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July 28, 2025 19 mins

What really happens when the narcissist loses control of you, and realises their grip on you is gone?

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In this episode of Fake Love and Flying Monkeys, I break down the moment every survivor of narcissistic abuse eventually faces—the moment the narcissist knows you’ve figured them out… and they start to unravel.

This is when the power shift begins. You stop reacting. You stop defending. You see through the gaslighting, manipulation, and charm.

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✅️ Expect a deep dive into:

How narcissists behave when they feel exposed

What happens when they lose emotional control over you

Why smear campaigns ramp up post-escape

The mind games they play to claw back power

How silence, boundaries, and no-contact drive them wild

What your healing journey really triggers in a narcissist

Whether you’ve just woken up to the narcissist’s true nature or you're deep into your healing journey, this episode will validate everything you’re feeling. If they’re panicking, it’s because your peace, clarity, and confidence are growing stronger.

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