October 14, 2025 • 25 mins
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- How faith (not fear) fuels true manifestation
- A healing process to release shame, scarcity, and ineligibility
- Why your current life is evidence of your energetic alignment — and how to change it
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SPEAKER_01 (00:00):
Hi, love.
We're doing something a littledifferent for the next few weeks
while we work behind the sceneson some really exciting things
for you.
But here's the fun part.
You're getting double episodes,both Tuesday and Thursday,
totally free, getting to trypremium for free for a few
weeks.
And we're going to revisit someof the most powerful Deer
Divorce Diary conversations fromthe vault.
The ones that hit a littledifferently once you've lived in
(00:22):
this post-divorce life a littlelonger.
And if you haven't joined us yetinside Cocoon, it's our free
private community.
Use the coupon code in the shownotes, Magic Drop, to grab your
spot.
We're currently, for a shortperiod of time, gifting access
to our post-divorce roadmapwhere you can download that
immersive journaling program.
And then once you're in there,you can participate in our
(00:44):
weekly Magic Drop giveaways.
We've already had two winners,so what are you waiting for?
All right, let's get into it.
Here's one of those episodesthat still holds the truth every
time you hear it.
Hi, love.
Welcome to Dear Divorce Diary,the podcast helping divorcees go
(01:05):
beyond talk therapy to processyour grief, find the healing you
crave, and build back yourconfidence.
I'm your host, Don Wiggins, atherapist, coach, integrative
healer, and divorcee.
Join me for a fresh approach tohealing grief and building your
confidence after divorce.
(01:30):
So today we're going to startwith manifesting money.
We're going to talk about someof the tools that we advocate
for over here, some of thethings that you need to
understand in order to do thisin a more meaningful way.
And then we are going to getinto the things that need to be
addressed in order for you toreally clear the blocks to your
intentional manifestation ofmoney.
(01:51):
To really understand howmanifestation works, you have to
have a sense of how energyworks.
And this is the part wherecertain communities will call
this woo-woo or mystical innature, but it's actually
understanding the buildingblocks of life, which is quantum
physics or quantum mechanics.
(02:13):
Now, all that means is thatquantum is some of the smallest
packets of energy that are thebuilding blocks of life.
And I'm going to give you atiny, there's just like a
fraction of a quantum physicslesson here, but quantum units
of energy have both a particleaspect to them where they have a
physical mass, but also a waveaspect to them, which is
(02:35):
vibrational.
So often we are focused on theparticle aspect of our
existence.
We experience a physical worldin a physical body, and we often
think that that's the primaryaspect of our existence, but
it's not.
We are actually morenon-physical energy, aka wave
(02:55):
energy, than we are particleenergy, but we can't see it, we
can't prove it, we can'tactually we can prove it per the
quantum physics, right?
But the average lay persondoesn't sort of see or
understand in a meaningful waythat we are mostly vibrational
in a way that we cannot see withour naked eye.
(03:17):
And so when we get so used torelying on the physicality of
life to manifest, that's wherewe get roadblocked.
And I'm gonna tell you a funnystory about that down the road
in this episode, but know thatintentional manifestation is
about the ability to align andmove your energy.
(03:38):
Now, one of the tools that I ama fierce advocate for that is
going to help align and moveyour energy is an understanding
of your human design chart.
And in the show notes, I willshare with you a website where
you can pull your free chart andan app that I use on a daily
basis.
And I have most of my clients init, and certainly my family
(04:00):
members and producer joy andright the women in our coaching
program and really keeping trackof and helping people understand
their human design chart is keyto unlocking the successful
alignment and movement of yourenergy to create manifestations.
Why is that so important?
Well, because, love, you weredesigned with a very intentional
(04:23):
design to be uniquely you.
And most of us live life from aplace of programming that our
parents and our, you know, thesocial constructs around us, our
churches, our schools, ourpolitical alignments and
affiliations, various thingsthat have programmed us to
believe social media, you know,they've we have been really,
really, really programmed tobelieve that we're supposed to
(04:44):
act this way and not that wayand that way and not this way.
And the reality is that you havea particular way to work with
your own energy, a particularpurpose and personality style.
You have a particular way ofmanifesting, of making
decisions, and of making thingshappen that is unique to you.
And some people are supposed tobe specific manifestors, some
(05:07):
people are supposed to benon-specific, some people are
supposed to make decisions basedon how things feel, some people
on how they think, some peoplebased on their gut instincts,
and others based on bouncingideas off of someone.
There are ways that you aremeant to make decisions, there
are may ways you're meant tomake things happen.
