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Speaker 1 (00:00):
They talk about. Yeah, they talk better than they excited
talk about.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
Tell me, these are the radio blogs on the Fred Show,
Like we're writing in our diaries, except we said him aloud.
We call him blogs Kaylin.
Speaker 1 (00:11):
Take it aways, dear blog.
Speaker 3 (00:13):
So I asked the Loyal thirteen on I think it
was Friday that I posted it to help me because
over the weekend I was going to meet my boyfriend's family,
his parents for the first time, and his brother had
already met his sister. But the circumstances were a little complicated,
(00:33):
I feel like, so I didn't know what the hell
I should bring to, you know, as a side of respect,
you don't want to go empty handed. So I was
meeting his family, his parents, but it was at his
sister's new house, so it was like a housewarming. But
it was a barbecue for Father's Day. So there's a
lot of layers here. Yeah, right, Okay, So everyone was
(00:56):
giving me really awesome suggestions. His dad's not a big
drinker either, so I was like, do I acknowledge the
dad for Father's Day?
Speaker 1 (01:03):
He's not my dad?
Speaker 3 (01:04):
Do I get his mom something even though it's not
her house, just as a side of respect and obviously
give the host something his sister. So what I ended
up going with, and I think it was okay. I
got his sister an orchid for her house because I
know she likes plants and I love to give an orchid.
I mean, you could just throw a couple of ice
cubes in there to keep them alive. I brought flowers
(01:25):
for his mom paeonies if you were wondering, and I
brought drinks for the whole party, and then I.
Speaker 1 (01:32):
Brought a cheesecake. So that's what I ended up going with.
That's good, Okay, Yeah, I think it went over well.
Speaker 3 (01:39):
And I just obviously wished his dad like a happy
early Father's Day. But everyone was right like, he's not
my dad, and it would be a little weird if
I was like, you know.
Speaker 1 (01:47):
You're not my dad, right, well, you're not my dad.
Speaker 3 (01:49):
I'm glad he's not my dad because that would make
things awkward for my boyfriend.
Speaker 1 (01:51):
I but yeah, no, and I dad, Yeah, period, That's
what I said. Right when I got there. I'm like,
you're not my dad.
Speaker 3 (01:59):
It would be weird for me to get him a card, like,
you know, I've loved watching you be an amazing dad
over all, it's like, I just met.
Speaker 2 (02:04):
That funny if you've got to show if you got
a card like that, A whole long thing about how
you know you're the best dad.
Speaker 1 (02:11):
I know exactly. I just love watching you be a father.
But yeah, no, so I was. I remember when he
was born and how happy you were. I should have funny, Yeah,
I know.
Speaker 3 (02:21):
Well, you don't know if your jokes are going to
go over well, and I said I said a couple
jokes that I was like, oh god, I hope they laugh,
and they did, so I think it went well. I
think I stressed a little bit too much about it,
which I always do, but I did. It is a
lot going on, so you you were right to stress
mom sister right, how swarming people were saying I would
just move and change my name because it was too much,
(02:43):
and a lot of people were like that my social
battery would be crazy. There were also other people there
because his sister has roommates, so their families to.
Speaker 1 (02:51):
Them, right, what about their dad?
Speaker 3 (02:52):
Well, when I got there, I told him, I was like,
you did tell me people are going to be here.
Speaker 1 (02:56):
So I didn't know if that helped me or hurt me.
It might have been a good buffer. You know, the
thing weren't like spotlight on me.
Speaker 2 (03:02):
You know, I think you should have brought some one
of the thirteen T shirts handed those out my shirt.
Speaker 1 (03:08):
Oh my god.
Speaker 3 (03:08):
People in the comments also said bring a signed photograph.
Speaker 1 (03:11):
I was like, well, I mean you did that, right,
that's the person.
Speaker 2 (03:15):
That's the first thing I bestow upon every new person
in me a hedge and autographs to head. Well, I
give them the headshot that I asked if they would
like me to sign it, which of course they say yes.
Speaker 1 (03:24):
Right, because that else you going to say, I have
a sharpie rate here. I mean ill drive, Hey, take
out how go back his car and let's go. We
know you and not bullying anything.
Speaker 4 (03:34):
Okay, yeah, you take all the stuff back when you
take the cheesecake home, No, and the drinks.
