September 27, 2023 • 8 mins
Gabe says he met Bianca on Instagram after she was tagged in a photo posted by a mutual friend. He was super excited that she gave him her number and then agreed to go out with him. They had fun! And had a second date in the works when all of a sudden, she stopped answering him. Listen to find out why Gabe got ghosted!
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Speaker 1 (00:02):
Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fredshell.
Hey Gabe, good morning, Welcome, how are you. We're doing okay,
how are you doing well? Welcome to waiting by the phone.
So we're trying to figure out what's going on with
this woman, Bianca, and we got to know kind of everything,
how you met, about any dates that you've been on,
and where things are now.
Speaker 2 (00:19):
Yeah, well we met on Instagram.
Speaker 3 (00:21):
Actually we have a friend in common, and she tagged
Beyonca on a picture and I saw her and I
thought she was super super hot, and we started chatting.
I had gotten her DMS and she actually gave me
her number, so, you know, moved to text and then
we decided to go out on a date and it
was really good. It was super phone. We just went
(00:43):
out for drinks. We ended up going for a little
walk after and grabbing some ice cream, and I thought
it was great. But then all of a sudden, out
of nowhere, she just completely stopped answering me, like she
hasn't responded to a single text, and I see she's
read them. So I just have no idea what happened,
and I'm hoping someone can help me figure out why.
Speaker 2 (01:06):
The stop out of nowhere?
Speaker 1 (01:07):
Caylen, what's the move? And this has I don't think
it has anything to do with it, But what's the
move when? Like, if if I see a hot girl
in one of your pictures that you tagged, do I
go straight to the source or do I go to
you and say, hey, will you set me up.
Speaker 2 (01:21):
With so and so?
Speaker 1 (01:22):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (01:23):
Well you and I you would go to me. I
think it depends on how close you are with the person, right.
Speaker 3 (01:26):
So, were you close with this mutual friend or is
it just someone you know like from following or no, Yeah,
we're I mean close enough where friends were in like
kind of the same circle, but not best friends, you
know what I mean? I would hang out with groups
of others, but not just each other.
Speaker 2 (01:39):
I mean, it's not relevant to the story.
Speaker 1 (01:40):
I was just thinking about, like, you know, how, how
how would I go about that?
Speaker 2 (01:44):
My friends don't know? You can't date them.
Speaker 1 (01:45):
Because well, well, I'm joking, I love you.
Speaker 2 (01:50):
Yeah that's why I'm actually what.
Speaker 3 (01:54):
Yeah, I messaged my friend and I was like, Hey,
your friend's super cute. Do you think I would be okay?
From their message? And so I did, Oh yeah, she
said go for it and so I started with that.
I was like, Hey, we have this friend. In comment
she said, we get along.
Speaker 1 (02:07):
Yeah. I was just thinking about like if Calen found
out that I was messaging one of her friends asking
her out and I somehow cut you out of the process,
does that make it look like, I don't know, is
that like a bad look for me?
Speaker 2 (02:17):
Like why would you just tell me? Kind of thing?
Speaker 1 (02:18):
But anyway, I'm not relevant. It just got my mind going.
But so let's play one song, Gabe, come back. We'll
call this woman Bianca who's not calling you back. You
think she's ghosting you. We'll try and figure out what's
going on. We'll ask some questions. She'll be on the
phone at some point. You're welcome to jumping on the
call and hopefully we can straighten this whole thing out
and then set you guys up on another date that
we paid for.
Speaker 2 (02:36):
Sound good? Awesome?
Speaker 4 (02:37):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (02:37):
Thanks, Let's find out what's up next after the weekend?
Part two of Waiting by the Phony two minutes on
the French shows. There right are the weekend is on
the French show commercial free for the next forty five minutes.
You don't have to go anywhere. Hey, Gabe, Yeah, hey, man,
let's call Bianca. You guys, you met on Instagram, you
slid the DMS, you guys chatted a little bit, you
went on a date. You thought the day went great,
(02:58):
except you haven't heard from her since the date, and
you want to know why.
Speaker 2 (03:02):
That's exactly it. All right, we're gonna call her now.
Good luck, my man, Thank you so much.
Speaker 1 (03:12):
Hello. Hi is this Bianca? Yeah, Bianca, Hi, thanks for answering.
My name is Fred. I'm actually calling from the Fred Show,
the morning radio show, and I have to tell you
that we are on the radio right now, and I
would need your permission to continue with the call.
Speaker 2 (03:25):
Is it cool food chat for just a second.
Speaker 1 (03:30):
Well, we're actually calling about a guy named Gabe, who
I guess you guys. He messaged you on Instagram and
you recently went on a date. Do you remember Gabe?
Speaker 4 (03:38):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (03:40):
Okay, Well, he had really nice things to say about
you and and felt like that your date went really well.