Some people are supposed toinitiate, some people are
(05:28):
supposed to wait to be asked.
And if you don't know thesevarious metrics about yourself,
now you don't need to pull yourhuman design chart to understand
that about yourself.
You could sit with all of theseconcepts and say, like, huh, how
do I best use my energy?
How do I best make decisions ormake things happen?
(05:48):
But I think that pulling yourchart is a really quick way to
get an education on self.
And most of us don't trust whatwe already know about ourselves.
We already know it, but we don'ttrust it.
And for some reason, when thathuman design chart gives you
that permission, all of a suddenit clicks, and you're like
(06:09):
feeling free to live your lifefrom a place that is truly in
alignment.
And so I highly encourage youincorporating this into your
manifestation process.
Now, when it comes to money andmanifestation, ooh, Lord have
mercy.
So many of us have so manyblocks around money.
I highly encourage that you usethis track in a number of ways.
(06:34):
I encourage you to, if you can,jot down some notes and do a
little bit of journaling whileyou're listening to me talk.
If you can't, no big deal, but Iwant you to also know that this
track is going to do a tiny bitof quantum healing around money
as well.
And I also want you to use it asa way to just open your mind
around the things that need toshift inside of you in order for
(06:56):
you to become more receptive ofmore money.
Let's dig into the first reasonthat you do not have more money
than you need.
The first one is that somewhereinside of you, you are holding a
negative belief, or some part ofyou believes that there is not
enough money, that there's notenough resources, right?
(07:18):
And I hear this a lot withpeople, whether they're clients
or I read it on the internet,you know, that there is just
this sort of scarcity mindset orbelief that there's not enough.
There's not enough clean air,not enough clean water, not
enough money, not enough love,not enough whatever, right?
And there's just sort of thisfear around there not being
(07:38):
enough.
And so that's the first beliefthat has to be shifted.
And I want you to just reallykeep in mind that anywhere you
catch yourself using not enoughlanguage, because when we
understand how energy works,when you think a thought and
when you speak a thought, youare creating a physical reality.
(07:59):
Our thoughts and our words havevibration, they have vibrational
mass, they create an outcome.
And so when you think scarcity,not enough thoughts, and when
you speak them, you areperpetuating the tendency to not
have enough money.
And I would guess, because formost people, when you think
about money, you can alreadyfeel a constriction or
(08:22):
contraction in your body.
You feel a fearful energy, youfeel a tightening and not an
expansion.
And so when we start to addressthis, we have to zoom out a bit
and say, how can I becomeexpansive energy?
How can I align the energy in mybody around trusting that there
(08:44):
is enough money?
And so a tool that I will teachyou to use here is to go more
general and find easy existingmatches in in your current life
that will help you feel more inalignment with there being
enough.
What do you have enough of rightnow that you can really focus on
the feeling, the very, very goodfeeling of you do have enough,
(09:08):
even if it's just I have enoughpillows in my bed and these
pillows feel so nice.
Gosh, these pillows feel sonice.
They feel so, so, so good.
There is an abundance of pillowsin my bed.
How did I know that about you?
And I really, really, reallylove the way this abundance of
pillows feel.
Now, that may sound silly,right?
(09:30):
But this is something we have topractice in order to train
ourselves to experienceabundance over scarcity.
I want you to really lean intothe practice of highlighting and
relishing abundance.
Now, I'm gonna teach you alittle something about the
timing of manifestationalthought and manifest
(09:51):
manifestational sensation.
Every time you have a thoughtand you hold that thought for 17
seconds, another thought like itwill join.
So let's say you call up yourgirlfriend and you're gonna
start bitching about your ex,you're gonna start bitching
about money, and you start therant session, right?
(10:11):
Every seven 17 seconds, anothernegative thought is joining it
until after 68 seconds, you havechanged your point of
attraction.
You have tipped down on thevibrational scale, thus
reinforcing this idea thatthere's not enough of something.
And so this is not to say thatwe should never vent, but you
(10:32):
should do it understanding thevibrational consequences and how
that is going to unfold in yourefforts to manifest more money.
Manifestation is a very muchconnect to the dots process of
how we think and how we feel andthe outcomes that creates in
life.
It is a very faith-filledprocess that trusts that there
(10:54):
is a greater organization tolife, that there is a loving
source energy who is looking outfor us at all points in time,
and that everything is workingfor us and isn't happening to
us.
And this is a massive departurefrom how most of us live our
lives.