Speaker 3 (03:39):
No, my cheesecake not fully eaten, which I love seeing
shout out trader Trader Joe's. It's just a frozen cheesecake
that you just let a thought for two hours. They
were impressed by that. But no, I didn't take my
anything back that I brought. I left my can drinks
that I bought in the cooler.
Speaker 2 (03:53):
Okay, as we all know, Rufio would have asked if
he could take everything he brought back with him, including
the flower flowers. Just did you enjoy working for the
two hours I was here? Because I'm taking that with me.
Speaker 3 (04:02):
Too, So yeah, I think it went okay.
Speaker 2 (04:06):
You know? Is that guy by the way, he is
that guy he brings someone to the party and then
he takes it home with him.
Speaker 1 (04:11):
We're not kidding. I brought yeah, drinks for myself. Yeah, drinks,
you know.
Speaker 2 (04:15):
But when you bring something to a party, it's you've
you've relinquished them. It's it's for everyone, because I did
you did you take anything that was intended for anyone else?
Speaker 1 (04:25):
No? I brought drinks, no food, drink and I drunk them.
But did you eat any of the food that was
intended for everybody? Yeah? And I'm gonna take leftovers home.
I'm gonna I'm gonna make sure, checkmate. You just got
them right.
Speaker 2 (04:41):
So so you were able to use anything that was
there and take any of it with you that you
wanted to.
Speaker 1 (04:47):
But anything you brought you.
Speaker 4 (04:49):
To be a party, it's a you know what I'm saying.
You bring your own drink, You bring your own beer.
Speaker 1 (04:55):
B y O B. Bring your own drink. The host
usually supplies the food.
Speaker 4 (04:59):
Right and then that person the host will be like, hey,
take this plate home, take this food home, which is fine.
Speaker 1 (05:04):
But if I'm going to drinks for myself to drink,
and those are the.
Speaker 4 (05:07):
Only drinks I drink, I'm gonna take those home with
me because as a person that hosts parties.
Speaker 2 (05:13):
As well, I don't have room everyone, so no, everybody can.
You're not bringing drinks for you to drink, only every
point of them. Everybody's bringing drinks to contribute it to
the pool of drinks that anybody can have.
Speaker 4 (05:28):
Yes, I don't drink beer. I don't drink beer. If
it's drinking beer, I'm bringing something for myself.
Speaker 2 (05:34):
My point is I'm not drinking other people's. It's as
a gesture of being in someone else's home. You're bringing
them something, and then that then becomes theirs, unless they
tell you they would like you to take it with them.
Otherwise you have given it to them. It is theirs.
They hosted you. You're only contributing to what's available for
everyone to use. You like you don't, you don't, you
(05:59):
don't give, You don't bring someone to a party and
then leave with it.
Speaker 1 (06:03):
You don't do that. No, if it's if it's the
drinks that I brought to the party, then yes, no,
because they're no longer yours. They're the party drinks. They're
for the drinks that I brought for me. That's party.
But you do it.
Speaker 2 (06:14):
But no one brings anything just for them to a
group events. You don't get to say this is only
for me. It's for everybody, like you're putting you. You
bring it in, you said it with all the other drinks,
and then it's for everyone to share.
Speaker 4 (06:28):
You know, this is a crazy concept, But like I'm
just saying, like, like if I bring drinks and someone
wants to drink one of my drinks, that's.
Speaker 1 (06:36):
Fine, Okay, you'll share, right, Okay, Well then I'm going
to take it home, because like what if I'm still
at the party and I enjoyed you, and what if
you enjoyed my chocolate chip cookies that I brought, right, Okay,
then I want to take some home. I'm going to
take some home.
Speaker 2 (06:51):
So you can take home my chocolate chip cookies and
all of your drinks.
Speaker 1 (06:55):
How many parties have you hosted at your house for it?
How many parties more than you in yours. I'm a
better host. Are you getting me? I've been writing there
like three times in my house. You've never come once.
Speaker 2 (07:05):
Speaking to a personal I'm you don't get to take.
You can't take other people's stuff and yours.
Speaker 1 (07:11):
I'm not taking other people's stuff. I'm taking the stuff
I brought home. And take this plate.
Speaker 4 (07:18):
I don't have room for it. Take these leftovers. I'm
going to take the leftovers. I'm not making my own
plate to take home. If the host says, hey, I'm
take take good because your logic makes no sense.
