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August 8, 2024 7 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
You're waking up with Fifth in.

Speaker 2 (00:02):
The Morning podcast.

Speaker 3 (00:03):
Hi, good morning, I'm gonna Sarah and I which you
recognize your voice from my show from time to time.
She also has a job here at WebM where she's
on the show with Kid Chris in the Morning. We're
going to try to attempt to give a phrase to
something that I don't think exists, So bear with us
on it.

Speaker 2 (00:19):
When you have a crush on someone and they know
that you have a crush.

Speaker 3 (00:24):
On them, I think it changes the dynamic of the relationship.
But what happens when you no longer have that crush
on them, but you still see them all the time.

Speaker 4 (00:33):
And you still want to have a good relationship with them,
and you don't know how to go about it to say, Hey,
I no longer have a crush on you, but I'm
cool with you, and I also didn't want to hurt
your feeling.

Speaker 3 (00:43):
But you also get out of your own ego as well. Exactly,
there's no freeze or anything to that, right, Like, I've
never heard this before, but for example, last night, I
was out at a friend's party. There was a guy
there that is in our inner circle, and I think
crushes are often through proximity, how close you are to
that person.

Speaker 1 (01:01):
Right exactly? Usually somebody that you work.

Speaker 3 (01:04):
Yes, yes, So last night we're at the party and
I saw him and I could get this sense that
he knew that I had.

Speaker 2 (01:10):
A crush on him.

Speaker 3 (01:10):
But I'm like, that was oh, such an eck that
that's an It's gone from crush to icky and now
we still see each other all the time, and I
just feel like there's this sense, this air between us.

Speaker 2 (01:23):
You know, that feeling right? Have you gone through something
like this?

Speaker 1 (01:25):
So it's like.

Speaker 4 (01:26):
We want to know how you can tell that person
or like what to actually do? Yeah, what steps to
take to make sure that they know you no longer
feel that way? But you want to be cool with them.
You want to be cool with your former crush.

Speaker 3 (01:42):
But there's no you can't go up to them and
be like, hey, I once had a crush on you,
and now I don't anymore.

Speaker 2 (01:48):
So okay, thanks going.

Speaker 3 (01:49):
I don't know, I don't know what to you are
stuck here the friend groups, it happens in it happens
in the workplace.

Speaker 4 (01:56):
Yep, a guy that I used to work with I
had a crush on. I no longer have a crush
on him, but he knows he sometimes works here, and
he's very well aware that I used to, and I
just want to tell him, like, I don't like you
in that way, but I think you're cool.

Speaker 1 (02:11):
But I don't want to hurt his feelings.

Speaker 4 (02:12):
But I also don't want to bring it up because
that's also an egg. So we are struggling here.

Speaker 3 (02:18):
There is no phrase or word to this, but I
feel like it happens quite a bit. Especially it's usually
based on proximity things, yep, Like I also have a
crush on Glenn Powell, saw the Twisters movie.

Speaker 2 (02:30):
Amazing whole world does I'm never going to come face
to face with that man. We'll all ever have this
awkward sense.

Speaker 3 (02:36):
It's all based on proximity, usually in your friend group
mm hmm, or definitely in the workplace.

Speaker 1 (02:43):
Which is risky.

Speaker 3 (02:45):
But there's no way to really approach the bear on this,
but you know that feeling. I don't know if guys
necessarily go through something like this, of course five wine
three seven four nine, one oh seven one.

Speaker 2 (02:55):
If that's the case, girls go through it all the.

Speaker 4 (02:58):
Time, absolutely, And it's already a big ick to have
a crush on somebody anyway.

Speaker 2 (03:02):
Isn't it the worst?

Speaker 4 (03:03):
It is actually the worst, Like it can be so embarrassing.

Speaker 1 (03:07):
You post something on your Instagram store and you're like,
did they look at it?

Speaker 4 (03:10):
Like?

Speaker 1 (03:11):
Why don't I feel so pathetic?

Speaker 4 (03:13):
Did they like my new Instagram post, my tweet, my
Facebook stuff, my dick doc And you're checking like all
four social medias just to see if they saw it.

Speaker 1 (03:21):
Slash liked it? Oh, I hate it.

Speaker 2 (03:23):
The scene goes up by one number and you're like,
who was that?

Speaker 4 (03:26):
Was it?

