Ever feel like you're arguing with yourself all day long — about getting up early, skipping the snack, following through — and somehow, the wrong voice keeps winning?
You're not broken. You're just unprepared.
In this episode, I’m bringing you inside the debate team that’s happening inside your head every day — and breaking down why your internal arguments are falling flat... and what to do about it.
If you showed up to debate class with the kinds of excuses and one-liners you use on yourself — you'd get crushed.
So why are you trying to win the battle for your goals that way?
We’ll talk about:
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The 4 major ways we drop the ball in our internal decision-making
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Why “I said I would” isn’t strong enough to beat a craving
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How to build a better case for the choices that move you forward
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Real-life examples (goldfish snacks, alarms, girls’ night wine — we’re going there)
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What conviction, energy, and preparation actually sound like
If you’ve been stuck in a cycle of “I know better but I don’t do better,” this episode is going to feel like a mirror, a wake-up call, and a strategy session — all in one.
💥 Ready to Build a Stronger Case in Your Life?
This is the kind of work we do every single day inside The Consistency Course.
We don’t just talk about what you should do — we teach you how to follow through.
We work together on:
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Building the identity you want
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Creating real, sustainable momentum
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Ending the start-over cycle
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Learning to signal, not spiral
TCC isn’t another plan. It’s a practice. It’s where we build consistency from the inside out — with tools, coaching, and real accountability.
Learn more or start now right here.
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