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September 4, 2025 24 mins

Letting Yourself Down: Thinking of Others – DON’T

Do you put everyone else first? Always there for family, friends, even the ones who don’t always treat you right? That’s an incredible value to have — being dependable, supportive, and accountable.

But here’s the truth: when you constantly put others before yourself, you’re letting yourself down. And when you let yourself down, you let everyone down.

In this episode, I’ll guide you through a simple but powerful exercise to uncover your core life values — the foundation of who you are. Once you know your top three, you’ll understand how to live in alignment with them, stay true to yourself, and actually be a stronger support for those you care about.

This isn’t about being selfish. It’s about knowing who you are, standing on that rock-solid foundation, and being accountable to you. From there, everything else — your goals, dreams, relationships — falls into place.

Listen in and find out:

  • Why putting others first can actually let them down.

  • How to discover your top three life values.

  • How living by those values makes you the best version of you.

  • Why accountability starts with yourself — or it doesn’t work at all.

It’s time to stop letting yourself down. Build your foundation. Live your values. And only then, lift up others.

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Paul


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