January 24, 2025 • 10 mins
➡︎ The Jubal Show’s First Date Follow Up
What happens when you get ghosted after a first date? You call The Jubal Show and have them find out why! It's like putting yourself in a situation to get roasted, when you really just want a second date.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
First date of follow up powered by the Advocates Injury
Attorneys online at Advocateslaw dot com. Brandon is on the
phone today for a first date follow up and he's
getting ghosted by Caitlin. So in a few minutes, we're
gonna call her and see if she's house, why she's
ghosting him, and maybe get him another date. But first, Brandon,
how long has it been since you heard from Caitlin.
Speaker 2 (00:19):
Man, Uh, it's been probably about a week or so.
Speaker 3 (00:25):
Okay, okay, You've been trying to hit her up.
Speaker 4 (00:27):
Yeah, been trying to just call and nothing.
Speaker 3 (00:31):
Nothing. All right, Well, tell us a little bit about
your date.
Speaker 2 (00:36):
So we were set up by a mutual friend. Man,
I heard it was right like, Caitlin was beautiful and
so fun and h instantly I was, I was hooked.
So we took her or I took her out to
uh just this chill pizza place and pretty cool. That
let you build your own pizza and put your own
toppings and stuff and you get to be creative with
(00:58):
with your with your pie, and uh, that's that's all cool.
But I'm you know, I'm really more of just like
a Peperoni guy. So I just did that, but Caitlin,
she actually convinced me to try some prosto on my pizza,
and I gotta hands her it was.
Speaker 5 (01:16):
It was delicious.
Speaker 4 (01:17):
I didn't know what I've been missing out.
Speaker 3 (01:18):
On yours when you ordered that, I did, Okay.
Speaker 2 (01:25):
I got to throw it a little bit. I love Italian,
so anytime I could say no, it was it was
great so good. They were like, well, let's just keep
this going. We grabbed a nightcap, got some wine at
a place next door. Fortunate enough, Kitlin loves a good
whiskey too, so I treated her to an excellent Japanese whiskey,
(01:47):
and uh that opened the door to talking about travel
and our hopes and dreams.
Speaker 6 (01:54):
And places we've been, places we'd like to go.
Speaker 2 (01:58):
So then after that, I walked her home and actually.
Speaker 4 (02:03):
Ended the night with a kiss.
Speaker 5 (02:04):
It was I guess it was a little awkward, but
it was awkward.
Speaker 2 (02:08):
Well you just like I went in to kiss her,
kiss her sheep, and then like she turned and I
ended up like kissing her lips, and it was It
was kind of an awkwards last funny moment, but cool.
Speaker 1 (02:22):
And okay, like one of those weird first kiss moments
where it's like some you're kind of kind of dancing
trying to figure out where you're supposed to go with it.
Speaker 6 (02:30):
Yeah, yeah, like it was.
Speaker 2 (02:31):
It was kind of like a funny moment, but I
mean it turned into kind of a passionate kiss and
and we're planned to see each other afterwards.
Speaker 3 (02:40):
Okay, that's good, but she hasn't gotten back to you.
What do you think? What do you think the reason
is she's goosed to That's that's the thing.
Speaker 2 (02:47):
I don't know, Like, like we had a great day,
you know, the piece was was great, the drinks afterwards
were great.
Speaker 6 (02:52):
You know.
Speaker 4 (02:52):
The kiss, although awkward, it was kind of funny and
she didn't seem put off by it. You know, she
actually leaned into the.
Speaker 2 (03:00):
Kiss afterwards, so like it seemed like everything was happening.
But then I don't know, I mean, you know how
you seem to go like any anything could have happened
near in the night that she might have just sound
disgusting or off putting, and then just didn't want to
make it awkward.
Speaker 7 (03:18):
I don't know.
Speaker 4 (03:19):
I'm kind of I've never been.
Speaker 6 (03:21):
Ghosted, so I'm just got I have all these questions
with I'm going home, but.
Speaker 3 (03:25):
Did nothing happen that's sticking out in your mind.
Speaker 2 (03:28):
No, no, and like even at the like I said,
like at the end of the night, like with the kiss,
like I don't think anyone that didn't want to see
me again would have engaged like that, you know. And
then when we were done, she actually mentioned she was
excited to see me again. So that's even more like
trivia with the situation.
Speaker 3 (03:46):
Now, mm hmm. Okay, well we'll see if we can
figure it out for you.
Speaker 1 (03:49):
Then we'll play a song come Back, and then call
her and sous your house why she's ghosting you, and.
Speaker 3 (03:53):
Maybe get to another date.
