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Think itâs the world⊠your partner⊠the people you date⊠making you feel unsafe in love? đ€
What if I told you most of that emotional unsafety actually starts with your own thoughts the ones you barely notice, the inner critic running nonstop in your head?
In this episode of the Anxious to Secure Podcast, I show you how anxious attachment and your inner critic create the emotional chaos in your relationships and how you can finally take back control.
We dive into: â How anxious attachment triggers the inner critic and makes you question your worth â Why your inner voice gets so loud when you feel judged, unseen, or rejected â The roots of self-criticism  from parenting, culture, media, and social comparison â Step-by-step ways to soften your inner critic and reparent yourself â How to build emotional safety with yourself first, so you can connect from a place of calm in your relationships
If youâve ever Googled:
âhow to feel emotionally safe in my relationshipâ,
âhow to quiet my inner criticâ,
âhow to stop overthinking in loveâ, or
âhow to be less anxious in a relationshipâ, this episode is for you.
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Youâll learn practical ways to notice your inner critic, get curious about what itâs trying to protect you from, respond with compassion, and use actions...not just wordsâto show yourself safety.
This is about retraining your nervous system, reducing anxiety, and creating secure, loving connections with yourself and others. âš
Whether youâre navigating dating, marriage, or friendships, understanding and soothing your inner critic is key to creating emotional safety in relationships and finally feeling truly seen, valued, and loved.
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CHAPTERS:
00:00 Understanding the Inner Critic 01:56 My personal Inner Story 04:35 Connect your Inner critic back to your Roots 06:44 Realise your Inner Critics Protective Drive 07:22 What the Anxious Attachments Inner Critic Notices 09:06 Visualisation to become your own Inner Parent 11:13 3 Steps to Reparent Your Inner Critic 21:01 Before + After: From HATE to LOVE 23:44 Quick Recap
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DISCLAIMER: I'm not a therapist or doctor. This content is for informational and entertainment purposes only. It's not intended to diagnose, treat, or heal any mental health conditions.
This is not meant for situations involving abusive relationships of any kind. Always seek professional advice for personal health concerns.
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Remember: Change in your relationship starts with YOU, thought by thought and action by action.
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