So, your goal from this track tomanifest more money is to notice
(11:18):
how often this 17 seconds plus17 seconds plus 17 seconds is
tallying up to 68 seconds towhere you are sabotaging your
own manifestations and for youto start practicing general
relishing and gratitude forthings that you do have an
abundance of in your life.
Now, at the end of the track,I'm gonna do a little quantum
(11:39):
healing around not enoughness,so stay tuned for that.
Now, the next thing that isblocking your manifestation of
more money is somewhere in yourlife you came to believe that
you are not eligible.
Not eligible.
Isn't that interesting?
And one part of you may say,like, gosh darn it, I I'm
(12:01):
eligible.
I have to be eligible, I need tobe eligible.
But if you don't believe you'reeligible, can't bypass that,
right?
So we have to reprogram thatnegative belief around
eligibility.
And sometimes it can help toreally look at the primary
reasons that we may havedeveloped the belief that we're
not eligible.
The first one is often thatthere's something ancestral
(12:25):
about money, right?
That we inherited somethingancestrally about um scarcity
and abundance.
So it might just be interestingto notice what in your, you
know, family tree, what messagesor issues there were about
scarcity.
There are lots of times throughhistory where we know that there
were these experiences of notenoughness.
And in fact, you know, myparents are boomers, right?
(12:48):
And there's a lot of scarcitystuff that goes on in there.
So very, very often we'veinherited the energy of
scarcity.
The second reason that I find isvery, very common around
ineligibility for money issomething to do with religion or
some form of martyrdom, right?
That it is better for the worldthat I have less, or it is
(13:11):
better for, yeah, I don't know,right?
There are religions andconcepts, structures in our
communities that say to us thatwe should build up our treasures
in heaven and not here in thisearthly plane, right?
That we should not take morethan our fair share.
We while we admire celebritiesway more than we should, we cast
(13:34):
a lot of shade on billionairesand multimillionaires, right?
And we tend to roll our eyes andscoff and think that they're bad
people, honestly.
And so there are these messagesthat live inside of us around
I'm ineligible for that kind ofwealth.
And it's because somethingaround it is wrong or bad or
shameful.
And so really take a look atwhere in your history you may
(13:57):
have received those messages andinternalized them so that you
could feel safe in yourcommunities.
The third reason that we oftenthink that we're ineligible to
have more money or abundance orwealth is to do with the idea
that we might lose something.
We may fear that we're gonnalose some particular identity
with a group of people, or wemay feel like we may fear that
(14:18):
we're gonna lose relationships.
Like if I have a lot ofsomething and you don't, is that
gonna put distance between usthat is a gap that can't be
crossed, right?
And very often this has to dowith especially our family of
origin.
If all of a sudden you hadplenty and they didn't, what
would that feel like?
What would they say to you?
How would they treat you?
(14:38):
What would their expectationsbe?
And I think that that sameapplies in social circles and
all kinds of places, especiallyin the communities where we came
from.
So I just want you to really getin there about the places where
you may have inherited scarcityenergy or ineligibility energy
around money, where in yourbelief system around religion or
(15:02):
spirituality or community issuesyou've been told that to have
less is to be more humble ormore right or more, you know,
loving, and where you might beafraid to lose some people or
some element of your identityaround having more than enough
money.
(15:23):
Now, in order to shift thisineligibility piece, you really
got to take a look at yourbelief system and start to
soften things there and getopen, open, open to the idea
that you are actually designedfor abundance and that the more
we have, the more we can helpother people.
The more resources we have, themore we can support others.
Now, I don't want to deny thefact that very often when we
(15:46):
have more than enough, we becomewasteful.
That is something that happensautomatically.
I watched my kid do it lastweek.
She was cleaning out herplayroom and she took a
perfectly good coloring bookthat had never been colored in,
and she threw it in a garbagebag, and I lost my mind.
Not my proudest moment, right?
But that is the way of things,that there are people in the
(16:06):
world who have more than enough,who throw out things, right?
Who just toss out things thatpeople who don't have enough
would long for.
And so there is an imbalancethere around scarcity and
abundance.
And I want to honor andacknowledge that, that there is
value in becoming a good stewardof our abundance, right?
And I think that that's theimportant agreement to make with
(16:29):
self.
That I'm not gonna become areckless, um, recklessly
abundant individual, that I'mgonna be mindful of my resources
and I'm gonna be a good stewardof these resources.
I'm gonna use them to createmore security inside of myself
and in the world around of me.
And it's going to be a blessingto me and to my community.
And it is gonna give glory tosource energy from which
(16:49):
everything, all energy flows.
