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Chaos, Chastity, Confidence… and a Whole Lot of Honesty
And NOT a re-release!!
Life lately? An absolute fucking circus.
But I’m back—with a raw, unfiltered brain-dump about what it means to hold power when your whole world feels like it's spinning off its axis.
In this episode, I take you through:
- Real updates from my summer of survival
- A powerful email that reminded me why this podcast matters
- And a mind-blowing blog post that reframed dominance for me completely
If you’ve ever questioned your role, your energy, or your ability to lead when your tank is empty—this one’s for you.
What You’ll Hear Me Process (in real time):
- Navigating FLR while caring for a parent with dementia
- Work-camping drama, bus life upgrades, and parenting on the go
- How to order kinky things without your kids discovering them
- A heartfelt listener email about not topping from the bottom
- The emotional burden of dominance—and why it doesn’t always feel sexy
- Non-sexual intimacy through dominance (and why it still counts)
- Letting him serve you even when you feel guilty
- Faking confidence… until it stops being fake
“Dominance isn’t a reward for being in the right mood. It’s a structure that holds me up when I feel like I’m falling apart.”“Just because you’re touched out, burnt out, or pissed off doesn’t mean you have to lose connection. You get to define what intimacy looks like.”
Questions to Reflect On:
- Do you still feel dominant when your life is falling apart?
- How do you maintain structure and rituals in chaos?
- Are you holding back from giving direction because of guilt?
- How does your sub respond when you're emotionally unavailable?
- What small rituals can you create to reclaim power?
Resource Shout-Out:
https://www.krystinekellogg.com/
Email Me! KrystineKellogg@Gmail.com
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