Speaker 1 (03:54):
Okay, okay, all right, well play on come Back and
get your first Day follow up next.
Speaker 5 (04:02):
If you're just.
Speaker 1 (04:02):
Joining us for today's First Day follow up. But Brandon
is on the phone and he's getting ghosted by Caitlin.
So we're about to call her and see if she'll
tell us why she's ghosting him and see if we
can get him another date. But first, Brandon, before we
call her, why don't you refresh our memory on your
date with Kaitlyn.
Speaker 6 (04:16):
So Caitlin and I went on a date.
Speaker 2 (04:18):
I set it by mutual friends. We had pizza and
wine and that was great, build your own and then
we went out for drinks afterwards, great conversation. That walked
her home and we ended up kissing and it was great.
And then she was excited to seemingly excited dissing me again.
But after that, it's just been Na's been no communication.
Speaker 3 (04:42):
And you have no idea why.
Speaker 4 (04:45):
Yeah, nothing.
Speaker 6 (04:47):
It's kind of disappointing. So I really liked her.
Speaker 2 (04:49):
I thought we had great chemistry and it seemed to
be mutual. So yeah, I'd be really bummed if it
didn't work out.
Speaker 3 (04:56):
Yeah, Well, are you ready for us to call her?
Speaker 6 (04:59):
Absolutely?
Speaker 3 (04:59):
All right, here we go.
Speaker 1 (05:14):
Hello, Hi, mass sweet to Kitlin. Please Caitlin, Hey, how
are you? My name is Jewbel. I'm calling from a
radio show. It's called The Jewbel Show.
Speaker 3 (05:22):
Hi, Caitlin, we're all here. I'm Nina also on the show. Hi,
and I'm Victoria. Okay, Hi, Hi, what's going on? Not much?
Speaker 5 (05:32):
Why are you calling me?
Speaker 3 (05:33):
Have you ever listened to the show before?
Speaker 5 (05:36):
No, I'm sorry.
Speaker 3 (05:37):
That's okay. You don't have to apologize.
Speaker 1 (05:38):
Maybe you will know that's we're calling you because we
do a segment on the show. It's called the First Date.
Speaker 6 (05:44):
Follow up.
Speaker 1 (05:44):
That's where if you go on a date with someone
and then you ghost them, that person can email us
and ask us to call you and see if we
can figure out why you're ghosting them. So we got
an email about you from somebody that you went on
a date with.
Speaker 3 (05:55):
Oh are you ghasting somebody? Well you are? You know
who it is?
Speaker 5 (06:01):
Is it Brandon?
Speaker 7 (06:02):
Yes?
Speaker 1 (06:03):
Brandon emailed us and told us a little bit about
your date, and he said he really likes you and
he thought you were into him. So he's confused as
so why you're ghosting him? Do you mind telling us?
Speaker 5 (06:13):
Well? I did really like him. Okay, he's hot and
smart and kind of awkward. It is actually kind of charming.
Speaker 3 (06:23):
So you liked him, but you're ghosting him?
Speaker 7 (06:25):
Well, he texted me something after our date that I
just like, haven't been able to get over.
Speaker 5 (06:31):
I didn't really know what to do with it.
Speaker 3 (06:33):
Well, was it a picture or something?
Speaker 2 (06:36):
Oh?
Speaker 3 (06:36):
No, God, no, I mean that happens.
Speaker 5 (06:41):
I think he's a good guy.
Speaker 3 (06:44):
What did he text you?
Speaker 5 (06:45):
Okay, letly really find it.
Speaker 4 (06:49):
Uh?
Speaker 5 (06:50):
Okay, the text is your magic and have awakened parts
of my body that I have never felt before.
Speaker 3 (06:59):
Well as romantic.
Speaker 7 (07:03):
It's like on the line, you know, like I don't
that's just that's a lot after one day and kiss,
and like I don't know if he's like in a
Shakespeare play, Like is he taking himself seriously? When he
said that, I kind of was expecting another text that
was like, you know, harks their maiden, I long for
(07:24):
another evening of your presence or something like that.
Speaker 3 (07:27):
You know, I could have been you know, there's some
people out there that believe in love at first night,
so if they're laying on, don't think that could be
a good thing.
Speaker 7 (07:34):
It was just it was so earnest and it just
kind of felt like too much. And I think he
hasn't been in a relationship in a while, and so
I was afraid he was in like this romantic, dreamy
bubble and I I gotta be with someone who's in
the world that I'm living in.
Speaker 5 (07:52):
You know what I mean.
Speaker 3 (07:53):
So I just hit you like a little bit too much.
