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July 9, 2025 21 mins

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Recorded live(ish) from a Skoolie meetup in the Upper Peninsula of Michigan, this episode is part nature walk, part therapy, and part “what-the-hell-are-we-even-talking-about?” (Answer: everything that matters.)

My subbie and I open up about what it really looks like to live the FLR lifestyle while surrounded by real life—kids, campers, swing-curious strangers, and school buses painted like national parks.


If you’ve ever wondered how to blend your kink dynamic with your vanilla life—this one’s for you.


What We Talk About in This Episode:

  • Going “on location” to a Skoolie event—and why these nomad spaces feel so aligned with FLR values
  •  Integrating parenting and power exchange (with lots of discretion)
  • Are there secret swinger Skoolie societies? We’re asking for a friend
  • Coming out quietly in cautious community spaces
  • The importance of being unapologetic but respectful about your lifestyle
  • “Not every episode has to teach”—sometimes we’re just real people, walking in the woods, talking about how the hell we make this all work

Krystine Says:

“You don’t need to be rich, or loud, or even caged all the time to live this way.
 You just need to stay present, stay honest, and maybe flash your subbie now and then when your mom’s not looking.”


Listener Questions to Reflect On:

  • How open are you with your kids (or family) about your relationship structure?
  • What are your boundaries around sharing your lifestyle in public spaces?
  • Do you have “FLR friends” you hang out with outside of kink events?
  • If you’re part of the Skoolie/RV/nomad life, have you come across others living this way?

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Keywords:
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