegiance, you pick one. Like our boss
thinks he can wear each he thinks he can wear

(19:16):
the hat of each of them. Is dead ass wrong
like that that is that is a take that I
have a serious problem with.

Speaker 5 (19:22):
Oh wow, that's me. No, but you can't, and you
grew up in Chicago. You can't. You can't just vacillate. No,
you have to pick one.

Speaker 1 (19:32):
Okay, so you're a Sox fan and Hobby is a
Cubs fan.

Speaker 9 (19:37):
Huge cup, And how did this come up? Well, we
have all we share a baby fifty to fifty. You
know my DNA, hear a DNA, his GNA. And I
got some nice birthday gifts from you guys, and Rufio
got me like these onesies white Sox.

Speaker 4 (19:50):
I was like so excited to put him on her.

Speaker 9 (19:52):
And he went upstairs first deliberately to put on a
Cubs shirt, a onesie because he knew I was going
to do that. And he come downstairs and he brings
the baby and I'm in her ear like we're White
Sox fans, Chicago white socks, and he got so offended,
like she knew what I was saying, but.

Speaker 4 (20:08):
Like he also just got offended. Right, doesn't know where noses.

Speaker 9 (20:11):
But he's like telling me, I'm trying to bond with
her when it comes to sports, like it's really important
to me, which you guys have all seen my basement,
you would know this man loves sports, right, love that
for him, and I love the White Sox, you know,
but I'm not gonna lie. I don't keep up with stats,
Like I'm not this big baseball girl, but I like
what I like. He a t white Sox girl, but
his family and him are like so hardcore clubs. And

(20:33):
he was so offended that I even said the word
white Sox to my baby's ear because I just want
her to like, you know, pick pick hers when she can.
But this man is like, no, like this is how
we're gonna bond. Love that he has this idea of bonding,
because you know, he did get he expressed to me
that when we had a girl we found out was
a girl, he was scared he wasn't gonna be able
to bond with her, Like he was afraid of that. Okay,
but he's killing it at the girl dad thing. I

(20:55):
think he is. He's so like just in tune with her.
I love it, and I want them to bond over sports.
But they can go to a White Sox game. We
can call up Michael Gomez and and everybody else at
the White Sox and just go and and go to
you know, check it out.

Speaker 1 (21:07):
See, because like it really upsets me that my nieces, like,
you know that I've grown to really love my brother
in law. But he's an Oklahoma guy. He's an Ou guy.
He's a Cowboys guy. And I actually, honestly, on my
list of teams I can't stand are the Cowboys and
the Sooners, and I think that my nieces will be
fans of both.

Speaker 5 (21:28):
I think they have to be.

Speaker 1 (21:29):
And it's very upsetting to me, Like I don't want
to see Little Polly and Little May wearing that death star.
I mean, it's just it's just terrible and honestly, it's
so ugly.

Speaker 4 (21:40):
Oh my god, it's just a star.

Speaker 5 (21:43):
No, it's their star.

Speaker 1 (21:45):
And I'm just wondering quickly eight five five five three
five if you grew up like either you grew up
or us parents had children and there was a rivalry,
you know, maybe somebody came from you know, I don't know.
Maybe somebody went to do somebody went to the UNC,
somebody went to somebody was from Wisconsin and somebody's from
Illinois or whatever. It could be college, it could be pro.
How did you settle that? Like, do you just do

(22:07):
you have both? Do they wear both stuff until at
some point they're old enough to pick one? Or do
you say no, sorry, like you're gonna be like this,
this is who you're cheering for.

Speaker 9 (22:19):
It just yes, Well, if your hobby's daughter, you probably
will have to, you know, stick with the cabsse. I
just know he's this is a hill he'll die on.
Like there's not many, but this is one of them.
And I noticed that yesterday. I don't think it's that serious,
but to this man it is, and I guess is
a dad to Rufio, Yes, it's important for.

Speaker 4 (22:34):
Me, Like obviously.

Speaker 3 (22:36):
The funny thing is Jess and I have the same
sports legions, Like we both like the Cubs.

Speaker 4 (22:40):
You both like the Bulls.