Speaker 1 (07:30):
Friends, but did you reverse park at the rights? Did
you remember to take?
Speaker 2 (07:39):
When it's one way you get when I bring to
a party, it's now the host of the it's theirs.
And if they say to me, if they say please
take your drinks home and please take your desserts home,
because I don't have any plates for them, that's up
to them.
Speaker 1 (07:54):
I do. That is not up to me. I am at.
My gesture for coming to the party is whatever I
bring with me. I don't get tonk. I don't get
to just award.
Speaker 2 (08:03):
Things for myself and then also take them and then
also take what other people brought to that I want selectively.
Speaker 1 (08:10):
You just leave it, you know, just move on.
Speaker 2 (08:12):
So you're saying you can take the stuff you brought
home and the stuff I brought home, I'm not saying that.
Speaker 1 (08:18):
What are you saying? I brought drinks for to drink
at the party.
Speaker 4 (08:22):
I'm gonna take those drinks home, no matter how many
are left, because that's what I brought to drink, and
I could drink it later at my house or the
next weekend.
Speaker 1 (08:32):
And so could the host.
Speaker 4 (08:34):
But as the host, like the host, I'm telling you,
the host doesn't want all those drinks.
Speaker 1 (08:39):
They don't want all that because they have no room
for it.
Speaker 2 (08:43):
I'm going to stand on business and say I do
not believe that what you're saying is proper etiquette.
Speaker 1 (08:47):
But okay, I don't either.
Speaker 2 (08:49):
And to be honest with you, of all the people
in the room, you're the last person that I trust
on the etiquette. Actually, why because of this rant right here?
Speaker 1 (08:58):
I think his parents liked me. The sister might be,
you know.
Speaker 2 (09:03):
But did you take everything is going to be every
single thing you brought with you? Was there any was
there any pie left, any cheese cake? Because that's yours
to take home. Apparently.
Speaker 3 (09:10):
I think there was a slice, but I I didn't take.
Speaker 1 (09:13):
Oh you left it for someone else to have it.
Speaker 3 (09:15):
Yeah, and my press, my press Seltzers I left there, but.
Speaker 1 (09:18):
You know, did you leave a tip? The understanding when
I ate? Okay, I hope so though,
They talk about. Yeah, they talk better than they excited
talk about.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
Tell me, these are the radio blogs on the Fred Show,
Like we're writing in our diaries, except we said him aloud.
We call him blogs Kaylin.
Speaker 1 (00:11):
Take it aways, dear blog.
Speaker 3 (00:13):
So I asked the Loyal thirteen on I think it
was Friday that I posted it to help me because
over the weekend I was going to meet my boyfriend's family,
his parents for the first time, and his brother had
already met his sister. But the circumstances were a little complicated,
(00:33):
I feel like, so I didn't know what the hell
I should bring to, you know, as a side of respect,
you don't want to go empty handed. So I was
meeting his family, his parents, but it was at his
sister's new house, so it was like a housewarming. But
it was a barbecue for Father's Day. So there's a
lot of layers here. Yeah, right, Okay, So everyone was
(00:56):
giving me really awesome suggestions. His dad's not a big
drinker either, so I was like, do I acknowledge the
dad for Father's Day?
Speaker 1 (01:03):
He's not my dad?
Speaker 3 (01:04):
Do I get his mom something even though it's not
her house, just as a side of respect and obviously
give the host something his sister. So what I ended
up going with, and I think it was okay. I
got his sister an orchid for her house because I
know she likes plants and I love to give an orchid.
I mean, you could just throw a couple of ice
cubes in there to keep them alive. I brought flowers
(01:25):
for his mom paeonies if you were wondering, and I
brought drinks for the whole party, and then I.
Speaker 1 (01:32):
Brought a cheesecake. So that's what I ended up going with.
That's good, Okay, Yeah, I think it went over well.
Speaker 3 (01:39):
And I just obviously wished his dad like a happy
early Father's Day. But everyone was right like, he's not
my dad, and it would be a little weird if
I was like, you know.
Speaker 1 (01:47):
You're not my dad, right, well, you're not my dad.
Speaker 3 (01:49):
I'm glad he's not my dad because that would make
things awkward for my boyfriend.
Speaker 1 (01:51):
I but yeah, no, and I dad, Yeah, period, That's
what I said. Right when I got there. I'm like,
you're not my dad.