Yeah.
So let's talk a little bit aboutthe resistances that we have to
believing that the things I'mtalking about are legit.
So producer Joy and I were sortof giggling as we were prepping
this episode because we've hadthese conversations over the
years, right?
(17:09):
And I've always sort of been,I'm a double air slash fire
sign.
I've got my head in the cloudsall the time.
I've got big ideas, I'm a bigpicture gal.
And I sing happy little songs tomyself about how I'm aging in
reverse and I'm gonna have a jetone day.
And you and I, like you, I meanyou, you and I are gonna fly
together to Africa to bringquantum healing and homeopathy
(17:30):
to at-risk communities, and youknow, like I've got these crazy
big, amazing, likepurpose-driven ideas, right?
But, you know, not everybodybelieves these things.
And so I asked Producer Joy,what would you have said to me a
year ago about some of theseconcepts?
And she said, Ugh, I would havetold you, Dawn, that I have
realistic expectations, that Ihave my feet on the ground, and
(17:51):
that you, Dawn, do not.
And that I just, you know, thatyou don't, I would have rolled
my eyes at you, Dawn, and saidto myself, like, she just
doesn't get it.
And I think that is what reallyclogs up so much of our
manifestational process, right?
Is that we tell ourselves wehave to be realistic and
responsible.
Because in some ways, we'refearful of hoping, we are
(18:12):
fearful of um believing inourselves, of really backing
ourselves as the horse that'sgonna win.
And we feel like we have to keepour feet on the ground and we
have to be realistic.
And so I said to producer Joy,how much faith is in reality?
And she said, none.
The whole point of faith, it'sbelieving in something that
can't be seen.
And I was like, oh, this is sofreaking cool, right?
(18:36):
So, love, intentionalmanifestation, because your
current life is a manifestationof your thoughts and your
feelings and your beliefs.
Your current life is amanifestation, it's the evidence
of what your thought life islike and what your belief
systems look like.
And so you gotta own that,friend.
You gotta own that.
(18:57):
But one of the key things tounderstand is that how energy
moves and how manifestationscome to pass involve a lot of
faith and faith-oriented energy,alignment between you and source
energy.
And that means trusting in apower greater than yourself.
Now, we're gonna move into justa smidgy smidge of quantum
(19:20):
healing.
So when we do quantum healing,there's nothing for you to do
except to take a deep breath, bein your body, feel whatever
moves through your body, andtrust that the process is
working.
And so let's do that now whereyou just take a deep breath,
drop into your body, notice allthe things that have been
activated around scarcity,feeling that there's not enough,
(19:43):
and ineligibility, that maybethis is just not meant for you.
None of those things are true,and we're gonna treat that now.
So, first things first, I wantto check in that there is a part
of you that may not want toreceive treatment because she's
(20:03):
afraid that it is going to betoo traumatizing or it's gonna
unravel your current beliefsystem and it's gonna feel too
painful or too scary.
And so, to that part of you thatis subconsciously afraid to
receive treatment, if I say toyou that to do this work, to
allow treatment to happen meansthat you will actually feel much
(20:27):
greater satisfaction andsecurity and much less pain,
would you consider allowingtreatment to happen?
Just take a big deep breath andexhale that out.
Superconscious, please treat allthe parts of her who have come
(20:52):
to believe and have becomeafraid that there is not enough
money or that she's not eligibleto have more than enough money
because she's afraid of losingsomeone or some part of herself
and replace that belief thatthere's not enough with a belief
that she is eligible forabundance to have more than
(21:16):
enough, and that there is alwaysenough in the world around her,
and she is worthy of receivingher fair share.
Please treat all the complexstructures, painful experiences,
and memories to do with this.
Do a massive change history andeverything else necessary and
(21:36):
repeat until complete.
There may be a belief coming upthat this treatment won't work
for you in particular.
So, super conscious, pleasetreat the parts that believe
that this process might not workfor her.
(21:58):
Treat the complex structures,painful experiences, and
memories that she's somehowgoing to be left out of this
healing process, and in exchangeallow her to feel a greater
sense of hope and expectationthat she can be healed and
whole.
Do a massive change history andeverything else necessary and
repeat until complete.
(22:20):
Now all there is to do, love, isto take a deep breath, trust
that we at least began theprocess of tackling your
subconscious beliefs aboutmoney.
And your job is to run withthat, keeping in mind the
quantum value of your thoughtsand your feelings, follow up
homework to check into yourhuman design and to continue to
(22:44):
use tools that are gonnareprogram your negative beliefs.