But he says that you have been ignoring him since
the date. He feels like he's being ghosted and he
wants to know why. So what's going on?
Speaker 4 (03:53):
Yeah, Yeah, we went on a date. It went well.
We were going to go on another eight. But so
on the first date, I brought up something I saw
on Twitter, and so then we were just like decided
that we were going to like follow each other on Twitter.
So like we did it like when we were sitting there.
Speaker 1 (04:16):
By the way, I hate, I hate to but you
axed him and then he asked you, and then you
were exiting each other and reading his excess. I'm so
stupid to say, but anyway, sorry, so sorry each other
on right, and.
Speaker 4 (04:36):
I uh, Over the like next few days, I was
seeing some of the stuff he liked like pop up
in my speed and it was weird. It was like
like gross, like adult content.
Speaker 1 (04:53):
Stuff is there to Twitter? Where have I been opening
X right now? Don't do it because your likes are
I guess we're learning about that. But I didn't realize
that that. I knew there was something on Instagram like
that and at various other places. I didn't know that
there was a pony side to Twitter. Oh wow, So
(05:15):
what kind of stuff we talking about?
Speaker 4 (05:18):
Just like honestly like the stuff that made me think
we are not going to be compatible in that situation,
and honestly like super disturbing.
Speaker 1 (05:28):
Wow, the dirty boy disturbing. Let me bring Gabe and
I forgot to mention that Gabe is here. I'm so forgetful.
I get so caught up in the story.
Speaker 2 (05:37):
Gabe. What sort of.
Speaker 1 (05:37):
Things are we? What are we doing on the old
Lex here? The Twitter? What on the Twitter?
Speaker 3 (05:41):
Is?
Speaker 1 (05:41):
Okay?
Speaker 2 (05:41):
What are we doing? What are we liking? This is all?
Speaker 3 (05:45):
This is all complete lie. You can't You can't see
what someone likes on Twitter anywhere. There's no way to
do that.
Speaker 1 (05:53):
It sounds like you can, actually, it turns out, so
that's that Probably is quite the awakening for you. It
sounds like, right now, what what are we liking on
their game?
Speaker 2 (06:03):
Like stuff?
Speaker 3 (06:03):
My friends posts and stuff. I think I must have
been like hacked, maybe because you're seeing.
Speaker 4 (06:08):
Real stuff like that.
Speaker 3 (06:10):
Okay, had to be some other account or something.
Speaker 2 (06:13):
I see he was hacked? Yeah, because I.
Speaker 3 (06:17):
Follow my friends and like their stuff.
Speaker 2 (06:19):
So oh good. So your friends are disturbed too. That's good.
So we're all disturbed. Important, very interesting.
Speaker 1 (06:26):
This is I I have a project later on during
the commercial break to go see what I can find Twitter. Well,
I just didn't know it was on there. But okay,
so Beyonca, you saw that he liked a bunch of
stuff and you're like, this is this is too weird
for me. Gabe is saying that he doesn't know any
of that he has. He's very confused. He doesn't well,
first he said that he didn't know people could see it,
(06:48):
and then once he realized that they could see it,
then it was like, well, I didn't do it right,
so you got hacked? Yeah, oh my god, a lot
of hacking teams going on these days.
Speaker 2 (06:57):
Game.
Speaker 1 (06:57):
I'll tell you what did you scant like a q
R q R or did you respond to the Nigerian
prince email or something?
Speaker 2 (07:03):
Is that what happened?
Speaker 3 (07:04):
I clicked one of my friends the links that looks weird.
I don't know, man, but I didn't like any weird stuff,
so obviously that's the only explanation is that. B Yeah,
maybe it's like another country or something.
Speaker 1 (07:19):
Trust me, I'm not like another country. Let's go say
makes it no less weird. But okay, yeah, you're gonna
tell us anything or no? Are you going to just
continue to say that you don't know?
Speaker 3 (07:31):
Actually, I think I got to run, got go out.
Speaker 1 (07:35):
Yeah. Yeah, By the way, they can see what you
like on Twitter, just to heads up and uh, Bianca,
So no, no second date. I can't. I can't you know, consume,
pay for it, that kind of thing. Absolutely not okay,
not gonna work out. All right, Look, Gabe, I might
consider there's a thing called I think it's called tweet deleted.
Speaker 2 (07:56):
Or just add two more access to X and then
go to that website homing. You know what I'm saying
or not.
Speaker 3 (08:01):
I don't. I don't know what you're saying.
Speaker 1 (08:02):
Of course he doesn't. He doesn't know anything about that. No,
because he was hacked, and he was hacked and he
has no clip.
Speaker 2 (08:08):
What you're at though?
Speaker 1 (08:09):
Yeah something Yeah, not into weird stuff.