Speaker 5 (07:56):
It just felt a little I mean, how is that possible?
Like I'm it's a person, give yourself a little magic,
but like I've awakened parts of his body they.
Speaker 3 (08:07):
Never saw.
Speaker 5 (08:11):
A little overwhelming to me. Okay, and then I don't
know if I'm like on a pedestal. I just it
just made me a little nervous.
Speaker 1 (08:18):
Okay, all right, well thank you for telling us that.
Now I got to let you know that Brandon is
on the phone and has been listening and wants it
talks on.
Speaker 4 (08:26):
Okay, Park, Yes, well, I have dreamt of this pleasure
of occasion.
Speaker 7 (08:40):
Again, Hi, Park, I'm sorry I just put your business
out on the radio, but you didn't have them call me.
Speaker 4 (08:52):
So no, that's that's quite all right.
Speaker 3 (08:55):
What parts of the body were awakened, Brandon?
Speaker 6 (09:00):
I mean, I'd rather not discuss that. I think people understand.
Speaker 3 (09:08):
That was pretty bold of you. Brandon. What was going
on through your mind when you sent that text?
Speaker 4 (09:12):
I don't know I was awakened.
Speaker 5 (09:18):
I'm just I'm a playful guy.
Speaker 2 (09:20):
But Kaylyn just want to assure you that I do
live in a reality and after our date, I was like, legit,
I've never felt that way, and after my last relationship,
I just that was lacking and I want another date
and I want to be a part of your reality.
Speaker 6 (09:39):
Oh maybe I'm over the top, but this is how
I was feeling, honestly.
Speaker 3 (09:44):
Well, Caitlyn would you like another date with Brandon? We'll
pay for it.
Speaker 1 (09:48):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (09:50):
Oh see Shakespeare's got Congratulations Brandon, you did it, You
got another day.
Speaker 5 (09:58):
I mean I that he has a good attitude and
and could laugh at this, and I appreciate that we're
more on the same page than.
Speaker 4 (10:08):
I thought, Kaylen.
Speaker 6 (10:10):
And I can't say how I say it am And I.
Speaker 2 (10:13):
Promise if I'm going overboard with anything, you can always
talk to me about it.
Speaker 5 (10:17):
But hard, Kaylen, My heart and the onions are in bloom.
Speaker 4 (10:22):
I wait for next week at the Outback Steakhouse soon.
Speaker 3 (10:33):
That is a romantic, jubile first day follow up.
First date of follow up powered by the Advocates Injury
Attorneys online at Advocateslaw dot com. Brandon is on the
phone today for a first date follow up and he's
getting ghosted by Caitlin. So in a few minutes, we're
gonna call her and see if she's house, why she's
ghosting him, and maybe get him another date. But first, Brandon,
how long has it been since you heard from Caitlin.
Speaker 2 (00:19):
Man, Uh, it's been probably about a week or so.
Speaker 3 (00:25):
Okay, okay, You've been trying to hit her up.
Speaker 4 (00:27):
Yeah, been trying to just call and nothing.
Speaker 3 (00:31):
Nothing. All right, Well, tell us a little bit about
your date.
Speaker 2 (00:36):
So we were set up by a mutual friend. Man,
I heard it was right like, Caitlin was beautiful and
so fun and h instantly I was, I was hooked.
So we took her or I took her out to
uh just this chill pizza place and pretty cool. That
let you build your own pizza and put your own
toppings and stuff and you get to be creative with
(00:58):
with your with your pie, and uh, that's that's all cool.
But I'm you know, I'm really more of just like
a Peperoni guy. So I just did that, but Caitlin,
she actually convinced me to try some prosto on my pizza,
and I gotta hands her it was.
Speaker 5 (01:16):
It was delicious.
Speaker 4 (01:17):
I didn't know what I've been missing out.
Speaker 3 (01:18):
On yours when you ordered that, I did, Okay.
Speaker 2 (01:25):
I got to throw it a little bit. I love Italian,
so anytime I could say no, it was it was
great so good. They were like, well, let's just keep
this going. We grabbed a nightcap, got some wine at
a place next door. Fortunate enough, Kitlin loves a good
whiskey too, so I treated her to an excellent Japanese whiskey,
(01:47):
and uh that opened the door to talking about travel
and our hopes and dreams.
Speaker 6 (01:54):
And places we've been, places we'd like to go.
Speaker 2 (01:58):
So then after that, I walked her home and actually.
Speaker 4 (02:03):
Ended the night with a kiss.
Speaker 5 (02:04):
It was I guess it was a little awkward, but
it was awkward.
