Waiting by the Phone: Make Yourself At Home!

Amanda is confused why her date Patrick won't call her back after a fun night out... Find out why he got ghosted.

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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may apply. All thanks to Live Nation. Ever been left
waiting by the phone, It's the Fread Show. Amanda, good morning,
welcome to the program. How are you hey? I'm fine.

Speaker 2 (00:36):
I have a little bit of an issue though.

Speaker 1 (00:38):
Right right, Well it's waiting by the phone, So you
you want to know what's going on with this guy Patrick?
I got to know though, how did you meet? Tell
us about any dates you've been on and then you
know where the issue is. What's going on right now? Yeah?

Speaker 2 (00:48):
So we met on Bumble and we chatted up really
really well, like the best I ever.

Speaker 1 (00:54):
Had, and he's a catch.

Speaker 2 (00:58):
We went on date. I found out his good job,
he's successful. He even owns his own home and it
was well furnished and he was a gentleman, and.

Speaker 1 (01:08):
Why did you get his credit score? Tea? I mean,
this is this is quite the background check you did
on the guy. But I get it. I get it.
You want to know what you're working with, right, right.

Speaker 2 (01:16):
Right, So, like I think I may have made a
mistake on the date, which is probably why he's ghosting me.
So I we did sleep together, okay, and maybe I
gave myself up too early, you know.

Speaker 1 (01:32):
So oh, I see, So you're thinking, you're thinking maybe
because like like he's getting the impression that you're easy
or something, which is not fair at all, by the way,
if that's what happens in people adults choose to do that,
then I don't think there should be any judgment or whatever.
But so you think that's what this is about. You
think we're gonna call him and he's gonna say, yeah,
you know, she would whatever, she was a little which

(01:55):
would be, by the way, totally unfair. But he might
say that was a little too easy for me.

Speaker 2 (02:00):
Yeah, I just maybe I just feel like kind of
like maybe I didn't play my cards right.

Speaker 1 (02:04):
So well, maybe you were too, Maybe he was too
easy for you, how about that?

Speaker 3 (02:09):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (02:10):
Yeah, yeah, you're not buying that. Okay, Look, I don't
know what happened here, and neither do you. And that's
what we're doing around waiting by the phone. We're gonna
call this guy, Patrick. You'll be on the phone at
the same time. We're going to ask these questions on
your behalf. And the hope, as always is that we
can figure out what's up, set you guys up on
another date and pay for it. Sounds good, Amanda, Yeah,
all right, let's call it Patrick. You guys, you met

(02:32):
on one of the dating apps. You had a great conversation,
you felt like everything went really well, and you went
on this date. You thought the date went well, there
was some fun stuff at the end of the date,
and now you haven't heard from the guy. And your
theory is maybe he thought this whole thing was a
little too easy and so now he's not calling you,
which not cool. But that's your theory.

Speaker 2 (02:50):
That is my theory yet.

Speaker 1 (02:52):
Okay, Well, let's call him now and we'll find out.
Good luck, Amanda, Thank you?

Speaker 3 (03:03):
Hell?

Speaker 1 (03:04):
Hi is this Patrick?

Speaker 3 (03:07):
Yeah? Yes, sir Patrick, Hey.

Speaker 1 (03:09):
Patrick, good morning. My name is Fred. I'm calling from
the Fred Show, the Morning radio show, and I have
to tell you that we are on the radio right
now and I need your permission to continue with the call.
Can we chat for just a second? You can hang
up anytime.

Speaker 3 (03:21):
Yeah, sure, I guess so sure.

Speaker 1 (03:22):
Okay, good, thank you. I'll take that as a guest.
We're calling on behalf of a woman who apparently met
you on a dating app. Her name is Amanda, and
you guys recently went out to you remember meeting Amanda?

Speaker 2 (03:31):
Ah?

Speaker 3 (03:31):
Yeah, yeah, I remember Amanda.

Speaker 1 (03:33):
Ah it said, they said vocal inflection that goes down.
Oh yeah, yeah. So what happened with her? Because oh wow,
Well she called us and she had a good experience
with you, and she was she was happy to go
out with you, but says she can't get a hold
of you since the date. So what happened?