Speaker 3 (22:41):
But for Jess, she just cramps on all my teams,
Like it doesn't matter. She's like, Oh, we're gonna watch
the Bulls game why they're gonna lose, or we're gonna
watch why they're gonna lose.

Speaker 4 (22:51):
So it's just like whatever.

Speaker 5 (22:53):
I just I just.

Speaker 1 (22:54):
At least I get to enjoy good. So your son
gets to grow up knowing that his dad to lose
her I pick the wrong teams apparently whatever.

Speaker 4 (23:03):
I don't.

Speaker 5 (23:04):
I mean, but like, how do you again? Like do
you just is it?

Speaker 1 (23:09):
Like I make it all available to you, and then
at some point you just grow up and you have
to have a tough conversation with one of your parents
and say like, is little baby Gabriella at some point
going to have to come to you and be like, mom,
I have something to tell you, and you'll be all
scared and stuff and she'll be like, I'm a Cubs fan,
and then you'll have to work through that. Like, I mean,
how does that work?

Speaker 9 (23:29):
I mean, I don't know, because I do want them
to have that bonding experience, but I also want to
do that with her too. I want to go to
the Sox games, like I said, and have a hot dog.
I have one hot dog a year. I want to
enjoy that with my daughter Kayla. It's one a year.

Speaker 3 (23:42):
But vice versa if she if she is a Cubs fan,
would you go to games with her and hovey to Wrigley.

Speaker 4 (23:48):
No, I'm gonna let them have that. That could be
their thing.

Speaker 5 (23:51):
You won't even go.

Speaker 9 (23:52):
I won't step foot over Roosevelt, Like I like, I
stop at stay in Roosevelt. That's where I stay. Am well,
our station goes past Roosevelt. Oh, well, you know I
mean Chicago. Yeah, I'm like, you know my streets. Yeah,
I don't have a certain point. I just feel like
that's gonna be their thing. I don't go over there.
I stay away.

Speaker 4 (24:09):
I get a headache when I even step into that.

Speaker 5 (24:11):
Shit. You're gonna let You're just gonna lose this one.

Speaker 9 (24:13):
I'm gonna lose this one. Oh, I'll set this one out.
But I do, like I said, I want to take
her to my side. I want to take her to
the Sox park and all of that and experience at all.
But I know he will genuinely have a problem with that.
Like it actually stings this man, which is wild, like
this is the hill I told you.

Speaker 1 (24:28):
I growing up, my parents they saved money, and like
the gift that they wanted to give us because their
parents gave my mom's parents gave it to her, was
to pay for college. And so growing up it was hey,
we're saving, we're saving, we're saving wherever you can get in.
We'll pay for four years and then we're done with you,
by the way, And I had no idea at the
time what an amazing gift that was. But so it

(24:49):
came down to Southern Methodist where my mom went in Dallas,
and TCU Texas Christian, which is their rival in Fort Worth,
so the same sort of area, and so we went
to visit. We came one of those two, went to
visit both, and then we went to dinner the same day,
went to dinner and we sat down with my mom
and my dad and I and she said, okay, well,
what's it going to be? And I said, Mom, I

(25:10):
want to.

Speaker 5 (25:10):
Go to TCU.

Speaker 4 (25:11):
Oh yeah, hornor Frog.

Speaker 5 (25:12):
And she said, okay, how are you gonna pay for that?

Speaker 6 (25:17):
It is?

Speaker 4 (25:18):
Yeah, g man, what's up?

Speaker 5 (25:22):
G man? Or long time?

Speaker 1 (25:27):
First time hey man, appreciate you? How do you deal
with this rival the inter family rivalry.

Speaker 6 (25:33):
Okay, so you know I'm a coat in life Long Coast.
Then my wife's a Sox fan. M We decided, as
long as they like baseball, you can't force it on them.
What's a strain on everybody? As long as they like baseball,
it gets fun. It becomes fun to like pok at
each other when when they play each other and some

(25:56):
of my kids are content. Someone gets a sock fent
and we're working with it. It's fun and it doesn't
have to be that serious.

Speaker 1 (26:04):
So you just let them choose sort of organically.

Speaker 4 (26:06):
I like it.

Speaker 6 (26:07):
Yeah, and they can wear both stuff right now.