Speaker 2 (02:08):
Well you just like I went in to kiss her,
kiss her sheep, and then like she turned and I
ended up like kissing her lips, and it was It
was kind of an awkwards last funny moment, but cool.
Speaker 1 (02:22):
And okay, like one of those weird first kiss moments
where it's like some you're kind of kind of dancing
trying to figure out where you're supposed to go with it.
Speaker 6 (02:30):
Yeah, yeah, like it was.
Speaker 2 (02:31):
It was kind of like a funny moment, but I
mean it turned into kind of a passionate kiss and
and we're planned to see each other afterwards.
Speaker 3 (02:40):
Okay, that's good, but she hasn't gotten back to you.
What do you think? What do you think the reason
is she's goosed to That's that's the thing.
Speaker 2 (02:47):
I don't know, Like, like we had a great day,
you know, the piece was was great, the drinks afterwards
were great.
Speaker 6 (02:52):
You know.
Speaker 4 (02:52):
The kiss, although awkward, it was kind of funny and
she didn't seem put off by it. You know, she
actually leaned into the.
Speaker 2 (03:00):
Kiss afterwards, so like it seemed like everything was happening.
But then I don't know, I mean, you know how
you seem to go like any anything could have happened
near in the night that she might have just sound
disgusting or off putting, and then just didn't want to
make it awkward.
Speaker 7 (03:18):
I don't know.
Speaker 4 (03:19):
I'm kind of I've never been.
Speaker 6 (03:21):
Ghosted, so I'm just got I have all these questions
with I'm going home, but.
Speaker 3 (03:25):
Did nothing happen that's sticking out in your mind.
Speaker 2 (03:28):
No, no, and like even at the like I said,
like at the end of the night, like with the kiss,
like I don't think anyone that didn't want to see
me again would have engaged like that, you know. And
then when we were done, she actually mentioned she was
excited to see me again. So that's even more like
trivia with the situation.
Speaker 3 (03:46):
Now, mm hmm. Okay, well we'll see if we can
figure it out for you.
Speaker 1 (03:49):
Then we'll play a song come Back, and then call
her and sous your house why she's ghosting you, and.
Speaker 3 (03:53):
Maybe get to another date.
Speaker 1 (03:54):
Okay, okay, all right, well play on come Back and
get your first Day follow up next.
Speaker 5 (04:02):
If you're just.
Speaker 1 (04:02):
Joining us for today's First Day follow up. But Brandon
is on the phone and he's getting ghosted by Caitlin.
So we're about to call her and see if she'll
tell us why she's ghosting him and see if we
can get him another date. But first, Brandon, before we
call her, why don't you refresh our memory on your
date with Kaitlyn.
Speaker 6 (04:16):
So Caitlin and I went on a date.
Speaker 2 (04:18):
I set it by mutual friends. We had pizza and
wine and that was great, build your own and then
we went out for drinks afterwards, great conversation. That walked
her home and we ended up kissing and it was great.
And then she was excited to seemingly excited dissing me again.
But after that, it's just been Na's been no communication.
Speaker 3 (04:42):
And you have no idea why.
Speaker 4 (04:45):
Yeah, nothing.
Speaker 6 (04:47):
It's kind of disappointing. So I really liked her.
Speaker 2 (04:49):
I thought we had great chemistry and it seemed to
be mutual. So yeah, I'd be really bummed if it
didn't work out.
Speaker 3 (04:56):
Yeah, Well, are you ready for us to call her?
Speaker 6 (04:59):
Absolutely?
Speaker 3 (04:59):
All right, here we go.
Speaker 1 (05:14):
Hello, Hi, mass sweet to Kitlin. Please Caitlin, Hey, how
are you? My name is Jewbel. I'm calling from a
radio show. It's called The Jewbel Show.
Speaker 3 (05:22):
Hi, Caitlin, we're all here. I'm Nina also on the show. Hi,
and I'm Victoria. Okay, Hi, Hi, what's going on? Not much?
Speaker 5 (05:32):
Why are you calling me?
Speaker 3 (05:33):
Have you ever listened to the show before?
Speaker 5 (05:36):
No, I'm sorry.
Speaker 3 (05:37):
That's okay. You don't have to apologize.
Speaker 1 (05:38):
Maybe you will know that's we're calling you because we
do a segment on the show. It's called the First Date.
Speaker 6 (05:44):
Follow up.
Speaker 1 (05:44):
That's where if you go on a date with someone
and then you ghost them, that person can email us
and ask us to call you and see if we
can figure out why you're ghosting them. So we got
an email about you from somebody that you went on
a date with.