Speaker 3 (01:59):
It would be weird for me to get him a card, like,
you know, I've loved watching you be an amazing dad
over all, it's like, I just met.
Speaker 2 (02:04):
That funny if you've got to show if you got
a card like that, A whole long thing about how
you know you're the best dad.
Speaker 1 (02:11):
I know exactly. I just love watching you be a father.
But yeah, no, so I was. I remember when he
was born and how happy you were. I should have funny, Yeah,
I know.
Speaker 3 (02:21):
Well, you don't know if your jokes are going to
go over well, and I said I said a couple
jokes that I was like, oh god, I hope they laugh,
and they did, so I think it went well. I
think I stressed a little bit too much about it,
which I always do, but I did. It is a
lot going on, so you you were right to stress
mom sister right, how swarming people were saying I would
just move and change my name because it was too much,
(02:43):
and a lot of people were like that my social
battery would be crazy. There were also other people there
because his sister has roommates, so their families to.
Speaker 1 (02:51):
Them, right, what about their dad?
Speaker 3 (02:52):
Well, when I got there, I told him, I was like,
you did tell me people are going to be here.
Speaker 1 (02:56):
So I didn't know if that helped me or hurt me.
It might have been a good buffer. You know, the
thing weren't like spotlight on me.
Speaker 2 (03:02):
You know, I think you should have brought some one
of the thirteen T shirts handed those out my shirt.
Speaker 1 (03:08):
Oh my god.
Speaker 3 (03:08):
People in the comments also said bring a signed photograph.
Speaker 1 (03:11):
I was like, well, I mean you did that, right,
that's the person.
Speaker 2 (03:15):
That's the first thing I bestow upon every new person
in me a hedge and autographs to head. Well, I
give them the headshot that I asked if they would
like me to sign it, which of course they say yes.
Speaker 1 (03:24):
Right, because that else you going to say, I have
a sharpie rate here. I mean ill drive, Hey, take
out how go back his car and let's go. We
know you and not bullying anything.
Speaker 4 (03:34):
Okay, yeah, you take all the stuff back when you
take the cheesecake home, No, and the drinks.
Speaker 3 (03:39):
No, my cheesecake not fully eaten, which I love seeing
shout out trader Trader Joe's. It's just a frozen cheesecake
that you just let a thought for two hours. They
were impressed by that. But no, I didn't take my
anything back that I brought. I left my can drinks
that I bought in the cooler.
Speaker 2 (03:53):
Okay, as we all know, Rufio would have asked if
he could take everything he brought back with him, including
the flower flowers. Just did you enjoy working for the
two hours I was here? Because I'm taking that with me.
Speaker 3 (04:02):
Too, So yeah, I think it went okay.
Speaker 2 (04:06):
You know? Is that guy by the way, he is
that guy he brings someone to the party and then
he takes it home with him.
Speaker 1 (04:11):
We're not kidding. I brought yeah, drinks for myself. Yeah, drinks,
you know.
Speaker 2 (04:15):
But when you bring something to a party, it's you've
you've relinquished them. It's it's for everyone, because I did
you did you take anything that was intended for anyone else?
Speaker 1 (04:25):
No? I brought drinks, no food, drink and I drunk them.
But did you eat any of the food that was
intended for everybody? Yeah? And I'm gonna take leftovers home.
I'm gonna I'm gonna make sure, checkmate. You just got
them right.
Speaker 2 (04:41):
So so you were able to use anything that was
there and take any of it with you that you
wanted to.
Speaker 1 (04:47):
But anything you brought you.
Speaker 4 (04:49):
To be a party, it's a you know what I'm saying.
You bring your own drink, You bring your own beer.
Speaker 1 (04:55):
B y O B. Bring your own drink. The host
usually supplies the food.
Speaker 4 (04:59):
Right and then that person the host will be like, hey,
take this plate home, take this food home, which is fine.
Speaker 1 (05:04):
But if I'm going to drinks for myself to drink,
and those are the.
Speaker 4 (05:07):
Only drinks I drink, I'm gonna take those home with
me because as a person that hosts parties.
Speaker 2 (05:13):
As well, I don't have room everyone, so no, everybody can.
You're not bringing drinks for you to drink, only every
point of them. Everybody's bringing drinks to contribute it to
the pool of drinks that anybody can have.
