I Do and I Don't

I Do and I Don't

Almost Professional Marriage Advice

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March 15, 2021 44 min

What happens when you catch feels for your therapist? What are the most important questions to ask yourself before you consider marriage? How much does size actually matter? These listener questions are the jumping off point for this week’s meander through intimate relationship terrain. Joel and Cat give somewhat qualified (but always pithy) sex and relationship advice.

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Joel and Cat discuss how to create parameters and protocol around pandemic dating, how couples can create a sex schedule that suits everyone, and whether or not attraction can deepen as you get to know a new lover.

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March 1, 2021 43 min

When the new person you’re seeing tells you they don’t want their ex to find out about you, is it a red flag? Which boundaries should be set in the early days of relationships? Joel and Cat help listeners navigate the uncertain terrain of burgeoning love. When the new person you’re seeing tells you they don’t want their ex to find out about you, is it a red flag? Which boundaries should be set in the early days of relationships? Jo...

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February 22, 2021 40 min

This week, Joel and Cat offer up some questions to pose to your partner to help deepen your connection, they help a listener cultivate intimacy with her husband though his meds have taken sex off the table, and they navigate a demi-sexual listener away from the ‘friend zone’.

Here’s the link to a list of questions that are rumoured to lead to love.

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February 15, 2021 41 min

In this episode, Cat gushes about a memorable Zoom date and listeners send in their lockdown dating ideas. Joel and Cat decide whether or not a listener should tell a friend that they have a crush on them, and Cat gets real clear on how to ask your lover for what you want.

Here’s a link to a list of virtual zoo, museum and attraction tours.

Here’s a link to the Netflix party extension, now called Teleparty.

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February 8, 2021 44 min

It’s abundantly clear that Joel is growing restless with this podcast and needs things to be shaken up. Despite this, he still manages to pull through and weigh in on issues like how adolescent sexual encounters can set the stage for adult sexual experience, and best practices for conflict resolution with your loved one during lockdown. Cat has one or two insightful thoughts on inter-cultural dating and the best circumstances under...

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February 1, 2021 40 min

How can playing with power dynamics enhance your sex life and your relationship at large?  Why can’t vibrant women in their 50’s and 60’s attract men in their age bracket? How can I change my wife’s bathroom habits so they’re less disgusting? Joel and Cat artfully answer these questions PLUS Joel gets super graphic about asking for certain sex acts and Cat gets explicit about a personal fantasy – just another Monday at I Do and I D...

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January 25, 2021 44 min

This week, Cat and Joel talk about how to empower your teens with next-level sex education, and Joel offers up a step-by-step tutorial on how to ‘do the sex’. They also chat about the practice of celibacy in the face of the pandemic, and how to keep your sex life alive when you’re in lockdown with your partner.

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January 18, 2021 37 min

Cat and Joel talk about the media-driven narrative around vaginas and shame, the complexities of human scent and chemistry, how true intimacy is built in relationships, and the idea of keeping stepparents in the picture after the adult relationship ends.

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January 11, 2021 40 min

Joel and Cat talk about what to do when one partner is carrying more of the emotional load, how to declare interest in someone you briefly dated and would like to date again, and they take on the fascinating topic of male chastity devices.

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January 4, 2021 40 min

In the first episode of 2021, Cat and Joel explore the parameters of girl code and when it’s okay to date a friend’s ex. They also deep dive into dating outside of your community, how to communicate with your partner around wanting more sexual connection, and how to feel fulfilled while embracing the single life. 

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Joel continues his crusade to turn the podcast into a religious space while Cat places her faith in their ability to talk about things like how to manage a foreskin during head,  male partners who can’t step up when asked by the person who loves them, and what to do when you discover someone else’s thong in your casual lover’s bed.

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December 21, 2020 44 min

Hide your kids! NSFW! In what is perhaps the most obscene episode to-date, Joel and Cat offer some comprehensive and outrageously detailed tips for mastering the art of dirty talk. There are some other points covered and additional listener questions fielded, but honestly, I’ve just listened to the playback and I’m so distracted, I don’t remember what those were.

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December 14, 2020 54 min

What’s the best way forward when you’re a newly single dad in his 40’s and you’ve been dealing with years of narcissistic abuse? Joel and Cat try to help with this and other intimate relationship conundrums like whether or not great sex can make you fall in love (and Cat reveals WAY too much), and when to have the chat about wanting to keep things casual. 

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December 7, 2020 43 min

Here’s what happens when Joel and Cat are asked to share the most profound things they’ve learned in intimate relationships, (Hint: they talk a lot about God and sex). Also, they reveal the only thing to do when your partner’s father walks in on you having sex, and how to deal when your partner moves in and displays old photos of their ex in your home.

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November 30, 2020 48 min

At a listener’s request, Cat and Joel share how they both want to be loved. Then they chat about rebuilding trust after infidelity and how to deal with a partner who can’t make introductions. Oh, and Cat unleashes a fiery tidbit from her sexual history which may have sealed her entry into the gates of hell.

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November 23, 2020 43 min

This week Cat and Joel dish out advice to a listener who worries that she might be fetishized by a new partner. They also talk about how to navigate the friend zone with an ex another listener still has feelings for and they give their best advice for online dating in these strange and unpredictable times.

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November 16, 2020 40 min

Joel and Cat spontaneously dive into TV and Movie couples with complex relationship dynamics. Then, they advise a listener who may or may not have busted a pal’s man having an affair. The final question of this episode tackles when one person drops the ‘L’ bomb and is met with total silence.

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November 9, 2020 58 min

In this 50th episode special, Joel and Cat share listeners’ secrets to long-term relationship success. If the sterling advice of these two hosts isn’t enough to keep the fires burning, the nuggets contained in this episode will surely save your love.

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October 5, 2020 40 min

Cat and Joel talk about how to navigate interested parties when you’re fresh out of relationship land, what to do when your would-be in-laws meddle in your private matters, and how to create safety when you and your live-in partner have different views on the pandemic.

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