Speaker 2 (08:15):
Sixty nine game? All right, guys.
Speaker 1 (08:18):
Hey, look, I'm sorry tecing to work out best subluct
to both of you than
Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fredshell.
Hey Gabe, good morning, Welcome, how are you. We're doing okay,
how are you doing well? Welcome to waiting by the phone.
So we're trying to figure out what's going on with
this woman, Bianca, and we got to know kind of everything,
how you met, about any dates that you've been on,
and where things are now.
Speaker 2 (00:19):
Yeah, well we met on Instagram.
Speaker 3 (00:21):
Actually we have a friend in common, and she tagged
Beyonca on a picture and I saw her and I
thought she was super super hot, and we started chatting.
I had gotten her DMS and she actually gave me
her number, so, you know, moved to text and then
we decided to go out on a date and it
was really good. It was super phone. We just went
(00:43):
out for drinks. We ended up going for a little
walk after and grabbing some ice cream, and I thought
it was great. But then all of a sudden, out
of nowhere, she just completely stopped answering me, like she
hasn't responded to a single text, and I see she's
read them. So I just have no idea what happened,
and I'm hoping someone can help me figure out why.
Speaker 2 (01:06):
The stop out of nowhere?
Speaker 1 (01:07):
Caylen, what's the move? And this has I don't think
it has anything to do with it, But what's the
move when? Like, if if I see a hot girl
in one of your pictures that you tagged, do I
go straight to the source or do I go to
you and say, hey, will you set me up.
Speaker 2 (01:21):
With so and so?
Speaker 1 (01:22):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (01:23):
Well you and I you would go to me. I
think it depends on how close you are with the person, right.
Speaker 3 (01:26):
So, were you close with this mutual friend or is
it just someone you know like from following or no, Yeah,
we're I mean close enough where friends were in like
kind of the same circle, but not best friends, you
know what I mean? I would hang out with groups
of others, but not just each other.
Speaker 2 (01:39):
I mean, it's not relevant to the story.
Speaker 1 (01:40):
I was just thinking about, like, you know, how, how
how would I go about that?
Speaker 2 (01:44):
My friends don't know? You can't date them.
Speaker 1 (01:45):
Because well, well, I'm joking, I love you.
Speaker 2 (01:50):
Yeah that's why I'm actually what.
Speaker 3 (01:54):
Yeah, I messaged my friend and I was like, Hey,
your friend's super cute. Do you think I would be okay?
From their message? And so I did, Oh yeah, she
said go for it and so I started with that.
I was like, Hey, we have this friend. In comment
she said, we get along.
Speaker 1 (02:07):
Yeah. I was just thinking about like if Calen found
out that I was messaging one of her friends asking
her out and I somehow cut you out of the process,
does that make it look like, I don't know, is
that like a bad look for me?
Speaker 2 (02:17):
Like why would you just tell me? Kind of thing?
Speaker 1 (02:18):
But anyway, I'm not relevant. It just got my mind going.
But so let's play one song, Gabe, come back. We'll
call this woman Bianca who's not calling you back. You
think she's ghosting you. We'll try and figure out what's
going on. We'll ask some questions. She'll be on the
phone at some point. You're welcome to jumping on the
call and hopefully we can straighten this whole thing out
and then set you guys up on another date that
we paid for.
Speaker 2 (02:36):
Sound good? Awesome?
Speaker 4 (02:37):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (02:37):
Thanks, Let's find out what's up next after the weekend?
Part two of Waiting by the Phony two minutes on
the French shows. There right are the weekend is on
the French show commercial free for the next forty five minutes.
You don't have to go anywhere. Hey, Gabe, Yeah, hey, man,
let's call Bianca. You guys, you met on Instagram, you
slid the DMS, you guys chatted a little bit, you
went on a date. You thought the day went great,
(02:58):
except you haven't heard from her since the date, and
you want to know why.
Speaker 2 (03:02):
That's exactly it. All right, we're gonna call her now.
Good luck, my man, Thank you so much.
Speaker 1 (03:12):
Hello. Hi is this Bianca? Yeah, Bianca, Hi, thanks for answering.
My name is Fred. I'm actually calling from the Fred Show,
the morning radio show, and I have to tell you
that we are on the radio right now, and I
would need your permission to continue with the call.
Speaker 2 (03:25):
Is it cool food chat for just a second.
Speaker 1 (03:30):
Well, we're actually calling about a guy named Gabe, who
I guess you guys. He messaged you on Instagram and
you recently went on a date. Do you remember Gabe?
Speaker 4 (03:38):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (03:40):
Okay, Well, he had really nice things to say about
you and and felt like that your date went really well.
But he says that you have been ignoring him since
the date. He feels like he's being ghosted and he
wants to know why. So what's going on?