Speaker 5 (03:26):
Him?

Speaker 2 (03:27):
Also, I feel.

Speaker 3 (03:28):
As if you've ever if you've ever had a crush
on someone, the relationship never works out.

Speaker 2 (03:33):
I have never, never, never. It's always the person that
you're like.

Speaker 1 (03:38):
I did not have a crush on my husband. No,
but I like him.

Speaker 4 (03:40):
He's cool.

Speaker 2 (03:42):
You've been married for ten years almost.

Speaker 4 (03:44):
But we met in the workplace. It all started with
a workplace romance.

Speaker 2 (03:48):
Did he have a crush on you?

Speaker 1 (03:50):
Yeah? And that's how things started.

Speaker 4 (03:53):
We were both in relationships, then we both left those relationships.
He and I were friends for a little bit and
then it just kind of turned from there.

Speaker 2 (04:02):
Okay, so let me ask you this.

Speaker 3 (04:03):
Then, if you knew he had a crush on you,
was it an ick for you or it was it
a little bit more of a I mean I.

Speaker 4 (04:08):
Just kind of played around with it. But at that time,
when I found out that he did have a crush
on me, he was kind of like getting out of
a relationship.

Speaker 1 (04:16):
And I was still kind of in mind slash getting
out of it.

Speaker 3 (04:19):
I'm curious, then, well, maybe it's maybe that's not the truth.
I think when a girl knows that a guy has
a crush on her, it's not an ick, but the
other way around it is.

Speaker 4 (04:30):
I think it also depends too, if the guy is icky,
then yeah.

Speaker 1 (04:34):
Then yeah, major ick. It all depends on what kind
of guy has the crush.

Speaker 3 (04:39):
Okay, sometimes sometimes the people that we have crushes on
you reflect back on that and you're like.

Speaker 1 (04:46):
Oh my gosh, was I do it?

Speaker 2 (04:49):
Was I thinking?

Speaker 4 (04:50):
I'm telling you, I look at my lineup and I'm like,
what a disaster. Why did I think any of this
was a good idea? Like I am not into hot men, I.

Speaker 2 (04:59):
Guess no, you're into men that are on life alert.

Speaker 1 (05:02):
Yeah, they need the AARP card. That is for me.

Speaker 3 (05:07):
Well let's just let's see, let's float it and see
what we get. Five one three seven four nine one.
I'm just curious to know if you've ever had a
crush on somebody and it's actually worked out, because that's
never been the case in my world. We'll get you
on the are next. In the meantime, we're still commercial free.
Good morning, good morning. You're waking up with Tiff in
the morning on Kiss one oh seva one. We're in
the midst of talking about crushes. Do you have a

(05:30):
non celebrity crush that that's that's worked.

Speaker 1 (05:33):
Out for you?

Speaker 3 (05:35):
Uh?

Speaker 6 (05:35):
Okay, no joke. I am in love with my mailman.
I swear he is like adorable and super fit and
really sweet. So I just like sit on my porch
and wait for him to drop off the mail around
four o'clock every day so I could say hi.

Speaker 2 (05:52):
At last, you're laughing at yourself. Thank you for the
talk back with TIF.

Speaker 3 (05:54):
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Speaker 2 (06:01):
To the play button. We've got time for one more.

Speaker 5 (06:03):
At least the guy that I actually cater with, you know,
he actually makes me feel really good about looking how
I do at a certain age and he's like, you're hot,
and I was like, so are you? And if I
weren't married and he weren't married, oh man, yeah, good one.

Speaker 2 (06:24):
I don't know. Thank you for contributing. I don't know.

Speaker 3 (06:27):
I feel like I've never met someone where they've had
a big crush on someone and then it's just worked
out for them. I feel like crushes come and go
and then they become an dick. That's why Sarah and
I were just talking about it a few minutes ago.
Maybe you missed that part of the conversation that when
you're in close proximity with someone and they know that
you have a crush on them and some and then
you eventually don't anymore, how do you tell that person?

Speaker 2 (06:49):
Can you? It's not? Probably not, Probably looks weird. In
the meantime, we're still commercial free. Thanks for stopping by.

Speaker 3 (06:56):
The show coming up at seven point forty. What are
some of the mental things speaking of crushes, right, that's
all mental.

Speaker 2 (07:05):
That Olympians use to prepare for game day. I'll have
that next
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