Speaker 4 (05:28):
Yes, I don't drink beer. I don't drink beer. If
it's drinking beer, I'm bringing something for myself.
Speaker 2 (05:34):
My point is I'm not drinking other people's. It's as
a gesture of being in someone else's home. You're bringing
them something, and then that then becomes theirs, unless they
tell you they would like you to take it with them.
Otherwise you have given it to them. It is theirs.
They hosted you. You're only contributing to what's available for
everyone to use. You like you don't, you don't, you
(05:59):
don't give, You don't bring someone to a party and
then leave with it.
Speaker 1 (06:03):
You don't do that. No, if it's if it's the
drinks that I brought to the party, then yes, no,
because they're no longer yours. They're the party drinks. They're
for the drinks that I brought for me. That's party.
But you do it.
Speaker 2 (06:14):
But no one brings anything just for them to a
group events. You don't get to say this is only
for me. It's for everybody, like you're putting you. You
bring it in, you said it with all the other drinks,
and then it's for everyone to share.
Speaker 4 (06:28):
You know, this is a crazy concept, But like I'm
just saying, like, like if I bring drinks and someone
wants to drink one of my drinks, that's.
Speaker 1 (06:36):
Fine, Okay, you'll share, right, Okay, Well then I'm going
to take it home, because like what if I'm still
at the party and I enjoyed you, and what if
you enjoyed my chocolate chip cookies that I brought, right, Okay,
then I want to take some home. I'm going to
take some home.
Speaker 2 (06:51):
So you can take home my chocolate chip cookies and
all of your drinks.
Speaker 1 (06:55):
How many parties have you hosted at your house for it?
How many parties more than you in yours. I'm a
better host. Are you getting me? I've been writing there
like three times in my house. You've never come once.
Speaker 2 (07:05):
Speaking to a personal I'm you don't get to take.
You can't take other people's stuff and yours.
Speaker 1 (07:11):
I'm not taking other people's stuff. I'm taking the stuff
I brought home. And take this plate.
Speaker 4 (07:18):
I don't have room for it. Take these leftovers. I'm
going to take the leftovers. I'm not making my own
plate to take home. If the host says, hey, I'm
take take good because your logic makes no sense.
Speaker 1 (07:30):
Friends, but did you reverse park at the rights? Did
you remember to take?
Speaker 2 (07:39):
When it's one way you get when I bring to
a party, it's now the host of the it's theirs.
And if they say to me, if they say please
take your drinks home and please take your desserts home,
because I don't have any plates for them, that's up
to them.
Speaker 1 (07:54):
I do. That is not up to me. I am at.
My gesture for coming to the party is whatever I
bring with me. I don't get tonk. I don't get
to just award.
Speaker 2 (08:03):
Things for myself and then also take them and then
also take what other people brought to that I want selectively.
Speaker 1 (08:10):
You just leave it, you know, just move on.
Speaker 2 (08:12):
So you're saying you can take the stuff you brought
home and the stuff I brought home, I'm not saying that.
Speaker 1 (08:18):
What are you saying? I brought drinks for to drink
at the party.
Speaker 4 (08:22):
I'm gonna take those drinks home, no matter how many
are left, because that's what I brought to drink, and
I could drink it later at my house or the
next weekend.
Speaker 1 (08:32):
And so could the host.
Speaker 4 (08:34):
But as the host, like the host, I'm telling you,
the host doesn't want all those drinks.
Speaker 1 (08:39):
They don't want all that because they have no room
for it.
Speaker 2 (08:43):
I'm going to stand on business and say I do
not believe that what you're saying is proper etiquette.
Speaker 1 (08:47):
But okay, I don't either.
Speaker 2 (08:49):
And to be honest with you, of all the people
in the room, you're the last person that I trust
on the etiquette. Actually, why because of this rant right here?
Speaker 1 (08:58):
I think his parents liked me. The sister might be,
you know.
Speaker 2 (09:03):
But did you take everything is going to be every
single thing you brought with you? Was there any was
there any pie left, any cheese cake? Because that's yours
to take home. Apparently.
Speaker 3 (09:10):
I think there was a slice, but I I didn't take.
Speaker 1 (09:13):
Oh you left it for someone else to have it.
Speaker 3 (09:15):
Yeah, and my press, my press Seltzers I left there, but.
Speaker 1 (09:18):
You know, did you leave a tip? The understanding when
I ate? Okay, I hope so though,
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