And you can come back to thisepisode as often as you need and
definitely check out the futureepisodes, right, where we're
gonna do immersive manifestationto do with attracting love and
losing weight, because thosewill all continue to chip it
away at your internalizednegative beliefs about self.
(23:07):
Deep breath, let it all go, letit be that easy.
I love you so much.
Peace.
SPEAKER_00 (23:27):
You can find more at mycoachemics.
Hi, love.
We're doing something a littledifferent for the next few weeks
while we work behind the sceneson some really exciting things
for you.
But here's the fun part.
You're getting double episodes,both Tuesday and Thursday,
totally free, getting to trypremium for free for a few
weeks.
And we're going to revisit someof the most powerful Deer
Divorce Diary conversations fromthe vault.
The ones that hit a littledifferently once you've lived in
(00:22):
this post-divorce life a littlelonger.
And if you haven't joined us yetinside Cocoon, it's our free
private community.
Use the coupon code in the shownotes, Magic Drop, to grab your
spot.
We're currently, for a shortperiod of time, gifting access
to our post-divorce roadmapwhere you can download that
immersive journaling program.
And then once you're in there,you can participate in our
(00:44):
weekly Magic Drop giveaways.
We've already had two winners,so what are you waiting for?
All right, let's get into it.
Here's one of those episodesthat still holds the truth every
time you hear it.
Hi, love.
Welcome to Dear Divorce Diary,the podcast helping divorcees go
(01:05):
beyond talk therapy to processyour grief, find the healing you
crave, and build back yourconfidence.
I'm your host, Don Wiggins, atherapist, coach, integrative
healer, and divorcee.
Join me for a fresh approach tohealing grief and building your
confidence after divorce.
(01:30):
So today we're going to startwith manifesting money.
We're going to talk about someof the tools that we advocate
for over here, some of thethings that you need to
understand in order to do thisin a more meaningful way.
And then we are going to getinto the things that need to be
addressed in order for you toreally clear the blocks to your
intentional manifestation ofmoney.
(01:51):
To really understand howmanifestation works, you have to
have a sense of how energyworks.
And this is the part wherecertain communities will call
this woo-woo or mystical innature, but it's actually
understanding the buildingblocks of life, which is quantum
physics or quantum mechanics.
(02:13):
Now, all that means is thatquantum is some of the smallest
packets of energy that are thebuilding blocks of life.
And I'm going to give you atiny, there's just like a
fraction of a quantum physicslesson here, but quantum units
of energy have both a particleaspect to them where they have a
physical mass, but also a waveaspect to them, which is
(02:35):
vibrational.
So often we are focused on theparticle aspect of our
existence.
We experience a physical worldin a physical body, and we often
think that that's the primaryaspect of our existence, but
it's not.
We are actually morenon-physical energy, aka wave
(02:55):
energy, than we are particleenergy, but we can't see it, we
can't prove it, we can'tactually we can prove it per the
quantum physics, right?
But the average lay persondoesn't sort of see or
understand in a meaningful waythat we are mostly vibrational
in a way that we cannot see withour naked eye.
(03:17):
And so when we get so used torelying on the physicality of
life to manifest, that's wherewe get roadblocked.
And I'm gonna tell you a funnystory about that down the road
in this episode, but know thatintentional manifestation is
about the ability to align andmove your energy.
(03:38):
Now, one of the tools that I ama fierce advocate for that is
going to help align and moveyour energy is an understanding
of your human design chart.
And in the show notes, I willshare with you a website where
you can pull your free chart andan app that I use on a daily
basis.
And I have most of my clients init, and certainly my family
(04:00):
members and producer joy andright the women in our coaching
program and really keeping trackof and helping people understand
their human design chart is keyto unlocking the successful
alignment and movement of yourenergy to create manifestations.
Why is that so important?
Well, because, love, you weredesigned with a very intentional
(04:23):
design to be uniquely you.
And most of us live life from aplace of programming that our
parents and our, you know, thesocial constructs around us, our
churches, our schools, ourpolitical alignments and
affiliations, various thingsthat have programmed us to
believe social media, you know,they've we have been really,
really, really programmed tobelieve that we're supposed to
(04:44):
act this way and not that wayand that way and not this way.
And the reality is that you havea particular way to work with
your own energy, a particularpurpose and personality style.
You have a particular way ofmanifesting, of making
decisions, and of making thingshappen that is unique to you.
And some people are supposed tobe specific manifestors, some
(05:07):
people are supposed to benon-specific, some people are
supposed to make decisions basedon how things feel, some people
on how they think, some peoplebased on their gut instincts,
and others based on bouncingideas off of someone.