Speaker 3 (03:48):
Oh that's actually surprising and interesting. I will say why.

Speaker 4 (03:54):
We we met on an app, you know, and he
I asked her out, and I I gotta say, I mean,
we did have like a really good date, you know,
I mean it was pretty cool, and uh, you know,
I had to I had to work in.

Speaker 3 (04:09):
The morning, so yeah, I didn't want to hang you know,
I didn't want to just bail. And I figured it was.
It was having such a good.

Speaker 4 (04:16):
Time hanging out with her. So I did invite her
back to my place, which you know, d me.

Speaker 3 (04:22):
Some things happened. We had a little fun, you know,
and she ended up spaying the night.

Speaker 4 (04:27):
So the next day I had going to work like
super early, and I mean I was tired and I
was hurting. But I told her, I was like, look,
you know, she could crash, she could stay as long
as she wanted to.

Speaker 3 (04:41):
Make herself comfortable, you know.

Speaker 4 (04:44):
And uh yeah, I mean that's that's that's when it.

Speaker 1 (04:49):
All went down, all right, Yeah, yeah, yeah, what what
did she say? You leave and you leave her in
the house, which is not nice thing to do. And
she's also a stranger, so that's kind of a daring
thing to do. But so you leave and then.

Speaker 4 (05:01):
Yeah, well you know, I mean it's a little bit
of trust.

Speaker 3 (05:03):
You know, we got to know each other.

Speaker 4 (05:05):
But come on, man, I did not expect her to
just have like a day.

Speaker 3 (05:10):
I mean, she she hung out.

Speaker 4 (05:13):
I mean she might not realize, like, I have a
ring camera set up, so I wasn't too concerned, you know,
in case anything out of the ordinary happened. But oh man,
let me tell you some of the stuff I saw
while I was at work. Man, So, uh, not only
did she wake up late and just kind of lounge
around hang out in my house, but then she ordered food.

Speaker 3 (05:35):
Had it delivered multiple.

Speaker 4 (05:37):
Times, like at least most three times multiple.

Speaker 1 (05:41):
Time, So we had on three meals in your home
while you were at work.

Speaker 4 (05:45):
Okay, then watching this, maybe a little breakfast kind of
makes sense.

Speaker 3 (05:50):
But then she just keeps on just chilling at my house.

Speaker 4 (05:53):
And then and then she bought weed. Man, she had
somebody to deliver weed door at the house.

Speaker 1 (06:00):
Like a street pharmacist, like a.

Speaker 4 (06:02):
Like a yeah, yeah, Well he just showed up a
little bag, you know. Then she sat down, you know,
ripped open a joint. You know, I just spoke there
right there on my couch. I mean, like, I'm watching
this and I just can't believe like the audacity. You know,
she even got a straight hand.

Speaker 1 (06:21):
And wait, like like like Paulina showed up with her
mobile spray tanning equipment and sprayed her down in your living.

Speaker 4 (06:32):
He showed up with one of those little tent things,
and you know, like going on, does this woman have
a house of her own? Like, I don't know if
I wasn't watching. If I wasn't watching this stuff take
place in my own living room, I would have been laughing,
you know what I mean. But it was like it
was ridiculous, you know, because he's a kicker.

Speaker 1 (06:55):
Oh there's always that's not it. Oh I'm sorry, that's
not it.

Speaker 3 (06:57):
No, there's more.

Speaker 1 (06:58):
Yeah, No, there's more.

Speaker 3 (06:59):
Man, here's the kicker. Let me tell you. Like at
some point, like.

Speaker 4 (07:03):
A whole bunch of girls like just showed up towards
the end of the day and they brought wine and
snacks and they were just hanging out like they were
having a party, like it was her house, you know,
And she invited them over for wine, did she.

Speaker 1 (07:20):
Oh, she had to get this spray tand before the
friends came over. Yeah, and she had to order stuff, you.

Speaker 4 (07:28):
Know, like like like don't people have jobs, Like, dude,
this was a Tuesday.