Speaker 5 (26:10):
She's a baby, yeah.

Speaker 6 (26:12):
Don't don't don't put that on don't put that on her?

Speaker 5 (26:15):
Yeah what yeah, I mean she's a baby right now.

Speaker 8 (26:18):
She can go back and forth, we can, but black,
black and white again.

Speaker 6 (26:21):
She can? She can't. You don't want you don't want to,
you know, you don't want to be a strain on
your relationship because of sports. Like, yeah, this is important,
but it's not. It's not the end all be all.

Speaker 1 (26:32):
Yeah, fair enough, thank you to man, have a good day.
I just wonder how this is handled you know, like Jeremy, Hi, Jeremy, Hey, Fred,
how you doing Jeremy, Hey, good morning man, thank you.
So how does this work?

Speaker 4 (26:43):
How do you?

Speaker 5 (26:45):
Is this something that happened in your house with your kids?

Speaker 10 (26:48):
So it's actually my brother in law, my sister. My
brother in law is originally from San Diego and he
moved over here at like fourteen. So he's a big
Padres fan and Chargers fan. And now, uh, they have
two boys. So the rule was they could be San
Diego fans and the only Chicago support they could root
for is the Blackhawks.

Speaker 5 (27:10):
Oh wow, because there's no hockey. Wow.

Speaker 10 (27:14):
Yeah, well there's no hockey in San Diego.

Speaker 5 (27:16):
That's why.

Speaker 4 (27:16):
So we can't get them bear stuff.

Speaker 3 (27:18):
We can't get Well, there's no football team san Diego either,
They're gone.

Speaker 10 (27:22):
Yeah, exactly.

Speaker 1 (27:25):
This is very complicated on these allegiances. Wow, Jeremy, thank you,
have a good day.

Speaker 5 (27:31):
Thank you.

Speaker 1 (27:32):
Look at this guy, Jordan, my man, Jordan, you you
decided to go against your parents, the people who gave
you life.

Speaker 5 (27:38):
Oh yeah, I definitely did.

Speaker 6 (27:41):
Uh. Sundas was my favorite running okay, And so like
we have like a family photo of just me and
a phill of gear.

Speaker 5 (27:51):
And everybody else is in like it was a rival.

Speaker 9 (27:54):
But always a sudden we got more rings than them.

Speaker 5 (27:57):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (27:57):
So your family they're all Cowboys fans and you're a
Keeers fans just cause and you're standing by that.

Speaker 3 (28:03):
Yeah.

Speaker 5 (28:04):
Always still love it.

Speaker 4 (28:06):
Well, I love it and anybody with the Cowboys.

Speaker 5 (28:09):
Good for you.

Speaker 1 (28:09):
Thank you, Jordan. You're a smart man. You're a good
looking smart man.

Speaker 5 (28:12):
Have a good day.

Speaker 6 (28:14):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (28:14):
I need to start dropping just every other sports team
on that house. Yeah, and maybe they'll just I don't
care what other team, the Rhode Island Raiders whatever whatever
other teams, Yeah, Raiders, and the Raiders are yeah, the
game cocks. I mean, while we're on Cox Fan, I
don't care any anything, anything but the Cowboys.

Speaker 3 (28:31):
They won't even wear Texans gear. No, sure Texans. You
know the text? What city the Texans? The Texans? Yeah,
what city, Texas? That's the city, Okay.

Speaker 5 (28:43):
Paul more Thread Show.

Speaker 3 (28:46):
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Hi Klin, Chase sim Brown, Hi Roofi, Hi Hikkibs is
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did someone get Ghosted Girl, Hide your Dog? Oh Girl,
Hide your Dog? Cheryl and Roger. If you miss Keiky's

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Speaker 5 (29:28):
Kay?

Speaker 7 (29:28):
We have to talk about this TikTok cult documentary on
Netflix because I can't stop.

Speaker 4 (29:33):
Thinking about it.

Speaker 5 (29:34):
I guess I have to go home now and watch it.

Speaker 4 (29:36):
You do, Okay?

Speaker 6 (29:37):
Good?

Speaker 1 (29:37):
Well, I have something to do to all day to day.
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