Speaker 4 (03:53):
Yeah, Yeah, we went on a date. It went well.
We were going to go on another eight. But so
on the first date, I brought up something I saw
on Twitter, and so then we were just like decided
that we were going to like follow each other on Twitter.
So like we did it like when we were sitting there.
Speaker 1 (04:16):
By the way, I hate, I hate to but you
axed him and then he asked you, and then you
were exiting each other and reading his excess. I'm so
stupid to say, but anyway, sorry, so sorry each other
on right, and.
Speaker 4 (04:36):
I uh, Over the like next few days, I was
seeing some of the stuff he liked like pop up
in my speed and it was weird. It was like
like gross, like adult content.
Speaker 1 (04:53):
Stuff is there to Twitter? Where have I been opening
X right now? Don't do it because your likes are
I guess we're learning about that. But I didn't realize
that that. I knew there was something on Instagram like
that and at various other places. I didn't know that
there was a pony side to Twitter. Oh wow, So
(05:15):
what kind of stuff we talking about?
Speaker 4 (05:18):
Just like honestly like the stuff that made me think
we are not going to be compatible in that situation,
and honestly like super disturbing.
Speaker 1 (05:28):
Wow, the dirty boy disturbing. Let me bring Gabe and
I forgot to mention that Gabe is here. I'm so forgetful.
I get so caught up in the story.
Speaker 2 (05:37):
Gabe. What sort of.
Speaker 1 (05:37):
Things are we? What are we doing on the old
Lex here? The Twitter? What on the Twitter?
Speaker 3 (05:41):
Is?
Speaker 1 (05:41):
Okay?
Speaker 2 (05:41):
What are we doing? What are we liking? This is all?
Speaker 3 (05:45):
This is all complete lie. You can't You can't see
what someone likes on Twitter anywhere. There's no way to
do that.
Speaker 1 (05:53):
It sounds like you can, actually, it turns out, so
that's that Probably is quite the awakening for you. It
sounds like, right now, what what are we liking on
their game?
Speaker 2 (06:03):
Like stuff?
Speaker 3 (06:03):
My friends posts and stuff. I think I must have
been like hacked, maybe because you're seeing.
Speaker 4 (06:08):
Real stuff like that.
Speaker 3 (06:10):
Okay, had to be some other account or something.
Speaker 2 (06:13):
I see he was hacked? Yeah, because I.
Speaker 3 (06:17):
Follow my friends and like their stuff.
Speaker 2 (06:19):
So oh good. So your friends are disturbed too. That's good.
So we're all disturbed. Important, very interesting.
Speaker 1 (06:26):
This is I I have a project later on during
the commercial break to go see what I can find Twitter. Well,
I just didn't know it was on there. But okay,
so Beyonca, you saw that he liked a bunch of
stuff and you're like, this is this is too weird
for me. Gabe is saying that he doesn't know any
of that he has. He's very confused. He doesn't well,
first he said that he didn't know people could see it,
(06:48):
and then once he realized that they could see it,
then it was like, well, I didn't do it right,
so you got hacked? Yeah, oh my god, a lot
of hacking teams going on these days.
Speaker 2 (06:57):
Game.
Speaker 1 (06:57):
I'll tell you what did you scant like a q
R q R or did you respond to the Nigerian
prince email or something?
Speaker 2 (07:03):
Is that what happened?
Speaker 3 (07:04):
I clicked one of my friends the links that looks weird.
I don't know, man, but I didn't like any weird stuff,
so obviously that's the only explanation is that. B Yeah,
maybe it's like another country or something.
Speaker 1 (07:19):
Trust me, I'm not like another country. Let's go say
makes it no less weird. But okay, yeah, you're gonna
tell us anything or no? Are you going to just
continue to say that you don't know?
Speaker 3 (07:31):
Actually, I think I got to run, got go out.
Speaker 1 (07:35):
Yeah. Yeah, By the way, they can see what you
like on Twitter, just to heads up and uh, Bianca,
So no, no second date. I can't. I can't you know, consume,
pay for it, that kind of thing. Absolutely not okay,
not gonna work out. All right, Look, Gabe, I might
consider there's a thing called I think it's called tweet deleted.
Speaker 2 (07:56):
Or just add two more access to X and then
go to that website homing. You know what I'm saying
or not.
Speaker 3 (08:01):
I don't. I don't know what you're saying.
Speaker 1 (08:02):
Of course he doesn't. He doesn't know anything about that. No,
because he was hacked, and he was hacked and he
has no clip.
Speaker 2 (08:08):
What you're at though?
Speaker 1 (08:09):
Yeah something Yeah, not into weird stuff.
Speaker 2 (08:15):
Sixty nine game? All right, guys.
Speaker 1 (08:18):
Hey, look, I'm sorry tecing to work out best subluct
to both of you than
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