In today’s episode, I reflect on recent experiences with clients who have faced toxic coaching situations in the past, emphasizing that coaching should not simply provide answers or only focus on the client’s goals, instead can they help clients uncover the underlying barriers that prevent them from reaching their goals. I share my belief that strategy constitutes only 5% of the equation, while subconscious work—addressing limiting beliefs and emotional blocks—makes up the remaining 95%.
Throughout the episode, I stress the significance of getting to the root of why individuals feel stuck or engage in self-sabotage. So many clients are unaware of the deeper reasons behind their behaviors, which are often buried in their subconscious. By employing techniques such as FLIP The Script Techniques and asking subconscious questions, we can uncover these hidden beliefs and reframe them to create lasting change.
HIGHLIGHTS
00:00:00 - Introduction to Coaching and Self-Leadership
00:01:00 - The Importance of Subconscious Work
00:02:30 - Understanding Goals vs. Blocks
00:04:00 - The Depth of Self-Sabotage
00:05:30 - Identifying Limiting Beliefs
00:07:00 - Fear of Success vs. Fear of Failure
00:08:30 - Transforming Identity Through Coaching
00:10:00 - The Power of Language and Self-Talk
00:11:30 - Emotional Patterns and Client Transformation
00:13:00 - The Role of Identity in Achieving Goals
00:14:30 - Creating Lasting Change
Marsha Vanwynsberghe — NLP Storytelling Trainer, OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification, Author, Speaker, and Podcaster
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