During the mizu kuyo ritual for pregnancy loss, a small Jizo Bodhisattva statue enshrines ceremonial remains of a lost child.
Following Shin Yu’s miscarriage in 2012, she had a mizu kuyo ceremony to process her grief.
Miscarriage is a socially taboo topic that many people have difficulty talking about. It’s often laden with grief, shame, and self-blame and is a loss that has not been very normalized in public discourse. Through Shin Yu’s personal story this episode shines a light on the silent subject of miscarriage and how the Jizo Bodhisattva can provide comfort to grieving parents.
Related links:
Adopting a Buddhist Ritual to Mourn Miscarraige, Abortion via NPR
Water Returning to Water: A Buddhist Ritual Brings Release by Shin Yu Pai
Splitting the Milk, a poem by Shin Yu Pai
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Ten Thousand Things is produced by KUOW in Seattle. Our host, writer, and creator is Shin Yu Pai. Whitney Henry-Lester produced this episode. Jim Gates is our editor. Tomo Nakayama wrote our theme music. Additional music in this episode by inola and The Field Tapes.
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