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September 23, 2025 16 mins

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Have you ever finished a "self-care" session only to feel just as drained as when you started? That's because not all self-care actually cares for the self.

In this revealing exploration of what true self-care means, I unpack the crucial distinction between practices that genuinely nourish us versus those that merely numb us from our stresses. As women and especially as mothers, our time for self-care is precious—yet we often default to activities that provide only temporary escape rather than genuine restoration.

The truth is that scrolling social media, binge-shopping, or mindlessly consuming content might feel good in the moment, but these activities rarely refill our depleted cups. Meanwhile, practices like intentional movement, time in nature, creative expression, and mindful routines can transform not just how we feel in the moment, but how we show up in our relationships, careers, and parenting journeys.

I share my personal nourishing self-care favorites—from my non-negotiable skincare routine that helps me "wash the day away" to yoga sessions that ground both body and mind. I also offer practical questions to help you evaluate your own self-care habits: Does this leave me energized or drained? Am I escaping or truly restoring myself? Will this choice help my future self?

This isn't about eliminating all forms of "numbing" activities—balance matters! But when we consciously choose practices that align with our deeper needs and values, we build lasting confidence and resilience that benefit every area of our lives. I challenge you to prioritize at least one nourishing practice this week, and share your experience with me on Instagram @confidently.beautiful.podcast.

Your future self deserves the kind of care that doesn't just help you survive the day, but helps you thrive in your life. Let's discover what that looks like for you.

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