There are ways that you aremeant to make decisions, there
are may ways you're meant tomake things happen.
Some people are supposed toinitiate, some people are
(05:28):
supposed to wait to be asked.
And if you don't know thesevarious metrics about yourself,
now you don't need to pull yourhuman design chart to understand
that about yourself.
You could sit with all of theseconcepts and say, like, huh, how
do I best use my energy?
How do I best make decisions ormake things happen?
(05:48):
But I think that pulling yourchart is a really quick way to
get an education on self.
And most of us don't trust whatwe already know about ourselves.
We already know it, but we don'ttrust it.
And for some reason, when thathuman design chart gives you
that permission, all of a suddenit clicks, and you're like
(06:09):
feeling free to live your lifefrom a place that is truly in
alignment.
And so I highly encourage youincorporating this into your
manifestation process.
Now, when it comes to money andmanifestation, ooh, Lord have
mercy.
So many of us have so manyblocks around money.
I highly encourage that you usethis track in a number of ways.
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I encourage you to, if you can,jot down some notes and do a
little bit of journaling whileyou're listening to me talk.
If you can't, no big deal, but Iwant you to also know that this
track is going to do a tiny bitof quantum healing around money
as well.
And I also want you to use it asa way to just open your mind
around the things that need toshift inside of you in order for
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you to become more receptive ofmore money.
Let's dig into the first reasonthat you do not have more money
than you need.
The first one is that somewhereinside of you, you are holding a
negative belief, or some part ofyou believes that there is not
enough money, that there's notenough resources, right?
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And I hear this a lot withpeople, whether they're clients
or I read it on the internet,you know, that there is just
this sort of scarcity mindset orbelief that there's not enough.
There's not enough clean air,not enough clean water, not
enough money, not enough love,not enough whatever, right?
And there's just sort of thisfear around there not being
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enough.
And so that's the first beliefthat has to be shifted.
And I want you to just reallykeep in mind that anywhere you
catch yourself using not enoughlanguage, because when we
understand how energy works,when you think a thought and
when you speak a thought, youare creating a physical reality.
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Our thoughts and our words havevibration, they have vibrational
mass, they create an outcome.
And so when you think scarcity,not enough thoughts, and when
you speak them, you areperpetuating the tendency to not
have enough money.
And I would guess, because formost people, when you think
about money, you can alreadyfeel a constriction or
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contraction in your body.
You feel a fearful energy, youfeel a tightening and not an
expansion.
And so when we start to addressthis, we have to zoom out a bit
and say, how can I becomeexpansive energy?
How can I align the energy in mybody around trusting that there
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is enough money?
And so a tool that I will teachyou to use here is to go more
general and find easy existingmatches in in your current life
that will help you feel more inalignment with there being
enough.
What do you have enough of rightnow that you can really focus on
the feeling, the very, very goodfeeling of you do have enough,
(09:08):
even if it's just I have enoughpillows in my bed and these
pillows feel so nice.
Gosh, these pillows feel sonice.
They feel so, so, so good.
There is an abundance of pillowsin my bed.
How did I know that about you?
And I really, really, reallylove the way this abundance of
pillows feel.
Now, that may sound silly,right?
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But this is something we have topractice in order to train
ourselves to experienceabundance over scarcity.
I want you to really lean intothe practice of highlighting and
relishing abundance.
Now, I'm gonna teach you alittle something about the
timing of manifestationalthought and manifest
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manifestational sensation.
Every time you have a thoughtand you hold that thought for 17
seconds, another thought like itwill join.
So let's say you call up yourgirlfriend and you're gonna
start bitching about your ex,you're gonna start bitching
about money, and you start therant session, right?
(10:11):
Every seven 17 seconds, anothernegative thought is joining it
until after 68 seconds, you havechanged your point of
attraction.
You have tipped down on thevibrational scale, thus
reinforcing this idea thatthere's not enough of something.
And so this is not to say thatwe should never vent, but you
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should do it understanding thevibrational consequences and how
that is going to unfold in yourefforts to manifest more money.
Manifestation is a very muchconnect to the dots process of
how we think and how we feel andthe outcomes that creates in
life.
It is a very faith-filledprocess that trusts that there
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is a greater organization tolife, that there is a loving
source energy who is looking outfor us at all points in time,
and that everything is workingfor us and isn't happening to
us.
And this is a massive departurefrom how most of us live our
lives.