Speaker 1 (07:34):
Yeah. And when you say Patrick, when you're like, hey,
you can hang out, you're thinking, like you don't have
to rush out of bed, like you can, you know,
get yourself together, and then let me I forgot to
mention that Amanda is here. I still caught up in
the story. I'm very forgetful. Amanda were like, were you
ever going to go home? Like when when was enough enough?
I mean, you don't even barely know this person.

Speaker 5 (07:54):
So first of all, like you told, she told me
to make myself about home, which.

Speaker 3 (08:01):
He clearly didn't me, I have a home.

Speaker 2 (08:07):
You don't have a nice place like I think he's
I just like, I feel so confused because second of all,
he was watching me like.

Speaker 1 (08:17):
Well, yeah, this is his house, trying to figure out
how many people are at the party, and he's coming
home too like a man. Look, you know, you.

Speaker 3 (08:28):
Can't believe he's defending herself. I can't believe you. I
can't believe you're defending that.

Speaker 2 (08:34):
Like your home, which is exactly what I did.

Speaker 3 (08:38):
You can't.

Speaker 4 (08:41):
Like enjoy, enjoy, relaxing, make yourself a coffee, you know,
and didn't get.

Speaker 1 (08:46):
The hell out, I mean to go to your house
for there right, Like you're not together, you're not roommates.
When you're saying make yourself at home, it wasn't make
it your home, Well he didn't.

Speaker 5 (09:00):
Okay, The way you phrased it when we woke up
in the morning after our nights together was super like lovey,
dovey romantic.

Speaker 1 (09:06):
He was like, yeah, you can do whatever you want,
like yeah, like you.

Speaker 2 (09:09):
Know, make yourself at home. Like I'm so chill on
all this and turns not the still person he says
to you.

Speaker 4 (09:16):
She had Manda invites friends over and a spray tan
appointment at a stranger's house. I mean like, I mean, yeah,
we had to dood night together, but we barely we
knew each other one night.

Speaker 3 (09:30):
My maintenance a little bit.

Speaker 1 (09:31):
Okay, what did your friends say?

Speaker 2 (09:33):
Like?

Speaker 1 (09:33):
Whose house is this? Like what the guy that I
met last night?

Speaker 3 (09:37):
I felt weird.

Speaker 1 (09:38):
I mean your friends had to have been like where
are we? I think, what.

Speaker 3 (09:42):
Are we weird? Like not being on it?

Speaker 1 (09:45):
I don't think he was.

Speaker 4 (09:47):
I think, no, that's that's ridiculous that you're a squatter.

Speaker 1 (09:53):
Is she still there?

Speaker 3 (09:55):
You just bounced from from.

Speaker 4 (09:57):
Dude the dude on a dating apps and just move
in the night after you guys hook up.

Speaker 3 (10:02):
You're just like you're just a water Amanda.

Speaker 1 (10:06):
I don't know about the name calling here or whatever,
but I don't when someone says making some of you
just I think it's you got to gauge, like the relationship, right,
you just met the person he was trying not to
be impolite and kick you out after an intimate evening.
But what he was not saying was turn this into
your meeting room.

Speaker 4 (10:25):
Right, I gotta go to work at I gotta go
to work at five am. You know, I shouldn't have
been out so late to begin with, But like I realized,
not everybody wants to get up at five am after a.

Speaker 1 (10:35):
Night out, which I think is not cool.

Speaker 3 (10:38):
He really just Patrick, just listened to me.

Speaker 2 (10:42):
Patrick, what you did is that you used me for sex.

Speaker 3 (10:46):
That's the find at home.

Speaker 4 (10:51):
Yeah, you're trying to find a home to move into.

Speaker 2 (10:55):
And then boom.

Speaker 1 (10:56):
I don't think these two things are related, honestly, But okay,
I know the answer. I'll ask the question, Patrick, would
you like to go out with a mand again? She'll
move right in, like she'll come right over now.

Speaker 3 (11:06):
Oh hell no. In fact, I'm changing the locks to
my house.

Speaker 1 (11:10):
Okay, Look, Amanda, I think we disagree a little bit
on the definition of make yourself at home. But you know, hey,
you did your thing, and I'm sorry it's not going
to work out with Patrick. I wish you guys both
the best of luck.

Speaker 5 (11:21):
Okay, whatever, Patrick, or find your low maintenance wife or something.