Speaker 3 (05:55):
Oh are you ghasting somebody? Well you are? You know
who it is?
Speaker 5 (06:01):
Is it Brandon?
Speaker 7 (06:02):
Yes?
Speaker 1 (06:03):
Brandon emailed us and told us a little bit about
your date, and he said he really likes you and
he thought you were into him. So he's confused as
so why you're ghosting him? Do you mind telling us?
Speaker 5 (06:13):
Well? I did really like him. Okay, he's hot and
smart and kind of awkward. It is actually kind of charming.
Speaker 3 (06:23):
So you liked him, but you're ghosting him?
Speaker 7 (06:25):
Well, he texted me something after our date that I
just like, haven't been able to get over.
Speaker 5 (06:31):
I didn't really know what to do with it.
Speaker 3 (06:33):
Well, was it a picture or something?
Speaker 2 (06:36):
Oh?
Speaker 3 (06:36):
No, God, no, I mean that happens.
Speaker 5 (06:41):
I think he's a good guy.
Speaker 3 (06:44):
What did he text you?
Speaker 5 (06:45):
Okay, letly really find it.
Speaker 4 (06:49):
Uh?
Speaker 5 (06:50):
Okay, the text is your magic and have awakened parts
of my body that I have never felt before.
Speaker 3 (06:59):
Well as romantic.
Speaker 7 (07:03):
It's like on the line, you know, like I don't
that's just that's a lot after one day and kiss,
and like I don't know if he's like in a
Shakespeare play, Like is he taking himself seriously? When he
said that, I kind of was expecting another text that
was like, you know, harks their maiden, I long for
(07:24):
another evening of your presence or something like that.
Speaker 3 (07:27):
You know, I could have been you know, there's some
people out there that believe in love at first night,
so if they're laying on, don't think that could be
a good thing.
Speaker 7 (07:34):
It was just it was so earnest and it just
kind of felt like too much. And I think he
hasn't been in a relationship in a while, and so
I was afraid he was in like this romantic, dreamy
bubble and I I gotta be with someone who's in
the world that I'm living in.
Speaker 5 (07:52):
You know what I mean.
Speaker 3 (07:53):
So I just hit you like a little bit too much.
Speaker 5 (07:56):
It just felt a little I mean, how is that possible?
Like I'm it's a person, give yourself a little magic,
but like I've awakened parts of his body they.
Speaker 3 (08:07):
Never saw.
Speaker 5 (08:11):
A little overwhelming to me. Okay, and then I don't
know if I'm like on a pedestal. I just it
just made me a little nervous.
Speaker 1 (08:18):
Okay, all right, well thank you for telling us that.
Now I got to let you know that Brandon is
on the phone and has been listening and wants it
talks on.
Speaker 4 (08:26):
Okay, Park, Yes, well, I have dreamt of this pleasure
of occasion.
Speaker 7 (08:40):
Again, Hi, Park, I'm sorry I just put your business
out on the radio, but you didn't have them call me.
Speaker 4 (08:52):
So no, that's that's quite all right.
Speaker 3 (08:55):
What parts of the body were awakened, Brandon?
Speaker 6 (09:00):
I mean, I'd rather not discuss that. I think people understand.
Speaker 3 (09:08):
That was pretty bold of you. Brandon. What was going
on through your mind when you sent that text?
Speaker 4 (09:12):
I don't know I was awakened.
Speaker 5 (09:18):
I'm just I'm a playful guy.
Speaker 2 (09:20):
But Kaylyn just want to assure you that I do
live in a reality and after our date, I was like, legit,
I've never felt that way, and after my last relationship,
I just that was lacking and I want another date
and I want to be a part of your reality.
Speaker 6 (09:39):
Oh maybe I'm over the top, but this is how
I was feeling, honestly.
Speaker 3 (09:44):
Well, Caitlyn would you like another date with Brandon? We'll
pay for it.
Speaker 1 (09:48):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (09:50):
Oh see Shakespeare's got Congratulations Brandon, you did it, You
got another day.
Speaker 5 (09:58):
I mean I that he has a good attitude and
and could laugh at this, and I appreciate that we're
more on the same page than.
Speaker 4 (10:08):
I thought, Kaylen.
Speaker 6 (10:10):
And I can't say how I say it am And I.
Speaker 2 (10:13):
Promise if I'm going overboard with anything, you can always
talk to me about it.
Speaker 5 (10:17):
But hard, Kaylen, My heart and the onions are in bloom.
Speaker 4 (10:22):
I wait for next week at the Outback Steakhouse soon.
Speaker 3 (10:33):
That is a romantic, jubile first day follow up.
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