So, your goal from this track tomanifest more money is to notice
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how often this 17 seconds plus17 seconds plus 17 seconds is
tallying up to 68 seconds towhere you are sabotaging your
own manifestations and for youto start practicing general
relishing and gratitude forthings that you do have an
abundance of in your life.
Now, at the end of the track,I'm gonna do a little quantum
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healing around not enoughness,so stay tuned for that.
Now, the next thing that isblocking your manifestation of
more money is somewhere in yourlife you came to believe that
you are not eligible.
Not eligible.
Isn't that interesting?
And one part of you may say,like, gosh darn it, I I'm
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eligible.
I have to be eligible, I need tobe eligible.
But if you don't believe you'reeligible, can't bypass that,
right?
So we have to reprogram thatnegative belief around
eligibility.
And sometimes it can help toreally look at the primary
reasons that we may havedeveloped the belief that we're
not eligible.
The first one is often thatthere's something ancestral
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about money, right?
That we inherited somethingancestrally about um scarcity
and abundance.
So it might just be interestingto notice what in your, you
know, family tree, what messagesor issues there were about
scarcity.
There are lots of times throughhistory where we know that there
were these experiences of notenoughness.
And in fact, you know, myparents are boomers, right?
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And there's a lot of scarcitystuff that goes on in there.
So very, very often we'veinherited the energy of
scarcity.
The second reason that I find isvery, very common around
ineligibility for money issomething to do with religion or
some form of martyrdom, right?
That it is better for the worldthat I have less, or it is
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better for, yeah, I don't know,right?
There are religions andconcepts, structures in our
communities that say to us thatwe should build up our treasures
in heaven and not here in thisearthly plane, right?
That we should not take morethan our fair share.
We while we admire celebritiesway more than we should, we cast
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a lot of shade on billionairesand multimillionaires, right?
And we tend to roll our eyes andscoff and think that they're bad
people, honestly.
And so there are these messagesthat live inside of us around
I'm ineligible for that kind ofwealth.
And it's because somethingaround it is wrong or bad or
shameful.
And so really take a look atwhere in your history you may
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have received those messages andinternalized them so that you
could feel safe in yourcommunities.
The third reason that we oftenthink that we're ineligible to
have more money or abundance orwealth is to do with the idea
that we might lose something.
We may fear that we're gonnalose some particular identity
with a group of people, or wemay feel like we may fear that
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we're gonna lose relationships.
Like if I have a lot ofsomething and you don't, is that
gonna put distance between usthat is a gap that can't be
crossed, right?
And very often this has to dowith especially our family of
origin.
If all of a sudden you hadplenty and they didn't, what
would that feel like?
What would they say to you?
How would they treat you?
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What would their expectationsbe?
And I think that that sameapplies in social circles and
all kinds of places, especiallyin the communities where we came
from.
So I just want you to really getin there about the places where
you may have inherited scarcityenergy or ineligibility energy
around money, where in yourbelief system around religion or
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spirituality or community issuesyou've been told that to have
less is to be more humble ormore right or more, you know,
loving, and where you might beafraid to lose some people or
some element of your identityaround having more than enough
money.
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Now, in order to shift thisineligibility piece, you really
got to take a look at yourbelief system and start to
soften things there and getopen, open, open to the idea
that you are actually designedfor abundance and that the more
we have, the more we can helpother people.
The more resources we have, themore we can support others.
Now, I don't want to deny thefact that very often when we
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have more than enough, we becomewasteful.
That is something that happensautomatically.
I watched my kid do it lastweek.
She was cleaning out herplayroom and she took a
perfectly good coloring bookthat had never been colored in,
and she threw it in a garbagebag, and I lost my mind.
Not my proudest moment, right?
But that is the way of things,that there are people in the
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world who have more than enough,who throw out things, right?
Who just toss out things thatpeople who don't have enough
would long for.
And so there is an imbalancethere around scarcity and
abundance.
And I want to honor andacknowledge that, that there is
value in becoming a good stewardof our abundance, right?
And I think that that's theimportant agreement to make with
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self.
That I'm not gonna become areckless, um, recklessly
abundant individual, that I'mgonna be mindful of my resources
and I'm gonna be a good stewardof these resources.
I'm gonna use them to createmore security inside of myself
and in the world around of me.
And it's going to be a blessingto me and to my community.
And it is gonna give glory tosource energy from which
(16:49):
everything, all energy flows.
Yeah.
So let's talk a little bit aboutthe resistances that we have to
believing that the things I'mtalking about are legit.
So producer Joy and I were sortof giggling as we were prepping
this episode because we've hadthese conversations over the
years, right?
