In this Mind Over Masculinity conversation, executive coach Maren Perry (Founder & CEO, Arden Coaching) breaks down why “brilliance isn’t the same as effectiveness.” We unpack the traps many men in leadership fall into—over-indexing on structure, shielding with results, and avoiding vulnerability—and how to shift toward people-centered performance without losing accountability. We get practical on emotional intelligence, the urgent vs. important grid, 360 feedback, building followership, and starting again with a beginner’s mindset. If you lead a team (or want to), use this episode to trade lone-hero habits for durable culture, retention, and results—through better relationships, clarity, and consistency.
About the guest :
Maren Perry is the Founder & CEO of Arden Coaching, a leadership development firm serving senior leaders across industries. She helps executives turn insight into repeatable behavior change using assessment, feedback, and human-centered coaching that strengthens culture and results.
Key takeaways :
-
Results matter—but people are the strategic path to results; optimize for both.
-
Brilliance ≠ effectiveness: smart leaders still need relational skills to scale impact.
-
Common pitfall: seeing roles and org charts over relationships; influence > authority.
-
Ego blocks learning; vulnerability (owning mistakes, uncertainty) builds trust and followership.
-
Use 360s and real data to reveal blind spots and create willingness to change.
-
Accountability isn’t “mean” vs “nice”: be clear, specific, and humane about expectations.
-
Prioritize what’s important but not urgent (development, culture, clarity) on your calendar.
-
Upgrade emotional intelligence to listen, relate, and coach—not just direct.
-
Ask: “What’s happening now? Where do we want to be? What are the gaps?” Then act.
-
Starter step: adopt a beginner’s mindset in one area this week; test, learn, repeat.
How to connect with the guest :
-
LinkedIn: Arden Coaching
-
Website: ardencoaching.com
Want to be a guest on Healthy Mind, Healthy Life? DM on PM - Send me a message on PodMatch
-
DM Me Here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/avik
Disclaimer: This video is for educational and informational purposes only. The views expressed are the personal opinions of the guest and do not reflect the views of the host or Healthy Mind By Avik™️. We do not intend to harm, defame, or discredit any person, organization, brand, product, country, or profession mentioned. All third-party media used remain the property of their respective owners and are used under fair use for informational purposes. By watching, you acknowledge and accept this disclaimer.
Healthy Mind By Avik™️ is a global platform redefining mental health as a necessity, not a luxury. Born during the pandemic, it’s become a sanctuary for healing, growth, and mindful living. Hosted by Avik Chakraborty—storyteller, survivor, wellness advocate—this channel shares powerful podcasts and soul-nurturing conversations on:
• Mental Health & Emotional Well-being• Mindfulness & Spiritual Growth• Holistic Healing & Conscious Living• Trauma Recovery & Self-Empowerment
With over 4,400+ episodes and 168.4K+ global listeners, join us as we unite voices, break stigma, and build a world where every story matters.
Subscribe and be part of this healing journey.
ContactBrand: Healthy Mind By Avik™Email: join@healthymindbyavik
Popular Podcasts
Stuff You Should Know
If you've ever wanted to know about champagne, satanism, the Stonewall Uprising, chaos theory, LSD, El Nino, true crime and Rosa Parks, then look no further. Josh and Chuck have you covered.
Ruthie's Table 4
For more than 30 years The River Cafe in London, has been the home-from-home of artists, architects, designers, actors, collectors, writers, activists, and politicians. Michael Caine, Glenn Close, JJ Abrams, Steve McQueen, Victoria and David Beckham, and Lily Allen, are just some of the people who love to call The River Cafe home. On River Cafe Table 4, Rogers sits down with her customers—who have become friends—to talk about food memories. Table 4 explores how food impacts every aspect of our lives. “Foods is politics, food is cultural, food is how you express love, food is about your heritage, it defines who you and who you want to be,” says Rogers. Each week, Rogers invites her guest to reminisce about family suppers and first dates, what they cook, how they eat when performing, the restaurants they choose, and what food they seek when they need comfort. And to punctuate each episode of Table 4, guests such as Ralph Fiennes, Emily Blunt, and Alfonso Cuarón, read their favourite recipe from one of the best-selling River Cafe cookbooks. Table 4 itself, is situated near The River Cafe’s open kitchen, close to the bright pink wood-fired oven and next to the glossy yellow pass, where Ruthie oversees the restaurant. You are invited to take a seat at this intimate table and join the conversation. For more information, recipes, and ingredients, go to https://shoptherivercafe.co.uk/ Web: https://rivercafe.co.uk/ Instagram: www.instagram.com/therivercafelondon/ Facebook: https://en-gb.facebook.com/therivercafelondon/ For more podcasts from iHeartRadio, visit the iheartradio app, apple podcasts, or wherever you listen to your favorite shows. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.com
Dateline NBC
Current and classic episodes, featuring compelling true-crime mysteries, powerful documentaries and in-depth investigations. Follow now to get the latest episodes of Dateline NBC completely free, or subscribe to Dateline Premium for ad-free listening and exclusive bonus content: DatelinePremium.com