How Bryan recovered from insomnia by putting less effort into sleep and more effort into living his life (#61)

When Bryan got sick, he had his first sleepless night. Then, he couldn't sleep the next night either. He began to believe he had lost the ability to sleep, which made him very anxious. As sleep took over his life, Bryan stopped doing things he enjoyed and his relationships suffered. The more he tried to sleep, the harder it became, and he felt more anxious and disconnected from who he wanted to be. One night, Bryan accidentally fell asleep without trying. He realized he didn't need to do anything special to sleep. This didn't solve his problems overnight, but it made him change his approach. Bryan started focusing on living his life and doing things that mattered to him. When he had a bad night, he reminded himself of the good nights that required no effort. Over time, as Bryan got his life back to normal, his sleep got back to normal, too. Watch/listen to this episode