Ever had a “friend” who seems supportive, checks in on you sweetly… and then somehow everything you say magically makes its way back to the narcissist? Yep—that’s the flying monkey friend.
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In this episode, we’re breaking down one of the most confusing betrayals survivors of narcissistic abuse face: the friend who pretends to care but secretly reports back to the narcissist.
We’ll cover:
What flying monkeys are and why they’re so dangerous
How to spot the sneaky “sweet” ones
Signs your friend is double-dealing
Why some people choose the narcissist’s side (and why it’s not your fault)
How to handle betrayal, set boundaries, and protect your peace
Whether it’s a mutual friend, a family member, or a “neutral” third party stirring the pot behind your back, this episode will help you stop doubting yourself and start reclaiming your power.
💥 If you’ve been manipulated, gaslit, or hurt by someone pretending to be in your corner—this one’s for you.
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