Shamelessly Motivated: How Shame Can Drive You to Succeed

Have you ever thought about shame not as a crippling emotion, but as a driving force for your success? In the latest episode of the Crown Yourself podcast, Kimberly delves deep into how our fear of shame can actually push us to new heights. It's not about the shame itself but about the integrity and reputation that we maintain. It's a thought-provoking take on using our deepest fears as fuel for our ambitions.

In this episode of the Crown Yourself podcast, host Kimberly Spencer examines the role of shame as a motivator. Contrary to seeing shame as negative, she suggests it can drive individuals to higher levels of success. Drawing from Steven Pressfield's "The Warrior Ethos," Kimberly discusses the distinction between guilt and shame, emphasizing the importance of reputation and integrity in a warrior culture. She argues that the fear of shame can inspire courage and integrity in service to others. Additionally, Kimberly touches on the harm of not charging for services in the coaching industry, advocating for recognizing the value of one's expertise. She invites listeners to share their views and spread the message of empowerment.

What you will learn from this episode:

• Shame as a motivator for success
• The distinction between guilt and shame in a warrior ethos
• The significance of reputation and integrity in a shame-based culture
• Using the fear of shame as a motivator to serve others with integrity
• Demonstrating courage in interactions and engagements
• The potential harm of not charging for services in the coaching industry
• Shifting from guilt-based thinking to a courageous culture
• Inviting feedback and differing perspectives on shame as a motivator
• Encouraging listeners to share the episode for support and empowerment
• The impact of shame on commitment to serving others with integrity

 

Enjoy, sovereigns!

 

Listen to the episode on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts, Amazon Music, or your favorite podcast listening platform. You can also watch the episode on Youtube.

 

Moments of Note:

Shame as a Motivator (00:00:00) Exploring the concept of shame as a powerful motivator for success and integrity in leadership.

Warrior Ethos and Shame (00:01:07) Discussing the difference between guilt and shame in the context of the warrior ethos and the importance of integrity and reputation.

Joan of Arc and Integrity (00:02:26) Reflecting on the integrity and courage of historical figures like Joan of Arc and the impact of their actions on society.

Value of Reputation (00:04:42) Examining the significance of reputation in a warrior culture and the motivation to maintain integrity and honor commitments.

Courage in Leadership (00:07:14) Challenging leaders to demonstrate courage in their actions and interactions to inspire and encourage others.

Shifting from Guilt to Courage (00:10:19) Exploring the shift from guilt-based thinking to a collective consciousness of courage and its impact on decision-making.

Charging for Services (00:13:55) Addressing the importance of charging for services and the impact of selfless sacrifice on personal and professional growth.

Creating a Courageous Culture (00:20:04) Questioning how to foster a culture of courage and integrity within oneself and the community.

Mentions + Additional Resources:

• Steven Pressfield's book "The Warrior Ethos": "00:01:07, 00:02:26, 00:03:30, 00:16:47, 00:18:23, 00:20:04, 00:21:25 "The Enneagram": "00:10:19" "Human Design and Astrology": "00:10:19"

 

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