(17:09):
And I've always sort of been,I'm a double air slash fire
sign.
I've got my head in the cloudsall the time.
I've got big ideas, I'm a bigpicture gal.
And I sing happy little songs tomyself about how I'm aging in
reverse and I'm gonna have a jetone day.
And you and I, like you, I meanyou, you and I are gonna fly
together to Africa to bringquantum healing and homeopathy
(17:30):
to at-risk communities, and youknow, like I've got these crazy
big, amazing, likepurpose-driven ideas, right?
But, you know, not everybodybelieves these things.
And so I asked Producer Joy,what would you have said to me a
year ago about some of theseconcepts?
And she said, Ugh, I would havetold you, Dawn, that I have
realistic expectations, that Ihave my feet on the ground, and
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that you, Dawn, do not.
And that I just, you know, thatyou don't, I would have rolled
my eyes at you, Dawn, and saidto myself, like, she just
doesn't get it.
And I think that is what reallyclogs up so much of our
manifestational process, right?
Is that we tell ourselves wehave to be realistic and
responsible.
Because in some ways, we'refearful of hoping, we are
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fearful of um believing inourselves, of really backing
ourselves as the horse that'sgonna win.
And we feel like we have to keepour feet on the ground and we
have to be realistic.
And so I said to producer Joy,how much faith is in reality?
And she said, none.
The whole point of faith, it'sbelieving in something that
can't be seen.
And I was like, oh, this is sofreaking cool, right?
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So, love, intentionalmanifestation, because your
current life is a manifestationof your thoughts and your
feelings and your beliefs.
Your current life is amanifestation, it's the evidence
of what your thought life islike and what your belief
systems look like.
And so you gotta own that,friend.
You gotta own that.
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But one of the key things tounderstand is that how energy
moves and how manifestationscome to pass involve a lot of
faith and faith-oriented energy,alignment between you and source
energy.
And that means trusting in apower greater than yourself.
Now, we're gonna move into justa smidgy smidge of quantum
(19:20):
healing.
So when we do quantum healing,there's nothing for you to do
except to take a deep breath, bein your body, feel whatever
moves through your body, andtrust that the process is
working.
And so let's do that now whereyou just take a deep breath,
drop into your body, notice allthe things that have been
activated around scarcity,feeling that there's not enough,
(19:43):
and ineligibility, that maybethis is just not meant for you.
None of those things are true,and we're gonna treat that now.
So, first things first, I wantto check in that there is a part
of you that may not want toreceive treatment because she's
(20:03):
afraid that it is going to betoo traumatizing or it's gonna
unravel your current beliefsystem and it's gonna feel too
painful or too scary.
And so, to that part of you thatis subconsciously afraid to
receive treatment, if I say toyou that to do this work, to
allow treatment to happen meansthat you will actually feel much
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greater satisfaction andsecurity and much less pain,
would you consider allowingtreatment to happen?
Just take a big deep breath andexhale that out.
Superconscious, please treat allthe parts of her who have come
(20:52):
to believe and have becomeafraid that there is not enough
money or that she's not eligibleto have more than enough money
because she's afraid of losingsomeone or some part of herself
and replace that belief thatthere's not enough with a belief
that she is eligible forabundance to have more than
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enough, and that there is alwaysenough in the world around her,
and she is worthy of receivingher fair share.
Please treat all the complexstructures, painful experiences,
and memories to do with this.
Do a massive change history andeverything else necessary and
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repeat until complete.
There may be a belief coming upthat this treatment won't work
for you in particular.
So, super conscious, pleasetreat the parts that believe
that this process might not workfor her.
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Treat the complex structures,painful experiences, and
memories that she's somehowgoing to be left out of this
healing process, and in exchangeallow her to feel a greater
sense of hope and expectationthat she can be healed and
whole.
Do a massive change history andeverything else necessary and
repeat until complete.
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Now all there is to do, love, isto take a deep breath, trust
that we at least began theprocess of tackling your
subconscious beliefs aboutmoney.
And your job is to run withthat, keeping in mind the
quantum value of your thoughtsand your feelings, follow up
homework to check into yourhuman design and to continue to
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use tools that are gonnareprogram your negative beliefs.
And you can come back to thisepisode as often as you need and
definitely check out the futureepisodes, right, where we're
gonna do immersive manifestationto do with attracting love and
losing weight, because thosewill all continue to chip it
away at your internalizednegative beliefs about self.
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Deep breath, let it all go, letit be that easy.
I love you so much.
Peace.
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